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homosexual-trash · 5 months
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I love you disabled people who use multiple mobility aids
I love you disabled people who use one, or a few mobility aids
I love you disabled people who use no mobility aids
I love you disabled people who are part time mobility aid users
I love you disabled people who a full time mobility aid users
I love you people with hidden disabilities
I love you visibly disabled people
I love you disabled people with a common condition
I love you disabled people with a rare condition
I love you disabled people with multiple conditions
I love you disabled people with only one condition
I love you disabled people with a diagnosis
I love you disabled people who are undiagnosed
I love you disabled people who are independent
I love you disabled people who are dependent on others
I love you disabled people who are unafraid to speak up for themselves
I love you disabled people who are still learning to find the confidence to speak up for them selves
I love you disabled people who use alternate forms of communication
I love you disabled people who always listen to their body
I love you disabled people who do activities even when it isn't the best for them
I love you people who were born disabled
I love you people who became disabled
I love you old disabled people
I love you young disabled people
I love you disabled people
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clownrecess · 1 year
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I want to talk about the sudden influx of posts on the #nonspeaking and #nonverbal tags being posted by speaking people, as well as my general thoughts on speaking people using those tags.
I've seen more speaking people who temporarily loose speech posting on these tags in the past few days. This is extremely frustrating to me as these tags are intended as a space for nonspeaking people to post. We as a community are already so incredibly silenced and alienated from the rest of the disabled community, and now that is happening within our own hashtags too.
I understand that some people lose their speech temporarily due to various factors, such as stress, but this does not necessarily make them part of the nonspeaking community. It's important to acknowledge that being nonspeaking is a unique experience and cannot be compared to short term loss of oral speech. When primarily speaking people use the nonspeaking and nonverbal hashtags, it can make it hard to find content that's relevant to us. It can also lead to the erasure of our voices and experiences.
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peepawsammywammywoo · 4 months
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Chronic pain can be like the ocean.
Some days it's nice and calm but some days it's rlly bad and not calm.
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sunnycycle · 3 months
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Help a disabled person get a mobility aid!
I don't need financial help. I just need advice. I have a fibromyalgia. Not professionally diagnosed, because of the classic 'you're too young!' stigma + medical trauma I have two points I want to make:
1: Should I get a cane or a crutch?
I have been researching each, but i truly don't know what is better!
2: How should I convince my mother?
My mother has only recently found out about my pains after I worked up enough courage to ask her. I feel that, if I bring this up, she'll brush it off, or tell me it's nothing. She has literally found out this morning.
And, yes, she is that type of mum.
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Hi there folks! My name is Orion [He/Him/His]
I am:
• A physically disabled teen (chronic pain, fatigue, and possible fibeomyalgia)
• Neurodivergent (autistic)
• Hard of hearing
• Queer
• Super awesome!
I currently use one mobility aid, a cane, but am looking into forearm crutches and/or a wheelchair.
I utilize this blog to post about my experiences as a disabled teen, reblog things relating to my experiences, and post things to hopefully uplift other disabled people.
here are some little things about my blog, including a DNI/INT list!!
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this blog is a QUEER FRIENDLY place!!
i myself am queer (FtM and gay T4T), so if that is not something you appreciate, this blog may not be for you!
EVERYONE is welcome here!
any race religion belief, you name it, anyone is welcome here except for those who fall under things listed on my DNI!
I use Tone Tags!
if you don’t understand them/know what they are, or if you just want a list of them, don’t be afraid to DM me!
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DNI LIST
• Homophobes/Transphobes/Anybody against the Queer community.
• Racist/Skinhead/N@zi/Anything related to and/or agreeing with these ideals.
• Ableist, against self diagnosis, or anybody who believes disabilities are not real/cannot apply to young people.
• Bullies/Harassers.
• Overall ONLY negative people. While it’s so super okay to be negative sometimes, if that’s ALL you post about/comment/etc, please leave it off my blog or do not follow/interact with me!
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INT LIST
• Queer people!
• Other disabled folks of any age!
• Neurodivergent people!
• Respectful neurotypical people!
• Any religion, race, etc etc.
• People who use tone tags!
• Anybody interested in learning about autism/disabilities/anything else I post about on this blog!
• Overall respectful/patient people
• Honestly, literally anyone as long as you are kind and respectful!
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Thank you so much for reading folks! I can’t wait to see you around! <3
QUESTION OF THE POST:
What is your current special interest/something you’re very interested in?
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disabledbutchblues · 8 months
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so so so proud !!!! survived without mother (caregiver) almost 24h without other adult caregiver. first time. with few friends/teenagers (5). not do much, let them cook organize etc (feel bad about this), not shower or clean because no energy, did cry a lot, isolate, feel bad, almost almost meltdown but calmed down !! and 5h sleep. unfamiliar place some unfamiliar people (1 friend other almost strangers) no true caregiver. very proud ! is so much for me. really much.
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meowtismz · 5 months
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Ok google how get wheelchair without parents know and while be poor
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foxless · 12 days
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i guess i should be using my cane.. i lost my knee brace & i tried my cane just now and it definitely took the pain away
but i guess i feel like im not supposed to use it? when i did people made fun of me, pitied me, threatened me, and i guess i just feel like i dont really need it since its for my knee instead of my hip now.
i dont want my family & peers saying “here we go again!” when i use it. i just want to move on from it.
when i used my cane before everyone was just so adamant on me not using it, my physiotherapist kinda rushed my recovery just to get me away from my cane because she thought it was “embarrassing” and “unnecessary” for someone my age to use one.
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lolbitbutsus · 1 month
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Had a panic attack at church today.
No service dog bc pastor is ableist and said no a few months ago.
Got overstimulated,and had to walk close to people,someone stuck they're hand out at me,triggerd PTSD. Tried to calm down and whent around the corner and laid down,stayed there the whole hour and 20 mins.think I passed out at some point for a moment(not sure tho),was very dissociated barely got any of the lesson.
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theatrekidenergy · 14 hours
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I need support right now from someone in the disabled community, hopefully someone who uses mobility aids of any kind (or has advice on helping me possibly find the right one for me) and/or has fibromyalgia and/or hypermobility. Please send me a DM whenever you’re able to, I was just diagnosed and I have so many questions and need some guidance right now — I’m a young teenager and was just diagnosed and even though I’ve been dealing with nearly non stop pain for over a year now I’ve never had more questions than right now and I need help.
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nyxflorae · 16 days
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Algea - A Sonnet
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A poem I wrote about my experience with chronic illness. I hope you enjoy and have a nice day.
[Image ID: The text "Algea — A Sonnet. Ἄλγεα - the personification of pain // grief," over a background with a dark field with trees in the distance. The sonnet is written divided by stanza in several images. It is as follows:
perpetual as luminescent night
it permeates my body and my heart
for sweet relief, I long and yearn and fight
yet desolation rips my life apart.
oh, how I wish I could just convalesce
and spend my days without a single woe
yet, laying in my bed, I evanesce
as I'm rained down upon by bitter snow.
alas, my life I've spend in whitewashed rooms
and out of them, despondent, I emerge
machinery foretelling my own doom
and strangers, wearing labcoats, sing my dirge.
I cry, I beg, I wish on every star
the ephemeral echoes, hear my plea
oh, why am I so flawed? I've come so far
please take away this burning agony.
I fade into the iridescent sky
my shackles gone, I close my eyes and fly.
/End ID.]
rbs and replies very much appreciated<3!
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clownrecess · 11 months
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I want to talk about something very specific: "No, I didn't just speak. Calm down and grow up."
It's incredibly frustrating when people accuse me of saying something with my mouth, even though all I did was make a noise.
Maybe they told me something suprising, so I open my mouth and make a "awoh-" noise. Their eyes widen, and they jump to conclusions, shouting, "I JUST HEARD YOU SAY 'what'!" or any other phrase they think they heard. They start making a big deal out of it. But here's the thing: I didn't speak. I made a noise, a sound that may have resembled speech to them, but it wasn't. It's frustrating because they assume that every sound I make is an attempt at spoken words, or that I "secretly can speak orally" and that this was me "messing up my act".
I CAN'T SPEAK ORALLY! I did not "mess up" anything!
"I JUST HEARD YOU SAY "what"!! I HEARD YOU SAY "what"!! YOU SPOKE! YOU SPOKE!"
"Hahah, I think I just heard you say something! Beat ya at your own game!"
"RAYMOND-- Did you just SPEAK??"
"YOU SPOKE, I HEARD YOU! Don't worry, I don't care, I won't tell anyone."
These are all actual quotes people have said to me. And one of these people was a grown adult.
It's like a hurricane of misunderstanding and frustration swirling around me. Suddenly, people start demanding explanations, throwing questions, and even chastising me for speaking when I never actually did. And no matter how much I try to explain that it was just a noise, not a coherent utterance, nobody believes me. It's very upsetting when nobody believes me, no matter how hard I try to explain the situation. The weight of their skepticism feels crushing.
DISABLED PEOPLE ARE NOT PRETENDING TO BE DISABLED. I genuinely can't use oral speech. I am genuinely nonspeaking. I want to make it clear that my inability to speak orally is not a choice or an act. It is a reality that I navigate every day.
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peepawsammywammywoo · 5 months
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I love cooking food I just hate it when my terrible agonizing chronic pain interferes with my cooking
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sunnycycle · 3 months
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Me" Hey mum I thibk it's time we look into getting mobility aids for me
Mum: Are you sure? Its a big commitment and jt makes walking take longer
Me (literally leaving 1hr before ei need to because my legs will NOT be getting to my station wuick enough): I know.
Mum: anyway ypu don't need it, you aren't disabled.
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Me: Mum, I don't want to go to school. I am in pain
Mum: No you aren't, get your ass up. Your a young teen. If anyone needs to take a break, it's ME
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Me: Mum, can you drive me to my station (less than 5 min drive)?
Mum: No. Cars are bad for rhe environment.
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Me: Mum, can I change schools? The journey is too hard for me.
Mum: you can't quit a really good school because of the journey!
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Mum: (Deadbame), why do you never open up to me about anything?!?!?
Me: I give up
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aquaticfreakshow-sys · 7 months
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Being physically disabled is absolutely hell while living in a non wheelchair accessible house, with family members who aren't the best with the topic.
We have spina bifida, and because of this we use a wheelchair. Its impossible to use it in our house, so my grandfather keeps it stored outside until we go into town, when he puts it into our van. We used to keep it in our own room, but that was difficult due to having a very small room. It has also been stored in our dining room corner, which was actually fine. But it was left outside again after our most recent day out.
We also have abnormalities/deformities with our legs and ankles, the tendons and leaders didn't form correctly and are basically just upside down. Which means we cannot stand normally, or walk - we have to be tiptoed or its straining and painful.
Alongside arthritis and the overall chronic pain from all of this.
We had a pretty bad fall yesterday night, and the entire left side of our body is messed up and bruised, left leg is completely unable to support getting around, left arm is weak and our wrist is most likely sprained.
We fall often, but usually when our family is awake, this was at night. While trying to make food, which included very hot water. Didn't spill it, thank fuck.
I'm hoping these kinds of situations can make our family take this more seriously and stop skipping our doctors appointments. They're our only transportation and they keep ignoring it.
We're completely stuck in bed unless we want to fucking crawl around, because saving up for crutches to use around the house has been impossible due to our mother borrowing our money.
I'm complaining, basically.
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aaazzie · 4 months
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i-guess-its-all-alright -> aaazzie
yes im clemm!! i go by azzie now idk it makes me happier
new intro/promo post 🎉🎉🎉🎉 be my friend
hiii!! my name is azzie!! i’m a 15 year old polysexual nonbinary person :) i use he/they/it pronouns, and i’ve been on T for a little under 2 years now!!
i’m an autistic syshost with DPD, NPD, fibromyalgia, FND, pretty extreme anxiety, and more that i won’t talk about rn :D i like to draw, write, crochet, and do crafty stuff in general!! please be nice to me i’m pretty sensitive and i get upset easily… i also have pretty bad memory issues/amnesia, so please don’t be scared to remind me of things!!
im also a compsognathus + raptor otherkin :3
fandoms/interests; a date with death, OL:B&A, OL:N&F, lethal company, milgram, pjsk, pokemon, vocaloid, jerma, dougdoug, ludwig, alpharad
BYF; i am usually scared to speak up for myself, i don’t like discourse, i can seem like I’m ignoring you sometimes i PROMISE I’m not!! i just run out of social battery really quickly + i have a lot of appointments
DNI; basic DNI (racists, homo/transphobes, MAPs, TERFs), zionists/Israel supporters, anti mspec lesbians/gays and/or similar labels, non-traumagenic systems, proshippers, people 18 and above (unless i interact first), people who enjoy harry potter in literally any capacity
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