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myun-saidthoughts · 4 months
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Understanding 12th House Synastry
(*updated* and more accurate post about about 12th house synastry overlays along with Neptune synastry that makes harsh aspects to another's inner planets such as the Sun, Moon, rising, Venus or Mars)
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There are two sides of 12th house synastry that I commonly see. The spectrum is different compared to the 8th house because with the 8th house, there are highs and lows, obvious extremes, there's oftentimes constant lessons, cycles and loops, but with the 12th house, there's a different undertone.
The 12th house is a very unforeseen house, when it comes with synastry, the spectrum of love that can be received and given is unfathomable. I am going to first discuss what this energy is like when someone deals with this type of synastry while having Neptune (especially harshly) aspecting your inner planets/12th house placements/Pisces placements; then I will go in-depth for how they would feel without those placements.
(that being said my main discussion deals with the foundation of both individuals having attraction or interest on both ends, as well as other intense synastry overlays such as harsh or soft attraction synastry aspects, + eros, lilith, chiron, pluto, or 8th house synastry)
As a 12th house native or with heavy Pisces influence (e.g., a Pisces Venus, Sun, Moon, rising, or with a natal Neptune squaring, opposing or conjunct the Sun, Moon, rising, Venus) this type of synastry is confusing, it's blurry and parts of you can second guess almost everything about them, what you are to them, what they are to you etc. There are no tangible boundaries when it comes to the emotional depth you are willing to feel for them. On some days you can find yourself wondering where you stand with them, you fixate on their energy, and you'll wonder if they're thinking of you. You look into their eyes and just feel their mental health struggles, their fears, their hidden thoughts, what they need to hear to feel seen past the 3D. You're like a walking and breathing affirmation audio tape of everything their subconscious always wished to of heard throughout life. That one broken image or belief they have within their subconscious self is the one thing you can't help but compliment them on, the feelings they ignore, suppress or hide away are the feelings you want to naturally reassure them about. It's like you become this real life 3D fixer upper for this individual, and you just can't help but be drawn with saving, helping, or fixing them. (undoubtedly so if you also fall in their 2nd house, especially your inner planets, if there is no 2nd house influence then the compliments/praising will be less intense or frequent)
The beginning of this synastry embodies confusion. Since there's no real tangible statement or understanding you can hold onto. You'll just know how they operate before ever really knowing them.
You'll just want to make sure that they are okay, and that can come in many different ways, you yourself will just know. You can turn into this savior that they never knew they needed, you'll just want to give and love everything out of them; and in some cases receiving or having that mutual give and take may be something you think you don't need, especially when it comes to them, and especially if you have a natal 12th House Venus or a Pisces Venus/a Natal Venus that squares, conjuncts or opposes Neptune (this can apply to the Moon as well).
To reiterate; if you share the above placements you instantly can become drawn towards the house person. You will look at them and see every facet of their being, their hidden pain, their sorrows, why they feel the way they do, why they struggle the way they struggle, their mental health dilemmas, their soul; especially so if you as well have a water Moon that harshly aspects Neptune as well as the above listed placements. But these feelings don't persist automatically or openly, the desires the planet person or the one person who has the placements I listed/spiritual enlightenment + attraction towards the house person (or the other person) stays at bay and stays being unsaid, especially in the beginning. The planet person with these placements etc etc, can hold onto constant dilemmas and wonder if what they are feeling is real, if what they desire is one sided, especially if there is little to no communication between the dynamic.
On the other side of the spectrum, this bond (when wanted on both ends) can create a soul binding connection where the house person would feel like no one else can ever understand them the way the planet person can. No one else would be able to read them like the book they secretly are, no one else can look into their eyes and bring solace into their bones, which in-turn can cause the dynamic between them to consistently become something that is impossible to let go of.
With attraction + desire the house person may feel like a hug from the planet person* (or vice versa) is equivalent to receiving a sense of understanding and safety that they weren't aware they ever needed. The house person may just find themselves fully being able to lay and hold onto the planet person* and there's this unsaid desire just be next to them. The planet person* may instinctively feel this pull or knowing that there is a softer more serene side of the house person that not everyone see's and even though there's no tangible words to hold onto, that feeling within them doesn't dissipate. Just with one hug from the house person and the planet person* will know that there's a soft and quiet side inside them that they hide or suppress away.
* = placements I listed + spiritually understanding/enlighted
The house person will ask themselves: How do I let go of the one soul who speaks to the parts of myself that I don't even know? The intensity of the bond can vary based on each others natal placements, but I do believe the connection can become deep and unworldly even without the placements I've listed since attraction and desire are two KEY factors that would override any natal placement. Instant psychic understanding about one another on both ends (regardless of natal placements) can occur, you both will know what the other person is thinking, feeling, and needing. If there is genuine desire for one another then the depth of care can become very ethereal and unspoken, especially if the Moon or Venus are involved; if attraction is present and you have the placements I mentioned, a part of you will just want to hold onto the house person. You'll just want to comfort and be present in the moment with them. All that matters to you is that they are doing and feeling okay, with them this part of you unlocks where you just want to caress their soul. But like I said natal placements do have an immense influence, one individual could feel this pull and understanding (w/o the placements I mentioned) but the depth and length for caring may not run as deep as someone else who has the natal placements I listed. They will still care in some shape or form in ways they never knew was possible; but the turnover of moving on or of minimizing selfless acts can become more shallow and less frequent throughout time.
When wanted on both ends with genuine care and desire the song Run To You by Lea Michele perfectly depicts this type of deep care.
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Now this type of synastry can also begin the influence of delusion or false presumptions. Genuineness and self awareness is key, not everyone will desire such depth of the unknown especially if they themselves have no set understanding of their own subconscious beliefs.
To reiterate, if this is one sided therefore if they don't share attraction or desire for you; then this type of behavior will feel invasive and they may become confused or unsure with what to do with that type of depth that your eyes can bring them, if they are unaware of their own shadow self, along with not wanting to change or be spiritually awoken, this type of connection can be daunting and misleading in some way for them.
Now lets go deeper: for someone who doesn't have any 12th house Venus, Pisces Venus, Neptune influence (or if you have little to no attraction or interest towards them), or low spiritual awareness/acknowledgement of your own mental health struggles/hidden fears and if someone comes in to your life where they fall in your 12th house, the feelings that acclimate mainly are confusion, resistance or hesitation. You might have some hidden curiosity about the planet person but generally the curiosity can be the furthest you go with this individual. There might be some hidden tension or eye glances towards another but with it there is also a barrier between the two of you. You may feel like you know their body language or what their eye glances mean but you more than likely brush it off and set aside any spiritual coincidences that you have with them. You may also wither back and forth between being more inclined to getting to know them to being unsure with your interest in them or there's a sense of unpreparedness you may struggle with when it comes to this individual. A part of you may feel like their type of love can sooth parts of you that you ignore or mentally struggle with but that type of care can feel unneeded and can bring in fear; since there is a unspoken knowing of what they are able to truly view and feel for you if they were your partner. You may ask yourself, "Can this person fix, and heal me? " "Do I really need to be saved?" "Is this all in my head?" "Can they be the pacifier for the pain I can't even openly express; or will they bring me more sorrow?"
(this dilemma of curiosity is more apparent if you share other direct intense synastry aspects such as 8th/pluto/intense attraction aspects especially with eros or lilith etc)
(Even writing the paragraph above brought me so much confusion, for this post I am drawing from my own experience with 12th house + harsh Neptune synastry with a boy i've known for years and it still brings me so much hesitation and confusion with how he may feel about me. I still stand in uncertainty and confusion even though my own sense of how I feel towards him is consciously open, this energy is so extremely hard to pin point and logically articulate especially as someone who has 12th house placements + harsh aspects to my Moon. I as well share 8th house synastry with the relationship I am referencing and even from being so introspective and readily aware of how 8th house synastry manifests from every minuscule feeling or thought, I am still stuck with; confusion when it comes to the 12th house)
That being said, if there is a connection where one person has these natal placements and desires for the other individual but the other partner doesn't share the same attraction/placements; then that is when unrequited love or unspoken love can occur. To summarize, for 12th house and neptune synastry to be mutual even if the other partner doesn't have those natal these placements, there has to be attraction or desire; whether it be physical, or emotional. Someone could have these placements that I've listed but if there is no want, attraction or desire towards the other person; the dynamic can also become one sided on their end even with the placements and tendencies of being drawn towards connections that share 12th/neptune/pisces influence.
12th house synastry is the house of selflessness, this is the house of giving and giving to no end; since in one essence this house holds no end or beginning, therefore the boundaries and understanding that this house can carry is unknown. Each dynamic with 12th house synastry can be complexed, there are many factors that play a role in influencing this type of connection such as your natal placements, their natal placements, your natal aspects, their natal aspects, you desire and attraction and their desire and attraction and so on. Someone could sit in this confused and undesired energy for the other person for months and have all the placements I've listed. Therefore if that said individual is not prepared or have any desires to hold a connection that is deep and unspoken, they themselves (the planet person or the person who has 12th house/neptune/pisces influence) may even still feel fear or invasiveness towards the other individual that their share 12th house synastry with or vice versa; there are so many avenues and routes these connections can take, at least that's from my own astrological understanding and take on these type of connections.
Side Note: To balance the intensity these synastry aspects/overlays bring, taking on the opposite houses themes would bring more ease and create less intensity.
For example, dealing with 12H (Even Neptune) synastry, the opposite house is the 6H, the house of routine, daily life, mundane affairs, healthcare, helping others/giving etc etc. So to ease this type of fixation this synastry can cause, focus and enhance your own skills when it comes to your physical/mental health. Add more day to day to activities that solely focuses on changing your routine; however big or small. That will ease the fixation that 12H and Neptune synastry brings. This synastry can cause you to daydream or obsess over them, and since you may have this innate need to be their savior that wants to try and fix their wounds, the chance of putting yourself in situations where your priority is solely them is very likely. You could also fantasize and have an escapist attitude with them, (or the idea of them) therefore, they can serve as an escape for you; by focusing on their pain and struggles might cause you to forget about your own mental health challenges. You also might repeat scenarios in your head or fantasize about situations happening; especially since you might feel confused/hazy with where you stand with them, therefore keeping yourself busy is key with this synastry, and that will create more control within you.
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This is all from my own interpretation of 12th house synastry, I would confidently say I am a very very introspective person at heart, I read between the lines constantly and overly fixate on behavior etc and this synastry still clouded my own judgment and understanding for years; it brought in tendencies for me to doubt my true feelings and curiosity, only until I more so let go of the relationship that I am referencing (the boy where I have 8th house synastry with) was the only time I was able to fully look outside my situation with him when it came to my actions and feelings. The constant back and fourth dilemma I struggled with when it came to knowing him and who he was was constant yet truly instant. My soul knew him before my brain did and because of that knowing I was unsure and unconfident with the type of feelings that persisted in the dynamic I shared with him. I have made so many posts about 12th house synastry but I can confidently say that this current post is now the most accurate representation of what can occur between these relationships.
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Hope this brings some clarity and understanding for others who have dealt with 12th house and Neptune synastry; if not disregard and again this type of synastry is truly nuanced and multifaceted.
If this resonates with you I have an eBook that perfectly depicts and explains if you are in a karmic relationship. It's about 8th/12th/Pluto/Neptune/Saturn/Vertex/Nodal synastry. I give insights, exact transits, exact synastry overlays, natal chart interpretations and more advice on what to do in these situations. More information is pinned on my page.
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allmyloveandyours · 1 year
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Astrology Observations #2!!!
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Hi I'm back with more assumptions and thoughts (i got a lot of them). These are all opinions! Take what resonates! Also I'm not a professional, tell me if I got something wrong :D
Venus in Gemini/Air signs are not flaky (Idk I see a lot of people say this). They're surprisingly loyal, although they may be loyal to people who embody air style qualities rather than them exuding it themselves when it comes to love.
Jupiter opposite Ascendant in your chart can point to a very eccentric person, but they also may have trouble seeing how they actually are, and can have a negative self view, especially with "harsh" (Neptune, Pluto, maybe Mars) planets in 12th house.
Saturn in 11th house can point to achieving your goals later in life/after your Saturn return. With heavy air in the chart, you could've been a wild child.
Cancer Mars natives remind me a lot of car salesmen. They kinda can convince you to buy anything they want, especially if Lilith is in 2nd or 10th house. They can convince you to do anything.
Your close friends may have similar Lilith/your Lilith's get along. Everyone I've been extremely close to also have an Aries Lilith, or something that Lilith would get along with it. Kinda just a fun observation but still. Has anyone else noticed this?
Wherever Neptune is in your chart can tell you where people project onto you, or where you're forgotten the most. For example, Neptune in 4th may have people putting you into positions of Cancer like roles (caring, and supportive), or thinking you have a more than fine family life when you don't, as that area is where you essentially become a mirror.
South Node in Synastry is the coolest thing ever tbh. That's something you immediately feel in your soul. Especially South Node conjunct Mercury. That's your sibling right there. Blood or not.
Celebrities you adore may have the same moon sign/element you.
Singers with Venus in Taurus or Libra have the prettiest voices. Their lyrics either very poetic and powerful of they primary sound expensive or talk a sing a lot about luxuries.
Venus conjunction Midheaven will always be remembered as pretty. ALWAYS. Life and death.
Any planets in 8th house could show what people obsess about over you. For example, Pluto in 8th could have people obsess over your transformations, or try their best to expose you to more taboo things. Whatever the planet rules over normally, it can add a bit of a forceful or darker theme to it. It isn't always intense but it's always interesting when you notice it.
I've been thinking of Placidus vs Whole Sign, since my astrologers use both those, and one of them said that Placidus is more mental and Whole Sign is the world around you, and I have a lil bit of a theory:
Placidus - mental, friends, fans/what people see in you
Whole Sign - first impression, vibes you give off, the house system you look at for results.
They're both accurate, but Whole sign has always been the most accurate when it comes to external results like solar returns and such, and Placidus is kinda how people treat me if that makes sense?
Just a theory I don't know too too much about the difference of their (someone explain maybe plz I'm begging use small words)
Virgo in Lilith could face people nitpicking them for the littlest of things. The house can tell who's doing it/what it's about. Like In 9th people could try to pick at how you study/be classmates, elements of your spiritually/people of the same faith, and attempt to wear you down.
Aspects to your natal Juno can show your "turn ons" and icks when it comes to finding the one. Juno trine Moon could mean you like someone who's open with emotions and can be vulnerable, but square Moon could mean you're not a fan of sappy or dotting people.
Squares in Synastry are my favorite to look at, especially with longer terms relationships. Anything aspects to the ascendant can tell how they first met (in my experience). My favorite scenario was a married couple who met when the husband crashed a friend of the wife's bday party. Squares in sun, Venus, Mars, and Saturn. The wife later said that he stood out like nobody's business, but she liked that 🥺
Juno in Synastry is also something I like looking at with family members. Having a relatives jump conjunct a personal planet is such a warming thing. Like Juno conjunct Moon can mean they're emotionally invested in your well being, or conjunct Jupiter means they may go out of their way to help further education or world view. It's really sweet.
Mars can show where you come off too strong. Mars in 2nd could show you come off too strong when it comes to making money or showing off personally skills. 12th could be you fighting the urge to come off too strong and giving off a ":|" vibe instead.
Ok that's it correct me on stuff if you feel like it idk I like talking to ppl about this stuff
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ghoulastro · 2 years
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Astrology Observations part 2
* Synastry Edition *
‼️These pictures are not mine,
do not steal or plagiarise my work,
*this post may include triggers*‼️
Happy reading!
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🌌 Moon in the 8th house in synastry is truly as intense as everyone makes it out to be, it can be obsessive and bring out emotions you haven’t felt before. You can go crazy for the other person. Usually, both can love the other person so much that you start hating them. (if you’re not used to intense emotions ofc) It can create this push and pull dynamic, one or both may even run away from this connection if emotions get too intense.. if developed and both people want to make this connection work, this is a unconditional love overlay. Edward and Bella from twilight vibes! 🌙
☁️ 12th house overlays are KARMIC most of the time. These people stay in your life for a long time, but a lot of the times these relationships aren’t meant to last. This house overlay does teach you a lot of lessons and uncovers the parts of yourself that you weren’t even aware of.
*This overlay also makes you dream of the other person, while sleeping, more often!😴😴😴
☀️ Someone’s sun falling in the other persons 6th house can create a CEO-Assistant or Batman-Robin type of dynamic. These people are usually very involved in each others’ lives. The 6th house person is very interested in the sun’s daily life - the friend that texts you what you ate in a day and how your day was 🥺 The sun on the other hand makes the house persons life more ✨bright✨ - makes them laugh daily or helps them with daily tasks etc.
💘Having venus and chiron in the same sign and vice versa will be very healing for the both of you, unless other aspects say so. The venus person may “soothe” and love the chiron person in a way no one else can. On the other hand- The chiron person may teach the venus person how to love themselves. A lot of married couples have this!👰‍♂️
🫂Having someone’s planets falling into your 2nd house, can make them VERY possessive over you.They also like physically touching you or just being in your presence. It’s a very sensual overlay. Both will also indulge in food and the pleasures of life. Sometimes though the planet person can feel like they “own” the house person. On a good note - it can also signify someone who is very protective over you. Depending on aspects/planet falling in to the house and how developed the person is.. this overlay can signify jealousy if other people are involved in the relationship.
🚫Mars square Neptune in a synastry or composite chart is a cheating aspect(of course, not always). It does signify a lot of deception, miscommunication and lies though. If other hard aspects are involved.. RUN FOR THE HILLS!!
💕Venus conjunct Sun in synastry is a soulmate aspect from what i’ve noticed. Both platonic and romantic, so cute! 😍
That’s all for now! I would love some feedback or questions if you have any. Till next time! ✨ Don’t forget to reblog and follow me for more posts like this!
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kubrickscube · 1 year
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Least favourite synastry aspects?
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I'm gonna answer this one since I decided to be lazy today.
A bit of a warning though: Just because I said the downsides of having these placements with others doesn't mean that there will be only one outcome. You have to consider how mature that person is (or everything about them), as well as their other placements natally.
Sun (or any personal planets) conjunct North Node: Not the worst (believe me) but it can be annoying sometimes. Some say it is a soulmate synastry placement. I say it's more of a "calm down" personified.
When my husband and I had our synastry chart read by another astrologer, said astrologer mentioned our Sun conjunct NN placement, he then explained it to my husband. After that, the fucker smugly looked at me and jokingly said "You love me so much you searched for me in this lifetime." No shit, of course, I do.
Venus-Pluto: I love seeing this on natal charts, not so much on synastry charts. I should listen to others because I'm becoming obsessive? Nah, I'll give my left toe for this one even though I am romanticizing every interaction that we have.
Sun-Sun negative aspects: Amazing, but it will hurt.
Sun conjunct Moon: Again, it is amazing ONLY when the Sun person is of a pure heart. You don't know how strong the hold is of the Sun person to the Moon person.
Mars in 4th House: Mars person is possessive in the worst aspect of life possible. It is destructive if the Mars person doesn't have their life together. I wouldn't wish this on my enemy.
Mercury-Mercury negative aspects: I have this with my sisters (2 of them have their suns both in a fixed sign but are really a Capricorn in disguise and one who is also a Cardinal dominant) and it is not a good time. We get along from time to time, but arguing is the norm for us.
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gist of Mercury square Mercury.
Sun conjunct Venus: Want to bring out the worst in you? Try this synastry placement. Don't get me wrong, this is a beautiful aspect to have, it's just that it will bring out one's insecurities in the long run with this placement. One might even feel as if they are a trophy wife/husband.
Chiron any: LOL.
Moon opposite Mars: Why is this aspect even a thing in the first place?
Neptune any that has negative aspects: You're not Matt Murdock, and even he knows when there's danger. I can only do 10 because, at the end of the day, it's all about how you see each and every aspect and placement listed here. Whether you agree with me or not, it's up to you. Thanks for the ask!
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littledigest · 2 years
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Astro Observations - Synastry Edition
Based on my own synastry charts (supported by what other astrology enthusiasts have written online ✌️)
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🙂 In synastry, Moon and/or Venus in aspect to Neptune may be good for a relationship. Too many Neptunian aspects may not be good since it muddles how we view the other person. Too many Saturnian aspects may not be good because it restricts expression or is too controlled. But having a touch of Neptune in synastry is an illusion and fantasy "cushion" that helps us overlook minor flaws and brings a romantic point of view to the relationship. We need a bit of fantasy to thrive!
🙂 The Moon is important in synastry since people are generally emotional beings. Prominent aspects to your or the other's Moon or Imum Coeli can show strong feelings of familiarity, comfort, and understanding. 4th House overlay, Moon conjunct Moon, and both Moons in the same signs also do this.
🙂 Planets in your 7th House, especially those conjunct your Descendant, can show people you are naturally attracted to and/or easily attract. For example, with Sun conjunct Mars in the 7th house conjunct the DC in Aquarius/Pisces, this person may attract or be attracted to more Aquarians (sign), Leos (Sun), Aries (Mars), Scorpios (Mars), Pisces (sign), people with prominent Suns or Mars, or generally more masculine people (Sun, Mars).
🙂 Having a lot of quintile or biquintile in synastry can show a relationship that is creative, fun, and exciting in some way. These are like little sparks where the energy refreshes itself over again.
🙂 People whose planets are in the sign of your Mars could benefit you because they push you to do things. Something about the chemistry between you two could be action-oriented and exciting. But, this person could also be annoying to you for the same reason. Even if they are not pushing you to do things, something about their energy can rub you the wrong way. Disagreements can rise quickly but fall quickly too. Also applies to Mars conjunctions in synastry.
🙂 More often than not, the sign on your 12th house cusp is the sign you are least likely to see in someone you're serious about. (This does not mean you hate people with that sign.) If you have 12th house overlays with someone you like, it will most likely be the sign that your Ascendant shares, not the sign on your 12th house cusp.
🙂 12th house overlays are hard to grasp. In theory, it feels like everything should be great (depending on what aspects and placements you and someone have in synastry). But in practice, something feels like it's missing and/or not in control. People who don't mind this overlay may be very in tune with their spiritual side or constantly trying to unpack their subconscious.
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ariesphysics · 1 year
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Experiences with the Moon signs
This is my personal experiences with the Moon signs, this is going to be kinda long so I’m going to chop it in several posts (read: it’s 12AM and these are the only things that I have written). Themes refer to shared traits/feelings with the people I have encountered and had a chance to know. But, anyways enjoy reading. Comments are appreciated.
1. ARIES MOONS
Theme: unfavored by their mother, passionate, opinionated, devoted to their nephews/nieces, anger issues, emotionally expressive
a. Father [with birth time] (his Moon sextile my Moon, 1° his Moon sextile my Neptune, 2°)
He is very supportive about my feelings, and does understand how to deal with me emotionally. He also hits bull's eye when he's telling me about something. It's comfortable and I feel very safe with him. He is protective of me and will not be afraid to reprimand or take action to someone who has wronged me.
I also serve as an inspiration to him, he really likes writing and the stuff he publishes are sometimes my idiosyncrasies. He also pushes me to do what I like but I'm really anxious about things I want to start doing.
When we are together, we will talk about politics, religion, history, people. I reckon it's probably his Sag Sun + Aries Moon and my 9th house dominance in work here. It always feels that I always have something to learn from him every time we hang out.
b. Close friend [no birth time] (their Moon sextile my Moon their Moon sextile my Neptune)
When we hang out, we tend to just joke around and talk about people and things happening with us. They really like giving gifts, I tend to just go home as fast as possible because 💕autism💕. But, when we do get together, they will always bring something to give me, whether it be food, an inanimate object, or something they found.
Although sometimes, I feel that our relationship is distant and we don't really get each other at certain times (we never had a fight), I don't really have a reason to call our relationship over. We weren't just as close like before because we have other stuff going on with our lives now. Still, when I'm with them, it's fun. Our relationship is very light-hearted but there were also moments that we spilled our guts to each other.
2. TAURUS MOONS
Theme: grudges, hot-headedness, comfort, opinionated, emotionally secretive
a. Paternal 1st cousin [no birth time] (her Moon sextile my MC)
I look up to her and she's the only person I can freely cry about my worries about my future job or position in society.
She also likes telling me about her work, and she quit her job because her comfort is not met there. She is also very childish in an affectionate sense, youthful.
b. Maternal 1st cousin [no birth time] (her Moon square my Venus)
It seems like I have a pacifying effect on her because when she is with her siblings, she is very chaotic and just screams every time she talks, but when she is with me, she is domesticated.
I have noticed that she picks up on my habits and also starts doing them, which kinda pisses me off for some reason, and she does not respect my personal boundaries sometimes.
You could mistake her for a Fire moon, but it's just her Aries stellium in action. The reason possibly why they are such a cesspit of hell together is her Moon opposites the Scorpio moon sibling and squares the Aquarius moon sibling.
c. Close friend [no birth time] (her Moon squares my Saturn, her Moon trines my Lilith)
When we are together, we just tend to do our own things in one room. But, when we do talk, our topics typically revolve around politics, although when we are out of that topic we just spout literal nonsense to each other (speaking gibberish for some reason).
And for some reason, she has been the only person I am comfortable with being physically close. She is very secretive, even to her circle of friends (which I am a part of), and when questioned about her feelings towards a thing, she will find a way to divert the topic.
3. GEMINI MOONS
Theme: light-heartedness, fun
a. Virgo Venus in question [no birth time] (his Moon conjunct my Mars, his Moon opposite my Pluto)
Yes, he had been stuck in my memory for how many years now. Probably my only proper crush. During the time that we were together, he always puts a smile on my face. To me, he was the funniest thing ever. I felt so light and cheery with him.
He was an amusing storyteller, although he really likes his dirty jokes. He would help me with mathematics and I helped him with languages. He also liked telling me his outlandish ideas and kept updating me on challenges he did (for example, using his phone without charging it for a month).
b. Past friend [no birth time] (her Moon square my Lilith, her Moon trine my Chiron)
We are now just acquaintances, not as close as before, but still on good terms, just grew out of each other.
But, when we were together, we also did childish and hilarious stuff. One time, we got punishment for it, lol.
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Short Story 📖
Moon conjunct Neptune Synastry✨
Fourteen years ago, a little girl named Bella, went to a summer camp. There she meets John. Her 17 y/o instructor. They start a really great relationship, nothing but a student-professor one. Shortly after, John starts a love relationship with Camila.
They -Bella and John- meet every summer and winter on the camp. And there, they try to spend time together. There’s a pleasant feeling that makes them want to be together.
Years go by, and the feeling won’t disappear. It’s that strong that when they meet there’s an instant attraction -like magnets-, and people around can notice the pull.
One day, when Bella was 16 and John 25 he reach her out through DM, and text her
I want to talk to you, but no one can know
She also wanted to talk with him. It was like a fairytale for her. But she won’t cross boundaries, cause she knew he was in a relationship.
They started talking from time to time. The conversations where all night long. Chitchatting hours and hours and just the sunrise could stop them.
They told each other things no one else knew. There was an unusual level of comfort. They intuit how the other one feels. John told her that he feels tenderness for her. But the feeling they have for each other can’t be described with words.
It feels like they are Twin Flames. Everything makes sense but the external situation does them apart. If they were together, the surrounding families would be in shock.
There is a longing to be together, but in reality nothing change. He continues with Camila and she continues waiting for something to change.
Now and then they think about each other, cause they know there is something more. But still nothing changes.
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candeathbereal · 9 months
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Question about Synastry Pluto aspects
Honestly I have been stuck on pluto aspects in syanstry for a little while. And It all really started when I looked up me and this one person's synastry chart. Because at the time I coldn't figure out why I was feeling so many intense feelings around them like a sort of need of mine was awakened idk how to really explain it. Anyways I would love to hear anybodies thougths on this so here we go.
My Sun (Aries) trines his pluto (sag) My Moon (Virgo) squares his Pluto My Mars is conjunct his Pluto (very close orb almost exact.) His Mercury conjunct my Pluto (sag) His Jupiter(Libra) sextile my Pluto His Neptune(Aquarius) sextile my Pluto I figured I would include the signs in case that helps in any way. Oh if it helps I can include our placements as well if anybody feels like that helps. Also I only inlcuded planets like Neptune and Jupiter just in case. I don't think they have too much significance in the grand scheme of things since they are further away planets wise.
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moontrinemars · 2 years
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Quick Asteroid Synastry Notes
Recorded these for me and published them for you. Remember that with asteroids, you should only consider them to be significant if there are supporting planetary aspects. Disclaimer in bio.
Code: 4950,1585,1589,9305,24899,
🏠 House [4950] can indicate settling down, and the planets and objects dealing in desire and ambition aspecting it can signify how the two feel about moving in together.
🏠 I know someone with House conjunct her partner's Pluto and they're mutually obsessed with the idea of living together, but she is always coming up with reasons not to. Also, usually she's the one who goes to his house when they have sex lmao.
🏠 Her House, meanwhile, is trine his Jupiter and Venus, and sextile his Moon, and it seems like he, in contrast, is so charmed by the idea of living with her that her fears seem to him like excuses, which causes some tensions.
💍 Union [1585] often can signify marriage, or marriage prospects, but it may also signify teamwork, cooperation, or, in extreme cases, a feeling of being bound by fate. The asteroid person may feel as though the object or angle of B is an extension of themself.
💍 A's Union conjunct B's Ketu/South Node creates a spiritual bond. A will feel connected to B's very soul, and B will feel most comfortable when in A's company. The two are very in sync.
💍 Actually, pay special attention to Union conjunct Vesta. Vesta's symbolism most correlates to loyalty - though there's some debate whether it's born of trust, duty, or passion. My favorite words for it are devotion and dedication.
💍 It follows that this aspect makes for a very true and devout bond, when unafflicted. The Vesta person's principles and passions will inspire a feeling of solidarity in the Union native, and the Vesta person in turn will treat any partnership between the two with the utmost gravity.
💍 Union conjunct Medium Coeli will give both members the feeling that joining forces is a work of destiny. This is likely to signify a business relationship, or one more in the public eye.
💫 Fanatica [1589] can indicate obsession, excitement, and mania, both feeling and inspiring it. In synastry, aspects with it represent how you make each other act irrationally, and lose all reason.
💫 A's Fanatica conjunct B's Sun creates all-and-out obsession with each other. Lucrezia and Cesare had this aspect.
💫 You're likely to find some very strong Fanatica aspects between you and your favorite celebrities, artists, and performers, from either side, asteroid or object.
⚠️ Aspects to Hazard [9305] can indicate a real danger or drastic impact on the other. It is not necessarily extensively harmful, but it does tend to make others close to the object individual concerned.
⚠️ For example, a relationship where A's Hazard is conjunct B's Medium Coeli will cause those close to B to worry that A will cost B their professional or public future.
⚠️ A's Hazard opposite B's Moon implies that B is fully aware of the emotional danger that A puts them in, and may even resent it, but will continue to involve themselves regardless.
⚠️ A's Hazard opposite B's Vesta puts B in a situation where they have to choose between loyalties - perhaps between family and love, or between ambition and friendship, etc.
🏰 Dominiona [24899] signifies what you consider yours, and what you feel the need to be in control of. Thus if A's Dominiona tightly aspects any of B's objects or angles, it indicates A is possessive of and protective of that part of B.
🏰 It may not be entitlement for its own sake. With tight Dominiona conjunctions, the asteroid native feels a responsibility to help B and contribute to their growth in the area ruled by the object. As a result, any threat to them, or claim staked on them, feels like a personal attack to A.
🏰 For example, if A's Dominiona is conjunct B's Medium Coeli, they eagerly take them under their wing in the professional world, or the public world. This is an aspect correlated to a relationship similar to employer and employee, or manager and star. If this isn't the case, A feels compelled to promote B regardless.
🏰 It follows that they would be protective of B's reputation, but they may also be jealous if B gets attention from another source. In this case, A would be viscerally affected by any slander or praise B receives, possibly even causing a scene.
🏰 The Medium Coeli also correlates to expectations. Thus, A feels entitled to dictate what expectations B is held to - though whether they are lax, or strict, impossible or far too easy depends on the sign and other aspects - but A may be very uncomfortable or even offended when others expect something different of B.
🏰 The other side of this is that Dominiona is opposite the Imum Coeli - which means that the private self and the past of person B forever feel distant to person A, and the existence of B's personal life at all may feel like either a threat or tantalizingly out of reach.
🏰 Another example would be B's Moon conjunct A's Dominiona. In this case, A may feel as though B's interior world belongs to them, likely because A tries to help B deal with their emotions, past, and home life.
🏰 B in turn is emotionally affected by A's exertion of control. On the one hand, it's comforting to have their help managing their mind and heart, but on the other hand, it can be stifling as hell.
🏰 Or look at Queen Elizabeth I and Robert Dudley, for how other aspects with this asteroid can manifest. Elizabeth's Dominiona was square his Moon-Neptune conjunction. She was reportedly very threatened by the idea of him remarrying, and was very jealous of any woman who garnered his affection.
🏰 Her Dominiona was also conjunct his Antivertex. The Antivertex is the inverse of the Vertex, thus it represents the karmic effects of our standalone existence, and Robert's character drastically impacted the way Elizabeth's reign unfolded.
Thanks for reading, hope it was helpful ♡
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hausofneptune · 3 months
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songs that give the same energy as these aspects/placements [2]
[astro notes no. 007]
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hey y'all! i had a lot of fun doing part one of this post so i'm back w part two! pls note that everyone's chart is different, therefore the energy of these aspects/placements will vary from person to person. but as always, if y'all have any of the aspects/placements mentioned feel free to let me know how it manifests for you personally ₊˚ʚ ᗢ₊˚✧ ゚. ༄.
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 ༊*·˚ ˗ pluto in the 1H / aspecting ascendant | sun in the 8H / 12H: hidden place — björk
there lies my passion, hidden there lies my love i'll hide it under a blanket lull it to sleep i'll keep it in a hidden place
pluto, alongside the 8H and 12H, are representative of transformative experiences that take place on a unconscious/subconscious level. natives with pluto in the 1H, or with pluto aspecting their ascendant live lives marked by rebirth. you'll usually see these natives characterized as being "mysterious", which isn't something i want to overly romanticize, because people with these aspects tend to experience a lot of turmoil in life which is what makes them more inclined to keep certain parts of themselves hidden.
there are differences between having sun in the 8H vs. the 12H, the main being that the sun in the 8H entails transformative experiences related to one's identity surrounding themes of power and control, while sun in the 12H entails experiences related to the ego surrounding transcendence and releasing control. the similarity between the two is the reserved, introspective nature that they share, as well as the metamorphic process of "letting go" that takes place internally, concealed from the world and those around them.
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 ༊*·˚ ˗ moon square mercury | afflicted/debilitated mercury | saturn in the 3H: my body is a cage — arcade fire
though my language is dead still the shapes fill my head i'm living in an age whose name i don't know though the fear keeps me moving still my heart beats so slow my body is a cage that keeps me from dancing with the one i love but my mind holds the key
these aspects and placements can indicate a lack of confidence in one's intelligence and self-expression, as well as conflict between the heart and the head. with the moon square mercury, this lack of confidence can stem from one's childhood or from the relationship to the mother/maternal figure. it can result in having a hyper-analytical emotional nature and overthinking one's feelings, or potentially becoming overly pragmatic and unable to process emotions at all. this can also affect the native's communication style, and while they may be earnest in their efforts, they can come off as too impersonal or even heartless at times.
this can manifest in the opposite way as well, where the native displays hyper-emotional behavior, and operates from a place of pain or trauma in situations where they should be relying more so on logic. as a saturn in the 3H native, this placement can also show up as social anxiety and difficulty surrounding communication and learning during early education. on the bright side, with age and growth these aspects/placements can become things that benefit the native. eventually they can grow into skilled communicators, and even thrive in more artistic fields that allow them the space to express their creativity, as it eventually becomes their best tool to use to connect with others.
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 ༊*·˚ ˗ cardinal signs in big 6 | sun, jupiter, or mars in the 1H: phenomenal — janelle monáe ft. doechii
i'm looking at a thousand versions of myself and we're all fine as fuck say it to my face bitch, say it to my face!
i want to note that i'm referring more so to the energy that these aspects/placements have in relation to this song, not necessarily appearance. people who have prominent cardinal placements (aries, cancer, libra, capricorn) are trendsetters, and have a very ambitious nature about them. people with these placements can be very assertive and domineering (potentially even self-centered when it comes to the more underdeveloped placements) and are the people you want to look to when it comes to accomplishing goals and getting shit done.
those with sun, jupiter, and mars in the 1H typically have a "bright aura" and innately attract others towards them. while they may have a tendency to over-exaggerate and underperform at times, their extremely charismatic and jovial nature tends to make up for it. they may encounter people who are envious of them or intimidated by their self-assured confidence, but regardless, these natives are natural born leaders who more often than not will find themselves called into positions of authority. they have a good amount of willpower accompanied by competitive spirits, and won't back down from a challenge or let the obstacles or people in their way stop them from achieving what it is they desire.
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 ༊*·˚ ˗ moon square / opposite neptune or jupiter (synastry): julia — sza
dying of daydreams in your bedroom waiting so long, said you'd be here soon how could you forget that i'm the one who forgot all your mistakes and dirty drawers you know i care for you when hell over earth came i stood for you will you stand for me?
in synastry, moon square/opposite neptune has the capacity to manifest as a deep, soulful connection, where the relationship almost feels like a "fairy-tale" of sorts. while this could be gratifying at times, it can also show up as an inability for either partner to view the other for the person that they actually are, instead of the romanticized version of them they have in their head. conflicting aspects between the moon and neptune can lead to a codependent nature within a relationship, where flaws and shortcomings are overlooked for the sake of maintaining this dream-like connection. partners who have this aspect in a synastry chart must put effort into remaining grounded in their relationship, and the wherewithal to recognize and work on their escapist tendencies.
while the square/opposition between the moon and jupiter can show up in more beneficial ways as jupiter is a benefic planet, they still hold the capacity to manifest as the same impractical habitual patterns as the moon/neptune challenging aspects. this may indicate a relationship where there's an inability to relate to one another morally, which results in one or both partners (typically the moon) attempting to change the other into someone they're not. this can also result in emotional turmoil, and overindulging in some way shape or form as a means to cope with their inability to see eye to eye. with this aspect, both partners need to work towards finding value in what they can learn from the differences in their perspectives.
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༊*·˚ ˗ ceres conjunct moon or mars | nocturnal signs in big 6: mary magdalene — fka twigs
a woman's hands so dark and provocative a nurturing breath that could stroke your divine confidence a woman's war unoccupied history true nature won't search to destroy if it doesn't make sense
those with ceres conjunct moon tend to have an emotional identity that centers around protecting others and maintaining a sense of security in relation to their domestic lives. this aspect can be very "motherly" in nature, and in regards to this song, this type of energy typically gets overlooked as passive or submissive, when in reality it's actually very assertive and forceful, especially ceres conjunct mars. these natives can be extremely passionate, and driven to nourish and protect their loved ones, as well as defend their homes. albeit, they may go overboard and behave too intensely at times, but those around them tend to understand their true intentions regardless, and recognize the native as being a fearless, driven provider.
i also bring up having nocturnal signs (taurus, cancer, virgo, scorpio, capricorn, pisces) in the big 6, specifically for those who have night charts, because these are typically the type of placements that make for a introspective and intuitive nature. it also grants them with a high level of emotional intelligence, something that isn't necessarily deemed important in our society (i wonder why!), but is a characteristic that's indicative of strength and agility regardless.
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༊*·˚ ˗ sun aspecting saturn or pluto (synastry) | cancer / libra / pisces in the 5H: bedroom hymns — florence and the machine
spilt milk tears, i did this for you spilling all over the idle, the black and the blue the sweetest submission, drinking it in the wine, the women, and the bedroom hymns 'cause this is his body, this is his love such selfish prayers and i can't get enough
sun aspecting saturn or pluto in synastry is indicative of a karmic connection, and is usually representative of a dynamic defined by themes of power and control. with sun/saturn, there can be a tendency for the saturn person to want to repress the sun's growth and expression. although, with the evolved version of these aspects, the saturn person would make room for fun and play, all the while retaining their authoritative nature, a characteristic the sun person finds themselves attracted to. the sun/pluto aspects can manifest similarly, the main difference being saturn's fixation on discipline vs. pluto's fixation on control. the sun person will be pluto's object of desire, and with the healthy, evolved version of these aspects, pluto's domineering energy is something that the sun person is drawn towards, and their relationship is marked by the deep, subconscious connection the two have with one another.
in regards to cancer, libra, or pisces in the 5H, these placements are very much so indicative of the dom/sub dynamic of this song lmao. this can also extend to having mars in these signs, as they tend to be more submissive in relation to sex (you could argue pisces is more verse, though, as piscean energy is mutable and therefore down with whatever). these placements are usually the type who aim to please and put the needs of their partners first. in regards to each sign, cancer 5H natives usually require an emotional connection to their sexual partners to feel fulfilled, while libra typically need to feel mentally (and visually) stimulated by their partner to feel satisfied, and pisces are most satisfied when their connection to their partner feels transcendent and vulnerable.
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༊*·˚ ˗ ruler of the 1H in the 8H / 10H / 12H | saturn chart ruler / saturn dominant: january 28th — j. cole
just to share my life on the stage in front of strangers who know a nigga far too well, and that's the danger know me better than i know myself i rip a page out my notebook in anger and let these thoughts linger, singing don't give 'em too much you don't let 'em take control it's one thing you do don't let 'em taint your soul
having the ruler of the 1H in the 8th, 10th, and 12th houses is indicative of having an identity that is more often than not mischaracterized by those around you. these are placements that can make the native come off as "bigger than life" in some cases, whether they like it or not, as they typically have an energy about them that draws people in. while this isn't necessarily bad, it can invite in people who may misunderstand the true nature of the native, or even project their own feelings of resentment onto them and willfully. specifically, ruler of the 1H in the 8H / 12H individuals tend to be very reserved and are usually able to recognize people's true intentions, and as a result are turned off by shallow, superficial behavior.
those with ruler of the 1H in the 10H, as well as those who have prominent saturn in their chart, tend to excel in leadership roles, as they typically carry themselves with an air of authority. these are typically the type of people who resent being in positions where they have to answer to others, and fear feeling controlled by other people. specifically in relation to having saturn as the chart ruler, or a saturn dominant chart, these natives have to work harder than the average person, and may experience turmoil in their childhoods, in order to get to where they want to be in life. as a result, they will avoid being put in positions where they feel powerless at all costs, and prioritize maintaining a sense of control no matter what.
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zeldasnotes · 4 months
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𝖓𝖆𝖚𝖌𝖍𝖙𝖞 𝖓𝖔𝖙𝖊𝖘 ☠️
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𝔭𝔞𝔯𝔱 𝔬𝔫𝔢 𝔭𝔞𝔯𝔱 𝔱𝔴𝔬 𝔭𝔞𝔯𝔱 𝔱𝔥𝔯𝔢𝔢
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Blac Chyna got a Scorpio MC and Sun 8th house in her Fama(408) Persona Chart which makes sense since she is the highest paid non musician Only Fans creator. In October 2023 she was the top earning creator of all on Only Fans.
Earth placements🌱 tend to like the touching/sensing/moaning part during sex while Air placements🌬️ tend to be very visual & communicative. Fire placements🔥tend to value the pace and feeling. Water placements💧 value the emotional undercurrents. So air placements might care more about how the partner looks and be turn on by the appearance while Taurus gets turned on by how you feel & sound. Water placements get turned on based on the emotional undercurrents like for example scorpio placements can get extra turned on if its forbidden.
Venus 2nd house synastry seem to make yall want to kiss & do oral sex a lot more than you usually would with someone else. (Please confirm this if you had this in synastry w someone)
Mars conjunct Chiron in both synastry and composite makes the sex amazing. That soulmerging healing kind of sex.
Mars conjunct Reiki(5239) in the natal chart might make people feel changed/healed after they slept with you.
Eros(433) conjunct Neptune might mean a lot of people fantasize about you, Ive seen it in a lot of the charts when i did my xxx stars post.
Libra Moon and Mars tend to care a lot about how their partner looks. Disharmony can really affect them and therefore make them very easily turned off. Not always ofc, other placements play a huge role too.
Lust(4386) or Eros(433) conjunct Moon seem to make someone constantly in the mood for some ”funny stuff”. It also tends to create the same effect in synastry.
If you watch ”adult movies” you will enjoy performers you have 8th house synastry with or the same Eros or Mars sign. They will most likely ”do it” in a way you like. There is usually a conjuntion from one of their personal planets to your Venus or Mars involved when it comes to your ”favorite star”.
I remember a famous youtuber answering which celebrity he would choose if he could only sleep with ONE celebrity. Ofc I checked his synastry with the celebrity he chose and he had a stellium in her 8th house.
Check the degree of your asteroid Eros. Eros at 2° can mean a sexy voice, good at oral, liking it slow and sensual, might even get paid for it.
Sorry I know Ive said it before but so many Sag Risings with Pluto in the 1st house look like the stereotypical ”sexy teacher” look.
Mars degree says more about what you enjoy in the bedroom. Mars in a Cancer degree might find pregnant people hot or enjoy sucking someones titties or having theirs sucked. 🍼
Mars 9th house might like to do it in risky places. 9th house and Sagittarius energy can make someone kinda reckless.
Fama(408) the goddess of rumor conjunct Eros(433) can indicate people will spread rumours about your sex life. Known for being sexy. People can be very curious about your sex life if you have this placement.
People with Saturn 8th house might like a more ”cold” kind of sex with less cuddling and kissing etc just straight forward penetration sex.
Bacchus(2063) conjunct Mars in the natal chart seem to give the person an insatiable sexual appetite.
Moon & Mars in the 8th house in synastry seem to be the hardest to resist. Especially speciellt since they often come with some kind of forbidden situation going on. There seem to always be a reason why yall are not allowed to do it.
Lilith aspecting personal planets or inte the 1st, 8th, 11th or 10th house sometimes have the most innappropriate people vieweing them in a sexual way. Like the person they least expected. Which can be very hurtful for them.
People with Jupiter aspecting Mars tend to be seen as being good in bed no matter if they are or not. Its just the energy they exude.
Someones Lilith aspecting your personal planets can make them see you as wayyy sexier than you actually are. Same with 8th house/Pluto synastry.
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8th House Synastry Observations
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🍄 These types of connections (romantic or platonic) can't be lighthearted; if there is genuine care within the dynamic intensity is very likely.
🍄 You have to consciously tell yourself to "not react" in moments when the other person fails to meet your expectations.
🍄 Emotions flood within you before your brain can logically calm you down.
🍄 Upset facial expressions/elongated eye glances/staring oftentimes can occur when the other person is again *failing to meet expectations.*
🍄 You always will compare how *they* make you feel vs how other people make you feel.
🍄 With other intense synastry aspects (such as more 4h/12h, nodal, or vertex synastry) or genuine care, reading each other just by their eyes alone is extremely easy. Just by a look, you will know how they feel.
🍄 In these connections you may know what not to do, you logically will know that the long period of stares, the obvious dissatisfaction you feel is not really justified usually because of outside factors, the lack of foundation within the connection, or just by the fact there's been little to no communication on either end, and yet that doesn't change or minimize the pain or feelings you have towards them from their actions.
🍄 Even if one person doesn't have natal scorpio/pluto/8th house placements/aspects in their chart, if they care about the other person; they will also have intense expectations on the other person.
🍄 In a platonic opposite-gender connection where one party has a romantic partner, you might understand that their actions towards you should lessen, especially in respect towards their partner but despite that rational understanding, the pull of your connection with them often overrides. Even if a part of you wants to respect their relationship logically and consciously, the underlying need for their attention or care persists.
🍄 In romantic connections (especially with moon/venus in another's 8th house) their eyes (the planet person) tells you it's okay to let that vulnerable side of you that you've shunned out, and without words; that emotional closeness that you've always wished to feel is suddenly fulfilled and with ease.
🍄 8th house connections undertake more Plutonian energy. If you are un-healed, then their actions or lack thereof can ignite parts of your character that you don't even recognize.
🍄 If you struggle with BPD/BPD tendencies then connections that take on more 8th house/pluto synastry will feel enticing and familiar, you are more likely to be drawn to the intense high and lows that this connection brings.
🍄 The deep rooted attraction with these connections mainly lies in the fact that you can allow yourself to feel emotionally close and vulnerable to someone else, the more you crave expressing emotional vulnerability the more attractive they become to you. (especially with objective/attraction synastry aspects)
🍄 Once their actions or once certain consist factors/situations creates a severe emotional blockage between you and them; the less desirable they will feel to you (especially so if you struggle with polarizing emotions)
🍄 It could be months since you've spoken to them, months since their eyes have met yours and if you still struggle with emotional acceptance/self love/self worth/self value; then a longing for them might ignite in any abrupt moment (whether it be from a photo of them, running into a mutual friend, from reading a cathartic quote that reminds you of them) a spark that once persisted for so long will make it's self known, and the part of you that you thought you said good-bye too, might reappear again.
🍄 8th house connections consist of cycles and loops, it's a dilemma of letting go to longing, it's understandable to sometimes have these waves of wanting even if you logically know you shouldn't.
🍄 Longing for one another on both ends (all that needs to be present is sincere care) can occur.
🍄 The longing you feel if they do leave your presence is the part of you that craves emotional closeness and serenity.
🍄 Logically you may know and have objective expectations of how they should treat you because of other factors and yet certain expectations or desires you have within will persist.
🍄 Even if nothing substantial or foundational ever occurred between the two of you, the reactions within you might reenact as if the two of you dated for months, years even.
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💞 In these observations each individual has to be emotionally prepared and open to emotional closeness, if someone is emotionally and spiritually un-evolved then no matter how "open" you naturally feel with them, that should never justify reoccurring pain or abuse that the other party causes 💞
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Astro Notes - 016
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Capricorn risings tend to have a lot of facial piercings or just look really good with them.
Venus in Aqua can be very aromatic with everyone until the minute they find THAT person and they do a complete 360. When they find the one they will be so faithful and romantic. People call them aloof and uninterested but they just know what they want and most won’t settle till they get that.
I’ve seen a lot of Mars in Pisces women that don’t believe in sleeping around. Most prefer to wait until they are in a relationship or married before giving that access.
Moon in Aquarius’s need to rationalize every emotion they experience and find out it’s roots when all they really need to do is cry it out. They try to find solutions to all their emotions which causes them get burn out fast. This is why it’s difficult for them to comfort others when they deal with deep emotions because they think they need to come up with a solution instead of comforting them. It’s okay to feel your emotions without making sense of them guys.
Pisces moons normally have period in their life where their mother was really distant from them or just completely absent. Ive seen a lot that their mothers could’ve picked substances over them or been in jail, or was just too immature to raise them at a certain point. A lot of Pisces moons grow up in a single mother household.
Capricorn moon/risings are normally the eldest child. And if not still took on a more responsible role in the family. Grew up around a lot of immature childish people
Sagittarius suns I feel like are way more rebellious than Aquarius’s. Sagittarius’s are so impulsive and get this big adrenaline rush from doing things they aren’t supposed to. Many rarely think about they consequences of what they’re doing which causes them to get into a lot more trouble. Especially as an adolescent.
If you have a Gemini rising people probably yelled at you as a child for talking to much or being too obnoxious
Virgo suns are either so good at communicating with others and fitting in or they are so socially anxious and awkward there’s no in between.
Venus in Libras will flirt with anybody who’s decent looking. They are not picky at all.
Neptune in the 7th house people can be very concerning in their relationships. Everytime they experience attraction it’s like they only try to see what’s good in that person even if they are absolute trash. They want love so bad but tend to just get in relationships because of that desire without actually getting to know who they are dating. This causes them to attract a lot of narcissists cuz they are willing to give out love so fast without seeing if it mutual.
Mars in the 5th house people 🤝 Rushing into relationships
Taurus risings look like forest nymphs they are so naturally beautiful
Venus conjunct mars people are so magnetic. They can have everyone’s heads turn the mintier they walk in a room. A lot of people have crushes on them.
Having a Lilith conjunct the ascendant in synastry usually shows an intense otherworldly connection that is most likely forbidden. You’ll feel like you finally found the perfect person until u figure out they are married with kids or your best friends partner. This connection is usually so strong that if one of the partners (or both) are in a relationship it can completely destroy their relationships. I’ve seen 20 year marriages end from this synastry. Known as the “home wrecker” placement.
Having your Lilith in Leo can show that you could’ve been treated as a wallflower growing up. People never really gave you much attention so you grew up thinking you weren’t meant to be loved and appreciated:( in this lifetime you are meant to break that and steal the spotlight
Having you North Node in the 7th house means that in a past life you probably were a loner or found it difficult to create bonds with others. Your opinionated personality pushed a lot of people away in a past life. In this life tho you are here to learn the art of compromise. You are here to build relationships whether it be family, friends or romantic relationships.
Pluto in the 11th house people im sorry for the amount of toxic friends you had to deal with☹️ I notice their friendships are usually really intense toward them the friends can become really jealous and possessive with them. Their friendships were closer to abusive partnerships than actual friendships. I’ve seen in some cases that their friends can act overly seductive with them as well which can be overwhelming & uncomfy. When these natives heal what attracts these folks however they can eventually gain some of the most trustworthy friends. These friends will help you climb the latter and normally have a lot of power. You can move mountains with the right group.
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Your present... Relationship observations pt. IV
I know you guys love these so here's more! As always, enjoy and happy holidays!
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A common thing I've seen in the charts of people who are firmly monogamous is moon-mercury aspects (this is not the only indicator ofc). Their decisions and interests are guided by what they feel so once they set their heart on someone... that's it for them
A very interesting lesson that I took from doing so many synastry/composite readings is that the "like attracts like" trope is WAY more powerful than the "opposites attract" trope. Here are some of the most common similarities I've spotted:
couples sharing the same ASC (this one is SO common)
Very similar aspects to the moon: I’ve noticed many couples have each of their moons aspecting the same planets, specially, outer planets, usually in similar (sometimes even the same) aspects. For example person A has Moon Square Pluto and person B has moon opposite Pluto (both harsh aspects)
A common thing I've seen in many couples synastry is Venus square Venus aspect
On the other hand I’ve noticed that flings or really passionate relationships tend to have Moon square moon in synastry
Moon sextile Moon relationships are so perfect imo. They have the easy understanding of the trine and the passion of the square/opposition
I’ve seen a lot of unrequited love situations have Venus square/opposite Moon. The moon person is attached to and idolizes the Venus person. The Venus person enjoys moon’s company but they aren’t that romantically involved or interested
Earth Moons are very fond of stability what is known to them but they secretly want someone who takes them out of their comfort zone and opens them up to deep and exciting emotional experiences. I've noticed they usually end up with partners who are more sensitive, expressive and spontaneous
I’ve noticed Venus-Pluto natives (square, opposition, conjunction) end up building some kind of resentment towards their long-term partners overtime and won’t let them go. The type to spend years married to some they secretly hate and also the type of person who demonizes every single one of their exes. It’s like they tend to attract relationships that wake up a dark side in them
Something I keep seeing over and over is that Cancer placements are playerssssss (both men and women). They will treat you like you’re “the one” but that doesn’t necessarily mean they have an actual intention to settle with you😭 they're just getting carried away by what they feel in moment so I guess they are unintentional players???
Leo and Libra placements on the other hand are intentional players imo. They love the romance and chasing just for the validation it gives them
In order to keep a Cardinal Venus/Moon interested you need to keep showing up like your relationship is brand new. Doesn’t matter how long you’ve be together or how comfortable you are with each other, they want their partner to still make an effort to impress and romance them like it’s the first date and they're bound to do the same
Women with Libra Mars I've noticed tend to attract mamas boys or child-like men with mommy issues. These women are always the dominant or mature ones in their relationships
Capricorn Mars women are dominant too and have a strong character but they chase men who are equally as independent as them if not more
Something I’ve noticed with Pisces/Neptune 7th house (and also Pisces Venus/Juno to an extent) is that yeah they put their partner on a pedestal but they also low-key tend to take their partner for granted? I’ve noticed they expect their partner to be indulgent, permissive and basically tolerate their bs. Little is talked about how their tendency to ignore red flags goes both ways; they want their partner to ignore their red flags too and forgive all their behaviors
What is up with Aquarius and Pisces placements attracting each other all the damn time?
Water Venus/Mars win the award for most obsessive lovers out there
I’ve seen a lot of people with Mars in the 7th house who were divorced or never married. One friend of mine who has this placement says she doesn’t want to marry at all or have a relationship cause she’s too independent
Women with fixed Mars are attracted to men who have rough or bold characteristics such as beard, tattoos, toned body, deep voice, etc. or just a very bold presence in general. They also have a thing for men who have a very confident, understated and nonchalant demeanor/personality to them
Women with mutable Mars and their attraction to flighty and chaotic men who don’t give them the time of day. I’ve seen this countless times 😭😭😭
I've seen harmonious aspects between Mars-Moon in people that work very well together! This aspect typically means fertility which in a work environment translates into a fruitful relationship. The two people wanting to create/initiate things together with lots of motivation
Who came up with the idea that Aries Moon/Venus are disloyal and flighty? All I keep seeing irl is these natives tend to have a strong attachment to their partners. Once they're in your corner they won't ever let you go fr. They could have a tendency to get attached to the wrong people tho
I’ve seen many many couples having 7th house Mars in synastry but this overlay is super chaotic imo, creates a back and forth dynamic that ends nowhere. The house person is the chaser here, they are always pushing commitment on the Mars person cause they don’t want the mars person to “slip away” or something. The mars person enjoys the eagerness of the house person and finds it very attractive and could enjoy challenging the house person’s interest. Eventually if the mars person isn’t that interested they get bored and are often the first ones to walk away
A very similar outcome I've seen happens with 7th house Mars in Composite. This could make the bond between the two a bit "forced" and dragged out. This also means the connection will really be put to the test, you guys may have to fight for your connection a lot which can either bond you more or exhaust you, could eventually become tired of the relationship and how much energy it takes to keep it alive.
I have a theory that your preferred house overlays could be indicated by your Venus/7th house/Juno. For example if you have Leo Venus you might enjoy 5th house synastry, if you have Neptune or Pisces in the 7th house you might feel comfortable with 12th house synastry, etc. Let me know what you think about this
I’ve noticed that 8th house synastry results in a lot of physical touch going on so people who have this as their love language might be specially fond of this overlay. This is the couple that literally can’t keep their hands off each other
Scorpio Moons 🤝 sabotaging the few healthy relationships they have in their life. They eventually learn to keep the right people after really going through it tho
With 7th house synastry you can really feel like something's missing when you don't have that person around.
When moon falls in fire houses in synastry the two people are always excited to see each other
Moon in 1st house in synastry is the only 1st house overlay that is not superficial. The connection is usually very genuine while it lasts. This person likely sparks a lot of nostalgia and you remember them fondly
When someone’s personal planets fall in your 4th house, you feel like this person can see you for who you truly are deep down
Gemini Venus/Juno/7th house: the people they date tend to have almost identical characteristic, there's always this blatant "twin" factor in the people they date or attract. For example all their exes worked in the same industry, have the exact same personality, etc
Venus Observations...
Libra Venus has the rep for being big flirts and charmers but this is actually a Cardinal Venus thing tbh cause, as I've said in a past post, they love the chase, they just all do it in different ways
It's true Virgo Venus are picky but this doesn't necessarily mean they have high standards. Yes, stay with me here. These natives have a very clear series of characteristics they want a partner to meet and that's how they are picky/critical (earth) but if those boxes are checked, they don't care much about anything else (mutable) and can be quite flexible. They don’t really care if their partner is not the most sought after person
In contrast, Capricorn Venus are picky AND have high standards. They want the best of the best, the perfect partner
Virgo Venus wants a partner that doesn’t need validation however they want their partner to validate them all the time
Aquarius Venus will only commit if they see a future with that person. Not only they are ruled by Saturn (which rules longevity) but they are also ruled by Uranus which rules innovation, Aquarius is the visionary of the zodiac so Aquarius Venus people need to feel like their partner will help them evolve or "upgrade" as a person in some way (not in a materialistic way like Capricorn but rather mentally). That's why they are attracted to people who are "different", intelligent or eccentric
The reason why Aquarius Venus is "flighty" as per my observation is because they tend to go for partners who are radically different from them and as a result they often stumble upon many incompatible partners
Leo Venus is very underrated when it comes to acts of service, I’ve noticed this is a very common love language for them
In my experience Pisces Venus natives are SO deceitful and immature. I'm sorry I really wanted to like this placement but they always make me cringe and are only cute on the surface imo. The type to lead everyone on by saying things they don’t mean and exaggerating compliments. They’re very passive in love and romanticize bare minimum. This means they don't expect their partner to take accountability but the native never takes accountability themselves either. They ignore issues in relationships and instead of working things through they expect everything to be fixed with lovebombing and/or pretending like nothing happened. Men with this placement tend to be emotionally unavailable and always want to date a doormat girl. Women with this placement are childish and tend to have princess complex
The only Venus sign that doesn't care much about looks from what I've seen is Scorpio Venus. They care more about the bond and chemistry over their partner fitting a certain type.
Also, what is up with Scorpio Venus and dating people they don’t actually like that much or at all? 🤨 They be dating people that low-key annoy them
Libra, Leo, Capricorn and Taurus Venus very much care about looks in a partner. Taurus/Capricorn Venus natives I've noticed pay special attention to how a potential partner dresses and grooms themselves
All Fixed Venus natives are pretty obsessive to honest, it's not just Scorpio. I've noticed they like the idea of having some sort hold or control over their partner. Their love language is making themselves indispensable in some way cause they enjoy feeling like they're partner will always need them and won't get away from them
Men with Pisces/Libra/Cancer/Taurus Venus have a thing for women who are people pleasers or stereotypically feminine and charming. They like it when a woman is kind, gentle, understanding, accommodating, etc
Men with Fire Venus are attracted to confident and independent women who have this it girl vibe to them
Something else I’ve noticed with Fixed Venus natives is that they have a thing for partners that have a mysterious or reserved vibe to them. Not necessarily introverted, but people who protect their privacy or keep to themselves a lot.
Mutable Venus fall for partners that have this very open and outgoing vibe to them. Again, not necessarily extroverted, but people who have a more bubbly personality
Cardinal Venus natives will only fall in love with someone who they deeply admire. They commit to people who have this put together/respectable vibe to them
Juno Observations...
I've actually observed Juno synastry is very significant in business relationships not just romantic ones. In fact, those married couple I've seen with heavy Juno synastry also tended to be involved in business together
Sagittarius Juno I've seen manifests mostly as the native getting a spouse that is very permissive and gives them a lot of freedom, a spouse that never says no to anything. This placement overall gives a very respectful and supportive spouse. However because of this the Sag Juno native will have a tendency to cross boundaries in the marriage and take their spouse for granted
In general both Sagittarius and Pisces Juno have a tendency to "abandon" their spouses either physically or emotionally and kinda forget about them from time to time. This doesn't necessarily have to mean disloyalty tho.
Sag Juno natives want to feel like they have the freedom to go and do their own thing, like they'll leave for days or weeks on end and their spouse won't mind and will indeed support the native. They don’t like to feel like marriage hinders their desire to live freely but rather encourages it. Side note: I have seen some cases in which Sag Juno natives actually did abandon their spouses/families either for another partner or because they were perusing better opportunities
Pisces Juno natives will give a more sacrificial energy kinda like "babe I love you but I have to go, I'm sorry". There's something that stops the native from actually being there for their spouse, but this placement indicates the spouse is bound to be very forgiving because they'll see is not your fault in a way
Cancer/Capricorn Juno is an indicator of having a marriage with traditional gender roles or traditional values.
I’ve noticed Scorpio Juno natives or Scorpio ASC in the Juno PC have a marriage that REALLY rubs people the wrong way. Others could see your relationship as toxic or even predatory in nature. People believe that you landed your spouse (or vice versa) through manipulation, abuse, deceit, stalking, controlling behavior, etc. This placement also means you met when either of you were going through a hard time so there could be some case of trauma bonding here
I’ve seen that soulmate relationships tend have their Junos in the same element (most common case). Honorary mentions: Juno in opposite signs or signs ruled by the same planet
Leo Juno natives are a bit flighty and afraid of commitment. They just want a partner for the sake of the romance and feeling spoiled. They want the relationship to stay fun and playful and really dislike the sense of seriousness and "settlement" that can come with marriage sometimes
With Juno in the 7th house either you or your spouse will be in a relationship when you meet
When looking at the Juno PC, Capricorn placements/Saturn in the angels/Saturn conjunct inner planets indicates long-lasting marriage
Fixed Juno natives will have a spouse that is completely fascinated and obsessed with them. You want your spouse to worship you specially with Leo and Taurus Juno. The way your spouse will love you will boost your ego thus acting more confidently after marriage. The energy of the marriage could be a little overbearing or suffocating depending on other aspects
I've observed this in virtually all cases with Virgo Juno have a tendency to attract very inconsiderate partners that make them feel like they're not good enough (the opposite can be true). They had unsuccessful first marriage that drained the shit out of them but they eventually find someone who is very modest and nurturing
Cancer/4th house Juno natives have a VERY hard time moving on from their exes if they ever saw that person as marriage material.
From what I've seen Capricorn Juno doesn't create that much of a delay or age gap in marriage. It can of course, but in most cases these natives marry in their late 20s to their first serious bf/gf and they usually have an age difference of 2-5 years approximately. This placements I’ve seen manifests mostly as “I married my high school/collage sweetheart and we’ve been together forever” kinda scenario OR marrying someone from your past you reconnect with later in life
Scorpio, Pisces, Capricorn and Aquarius Juno indicates you'll marry your soulmate or your relationship with your fs is karmic or from a past life. You might meet your spouse after fulfilling some karmic lesson or some life milestone
Cardinal Juno/Juno in the angles tend to be very proud of their spouses or being married in general. Could be the type to be very invested in finding a life partner cause they tend to turn marriage into a very essential part of their lives and themselves
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You can find out why/if someone finds you attractive by looking at what placements of yours are aspecting their Venus. This is because Venus rules over what we find attractive/our type
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♡ | Their Venus aspecting your Sun: They find you attractive because of how creative you are, how sure you are of yourself, when you full act like your true self/express yourself, and/or your generous persona/generosity. This aspect is a big indication of a relationship occurring
♡ | Their Venus aspecting your Moon: Even if you have challenging Synastry aspects this aspect can be really good and make a huge difference in taking your relationship farther. They find the way you express your emotions and care for them very attractive. You have a very lighthearted romance together
♡ | Their Venus aspecting your Ascendant: This is an aspect often indicating they have a crush on you and find you very beautiful physically. They find you most attractive when you’re being your true self
♡ | Their Venus aspecting your Mercury: They find your wit and communication style attractive. They love hearing about your perceptions and are attracted to how your mind works as well as the things you think about
♡ | Their Venus aspecting your Venus: This is a great synastry aspect for love if it’s conjunct, sextile, or trine. It can indicate you both find each other’s charm and how you show love to each other attractive. It can also indicate having similar views/perceptions about love or similar love languages
♡ | Their Venus aspecting your Mars: This can indicate someone finds you very sexually attractive. Romance wise it means they find how passionate you are to be attractive as well as your ambition, confidence, masculinity, and/or dominance to be very attractive
♡ | Their Venus aspecting your Jupiter: They find your optimism, success, popularity, knowledge/wisdom, and/or wealth very attractive. This can also be an indication of being able to make lots of money together and being devoted to each other
♡ | Their Venus aspecting your Saturn: They find your maturity, good work ethic, achievements, self discipline, and/or age to be attractive. This can indicate an age gap in your relationship and that they may find you especially attractive if you’re older. It’s also an indication they want to commit to you
♡ | Their Venus aspecting your Uranus: They find your uniqueness, independence, free-spirit, friendliness, and/or intellectualness very attractive. This is an indication of a friends to lovers type vibe. It can also indicate you met through technology
♡ | Their Venus aspecting your Neptune: They find your glamour, kindness/compassion, selflessness, creativity, spirituality, and/or imagination attractive. This can mean they are very fascinated with you and also indicate a spiritual connection
♡ | Their Venus aspecting your Pluto: They find your seductiveness, powerful persona, and intense vibe to be attractive. This indicates they’re very infatuated with you and can indicate obsession on their end as well
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crishayle · 4 months
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Disclaimer. This is where I write my personal notes. They may not suit you because your other planets and aspects are stronger. Please consider this. Thanks for the feedback. Kisses ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
The placements in Leo/5th house are very dependent on music. They turn it on whenever possible. It doesn't matter with or without headphones. Some even have a ritual. For example, they don't clean or walk down the street without music
The beginning of the Capricorn season really fits the atmosphere of the end of the year. All people are stressed out, overworking to close deadlines. Everyone is save money for Christmas and gifts. Someone begins to feel apathy because of the cold and eternal darkness. Well, isn't it true that Capricorn's vibe? ૮₍˶Ó﹏Ò ⑅₎ა
People with a dominant Moon, do you also feel the phases of the Moon? For example, the recent full Moon in Cancer? I noticed that all my friends and clients with a dominant Moon constantly complain about some kind of fucked up full moon
If your Venus gets into the 1st house of a person in synastry, then he will consider you the ideal of beauty. That is, to accept literally everything. Even what you think is ugly
I noticed that people with a Leo in the Big Three (Sun, Moon, ascendant) most often have a pink skin tone or, more simply, a warm one
People can notice and especially feel not only your ascendant, but also the dominant planets and stelliums (including in houses). For example, the stellium in the 6th house may feel like Virgo, and the dominant Moon like Cancer or the sign of your Moon
Mars in the 7th house is not so much conflicted as fair and harsh in words. He will not quarrel from scratch, but if he feels disrespect, lies or arrogance, then… Well, you know... But in general, they are very pleasant and interesting people
Some of the most physically resilient people most often have Mars in Scorpio/Sagittarius/Virgo. They may not look athletic, but they withstand heavy loads much better than others. Although maybe it's their strength of mind, not their body.
Many aspects to Neptune can indicate a person who has an eternal mess at home
Any aspect of Jupiter and the Sun indicates optimism. Of course, they get upset too and sometimes don't believe in themselves, but their resourcefulness is much stronger than sadness.
People with the Sun/Moon square/opposition Saturn often suffer from hyper-responsiveness. It is very important for them to keep everything under control and this can literally bring themselves to neurosis
Mercury conjunct Venus with orb 0 or 1 is always a beautiful voice, maybe they don't have to sing, but they have a velvety and most often a little low voice
The Sun/Moon square/opposition Neptune most often consider their parents to be a little infantile, or they have been put in the role of a third parent since childhood. For example, a mother could see her daughter as a babysitter for her younger daughter. Simply put, such people have already felt older and wiser than their parents since childhood
People with the Moon conjunct/trine/sextile Saturn are very well-mannered. They understand what morality is, they are moderately kind, moderately modest, they know how to communicate politely and beautifully
Girls with stellium in Scorpio have always attracted, attract and will attract everyone's attention (but especially men's). Moreover, they are admired by other girls (they subscribe to them on Instagram and constantly watch stories and photos)
I recently read that Socrates (the man who invented rhetoric) may have been with the Sun in Gemini. I'm not surprised
People with the Moon sextile/trine/conjunct Venus are adorable. It's not even about charisma here, but about the fact that they are generally quite cute in character and appearance
The dominant Pluto in the natal chart may indicate a love of sarcasm, black humor and a slightly harsh manner of speech. Touchy people consider them rude, but for Plutonians this is their usual way of communicating
A little more about Pluto. Stephen King has many aspects that point to his love and talent in the horror genre. This is Pluto in the 1st house, Mercury sextile Pluto, the Moon trine Pluto, Scorpio in the 5th house
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