#but i’m just saddest about this :

[radfae]

this is genuinely upsetting. how much longer are women not only going to be complacent in but actively encourage misogyny?

#i mean the post is just weird and wrong in the first place #and there’s a lot to pick apart about how it’s contradictory #and people on twitter on both sides REALLY aren’t helping discussion #but i’m just saddest about this :/ #they think it’s okay because it’s not happening to them #but they don’t realize that this affects us all #it’s not that they even think misogyny is acceptable against evil or bigoted women (most of them anyway) #it’s that they don’t even recognize what is and isn’t misogyny anymore #we’ve gone too long suppressing feminists and we’re feeling the effects #and now they can’t even call out when someone is going against women #why do you think that cain deleted that post? because there was something wrong with it #he KNOWS that he is being brash and speaking out of turn #he KNOWS that that post will get him called out #he KNOWS he did something wrong #:/

[uselessnocturnal]

you’re losing me lyrics that are shaking me to the core kinda

“i wouldn’t marry me either, a pathological people pleaser who only wanted you to see her”

“how can you say that you love someone you can’t tell is dying?”

“i’m getting tired even for a phoenix”

“how long could we be a sad song ‘til we were too far gone to bring back to life?”

#taylor swift #you’re losing me #the way pathological people pleaser rolls off the tongue #the heartbreak when you think of ‘i rose up from the dead i do it all the time’ #the way in those interviews taylor talks about how they love sad songs #exile exile exile #mirrorball people pleaser things?? #oofffff #you’re losing me vs cornelia street #it’s just kinda heartbreaking yknow #i’m not that bothered by taylor swifts relationship things #but i think there’s something So Tragic about going through so many relationships #and thinking you’ve found The One and not wanting to lose them #only to for years later to end up on different pages #idk it’s just #agsjfkshfjdhfk #the saddest endings #thinking about high infidelity #‘the slowest way is never loving them enough’ #that being said. the matty healy stuff is fucked up!

[swiftiesforpeeta]

how to stop being sad over sirius black

#WHY DOES HE HAVE THE SADDEST LIFE EVER #I THINK ABOUT HIM FOR THREE SECONDA AND SUDDENLY IM TEARING UP #SO MUCH TIME SPENT STARING AT WALLS WHILE MY CHEST CLENCHES WITH ANGUISH #sirius black #just horribly #horribly sad #he’s so upsetting #marauders #sirius #i love you #i’m so sorry #AND TO DIE IN FRONT OF REMUS AND HARRY #GOD #GOD!!!!!!!!!

[mishwanders]

Reunion.

A little add on to how I think these two sad babies would be after I posted this { X } when Moonlight mistakes Time for Fierce mid-fight and Fierce deity breaks his curse a bit. They got a lot of catching up to do.

#lu fierce deity #fierce deity #oc: moonlight #twili oc #linked universe #something I intend to address soon in the little fic I’m doing for them #but first I gotta get his ass out of the twilight realm #I’m v happy with how this looks even if they are the saddest little creatures in the world #the rest of the chain is just surprised there’s a fucking god with them #meanwhile time is trying to figure out when the fierce deity had the time to get a girlfriend #and never spoke a word about her lmao #loz fanart #linked universe fanart #legend of zelda fanart #please do not repost

[evendumbo]

I wonder if those who wanted Ted and Rebecca to remain platonic friends because “we need more representations of platonic male/female friendships on tv” genuinely believe that Ted and Rebecca’s relationship delivered this to them. I wonder if a fan could describe what was unique about their friendship.

How did these character’s’ relationship re-define platonic intimacy? What insight did we gain about the value of male/female friendship? Rebecca and Keeley would hang out regularly and explore issues of gender, media, business, power, sexuality, and love, including for each other. Of Ted and Rebecca’s brief non-work conversations, they were almost exclusively about divorce, one or two about dating. How did these conversations expand our ideas about how friendships between men and women can be uniquely useful in processing these issues?

When we look back on iconic male/female friendships on tv, do people really think that Rebecca and Ted will be on the list?

The most nuanced, interesting m/f friendship on tv that I can think of is Frasier and Roz. Their conversations spanned a wide variety of topics. They were there for each other when things got bad for each of them. It was clear that they knew each other well. They’d tease each other, advocate for each other, argue with each other, challenge each other. They had a complicated and interesting intimacy. They were friends.

It’s not totally a fair comparison bc Frasier is an old school show and had a zillion episodes. My point is that I deeply learned from their friendship. I honestly can’t think of anything interesting to say about Ted and Rebecca if limited to a context of platonic friendship, or even platonic “soulmates,” except it’s spooky that traumatic things in their childhoods happened to them on the same day, and it’s very nice that divorced people give each other pep talks sometimes.

Is that what folks are out here celebrating? Because…🥱

#antis won #congrats 🏆 #but what exactly did they win? #I’m just asking #what did we gain? #I’m out here looking for any commentary opining about their friendship. #but all I hear are crickets #this the saddest most boring trophy I’ve ever seen #tedbecca #ted lasso #rebecca welton

[blonkk]

“so sad being a harry potter fan/jkr stan and a transphobe pick a struggle” ok but how’s it a struggle? ?? because weird losers i don’t know will try to bully me on the internet ??? y’all are just smug because you were nobody in high school and now you feel like you win at life because you have internet clout from tweens and perverted adult men plus the duds who jumped on the bandwagon because they have zero values and beliefs of their own …. like stop projecting i promise no one gives a fuck that you’re “different” it’s still annoying and your green shaved head and mushroom tattoo aren’t punk or even really that cool at all….get a grip fr …anyways i’m gonna struggle by A) being objectively right and B) enjoying my childish stories that have no shortage of material (and more on the way!) to keep me entertained

#feminism #jk rowling #harry potter #this applies to everyone #males and females #gay or not #trans identified or not #like so much if this movement is deadass made up of people who were unpopular in high school. and now they get off on being internet famous #and i was a huge loser in high school too so this isn’t some stance on social hierarchy #it’s just the kids who never got over not being cool when it actually meant something #so they’re trying to make it mean something now #and the saddest thing is that you’re still losers #and the biggest tell is that followers will always remain neutral #favouring the side of the cool people #hence the male he amount of silent so called allies #they’re gonna switch sides when this one goes under i’m afraid #anyways like it’s always the people who want attention who are the worst about this stuff #like i’m a huge harry potter fan. i was not popular in high school. people barely knew who i was #that is not something that was cool in the 2010s #but i’m still a fan and i’m not ashamed of that because i’m not just gonna flop on my interests and principles #and i’m not gonna let some weirdo who probably does actual weird shit make me feel bad about like one of the most beloved book franchises #of all time #when they were prob the types of weirdos having orgies under the stairs and grooming eachother and speaking japanese they learned from anime #anyways. i don’t know im just rambling im mad and tired and all seething and i want to bully someone about it

[enrapture]

stay alive.

#the happiest people can be going through shit #the saddest people #the meanest of people #all walks of life you could never know what they’re dealing with #life is so hard so fucking difficult #I didn’t think I would be here #so many years before this one I didn’t think I would be alive at all #honestly? I didn’t think I’d live to see today a few days ago even just the other day I felt it #it’s really hard to stay tonight even with a good thing like meeting my favorite band right now on the 31st #internally I won’t share these feelings and thoughts allowed y’all don’t care about that or even wanna hear what I feel and what I think #but yeah #I just wanna share this because I’m struggling with it sand sometimes it’s a good and bad thing to keep finding reasons to stay #but you should stay because you want to be here to experience life with others and to help others #that life wouldn’t be life without you and you would want to see your near future self happy among your childhood past near past selves #evolve and be happy you’re staying and relive your childhood and grow as a person #you’re meant to be here if no one else tells you that #means a lot being heard and understood #staying is just a. little difficult rn #I never thought I’d make it this far and I don’t like the act of growing and I don’t like how life is a lot of the time #but that’s a story for another time if desired and shared #I’m gonna hop off now #bye #internally I won’t share these thoughts #these feelings aloud because y’all don’t care y’all don’t wanna hear about the dark parts that stay and stick in my head or pass through #but I just wanted to share it for those that needed a sign to stay #to stay because I too am one of those that could use it #spread love #be there for those that struggle #life is so fucking hard #take it one day at a time

[elena-of-avalor-polls]

Those are the themes I have in mind for now! If you have any more suggestions, please share them with me! I’ll add them to my list after the second tournament so we have an undying number of the themes for the future.

#elena of avalor #grand council meeting #I thought of also adding the best character theme #but I feel like it will be too much work now because I want to organize this one with submissions #and for this purpose I need to create a google form and expect submissions from the people #and it sounds too stressful ajhdnfj #But I think I can make it next summer when I’m supposed to have more free time #So yeah I excluded it becuase I don’t want people to choose it :’D #Anyway I think we can also just make it less vast like the best villain the best wizard #(the best royal guard) #And I already thought of something like the happiest scene the saddest scene #I just really want to make a tournament about the scenes but I really need to think of their categories first #Anyway I really hope this blog won’t die now when it has a hiatus

[humanmorph]

Was it all worth it for the Cori&Perennial bond. If it wasn't for the fact that thinking about gur even a little makes me either wail or sit very still & stare off on the distance I'd say yes 100%. But as is I'm at like. 70%. Okay 80% maybe

#because the Perennial sob is SO GOOD. Conceptually and as The moment. God the part for that in Just One Second is heartbreaking #Perennial saddest girl in the universe. Palisade is about grief #And then Cori's “I’m not gonna stop fighting if you won’t.” ahuhuuuu. I'm just extremely excited #palisadeposting #palisade spoilers #God Just One Second really whips. what the fuck jdq

[allofuswantgwinam]

my cat that I’ve had for 20 years passed yesterday and it is so weird fr 🥺 i miss that lil guy so much, he was my bestest friend

#I feel better today than i did yesterday #it sux so much #but I’m glad he’s at peace now #I cried so much more than I expected #was the saddest day of my life #you’re never as prepared as you think you will be #my sweet lil guy #I keep wanting to go find him to bother him and then I remember he is gone now #💔 #I try to not think about it bc if I do I cry 😭 #I wish we didn’t have to think about the sad things and could just forget them

[mobbothetrue]

Thinking about literally anything else < thinking about my baldurs gate 3 tav for extended periods of time

#mobbtalks #his name is Maknok and I love him. I don’t know what happened in the character creature but it resulted in him having the biggest saddest #wettest eyes possible. he’s a half orc ranger and every time I get the option to roll intimidation it’s very funny bc he looks like he’s #about to cry. he’s besties with Lae’zel and dating Shadowheart. Astarion is also in the party. Astarion is not a Maknok fan #I wasn’t trying to romance Shadowheart mind. she just saw his big sad eyes and was like ‘well I can’t not’. Astarion is firmly on the side #of ‘I *can* not. get away from me with those big soulful eyes.’ #I need to figure out how to take screenshots. I need to do a fashion photo shoot for my boy #just to cue in to how terminal this is getting: I’m making up detailed backstory for him. I’m writing fanfic. #I started another run to explore more on like. the peaceful difficulty. and I tried to make Maknok the guardian and I could not get even a #quarter as sad. not a hint of glimmery eyes. I really don’t know what happened

[blossoms-and-possums]

james “you’re still the oxygen i breathe, i see your face when i close my eyes, it’s torturous” potter

#this is his song #argue with the wall #‘you’ll be the saddest part of me’ #‘in the end it doesn’t matter if tonight is gonna be the loneliest’ i’m. unwell #also consider ‘There's just one thing I hope you know I loved you so’ #and and and #‘cause i dont even care about the time i’ve got left here the only thing i know now is that i wanna spend it with you’ #it’s james it’s so james #about regulus ofc #in so many fics. it’s wywm james. reverie james. ahb james. dass james. choices james. it’s just. it’s james!! #pls listen to the loneliest by måneskin #it’s james’ song #james potter #jegulus #possum prattles

[randomalistic]

You ever feel sad after a hyperfixation goes away… i used to love dinosaurs so much as a child but it sorta just went away and I still think they’re so cool but I feel like I lost something.

I guess there was a tradeoff cuz now I love birds, which are still technically dinosaurs lol

Recently went to a museum with an awesome dinosaur exhibit and got a big book, I wanna read it sometime so I can learn about them again

#another thing #extinction is the saddest thing conceivable to me #so there’s always a looming sadness when I learn about them knowing so much was lost #and like how rare it is for fossils to form too #waahhhg.. I wanna see it from a better perspective #something I like to think about it how long dinosaurs and prehistoric animals just got to live naturally for their whole lives #and over millions of years #lots of lives happened and it’s ok that they’re over #hgrr I’m gonna cry :’(( #dinosaur #dinosaurs

[no1ryomafan]

SKL started rotating in my head again over a unrelated 2000s song that just reminded me of Kaido and Magami-not even joking lol-but upon reflecting on its plot I sometimes wonder if it would’ve been better off if like- they didn’t make new characters and just recycled the base cast just characterization them in a different way ala how Getter does it.

Cause I’ve thought about while I’m generally more biased I think Shin vs Neo feels significantly less flawed compared to SKL despite its episode length for not only having the advantage of “it has a lighter plot where as SKL desperately felt like it needed a longer run time” but because it used all the existing characters before and the characterization isn’t even TOO off, they’re all just kinda water downed versions of themselves. (Neo!Ryoma is a really interesting case out of the whole cast though in terms of characterization compared to his go manga self but I’ll save that for another post)

SKL has the issue of it’s introducing NEW characters we never seen to mazinger but we don’t have a justifiable runtime to get to know most of them, Yuki I feel is the only character who is decently developed due to the focus put on her which is why I consider her the MC over the boys even if there can be more fleshed out about her. Kaido and Magami do have a dynamic that bounces off of each other which is why I like them despite not being super deep but its still not fully developed, kinda worst by the fact we don’t get to know ANYTHING about Kaido and Magami’s origins aren’t entirely explain either- and honestly only feel there for the plot rather than expanding his character even if it HAS the potential to expand upon who he is.

But then I thought how this OVA could’ve been if it was like: Kaido=Koji, Magami=Tetsuya, Yuki=Sayaka. (Jun could be Scarlet ig and the villains could be whoever as followed from base show but they could also still get away with the new villains with this tbh) You could keep everything the same, even to the point of having this be a canon where Koji and Tetsuya aren’t related-IIRC they aren’t even related in the Mazinkasier OVA and Tetsuya explicitly calls him Kabuto which would be weird to call your brother/nephew, which would be funny if in this hypothetical SKL scenario they are more referred to as their last names then first-since even if the SKL trio more obviously took more inspo from the devilman trio they match the archetypes these three from OG mazinger canon had.

I’m sure SKL would still be consider a “not really mazinger” series if all other elements were kept the same given Armageddon still is regarded as “not really getter” in terms of source material accuracy but I do wonder if it’s three episode formate could’ve worked better if it it as another au. That said I still like the SKL boys so I’m not saying this should’ve been it over “GIVING IT 13 PROPER EPISODES FFS” and I do wish they could just be reused in a different mazinger iteration whenever we get one-grendizer getting something so hey, there’s hope and it’s slightly more likely than a new getter show-since it be cool if Mazinkaiser had a pilot over just being Koji again but alas my boys are stuck in the void with the Shin Jeeg cast to definitely never to be seen again.

#meg text #mazinkaiser skl #of all things to rant about in my jumble mess of a brain this is what it decided to pick for today #or as I call it “meg over analyze big robot media that no one cares about once more” #this has unironic fic potential but god knows when/if I’ll write it (someone steal my idea PLEASE) #I could do designs maybe I kinda wanna draw the mazinger characters more #Funniest part about this hypothetical au is this isn’t the first time tetsuya would be a clone (I haven’t read it but know of zero kinda) #but the saddest part about this is Sayaka would actually get to do something- which is only sad because I have to say that #(mazinger why do you treat your girls SO BAD) #Also I realize in this rant shin Jeegs cast would probably be easier to incorporate than SKL ever coming back #because they could retcon Tsubaki being Miwas granddaughter if they really wanted Hiroshi and Kenji being the same age instead of timeskip #but I’m not gonna rant about Jeeg not just bc this is a SKL post but that’s like throwing words into a empty void 💀

[margaetyrell]

i know you don’t wanna read something stupid like this but it’s my blog and i’m still angry so idc. it sucks that i was one of like, the 5% question...? fans to the point where it’s never been a day without me streaming it and i was desperately waiting for her to play it. now i cannot even listen to it bc the only person capable of ruining that for me just did, with a superficial speech and a hint for us to attribute the song to a disgusting person

#i’ve already seen posts about how and why it’s about m*tty and it makes me wanna puke. so thank you ! #it’s clear we’ve moved from ‘i want my life to be private and separate my art from my personal life’ to ‘this song is about x!!! take that! #i’m also talking about surprise songs and cardigan which is ANOTHER one of my faves and i’m just. UGGGGH WHY TF ARE YOU DOING THIS #i know you’re the happiest or saddest human rn but you’ve always been careful with your work and you’re screwing that dear #pt

[stilltoolazy]

I, uhh. I watched the rest of Clone Wars. So I’m crying about clones. Again. Send help?

#the clone wars #Star Wars #star wars: the clone wars #uhm. I don’t wanna tag all of them because there’s… well. there’s a lot of them. #but… I don’t even know where to start. #just. he was crying. Rex was crying when they first got the Order. #he was probably crying the whole damn time under than helmet #(so was I; except I’m not wearing a helmet so I was just crying into my weighted blanket) #and they buried them. all of them. and they were all basically wearing her face and. FUCK! #idek what happens to maul it’s been so long since I’ve seen anything Star Wars that wasn’t tcw or tbb #but honestly I don’t care #what’s that quote about the story of the clones being the saddest of all? #I’m really feeling that right now #I’m gonna go cry myself to sleep I think #and then probably use the is as an excuse to start a rewatch of tbb tomorrow #*this as an