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foolishlovers · 4 months

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just sunday activities

#baby jesus who???#never heard of him #only biblical figure i care about his bildad #🤷🏼‍♀️#good omens #gomens #bildad the shuhite #shuhite sunday #good omens shitpost #foolish talks

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fantasiees · 28 days

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Don't listen to this in public pt 3?

#(this one is longer)#it's for my album!!#sounds like i'm saying stuff #but i'm not #cause #had stuff in my mouth #so #🤷🏼‍♀️#me #mine #🎶🎶🎶

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fangsyouverymuch01 · 2 months

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The most unrealistic thing about bdg 3 is not the evil flying mega brain but the fact that every companion is insanely fuckable

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lambda-serpentis · 3 months

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So you know when Arthur accepts to dance a little with Mary Beth when Sean comes back?

That's the moment that made me think "ah... look at artur look at him. I want his children now. I want him in ways that are concerning to feminism and everything good in this world"

#🤷🏼‍♀️#arthur morgan #arthur morgan x reader #rdr 2 #red dead redemption 2 #rdr2 #rdr #red dead redemption

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forgedroyalseal · 2 months

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The fact that Horace was never given the opportunity to say “dude” is something I’ll never get over

#and if this is an empty or low effort post that someone’s gonna complain about #🤷🏼‍♀️#it’s just a fact #rangers apprentice #ranger's apprentice #horace altman

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piperholmes · 13 days

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I wasn’t planning on writing anything about Chenford because I’m not trying to start an argument (not that I expected many will read this any way 🤣), but I have a lot of thoughts jumbled up. I think it would be helpful for me to just get them down, so I am better able to absorb what has been shared by others. I love a good discussion! Especially one centered around some form of literature.

(If you are reading this, then just let me preface with this is me really just free writing what’s going through my head. I definitely am not telling anyone else how to feel, react, or process this storyline—nor do I expect anyone to agree with my ramblings.)

For me, I think a major issue I have is with the breakup trope itself—particularly the “I’m not good enough for you, so I can’t be with you” trope. In my experience, this argument usually comes from the male character in a relationship. Romance novels are riddled with this set up; I’ve seen it in films and television plenty of times. It almost always comes from the guy. (And I acknowledge the majority of media I consume is M/F romance). The problem I have reconciling this concept is because it feels like this happens because the guy in the relationship feels comfortable and is willing to make the decision for both of them, and is often unwilling to listen to his partner’s thoughts or feelings. There is something inherently misogynistic in that, and it has never sat well with me.

I thought a lot about why Tim was upset about the 5 player trade, and while I don’t think the show did a particularly good job of explaining it, I think it boils down to the fact that Lucy made a decision about Tim’s life without talking to him about it. Even though it came from a sincere, caring place and had (for Tim at least) a positive outcome, it wasn’t right for her to make that decision on her own. If the argument is being made that Tim is walking away from their relationship because he feels (right or wrong) it’s best for Lucy, it just seems odd to me that Tim would choose to (essentially) do the same thing to Lucy after it was so upsetting to him.

Now, was Tim in a heightened emotional state? Absolutely. Does that impact a person’s reasoning? 100% But I think where this situation breaks with what has been established, is Tim’s choice to just walk away without discussion. Something that made me fall in love with Chenford in the first place was Tim’s willingness to listen to Lucy even when he was emotionally struggling. Outside Isabel’s apartment with the drugs, when she got on to him about being pissed over the report following the virus scare, his later acknowledgment over his behavior in the pilot with the Hispanic gentleman, and so on. To have Tim just walk away from her communicates one of two things: either he was willing to make the decision but wasn’t willing to deal with the consequences or he was so convinced he was right, he wasn’t interested in what Lucy would have to say. Neither are a particularly good look for Tim, and, again, why I just don’t really like this trope. (I would be saying the same thing about Lucy if she were the one doing this-in fact, I think she seriously mishandled her break up with Chris, but I definitely wasn’t emotionally invested in their relationship. So, sorry Chris; you don’t get a post 🤣).

Another aspect of the trope I find ridiculous is how it should essentially impact all relationships this character has; if Tim isn’t good enough to be with Lucy as a romantic partner then he should feel that way about being a friend to Lopez, a brother to Genny, an uncle to her kids, and so on. Otherwise, to isolate this feeling to specifically the romantic partner is just…weird? “I’m going to end our relationship because you deserve better, but just you. I’m going to keep all my other relationships.” Like, I don’t know, that just feels super icky. And, based on the preview for the next new episode, it definitely seems like Tim is going to spiral into pushing people away/isolating, but where is the line drawn? What if Tim had a kid? (And I know hypotheticals are probably not the best here, but I warned this would be meandering 🤪) Would he walk away from his own kid because he didn’t feel good enough? That definitely doesn’t make sense to me, but, again, it just highlights the pitfalls I run into with the trope itself and why I cringe when it is used. My view of Tim—and by extension Chenford—is now informed by what I see as the implications of the trope.

It’s incredibly off putting that now Tim and Lucy’s parents (oh, gosh, and I just realized, even Nolan) essentially fall into the same category. Do you think Lucy’s parents were so dismissive of her wants and hurtful because they hated her or didn’t love her? I am 100% sure it’s because they thought they were loving her. It doesn’t make it right or healthy, but I’m sure they thought they were doing what was best for Lucy. And John made the decision to end their relationship to “protect” Lucy, and I remember thinking the same thing about him that I think about Tim now. I really thought Tim was different and understood what Lucy had been through in her life, and, ultimately at this point, makes me question how I feel about Chenford overall.

I also want to say that I don’t begrudge Tim acknowledging something in him that wants to change and be better (openly encourage such self reflection and growth in fact). I’m also (pretty) sure this will ultimately lead back to then getting back together, and maybe even Tim being a better partner. I’m simply saying that using this particular trope in order to facilitate that doesn’t vibe with what I believe the show has established about Chenford, and it would have been very interesting (and, for me, preferable) to see how they could have told that story avoiding this cliche. That’s all.

Ok, if anybody made it this far, thanks for sticking with it. I’m always open and interested in differing perspectives and interpretations, and nothing I’ve said is my set-in-stone opinion, just my current opinion 😜.

#chenford #Tim Bradford #Lucy Chen #I guess what I’m saying is #that Lucy Chen should be protected #at all costs #I just never thought that would include #being protected from Tim Bradford #🤷🏼‍♀️

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mickf1loverf2too · 8 days

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Is it just me or most of the time I see something from Williams on social media it’s most of the time Alex. Like hello dear people you still have a second driver 🤦🏼‍♀️

#f1 #logan sargeant #formula one #williams racing #alexander albon #alex albon #just my feeling and opinion #sorry not sorry #🤷🏼‍♀️

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the-writing-mobster · 7 months

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Ayo where team Sans be at, love?

This is all he deserves, love. 🫶🏻

#i dun wanna #🤷🏼‍♀️#ask and answer #you're free to make sk! fanclub stuff on your own time tho! 🫶🏻#tmdg #in fact I encourage it #maybe I'll even add to it if you set up a stand like Mari had #😏#the most dangerous game #sk! sans #serial killer! sans #serial killer au #thank you for the ask #sona #authorsona #mob talks

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marmeladeskies · 1 year

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I did not predict Tomgreg canon at all, instead I used my voice to warn people they are setting themselves up for disappointment. But with what we actually got regarding them this season, even I am disappointed.

#tomgreg #i expected the relationship to continue escalating on the psychological level as per previous seasons trend #my bad i guess #actually projecting dissatisfaction with something irl here don't mind md #point stands however #🤷🏼‍♀️

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agirlyouknow · 1 month

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Didn’t you know? It’s fae season ✨

#me #buy me a joint pretty please?#and send me a message if you’d pay for the exxxplicit photos I took #I’m curious if it’s a route to pursue #🤷🏼‍♀️

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jedifighterpilot2727 · 8 months

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Whenever I write Kara fawning over how beautiful Lena is, just know that it’s very self insert. Because every time I’m on tumblr and I see a picture of Katie McGrath, I think that it must be the best picture of Katie McGrath to ever exist but then I keep scrolling and see another picture of Katie McGrath

#katie mcgrath #🤷🏼‍♀️#she’s gorgeous #I don’t make the rules #but if I did then Katie McGrath would still be beautiful #lena luthor

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lllostgirlll · 1 year

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