#they learned to not be repulsed by it

[theshipdiaries]

saw this and immediately thought of kastle and klaroline!

#they learned to not be repulsed by it #they actually came to tolerate it #dare I say... not give af #so real for that #klaroline #kastle #frank castle #karen page #the punisher #daredevil #the originals #the vampire diaries #tvd #klaus x caroline #daredevil born again #marvel #2.11 #2x11 #5x01 #5.01

[redysetdare]

I think more characters deserve to hate romance in stories. Let them be little haters as a treat

#text #aro #aromantic #aroace #romance repulsed #listen i think we need more guys who just hate romance out there ok #and i dont want them to 'learn to love love' i want them to stay a little hater #i want them to be right in hating romance like yes DESTROY that amatonormativity!

[aterfish]

Being ace is an opposite of fuck around and find out:

Fuck nobody and never know for sure

#never knowing is actually a very important part #bc you learn that you dont care and you dont wait for that ✨special someone✨ #if something changes: cool #if nothing changes: cool #i dont need to be sure to be okay with my sexuality #and i dont need proof for others if i want to use one label or another #peace and love on planet earth #humans have too short lives for random people telling them they can't live their life how they want #asexual #asexuality #aroace #ater babbling at 2 am #hello new followers time to disappoint you 💖 #also im sex repulsed. but if you are not? then fuck and never know for sure ✨ #its literally 2am i really should stop and think before posting something. but dis a problem for a future fish #Right now fish wants to post their stupid post

[oroniusn]

“But!! If you don’t want to get married and have kids what else is there to do!!! That’s the only option!! You don’t want to die sad and alone do you?!?!?!!!” (Something I was actually told today)

Idk man, world domination? That’s an option /j

#Serious answer: I want a farm in the middle of nowhere and a dog #That’s pretty much all I need to be happy #Preferably as far away from the city as physically possible #Maybe a few dogs #Three sounds like a good amount #And of course Opal (my cat) would come with she’s my baby #Maybe some sheep I’ve always liked sheep #romance repulsed #sex repulsed #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aspec #aro #ace #loveless aroace #loveless aro #aplatonic #< recently learned that term existed and it fits me pretty well :] #specifically Demi aplatonic #And probably some type of afamilial as well since I really don’t feel familial attraction ever #oh well

[entropy-sea-system]

BEGGING people to stop treating friendship as mandatory just because you want to talk about amatonormativity. Quit throwing apls under the bus for not perfoeming friendship enough. Romance is not mandatory and neither is friendship or literally any other damn relationship. You shouldn't have to engage in relationships to recieve support and structuring society this way is not the progressive take you think it is.

#platonormativity #aplatonic #nonfriending apl #plato repulsed #apl #actually aplatonic #plato aros and alloplatonics shut the fuck up and learn to respect a disconnect from friendship challenge

[mychlapci]

people need to get really freaky with transformers sex, pregnancy and birth. and child-raising also. most of the time when i see transformers pregnancy it's all too similar to human pregnancy. and there's nothing really wrong with it, mind you, i'm into it, but i just feel like its not fair. i mean, the writers were so determined to make sure transformers are incapable of having sex and birthing babies that they created the most fucked up and inconsistent canon system of reproduction in the world. us transformers sex believers need to get fucked up with it too. on purpose

#no more cybertronians disgusted or repulsed by human reproduction #now its time for humans learning that cybertronians reproduce sexually too and feeling scarred for life after learning how #its gotta be crazy. lot of gross and questionable alien robot fluids. weird eggs. ugly babies #i want transformers birth to be some kinda fucking two dogs trying to kill each other kind of bullshit #do you understand my vision? #transformers #valveplug

[toxiccaves]

you know, i want to stay positive and believe that it'll be fine because there's definitely more people in the world that know that pr0sh!pp3r nonsense is used to groom children and is reprehensible. and I know a lotta kids these days know better too, or have people who reach out to them if they don't.

but how many of the kids online that aren't "trendy" or don't post content or lack social skills get completely ignored, or have no one in their online spaces around to help keep them safe? There is so much propaganda and manipulated language being used by these people to groom children and make even adults think it's fine to do, and I just don't know how we can be there to protect every kid who needs it online. it is so repulsive to me how abundant this kinda thing is in every fanbase. all i can think to say is if you see a minor online interacting with it, always try to reach out to keep them safe. maybe take time to talk about it every once in a while.

the way i was publicly preyed upon on this website when i was 14-17 and no one said anything has still left its scars and I don't want any other child to go through that too.

#sometimes i still feel like writing little handbooks for this topic as well as simpler ones like internet etiquette or general safety #but even if i do will ppl keep them down as reference to share? idk.. not good at writing thoughts #who up for informative internet safety zines #sorry ive had two people recently who followed me that i found out were like “undercover” pr0sh!pp3rs and im still so repulsed #that they see me post this and my boundaries but ignore it anyway and act all friendly. all for what? #i hate how throroughly we need to bg check everyone. i do it as often as i can when i get new follows or interactions and i block so many #anyway stay safe. learn the manipulated language they use. inform others that need it.

[marchivists]

have an apprentice chainshipping playlist for your listening pleasure (playlist image by @bathroomtrapped)

#chainshipping #lawrence gordon #adam stanheight #saw #its not about love its about desire and repulsion and violence #and learning that the person you know everything and nothing about is something you should hate. but dont #mine

[ivansergeyevichturgenev]

i can't stand hozier only because when people are like Omg he's a man but he's like a lesbian icon. i do NOT want to think about men ever again i don't want to listen to their voices or their thoughts about women. Gross!

#says the bitch who got married to a man #okay well we live in we learn we shouldn't be repulsed by our partner touching us and being like well i did a therapy workbook and i made #it through 🙄

[aru-art]

2 peas in a pod

ref from @ wo-habum on twitter!

#dysthymia exocolonist #dys exocolonist #incandescent #exosona #ocs #i was a teenage exocolonist #teenage exocolonist #exocolonist #iwatec #iwatex #<- still dont know which tag we're using ueueue #theres a bit of dialogue at the end of the game that explains that dys isnt touched repulsed just touch starved #he's not used to it but He Can Be ! and ive been thinking about it a lot #good job inca is here to provide hugs #ALSO FINALLY I LEARNED HOW TO SHADE HIS HAIR YIPPEE #my art #2023 #said i was gonna draw stardew and then i didnt which i think is funny. me when i do a little lying

[airenyah]

thinking about how excited joong and dunk were for ep8, like joong immediately replying "ep8" without missing a beat when asked about his fave episode and them even sitting down for an instagram livestream to watch and react to the entirety of ep8 and also just how in interviews they'd constantly talk about how "oh!! we've never done anything like this before" and also constantly mention how hidden agenda was more mature compared to star in my mind

also thinking about how they chose to perform dum dum for lol fanfest and how that performance included one biting the other and how they had the idea to switch places for the bite in order to surprise everyone for day 2

idk, i'm thinking about it and i just feel like joongdunk would totally be up for doing only friends (or a series like it)

#it would be super interesting to see bc both in simm and in ha they've proven over and over again #that they're not afraid of touching each other and being physically close #i really do hope that they'll finally get a more serious and better written project together #dunk's acting has also improved a lot since simm (and tbh he was never as bad as people claim he was!!) #and i think he could manage (and he'd def learn a lot from that too) #series like ofts tend to not be my thing bc i just lean way too much on the sex repulsed side of the ace spectrum but!! #i N E E D joongdunk in a ofts-type series purely for acting analysis brainrot reasons dkfjkjdfjfdk #pls @gmmtv let them work with p'jojo i'm begging you #or p'aof‚ i'll very gladly take a JD series directed by p'aof too it doesn't have to be ofts kjdfjkdf #airenyah plappert #joongdunk #adrm

[gideonisms]

would ya say griddlehark typifies the adhd4autism pairing or is that an oversimplification or both? i love them

Quite possibly! I'm not an expert on the adhd/autism ship parameters. like what score on the RAADS test does a character have to have before it counts? how do the social and/or medical models of disability interact with a system where no one has our current psychiatric knowledge? Perhaps the most horrifying though tangential question this brings up: did john just make all his autistic friends necromancers?

There's a lot to consider here. If you mean do they have an adhd/autism aura? the answer is obviously yes

#one question i have been considering this month: how do we know adhd and autism aren't basically two branches of the same tree #how distinct are some of these qualities #but you all are here for griddlehark. #i mean i'm not harrow's psychologist you learn she's schizophrenic in canon but aside from that no one is sitting down with her asking like #'do you find yourself repulsed by specific textures' #maybe in atn we'll get gideon's adhd test that john gave her for fun one day (she doesn't know what that is he doesn't bother to explain) #replies

[justaboutsnapped]

indesign is the devil's creation

#ok if i'm gonna be fr i've become much more comfortable with it over the past week #(thank god i got a type prof who actually teaches technical things instead of just expecting us to learn out of necessity the hard way) #but i've been churning layout drafts out for the past 7 hours during which my only break was dinner #so ID's starting to be repulsive again #em speaks