Brainwashing Yourself to Become Your Dream Girl: Lisa Glamour
Lisa Glamour, formally known as Lisa Hart, is another great youtuber that focuses on femininity. She has a wonderful French accent and a great belly dancer. Here are some notes from her teachings:
Don’t get triggered by everything. Stay pleasant and walk away.
What you permit you promote.
Work on yourself and raise your value.
Your presence becomes an asset.
Stop tolerating emotional vampires.
A high value woman knows no company is better than bad company.
Remove men from the pedestal, stop doing anything and everything for a man.
You are the prize no matter his status. Men want women.
You want safety as a divine feminine woman. You need to feel safe emotionally, physically, and financially.
A nonchalant, bad boy will not make you safe. Be attracted to safety not bad boys.
Stop allowing losers to have access to you.
Start thinking “my husband would never (blank)” whenever a guy is being inconsistent, rude, inconsiderate, rude, etc.
There is real love waiting for you.
Creating that expensive energy will get people, especially men, obsessed with you.
Be playful, put yourself first, focus on you and your happiness, focus on your own well-being
Do less for men and do more for you
Be obsessed with yourself
Feminine energy is not an act, it’s who you are
Do bonding activities with a man that creates dopamine
Take him off the pedestal, keep the mystery
Your life should be amazing with or without a man
“Anytime I walk in a room, everybody is fascinated by me.”
Stop changing your standards for your environment. Just change the environment that meets your standards
YOU ARE THAT WOMAN! You are that goddess.
Anytime you walk in a room, the room becomes more high valued
Speaking - Can speak multiple languages. Can express thoughts clearly even if vocabulary is limited. The listener understands their point.
Strong extroversion socially - can approach and talk to new people with ease, but also make them feel comfortable. Good at following up, asking questions and inserting little stories about themselves without exposing too much
Strong general knowledge / industry knowledge. They know what they’re talking about
Hard to please but not arrogant about it. They won’t readily accept a fact or opinion, even if the majority agrees - they’ll debate with it, think over it, play the devil’s advocate
Good posture
Strong set of principles and self control. There’s no shame in wanting to say, help someone, choose not to drink socially, buy a coffee for a poor person on the street; they don’t hesitate to do good deeds
Hygienic. Clean, groomed, well dressed, well maintained.
Observant and proactive at the same time. Can pick up on body language relatively easily - can sense discomfort or unease in someone and do something about it.
Have a strong sense of self identity. Can be opinionated but open to challenges.
On a dream girl journey, we want to basically brainwash ourselves to be the best version of ourselves. One way to do that is watching specific content to curate that dream girl. One youtuber I’ve been loving is Manifestelle. Here are some notes I’ve been taking so far:
Broke men love to project their insecurities and negativity on you. Don’t let them have access to you.
You shouldn’t be friends with men. Men look better when they are seen with you. They need to invest in you if they are to be seen with you.
As a woman, you are valuable just by existing.
Listen with your ears, not your triggers.
De-centering men is centering yourself and your desires.
I will never stop yapping about how important it is to get your basics right. If your base routine is not solid, no matter what you add on to it, it will never be sustainable.
most of us get motivated in the middle of the night, build an elaborate routine that we’ll follow for less than 2 days and we’re back to square one.
I get so many asks about girls getting stressed over their routine and how they should solve the issue. If your routine is stressing you out, you need to cut. It. Down.
this is a pyramid that will teach you to get the basics down and in what order.
if your foundation is strong, your base routine will be an unshakeable of your life.
if it is an unshakeable part of your life, you will slowly but surely get better at those things.
as you get better at those things, your confidence will increase.
as your confidence increases, you will be ready and motivated to take on more challenges.
Hello! I adore your blog, thank you so much for all the posts you have done! I’m a visual learner so I was wondering if you can recommend me some films or tv shows that have powerful role women or femme fatale main characters? For example, I love watching the Addams Family because Morticia gives me that vibes too, but I want to watch more than just one movie. Thank you, darling! ❤️
Hi love! I would say the protagonists in the following movies: