#commitmentphobe

[magicalearthcrystals]

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[starthelostboys]

#to be fair star is also pretty stupid so she can't really talk #little miss 'i got all my friends murdered cause i'm such a commitmentphobe' #the lost boys #tlb #my edits #kate's bad takes

[darcyolsson]

going on a date tomorrow (thursday) and I'm genuinely looking forward to friday's planned debrief meeting more than the date itself oh girls it's rough out here

#i let my friends bully me into going i need it as exposure therapy for my commitment issues #but tbh the main reason im going is because if i go my friend (fellow commitmentphobe) will make a move on this girl he likes #in the trenches together 💛 #im just going to try to have a good night and if it sucks its like 4 hours of my life at most. ill be fine #personal

[izzyspussy]

sophie saying she's married to nate despite not having a ring or legal status and nate just being like yeah. true.

#jack facts #i love romance and i love criminals #leverage #reading process #they were soooooo nonchalant and matter of fact about it you'd never know they used to both be pathological commitmentphobes

[bloomfish]

sometimes i have very goth music taste for a nongoth

#also known as a prep #im extremely fickle with music so it would be impossible for me to dress in a way that reflects it #not that i would but i do respect when people have a style and they stick to it #couldn't be me im a commitmentphobe with music as with all things #in a few weeks i'll have moved on from this passionate affair and be listening to like honky tonk or something

[lugarn]

Top's childhood trauma is just like chef's kiss. You can see it come out in a few ways and it's beautiful and painful to watch.

According to Boston, he's never dated anyone for more than 3 months. After needing to flee safety, of course staying anywhere too long is hard. Fear of abandonment is at the core of a lot of fear of commitment.

When Mew stops him in the first scene, he asks 'What did I do wrong?' and not something like 'Why?' He blames himself even if there's no evidence that he's done wrong.

In the shower scene with Boston, you can see his visible discomfort at being cornered. It isn't significant on his own, but Top has a habit of crowding other people's personal space. Maybe part of the reason he does is so that he himself isn't trapped.

It's so early on in the show that it's difficult to say anything definitive about any of the characters, of course. But there are a lot of really nuanced hints at the different ways the characters have dealt with their fear of abandonment that make me look forward to where the show is going to take us.

#only friends the series #only friends spoilers #spoilers for episode 1 #spoilers for episode 2 #top only friends #top ofts #only friends meta #commitmentphobe with abandonment issues is one of my favorite types #but it's rarely done well or with nuance #top has nuance and that's pretty lovely #not to say he's not an asshole because he is a giant asshole #but everyone's a bit terrible or the show wouldn't work narratively

[akagamiko]

shanks when he starts sleeping with someone regularly and catches feelings

#99% of his ships #sorry everyone #i don't think there are many where the feelings come first and the sex comes later #but as soon as he realizes he has feelings for someone he WILL try to cut and run #it's not even about the sex (though that's important too) #but like....after all of it #being able to talk and laugh together #anyway...commitmentphobe #will kill for you but settling down is ??? hard and questionable and scary <3 #except his crew #fully committed to them

[venus-haze]

I think you should TOTALLY tackle multi chapter fics! If you wanted!! My single fic isn’t nearly we popular we my chapter one!! You have brilliant writing so I’m sure it’s be amazing!!

Thank you🖤 I used to write multi-chapter fics for another fandom, but people would ask for a part 2, and then none of those people even ended up reading them anyway🫠 So I was kinda like “this isn’t worth my time.” I might go for it again one day!

🦇 Battie

#also im like a commitmentphobe lol #ask tag

[vulpixelates]

i absolutely despise how many hozier songs make me think of the little lesbians that live in my head. so stereotypical

#someone new reminds me SO MUUUUCH of one of my ocs and one of her future wives... #they meet so disastrously (having sex w a stranger lmao it varies but the current one is rhys picking ro up at one of her punk shows bc ofc #and have this whirlwind romance and uhaul and then flame out #bc they're commitmentphobes who realize they're in love w each other and are probs soulmates or whatever so they each explode it #and it's just like. they both knew what they were getting into w each other. they're the fucking same aoiewfjaowife #but they stay best friends for like four years and then end up working together again and disastrously hooking up again #but the second time it works out at least #oc: romy cho #ro x rhys #oc blogging #*dykeposting

[mexashepot]

Single once again and feeling good about it

#🎶боль будет завтра а пока🎶 #I feel relieved tbh #personal #a tiny bit sad but overall relieved #the commitmentphobe in me is relieved af lol

[electrictouchfeaturingfalloutboy]

I have entered an intense flirtation with this girl on hinge, which is nice as I've never entered an intense flirtation with anyone previously. The problem now is it's been like. Three days and the flirting is very nice but talking about literally anything else feels like pulling teeth. The flirty banter comes easy but asking about her favorite movies gets near nothingburger answers.

#and like #idk i feel like the flirtation and anything physical would be very nice short term #but long term i don't see anything substantial working out #and i wouldn't want anything physical unless there was a real possibility of longterm something #but like idk #i am a bit of a commitmentphobe as it were and it is possible i'm over thinking this #also worth noting we've only been talking for a couple of days but it does feel like things are escalating fasst #or things are escalating at a normal pace and i am a commitmentphobe as stated previously #hannah makes a text post

[glittertrail]

ever imagined what would it be like to be in love with someone specific and come out of that daydream paralyzed in fear?

#i need an exorcism #i am a commitmentphobe but apparently i am not immune to yearning #personal

[starthelostboys]

yes i think that the lost boys (and star) are goofy silly teenagers most of the time, yest i still think that they enjoy killing people. they’re complex like that.

#personally i hc that star doesn't have any issue with killing people at all #and just doesn't want to be a vampire cause she's a commitmentphobe #so to me she's included in the second half of that sentence as well. she's killed people she's just never drank their blood #the lost boys #tlb #kate's bad takes

[autopotion]

I love having insane crossover ships produced from panfandom roleplay. I get so stupidly into them. They're fun. Can't do this shit in any other medium

#right now the one is a***** x k**** 🥰 #it's excellent. they're gonna be fwbs because they're both flirty commitmentphobes #and maybe.... something more serious someday....??? #i find canon ships on rp sites to be SOOO boring tbh #I'm here to explore and do total nonsense!

[wizardbenedlund]

live captain reaction

#watching #star trek #your local commitmentphobe at work

[kittywriites]

open ; 21+ ; unrequited love vibes river carson ; 22-28 ; artsy himbo with a heart of gold

Still in her slinky little party dress, she looked just a touch out of place lounging on his couch with her feet in his lap, his bag of doritos clutched in her greedy little hand. But it was a welcome sight. River laughed lightly as she regaled the dramatic tale of her friend throwing a drink in a guy’s face before promptly going home with that guy, and he shook his head. “Sorry I missed it.” He wasn’t. At all, actually. But he was delighted to have her here telling him all about it now.  “But you had fun?”

#indie smut rp #independent smut rp #indie rp #starter ; open #gimme that 'in love with my commitmentphobe bff' shtick #starter ; river carson