#well-consenting

[doodle-empress66]

I like how Ozzie explained how lust should never be about force and it’s something that should be earned. He’d hate Val and everything he stands for.

#No wonder he and Stolas get along so well #Consent is the key. Even the king of lust understood it #Finally I can stand on this hill and say Ozzie fucking hates Val…FINALLY #No doubt he would despise Val to the core #There's nothing hotter than consensual lust #helluva boss #helluva boss fizzarolli #fizzmodeus #fizzozzie #helluva boss stolas #vivziepop #hazbin valentino

[akgbacay9r7d]

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#scewing #notebooks #predeceased #Thera #advocatess #semi-intelligently #ungazing #smooth-tined #exterritorial #throwing-in #insecticidal #rochester #well-consenting #argol #snappingly #taivert #undefectiveness #tgurl #eyeground #Ctenostomata

[asbqnstvl]

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#Amblypoda #orthodiazine #rutting #secaline #scewing #notebooks #predeceased #Thera #advocatess #semi-intelligently #ungazing #smooth-tined #exterritorial #throwing-in #insecticidal #rochester #well-consenting #argol #snappingly #taivert

[thankstothe]

Some Lines from A Show

#house md #gregory house #james wilson #amber volakis #chris taub #eric foreman #robert chase #acontextual house #“reading people or buildings” okay..... house #you have no clue how long I've been coming back to that one #i consent you consent but does mom and Shakira?!? #solid advice from wilson aka mr. well-adjusted #long post #longpost

[the-final-sif]

what is your opinion on the situation?

I've been at work all day so I haven't been able to sit down with stuff fully, it also seems like Caiti is planning to release a statement later today with more information I think? So I'd like to get her response there, but based on what I've seen so far I think I fall more on the side of "people made some dumb choices and should learn from them" than anything else.

Consent is messy and it gets messier when people start lying or are drunk. In this case, both Caiti and George were drunk. From what I understand, either Caiti had a 21+ wristband from the vidcon party, or her friend group did and assumed since she was drinking with them, she was also 21+.

Honestly, when it comes to the matter of underage drinking, I don't think it's even remotely fair to place blame on Dream/George for that. The blame there lies with Caiti deciding to drink while under 21, and on her friends, Ghostie and the other person present who were both over 21. Unlike Dream/George, both of them knew Caiti and knew exactly how old she was and were letting her drink. They were also letting her drink with no one sober and no one making sure she got home.

Now, Caiti is 18 and also I'm not a goddamn square, I'm not gonna stand here and be like "oh no drinking at 18 clutch my pearls" but like, if people are going to blame other people for that situation, that very much lies with Caiti's friends who knew they had an underage person drinking with them. I feel like people are weirdly assigning blame to Dream/George for not like, iding every person they hang out with (particularly if she had a 21+ bracelet at vidcon, which would mean she already got IDed). While completely avoiding placing any blame on the people who 100% knew they were taking an 18 year old drinking without a doubt.

Putting that aside, from my understanding George's side is he believed at the time that she was having fun, and the most they did was cuddle on a couch with other people there. He believed at the time that everything was cool, and that she later decided she was uncomfortable with what happened.

Honestly, I don't really think that's an unfair reading. At this same party, her best friend was there and from Ghostie's own words, she also didn't realize Caiti was uncomfortable until several months later when Caiti told her. If her best friend didn't notice she was uncomfortable or see anything wrong, then I find it hard to think anyone else would pick up on it.

There's certainly risks taken here that I wouldn't have taken. I think that George needs to do better with checking for consent and maybe vetting the people you're hanging out with. Although I also understand that doing a full background check on everyone you ever meet is an absurd requirement and if, at the time, they trusted the person that they actually invited, I get how that shit happens. Per consent, given that he was also drunk, I get how it may've appeared to him that he had consent. I do think it's still something to work on, but I'm also perfectly aware that in real life, people are often going off vibes and social cues, and sometimes those don't mash.

I also think that Caiti's friends have been pretty shitty throughout this. They take no responsibility for having let an 18 year old drink and then ditching her. They are absolutely milking drama out of this shit and they have a weird obsession with blaming Dream for shit he had no fault in.

As for Dream, I don't think he did anything wrong here. Full stop. If Caiti's best friend didn't notice that she was uncomfortable or unhappy, it's insanely unreasonable to expect Dream to have managed that. He was also drunk and hanging out with people, and he had no way of knowing Caiti was underage. None of that shit was his fault, and his statement seems very measured and reasonable. People are trying to blame him for things that he had absolutely no part in, and the UK group are absolutely trying to pull that shit.

Overall, sounds like several people involved made dumb choices, I hope they learn and grow. Otherwise all of this honestly sounds like shit that should've been talked out privately and not tossed to the internet for speculation. Human beings are messy and will fuck up sometimes. This feels like a case of miscommunication and people making risky choices that left people with some hurt.

Again, I may change my mind with further evidence presented, but that's how it feels to me.

#dreamwastaken #georgenotfound #discourse #sif speaks #sif answers #idk man I think I just have more irl experience with these sorts of situations #like #shit happens in real life #and I think maybe part of the problem with like twitter #is you have a lot of 15 year olds that have never been drunk or fucked in their lives #who are totally sure they know exactly how consent works and how sex goes in real life #I really liked the greendot talk I got about it back in college #I should find a recording of that sometime for people #It laid it out really well that consent is not an on-off switch #It's a door that you're opening #and depending on the circumstances you take risks with how you're opening it #0 risk is like the two of you have a formal plan #and have signed contracts #and then you start to move up through situations that can be more risky that something goes wrong #and someone gets hurt #And honestly for irl consent I found that was so much more of a valuable framework to look at things through

[ascesabo]

currently up and thinking about how buggy lore gets more and more painful the longer you think about it. like. i could talk about this stupid clown for AGES. he makes his clown-ness his entire personality but it's so painfully clear he doesn't have a single ounce of joy or whimsy left in his little chop-chop body. he's a full-blown hater!! he gave up on his dreams because he wanted his best friend, who he wholeheartedly believed shone brighter than he ever could, to reach it for the both of them!! he probably hasn't known genuine happiness since he broke up with shanks in the rain!! his beef with luffy escalated tenfold the moment he saw the hat!! he stayed in the east blue for years when he had a whole map and probably knew the way back into the grand line!! he loves flashiness and attention but hasn't ever uttered a word about growing up with the roger pirates or being the childhood friend of one of the four emperors!!! this clown has spent his whole life yearning for something that will never return!!!! he has a big red clown nose!!! every bad thing that has ever happened to him was because he wanted so badly to be loved!!!

#buggy the clown #one piece #buggy #shanks #red haired shanks #shuggy #head in hands #what happened to her? #she spent too much time thinking about implied buggy lore #he makes me so so sad #oda gave a clown depression and accidentally created one of the most well written characters in the series #did i mention that he's now in a polycule with an ex-mafia boss and a vampire swordsman #and his consent in the matter is extremely questionable #he just keeps letting things happen to him #buggy d clown ‼️ #please god give this poor clown a happy ending #i want better for him

[shirkers2018dirsanditan]

tbh to me the disabled fetus whatever abortion discourse is so ironic because the broadest possible understanding of eugenics (or racial hygiene) is the control of reproduction (both natalist and antinatalist) to cultivate a desirable population. what “desirable” means actually has varied historically in various eugenics schemes. the idea that women should be socially compelled to have children they don’t want to have (or “rethink” why they don’t want to have these children) for the sole purpose of guaranteeing a certain kind of population is……interesting

#people literally make these arguments for race and disability all the time #ive seen people on here say shit like ‘i dont want to see down syndrome eradicated from the population by prenatal testing’ #like hmmmm well i dont really care! #that is literally a eugenic framework. you are suggesting we regulate women’s bodily autonomy and informed consent to pregnancy #so that they will have the kind of children you want them to have #(or not have the kind of children you don’t want them to have aka mixed race children for the racial version of this)

[silver-horse]

unfortunately I have opinions about the ascendant astarion ending and I have been holding back from saying it. but it's a problem that applies to the whole game and it's been annoying me

what's actually weird about the ascendant "romance" scene is that the writer considers it a tempting option for the player. They wrote it to be bad, but they also think it's a fun and sexy option. Same goes for the haarlep scene which they also wrote that way because they find it sexy. Except finding this sexually appealing entirely hinges on the idea that the player is a submissive. So RIP to a scene that the rest of us could have found sexy because the lead narrative designer was a submissive. lmao

In this game you can have a scene where you have to kneel for a male character. But you can never have a male character do the same for you. (Halsin doesn't count. It's a vanilla scene, he is not submissive there and we are not even asking/telling him to kneel down) You don't get such options, not even if you play a drow female! RIP the number one reason for playing drow female to be honest. lol You can kneel and fully submit to ascendant astarion or fully submit to mizora or fully submit to haarlep or submit to lae'zel or submit to minthara. you can get whipped by abdirak or you can tell him "touch me and lose a hand" he even responds positively to this remark and yet the possibility to flip the dynamic doesn't exist. There is never an option where a male character truly submits to the player. RIP to a scene that would have been the opposite of the traditional dynamic. the potential that existed but they never used the opportunity

By the way, how interesting that Lae'zel is dominant but she is a woman so ofc you get the option to tell her “no you will submit to me”. You never get such switch options with any of the male characters... Obviously it's not ascendant where they could have made that an option. My point is that it's NEVER an option among so many male characters.

It's a cool idea that the bad ending in a romance means "I saw this character as a sex object" except it falls apart when the scene is very sexually unappealing to anyone who is more dominant leaning. If I see a character as a sex object then I would place them in sexual situations which are appealing to me. so the message doesn't quite work. because there isn't anything that I can selfishly choose for myself just because I like it and I find it sexy.

#it's the old traditional setup where male characters are never submissive. either vanilla or they are dominant. and no other options exist. #I just find it a bit funny how they seem oblivious to the fact that these scenes being “sexy”and tempting entirely hinge on the possibility #that the player has the same tastes but a LOT of us don't. and then these scenes aren't even remotely sexy #don't get me wrong it's cool to have these scenes in the game but there could have been something different as well #rather than the same dynamic multiple times. and if you are super not into that then you only have the vanilla options #meanwhile the subs get multiple ''fun'' scenes. I just find this very unequal. if you are not into that well your character #will be placed into situations where characters make these unappealing propositions and sometimes it's fight or submit. that's weird imo #for a game that has storylines about consent. sexually weird scenes would be fine and interesting if it wasn't SO unequal and always the #same dynamic where they mostly give players options where our female characters should submit and NEVER the opposite I will always be salty #bg3 #larian studios #baldur's gate 3 #bg3 mine #haarlep #astarion #my post #abdirak #my thoughts #my posts #it's like the whole reason I like to play drow women if I am honest but it's been so utterly pointless #as a drow female on a rare occasion you may be allowed to say a barely rude dialogue to males and that's all lmfao #mildly rude to men is just what I do in real life but it's a viddy game and I should be able to be a bit of a nasty aggressive female #(sure they can frame it negatively. that's fine. but let the ''fun'' option exist for us as well)

[hypervoxel]

One thing I don't understand about Asmodeus is that he purports to being against love potions, etc, but then he apparently directly controls who gets to go to Earth using the crystals only found in the Ring he rules over, and he chooses to send succubi who can induce feelings of lust in the humans who hear them sing? So... How's that different from any other dubcon sex pollen situation?

#the answer is that his character was developed after Verosika's was and we're retconning because he's meant to be good #or well. also that the shows don't have a very well depicted understanding of consent #hazbin hotel critical #helluva boss critical #i said i could be a critical blog if i wanted to. sometimes i want to

[morganbritton132]

A girl posts to Tiktok like “oh my god, oh my god, look what I found at the grocery store” and then when she flips the camera around, it’s Steve.

He’s alone at the end of an aisle, talking aloud about cereal brands and an article he saw. He asks ‘what do you think?’, pauses, and then turns around like, “Ed?”

The video cuts to later in the grocery store to Eddie and Steve in a different aisle. They’re holding hands now so Eddie doesn’t wander off.

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#again: don’t film people without their consent. it’s weird #grocery stores and Eddie’s ADHD do not mix well #he was looking for the holiday themed snack cakes #steve harrington #eddie munson #eddie munson tiktok saga

[bloodofgrapes]

So this is a comic I’ve wanted to do for a long time because it hits fairly close to home for me, but especially because I think this is foundational to Phoenix and Edgeworth’s relationship: trust. Throughout the games we see that they push and pull one another to get to the bottom of a situation, to discover the truth and do what’s right, even when it’s difficult. While obviously not canon, to me their relationship is so emblematic of kink it’s nearly unavoidable in my depictions of them--Edgeworth may always seem to be the ultimate string pulling master with a thousand tricks up his sleeve, but none of this could happen if he did not totally relinquish control via his unwavering trust in Phoenix.

#art #Phoenix Wright #Miles Edgeworth #Ace Attorney #cw kink #nsft #I debated for a long time whether I would post this comic or not #but honestly I'm tired of feeling like depictions of gay intimacy are bad or will make people uncomfy #and yes for some people that intimacy involves making the informed and consenting decision #to exchange trust this intimately with another human being #on an unrelated note #I've always thought the way AA handled Edgeworth's phobia of earthquakes was really well done #speaking as someone with a capital P phobia #AA was remarkably ahead of its time #grapes comics

[clownsuu]

Hey! I was just wondering if you allow people to ship your OC’s with personal OC’s? Like if I could ship my OC’s with yours? I apologize if What I said doesn’t make sense or if someone has already asked it. :,)

Oh that's completely fine! Iv answered it before but it has been a long long while since then-

I do not mind any shipping with my characters as long as it's not illegal! As long as they are consenting adults I do not mind one bit! (and also you don't claim my lil guys as yours!)

#Goes the same for any “”sussy“” content ya decide as well- #As long as it's not illegal and they are consenting adults I am ok! #And when I mean illegal I don't mean murder- y a k n o w w h a t i m e a n.

[serpentinegraphite]

So, first off, this is not an attempt to kink shame (dubcon and noncon are great!) but I do keep seeing a thing in fics (I do NOT see this irl in kink spaces nearly as often) where like. A character will interrupt the flow of the scene to check consent

And I don't mean in an "are we still green?" Or "what's your color?" kind of way, but I mean. The author has tagged the fic and indicated via prose and/or author notes that they are doing their Due Diligence to make sure this fic is Righteously Consensual from top to bottom, No Question About It

And a character will ask for full sexual consent either directly or indirectly or renegotiate the boundaries of the kinks being practiced AFTER the sex acts have already begun.

Here's the thing: horny brain isn't great at making decisions! irl in kink spaces, there's often a lot of emphasis on negotiating BEFORE the scene begins, perhaps even with a space between negotiation and the scene if it's with a new/unfamiliar partner (maybe it's a few minutes while things are set up, maybe the partners negotiate a day or more in advance! It depends!), and not changing the parameters of the scene after someone is already horny or god forbid already in subspace.

Again, these are perfectly fine rules to break in fiction, when the author is aware of it (most characters are not going to be fully familiar with safe, sane, consensual practices and the traffic light system, nor would we want them to be!) but I'm increasingly finding fics where the author DOESN'T seem aware, which takes a normal fic (in-character, with reasonable but perhaps even somewhat dubious practices, which the author isn't emphasizing or preaching about) into Red Flag Territory (a character, OOC, yanking me out of the scene to behave like a PSA about consent instead of conforming to the horny tone of the scene, and perpetuating unsafe practices anyway)

If you are writing a master manipulator or someone who wants to have a gotcha, you totally said it was okay on a character they are trying to bone (which is well in the realm of non/dubcon) that's fine! This PSA is not aimed at you. But if you are trying to write someone who Cares Strongly About Consent, then perhaps be more aware of when is an appropriate time to escalate the situation (sexually speaking) or ask for consent!

#like you don't see this shit in the sex pollen tag! #those folks know exactly what they're doing and they're having a great time #and i don't want to call anyone out specifically because like. this is a multi fandom issue #and i see it mostly in fiction space #written by people who are probably not active in their local kink community #but i did just see a really egregious and specific example which triggered this rant I've been sitting on for a WHILE #like. people who are writing heat fics also typically know! if the sub is gagging for any phallus it's not the time to ask for consent! #they're well past that point!!! #it's the fics in between that think they're doing uwu soft romance with a bit of spice #that don't know how to warn for shit and make me very concerned for their safe sex practices in the future #this is 10000% more egregious if you DO write a character who is keenly aware of SSC practices #if your character goes to kink dungeons or has opinions about the traffic light system #they probably should know not to fuck with renegotiating mid scene #this has been a psa

[nihilistic-optimistest]

has this been done before?

[ID: Chainsaw Man edit of the "consensual sex" meme. Aki and Angel are edited onto two people who lay close together. The Future Devil is edited onto a third, interrupting person. There is text that says: The Myth of "Consensual" Sex. Aki and Angel both say, "I consent," but Future Devil says, "I don't!" The text continues: Isn't There Somebody You Forgot To Ask? /end ID]

#tho honestly its the future devil so maybe hed consent as well lol #aki hayakawa #angel devil #future devil #akiangel #chainsaw man #csm

[sarasade]

Unfortunately it has come to this: here, some Viravos breeding kink comics. (dubcon, I guess?)

it's on Cohost since I'm trying to get away from Twitter and not many places allow nsfw. Can you tell me if you can see this without logging in? I can post the Twitter link too if needed.

#aaravos isn't a consent king... #well he made that baby with Viren without his knowledge so what would you expect #viravos #sarasadeart

[sweetlullabyebye]

Moonjo just filming Jongwoo out of nowhere was so unhinged like dude you already stalk him spy on him in his bedroom have a printed picture of him you did NOT need to take a video of him too

#moonjo probably having jongwoo as his phone wallpaper surrounded with little hearts #jongwoo just barely reacting to that too 💀💀 #jongwoo being filmed without his consent 'what r u doing?' #moonjo 'well u looked pretty' #jongwoo 'alright cool anyways as i was saying' #seo moonjo #yoon jongwoo #strangers from hell #hell is other people