#no matter who it is

[morally-gray101]

My religion is kevin offering to watch neil so he can drink on thanksgiving. In french. And then nicky going "omg neil is making the face kevin can be nice?????!?!??!" Which is hilarious because it implies that Neil really isn't as stone cold as he thinks, and he basically canonically reacts like a deer in headlights whenever someone does ANYTHING remotely nice for him.

matt: oh neil i bought this soda i know you like when i went to the store earlier

neil:

#aftg #all for the game #all for the gay #neil josten #nicky hemmick #kevin day #neil is such a mood #you care???? #no way that's legit #forever being shocked to find people care #no matter who it is #yes he is traumatised #he's also my child #what about it #aftg shitpost

[disabledunitypunk]

I think the thing that makes all the cripplepunk discourse so distressing is that it's not an excuse to be awful to people. I don't want to argue with other disabled people; I don't need to be part of your group.

But cursing people out, wishing violence and death on them, telling people you hope they suffer through everything that you've endured and more? That's not a good thing. It's not cool, it's not reclaiming your power, and it's definitely not punk.

It's not that there's different opinions on the term/community itself, it's watching people defend and SUPPORT blatant cruelty in the name of activism. No amount of trauma gives you the right to hurt other people.

Being entitled to your emotions is not the same as being entitled to harming other people. You can be angry and sad and bitter, but you are still responsible for how you act on those feelings, and more importantly, being accountable for your actions.

And the fact that people can't see that? The fact that just "treat people with respect" is a controversial opinion? That's why it's so difficult to make progress that benefits ANYONE.

Anyway, all of which is to say, thanks for running this blog. Your kindness makes this world a better place for all of us.

We agree. Cruelty has no purpose in the fight to improve disability rights and accommodations.

We’re glad you like the blog. Thank you.

#you summed it up well #Cruelty for cruelty’s sake has never sat right with us #no matter who it is #mod cloud #unitypunk #neuropunk #madpunk #cripplepunk #dyspunktional #disability

[cryptidcryptic]

I always see things about jealous possessive AA, and verry verry nice, but what about a jealous possessive consort? He sticks out like a shining star, with so many people drawn to him and vying for his attention his consort must have to put people in their placs sometimes.

Just AA getting a complaint from someone elf at some party about an argument between them and his son.

AA:…I see…

AA, turning to his consort, laying on his lap: darling..did you steal the ear of this man’s son?

Consort: well, if his son could keep his eyes off things that don’t belong to him, he wouldn’t have to loose things that do.

AA, turning back to the elder elf with a smile : there’s your answer.

His smugness is off the charts, words cannot describe how much he loves his consort getting jealous.

#no matter who it is #he’ll always take his consorts side 💞🥺 #ascended astarion #ascended astarion x tav

[monster-noises]

In line with that other post I made a month or two ago about feeling weird in book shops and stuff

I always feel like front-end staff in medical facilities don't care for me much ;;;;><>

Do I understand on some level that they are under no requirement to be wildly cheerful, they Are being nice but I have trained my brain to read neutrality as a negative reaction? Yes absolutely.

Does my little monster brain still feel a wash of shame and rejection every time? Oh, of course yeah, there's no other way to feel!

#monster noises #getting my yearly bloodwork done today #usually the tech who actually takes my blood is plenty nice #but the receptionist #no matter who it is #is always giving me :| #which is completely fine!! just wanna be clear #but my brain reads it as >:| or even e<e #and I'm already super nervous in medical enviroments #so that doesn't helP

[natjennie]

the idea of someone in the middle of filming ofmd coming up to david fane and just going "....is this gay??" is truly killing me. just like. having no idea. reading the scripts like. hold on.. no. it can't be. is it?? it's so funny.

#no matter who it is #its so funny #ofmd

[cheerfullycatholic]

I think it's interesting how some Protestant groups place very little stock in Baptism, which actually does change your life by marking your soul with an indelible character, but some of those same groups will also say things like what that one group said on the pamphlet they gave your family, making that one prayer (that I'm certain was made up by one of their leaders or something) into almost a magic spell that will certainly change your life forever. Like. My brothers and sisters. We already have something that does in fact change your life and your soul forever, why do you refuse it??? (Granted some Protestant groups practice baptism and idk where this group in particular falls but yeah. I thought Paul said there weren't supposed to be divisions. So why did they divide from the One True Church??? For clarity's sake, all these are rhetorical questions, I know the answers, you know the answers, etc. but yeah interesting questions).

Oh my gosh right?? Online it said they are a nondenominational church so who knows what they decide to believe or not. I never saw anything about baptism on there, but I also didn't look through their entire website, so who knows. I have a couple ideas about who the person giving us this stuff is, but I've no idea how to narrow down who or how to confront them about it, if that'd even be worth it. They're really not doing any harm, it's just bothersome that they're opening our mailbox. Although I don't trust any of the people I think it could be to not go through our mail.

#also considered it being multiple people #one person i KNOW sent my sister something was my brother in laws uncle #and thats because we recognized his handwriting on the envelope #i think this time it could either my sister's friend or someone from the protestant homeschool group we used to meet up with #no matter who it is #this is dumb #theyre not changing any hearts by putting stuff in our mailbox #isnt that illegal or something? #sorry for word dump #i have a lot of feelings about this

[gogtopia]

the sylvee dteam dynamic outsells every time

#no matter who it is #liveblogging

[trashy-greyjoy]

really love dynamics that are like 'it honestly doesn't matter if you view them as romantic or platonic, the point is that they love each other. the type of love is inconsequential, all that matters is that it's there'. gotta be one of my favorite genders.

#who cares if its platonic love who fucking CARES if its because they wanna kiss like the devotion and the tenderness is there no matter what #mainly brought to you by: jack and anne from black sails but also probably sydcarmy and msr #sydcarmy #msr #rackhanne #the bear #black sails #txf #the x files #mulder x scully #sydney x carmy #jack rackham x anne bonny #oh wait perhaps also theonsa if you squint #maybe not

[noelledeltarune]

EVERY SINGLE DAY there are MILLIONS of characters in their late 20s who get falsely accused of being father figures to teenagers when in reality the description of "weird older cousin" or "step-sibling that moved out before you were born" is 1000000x more apt

#talk tag #IT KILLS ME. REIGEN IS NOT MOB'S DAD. HE HAS A DAD. INGO IS NOT AKARI'S DAD. PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD CAN ANYONE HEAR ME #(not even necessarily to say that ingo is in his late 20s but still) #(even if he was a 30-40-50 year old no matter how old he is no fucking teenager is gonna call some guy they met as a 15 year old ''dad'') #GAI IS NOT A FATHER FIGURE TO ROCK LEE HE WAS LIKE 13 WHEN HE WAS BORN! PLEASE!!!!!!!! #one time i saw that a ​person wrote a fic where mario was like a father figure to luigi. #they are TWIN BROTHERS. #not what this about but idk where else i can say anything about this. #just horrible #also sometimes someone is just An Older Friend like no familial relationship just a friend or acquaintance who is a lot older than you

[triptrippy]

random thingz from twitter

#dungeon meshi #my art #laios touden #marcille donato #mithrun #thats all who matters. for now

[goatsandgangsters]

how to find literally any post on a blog in seconds (on desktop)

there are so many posts about ~tumblr is so broken, you can’t find any post on your own blog, it’s impossible, bluhrblub~

I am here to tell you otherwise! it is in fact INCREDIBLY easy to find a post on a blog if you’re on desktop/browser and you know what you’re doing:

url.tumblr.com/tagged/croissant will bring up EVERY post on the blog tagged with the specific and exact phrase #croissant. every single post, every single time. in chronological order starting with the most recent post. note: it will not find #croissants or that time you made the typo #croidnssants. for a tag with multiple words, it’s just /tagged/my-croissant and it will show you everything with the exact phrase #my croissant

url.tumblr.com/tagged/croissant/chrono will bring up EVERY post on the blog tagged with the exact phrase #croissant, but it will show them in reverse order with the oldest first 

url.tumblr.com/search/croissant isn’t as perfect at finding everything, but it’s generally loads better than the search on mobile. it will find a good array of posts that have the word croissant in them somewhere. could be in the body of the post (op captioned it “look at my croissant”) or in the tags (#man I want a croissant). it won’t necessarily find EVERYTHING like /tagged/ does, but I find it’s still more reliable than search on mobile. you can sometimes even find posts by a specific user by searching their url. also, unlike whatever random assortment tumblr mobile pulls up, it will still show them in a more logically chronological order

url.tumblr.com/day/2020/11/05 will show you every post on the blog from november 5th, 2020, in case you’re taking a break from croissants to look for destiel election memes 

url.tumblr.com/archive/ is search paradise. easily go to a particular month and see all posts as thumbnails! search by post type! search by tags but as thumbnails now

url.tumblr.com/archive/filter-by/audio will show you every audio post on your blog (you can also filter by other post types). sometimes a little imperfect if you’re looking for a video when the op embedded the video in a text post instead of posting as a video post, etc

url.tumblr.com/archive/tagged/croissant will show you EVERY post on the blog tagged with the specific and exact phrase #croissant, but it will show you them in the archive thumbnail view divided by months. very useful if you’re looking for a specific picture of a croissant that was reblogged 6 months ago and want to be able to scan for it quickly 

url.tumblr.com/archive/filter-by/audio/tagged/croissant will show you every audio post tagged with the specific phrase #croissant (you can also filter by photo or text instead, because I don’t know why you have audio posts tagged croissant) 

the tag system on desktop tumblr is GENUINELY amazing for searching within a specific blog! 

caveat: this assumes a person HAS a desktop theme (or “custom theme”) enabled. a “custom theme” is url.tumblr.com, as opposed to tumblr.com/url. I’ve heard you have to opt-into the former now, when it used to be the default, so not everyone HAS a custom theme where you can use all those neat url tricks. 

if the person doesn’t have a “custom theme” enabled, you’re beholden to the search bar. still, I’ve found the search bar on tumblr.com/url is WAY more reliable than search on mobile. for starters, it tends to bring posts up in a sensible order, instead of dredging up random posts from 2013 before anything else

if you’re on mobile, I’m sorry. godspeed and good luck finding anything. (my one tip is that if you’re able to click ON a tag rather than go through the search bar, you’ll have better luck. if your mutual has recently reblogged a post tagged #croissant, you can click #croissant and it’ll bring up everything tagged #croissant just like /tagged/croissant. but if there’s no readily available tag to click on, you have to rely on the mobile search bar and its weird bizarre whims) 

#tumblr #tumblr tips #tumblr tags #tumblr search #tumblr how to #new to tumblr #why did I pick croissants as the example? who knows! #but I'm a pro at finding things on people's blogs especially my own #takes me like 4 seconds to find Exactly The Post I'm Looking For no matter how long ago I reblogged it

[divinely-yourz]

ngl , humans are actually really cool

#!! lia speaks !! #like the idea of human interaction and that whoever we speak to #no matter who it is #or what we talk about #will always spark a reaction and emotion out of you #and that we're all living complete separate lives and have different experiences and thoughts and ideas #and sayings like “one mans trash is anothers mans treasure” and “to each his own” spike so much meaning #is because its so actually true in every way #we're all alive at the exact same time experiencing things AT THE SAME TIME ! #but somehow still separate ?? #idk man #ceiling thoughts

[wikipediadogdotnet]

wanted to share my favorite art pieces from the google drive collection of 300 free-to-use palestine-related posters by Artists Against Apartheid

poster numbers: 10, 102, 128 226, 20 34, 204, 127 158, 176, 26

#i’m always thinking about “my humanity is bound in yours” #it’s true ! we belong in a bundle of life and a person is a person through other persons #gotta remember no matter who or where that we have to take care of each other… #free palestine #art #ceasefire now #id in alt text

[anneapocalypse]

So, just curious how many writers and creators will have to be forcibly outed by relentless harassment before we acknowledge that "This queer characters was written by a cishet person and that's why they're bad" is not good criticism.

#yes i'm just going to come out and say it i'm talking about sera #not exclusively but i am talking about her #'but her writer actually iS A--' you don't know that! it doesn't matter! and i don't care! #just say that you do not like the character. #people will reblog posts about the latest actor or YA author or whatever getting forced out of the closet and be like #'wow. :( that's terrible.' #and then GO RIGHT BACK TO DOING IT #when are we going to learn #when are we going to stop doing this BEFORE somebody is forcibly outed #because in practical terms #that means you have to be okay with queer characters being written by straight people. #you have to stop weaponizing that against writers you don't like. #you have to be willing to critique the writing on its own merits #without using the writer's (assumed) identity to prop up your arguments #that's how it works #but who wants to actually change the way they talk about media #when tearing apart people's identities for clout is far more entertaining. #gwaren exports #fandom problems #fandom critical

[egophiliac]

I have SO many thoughts about everything and they are in no kind of order yet, so here's just some quick little bits in the meantime!

I am not normal about any of these characters!

#art #twisted wonderland #twisted wonderland spoilers #twisted wonderland episode 7 spoilers #twisted wonderland episode 7 part 6 spoilers #twisted wonderland book 7 spoilers #twisted wonderland book 7 part 6 spoilers #me just staring at the ceiling thinking about anime characters #if i start talking about the big stuff now it's going to turn into a huge rambling mess so in the meantime #i did not get sebek (yet) (i need to contemplate my gems...) but i did see his groovy #he is just full-on cinderella-sparkles bibbidi-bobbidi-booing into that armor! magnificent. #and i really don't have enough words for how much i love tiny malleus. he is perfect. he is precious. he is everything to me. #he knows who his dad is no matter what some crusty dead talking ectoplasm blobs say #(man no wonder lilia's got hangups if THAT was the general attitude he was getting) #('eww you got your dirty bat cooties on the prince' go sit in the corner with mrs. rosehearts you absolute garbage) #(...i did kind of love that lilia started to wake up because the senate said one nice thing to him) #(and he immediately was like 'this is not reality') #(sounds about right) #on a lighter note i was just. SO charmed by the little throwaway about ✨dragon lord consort esteemed diplomat revaan✨ #who picks the vegetables out of his food and hides them under the tablecloth #everything i learn about this man makes me like him more. he was SO dumb. #now we know where malleus gets it from i guess #also unrelated but once again the fact that i named my mc tamago has had unintentional consequences #tamago take the tamago and tamago tamagao tamago #frikkin love that when yuu gives the egg back you can just be like 'i love him. this is my baby now.' 100% accurate. #also yuu continually referring to malleus as tsunotarou even to the senate = amazing. yuu really has NO self-preservation or awareness. #they fit right in with everyone else #<- see what did i tell you. huge rambling mess. #and i haven't even BEGUN to talk about MELEANOR -- (is dragged offstage by a hook)

[nat-20s]

If someone tells you to skip the ninth doctor they're a bastard and a cop!!! However if someone tells you you can skip the eleventh doctor genuinely they are looking out for you

#the thing about eleven is...i remember almost zero of his run ..and it doesnt matter at all lol #doctor who