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I'm playing Assassin's Creed Rebellion and this happened in my mind.

Don't judge me.

(There's a fanfic too... 😅 https://archiveofourown.org/works/54801853 )

#yusuf tazim #alonso pinto #assassin's creed #assassin's creed rebellion

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#gaza #gaza massacre #gaza genocide #Youtube

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For your Kadolin loving heart

Thank you 💙

I could really use some Kadolin right now...

Big hug 🤗

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I wonder who is playing Assassin's Creed: Revelations at the moment... 🤭

#assassin's creed #yusuf tazim #fanart #sketch

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I have a lot of folders full of OCs who haven't seen the light of the internet yet and today I decided to change that...

Meet Dagnir and Ereg, two DnD OCs (my wife's and mine).

They have a story which hasn't been written in detail, but they exist, I love them and I wanted to share this image of them that came to me last night.

Hope you enjoy ^^

#oc art #ocs #lgbtq #dnd character #cute and cuddly

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✨️When you get this ask you have to put 5 songs you listen to, post it, then send this ask to 10 of your favorite followers (positive vibes are cool)🎶

These are some of the songs that make me happy everytime I hear them:

"Chasing echoes" by Poets of the Fall

"Hogar" by Izal

"Rise above this" by Seether

"I'll be fine" by Leslie Roy

"Crossing a line" by Mike Shinoda

Thanks for this ask! I'll leave the links to the songs below.

About the tagging, I invite anyone who sees this and feels like sharing! ^_^

#music #ask game #poets of the fall #izal #seether #lesley roy #mike shinoda #songs

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If you could ask/bribe/convince people to read just one of your fics - not necessarily your best, not the one that you think summarizes your style, not even your favorite, but the one you want people to read the very most for whatever reason - which one would it be?

And if you feel comfortable, why that one?

I think it would be this one:

As for the why, I'd say it's because it's short, to the point, simple but nuanced at the same time. Also because it talks about connection beyond words, communication, understanding and that pure and simple emotion of feeling comfortable with someone who shares how you feel. Someone who reaches out to you the same as you reach out to them. The harmony between two people who understand each other deeply and have no other pretense than knowing each other and being by each other's side.

Obviously, it's Brandon Sanderson's merit to have created these two characters, but I loved to explore such a pure and deep relationship and imagine how it came to be.

Thanks for this ask, @cosmereplay . I've been disconnected from fanfiction, this saga and Tumblr for a while, and it gave me grerat pleasure to come back to all of it. Big hug ^_^

#asks #on fanfiction #stormlight archive #renarin #rlain

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I'm alive and I'm doing... things.

#art #drafts #figure drawing

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Sometimes I reflect about why I do the things I do. Like why I write about bisexual men.

Sometimes, I even write it down =D

#lgtbq #bisexuality #bisexual men #gender

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I love the kittens, Sean and Hobie (from the spiderverse); communication in general brings happiness (I’ll be glad to chat with you!); music die antwoord and ru-music; walking in snowy weather gives you a lot of dopamine. 🤓🎉 (mutual maybe?)

Thanks for answering! Kittens are always nice ^^ And I totally agree with what you say about communication ^^ Snow I don't have much where I live, but I get the feeling.

And I would love to chat with you anytime ^_^

#ask game

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List 5 things that make you happy, then put this in the askbox for the last 10 people who liked or reblogged something from you! Get to know your mutuals, followers and all the wonderful people on here!

Let's go! ^_^

My chosen family, which includes my wife and my friends. I treasure our connection and all the precious moments we spend together, even if they are fewer than I wish they were.

My creativity. My ability to imagine and create things allows me to express myself and share it with others and, maybe, make them happy too.

My recently acquired inner peace. Lately, I'm feeling calm and I'm being able to navigate my feelings without getting dragged by them. It's something new for me and it gives me a nice feeling of wholeness and strength.

My resilience. I've been through rough patches, but I've always been able to heal and to find enthusiasm and hope again. We humans are tough that way. Life before death.

The small things. A hot cup of tea. The smell of a book. A warm bed. The wind in my face. A smile. A hug. Those little moments of connection. The feeling you get when you help someone, even if it's with something seemingly insignificant. And the ability of appreciating all of it.

Thanks for asking, @g0ddess-of-the-moon . It was nice to reflect on this ^_^

Oh, and to the people I asked, don't feel obligated to answer. Do it just if you feel like it ^_^

#happiness #ask game #get to know you

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Olive Paper, from the Nightfall saga by @pvbrett . Feels so good to contribute to his Hidden Queen ARC Contest and the fanart base fo this books in general ^^

As a non-binary person, it was so good for me to read Olive's point of view and experience with gender. Thanks for that, Mr Brett!

#lgtbq #olive paper #hidden queen #nightfall saga #desert prince #fanart #non binary

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Things That May Be Causing Your Writer's Block- and How to Beat Them

I don't like the term 'Writer's Block' - not because it isn't real, but because the term is so vague that it's useless. Hundreds of issues all get lumped together under this one umbrella, making writer's block seem like this all-powerful boogeyman that's impossible to beat. Worse yet, it leaves people giving and receiving advice that is completely ineffective because people often don't realize they're talking about entirely different issues.

In my experience, the key to beating writer's block is figuring out what the block even is, so I put together a list of Actual Reasons why you may be struggling to write:

(note that any case of writer's block is usually a mix of two or more)

Perfectionism (most common)

What it looks like:

You write one sentence and spend the next hour googling "synonyms for ___"

Write. Erase. Write. Rewrite. Erase.

Should I even start writing this scene when I haven't figured out this one specific detail yet?

I hate everything I write

Cringing while writing

My first draft must be perfect, or else I'm a terrible writer

Things that can help:

Give yourself permission to suck

Keep in mind that nothing you write is going to be perfect, especially your first draft

Think of writing your first/early drafts not as writing, but sketching out a loose foundation to build upon later

People write multiple drafts for a reason: write now, edit later

Stop googling synonyms and save that for editing

Write with a pen to reduce temptation to erase

Embrace leaving blank spaces in your writing when you can't think of the right word, name, or detail

It's okay if your writing sucks. We all suck at some point. Embrace the growth mindset, and focus on getting words on a page

Lack of inspiration (easiest to fix)

What it looks like:

Head empty, no ideas

What do I even write about???

I don't have a plot, I just have an image

Want to write but no story to write

Things that can help:

Google writing prompts

If writing prompts aren't your thing, instead try thinking about what kind of tropes/genres/story elements you would like to try out

Instead of thinking about the story you would like to write, think about the story you would like to read, and write that

It's okay if you don't have a fully fleshed out story idea. Even if it's just an image or a line of dialogue, it's okay to write that. A story may or may not come out of it, but at least you got the creative juices flowing

Stop writing. Step away from your desk and let yourself naturally get inspired. Go for a walk, read a book, travel, play video games, research history, etc. Don't force ideas, but do open up your mind to them

If you're like me, world-building may come more naturally than plotting. Design the world first and let the story come later

Boredom/Understimulation (lost the flow)

What it looks like:

I know I should be writing but uugggghhhh I just can'tttttt

Writing words feels like pulling teeth

I started writing, but then I got bored/distracted

I enjoy the idea of writing, but the actual process makes me want to throw my laptop out the window

Things that can help:

Introduce stimulation: snacks, beverages, gum, music such as lo-fi, blankets, decorate your writing space, get a clickity-clackity keyboard, etc.

Add variety: write in a new location, try a new idea/different story for a day or so, switch up how you write (pen and paper vs. computer) or try voice recording or text-to-speech

Gamify writing: create an arbitrary challenge, such as trying to see how many words you can write in a set time and try to beat your high score

Find a writing buddy or join a writer's group

Give yourself a reward for every writing milestone, even if it's just writing a paragraph

Ask yourself whether this project you're working on is something you really want to be doing, and be honest with your answer

Intimidation/Procrastination (often related to perfectionism, but not always)

What it looks like:

I was feeling really motivated to write, but then I opened my laptop

I don't even know where to start

I love writing, but I can never seem to get started

I'll write tomorrow. I mean next week. Next month? Next month, I swear (doesn't write next month)

Can't find the time or energy

Unreasonable expectations (I should be able to write 10,000 words a day, right????)

Feeling discouraged and wondering why I'm even trying

Things that can help:

Follow the 2 min rule (or the 1 paragraph rule, which works better for me): whenever you sit down to write, tell yourself that you are only going to write for 2 minutes. If you feel like continuing once the 2 mins are up, go for it! Otherwise, stop. Force yourself to start but DO NOT force yourself to continue unless you feel like it. The more often you do this, the easier it will be to get started

Make getting started as easy as possible (i.e. minimize barriers: if getting up to get a notebook is stopping you from getting started, then write in the notes app of your phone)

Commit to a routine that will work for you. Baby steps are important here. Go with something that feels reasonable: every day, every other day, once a week, twice a week, and use cues to help you remember to start. If you chose a set time to write, just make sure that it's a time that feels natural to you- i.e. don't force yourself to writing at 9am every morning if you're not a morning person

Find a friend or a writing buddy you can trust and talk it out or share a piece of work you're proud of. Sometimes we just get a bit bogged down by criticism- either internal or external- and need a few words of encouragement

The Problem's Not You, It's Your Story (or Outline (or Process))

What it looks like:

I have no problems writing other scenes, it's just this scene

I started writing, but now I have no idea where I'm going

I don't think I'm doing this right

What's an outline?

Drowning in documents

This. Doesn't. Make. Sense. How do I get from this plot point to this one?!?!?! (this ColeyDoesThings quote lives in my head rent free cause BOY have I been there)

Things That Can Help:

Go back to the drawing board. Really try to get at the root of why a scene or story isn't working

A part of growing as a writer is learning when to kill your darlings. Sometimes you're trying to force an idea or scene that just doesn't work and you need to let it go

If you don't have an outline, write one

If you have an outline and it isn't working, rewrite it, or look up different ways to structure it

You may be trying to write as a pantser when you're really a plotter or vice versa. Experiment with different writing processes and see what feels most natural

Study story structures, starting with the three act structure. Even if you don't use them, you should know them

Check out Ellen Brock on YouTube. She's a professional novel editor who has a lot of advice on writing strategies for different types of writers

Also check out Savage Books on YouTube (another professional story editor) for advice on story structure and dialogue. Seriously, I cannot recommend this guy enough

Executive Dysfunction, Usually From ADHD/Autism

What it looks like:

Everything in boredom/understimulation

Everything in intimidation/procrastination

You have been diagnosed with and/or have symptoms of ADHD/Autism

Things that can help:

If you haven't already, seek a diagnosis or professional treatment

Hire an ADHD coach or other specialist that can help you work with your brain (I use Shimmer; feel free to DM me for a referral)

Seek out neurodiverse and neurodiverse writing communities for advice and support

Try body doubling! There's lot's of free online body doubling websites out there for you to try. If social anxiety is a barrier, start out with writing streams such as katecavanaughwrites on Twitch

Be aware of any sensory barriers that may be getting in the way of you writing (such as an uncomfortable desk chair, harsh lighting, bad sounds)

And Lastly, Burnout, Depression, or Other Mental Illness

What it looks like:

You have symptoms of burnout or depression

Struggling with all things, not just writing

It's more than a lack of motivation- the spark is just dead

Things that can help:

Forget writing for now. Focus on healing first.

Seek professional help

If you feel like it, use writing as a way to explore your feelings. It can take the form of journaling, poetry, an abstract reflection of your thoughts, narrative essays, or exploring what you're feeling through your fictional characters. The last two helped me rediscover my love of writing after I thought years of depression had killed it for good. Just don't force yourself to do so, and stop if it takes you to a darker place instead of feeling cathartic

#on writing #writer's block

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A fanart I made of Darin Bales, Selen Cutter and Olive Paper, for Mr @pvbrett 's "Hidden Queen ARC Contest". I'm so honored he mentioned me in his social media profiles! Thank you, Mr Brett! 🥰

#nightfall saga #peter v brett #desert prince #darin bales #selen cutter #olive paper #hidden queen

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#symbiosis #authors #artists #fanfiction #fanarts

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A big Joey hug to you, Matthew.

#matthew perry

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Hi hello! Thanks for the tag @cosmereplay !

Last song: La mujer de Verde ("The woman in green") by Izal. I heard it in a wedding, while dancing with my wife and was such an emotional moment. I've had it in my head since and I've been listening to the band a lot. But, as always, I arrive late: the band is splitting 😭

Currently watching: The Wheel of Time s02 (my wife is a total fan of the books and discovers to me how much of Sanderson's work is inspired by them); Star Trek: The Next Generation (an oldie I totally recommend); and a bunch of more or less silly-cute animes from time to time 😅

Last movie/book: I've read the book Jude saves the world by Ronnie Riley (tells the life of a non-binary teenager) and the graphic novel Genderqueer by Maia Kobabe (an autobiography). I totally recommend both 🏳️‍🌈 The last movie was If you were the last, a kinda unusual (and fun) romcom with a non-white couple.

Sweet/savory/spicy: Always / Please / Within measure 😅

Last thing googled: "learn Euskara", because I knew there was a nice web that had a free course for learning the language, but I didn't remember 😋

Relationship status: I've been with my wife for 11 years (4 years married). We have a deep connection, we're so in sync and we make such a good team. Going through the process of realizing that I'm theoretically polyamorous, but taking it slowly 😅

Current obsession: a long-lasting Shakadolin fixation (Stormlight Archive), Sean Diaz adoration (Life is Strange 2) and need to look into any poly/queer thing I get my hands on.

Tagging @g0ddess-of-the-moon and whoever wants to play!

#tag game