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bimbotrainerbrighton · 10 months

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You're going to be a good cocksleeve and do as you are told. No more thinking, every time your head goes to think, you'll quickly think about servicing cock and fluffy cute pink things. You'll shorten your words, you'll kneel when told, oink when commanded because you're a good dumb bimbo aren't you? Good girls obey.

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gqandw · 2 months

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#gqandw #quotes #qotd #life quote #change my life #live your life

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sherxplained · 1 year

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Exactly one year since we get this iconic chapter!

#bsd 101 #change my life #bungou stray dogs #chuuya bsd #dazai bsd #bsd #seven years since we met #and we've done nothing but quarrel #with each other #now that i think about it #there were some moment where we did connect #like that time #and if i said enough!!???

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watermeloncholycucumbersome · 2 months

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Day 65 of Writing Something Everyday

(365 Day Challenge)

I'm a regular sevant to this pain,

Painting pictures in the rain.

Watch the colours run together,

Watch them drip off the canvas onto my feet.

I run my hands over its entirety,

Blending, bleeding brillianty.

But it didn't come out the way I wanted;

I can't fix it now.

No matter what I do to fix my mistakes,

I just make it so much worse.

Paintbrush struggle - smearing paints,

I can't fix this on my own..

Discarded canvas on the lawn,

I leave it there until the dawn.

God, this is in Your hands..

Emerging out the door - early morn,

The canvas now dry.

I pick it up and begin to cry,

God's finger painted perfectly from the sky.

Drops of mercy.

It's beautiful and strange,

Just like my life.

Master painter,

Creator of the world,

Artist of the mountains,

Sculptor of the valleys,

and Author of my story.

~Jenni

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mysteriouslytransparentwitch · 1 year

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evening reflection

I hesitated a lot to speak, then I told myself that I could keep a private part, some people gave me tracks of reflections that I must keep in mind.

I asked a colleague to draw tarot cards for my professional life. Because I want to change my life. This desire was there but the confinements and the covid are going through there and we delay this change.

Currently, I am a saleswoman in the mid -range as a man and woman accessory. I admit that the conditions are no longer made for me and even elsewhere. Currently, the world of commerce is changing, we reduce the workforce to increase the margins to the detriment of employees. I am aware that we live in an ultra competitive mode.

This is why, I want to change my life, I talked about it with my friends, I have not yet met a professional in the field of jewelry because Paris and its region is on vacation, I must wait until March 7 . I contacted school of jewelry, I am waiting for their call, to discuss.

If I come back to private guidance:

The change is beneficial for me, for my soul, for my mental health, to be happy and fulfilled. I have to take the time of reflection and inform myself of this environment. I went through a failure 4 years ago, I took almost 5 years to get back financially at the end of 2023. Unfortunately, I believe that my failures induced fears to fail again. Indeed, I am afraid because I am soon 34 years old in November and that I also wish for myself, so to be mistaken is not an option for me. She told me to open up more more, to explore other options, Create and make jewelry perhaps lithotherapy for example. I don't know why I block around esotericism and make it a job. There is also a financial stability that I also seek, to be paying at least and inhabited in the Paris region is not possible. I'm not talking about winning $ 20,000 but just properly to live with dignity. Except that this side will be more complicated, it will take time (but time I have more)

My friends said to me: Leave on the basis, what you like, which is associated and then what revolves around.

My dream would be the purchase and the revent of express or old jewelry. I don't know if I'm creative enough to create jewelry?!

So I'm still thinking, I'm going to take the time.

This is the longest message, I think. For people who currently want private guidance: @letsdotarot

#evening reflection #personal #personnal #personnel #change my life

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recovery-nuovame · 1 year

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Stop Stop Stop. Thats enough.

I've gotten really big, right now I'll weigh at least 55/56 kg, and it's too much, I can't accept it.

My thighs rub when I walk, and for the first time in a long time, I no longer have the thin gap.

Now I have to think about what to do, but I have to start a diet again. I can't go on like this anymore, I hate myself, I'm huge and I suck.

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thesingingrevolution · 7 months

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#the last one is insane #change my life #riize sungchan

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mildlylesbian · 10 months

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I don't know who needs to hear this but: Half ass it.

Are you too tired to wash the dishes? Do a half-assed job, only wash the ones you REALLY need.

Haven't swept in a while? Do a piss poor job of it. Only go over it once, it's cleaner than it was before!!!

Got a paper that's stressing you tf out? Half-ass it. You can go back later and make it better, right now just get that shit done.

Been ordering out all week and feel bad? Make a half-assed dinner. Pretend you're fucking 5 and throw some random tomatoe sauce on those noodles you haven't touched in a few weeks - it's homemade food!

Moral of the story: Half-assed is better than not doing it at all. Is this a self-call-out post? Yes, it is. But remember, it doesn't need to be perfect it just needs to be done.

#nes talks #nes rants #idk how to tag this #inspiring #inspiration #idk tags #the depression tag might fit but idk #half ass it my dudes #I did a half ass job at dishes the other night #change my life #aka my dishes were clean #but that's life changing!

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thatissooooofetch · 1 year

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Not me waiting for three ghost to come visit me at night and change my life.

#ghost of christmas past #ghost of christmas present #ghost of christmas yet to come #scroge #change my life #ghosts #christmas #holidays #holiday #new years #past #present #future

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derakhtesokoot · 1 year

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تو بندگی چو گدایان به شرط مزد مکن که دوست خود روش بنده پروری داند

#hafiz #change my life

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iqwest · 1 year

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Power of Thought - Don't Say I Can't

Training Our Minds Completely Wrong

When we say, "I can't", we are unknowingly training our mind for the exact results we don't want. Our minds are always listening and when we tell it, "I can't", it listens and moves forward with the direction we've just given it.

Don't believe me?

Remember the last time you were driving down the road and realized 10 minutes into the ride you don't remember a thing. I guarantee you were thinking about something, anything, but it most certainly had nothing to do with driving.

In fact, when you awaken from this haze it may not even dawn on you that you haven't been present whatsoever.

Sound familiar?

Thanks to our subconscious minds, all kinds of routine behaviors like this are taking place throughout the day. It's an automatic program we've created and trained over the span of our lives. With these inputs over the years, our subconscious minds run the scripts we've built and away we mindlessly go.

What's the Point?

If you don't like your life. Change it. How? By giving your mind a new set of inputs. Build a better script to replace the one currently letting you down.

Retraining Your Mind Is Easier Than You Think

It's like training for a marathon - sitting on the couch, visualizing crossing the finish line, only gets us so far. Sooner or later we need to put down the Doritos and go for a run. Only by changing the inputs can we obtain the skills needed to run the marathon.

Start with small steps and compound these steps routinely and consistently. When we do, results start to come through the new habits we're developing.

Retraining our mind is no different. When we change the input, we begin changing the outcome, but it's a process that takes time, so this is where most people quit.

Since they don't "see" change or the change isn't coming quickly enough, they give up.

Don't! This is where all the "magic" happens.

Since the process is slow, it's oftentimes not even noticeable in the beginning, so perseverance is a must.

When You Say, "I can't", You are Training Your Mind that It Can't, So It Won't

After my daughter's soccer game yesterday, she was frustrated that a player got around her numerous times. This player was faster than her. I could sympathize with her frustration, but not with her attitude.

She told me, "I couldn't defend her".

Why not, I asked? She rolled her eyes at what seemed to be such an obvious answer yet humored me and said, "because she was faster than me".

"True", I responded, but you could have defended her I said.

Unfortunately, my daughter had sold her mind on the idea that she couldn't defend this player. She told herself, "I can't", so that's what her mind set out to do. Subconsciously of course. Not intentionally.

What if My Daughter's Thought Process was Slightly Different?

Instead of being defeated, working under the obvious rationalization that this player couldn't be defended because of the differences in their speed, what if her thought was, "I can defend her, but I need to find another way to do it".

Then, her mind would have started identifying other ways to compensate.

Ex: What are her tendencies?

This player, 8 out of 10 times, went to her right. So I told my daughter, when she's in front of you, pressing down the field, take an angle to the right. You'll be right most of the time.

"But Dad, she's still faster than me, so she'll still be able to turn the corner and get around me".

Yes, I said, but she can only turn the corner when the angle you've taken is too tight. Give her some room and concentrate on getting down the field to where you know she's going 80% of the time.

Now, without being faster than her, you've stacked the odds in your favor that you'll be able to successfully defend her even though you're slower than her. This small change enables you to keep the player in front of you. It slows her down. And, it gives your teammates time to get in position to support you.

Don't Make This Harder Than it Needs to Be!

These seemingly small changes in mindset are the differentiators that can be used to enhance nearly everything we do in life.

By telling our minds that we need to look for new solutions we're training our mind to figure it out, so it naturally begins to look for solutions to figure things out.

Then, once we being to figure things out, our confidence grows, and the positive impact on our lives begins to manifest.

Again, change the input if you want to get another output otherwise crap in will continue to lead to crap out.

#mindset #change my life #change your mind #solutions #life goals #2023 goals #atomic habits #change #mind conditioning #retraining #understanding #confidence #personal development

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bimbotrainerbrighton · 11 months

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This will be you, thinking less, why? Because an empty head is a happy head and you don't want all that responsibility and stress hanging over you. Let's get rid of those nagging thoughts and anxieties and transform you into a bimbo goddess, desired by all.

Training will be a little tough at first, but you'll quickly adapt after a few weeks. East Sussex (England) only, but if you're willing to move here, then expect a lot of adventures!

Being a bimbo is fun, all you need to do is look pretty and be a good girl. Otherwise you get punished (humiliation along with some treats).

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w1tchm0ther · 1 year

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2023

A new year, full of opportunities. Will you use them? Will you live this year to your fULl POtenTIaL?

What does that even mean? How often have you fallen in love with someone's potential? Time to fall in love with life as it is.

Because life, I've learnt, is beautiful. It really is. There is nothing that compares. Take this morning. I woke up - without an alarm, I've abolished alarms in this house - just before sunrise. The colours! The crisp winter morning air! The cold ground beneath my feet! Yep, I ground myself on the patch of grass I have every morning. Life changing stuff.

Every single day, life on Earth decides over and over to just... live. Seemingly without a purpose. As in, nothing in nature needs resolutions. The birds don't think to themselves how they can sing more beautifully this year and fail after ten days. The trees don't think they've failed if they're still not throwing around pollen by day 5 of the year. (Even though I wish they did sometimes, the first ones seem to be getting ready...)

The only thing in nature making life a competition and trying to achieve some sort of perfect is the human being. We are part of nature. When did we forget this? What happened for so many people on Earth to forget this?

When did some proportion of humans think that they are more evolved than others because now they thought they were somehow different from nature; dominating it, in fact? What went wrong?

I'm sure there are answers. I'm sure there's a scientific explanation. But that's not what I'm looking for. What I'm looking for is the part in my heart that stayed humble and kept the knowledge alive that I am part of the whole. That each human life is worthy right now, in this moment. That there should not be a hierarchy of any sort. Makes me sad to think about all the people who think differently.

So, what does 2023 have in store?

I don't know. I've written down intentions for the different areas of my life. Prompted by a planner. This year, I will also define my five priorities and write down action steps. Something I didn't do last year because, as I've found out doing my shadow work, I didn't think I deserved that. And I didn't think I would make it happen anyway. How sad.

This year, I choose to think differently. I choose to think highly of myself and have a huge load of compassion for myself. Because I fucking deserve it, that's why. So do you.

I choose to always listen to my body and rest when it tells me to. I choose to always trust my gut, because it has never betrayed me. Humans have. So I've built walls. Impenetrable ones. I'm tearing them down this year. One of those intentions I set, you see. It terrifies me to let my guard down. And yet I've already made new friends tentatively doing this for a few months now.

2023 won't magically change my life. Those intentions won't magically change my life. What does change my life is showing up for myself. That's the one promise I make. Showing up. What is yours?

#2023 #2023 resolutions #change my life #thoughts

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lostsoontobefound · 1 year

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Aphantasia is one of those things I didn't know I had until someone made it clear my experience is not common.

I literally just assumed for 43 + years that people were exaggerating or being figurative when they talked about imagining something visually in their mind.

I’m still completely baffled by the aphantasia thing. It’s completely blowing my mind.

When people say they can “picture something in their mind” - do you actually mean you can SEE it? Like you can SEE the image in your “minds eye?”

I’ve always understood the “minds eye” to be..

like this:

I can imagine a house (for example). Like in my head I can imagine the concept of a house. It’s got walls, a roof, maybe even stick a little chimney on it? I can even imagine it’s surroundings and imagine the colours, the depth even...but they are all CONCEPTUAL...

I think the trick was to produce a name. That's very useful. It kind of allows people to identify what's unusual about them, I feel aphantasia is so difficult to discover because we all take our own experience to be the standard.

Until you have some moment of realization, I assume that everyone else is similar to me. And that reflects the fact that that visualization is a very private experience. It's something in your head, not something that other people can inspect and kind of check against the norm. And it’s quite easy to assume the language people are using to describe imagery is metaphorical… So it's easy to persuade yourself that that's the case.

#aphantasia #change my life #journey #self love #life is a journey #life is beautiful #reflexion

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charliesopus · 2 years

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Hello everyone; bear with me.

I’ve been absent for a while and in a very terrible mental place. The darkness is all consuming and I somehow manage to drag myself out always - I have a 6 year old who needs me and I can’t let myself fall away completely - yet the darkness always, always stinks it’s claws back in. It’s coming more and more frequently lately and it’s getting harder and harder to pull myself out of every time. My resolve is crumbling.

After an explosive mental breakdown the other day, I decided I couldn’t put off making this any longer. I tried and tried to find solutions within my abilities and limitations but unfortunately there’s just no end in sight.

So I’ve had to put my shame and embarrassment to the side and I’ve poured my heart and pain out into this and shared my story. It’s not comprehensive; there are things I still can’t put out there. But I desperately need help, even if I have to put myself in this uncomfortable, vulnerable position to ask for it. I cannot live like this anymore. It’s long; I have included a TL;DR but I felt people deserved the opportunity to look into my life and for me to be as transparent as I can be without causing further detriment to myself.

I know the world is suffering these days but if anyone is kind and generous enough to read, share or donate; I’d be eternally grateful. I’m always open for questions. Thank you for your time 🫶

https://gofund.me/d5bea433

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findingmyplaceintheworld99 · 2 years

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I have recently finished reading Loveless by Alice Oseman, and when I say this book has change my life I mean it. There were times while reading where I felt like I was being personally attacked, it hit close to home and helped me figure some of my shit out. I knew about the term asexual and had related to it some in the past.

Bit of background I dated a guy for five years, he asked me out when we were 18 and had just left high school, I said yes, I had never dated anyone so I thought why not. We had a lot in common, we liked all the same things and we were both introverts. We didn’t see each other very often, even when we lived 10 minutes away from each other, I was happy to text. It wasn’t until people I knew, who hadn’t been dating very long started getting engaged and moving in together when I realised, I didn’t want to live with him, I didn’t want to marry him. I did love him, but as I friend. So I ended it.

So here I am 2 months later, I’ve just finished Loveless, and I finally feel like I have answers. Just like the main character in the book I have began to realise that I have never had a crush in real life, when I think of perfect couples they are my fictional ships. I never had romantic feelings for my boyfriend or anyone.

I am an aromantic asexual.

That feels good to say. I have no idea what to do now. I have to figure my shit out and find my place in the world.

HELP ME!!!!!

#loveless #alice oseman #asexual #aromanitc #aromantic asexual #figuring myself out #coming out #help help help #lgbtq #change my life #reading

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