#Chasers

[pumpomulos]

#not mine #memes #196 #pumpomulos #memez #zoomerchan #girlblog #traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns #traa #trans memes #chasers

[stopcannibalizingourown]

This isn’t like an expansive treatise on gender, carefully plotted out to disclaim every bad faith interpretation I can think of, so please keep that in mind in any responses to this post, but. From a conversation with a friend:

Trans women 🤝 AFAB non-binary people

Being shoved into the category of "spicy exotic new type of woman" by chasers

#transmisogyny #exorsexism #chasers

[ryan-sometimes]

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#idek what to tag this #transphobia doesn’t feel quite accurate #chasers #?

[thatbitch151]

I was talking with my mom today about the fetishization of trans people and how it’s bad to sexualize us and she said “well you can’t control what you’re attracted to.”

And I had to explain to her that yes, you are allowed to be attracted to trans people, you are allowed to be More attracted to trans people than cis people, hell you are allowed to exclusively be attracted to trans people. The problem is when trans people stop being people to them, and start being sexual objects instead.

You still have to treat us as human beings, not just a man with an extra hole or a girl with a dick to use purely for your sexual fantasies (unless previously discussed with said trans person and they fully consent to it, in which case go for it and have fun).

You can’t help what your attracted to, but you Can help your actions and how you view people, and if you start to view literal human beings as just elaborate sex toys there is something wrong.

#trans #transgender #fetishization #chasers #chaser

[superpoorlifechoices]

#HUMAN PET GUY #CHASERS #OH GOD WHY WOULD YOU POST THIS AT 9AM ON A TUESDAY MORNING #I AM SCREAMING AAAAAAAAAAA #aaaaaaaaaAAAAAAAÄÄÄÄÂAAAAAaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAaaaAAAÅÅÅÅÅÅ

[t4transsexual]

ok any other trans guys and adjacent start noticing chasers by how often they call you a "boy" in a sentence? like the more they say "boy" the more of a chaser they are? like you know theyre trying to be gender affirming but like you know THE REASON theyre trying to be gender affirming ykwim?

#this is mostly cis male chasers btw #and dont get me started on the chasers that start a conversation w like #smth innocent #'hey bro! how are you?' #'hey man!' #like dont you fucking lie to me #i know what u want from me lmfao #trans #transmasc #trans man #nonbinary #genderfluid #chasers

[fucktoyfelix]

People talk a lot of shit about chasers but honestly, even the worst chaser is less annoying to me than the cis people who say "looking for cis females only"

#chasers>super straights #transphobia #chasers

[nervoustragedyluminary]

On cis chasers: (cw discussion of transphobic abuse from chasers)

If you're dating a cis person who seems supportive at first who says all the right things... but who becomes less so as you begin to legally socially or medically transition, or who begins to insult your body or transition or repeatedly says things/"jokes" that make you dysphoric (even after you tell them it hurts you) they are probably a chaser. You deserve better than that and will likely be better off and safer leaving them

Often chasers like other abusers start off with love bombing: they'll tell you everything you want to hear, say all the right words & appear like the ideal ally or like someone genuinely trying, they might even do token actions of support that seem like grand gestures at the time like helping with clothes binders gaffs etc. They may move you in with them or take you on vacation or on lavish dates - you'll feel over the moon and so lucky you'll also start to feel reliant on them or like they're "rescuing" you....

You may in time start to notice a one sided shape to the relationship where they'll expect you to be ready for them at a moments notice and rage if you have other plans but ignore you when you make plans with them and dismiss your hurt at being stood up. They may refuse to go out in public with you or seem hesitant to make things "official" or be seen with you but lash out and guilt you when you try to pull away,.

there will likely be double standards where what is acceptable for them eg seeing other people in an open relationship is suddenly completely unacceptable if you also do it.

Behind all this driving this behaviour is cis supremacy - they see you as inferior to them due to your transness and thus not deserving of the same level of respect they expect to be treated with; they may treat cis partners respectfully or they may also be abusive to them in different ways. If you're in an open or polyam situation they may triangulate you against other partners or try to make it seem as though you're in competition with them or tell them that other partner/s dislike you to discourage communication. If you do communicate with other partners openly they may throw tantrums yell at you or accuse you of cheating or betraying them because they want to be in control of not only your relationship with them but also your relationship/s with other partners and you communicating or interacting directly without them as an intermediary challenges that control

With a chaser often once you start talking about or taking concrete steps towards medical or legal transition they will find ways to discourage you, try to sabotage or stop you from transitioning.

it might be them blatantly telling you that it's disgusting to transition, talking about their love for and attraction to body parts they know make you dysphoric, they might say they won't love you if you do xyz to your body, they might threaten to harm themselves, they might physically touch or hurt you in certain areas or try to sabotage your healing from surgery if you've had it, they may hide letters from Drs and lie about not having received them or call Dr's to cancel your appointments. This is not okay behaviour.

It might be more subtle and manipulative in such a way where they try to make it seem like they're looking out for you or like it's your idea to pause your transition by telling you not to change your gender on your legal papers/ID & exaggerating the risk or disruption of doing it in countries where it isn't a safety risk, they might promise to support you then cancel last minute leaving you in the lurch and blaming you for their refusal to communicate in a timely manner, they might steal money from you or try to get you fired or threaten your housing. None of this is okay.

It's not your fault BTW if this happens to you. Abusive and chasey trans partners also exist and can do these things too but overwhelmingly it's cis chasers who tend to do this shit and leverage their cis privilege to do this sort of violence with little to no consequence for the abuse, often they'll just move onto the next victim.

Note that This is different to a cis partner discovering that they're no longer attracted to you as a trans person because your gender no longer lines up with what they're attracted to:

a non abusive cis partner who is experiencing that may physically withdraw and end the relationship or talk with you about these feelings and the guilt that's usually associated with ending a relationship under these circumstances but it won't be with the tone of trying to use the potential continuation of the relationship to coerce you into desisting in your transition - it'll be more of a trying to figure out where you both stand and how you can move forward conversation and they won't insult you.

This does hurt but it is infinitely more respectful than someone who lies to you about supporting your transition and then tries to sabotage it or hurt you to force you to detransition because they refuse to see you as yourself if they aren't attracted to you or if they enjoy the feeling of power they get from forcibly detransitioning someone or controlling them with dysphoria - a chaser will use dysphoria and transphobia and the threat of violence form them or others to control you-they don't want you to transition and alleviate your dysphoria because then they have less "tools" of controlling you in the relationship & keeping you reliant on them for validation

You don't deserve it and you don't have to endure it - they know what they're doing is wrong and they don't care that it is hurting you. Often they'll brag to others about what they are doing or try to frame it as a kink and appropriate kink terms and be fixated on trans fetish porn misgendering kink or detransition or breeding kink ( note: this is different from consensual gender detransition /forcefem/forcemasc play which some people do consensually and safely indulge in and enjoy - just like how CNC isn't the same as actually wanting to be sexually assaulted )

Please be safe and reach out for help if you're ever in a situation like this.

#Chasers #Transphobia #Abuse #transandrophobia #Transmisogyny #Antitransmasculinity #exorsexism

[my-sandwich-it-was-innocent]

To the old man that just hit on me at work.

1. You are married

2. I am at work

3. You just fucking outed me as being trans by asking if my boobs were real

4. You incorrectly gendered me

5. you fucking objectified me to your kink

I'm not gonna fuck you, I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to express your sexuality but to a cashier half your age waiting to get off work in 10 minutes who is already pissed you came in 15 before close is not the time or place.

If I didn't feel pity I would've outted you to your wife

#dude had the Charisma of a min maxed barbarian #transfem #chasers

[estrogeneral-intelligence]

Oh you have a cock? Prove it. Take multiple pictures from multiple angles, hard and soft, hanging loosely and you holding it in your hand. Also I wanna make sure it's working properly so post a couple videos of you nutting. Make sure to take a few pics of you squeezing your balls too just to enforce the idea

Hey fellow queers, new chaser copypasta just dropped.

#ask byn #chaser #chasers

[evelynquack]

Like, I guess, can a trans person fetishise trans bodies? Or are they just being an exceptionally horny t4t person?

I’ve got little to no clue: I’ve been going in circles thinking about this, and then I thought, “hey why don’t I get some peer review in here lol?” and proceeded to make this poll.

#trans #chaser #chasers #trangender #transfem #transmasc #nonbinary #trans woman #trans man #poll #polls

[nocternalrandomness]

Chasers at Grand Junction Regional Airport, Colorado

#NASA #Chase aircraft #Northrop #T-38 #Talon #Chasers #Chase planes #Jet photos #Airplanes

[aat2184]

Harry whispering: Don't look now, but that photographer was looking for the famous Chaser he just saw passing by a while ago...

Harry loved when Ginny was recognized and he wasn't.

#harry potter #ginny weasley #hinny #ginny potter #harry and ginny #hinny fanart #harry james potter #harry x ginny #harrypotter #ginevra molly weasley #married hinny #quidditch #chasers #holyhead harpies

[ashes2caches]

chaser blogs be like “woah momma 🤯 nice pebis 😎 but have you considered 🤔 mine??? 🤩🤩🤩”

#196 #rule #196 campfire #r196 #trans #queer #transfem #chasers #meme