every year we get all this content from bisexuals in opposite gender relationships about erasure and straight passing discourse in which they will act as if bisexuals are a tiny forgotten minority of the lgbt community and being erased is just as bad as being hatecrimed and always shoehorn in the villainous gatekeeping gays (who I feel like in many cases are just the externalisation of the voice in your head telling you that you're not Queer Enough) and so on. and it's never anything new like no one ever has a new perspective on this issue and everything they collectively have ever said can be summarised in like 3 sentences so... can we move on. I think we all get it now. can we please talk about something else💜💜
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HOLY SH- MICHAEL SHEEN IS WHAT😭😭☠️☠️☠️ I didn't know omg. This is why I don't research info about actors, THIS IS WHY☠️. Googled it now, she's 30 and he's 55, but nonetheless☠️☠️☠️☠️ terrible. Why did I wake up today⚰️
LMFAO I'm sorry for dumping weird info on your cute innocent art post 😭😂
Also I forget people age so yeah she's turned 30 this year and good for her, but I've just googled them again and they've been dating since 2019 so they were 50 and 25 and she was already 5-6 months pregnant when they announced their relationship so... yeah...
Advice of the day: don't google men which you think you like, because afterwards you won't. And people in the comments can be "age is just a number" all they want but I'm 30 r n, my parents are late 50s. Ain't no way that's happening. I'm with the "how does it feel to be dating someone only 5 years older than your daughter" girl on this one, bless her for actually asking him that 💀
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a review describing yellowface as satirical but white creatives really do just act like this....its biographical if you ask me
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personally i dont think genshin fans have any rights to judge arknights, esp ones who’ve never touched the game ever. yes both games still don’t offer many dark skinned playable characters, reserving that mostly to npcs. And that’s perfectly valid criticism.
But you can’t put arknights on the same level as genshin bad in terms of nuanced storytelling, disable rep, crazy ranged genre music score, merciful gacha rng, the fact hypergryph as a smaller company has been actively doing Direct Action charity work since the beginning of covid breakout til now; compared to a giant like mhy giving yall mere crumbs.
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I'll make a more proper pinned post or smth later but just a reminder that proshippers/"anti-antis"/people who support pedophilic/incestous/etc. shit can Fuck Off. Do Not Fucking Interact. Explode, even.
This also includes people who ship IRL people together! We're not about that here dawg!!! Get the fuck out!!!
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i disagree with the underlying presupposition in posts that say "transphobia is antithetical to feminism because feminism is about bodily autonomy" because. well. no thats not what feminism is about, besides liberal/choice feminism. if you want to combat trans-exclusionary feminism you need to understand the real basis for that exclusion
feminism isnt about bodily autonomy, exactly. there's a reason feminists are opposed to the cosmetic industry--our choices dont exist in a vacuum. instead theyre more often products of our patriarchal context. "choice" is, then, a matter of women being allowed to make choices that dont align with patriarchal interests, without repercussion. thats what underlies trans-exclusionary feminism: the idea that it exists within patriarchy. they believe that "gender ideology" promotes the idea of an immaterial, but innate, quality of gender--which contradicts the feminist theory of gender as an ideologically constructed method of sexed oppression. thus, the idea that you can move between genders, to them, affirms patriarchy by insisting gender is real
arguing with them that trans people (and all people) should have a right to gender affirming medical care will fall flat because they believe medical institutions too exist within patriarchy (cosmetic surgery, "the husband stitch," pathologization of women's behavior), and therefore gendered choices within it cannot be fully autonomous.
obviously there's trans-exclusionary feminists whose transphobia is not predicated on any feminist theory, but rather the same hate that is the basis of conservative transphobia. this post is just about transphobia that uses feminist theory to "justify" it
the key, instead, to combatting that thinking is contextualizing the freedom of movement between genders, the blurring of the physical boundaries between traditional "male" and "female," as anti-patriarchal. the reconstruction of gender as a method of articulating expression and identity for oneself distinguishes it from gender as a means of imposed limitation. im not trans and cant articulate the trans experience in this way, but i think the fact that conservatism, far far far far more often than not, is explicitly anti-trans, is quite evidentiary of the way trans people very much do inhabit an anti-patriarchal ideological space
id love to hear from trans people about this, whether expansion or critique
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