Just thinking about how, even though the main characters/couples are all men, mxtx gives some of the most intense and praiseworthy moments to the women in her novels:
Three separate times in mdzs do we see women stand up to a crowd of cultivators who do not respect them in order to protect Wei Wuxian, the most powerful cultivator of their time: Jiang Yanli at Phoenix Mountain, Mianmian at the conference to discuss wwx’s liberation of the labor camps, and Wen Qing in the aftermath of the Qiongqi Path ambush. A-Qing doing the same within the Grasses arc for Xiao Xingchen, then for the juniors as a ghost, both times against Xue Yang. Mianmian even chooses, in front of those high and mighty powerful men, to turn her back on them and follow her own path, marking their status and power as tainted. And how many of the people in that room got to live as long and fulfilling a life as hers after that?
In svsss, you can’t tell me shit about how Ning Yingying, who Shen Qingqiu noted they had all pampered but not really taught to fight, stood up to both the Little Palace Mistress and Luo Binghe, and it is with her words that we end out Shen Qingqiu’s first life (before he comes back in the plant body).
And in tgcf? Banyue sacrificing all of her people for greater peace but still allowing the resentment-filled corpses of her former companions to hang her every day to give them some appeasement in hopes they will eventually be able to move on. Ling Wen being the one who keeps all of heaven functioning practically alone and being the mastermind behind the creation of the brocade immortal, giving her the martial powers she lacked on top of her civil ones and making her an irreplaceable asset. Yushi Huang—a 16th princess that nobody in her family took notice of—taking the throne, after her siblings had struck down their father, so that she could slit her own throat in front of the enemy when nobody else would in order to ensure her kingdom’s survival, then immediately ascending into one of the most powerful, irreplaceable gods in the book, known for always protecting her people (god I love her).
Some of these women have more screen time, so to speak, than others, but all of these events are integral parts of the books they are in, given specifically to female characters. And I just really love that no matter how much or little time the narrative spends on these characters, their presences are always impactful.
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pro-AI in the sense of "they taught a bread scanning computer to recognize cancer cells" etc etc
against AI in the sense of "we stole artwork from hundreds to thousands of artists, didn't credit them and didn't financially compensate them"
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im so done with seeing articles about kids and screen time that doesnt mention parent behaviors even once. “kids are always on their phones” so are the parents! which the kids look to for how they should behave! ipad babies didn’t chose to only play on their ipads, thats what their parents gave them!
an anecdotal example: when i was a kid, all my parents would do in their minimal free time was watch tv and then they would be surprised when in my sister and i’s minimal free time we would also only watch tv/play video games. they scolded us for not reading books, but they never read books. they scolded us for not going outside but they never went outside.
“kids are always on their damn phones” my mom is in her 60s and opens up candy crush anytime she’s sitting — it isnt just the kids
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It's honestly crazy that discussion around testosterone HRT skews so much towards the beginning stages of it (to the point that you have dozens of guys thinking their transition is "failed" if they don't pass by like a year in lol) and what the initial changes of the first couple of months to years look like, like the classic laundry list of those early basic changes like bottom growth, voice drop, etc, when IMO literally none of that compares remotely to the depth and intensity of the long term total masculinization you start to experience like 3-5+ years in.
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This... this is a whole different kind of psychic damage here. When nightmares got Marcille, we get to knew that her's biggest fear is outliving her friends. This isn't even canon probably, but look at this. This isn't a "I don't want my friends to die" kind of dream. This is a "I'm terrified of loosing my daughters, of something killing them, and being incapable of stopping it" kind of dream. It's so simple yet it explains perfectly the whole of chilchucks character. He loves, he cares, deeply. But he, or doesn't acknowledges, or doesn't know what to do with that knowledge.
Besides that. Someone had to wake him up after this. Imagine the devastation in this man after he wakes up. He just saw his three little babys murdered corpses (or maybe he saw them die, wich isn't better). He would possibly not talk about it, and that would worry the hell out of the party, because we'll, they see him all down and only one of them knows what he saw. Imagine being the one to pull him from that nightmare. Seeing this man, usually so composed, fuking staring with tears and terror in his eyes to the composes of what you can only assume are his daughters. It would be heartwrenching.
Idk, I love this man so much...
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Fun fact: Samus' zero suit is a bodysuit in more recent games instead of the tank-top she wore in older games because at this point, she's been spliced with so many species' DNA you really don't want to see what the rest of her skin looks like.
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so my younger cousin is flying in to visit from brazil on sunday, and will be staying here for like, the entirety of july. which, don't get me wrong, is super cool! i love the kid! but it felt like a super weird move, considering his parents are the SUPER strict and borderline helicopter parents. even the smallest prank/roughousing with him/his little sister would lead to a strict talking to from his parents, he couldn't ever do anything without their clear permission, that sort of stuff. so letting him fly at alone at 16 to a whole different country and stay there for a whole month seemed WILDLY out of character. additionally, it just felt like a super last-minute trip. it's not like we have any plans to do when he gets here, and the flight itself and stuff only got booked like, midway through june.
and i was talking to my mom about it, kind of trying to nudge some answers out of her, and after a while she went, "yeah, i think they're sending him over here to get away for his boyfriend. see if the distance breaks them off." which, first of all, surprised me because last i checked, they didn't KNOW he had a boyfriend. literally everyone in the family did EXCEPT for them because while that entire side of the family being semi-conservative, his parents (mostly his dad) are EXTREMELY old-fashioned. so clearly something already went wrong. and considering the only reason the rest of the family knew is because one person found out and it spread like wildfire, i have a sneaking suspicion he wasn't the one to tell them, either.
and second of all. they're sending him HERE. to try to make him forget his homosexuality. i couldn't do anything but just wordlessly gesture to the multiple pride flags scattered around my room, then to myself, because really? he has like two other cousins in the us and they're sending him to me? honey i am about to introduce this kid to queer scenes you have never even heard of. he'll be returning home with labels only shrimp can perceive
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very important question
Could be your top surgery, could be someone elses, that's entirely up to you
polls done get outta my notes
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it's about the small acts of intimacy... forehead kisses, putting jewelry on you, rubbing your hand with their thumb, putting a jacket on you, touching your necklace, running your hands through their hair, wiping away their tears, peeling them an orange, un/zipping their dress, tying their shoelaces, holding hands, removing an eyelash from their cheek, washing their hair, putting an anklet on them, tucking their hair behind their ear, sorting out their collar, untangling their necklaces, drinking out of a cup in their hands
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