#kinks dont belong in pride

[gaygayhomesexualgay]

wait why should kinks be at pride

this isnt an insult im gen curious edit: thx guys

#lgbtq #transgender #lgbt pride #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #trans pride #trans rights #gay #lgbt agenda #trans agenda #pride month #pride #queer pride #pride parade #kinks belong in pride #kinks dont belong in pride #im confused #lgbt isnt a kink?? #so why should they be at pride #not an insult #gen confused

[piefanart]

im loving this response by a guy on reddit who has clearly never been to a pride parade. his post history has nothing to do with anything LGBT.

The original post was someone complaining on r/facepalm that they were banned from banned from r/gay for saying there shouldnt be kink at pride and that people who wear kink at pride should be put in jail. Then they complained about how theyre a lesbian and this is "gatekeeping".

Both the op and the commenter blocked me as well lmao. This guy blocked me as soon as he posted the comment, so i couldnt even reply.

I swear more people moved to reddit then twitter during the tumblr purge. Its a cesspool over there.

#reddit #discourse #lgbt #pride #queer #kink at pride #screenshot #pies ramblings #ok to rb but dont clown in the comments #kink belongs at pride

[killer-wizard]

as pride approaches if you talk about pride flag discourse, microlabel/label discourse, or exclusionism i will bite you with my teeth. not really bc i cant do that thru a screen but. block me you are a detriment to the community. like dont. come back.

block me if youre a terf block me if you exclude anyone from the community block me if you are anti-ace/aro/mspec gay/lesbian block me if you talk shit about pride flags. thats so fuckign dumb to do. you all fucking suck.

why do online queers worry about colors on a flag or kink at pride instead of trans people being forced to detransition or queers of color being fucking murdered or queer people being kicked out of their homes or fired or shot or abused. its always some dumb shit instead of like. actual activism and making queers lives good. in every country. in every state. everywhere. queer lives are important and need to be protected. shut the fuck up about unimportant ass discourse.

it literally doesnt matter, think about real life queers, think outside of terminally online shit.

everyone belongs at pride. if you disagree die.

(this is excluding cops and bigots OBVIOUSLY. )

#queer is not a slur #discourse cw #pride discourse #kink belongs at pride #as a side note: i dont like system discourse either. endos are eithe rbeing manipulated/they arent fuckin real. dotn do this shit with me #endos dni #terfs fuck off and die #discourse tw #lgbt discourse #murder mention #hate crime mention #violence mention #lmk if need to tag anything else.

[urboymutual]

how to get tiktok to stop showing me videos made with that one guess the pride flag filter

#it makes me want to bite my arm off #HAHAHA soooo funny you as a white lgbt person dont know the philadelphia pride flag #famously known for having black and brown stripes for qtbipoc 😀 #I WONDER WHY THAT IS #also now ppl are like kink doesnt belong at pride #or kink flags shouldnt be there #like . jaw drop #ur really gonna say fuck u to gay history #im speechless #like to be honest. leather daddies have probably done more for this community than ur chronically online ass

[greggorylee]

kink at pride is good but i think the line should be drawn at petplay/zoophile fuckers being naked down to the tail buttplug in their asses. real thing i saw as a young child that never sat right w me

#and no i dont think that kind kink belongs anywhere let alone pride #also yeah specific example but again theres gotta be a fucking line #gay sex is awesome and cool #predatory kinks are not

[lex-the-lesbiann]

hmm do u have any particular scene or pose for future autumn/linda drawings im Scheming >:-3

@jayferins you’ve just made my entire week

okay this one is maybe a little weird ?? but picture this: a jar. and inside the jar? a comfy sitting spot. some flowers. maybe some vines. lotsa nature. some mugs with tea or coffee or hot chocolate in them. whos holding the mugs? Autumn and Linda. do you see it? theyre living a nice cozy life in the jar, Jay. it’s beautiful.

obligatory They Deserve A Goddamn Nap And Cuddles because holy fuck do they deserve a goddamn nap and cuddles

in an au where theyre together and are in contact with Henry and Ron, i think they would want to learn about their sons respective fields and interests so maybe a date to the San Dimas History Museum :]

i also like to think they’d be close with their grandsons, i think that Linda and Terry would get along well as would Autumn and the twins and honestly vice versa so i think they’d have pictures of them all around their house (not sure how much that counts as a prompt but yeah)

and for a pose theres this one panel with Harley Quinn and Posion Ivy that is just so adorable. I envision Autumn as Ivy (literally just bc plant magic, i am basic) but rlly it could be either way and this pose is just so cute and sweet

maybe them in front of and/or holding the lesbian pride flag? or the Pride pride flag? :3

I think Linda would want a cat but Autumn wouldn’t (idk she just doesnt seem like the type of person who would want to have a pet to me??)but they’d get a cat anyway with the understanding that its Lindas cat but bc i love tropes, the cat absolutely adores Autumn

I think Linda would name the cat Sprout maybe, honestly im open to name suggestions for the cat

I think that Autumn might take a lot of candid photos of Linda

Dancing! That is all

”She asked for no pickles” - Autumn

Maybe Linda braiding Autumns hair (and/or vice versa!)

Autumn wouldn’t want a pet but i think she definitely has a lot of plants and flowers and regularly gathers bouquets for Linda

oh Sprout (the cat) might eat Autumns plants a lot so they have beef (not really, just like the silly kind)

Them in suits or dresses, I can honestly see both of them wearing either

Them as the Barbie mugshot meme, i think Linda would be Barbie and Autumn would be Ken but i can also see it the other way so 🤷

a picture of them with that one news headline like “DOES KINK BELONG AT PRIDE? WE ASKED LGBT ELDERS AND THEY ASKED IF WE WERE COPS”

im so sorry this took so long, honestly i could still write more but i didn’t wanna make this like way too much lmao

and you obviously dont have to do all (or any!) of these, i do not expect that at all, these are just some ideas :3

#god i love them so much #genuinely thank you so much for asking Jay #autumn oak/linda stampler #autumn oak #linda stampler #linda stampler dndads #dndads #dndaddies #dungeons and daddies #dndads odyssey #dndads s1

[martian-martian-martian]

hey ❤️

all the (throws up in mouth) radfems and anti sex work folks out there who might be feeling like they “don’t belong” in a pride filled with BDSM and the glorification of kink and fetish… who dont want a leather covered pride that’s full of ‘transgenders’…

i just wanna say…

you’re one hundred percent on the money, you are completely unwelcome!

our elders are and would be ashamed of you, your closed minded and fear based ideals are pathetic and fruitless,

i hope you feel rightfully ostracized forever and make yourselves utterly invisible lmao.

remember kids, the only friends a terf ever makes at a pride parade are 1) shitty human beings who are ungrateful for their ancestors, and 2) people who don’t know they’re talking to a terf :)

#pride

[pixeljade]

One thing I wish people werent so ready to shut down immediately is the narrative that a lot of anti-queer people are themselves closeted queers. Because its always shut down in this mentality of "This is saying that queers are oppressing themselves!!" But, when you think about it for five seconds that silly! Queers oppress themselves all the time! When some newly-out gay says kink doesnt belong at pride, that's a queer perpetuating oppression against queers. When a lesbian falls prey to anti-man TERF ideology and spouts it against the trans people around them, that's a queer perpetuating oppression against queers. When queers go around policing identity terms of any kind, thats queers perpetuating oppression against queers.

Its appealing to try and paint our reality with a clear division between "oppressor" and "oppressed", but thats rarely the case. Certainly it's largely the non-queers who threaten us, and we should never forget that, but they learned long ago how to sow division among us. The true enemy isnt even them though, if you ask me, the true enemy is the idea that there's even a division between queers and non-queers. That division is purely a social construct, and we are all just humans trying to put our messy, organic feelings into a rigid box for convenience's sake. But the minute you try and put a label on us, those labels become battle standards, and the war starts over again. Obviously now, we wear our labels with pride in order to defend "our side", but we mustnt forget that at the core of our struggle is the idea that all these behaviors are exactly as normal as non-queer ones, and that we should be fighting for a world where we dont even need to "come out", because being with or identifying as a woman or a man or a non-binary genderfuck should be as normal and acceptable as anything else. Taxonomy's a scam to launder conservative ideas into leftist culture, and should be rejected. And more than anything, we need to accept that sometimes, our conservative uncle really wants to bone guys but thinks that's the devil's temptation, that the lawmaker banning sodomy in 2024 might be having wicked secret orgies, and that the oppressor and oppressed are not as neat and tidy as we'd like.

[lesbianralzarek]

Children shouldn't see masks, whips, or any other objects used for sexual gratification in any way. Those are adult things for adults only. This is coming from a csa survivor. Kids DON'T belong in adult spaces and pride shouldn't be solely an adult space. Kink can stay where it belongs... In adults bedrooms.

though anon makes it possible for anyone to claim to be anything, im choosing to believe that youre being honest. "children shouldnt see masks used for sexual gratification" how would they know its for sexual reasons (and if they do, thank god they told you so you can investigate how they know so much about sex)? point out where the harm is. have you ever watched an intense (non-sexual) scene in a movie with small kids next to you? your adult brain knows whats going on and is scared, you then work yourself up into a worried frenzy on behalf of the children who must be so scared as well, and then you turn over to see them being bored. the kids arent scared of dog masks, we're scared of the kids being scared of dog masks. its a disgust response that does no one (including me! mormon upbringing made me vomit the first time a girl touched my thigh! im also uncomfortable around kink at pride! my personal feelings dont allow me to choose what others get to wear!) any good

also, how are we gonna enforce that? do you know every single kink and how to spot it like a hawk? do thigh-high socks get me kicked from pride? is that defending children? i know that sounds like a ridiculous example, but really, where do you draw the line on what kinks are family-friendly? during a wave of grooming paranoia surrounding drag, do you really think its a good idea to pick and choose how queer people should express themselves (and their sexuality!) through clothing? at pride of all places?

sexuality is and always has been a central part of pride. pride is and always has been catered to adults. it is an adult-centered space that allows children. things that are actively harming children (which puppy masks arent) should be kept away from them, but im not interested in adding a dress code to cater to kids. or, more accurately, to the adults worrying about kids who are actually completely unharmed

[gayestcowboy]

ive gotten a pretty big influx of followers lately so here’s the deal:

no transmedicalists, no terfs, no harry potter fans, no attack on titan fans, no proshippers, no wacky ass lgbtq exclusionist shit, etc etc. i dont tag nsfw or slurs and i usually tag fandom related content (including goncharov). queer people are cool and that includes aro/ace, pansexuals, neopronouns, xenogenders, etc. kink belongs at pride and cops or corporations dont. i use the word transsexual because im a transsexual and i think it’s cool. i draw a lot of men with their tits out. if any of that bothers u for any reason then u are more than welcome to leave, i will not be offended if u unfollow or block me for any reason. if u try to start pointless discourse ill shut that shit down but if i legitimately say or do something harmful then please feel free to let me know. i would prefer if minors do not interact with my blog.

feel free to come into my inbox! im bad at checking it cuz im busy but i like socializing :]

#yeehaws #still thinking about the ancap anon. if that was you please come back id love to study you

[rose-teeth]

girlies what are your thoughts not necessarily on kink at pride, but on sexuality at pride and people being naked/half naked/wearing things more revealing/sexual than usual. on the one hand im against it because there are children, on the other hand i really dont think children belong at pride and i wish people would stop bringing them

#radfem #not that id set foot at pride lol #as a lesbian? nahhh mate. that shit aint for us anymore

[mspec-culture-is]

mspec culture is knowing that kink belongs at pride and cops dont *does a cool skateboard trick*

Very true! /gen :))

#mspec culture is #mspec #Mod Z

[catgirlbutthole]

as someone who has a whole lot of kink related trauma i would like to tell you that i do not care about how you think “kink doesnt belong at pride” i am more worried about capitalist pinkwashing. Brands dont belong at pride.

[first-only]

reminder that if you dont think kink and aros/aces belong at pride you are not welcome here

#getting new followers :) #also the fyp is swaddled in radfems #so like all yall fuck off #if the literal second post i find on your blog is abt the 'horror' of kink/ace solidarity at pride #go fuck yourself #disrpectfully the kinky ace

[evilneo]

hm. kink at pride is fine bc it historically belongs there but I don't.... i dont think it belongs in the hlvrai tag tho

#neo.txt #WHATVEVER im abt to have pop tarts. which is mpre important

[s1ck-b1tch-2]

An unfriendly reminder that kink belongs at pride and cops dont