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oldguy56-world · 2 months

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The Lazy Song

Do not confuse this with last year's 'Down by the Lazy River'. While they might share a general theme (just how lazy people are) the first one was about marijuana delivery to your home. This one is about capitalism, or how I can make money off of just how lazy people have become.

This one started with a TV commercial. Did you know that people living in homes and have their own washer/dryer combos, are now using an app to call in a service for people to do your laundry for you? I kid you not. I recognize doing laundry is a complicated process with the whole separating of the whites from the colors (not as racist as it sounds in my head) and then having to put the washed clothes into a dryer. It must be a real brain buster for some people.

This got me thinking: 'What .com business can I start up to make some money on the younger generation's aversion to doing anything in the way of manual labor around the house?'

There is already fast food delivery (don't get me started again on that one) groceries (which is good for the elderly and disabled) booze and weed so there doesn't seem to be much else out there to make a buck off of. Or is there? I have a few ideas that I recently had copy rights secured on just in case one of you jumps the gun and tries to get to market before I do. My brain still works but sometimes my body doesn't cooperate so much anymore.

'Squabbles' . Put this app on your phone and then the next time your spouse is in a feisty mood and wants to argue with you press a button and within minutes a person shows up to fight with her. (oops, or him) You can then get back to watching TV while they hash it out for hours in the next room. Next level will be that you both have the app, you are both in a mood, and you bring in two people to fight while you go to a movie.

'BMW'. Not the car as you might think. This one stands for bowel movement wiper. What is lazier than not wanting to wipe your own butt? Bring in a professional and prevent those nasty stains in your gitch.

'Guests'. Do you want to have people over but your friends are too lazy to make the drive? Bring in some substitutes. The beauty here is that you can get them to leave whenever you want. They can also go to parties you do not feel like going to because you want to watch the big game live. Send someone in your place and have them take notes. They also provide Tupperware so they can bring you leftovers making sure you don't miss out.

"Steps'. Not the app you are accustomed to. It doesn't count your steps. Your spouse wants to go for a walk in the woods on a fine summer day but you don't want to? Someone will come to your place to walk with them. Also can be used for shopping buddies. You just have to designate whether or not it will involve carrying pkgs.

'Bath Buddy.' Need a description? They will scrub those hard to get at places for you. All you have to do is lie there (or stand there with the companion app Shower Buddy) and let them do all the work.

There are probably more but this is enough to make me rich beyond my wildest dreams. Maybe an app that gets people to help spend my money, although there are scammers out there just waiting to do this.

THOUGHT OF THE WEEK: Convenience is nice but there is a joy in doing things for yourself that just can't be beat.

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leatherbookmark · 1 year

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tell us about abt old people chengqing!! :)

anon I am SO SORRY I saw this ask millennia ago and it was late so I was like ah! I'll reply tomorrow AND THEN I DIDN'T

anyway with old people chengqing I imagine a modern au they meet when they're already old. I think I should probably consider whether they'd have their spouses or grandchildren in this one but alas: I can't be arsed. so I'll just say that they meet in something like... hm. maybe it's a library or a culture center. maybe they live in the same neighbourhood and meet during a meeting about, idk, whether to build or not to build a new playground. who knows.

anyway, the thing is: they're similar. wq has never stopped saying what's on her mind, if anything, age has only made her care less about what people might say, because look. she's old. she's a retired doctor. can you prove she didn't assist your mother birthing you? you can't. are you gonna argue with someone who helped haul your ass into this world? no. sit down and shut up AND we're putting the money into the heating fund, flower beds can wait. (her speciality was cardiology and she didn't have That much experience with midwifery, but do people need to know that? also no.)

meanwhile jc learned to give less of a fuck what people, for example wei wuxians*, think about him, and this is also thanks to his age because you're gonna tell an old fart what to do? (at some point wwx told him that "old fart" does not suit such a fancy schmancy man as him. look at him. he's dressed way too neatly for a "fart". venerable flatus, perhaps. you're appropriating old fartery, a-cheng.) he often comes ready to Argue for his case, but then it turns out that either his suggestions are quite reasonable and everyone agrees, OR that wq has already given the people assembled a single Look and they suddenly found it in themselves to agree with her, oh, wholeheartedly.

*although whether wwx is a person or a nuisance sent to this green bitch of an earth specifically to torment jc, well that's a separate argument

so. they are being Shipped.

obviously -- one might say -- being old and bitchy at the same time and place does not mean you would make a good couple. tell that to the youths, though. you try and tell them. you accidentally bark at the kids to quiet down or watch out for their little sibling roughly at the same time and suddenly everyone's like ooh, isn't that cute! they catch you bitching about people who value looks over practicality and want the balconies to be renovated in a way that'll need further renovation in five years, utter idiocy, ONCE, and suddenly everyone's giggling, throwing you Looks, and asking if you've seen the flyers for dancing nights for the elderly.

of course you've seen them! you helped organise the whole thing. s o m e people need that, for interaction or something, and it needs to be done well, simple as that. no, they can't go. they've been there last month, the snacks were alright But this month they cannot. she has a book signing and he goes fishing with a-ling's youngest, you know how it is. maybe you kids should try other hobbies too, since you clearly have nothing else to do!

(the kids in question are like. 40-50.)

but. while it's annoying and bothersome, it's not like wq and jc actually hate each other. in fact, yeah, they like each other quite a lot, at least as much as you can like someone while like... coexisting. but this whole Thing with people making jokes like they were a bunch of schoolkids and not Old People does actually make them entertain, even just in their heads, the possibility of Getting To Know Each Other Better.

and while jc is, actually, interested -- she's a very intelligent, responsible woman, and physically she's quite excellent too -- he does get a bit shy in matters like these, so he just... doesn't really plan on doing anything, since he's quite pleased with how they are already. wq, however, does not like not knowing where she stands, so one day she just comes up to him -- when they're alone, mind you, she doesn't want to make a show for everyone out of this -- and goes, well, would you be interested in taking me dancing? and he. is glad he's put the book away, because his fingers twitch and he'd surely tear the paper. no, he says, i can organize this shit, but i don't like dancing at all. (there's a pause.) but if you were interested in going somewhere together, or getting something to eat...

(she is. and they go, like, right away, because a new cafe opened nearby and she wanted to try it, and then they go for a walk in the park and she tells him about her family, and he tells her about his, and they find another thing they have in common -- being surrounded by reckless fools, and also children -- and by the time a natural pause in their conversation arrives, one that happens because many topics have been exhausted, it's already dinner time, so now they go to a place jc likes... and by the time wgxn notice them it's too late to run away because they're in the middle of the soup, but jc suffers only a little because, see, the soup is good and so is this date, so really,)

#THIS IS KIND OF NOTHING because i don't actually know what the elderly can do in their free time. aside from like. everything #due to having their free time but yget me. i also have no idea how like. libraries and Local Social Circles work. i don't know why i'm #doing this to myself but eh! old grumpy hets = good i think #oh and also. jc doesn't like dancing in public but he does gather the courage and ask wq for a dance when they're over at her place #and she's playing her favourite CDs. her smile almost knocks him off his feet. they just like. rock awkwardly and do a bit of #twirling but it's So Fun for both of them i think #answered asks #anonymous

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divinatorydoll · 1 year

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how mercury direct in capricorn will affect us: 📝

mercury, the planet of communication, learning, and skill will soon be stationing direct in the ambitious sign of capricorn !!

until mercury moves into aquarius on february 11th, the collective will be experiencing a meaningful slow down in our everyday lives — in the sense that we'll be taking more time with our schedules, hygienic practices, personal grooming, etc.

since mercury was retrograde in capricorn, many people struggled with obstacles and delays (♑︎) in their daily routines (☿). though mercury is now direct in capricorn, so these delays will be more voluntary rather than being a result of unfortunate circumstance.

mercury will impact you differently based on which house it stations direct in, read more below !!

MERCURY DIRECT IN CAPRICORN THROUGHOUT THE HOUSES:

mercury in the 1H: more ease in self-expression and displaying your personality to others. it's also a good time to communicate your point of view to the people around you, as mercury is direct in the sign of seriousness — your words will be taken with much more weight and importance right now.

mercury in the 2H: an excellent time for organizing your finances and figuring out a more efficient budget. the second house also governs valuables and assets, so it's good to use mercury's influence here to decide which possessions of yours are actually useful and significant — a great transit for correcting excess.

mercury in the 3H: useful for sharpening your skills with driving, communicating, and problem-solving. it's important to be more of service to the elderly people in your community during this transit as well !! whether that's by holding doors open for them, carrying their groceries to their car, helping them up a flight of stairs, etc.

mercury in the 4H: getting weight off of your chest to your immediate family is often very rewarding; family members can help you think through your problems more thoroughly right now (whether they're biological or chosen). wonderful for rearranging your living space and deep cleaning it.

mercury in the 5H: a great time to do journaling about your childhood or read things you wrote as a child. mercury in this house can encourage more thought when it comes to your happiness and hobbies, so make your joy a priority and focus on it !! there's also more of a chance at reigniting old romantic or sexual relationships.

mercury in the 6H: working out managerial issues or problems with coworkers is usually much more effective during this transit. it can also be a helpful time for gaining new information on your skeletal, dental, and postural health, as well as your salt and calcium intake.

mercury in the 7H: fantastic for making progress in contractual or legal matters, especially if those matters involve your spouse, siblings, extended family, or your means of transportation. this transit can also encourage more transparency between loved ones when it comes to discussing mental burdens / hardship.

mercury in the 8H: amazing for deep inner conversation and nurturing insight that comes to you in private. this can be a more socially secluded time, but the people you do bond with during this transit will give you very valuable resources — such as money, information, secrets, property, intimacy, etc.

mercury in the 9H: ironing out the last kinks in a publication or body of work is often a smoother process during this transit, especially if the project relates to politics, faith, spirituality, or your personal beliefs. work on a final draft without being too rigid about the results; inflexibility will hinder your progress right now.

mercury in the 10H: mercury stationing direct in this house can help move your career along and make business transactions much easier. try not to be overzealous with production and focus more on the craftsmanship of what you release to the public — quality over quantity as the saying goes.

mercury in the 11H: setting boundaries within your friendships and other social relationships is particularly important during this transit. try not to let people overwork you or walk all over you, even if you feel obligated to them in some way. also a wonderful time for developing your social media presence !!

mercury in the 12H: perfect for writing down any dreams or visions you have, especially if they are reoccurring — images in your dreams are likely to be more macabre and layered with mercury here. i would also encourage using smaller objects that consist of bone, salts, or obsidian on your altar(s) during this time.

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thosemintcookies · 9 months

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Also like there are so many cultures where multigenerational homes is entirely normal. I have cousins who live with their spouses and children in their parents basement or along with their parents, even being able to afford to buy a place on their own (literally not even renting. Owning). There are people who spend their entire lives being taken care of by their parents or taking care of them.

The desire to leave your parents and get your own place as soon as you're able is fine, and I get it especially in cases where your parents were not kind to you, but it's not a necessity and I think especially in a time of housing and cost of living crises it's entirely understandable and should be socially acceptable to live with your parents. Girl would you rather be paying $1800 rent on your own every month or sharing $2300 among three people

To tie your independence and sense of worth to whether or not you live apart from your family is so callous. We have problems of elderly loneliness and burnout from feeling like you have to do things on your own, when tbh sharing duties/costs with your family is sometimes what's the most practical

#the nuclear family able to get married and have a house by 25 on a high school diploma is a fantasy myth for white people from the 50s #why measure a persons value against that

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galene-gothic · 1 year

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Hello! I hope you're doing well✨ My question is what relationship dynamic is me & my future husband going to have? Tysm <3

Initial: E

⅄ ◌ 🐏 ˖ Future spouse ♡

Cards: the ace of wands (reversed) – the six of cups – the four of wands (reversed).

They're probably someone insecure, they have a hard time trusting their own abilities. I'm getting a lack of direction. They'll be really demotivated when the both of you meet. They might be living a very monotonous life when the both of you meet. They're very sensual and might be compassionate towards sick and the elderly. They hold the memories they've made very close to their heart. They're low-key naive and have a childlike nature. They're kind to everyone and hold pure intentions. The relationship is going to be blissful. You'll be good friends and you'll have a lot of inside jokes. I'm getting that the both of you will laugh a lot when together. Be careful not to abandon your platonic relationships once you meet your future spouse though. I'm getting them fulfilling the role of every person in your life which might lead you to not care much about your platonic relationships but please don't neglect people close to you.

⅄ ◌ 🐏 ˖ Your vibes ♡

Cards: the ten of pentacles – the tower (reversed) – the king of pentacles (reversed).

You look rich regardless of whether you're rich or not. I just heard 'nepotism baby'. You might mostly hang out with rich people or people think that you're attracted + attract rich people. You might be career oriented and might care about your status and success. You stand out in a way that no one does, you come off as the center of attention everywhere regardless of who you're surrounded by. You might also have graceful movements or something very swift about you. You're protected and you tend to kinda dodge things that seem impossible to avoid. You also likely come off very resilient. You know how to put your ego aside and be true to yourself. You come off kinda cold and ruthless at times. You might give off an intimidating first impression.

Thank you for participating <3

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tarzantips · 16 hours

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Is it OK to get pregnant at 42?

A lot of people view becoming pregnant as a major life milestone, and it is common to experience joy, excitement, and a lot of questions.

One such call that might come up, especially for women in their 40s, is if it is acceptable to start a pregnancy journey at age 42.

To really understand the different factors involved, let's take a closer look at this topic.

Is it OK to get pregnant at 42?

1. Biological Considerations

Fertility: Because fewer and lower-quality eggs are produced as women age, their fertility decreases.

Risk of Complications: A 42-year-old woman is more likely to experience complications from her pregnancy, including high blood pressure, gestational diabetes, miscarriage, and chromosomal abnormalities like Down syndrome in the unborn child.

Medical Assistance: At this age, many women might need medical assistance, such as fertility treatments, in order to conceive.

2. Personal Factors

Financial Stability: Because raising a child requires significant financial resources, financial stability must be taken into consideration.

Emotional Readiness: The emotional toll that pregnancy and parenthood take must be considered, and people must determine whether they are prepared for this responsibility..

Support System: Strong support networks, including a spouse, family, and friends, may significantly reduce the difficulties of becoming pregnant and raising a child.

3. Health and Lifestyle

Preconception Health: For the benefit of the mother and the unborn child, it is essential to maintain ideal health prior to conception. This involves taking care of any pre-existing medical conditions, exercising frequently, and keeping a healthy weight.

Prenatal Care: To track the pregnancy's development and quickly address any new problems, access to quality prenatal care is necessary

Lifestyle Choices: It would help if you stayed away from hazardous substances like alcohol, tobacco, and specific medications during pregnancy to reduce potential health risks to the unborn child.

Read: The Secret Language of Your Baby Bump - What the Size Really Means

4. Social and Cultural Perspectives

Societal Norms: The views of society surrounding older-age pregnancy differ among cultures and communities. While some might accept it as a matter of personal preference, others might see it as unusual.

Career and Life Goals: Many women in their 40s who are thinking about getting pregnant consider how to balance their career goals with becoming pregnant. Employers' support and flexibility with work schedules can have a big influence on their choices.

5. Medical Advancements

Egg Freezing: Egg freezing presents a viable option for women who want to put off having children but are worried about their declining fertility. Women can maintain their fertility and raise their chances of a successful pregnancy later in life by freezing their eggs at a younger age.

Assisted Reproductive Technologies (ART): With the use of fertility treatments (ART), such as in vitro fertilization (IVF), many people are now able to conceive as late as their forties. These developments in technology can improve the chances of conception and help overcome age-related fertility obstacles.

6. Emotional Considerations

Fulfillment and Joy: Being a mother later in life brings great fulfillment and joy to many women, despite the possible obstacles. Emotional preparedness and the desire to become parents can take first place over worries about age-related risks.

Family Dynamics: Some women find that having children in their 40s allows them to accomplish their career and personal objectives before becoming parents. Furthermore, elderly parents may contribute maturity, stability, and wisdom to their role as caregivers.

7. Long-Term Planning

Parenthood in Later Years: The long-term effects of a pregnancy at 42 must be taken into account, including making plans for the child's education, upbringing, and future care needs as the parents’ age.

Health and Well-Being: As they age and want to continue being active and involved in their child's life, older parents find it more and more important to maintain their health and well-being.

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#home remedies #health & fitness #tarzantips #pregnancy tips #pregnancy

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official-curajoy · 1 month

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People Danger is Real

The rat race starts young now! And it’s easy to get caught up in it. As a parent of college-bound teens, I live the frenzy that often results from students (and parents) thinking that the rest of their lives are dictated by their college acceptance letters. High-achieving teens aim, at the very minimum, to maintain GPAs above 4.0, aim for spectacular SAT scores, and outshine each other in extracurricular endeavors. When you see everyone else going above and beyond, it’s easy to spread yourself too thin and out of balance. But there is life beyond college admission and lots of other important choices to be made. (As a reminder: your life will probably be fine even if you don’t get into your top choice colleges.)

How much time do you spend evaluating which person you should befriend, date, or marry? Our choices in people are more important than students’ school choices! On the heels of women’s Day, I challenge us to notice the difference in efforts we spend on college counseling, career development to social-emotional skill building, and spend some more time discussing relationship health and boundary setting with our teens, especially young women. They grew up watching Disney movies, reading fairy tales about Prince Charming, or witnessing dysfunctional marriages. It’s often difficult to discern who is actually good for you. Strong social emotional skills like self-awareness, conflict resolution, and impulse control are important preventative measures to avoid trauma. More importantly, we need to start having these important conversations early and often and parent our kids beyond their GPAs.

The path to adulthood is littered with potholes. The average age of children joining gangs is 13. Twelve million Americans are victims of rape, physical violence or stalking by a romantic partner every year, and 1 in 3 women will experience such abuse in their lifetime (1 in 4 for males.) The #1 cause of death in pregnant women and mothers who recently delivered is homicide by their spouse or partner.

People danger starts younger than we expect. 33% of teens experience dating violence but won’t tell anyone–perhaps related to the fact that 81% of parents believe teen dating violence isn’t an issue. 61% of teen sexting go coerced into it. The elderly and disabled are 70% more likely to be abused.

What do these statistics mean to you? To me, they tell me that the problem is prevalent and there aren’t enough effective proactive measures taken to prevent these traumas. Prioritizing behavioral health by building social emotional skills is essential because abusers are often charming People danger is not as easy to recognize. Some abuse leaves bruises and scars. But the abuses that don’t manifest outwardly are just as destructive, if not more. In fact, emotional abuse triggers PTSD symptoms in women more than physical abuse. Trauma physically changes the brain and affects learning, emotional regulation, memory, and every part of people’s lives.

Some lessons are important enough for us to repeat to ensure mastery. We hold on to children’s hands for years, teaching them how to watch the lights and check for cars because the consequences can be deadly. Don’t let go of your hands yet! Crossing into adulthood, choosing partners, and watching out for toxic relationships require just as much attention as we are paying to academic or career achievements.

Everyone needs a strong dose of social emotional skills to carry you far. And you’re going to need those skills to be second nature to count on them in times of trouble. Our team works to cultivate a solid sense of self and personal boundaries so that people know what they are comfortable with, and practice asserting their boundaries with others. We help people invest time in relationships where there is mutual respect, understanding, and clear communication. Whether or not people danger is real, a lot can be gained by surrounding yourself with people who will support and bring the best out of you. These relationships form the support team that can carry you through challenging times.

If you’re currently in an abusive relationship, do not hesitate to seek professional support or call 800-799-7233.

Check out the full blog post at : https://www.curajoy.org/people-danger/

#mental health #youth #growing up #therapy #school #stress #stress tips #blog #curajoy posts #psychology #emotional health #mental health support

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talentconnectedworldwide01 · 1 month

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Top 10 Immigration Programs for you to immigrate to Canada

Canada, often referred to as the Great White North, is a land of diversity, opportunity, and breathtaking landscapes. If you dream of making Canada your new home, there are various Canada Immigration Programs to explore. Whether you're a skilled worker, entrepreneur, or student, Canada welcomes you with open arms. Here's a simplified guide to the top 10 immigration programs for you to consider:

Express Entry: This program is for skilled workers who wish to immigrate to Canada permanently. It manages applications for three economic immigration categories: the Federal Skilled Worker Program, the Federal Skilled Trades Program, and the Canadian Experience Class.

Provincial Nominee Program (PNP): Each Canadian province and territory, except for Quebec, has its own PNP. These programs allow provinces to nominate individuals who want to immigrate to Canada and who are interested in settling in a particular province.

Atlantic Immigration Pilot: Designed for skilled workers and international graduates who want to live in the Atlantic provinces of Nova Scotia, New Brunswick, Newfoundland and Labrador, or Prince Edward Island.

Caregiver Program: This program is for individuals who have experience in caring for children, the elderly, or people with medical needs. It offers pathways to permanent residence for caregivers who meet specific requirements.

Start-up Visa Program: If you're an entrepreneur with an innovative business idea and the potential to create jobs in Canada, this program could be for you. It's designed to attract entrepreneurs who can contribute to Canada's economy.

Rural and Northern Immigration Pilot: This program aims to spread the benefits of economic immigration to smaller communities by creating a pathway to permanent residence for skilled foreign workers who want to live in eligible communities.

Quebec Skilled Worker Program (QSWP): Quebec has its own immigration system separate from the rest of Canada. The QSWP is for individuals who want to settle in Quebec as skilled workers.

International Experience Canada (IEC): This program allows young people aged 18-35 (or in some cases, 18-30) from certain countries to work and travel in Canada for up to two years.

Study Permit: If you wish to study in Canada, you'll need a study permit. This doesn't directly lead to permanent residence, but it can be a stepping stone through programs like the Post-Graduation Work Permit Program.

Family Sponsorship: Canadian citizens and permanent residents can sponsor their family members to come to Canada as permanent residents. This includes spouses, partners, dependent children, parents, and grandparents.

These are just a few of the pathways available for Canada Immigration Programs. Each program has its own set of requirements and eligibility criteria, so it's essential to research thoroughly and choose the one that best suits your situation and aspirations. With its welcoming atmosphere and diverse opportunities, Canada truly is a land of endless possibilities for immigrants.

#canada #immigration #Canada pr #pr

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thebuckblogimo · 2 months

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What do people do who don't have people who care?

March 4, 2024

There's an elderly woman with severe dementia who lives at the end of our street. One of the neighbors on the block recruited volunteers to cook dinner for the woman each night and deliver it to her because she can no longer cook for herself.

The elderly woman's two sons rarely come around. What if the neighbors didn't care?

Then there's my old buddy who is confined to his home due to an injury suffered in a car accident. He does not have the ability to perform certain executive functions. His brother pays his bills, does his banking, and shops for his groceries.

Now, however, the brother has health issues of his own. My friend has no other living relatives that I am aware of.

What will happen if no one is left to care?

Over the years I have known a couple people who outlived their friends or family, fell at home, were incompacitated due to a resultant injury, and weren't discovered for 24 hours.

I also have friends who have lost their spouses and who have few living relatives, making it difficult to face life alone. One of them is struggling, emotionally. Another depends on his late wife's niece should he need, say, a ride home after a stay in the hospital.

But what is an emotionally distrought, sick or injured person to do when he or she has no one? With whom do you share Thanksgiving dinner?

I also have a couple friends who reside in assisted living facilities, nice places that deliver great care that they have the means to pay for. But what if you can't afford to live in a nice, clean, comfortable place, with competent people to look out for you when you can't adequately care for yourself?

Or what if you come from a totally dysfunctional family, or your closest family members live in distant parts of the country?

There are no easy answers to these questions.

Thankfully, I have two brothers and two sisters who I know care about Debbie and me. Debbie has a brother and a sister who, along with their spouses, care about us, too. Moreover, we have four children who care. And we have many nieces and nephews with whom we are very close. We feel fortunate that we have people we can turn to in times of need, such as when our Clarkston home caught fire.

We would do the same for them.

All these thoughts came rushing to my head while staying with one of our sons as he completes a program to improve his mental health. Sometimes he feels broken, but at least he knows he can turn to us and other family members when he is suffering. From time to time he tells us how thankful he is that we are there to support him.

Which brings me to this point: Care givers need care, too.

We are in constant touch with neighbors whose son also suffers from depression. We share our knowledge and experiences with them. They do the same in return. The four of us feel as though we're in this thing together.

I also receive phone calls from an old friend who checks in to see how our son is doing. Sometimes I call him to see how his son, who has multiple sclerosis and uses a wheelchair, is doing. We have shared personal stuff with each other for as long as I can recall.

But what do you do if you have no one to sympathize and empathize with you?

Sometimes I take a roundabout way to get home from the pizzeria or grocery store on the other side of Grand Haven. One of my alternate routes takes me down a street of older homes, many in need of "fixing up." On more than one occasion I have noticed an older man--hunched over, with bowed legs and a cane--emerging from one of the homes with a canvas bag in hand, apparently setting out on a walk to the grocery store--or, God forbid, the gas station--for whatever foodstuffs sustain him.

I have no idea whether he lives alone or whether he has any friends or relatives who care about his well being. I just know I can see how difficult is for him to descend the steps of his porch to the sidewalk to go wherever it is he goes.

Struggle. That's what people do who have no one who cares.

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aumortosblog · 3 months

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What is excellence in Old Age Home or the new age term: ‘Senior Living’?

The notion of an old age home has transformed in the new age with numerous facilities, assistance for elderly residents and the level of care. There are also different ownership/payment models to choose from.

The importance of having a high-quality retired living for the couple or as a single senior person is increasingly becoming acute and the demand is rapidly rising. To live and enjoy to the full, the way you wish to, with no day-to-day dependence on adult offsprings or other family members, is an option now easily available. Not just for well earning Indians but also for the Indian diaspora who decide to settle down in their homeland. The standard of living and the luxury of interiors, one has been used to, can be entirely maintained or exceeded – so one does not have to suddenly experience a drop in life-quality, enrichment, security and comfort – just because you are moving to a senior resident facility.

Here are six key criteria that would make for excellence in senior living in India. Consider them as you begin the search for yourself and your spouse, or if you are looking for a top-notch home for elders, your aging parents/parent.

Quality of Care: Ensuring residents receive personalized and comprehensive care - genuine care - from exceptionally well-trained staff members. They receive individualized care and medical support as and when they arise. Needless to add, security services that are round the clock. From an alarm system to easily navigable space and well-maintained facilities to provide peace of mind and comfort.

Social, Recreational and Creative Opportunities: Creating an environment of like-minded people that foster social interactions and enjoyable get-togethers. Whether it’s enjoying cultural shows or expressing their own creative abilities. Stimulating intellectual, culturally rich, and creative engagements makes a big difference in the quality of life beyond the material comforts.

Comfortable Living Spaces: The physical living spaces must radiate comfort and convenience. Choices must be available for different types of resident preferences. The ambience of the rooms, natural light, green views, the interior design, furniture and fixtures provided, modern-day gadgets and appliances—all of them matter.

Nutrition and balanced diet: Promoting healthy living through nutritious meals and well-balanced meals, accommodating dietary needs, and creating enjoyable dining experiences can significantly contribute to seniors' overall well-being.

Continuous Improvement: Embracing innovation, feedback, and continuous improvement in services and amenities to meet evolving needs and standards.

Excellence in senior living entails a holistic approach to elder care.

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The Power of Positive Blah Blah Blah

JOKE: One day, while waiting for Tanja in the car in a disabled parking, an elderly man walked up to me and pointed out that the parking was for disabled people. My response was …. I .. I .. I .. I .. know, I .. I .. I .. stutter 😊

Have you ever attended or listened to a motivational speaker or read their books? Of course, so have I.

So, tell me, how long did the hype of the moment last? A few days? A week? A month? How long before you found yourself back where you were before, if not worse than before, because of your high expectations in yourself and the words of someone else?

Well, I don’t see myself as a motivational speaker. I am an ENERGIZER promoter!!

I’m here to help you and show you how reload your battery.

When I was 10 years old, I was sentenced to a life of ailments and a very predictable future regarding my health. Professor van Rooyen was the medical doctor at HF Verwoerd Hospital in Pretoria when I was diagnosed. He said the following to me: (remember I am 10 years old)

You have type 1 diabetes and will need to inject yourself a few times every day for the rest of your life (75 000 injections so far)

You will not grow old or die naturally

You will probably end up with either heart failure or kidney failure or both.

You will most likely lose a limb or two.

One morning you might wake up and be blind.

Wow, that’s a lot for a 10-year-old to digest.

Well, it’s been 48 years since then and here’s my list so far:

Quadruple heart bypass surgery, including a metallic heart valve fitment (side effect – insomnia and a handful of pills)

7 amputations – starting with toes and ending in legs.

Celiac’s Disease

Loss of sight in my left eye

Diabetic neuropathy and muscle loss in my hands

And last but not least, my recent catastrophe: Major femur break and pelvic fracture

Not a very encouraging picture ☹

BUT ... I have an ENERGIZER!!! And I can’t keep this to myself.

(Before I explain what I mean by an Energizer, let me point out that I have suffered with chronic depression all my life. I wanted to commit suicide a few times, but thankfully didn’t succeed. I often hear people say that it’s a coward that takes his life, but it’s not and I’m angered by this stupid statement. It takes a lot of guts to commit to this decision)

Getting back to the Energizer:

So, what is an Energizer?

Dictionary: Someone who imparts energy and vitality and spirit to other people

Let me explain: We are living beings, running on energy like batteries. Our batteries run flat from time to time. Some people have the ability to bounce back without too much fuss. Some people struggle to re-energize themselves; some never recover. I have seen this especially with fellow amputees.

The solution to a flat, rundown battery is to find a recharging point and this is what I have come to share with you today.

You do not possess a recharging point within yourself; you need to find it.

In the 17th century John Donne said: No man is an island, and it’s exactly that. We cannot thrive or grow alone. We recharge each other on a daily basis. Whether it’s your spouse, your friend, your pet or a LIFE coach. Find the person that helps you to recharge, that helps you find your strength, that helps you re-energize.

You might say: “I find my strength in a higher power.” Great for you, but here’s where I need MORE than faith. I need my 5 physical senses. If religion is important to you, do it. I’m not here to discredit what you believe in.

What I am trying to say is that you need to connect with someone physically. Someone you can touch, hear and converse with. I found that connection in my wife. She is my Energizer. She’s the one who never gives up on me, encourages me, feels my anguish, ignores my cursing. She allows me to express myself, reminding me constantly that I’m not alone.

My Energizer is a beautiful, real, loving, caring human being.

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In 2018 my health took a serious turn for the worst. Things I had previously paid little attention to suddenly became a massive problem. During this time, I was still the owner of a mechanical workshop and the leading mechanic. Tanja was the administrator and organizer in the business and even did the diagnostics on the vehicles. I became listless and weak, lost my appetite and felt an overall unwellness. My GP referred me to a heart specialist who ran a series of tests and discovered that my aortic valve had packed up. I knew a lot about valves but this was a different ball game.

I was hospitalized and underwent a quadruple bypass as well as an aortic valve replacement – a metallic valve, to be specific. One which keeps me up at night unless I take serious sleeping tablets.

Following this, the amputations started. Toes, one by one; half a foot (which was the biggest and most painful mistake ever) and then the legs. Little by little, one at a time. Thankfully it wasn’t all at once, which allowed us to adjust slowly to the loss of limbs. It still wasn’t easy. Remember, I’m a driven, hard-working diesel mechanic, setting the pace in the workshop every day.

Before I had even lost my second leg, we decided to sell the workshop. The stress and anxiety were overwhelming. Not only could I not do what I had done before but the frustration of battling to do a job drove me bat-shit crazy.

We decided to start a niche, upmarket wine and gin bar. A classy but easy-going place. We put all our funds into the shop-fitting and stocking of our new enterprise. The idea was to get it up and running, build it up and sell it, then follow our children to Portugal.

Covid! Covid! Covid! What more can I say? Before even opening our doors, Covid hit us. To make a long, sad and desperate story short, we lost everything. We walked out of that place with the clothes on our backs and what was left after selling all our furniture. The bank repossessed our car and still hound us for money to this day.

Loss of material possessions. Loss of income. Loss of health. Loss of legs. Loss of our precious children, who had already left the country. We felt distraught, alone and afraid, to say the least.

You might think to yourself now: Wow! I’m sure things could not have gotten worse for these people? But wait, there’s more! My father-in-law used to have a saying: cheer up, things could get worse. So, I cheered up, and sure enough, things got worse.

On the 29th of April 2023 I slipped on the garage floor after washing the car. I shattered my femur and fractured my pelvis. I wished to die. I wanted to end my life.

Tanja came to me with the following ENERGIZING words: It is not death that you crave. What you crave is more LIFE.

I had to learn to walk … AGAIN!

It’s been 8 months since that disastrous day and here I am, walking again and not just that, I’m covering about 6 km per day!!!

Here are some valuable lessons I’ve learned while learning to walk with prosthetic legs:

• Don’t look back, you’ll lose your balance

• Keep your eyes on the road ahead of you to avoid the potholes

• There are some things you can’t change, make peace with that.

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The weight of financial responsibilities can be crushing, but it's crucial to remember that you are not alone in this struggle. Come. Come, let me share with you the lessons we've learned.

There were times when bills piled up, the banks phoned 10 times a day and the future seemed dismally uncertain. But with determination and creativity, we found various ways to try to make ends meet. With both of us being self-employed for the last 25 years, we found ourselves unemployable, so we had to embrace multiple income streams and turn various ideas into opportunities.

I am a diesel mechanic by trade and that is all I have ever known. Finding new ways to generate an income was as challenging as learning to walk again.

Remember, your potential is vast, and there are often undiscovered talents within you waiting to be uncovered.

Living with chronic health conditions is undoubtedly tough, but it's essential to focus on what you can control. Together, we adapt and find new ways to survive despite our limitations. I say OUR because my limitations become my wife’s limitations. We deal with issues together.

When we run out of options, which has happened a few times, we speak up and ask for support, while finding a way around the problem at hand. Not everyone knows how to speak up. They’re either too proud OR afraid of rejection OR they simply don’t feel worthy.

Well,

There have been times when we had no food – we spoke up!

No vehicle with which to do our job – we spoke up!

In need of prosthetic legs – we spoke up!

Medical assistance – we spoke up!

A place to live – we spoke up!

AND WE WERE HEARD!!

People helped us because they saw our determination, effort and the will to keep going. We were down, but we still tried our best.

Seek support, when necessary, stay proactive in managing your health, and remember that every small victory is a step forward.

In times of financial hardship, health crises, or relationship woes, it's easy to feel isolated. DON’T isolate yourself. Don’t try to climb out of the pit by yourself. Find your Energizer. Connect. Move.

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I want to leave you with a TO DO LIST: (an Energizing TO DO LIST)

Eat healthier

Drink water

Breathe deeply (even if it’s a deep sigh). It helps to release negative energy.

Spend time in nature or taking in the wonder of every sunset

Smile (even if you don’t feel like it). A smile is contagious and is AS good for your battery as for the receiver

Walk every day (or whatever exercise works for you)

Greet people (as you walk). We pass people and never think to say Hi. We’ve made so many connections with so many amazing people on our daily walks because we greet every single person we pass.

Spend time with positive people. It rubs off.

SHARE your energy. It’s not yours to keep. When you get it, share it. It’s that constant exchange that causes the Energizer experience to grow.

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Now, Get ENERGIZED! You cannot jump-start someone when your battery is flat.

Find your Energizer!!

Then be an Energizer. Help to jump-start someone else’s battery by sharing.

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Who is eligible for PR in Canada?

Canada is known for its welcoming nature, diverse culture, and stunning landscapes, making it a popular destination for people around the world. If you've been dreaming of calling Canada your permanent home, you might be wondering who is eligible for Canada PR.

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Conclusion

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Precisely what is the Legal Age Intended for Marriage inside the?

Many people assume that marriage is a sacred institution, but we have a growing activity to end child relationship in America. A nonprofit called Unchained at Last has created statistics that show just how many minors are hitched each year.

While the legal age with respect to marriage is normally 18 practically in states, exclusions can be generated for pregnancy or judicial permission. New York, for example , allows visitors to marry simply because young while 14.

Legal Age with regards to Marriage in the U. Ring.

There are at the moment 50 state governments in the United States and one has its set of regulations governing marriage. Generally, state laws say that the minimum grow older for marriage is certainly 18 years of age. However , a lot of states contain exceptions to this rule allowing sixteen and 17-year-olds to marry with parental consent and/or contencioso approval.

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Last year, lawmakers in nine states introduced bills to raise wedding age. The measures had been backed by promoters for gender equality and by those who have witnessed girls being betrothed to older men—for example, Sherry Johnson of Fl who says this lady was required to marry her 74-year-old rapist under the state’s pregnancy different in the 1970s.

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Sales person of the serenity who survey seeing girls being committed off by old men are backing up proposals to boost the marriage age group. In Delaware, clerk Ken Boulden pushed with respect to law adjustments after witnessing a girl of 14 attend at his business office with her parents to marry the 27-year-old guy who impregnated her.

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Legal Age group for Marital relationship in Australia

The legal grow older for marriage nationwide is 18 years, as is the situation in all declares and territories. Nevertheless , it is possible for persons aged 18 or 18 to marry in ‘unusual and great circumstances’, if parental consent is given and authorisation by a Magistrates Judge is naturally. The elderly partner should also be more than 18.

Advocates contain argued that this exemption undermines point out law, which requires the fact that judge making this decision consider whether the kid’s well-being is a risk of being impacted by the marriage. At present, judges makes decision simply by reviewing relationship license applications.

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Legal Grow older for Marital relationship in New Zealand

In New Zealand, both males and females must be at least 18 years of age to marry. However , the under the age of 18 can easily marry together with the consent of any parent or perhaps guardian.

Fresh Zealand’s age of marriage laws derive from English common law. This simply means lawmakers identify cases by reviewing legal precedents proceed England. america mail order brides This approach also influences how minors obtain adult liberties, such as driving a car, enlisting in the military, applying to election and betting.

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Concern about under-age marriage prompted National List MP Jackie Green to draft a private members’ bill to require any individual under-18 to state their consent in court before getting married to. She hopes this will help prevent forced matrimony, that may involve physical and psychological misuse.

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Tips And Hints On Finding The Perfect Wedding Gown

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