#it's okay to vent anon!

[jazeswhbhaven]

Idk if it is an unpopular opinion or not but I think this is a safe place for me to expressed it. Ra-on or MC for me is commendable in some ways like how fast they adapt to new environments, how they can handle very stressful and highly traumatizing events and situations in their life with admirable strength IMO, and how can actually live in a place that serves their chefs' hair and their idea of spicy is lava as food, I like their outgoing side and I would have loved to see them just exploring Hell. Unfortunately, that is where my compliments end for her, I wish the game gave the player more time? to just ease themselves into new characters introduce to them without MC thinking about how hot they are and how they want to suck their tities once every 30 seconds.

It might be my problem alone but I don't feel I'm being in any of the H-scene, it feels like I'm intruding on them, not the hot kind but the uncomfortable kind where I have to sit there and watch, so I just skip them halfway through. How MC and devils initiate sex either just makes my coochie reverse back into my organ or is just too comedic that it is hard to take them seriously. Maybe I'm just slow to intimacy and it's just a me issue but every card I read without MC feels great to read? Like I don't have that same uncomfortable feeling when it's just the characters. I don't get it, I thought I was being a jealous bitch but it's not envy where I think I should, maybe, feel jealous of MC? Because whenever they're doing it with any of the devils, I just don't want to be either of them or be there or feeling it.

Please ignore this if it bothers you, I just need to let it out about this complicated feeling I'm having. I still like the game, I just don't like the writing for the smut.

I feel you on this honestly, and it's good you let it out. I let it be known that this is a safe space for ya'll to vent about some hangups you have because, hey it happens. Everyone needs to vent. I don't mean this in a way that picks fun of you but "makes my coochie reverse back into my organ" is a mood. The way I approach H-scenes is very different though, since I can't self-insert in 98% of otome or gacha games cause well the MC is not my race, nationality or skin tone, I focus on how the LI acts mostly. How's his stroke game? What's his pillow talk like? If there's dick showin', let's study those features, curvy, fat, skinny? Is he considerate? (has the MC cum first) And most importantly if voiced, is the VA performing as if rent is due the next morning? those are my key things, and I find it interesting how others view H-scenes or if they self-insert or just be like "yup I just wanna watch" So your perspective of it is valid. It's fair to like the game and not like the smut. (honestly, it was similar for this book I read recently where I liked the smut scene but the rest of the book was lacking so hard the smut scene could have been a standalone)

#whb #jwhbasks❓ #whb content #it's okay to vent anon!

[hella1975]

hiiii haha. hello. exceptionally awkward introduction bc idrk how to start something like this so let's just jump right in. im taking a break from this account for a bit. i know i said i wanted taob out before halloween and currently im fine sticking with that deadline, but if i decide i need longer away then i will take longer away. every time ive reassured people that id never abandon a fic and updates will always come eventually i never once considered that my writing and ability to feel safe and comfortable on this site would be actively taken from me, so im not even going to apologise. i dont want this either and more importantly i dont fucking deserve it. i dont know what it is in the past year, if ive hit a certain amount of followers or 'popularity' that's made it so the natural ratio of positive to negative interactions must in turn go up, but there's been a serious uptick in weird asks for me. the annoying part is that a very small amount of them are actually objectively mean and hateful, the rest are just weird and invasive from people who seemingly dont realise that's what they're being. ive reached a point where i dont care if the intentions are good. it's not my job as a 20 year old tumblr user of all things to defend the morality of someone who couldnt even bother to come off anon. unfortunately, after blocking only one or two anons, the weird asks have decreased substantially, which says all you need to know about the fascinating and exhilarating lives led by these people, but ive also gone on to turn anon asks off entirely. this is something i actively fought against doing and had to be pushed into by my mutuals (who have been the coolest people on planet earth during this entire thing). turning off anon was a big deal to me even if it sounds silly. i felt betrayed and like id been backed into a corner because it was so vehmently something i DIDNT WANT that to feel like i had to do it anyway for my own mental health??? that sucks. so even though ive 'fixed' the problem, im still kind of reeling and uncomfortable every time i come on tumblr. i hope it's just something i need time to ease because i'll truly be devastated if this becomes 'ruined' for me. tumblr exists as the only place in the world where i am honestly every facet of myself without shame or hesitation; losing that would be insanely harmful to me. and to the people who cant appeal to the actual human behind the post, let me put that in words you can understand: we wouldn't get any more writing 😦😦😦 riots and fires and sirens, i know. so yeah. to anyone who has sent me an anon ask and you're now wondering if you were part of the problem, im firmly of the belief that you'll know if you are. when i say 'weird asks' i dont mean 'you sent me a para about your personal life just to vent or ask for advice' or 'you sent me a really deep emotional compliment about the impact me and/or my writing has had on you' - i love asks like that, so much that i put off taking a break and turning off anon solely for the joy they bring me. im sorry that it might feel like you're being punished too bc of the actions of what in reality is a HANDFUL of weird people, but this is what i feel like i have to do to feel safe and not go insane every time i log in. love you guys, hopefully ill see you soon x

#seriously another shout out to my mutuals #id particularly like to say thank you to boom who's always right there for me no matter what's happening or how insane im being #and also everyone in our little discord that wound up having to make a whole new channel for venting #bc i was there so often like 'today's weird ask isssss.... telling me about my cupsize!! rip them to shreds!!!' #hannah and theo especially being there and pushing me to finally turn off anon. war is truly over #and of course rori bc the shamelessness u show when hating on my anon asks has been genuinely really cathartic #sometimes u really do just need a rottweiler mutual to tell random people online to kill themselves 😭 #okay weird oscar acceptance speechcore gratitude over. i do just rlly love my mutuals #like i went three years not telling anyone about the worse side of internet popularity for fear of looking spoiled and ungrateful #so for the first time to open up about it and be met with outrage on my behalf and people saying in fact it's MORE fucked up #than i initially realised bc ive grown desensitised to it is. yeah cathartic i guess #they are singlehandedly reassuring me of the good this cursed app still holds #so everyone thank them and send them flowers NOW #okay im done i think. see you guys soon. i truly do want to come back asap bc like i said i NEVER EVEN WANTED TO FUCKING LEAVE #SOME ASSHOLES JUST HAD TO PUT GRENADES ON WHAT I ASSUMED WERE VERY UNIVERSAL AND OBVIOUS BOUNDARIES #if you're reading this like 'ohhh fuck i defo sent something invasive lately. i thought it was a joke/we were friends' #then 1) we arent friends if you're on anon. it immediately creates a power imbalance where you know me and any necessary context #but i have no idea who you are or how much you know about me. that's already a fucked dynamic #and 2) I HOPE YOU FEEL BAD. LIKE GENUINELY I HOPE YOU FEEL AWFUL AND HAVE A GOOD LONG LOOK AT YOURSELF #okay i think that's all. ta-ra lads??? how tf do u end something like this #ive queued this to reblog a couple more times throughout the day

[simplydnp]

Dan talking abt how tiktok is “the downfall of humanity” gave very millennial😭. Girl don’t act like you weren’t on tumblr in its peak years and don’t scroll on twitter every day (arguably worse). It’s just a pet peeve of mine when people say that because thats literally what gen x/boomers said about everything on the internet. MySpace was the true start of the downfall of humanity imo. Everything else just followed along! 👺

well he is a millenial 😔

i think he's trying to be conscious of everything that comes along with tiktok--safety concerns, privacy concerns, as well as the erasure of the creator and the platforming of The Algorithm.

he doesn't deny there's good content there, he even says in the video if his fyp gave him this content continually, he would use it. but he's all too aware of the advertising and prevalence of the algorithm. and, he's concerned about the amount of time people (cough, phil, cough) put into it.

i think they're valid concerns. i think having good-faith criticism about the things you choose to spend your time on are important. not that having guilt all the time is good, but something doesn't have to be 'perfect' in order for you to interact with it. (see youtube, twitter, and even here with tumblr)

i'll be honest, i'm a gen z who doesn't use tiktok. there's good tiktoks out there, but i prefer a different type of slop (everything is slop don't lie to yourself).

like if it really bothers you that much i suggest you sit with that discomfort and figure out why.

a lot of people older than gen z shit on tiktok because they think it's turning the frogs gay--it's just a title of something they can blame their hatred of everything different from them on, and their disgust for the youth who dare to not live by their morals. it's not about tiktok itself. whereas dan is seeing the flaws and faults of the app and the culture. you don't have to agree with him, but his opinion on it shouldn't ruin your day. he's just a guy.

#idk hes not attacking you for using it. theres bigger things yknow. like your feelings are valid. but if its that big of a deal consider why #fuck other peoples opinions! do what makes you happy! (as long as you arent hurting people) #like tiktok good tiktok bad is just not realistic. its all fucking grey okay. you gotta get used to living in ambiguity. fuck purity culture #idk why you chose me specifically but clearly you needed to vent about it. i hope this helps you process it anon. #dnp #c.text #answered

[objectum-culture-is]

Objectum/Plushum culture is feeling gross/like a zoophile for having a crush on a dog stuffed animal, even though you know it's okay and your attraction to her isn't because she's a dog.

-🐌

(sorry if this is tmi/vent-ish -∆-)

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#objectum #actually objectum #objectum culture #objectum culture is #tw zoophile mention #tw vent #are yall okay? #where is this sudden surgence of wondering if or feeling like being attracted to plushes modled after animals #while not being attracted to the animals theyre moddled after #makes one a zoophile? #like- #if you arent attracted to actual animals you arent a zoophile #sorry im just worried about yall #are plushum people being suddenly attacked or something? #are you guys okay? #🐌 anon

[important-question-anon]

Me getting impulsive thoughts to delete my account but I have 14 people that I don't want to scam out of a design so I must push through

#anon-sense #exhaustion hits like a bitch #im not destined to be a popular creator #not with my low social battery and horrible communication skills #the fantasy is nice #but the reality of it is just...daunting. exhausting. #don't get me wrong #i love that i can make people happy and that people actually like me #but i feel so tired...all the time nowadays #i can barely talk to my close friends because if how socially burnt out i am #i hate being like this #i feel like a horrible person because I can barely keep in touch #ew okay sorry for the vent back to our regularly scheduled programming

[moonlilyshipping]

Seeing all the harrassment that trans women are receiving on this site from terfs

Get the hell out of wlw and yuri communities if youre going to treat transwomen lesser than human

#crimemew has been revealing awful anons and just. #what the fuck is in your water bottle if you think it's okay to harrass a real person as an anonymous user #no wonder why this site is infested with $wiftiəs because the CEO loves white women terfs #as someone whos not even trans. get the hell out of fandoms that have a huge wlw following. you cant even be a decent human being. #not meant to be a informative post but this is my only message @ anyone who follows this blog #it's literally 2024. transwomen exist. stop trying to villify and harrass transwomen. #tagging as #vent #just in case it feels like one

[stormyoceans]

https://x.com/PiscesPing/status/1780635005225701695

no poddpapang winnysatang my perfect man arm. im anticipating a lot of school content again and not a single adult man in a police suit that fits his trained ass. i should probably go back to the european series.

I KNOW THE SITUATION LOOKS DIRE ANON BUT LET’S NOT FULLY DESPAIR YET

i’ve decided im gonna be clowning so outregeously from here until tuesday that the universe will be so shocked by the sheer insane delusional vibes im putting out that it’s gonna end up slipping and making my vision happen

so hear me out. we still have guy and pepper. we get the two of them now and then we get poddpapang for GMMTV 2025. on god we’re gonna complete that quadrangulation of older underrated actors stuck in side roles who deserve to have main ones and to kiss more men until we get the ultimate poly relationship of my hope and dreams

i also think that after the success of both i feel you linger in the air and the sign, GMMTV will actually give us a historical BL for sure, which i think could go to earthmix or forcebook, and possibly a series with different jobs other than office ones and doctors or chefs, which i hope will go to aouboom. and at this point im pretty sure we’re getting that mafia series with p’jojo and firstkhao, so hopefully we will get more variety this time

ALSO THE WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!! IM BETTING EVERYTHING ON THE WOMEN IM SELLING MY SOUL FOR THE WOMEN WE’RE GONNA GET MORE THAN ONE GL AND THAT’S FINAL!!!!!!!!!!!!

but i do understand feeling frustrated tbh. this really is NOT how i expected part 2 to go, and only yesterday i was sitting here wondering if i should just leave for a while, but remembering why i was even drawn to BLs in the first place kinda helped me with it. i think in the end the best thing we can do is doing what makes us feel better, and if you have to step back from this genre for a while then that's completely understandable, although im still hoping we're gonna get something good that we can look forward to!!!!!!

#I FEEL LIKE NONE OF THIS MAKES SENSE IM SORRY #WHAT IS ENGLISH #but yeah i think it's okay if you want to move on to something else for a while #but also please manifest with me anon!!!!!! #we can still get something good!!!!!! #and honestly it's pretty sus that jimmysea cut their hair at the same time so who knows!!!!!!!! maybe they are cooking something!!!!!!!!! #[gets dragged into a padded room] #the point is whatever you decide to do is okay and im here for you if you need to vent or anything 💜 #gmmtv 2024 part 2 #m: ask

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

(vent, don't have to post)

npd + questioning dpd culture is making the same mistake over and over thinking i won't get caught this time and i did get caught. now my partner has broken up with me. i've been replaced. the worst part is i did it to myself.

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#always feel free to send in vent-y submissions if you want this disorder is difficult #i hope youre okay anon im sorry to hear youre going through that </3 #npd culture is #npd + dpd culture is #npd + questioning dpd culture is #npd + cluster c culture is #npd + questioning cluster c culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #dpd #dependent personality disorder #cluster c

[shyspider]

HI SHY!!!!! I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and a happy new year!!!!

My mom gave me covid for Christmas

#Not kidding #I don't know if I pissed off a witch or something but I AM SORRY please take this hex off of me #I have been perpetually sick since thanksgiving #Which it's not uncommon for me to get a little congested after hanging with a group of people #because wet tissue paper is stronger than my immune system #But I feel like I've been sick all of december with the headcold of the century #Then I feel better to do christmas and BAM covid #I'm feeling physically better now #Mentally.... eh #But the transition from being sick for so long to being active and on a normal schedule is frustrating because I have to take it slow #ugh 😡😡😡😡🤬 #Shyspider vents #Sorry - but I did have an okay holidays otherwise #anon asks #shyspider answers

[wineonmytshirt]

newsflash in case you missed it the anonymous button is !!not!! for harassing and bullying and threatening and upsetting people maybe get a life, go outside, and learn how to be a decent human being.

#sorry i don't normally talk like this #it's just so upsetting to see so many of my friends and mutuals deal with this it's absolute bullshit and so infuriating #i'm very protective of my friends #and i care so much about ALL of you #i love you all i truly adore you and this just isn't okay. #if you send these types of anons to people unfollow me because i don't want you near my blog or me or my friends #venting

[frecklystars]

However I will say I’m very proud of myself today because normally my exposure therapy minimum is 30 seconds a day (starting very small and most of the time I can only handle 15 seconds at a time) but I just did ten full minutes. And then I took a short break and did another five minutes. The visual part is hard asf, that I only did for half a minute, but I focused on mainly audios today and listened to Imagine and Temporary Love by Ben Platt (songs I heavily associated with StarKeri) and I was shaking so bad the first few listens and I’m still jittery now, but. I think it genuinely helps a little bit over time. One of those things where you just keep doing it over and over and over and then gradually one day you realize “oh this doesn’t hurt as bad as it did”. This is so damn hard but I’m proud of myself for trying. Im taking such good care of myself too.

It helps IMMENSELY when I imagine Barbie and Ken holding my hands and standing right next to me and giving me encouraging nods and thumbs up. They’re both wearing their neon rollerblading outfits every single time, no I don’t know why that’s my default choice for them sjdhkshfj but it helps. I listened to Temporary Love and uh, before Everything Happened, I used to imagine just Starscream singing to me, us holding hands and floating in the stars together. It used to be my favorite song to associate with him. But since he’s a trigger now I couldn’t imagine Just Him. I have to imagine Barbie and Ken are there too, and that Starscream is taking it incredibly slow, no sudden movements, on his knees and being as gentle as possible. Hands in the air like please don’t look at me like that, im not going to hurt you, with the pained expression of I couldn’t imagine hurting you in the first place.

It helps a lot to imagine Barbie and Ken, my current Safe Characters™️, looking at these triggering characters and reassuring in the background “yes, they’re fine, they won’t hurt you”. I know Ken can be manipulated easily in certain aspects but I want to believe he wouldn’t be able to be manipulated by someone abusive. Barbie definitely wouldn’t be manipulated by anyone abusive either; she’s Barbie. They’d both recognize someone harmful and toxic when they’d see it, they’d know a betrayer immediately, no matter how cunning and how many times they try to use prettied words - they wouldn’t have let anything happen to me. They don’t see my abuser in Starscream, despite him being uhhh definitely a toxic character, he wouldn’t be toxic towards me, or at least that’s what they’d recognize. Yes Starscream is a betrayer, yes he’s despicable, yes he hurts people. But not me. That’s the whole point of self shipping, you’re the exception. “This one won’t hurt you,” they’d say, “This one isn’t going to hurt you like someone else did. This one is so, so safe, and if anything happens we’d stop it immediately, but we know we don’t have to. We know he’s never laying a hand on you. He is not your abuser. No, he isn’t lying when he says he won’t hurt you. We absolutely WOULD be able to tell if it’s all a ruse. This isn’t some constant betrayal in disguise that you had to endure because of someone else. You don’t have to be so tense, so scared. He’s safe. He’s safe. You’re safe. You cannot be anywhere safer, sweet girl”

#ptsd #vent #thinking about that anon sooo often where they said it was healthy for me to use other F/Os as a bridge to TF #like when I drew Plankton with STSC it didn’t shake me up as badly as if I tried to draw *just* STSC #and imagining myself being reassured by STSC doesn’t help me. but imagining Ken and Barbie WITH me #while STSC is reassuring me. that helps so much. #to have them say hey it’s okay he’s NOT gonna hurt you sweet girl #I am shaking so fucking bad lmfao I’m gonna eat dinner now #sorry to vent I’ll delete these later

[anxiety-problem]

Friendly reminder that proship isn't short for problematic fiction. It's simply just pro ship. Another term would be profiction. It isn't about liking certain uncomfortable topics. It's about not harassing people who write or create such fictional content. Don't Like, Don't Read. Ship And Let Ship. Read And Let Read. Write And Let Write. Proship/Profic is the default mindset. Most content creators are proship as it is the mature stance to have. Many proshippers are disgusted by certain topics in fiction; they are just not an ass about it. They ignore/block what they don't like and move on. Proshippers understand that someone's fictional work is not a mirror into their morals or who they are as a person. Proshippers know that someone can write a very disturbing disgusting piece of fiction and not condone any of it. Antis have attempted to hijack the term 'proship' to mean something else entirely in order to justify harassing content creators just for creating fiction they feel uncomfortable with. Antis are typically young, mostly teens with some in their 20s. Thankfully many antis grow out of this and become proship/profic as their understanding of the nuances of fiction and the real world develops.

Why don't you say this to me off anon if you're so sure about it. Coward.

#also! I'm not an anti and i also dont condone harrassment! wow! #yes this stuff can be depicted in fiction #but it crosses a line when it stops being portrayed as a bad thing. #if its vent art sure. but if it involves children in those kinds of situations it should not be posted online #anyway!! proshippers stop being fucking weirdos challenge! if you're that triggered by the 'proship dni' i have on my profile #then say it off anon. cuck #genuinely yall are fucking insane #maybe I'm just uncomfortable with people who are okay with children (fictional or otherwise) being shipped romantically with adults #because i was a kid in a situation like that irl! #you claim it means anti harrassment and then lose your fucking minds when someone says 'proship dni' #give me a motherfucking BREAK. #ask #anyway fuck you! #I'm laughing at you. you dumb bitch. whats so hard about NOT INTERACTING WITH ME. you must be in love with me! weirdo #professional yapper here

[dudefrommywesterns]

Maybe the solution is not being so hard on yourself and realizing that if other people who look like you are beautiful, maybe you are too. Self-deprecation goes nowhere, man, just saying

people don't look like me. not usually. and if they do, they're talented. they're smart. they're charismatic. they're healthy.

#anon #typewriter dings #i just want to be pretty. okay? #i want to be charismatic #i want it easy like my siblings #i want to make friendships like breathing like my roommate #i'm tired of everything being so goddamn hard for me #and i hate looking like this #i can't like it #i don't want this to be how i look #i hate being this way #i want to wave a wand and be someone i actually want to be #and not whatever hated by god himself creature i am #i just hate it. #i try. i try. i try to be okay with it. #it's hard. #and i know that nobody actually thinks i'm pretty #because i'm not. #and i can't be okay with that #because my body isn't good #it doesn't do its job well #it has no redeeming qualities #and i hate it #i try to treat it nicely and it gives me nothing #nothing but chronic fucking illnesses #i'm sorry. #vent

[electrozeistyking]

COMMA ANON WHEREVER YOU ARE I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW I LOVE YOU. HAVEN'T SEEN YOU IN A FEW DAYS SO I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW. THAT BEING SAID MY ASKBOX IS IRRADIATED RIGHT NOW SO I FIGURE IT'S BEST YOU DON'T GO IN THERE

#zeisty king's brain vomits #Comma Anon #it's a bit i'm doing because of an ask #but still. #also I figure i'm not going to answer any serious asks while i'm doing this radiation edition bit #so to that anon who sent vent stuff in my askbox #I give you soup and hugs. <:3 #even if I don't know what you're going through and I don't know who you are #I want you to know things will be okay #I won't deny things might be rough. but still. i'm giving you my love <3 #you deserve it :3

[torchickentacos]

Genuinely confused by some of the people who are so vehemently anti ao3. Do you guys just not want writers. Is that it. Do you want people to have to trawl character tags on tumblr. Do you want people to go back to quotev.

#vent post #negativity #I know people are gonna get mad at me abt this #but I can safely assume that the people whose opinions I care about are in agreement #now I wait for an anon about how OH SO YOU THINK IT IS OKAY THAT AO3 (insert problem here) #like. no. I didn’t say that

[anti-endo-haven]

This has nothing to do with us being anti endo, we just really need to vent

tw for sa

I swear to the gods, I try so hard not to lump christains all into one group and hate them all for their religion. But I am so fucking done with THOSE christains. I made a tiktok about me praying to god cause I was about to be s/a'd and a bunch of christains fucking invaded the comment section saying shit like "everything happens for a reason" "it was gods plan" "you're going to hell for straying from him" "he will reward you in the end" like 1) NOT THE TIME??? and 2) what the fuck. What reason is good enough??? What possible plan could he have??? And then half of them tried to convert me too, saying shit like "if you pray to him again he will guide you" and other bullshit like that.

Like I know that all christians aren't the same and that there are good ones out there BUT FOR THE LOVE OF THE GODS WHAT THE FUCK

Honestly, actually good Christians are so rare to find. They treat Christianity like it’s everything and I hate them, too. Religious trauma is a very real thing and it happens to so many people.

I’ve seen too many Christian’s stay online constantly and want to comment on the worst possible things.

Yes, a lot of religions might say that fate is already determined, but not everything is set in stone. There’s too many pathways that can be taken that lead to something, too many frayed strings. (I can rant about this so much)

If it was a plan, then it makes their God a tyrant and so false that the plans made shouldn’t be supported. They’ll be supporting someone so vile that the Devil looks like a saint, and by all means, the Satanist Bible is pretty fuckin nice.

I’d rather you live than have some half asses reward of pearly gates and shit.

You don’t deserve any of those comments they give you. You deserve respect and support. I’m sorry that things are happening like this. 🫂

You’re good enough and no one should tell you differently. I know it’s hard, but you’re doing an amazing job.

(Christians that comment against this, I’m blocking and deleting comments. It’s a serious thing that people do and I’ve seen how many people just don’t care. I’m not a Christian either, Norse pagan.)

#anon vent #I hope you’re okay anon #I love you and appreciate you /plat #we’ll always be here for you! #take care of yourself and do what you can!