I love love, like so much and the fact that I every year of my adult life have not felt loved in a romantic sense ever hurts me.
I just want someone to come home too, who wants to hear me yap about my day, I want to hear someone yap about their day and I want to learn how to cook their favorite meals. I want to go to a store and buy something for them because it reminded me of them.
I want to be cheesy with someone so bad
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A lovely festive card from a friend and random notes.
19|12|2023
I am back after being very ill again. This time I got the flu, and to make things worse my panic disorder kicked me once again and it was bad. I am starting to feel a bit better now, but I am still very weak and my stomach isn't at its best yet. I spent a couple of hellish days, and decided to skip class this week. I confident I will be fully recovered for Friday when I'll have to speak in the seminar, but until that day I am not leaving my house and I am taking things slowly. This of course means that my nice study plan is totally fucked. I am so beyond schedul and I am not in shape to get caught with it, so I will simply have to sit down and make a whole other plan. I am starting to slowly getting back into doing some work during the day, but I have not enough mental energy to power through the book I have to study. So this week I will try to stay productive as much as I can but minding what my body allows me to do. I will study less hours during the day, do lighter stuff, and stop whenever I feel like I need to lie down, or move around depending on what my body is asking me. This morning for example I got about an hourish of work done, I was very happy with myself but then I simply had to accept that I needed to lie down, and I did so. I am fighting with the guilt of not sticking to plans and feeling overwhelmed with everything I have to do, and I am trying my best. The other thing I am struggling with at the moment is food, not in a concerning way, but more in the sense that right now I feel like I lost the joy of eating and having a good meal and that is impacting my mood so bad. First a couple of weeks ago I went to the dentist and struggled so much with pain in my mouth for a while, and now due to my stomach being affected by the flu, eating has just become something I have to do and I despise feeling like this. I want to sit at my table and be happy about what I am going to eat, I want to look forward to my meals and I have yet to figure out how to get back there. Maybe I just have a bit of a scare since in the past two or three years I often had my anxiety and panic symptoms strongly linked to my stomach and I am now scared that I'll get back into that stupid place in which eating was anxiety inducing for me. I just hope that will get better soon and that I will be able to enjoy the amazing food my family will make during the holidays.
calm hobbit winter activities and productivity:
read first thing in the morning (I managed to read ten pages which is such a big win after these awful days)
wrote notes for the second chapeter of Nature, Human Nature and Human Difference by Justin Smith
updated my reading journal
started watching cabinet of curiosities (in the past few years I have been terrible at watching new series, but this morning when I had to lie down after studying I felt like watching something new could be a good way to keep my brain a bit active. I watched the first two episodes and loved the first one. The second one fell very flat for me but I am exctied to see more of it, it definitely has the gothic horror vibes I adore)
started reviewing my men theories and power practices notes and added a few additional informations here and there
practiced my presentation for Friday
📖: Bookshops and Bonedust by Travis Baldree
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good morning and happy new year, everyone!! i started many new things in 2023 and rp was one of them and i just want to spend a moment to say how grateful i am and how much fun i've had so far! andie is not only my first rp character but also the first character that i've really poured my heart & soul into, so to be greeted so joyously by everyone both for me and for andie has been the most lovely experience. joining rp has introduced more whimsy, creativity, and friends into my life and there is not a group of people i would rather go into the new year with. i've seen so many brilliant ideas, characters, graphics, threads, over these past few months and that's really a testament to everyone on this site and how much hard work everyone puts in. it inspires and encourages me everyday to write more and write my best, but also is just a plain pleasure to see. all this creativity and joy and passion that people have just makes my life better by adding richness & fondness to my days. i'm really glad to get to be a part of it and even though i've now rambled on, i really don't have the words to actually say how much being here means to me and how much y'all have actually improved my life!!!
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