#also appreciate the reassurance

[jackienautism]

HOW MANY TIMES DO WE HAVE TO TEACH YOU THIS LESSON OLD MAN.GIF.... ALL THE UD CHARS SUCK!!!!! NOT JUST ONE OR TWO... THEY ALL DO!!!!! haha hey that rhymed. anyway. not a single person can take ALL of the blame especially not for another character's behaviour and ESPECIALLY not for the prank (even if potentially peer pressured they are still very much complicit etc). "criticising" (in quotes bc its usually just. hate) a single character exclusively is not??? a good way to tackle the characters when they all have at least one thing to be critical about. so yeah total agreement abt that post, blaming only emily for matt's behaviour is absolutely wild especially for prologue stuff

EXACTLY EXACTLY!!! and i appreciate the spongebob reference WEHEE BUT YEAH . THEYRE ALL ASSHOLES..... and even characters like sam and matt, theyre still involved w/ said assholes, meaning theyre not entirely innocent yk. youre def more so able to argue abt sam (since i personally believe she wasnt a part of the group to begin with, just more w/ beth and hannah) but even then..... we barely know anything abt hannah and beth, even they could be dicks whoknows, since they were still involved w/ mike ash emily etc etc. THEYRE ALL MFS!!!!!!!THATS MY POINT. even the more "innocent" characters such as matt sam beth + hannah

and RIGHT? putting all the blame onto one character is just ????? it doesnt make sense to me. even for the prank, it wasnt all just jess' fault, mike was JUSt as involved. even em too. and everyone else as well? they all were complicit and THERE where the prank happened. yes peer pressure is def a reason to make you think twice abt someone's motivations / involvementin the prank, but regardless!!! they still were all involved in hurting hannah!!!!!!

but youre absolutely right! singling out and "criticizing" one character (when EVERYONE is just as guilty) just shows to me how hypocritical you are LOL

AND YEAH RIGHT? YOU CAN TBLAME EMILY FOR MATT'S BEHAVIOR.... ESP IN THE PROLOGUE,.... BC AT THAT POINT, THEY WERENT EVEN DATING??????? and after thjat! matt's behavior in the actual game isnt even >>>??????????? BAD? SO IDK WTF THEY WERE TALKING ABT LOL it just seemed like a poor excuse to accuse and singl eout emily... aka already THE most hated until dawn character..... ugh

and like. not to point fingers at things that may not be100% true but . ofc its the one woman of color LOL and an ASIAN girl at that. aka . ppl who have been characterized as unempathetic and mean and cold since the beginning of time .

singling out a character just shows that you dont understand 1. that character youre singling out or 2. ANY OF THE OTHER CHARACTERS IN TEH GAME

but anyway. sometimes a fandom is you and the like 4 people youre okay with and thats okay❤️

#thank you for sending this in! #also appreciate the reassurance #mine #text #asks #anon #until dawn #my UD tag #UD

[egophiliac]

redesigning my headcanon for Sebek's parents, based on important new information (SCALES)

(you can't see it but they're both wearing crocs)

#art #twisted wonderland #twisted wonderland spoilers #twisted wonderland episode 7 spoilers #twisted wonderland book 7 spoilers #they are truly the most inspiring love story of our generation #though i guess he's not dr. zigvolt since zigvolt is the clan name... #unless he took her name which i absolutely could see. why would you ever not want to be called zigvolt. #this does tie nicely in with my headcanon that sebek's siblings got more of the fae features than he did #and he has a Complex about it #i get the impression that sebek's siblings are much closer in age to each other and also have more of their dad's chill #so sebek is sort of the baby of the family and he's got a Complex about that too #i think a lot about the zigvolt family for characters who have never actually appeared #on the subject of actual canon though #i do actually really appreciate that both sebek and silver each had a little moment of reassuring each other #that this is 400 years ago and also incredibly unfortunate circumstances #and present-day reality lilia and baul love them very much #(i do think sebek is secretly baul's favorite grandkid) #it was just nice to see! especially from sebek! he is sometimes a very thoughtful boy and it's always nice to see that side of him #sebek trying SO hard to get baul to like him though 😭 #and lilia being like 'aw i think you're getting kind of fond of him :)' #i love. Characters.

[quasarifxxy]

Fanfics:

Kazuki paused. Slowly, he approached Rei, a concerned look on his face.

"Of course, she would."

Anime:

#buddy daddies #kazuki kurusu #rei suwa #HONESTLY HE IS HILARIOUS #the extra dramatic malewife of the century #kazurei #also i kept on laughing in this scene like whyd u have to do him like that kazuki nwsjdnn #i mean. he is right tho #jokes aside can we appreciate how reassuring and patient kazuki is with rei throughout the entire episde

[guardian-angle22]

911: Lone Star | TK Strand & Carlos Reyes in S4E12

#911 lone star #911lsedit #tarlos #tk strand #carlos reyes #tw: alcohol #this scene has probably already been giffed a bunch already but who cares #I just love tk in this scene in particular #his plaid shirt #him cooking dinner and lighting candles and getting wine all for carlos #but also seeing carlos' reaction to it all and knowing he needed to be reassured that tk wasn't doing this to get him to change his mind #such a small part of it but so important #making clear that tk is doing this not to manipulate feelings but to show love and appreciation #but again... the plaid shirt. I just love the plaid shirt on tk ngl lol #maybe another outfit appreciation post is needed for that one #my gifs #long post #episode: s04e12 swipe left

[chloecherrysip]

We're going to save your brother.

#mario movie #mario movie spoilers #super mario bros #super mario bros movie #super mario bros movie spoilers #princess peach #mareach #cherrysip edits #I FEEL LIKE THIS MOMENT DID NOT GET THE ATTENTION AND APPRECIATION IT DESERVED ON HERE #man i could write you an essay about this #i do think that the 'i'm not afraid! i'll do anything for my brother' line actually ISN'T said during this scene - it's probably earlier #but that this line IS in the right place (peach's mouth movements match) #which means that scene is going to break me because it just seems like a very vulnerable sweet moment between them #where peach and mario get to talk about the situation they're in and their fears and how big the stakes are for both of them #peach fighting to protect her kingdom and her subjects - the immense pressure on her to stop bowser because of her role as a leader #and mario desperately trying to save his brother - not knowing if luigi is ok or not and not being able to keep him safe is so painful #i think that's why mario doesn't have his hat on - the adventure is starting to weigh on him and he opens up to peach for the first time #about him and luigi and their closeness and how he CAN'T lose his brother he CAN'T let him down when he needs him more than ever #and peach reassures him and it means the world. even in this quick clip there's something a little sad about his face #but also there's relief and gratefulness to her for saying that. they're the absolute sweetest :) :) :) #i could be off base but that really does seem like the vibe of this scene from what we've seen and i am ALL ABOUT IT

[roseofcards90]

Augh I feel like I’m doing everything wrong and disappointing people 😭

#I appreciate our bond but I don’t feel comfortable changing my username even if it’s only for a few days #I know it’s a silly thing but hhhh also not having enough energy because of projects and exams #like nothing happened I just don’t want to socialize/talk much #and then me feeling like I forced someone to do something even tho they reassured that wasn’t the case… #idk maybe I’m overthinking everything #I think I just need to put on the mask so I don’t end up disappointing anyone #my posts

[jils-things]

the pokemas story with the family battle event is so fascinating to me because it never clicked to me that each person has their own "style" in battling and it can be hard to synchronize with each other as a team.... despite being family

#i know lusamine is a disaster of a mom but i really appreciate the gladion and lillie interactions since i felt that it was lacking in the- #- actual games. i didnt even know gladion was the older brother and i just assumed they were twins #i really liked seeing the other teams and their familial connections #lance and clair are nice to see. funny cousins #wallace and lisia made my heart so warm like i can tell wallace is such a great uncle to lisia #koga and janine... yeahhh love that for them #brendan and norman is nice too (plus norman talking to lusamine and understanding her issues) #gladion is really cool in this entire event tbh #~ rambling #pokemas hours #i think jaide e. and ethan would have the best coordination even if they contrast each other. they complement each other in a good way #however jaide stone and gold is kinda the opposite because jaide is. such a lawful neutral and gold is such a chaotic evil kid #how is that gonna work... /j also the fact that jaide stone sucks at battling so SFJHFSASJKF #stone family battle except jaide keeps apologizing for messing up but ruby and steven keeps reassuring (and theyre p good at battling)

[nerdgirlnarrates]

So as we all know, you will feel terrible for large parts of medical training. My question is, just how bad are you supposed to feel and for how long?

#i feel amazing whenever I do anything in surgery #and the second I’m done I go back to being passively suicidal #I have cried almost every day of this sub i #I don’t think I’m emotionally equipped for this degree of sleep deprivation #also I need some #goddamn reassurance #and medicine especially neurosurgery is not the place for that #idk man I’ve felt like the worst piece of shit alive for four years and I just don’t know how much more I can take #I gotta actually survive this you know #anyway I would appreciate real answers to this #like does it get better or do you just keep wanting to die #medblr #med school #medicine #med student #my content #my text posts

[supercantaloupe]

aw. my boss emailed me tonight to tell me what a great job she thought i did at work this week...

#i wanna talk about me #this week has been kind of brutal #including two nearly full days of just preparing and making letters to 100+ students #And sending email copies... #on top of my usual weekly tasks like the newsletter #i got it all done (with a little printing help midweek from my coworker...tjank you kat for have my back) but man #between work and Work 2 and a brutal amount of assigned readings for class.. i'm struggling #and orchestra of course. concerts next weekend of course. #idk if i looked or seemed particularly at the end of my rope this week or what..maestro also unprompted told me to tap out/call in backup #at any point if work 2 becomes Too Much for me... #idk. i do appreciate the reassurance that i'm doing okay at least. and the...appreciation. ha

[specterofyou]

Apparently goats wag their tails when happy... So I had to do something with this information in a quick* sketch

*It took me over six hours {insert parade emoji which renders this entire joke pointless because there isn't one}⛈️

#writing Mint's route just makes me want the aspecs (Justice #Mint and Rei) to be happy for once... #tmj: mint #tmj: rei #the memory journal #some of my favorite interactions to write are between the two since they can just be unguarded around the other... #and neither of them know they're loved by the other until... UNTIL SPECTER'S UGLY SOBBING HOURS #anyways... when Rei experiences gender dysphoria it's always Mint who's there to reassure them #when Mint breaks down after reliving a memory from their past Rei's there to hold them and dry their tears #also I'd like to say #thanks everyone for all the support especially lately #been going through some stuff and it's really appreciated #I fall into this trap often of feeling like my work is unoriginal and unimportant but hearing that it brightens people's day #helps a lot #I hope I can continue making a positive impact like that #take care and I hope you're having a good day

[neuronal]

tom rosenthal, my life is a song for you / tang jiuqing, qiang jin jiu; translated by awa / euripides, grief lessons: four plays; translated by anne carson / rafael campo, california / anne carson, plainwater: essays and poetry / bram stoker, dracula / jeanette winterson, lighthousekeeping / mary oliver, the sun: new and selected poems, volume 1 / jeanette winterson, lighthousekeeping / sara ghazal ali, there are versions to everything

#qiang jin jiu #qjj #don't look at me as i spiral #web weaving #sure i guess i made this web weave diverse enough so that people w no knowledge of #cezhou #could appreciate it #but it's more bc awa's translation hasn't reached that far and i want my experience of the novel be limited to hers #the whole concept of xiao chi'ye being a source of light (comfort) and reassurance for shen zechuan makes me insane #the best part is that he realizes what the handkerchief means to shen zechuan and sure he jokes about it first but he NEVER asks it back #i am trying so hard to be normal about this but it's my blog and no one can stop me from this act of self indulgence #BUT other than this it's also the fact that shen zechuan looks at himself as 'bleached dead man's bones' #while xiao chi'ye is 'the reflection on the other side' literally from the land of the living #he's still full of life and light and of course that's something shen zechuan doesn't have and why he tries to clumsily mimic him #sorry sorry these two make me insane

[very-uncorrect]

My dad sends me a text almost everyday just saying "love you" and it's honestly one of my favourite things ever

He goes like "I love you sooooooooooooo much" with like 30 o's it's great

Also says how proud of me he is a lot which is

#very grateful for having parents that care #i know a lot of people have dads who are emotionally unavailable #so i really appreciate how caring and loving mine is #he has so much faith in me and it's super reassuring #sometimes also texts me sayin ''YOU ARE FKING AWESOME I LOVE MY GIRL'' #(he says ''fking'' like that too lol) #random #just talking about how happy i am to have been raised by good parents

[poorlittleyaoyao]

Now that the immediate things for my Actual Job are done, I need people to yell at me to write when I get home so I think the due date I set for myself (tomorrow) is real and not a thing I invented (which it is).

#would also appreciate reassurance that I have no reputation to protect here since I don’t keep handles the same across platforms #it’s not even connected to my main AO3 since I heard such bad things when I got into this fandom! #so literally as long as it’s not ACTUALLY OFFENSIVE it’s fine #@ the two (2) people who have read all 3 stories and liked them: you are seen and appreciated #ETA: this makes it sound like I am writing the world’s most interesting smut but no. it’s all canon-compliant feelbad mostly-gen.

[pepprs]

update i have to apply for my own job for the SECOND time in two years by wednesday and im taking my learners permit test on friday which means i have to finish absorbing the drivers manual by then. the way i am LONGING to walk into traffic.

#the driving thing is just extra stress but the applying for my own job AGAIN thing is making me absofuckingLUTELY insane. this process was #so psychically damaging for me to go through a year ago and the fact that exactly a year later i am doing it again and have to jump thru all #the same hoops and write a new cover letter and find new references and INTERVIEW with my colleagues and all that… like i appreciate this so #much bc basically what is happening is im getting a raise and will be converted to a regular employee (im contractual rn bc that’s all they #could do when i graduated). but like the fact that i am once again under the MORTIFYING psychic stress of my colleagues being the search #committee and me being u able to talk to them abt this or get reassurance and them having to treat me like they don’t know me and this not #being guaranteed and other people potentially applying and me having to compete with them… it is too much fucking stress for me to go #through. it’s just too fucking much. i am so mentally and emotionally exhausted and now i have to walk through fire AGAIN⁉️⁉️⁉️ i wanna KMS #like it’s fine. but also the existential dreaddddd the way i cannot bear to live through this one more time but i have to and im going to. 😍 #purrs #delete later #like i get it and i know it’s to make it fair and equitable. but whyyyyy do they have to put me through this again have i not proven myself #time and time again is this job not QUITE LITERALLY designed for me to be in it. and it’s not merely an annoyance it’s like… actively a #stressor that is taking years off my life just like it did last year and the timeline is even more accelerated bc last year i had two weeks #to apply and this time i have FIVE DAYS!!!!! and i have to reach out to references and i can’t do that until monday bc it’s the weekend 😭😭😭😭 #like LMFOAHDHSKDHSODHAJJB of course this is happening to meeeeee im going fucking insane. also i might have to do this a THIRD time someday #and i would have to get a masters degree for that too. so basically the only path forward is CEASELESS suffering and psychic agony. there is #no hope for women. fuck my stupid baka life. but also this is a good thing and also i have it sooooo good which is soooo unfair to everyone #else for example possibly wasting everyone else’s time who applies for this job. but also fuck my stupid baka life. #technically im applying for this job for the second time in 365 days. like it’s not even two years it’s that i did this a year ago and now a #year later im doing it again. LESS than a year later. it hasn’t even been a full year yet. help 😻👍 #if february 9 2022 me fucking knew what HORRORS awaited her 24 hours from then and 3 months from then and 5 months from then and 15 months f #from then. she would have imploded LMFAOOOOOOOO