#got some hate so posting positivity :]

[fumifooms]

his flower...

Aww, from the signing doodle board and the Adventurer’s Bible long illustration… He likes flowers he likes shells, just a guy and his flower he picked from the side of the road, what’s not to love. Nature lover boy…

#Dungeon meshi #delicious in dungeon #Toshiro nakamoto #Shuro #he’s so cute he looks so genuinely happy what… #It really doesn’t look storebought which is insane to me. He went and picked a flower with his noble hands from the dirt somewhere #In both of these it can be assumed it’s for Falin/he’s thinking about her which. I’m sobbing #He knows she wouldn’t want a neat trimmed bouquet bc she loves raw nature stuff. His love for her frees him a lil in its own way…. #Gives him a motivation to reconnect with his interest in bugs and stuff like when he was a kid… #This is the man who got his wedding proposal rejected bc she wants to travel and went “good for her good for her” #SNAIL TOSHIRO FOR THE WINNNNN #There’s stuff to analyze here but ik toshiro positivity gets some ppl aggressive I’mma stop here pls no hate on this post <3 #Answering this ask at the speed of light. Gonna answer some others tonight #Nature lover toshiro

[transgenderfivepebbles]

it/its users are so powerful actually. shoutout to all it/its users. you are like the sun and the sky and a beautiful song. whether you are human or not, no matter why you use these pronouns, your identity blurs the lines of what it means to be human, welcoming those who were once pushed out and freeing those who choose to stay elsewhere. your very existence is an act of courage and rebellion. you are all so real and so wonderful. thank you it/its users

#ramblings #it/its positivity #got some hate for using it (dw i found it funny) so im posting this for all the others out there <3 #it/its pronouns are beautiful and powerful and i wouldnt have it any other way #whether you are just some guy or an eldritch being or some kind of creature. you’re so cool

[starberry-skies]

mspec gays and lesbians are the coolest tbh. like there's so much depth to that identity and i love love love learning why ppl identify that way !! lesbians who sometimes like men? gay men who are only romantically intrested in women? it's awesome!!! people are using labels and customizing them to fit how they interact w their identity. i just like it a lot :]

#chirping #got some hate so posting positivity :] #mspec gay #mspec lesbian #bi gay #bi lesbian #mspec gay positivity #mspec lesbian positivity #mogai #lgbtqia+ #lgbtq positivity #mogai positivity #critical inclusionist #radical inclusivity #inclusivity #stelian #lunian

[hella1975]

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#be deadly fucking serious rn PLEASE whatttt. that post that's like 'parents will say something that shapes you as a person #but for them it was just another tuesday' like WHAT JUST HAPPENED #basically if you've been following me since i went to uni then you know first year was an... interesting time for me and my mum #we rowed all the time and it's the most unsettled our relationship has ever been and i do truly believe it was just some unfortunate #external factors like me leaving home would rock the boat enough it was always gonna rejig our dynamic #but on top of that i was her LAST child to fly the nest which she hated AND my sister was in germany being insanely dependent on my mum #so i got sidelined a lot which was shitty at the time but i get it now like im still a bit bitter bc being the eldest everything my sister #does is an exciting first and our age gap means typically our academic big moments tend to cross over #so my a-levels happened during her first year of uni so for me a-levels were the biggest thing ever but ofc her thing was bigger #but when she did HER a-levels it was the biggest thing ever and i was /just/ doing gcses etc and germany was the same #like it was JUST my first year of uni bc meanwhile my sister was living alone in a foreign country. so that sucks and my mum was #defo focused on my sister and i wasn't in a position to be like 'hey i know it doesn't seem like it now you've got one kid through it #but going to university and settling in for the first year is still an insanely stressful and lonely time so please pay attention to me' #and all in all me and my mum just STRUGGLED we fought A LOT and not petty rows either they were really emotionally heavy all the time #and basically what's caused this post is that she said about america 'it'll be the longest ive been away from you' #and i know what she meant like a month out of england is the biggest thing ive ever done and im not even in EUROPE so this is huge #but i kinda said like 'im pretty sure i went a month in first year a couple times without visiting?' AND I MEANT IT CASUAL #BC I AM PRETTY SURE IT'S TRUE LIKE I WASNT EAGER TO GO HOME I WENT SOME WEEKS NOT EVEN RINGING #which REALLY shows how strained it must have been at the time. and she responds with confusion so i pointed out that first year #wasn't a great time for us and again still being casual bc it's such a fundamental truth for me that first year was Bad for me and mum #and she just blinks at me like 'what are you talking about' what. WHAT. like i knew she wasn't paying much attention to me then #but it made me MISERABLE for an entire YEAR like boom can testify bc they had to deal with my bs over the phone the entire time #and my mum just. didn't even notice that we weren't doing well. what. what the fuck even..... baffled by this actually #like i am REELING from this i feel like she just tipped the fundamentals of my world with that #hella goes home

[hyperfixationtimego]

hello!! i don’t really want to harp on this issue, but this is just a small reminder that Mindy Kaling has actually NOT done a lot of the horrible things she’s being accused of! You don’t have to personally like her or her humor, but I beg of you to please at least do some research on her supposed problematic behavior before you start treating her & the things she makes/contributes to so viciously :(

If you have a reliable source detailing something shitty she’s done, by all means please leave it in a reply/reblog! The more knowledge the better! But I do ask that you be civil about it!

#i am very tired :( #and it is very scary how quickly everybody seemed to pounce on her for things she either didn’t actually do or things that got blown waaaayy #out of proportion #i got a hateful anon for my position on this argument so I figured that perhaps a more succinct post might help to clarify & create #a dialogue! #i want to be very clear that I’m not fixed on this position? there seems to be some confusion about that #the only reason I knew who Mindy Kaling was before all this started was because I knew she was on the office lmao #i personally like her & her sense of humor but I’m also not like….an avid fan of hers or anything? #i do not have anything to lose in being wrong here - I’m just sick of seeing people using their unchecked biases to justify hatred #alrighty i’m done i’m going to SLEEP gn fuckers /silly #mindy kaling #velma hbo max #Velma 2023 #velma show

[butchez]

*two characters look at the camera And to the side* ohhhhhmy god guys tge paralells ???? the fuckign PARALLELS ??? ??

#i do love actual character sprite analysis for aa but some of u guys ......... #jude talks #aa lb #ive had this post saved for a while i just didnt feel like complaining abt aa fans until now #truth be told i was looking for a screenshot i took forever ago of a like . twitter group called ''simon [of aa5] simp squad'' #that got recommended to me and pissed me off so bad i deleted the app for a year #i can excuse athena fans bc like 90% of people who hate her are stupid and misogynist and expanding upon poorly written female characters is #a moral imperative but i will NEVERRERE🖕🖕🖕 forgive simon fans. go to hell forever for being tasteless #''his backstory is so sad'' theres better sadboys. in the same series hes from. #LAST COMPLAINT before i focus on kindness positivity whimsy etc for the rest of the month but aa fans who completely disregard the political #themes are so lame forever. i remember a while back there was a post going around like ''isnt it funny how the dynamics between the aa #protags and antags are so dramatized ? like they literally have the same job'' like come ONNBNNN lack of real world knowledge aside how do #you play through the aa games and go ''yeah defense attorneys and prosecutors basically have the same job'' #INCORRECT BUZZER SOUND PLEASE PLAY ALL 4 MAINLINE GAMES + DGS + AAI AGAIN #ill stop being a tar pit now. goobye.

[mage-propaganda]

If I accidentally block you, I’m sorry - my posts are being hit by “r*dblr” again, and so I’m having to block like a good 90% of the interactions/notes I’m getting ‘cause they’re just straight up terfs.

On that note; might be annoying and post some NPC art/talk about my very gay dnd character because I’m still in such a dnd/ttrpgs rut and I’m so sorry to my mutuals for that

#personal #one of the notes in the tags from a person I blocked #stated my mlm/trans man positivity posts were like #renown and hated on that side of tumblr #which is making so many things make so much more sense #but also like man sounds exhausted to hate people that much #get therapy #play dnd #enjoy some gay romance #or friendships idk some people are aro/ace #friendships are just as important #found family is most important #just like drink some tea and enjoy life while we got it

[loregoddess]

best part of drawing fantasy map: you will have a cool fantasy map for your fun fantasy project

worst part: labels

#I hate typography #I dunno how the hell I got through my typography class w/ an A #I am SO BAD AT TYPOGRAPHY YOU HAVE NO IDEA IT IS SO HARD #like my text looks Fine if I hand-letter it and actually Try but I refuse to hand-letter an entire map #also hand-lettering is...hmm...only good for some arts #cartography is not one of those arts for me #also I just hmm...hate positioning all the little labels and stuff and making the text tool Actually Work For Me #very tedious but not in a fun way #I'm working with 3.5 or 5 font I won't even be able to read this if I print it RIP #but if I made the map larger than it is the program would crash I know from experience #which is fine I hate large files anyhow BUT THESE STUPID LABELS #I'm only doing this so I have good worldbuilding notes for the future for this particular project #I'm almost done with labels and then I just need to do some other stuff #and this map I've been working on literally all year so far will be complete #and then I can maybe do other arts #I know ''you can work on multiple arts etc. etc.'' but listen I will not finish this map if I start a new art project #I Want To Finish but mmhhmmmm do I hate typography~ #I literally hand-drew an entire border filled with swirls no problem but these labels.... #I literally hand-drew everything but THESE LABELS #anyhow that's my art vent post for the day #I swear I love art but sometimes I need to scream in frustration y'know #bc typography #oracle of lore

[monsterbisexual]

things have been scary n hard n a lot but i do feel good sometimes..theres good things too they might not seem like big things or as meaningful but it still matters n makes a difference! things might get scarier n harder etc overall n probs will at least sometimes.. even when it feels like things shld be easy theyre usually not but im trying ! n thats smth i suppose

#p #work was so bad today had to socialize w family which went ok but not ideal situation for me after #might see a friend tomorrow n walk my dog n thats makin me anxious for a few reasons but mostly cuz idk how to talk to my friends anymore #for reasons that arent even only just me being a freak #the next day im having cavities fixed n itll take hrs #i rly to set up a dr appointment n its been ages cuz even for a normal appointment its v stressful n scary n bad for me #for a variety of reasons but i also just fuckin hate it #n this is cuz i think there coulddd be smth more serious goin on that ive been trying to ignore n avoid bringing up #cuz what if it is actually smth #n i cant even go on abt that rn (tired) but ive been..thinkin abt it #aaaand i need to try n get an appointment w a psychiatrist so i can maybe get back on meds again cuz i think itd be a good idea #like i think on em i didnt think they made a big difference but i feel like im way worse now off em so #n i hope i dont have to go thru the regular dr abt that cuz i got my refills thru them but i guess ill be seein her anyway n overwhelmed!!! #oh n the friend thing is scary cuz my lil group is all broken up now n i feel like im choosing sides when i hang out w some of em now #which sucks so thats the main thing abt that. ok enough bye <3 #idk what the original post not the tags even meant im tryin to be . positive! or smth jeez :/ #dlt ltr !

[tinseltina]

the internet fcking sucks way more these days.

not to sound like a boomer, but i if i see someone complaining about tags and reblogs basically tone policing the bloggers, im gonna call bullshit on those reactions.

either block the tags (cuz they ARE still tagged specifically) or unfollow the blog. it's not that serious.

tumblr feels like the last place i can still post my thoughts and opinions on things with minimal anxiety (not NO anxiety. i'll be worried about this sort of thing for a long time still, i know it).

but it's the weird twitter/tiktok policing/whining that makes me feel like tumblr has gone to shit.

(this is all probably an exaggeration. folks on tumblr have always been insufferable pricks. but it feels...different these days. like now the people are insufferable in a different way. mostly in the "i don't know how to curate my own online experience so i need to make it everyone else's problem" sorta way instead of blocking and muting and moving the fck on)

#i gotta find other stuff to do and the motivation to actually DO THOSE THINGS #im getting stressed being online these days #always feeling like i have to be positive and avoid negativity in online spaces #whats nice is my tumblr is basically irrelevant and unknown so i can still post to mostly my hearts content #ive got anon hate what 3 times MAYBE in the entirety of my time on this site? thats peace #i follow some really cool people with fun blogs and i dont like seeing people whine about how they run their blogs #its a pain in the ass and undeserved and i take that shit personally cuz im insane like that

[sneasedtomeetyou]

//am gonna generally say since i wanna get more into hisui stuff and specifically celeste's writings down the line. i will not be writing negative plot points about melli because i really love him lmao. if someone comes into my inbox claiming people in hisui secretly (or not so secretly) hated melli im just gonna delete it

//obviously you're free to make posts about him on your own since multiverses are canon i just kinda wanted to make it clear for mine ig. i personally prefer writing melli as a strong personality but an overall competent and dependable warden. he and celeste are both eccentric, polarizing individuals in their own ways. frankly i think if warden melli existed in the present he and casi would be besties so maybe its for the best he isnt around rn

#ooc #//i also like kamado but i admit theres a lot about his character to critique #//and celeste (casi's ancestor) had a complicated relationship with kamado. so casi's view of him is through that lens to some extent #//everything celeste wrote about melli was overall positive tho they bickered a lot #//very “we got in an hour long argument about skutanks. i cant stand that man sometimes. anyways im inviting him to my wedding” #//i started this post to lay down ground rules and got distracted by thinking about headcanons actually #//having fun #//if you want someone i like as a character but my ocs hate ask about beni lmao

[mothheart]

I know this probably makes me a bad person but being bullied over my nose has never left me. I hate my nose and I wish it was smaller and if I could afford cosmetic surgery I would get it

#like yeah obviously being bullied for basically all of my years in school would impact me but i feel guilty about it #i hated my teeth and i know i never would have been happy about them if i hadnt gotten braces. like it WAS medically necessary but #even if it wasnt #i know i still would have never felt happy or confident with crooked teeth and a severe overbite #when i say i got bullied for every little insignificant thing i am being so serious #people i considered friends talked behind my back about how ugly they thought i was and i would find out from people i wasnt as close with #the weirdest thing that probably seems so stupid is the one (1) time i wore shorts bc it was fucking hot and we had a day #at school where we spent it all outside #some guy made fun of me for the way my legs and knees look #i realize its not nearly as bad as fat people have it but i was bullied for being very skinny and for the way my body looked #i cant see myself ever being genuinely confident in any part of myself now lol #and i have so many body image issues that i wont go into #i try to shift my mind to the same place as all these body positive posts and i completely believe them in the case of anyone that isnt me #i know this probably makes me vain and a bad person but what can i do really lol #miles rambles

[himmlisch-moon-princess]

Honestly people are so fucking stupid and pathetic for harassing someone with DID simply because their symptoms seem “cringey”

Like bitch wtf, excessive stuttering is a symptom of abuse and if that alter is the trauma holder for that abuse, of fucking course they are going to act completely different than the other alters or host. They are the only one holding that trauma. I’m so sick of social media trying to belittle or make fun of people with actual disorders just because the person suffering isn’t fucking conventionally attractive or because their alters seem “fake” or “cringey” to you. Literally fuck off and die

#TikTok is so fucking Pathetic when it comes to positive mental health #you all wanna bully people that find platforms to speak out on #oh wow some person with an actual disorder wants to post their alters and you all immediately got shit to say and jokes to make #literally kill yourself #I am just barely finding out about the wonderland system #and honestly I hate that I had to find out through a bunch of immature fucking scumbags

[fallingbyjuleecruise]

#i’m really going through it right now but i can’t even afford therapy anymore bc even tho i’ve been applying for jobs since May #only one got back to me but they said they weren’t interested in hiring only seasonal even tho they said it was a good job for students #or temporary workers to pad their resumes after long gaps which i have bc after i had to leave my job to go to chicago for school i’ve been #unemployed and constantly applying for work w absolutely no responses for the last 2 years #which was easier when i was getting unemployment but i used all of that up a long time ago and i keep getting hit w weird charges whenever #i manage to save up any money and i keep being put in the negative in my account #and i tried to open a threadless store just to get SOME money ANY money but no one really bought anything so i've lost all motivation to #add designs bc it's a lot of effort for no reward and i can't think of what to add that would interest ppl in buying my stuff so i can get #pocket change essentially and i'm about to enter my final semester and i have to put together my bfa show at the end of it and i don't have #any money to create anything that's worth anything or that would be a good representation of my ability as an artist bc everything costs #money and i think i made a mistake deciding to go to art school instead of doing literally anything else but i don't have any other skills #and i now i'm wondering if all that time i spent cultivating art skills i should've been learning a vocation so i could actually have a #future and i hate all of my classmates bc they're getting gallery jobs or work in the field and i'm just trying to get trying to see if i #can get a host position at a shitty restaurant again bc i just need any sort of paycheck so that i can scrape by #my posts #.jpg

[just-rogi]

Yeah I think I’m taking a break from this website for a little while I can’t fucking do this shit with tumblr

#how the hell did my post attract the attention of the worst people in the Fucking universe #i don’t even get effected by strangers on the internet commenting stupid shit #but for some reason this shit got to me #and I think I need to take some space from tumblr for my own mental health and focus on that #but that last post was legitimately triggering me in a way I wasn’t expecting it to #why do people turn into fucking monsters the second eating disorders come up #why does that awaken the fucking monsters in so many of you freaks #as the greenlight to rip apart people #i just wanted to talk about how happy I was that Taylor swift was bringing positive attention to ED recovery #i hate it here

[faggotry-enjoyer]

earlier today i was like "yknow i love tumblr but it is too much of a time sink" and uninstalled it again. and here i am, crawling back, seeking those little dopamine hits in my endless scroll.

#i love tumblr in the energy #and in some ways being here is so good for me #like for example this is the only place where i consistently hear good things about fat people #which helps with the ed A LOT - it was never very severe so just being back on here almost got rid of it for now at least behaviour-wise #and disability positivity queer positivity etc #but i hate hate hate the way it consumes my attention #and my only strategy to combat it is 'raise the barrier to entry' (uninstalling and forcing myself to use the browser which Sucks Ass) #but what about when i want it bad enough to cross that higher barrier? what then huh? #i've left before and i know i can do it again #but the withdrawal is powerful #original post