#fwb breakup

[rotting-blossoming]

You didn’t loose him, you were set free into a situation that hurts but is much less painful than what you would have gone through if you proceeded like this with him.

Just because you didn’t get to continue this for a little while longer doesn’t mean that it was too early.

This is the right time, let yourself feel what you need to feel and take time to recover as if it was something physical you could see.

- Another lesson from Aphrodite from today

#breakup #breakup selfcare #self care #fwb problems #fwb breakup #heartbreak #aphrodite worship #aphrodite deity #hellenic worship #hellenic pagan #hellenism

[the-cookie-of-doom]

[Catching Kim on the walk of shame back to his apartment after his drunken one night stand with Chay]

Tankhun catches on immediately to Kim’s weird vibes. 

“Did he force you?”

“What? No.” Kim doesn’t know whether to laugh or cry. Chay could never force him into anything, let alone sex. Kims only regret about last night—the best night of his life—is that he barely remembers it. His one chance with the boy he loves, and all he has are vague flashes and impressions, promising a night very much worth remembering. “I’m fine, Khun. Just… just tired.”

“Hmph. Be careful, little Kim, I sense you’re playing with fire.”

“It isn’t going to happen again.”

Khun doesn’t look convinced. But he doesn’t push the matter, throwing his scarf over his shoulder with a haughty sigh and stalking away, his entourage in tow. 

—

[Khun confronts Chay over the incident.]

“Be careful with him, he’s very sensitive, you know.”

“Who is?” Chay asks, bewildered at the sudden subject change. 

“You know who. He feels things very deeply, as much as he pretends he’s as soulless as the rest of us.” Tankhun points a strict finger at Chay. “Don’t hurt him. I adore you both. Don’t make me choose between my darlings, yes?” 

Chay nods dumbly. He doesn’t think it would be much of a choice, but he doesn’t say as much. 

#cookie writes #kimchay #just a little thing #a year after the breakup KimChay hook up #Chay decides They Can Be Adults About This #Kim has doubts but he's not gonna miss his chance #even if it's only sex #so they become FWB and predictably and painfully pine for each other #all while sleeping together #bc that's delicious #khun is unimpressed by both of them #and chay is right: it wouldn't be a choice at all #he'll happily string Chay up by his toes if he ever hurts Kim #that's his baby brother only khun can bully him <3

[kawaii-kushami]

i need to hold a feverish sleepy sickie to my chest and caress their hair and face and rub their nose for them and take care of them while enjoying their warmth on my own body

#kk.txt #going through a breakup and then a fwb breakup and im just crumbling dude #i want to hold someone and take care of them...

[dartfuldodger]

idk who needs to hear this but don't look at the social media of someone you aren't in contact with anymore. you're gonna see something hypocritical or a post about morality that you wish they adhered for you. it's just gonna hurt

#ex friends #breakup #abuse cw #social media #advice #idk who needs to hear this #ugh looked at an ex friends tumblr #she posted about cheating revenge and convinced my fwb to get with her without telling me #but she also posted something I'd wished I could have sent to her like as a call out #and just. nobody will see this but it hurts so much #i wanna kms #vent in tags #I just. She stole all my friends and threw me away like trash. #it makes me sad #and angry

[justmochi]

spent all morning writing out lowkey canon events that happen to my ocs in the future why is this so fun

#like i’m always against writing for future instances #bc no one rly knows the future #bUT IN HAVING SO MUCH FUN #pregnant eunmin? #MARRIED EUNMIN? #jane brEAKUP? #jenn having a fwb type thing going on? #jenn adopting a BABY!? #sad events that happen to mira :(

[hqbaby]

i'm going through a breakup and i'm about to make it everyone's problem

#the way it's not even a real breakup #it's just my fwb who told me he loved me #lmao #anyway!!! get ready for angst #m.rambles

[boltgunkiller-archive]

to be honest i personally think brittany and santana fell in love at the same time. santana is just very noticeably more unhinged about everything she feels ❤️ she is so me

#i honestly don’t think santana fell first britt fell harder #to me it was the same time. and things just got more intense as they got closer #they both smiled in their first encounter and kept looking at each other so to me #they just. did it at the same time #and then it got crazydeep REALLY FAST #personally i think santana knew quinn first and they stayed close to each other first practice or wtv #then the locker scene #and then santana kinda tried to bring brittany in. kind of #and then unholy trinity everybody #honestly idc if people disagree it’s real to me #and then brittany and santana became the best friends rather than just quinn and santana ❤️ amazing #photobooth pictures. hanging out all the time. fwb #also i think that the summer between s2 and s3 they got matching heart necklaces #because that’s when they started being able to have a romantic relationship #and then they’d had one for a while by s3 #post breakup they both kept the necklaces because they didn’t wanna have to change their meaning #they hoped that their relationship would come back. even santana who thought it was over #and luckily it did. amen #most annoying married couple you know coming to theaters near you #with matching heart necklaces from hs that have a deeper meaning now #they got through it everybody. Maybe the landslide was the friends we made along the way or something #hehrhehfhhr it’s just wow they really prevailed. i cant move #gleeposting

[thewaywardbirdsnest]

Light Switch

Inspired by the song "Light Switch" by Charlie Puth

Zoro and Sanji have had a… “thing” going on for several months now. Zoro’s not sure what to call what they have going on.

Every time Zoro tries to have the “what are we?” conversation, Sanji gives evasive answers or changes the subject. “Why do we have to put a label on it, marimo? Can’t we just enjoy it?”

Zoro doesn’t know what to call their relationship, but he does know how he feels about Sanji.

He’s in love.

And he has no idea what to do about it.

He doesn’t want to push too hard and risk losing Sanji entirely, but it’s also getting harder and harder to pretend that he doesn’t want something more.

It’s morning, and Zoro is looking at himself in Sanji’s bathroom mirror, trying to figure out why he’s ended up here again. He had told himself he was done, but when Sanji texted him late at night asking him to come over, he couldn’t help himself. It’s like the second he gets a text or call or a whispered suggestion from Sanji, a switch is flipped within him and he forgets all about the inevitable let down. He’s an addict and Sanji is far too enticing to say no to.

He’s turned on the tap and is letting the water fill and spill out of his cupped hands. As he bends forward to splash some of it on his face, he feels hands slide around him and Sanji’s warm body pressed against his back.

“Hey,” Sanji greets him as he hooks his chin over Zoro’s shoulder, turning his head briefly to kiss his cheek.

When Zoro looks up and sees the image in the mirror, it’s like time stands still.

Sanji, sleep-tousseled and content, arms wound around him, smiling eyes meeting Zoro’s gaze in the mirror.

I can’t do this anymore.

“We need to talk.”

Because Zoro’s looking right at him in the mirror when he says it, Sanji can’t hide the look of fear that passes over him before he composes his face into calm detachment. He steps back from Zoro, folding his arms across his chest.

“Okay,” he says coolly, “let’s talk then.”

Zoro can feel the walls going up around Sanji, pulling away not just physically but emotionally. It breaks his heart.

He convinces Sanji that maybe they shouldn’t have this conversation in the bathroom, so Sanji silently leads them to the living room. He sits cross-legged on one end of the couch, hugging a large throw pillow to his chest. Zoro sits on the other end, giving Sanji his space. He’s about to speak when Sanji says, “I know where this is going, Zoro. Nobody says ‘we need to talk’ for good reasons.”

Zoro’s chest hurts as he fumbles for the right words. His eyes are glued to the floor, unable to meet Sanji’s. He’s trying his best to steel his resolve.

“Zoro… Please, do it quick.”

Zoro looks up to find that Sanji’s eyes are brimming with tears. He keeps wiping them away with the cuff of his sweatshirt before they can truly fall, trying to pretend it’s not happening. Like he’s actively trying to will himself to stop crying, but he can’t help it.

Zoro doesn’t get it. Why is he acting like this? It seems sincere, but where is it coming from?

“Go on, marimo,” Sanji prods him.

“Sanji, I can’t keep doing this,” Zoro begins unsteadily.

Once he says this next part, he can’t take it back. He takes a deep breath.

“I’m in love with you, and I can’t keep pretending like I’m not.”

Sanji freezes, completely unmoving except for the rise and fall of his chest. His eyes are wide and the tears he was holding back fall freely now, unimpeded.

“What?” he manages to croak out.

“I know you don’t want a relationship, so I think it’s just better if we stop now.”

Silence.

And then, Sanji starts laughing. Or sobbing. It’s both really. He can’t seem to make up his mind about which he wants to do more.

Zoro is more confused than ever.

Sanji is a laughing-sobbing mess as he clambers over to Zoro’s end of the couch to take his hands. He speaks, but cannot form full sentences. “I— I tried t— you — oh my god, I was so— how— Zoro—“

“Sanji, hey, breathe! What’s going on?” Zoro asks, squeezing Sanji’s fingers tightly to get him to focus.

“I— Zoro, I— god, I tried so hard not to. I didn’t want to ruin it. I tried, but I couldn’t— couldn’t—“

“Couldn’t what?”

“Couldn’t help but fall in love with you.”

And just like that, Zoro’s whole world is upended.

“But you… you said you didn’t want…”

“I was wrong. I was so goddamn wrong. I was so scared of fucking it all up. And then I thought you were going to break this off because you found someone else or you were bored of me. The thought of you leaving scared me so much more than all those other fears and doubts combined. And, god, I’m so… you’re so…”

Zoro doesn’t need any more explanation. He simply pulls Sanji over to straddle his lap, wrapping him up in a tight embrace. For a while, Sanji just stays there, sobbing into Zoro’s shoulder and clutching the front of his t-shirt. Knowing Sanji, he hasn’t breathed a word of this to anyone but Zoro, so Zoro just lets him cry it out for a while. When his sobs finally subside and his grip on Zoro’s shirt goes slack, Zoro rubs his hands up and down Sanji’s back soothingly. He’ll stay here as long as he needs.

Eventually, Sanji leans back to sit on Zoro’s thighs, reaching for a tissue from the box on the side table. He mops at his face and blows his nose. His eyes are red and swollen. “Sorry, I’m so gross right now.”

“You’re okay. I love you even when you’re gross.”

“Stop it, you’re gonna make me cry again!”

~<>~<>~<>~

Every time they’ve hooked up before, it’s always been hard and fast, rough and dirty. But this time when Zoro carries Sanji down the hall to the bedroom, it is nothing short of joyous. Every touch feels like it’s brand new, soft and slow and meaningful. There’s giggles of laughter between panted breaths and delighted moans.

Even though his face still bears the evidence of tears, when Zoro sees him smiling he’s sure that Sanji has never looked more beautiful.

Zoro comes to the music of Sanji chanting whispered “I love you”s in his ear as he clings to him like he never wants to let go.

They cancel their plans for the day. Sanji calls in “sick” to work. (He jokes to Zoro that technically he is sick - he’s lovesick. Zoro groans and nearly shoved him off the bed.)

They spend all day wrapped up in each other and that night, they go on their first real date.

#zosan #fwb to lovers #modern au #angst with a happy ending #an almost-breakup #love confessions #non-explicit sex #bird's twitter threadfic archive

[jlf23tumble]

What's the blog that went over 2015 larry? There's the one video from the Grimshaw interview where louis looks hella in love with Harry. Literall heart eyes gazing up at him. But I'd love to read some counter thoughts to them not being together at that time.

I just spent a chunk of time digging, and those convos all happened, like, a year ago, rip me! So if you want to see some older posts, here's one and here's another one. There's no real timeline/masterpost that I remember seeing, but there were other people chiming in around then, too--I think it *does* help, though, to look at those interviews, as short as they are, in full vs. gif recaps. That context, bb! You can read it at least two ways!

#can't remember where i saw it when i was digging through tumblr's maddening search 'function' yesterday #but someone mentioned harry rolling his eyes during carpool karaoke's drink ordering sesh seeming like a genuine eyeroll--stuff like that #it's all conjecture of course--none of us knows anything #but for me--being able to read it as fwb or messy or open is actually possible/plausible #that time is a crunchy one and the eleanor breakup is a big indicator that things were frothy below the surface #all the people that talk about harry singing along happily to i will survive #like has anyone listened to the lyrics to that song lmao

[theehonestpoet]

I

I don't think I'm crazy to have felt the things I did, or do.

I know if someone would have glanced inside they would have saw what I felt.

There are no what is, wondering why, no potential.

But I know the truth is there was a moment

we were almost okay with being a little more than nothing,

and then you were not okay with it.

I wish I knew you were going to change your mind,

I'm a ilttle mad I know actually.

#poetry #frustrated #spoken word #writing #free verse #thoughts #fwb #angry #misunderstood #breakup #i miss you

[kiwisa]

so. i have written angst one-shots/drabbles and i don’t know which driver i should use as the main character: any wish ?? 🫶🏻🌷

#there is a fwb gone wrong #and another one about a breakup #.mot du jour

[nkogneatho]

I gave you guys enough smut this week. Now get ready for being wet in the eyes, and not down there.

#CHEATING BREAKUPS FWB #A lot of shit to come #pasi.txt

[nightmareonjakesstreet]

And BOOM!! Just like that, it's all over

#sad #lonely #breakup #relationship #fwb

[tyrian-sexual]

actually sat down with him to have a proper talk and heart to heart which frankly we both needed

#as of now not technically a full breakup but more of a year long break with us still staying close friends / fwb #to focus on personal goals and perhaps be closer to where we both want to be

[reginaofdoctorwho]

he broke up with me on tuesday, and today he telling me eventually he'd be interested in an fwb relationship. so the problem was dating me, not anything with me or my body

#he wants to be just friends he wants to be fwb #he keeps coming up with new things he wants that all aren't leaving or dating me #will i do it if he asks? probably #i don't want to i think it would absolutely break me but i want to be with him #i want to be near him #i can't keep doing this #he kissed me after breaking up with me #he texted later and said he felt something with the kiss #but i guess not enough to genuinely want ME #read back over old texts and i had made him promise to tell me if he had any issues with the relationship #he PROMISED #he promised to tell me before it became something breakup worthy #and promise to tell me if my mental shit started fucking with his head #he didn't do either until a week ago #and told me it could be worked on #that it wasn't something we had to break up over if we worked on it #the day after we had the day together and he told me he thought we'd absolutely make it work #monday night he told me he'd been planning on breaking up with me for a week #he says he was really going to try but it just was too much #he wanted to be optimistic #i wish he had just broken up with me then instead of making me think i could fix it #i texted one of his friends tuesday morning asking when he started talking to him about our problems #the friend texted him asking if everything was okay #and he texted back that he was breaking up with me and i still thought i could fix things 🙄 #i saw the text when i got into his car #he had his phone screen on it #i just feel like such a fuck up #and on last wednesday he had said that he thought we'd work everything out after we'd tried to fuck #and i'd started crying before we could get to that part #because of him saying the night before that we were having problems and we could work on it but he

[adainesfroggieboggy]

i tried to write something bittersweet today and it came out just sad. just straight-up sad. so you can expect that tonight <3

#it’s rowan/pete #a rowan/pete breakup post tuc2 #because they were fwb ok #they had some sweet moments but they were just fucking for a long time #i would write them more but i don’t do straight smut and that’s what they are #anyways rowan/pete my beloved