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Me: I don't know how to talk to men. Seriously, I feel like we speak different languages.
Also me: *hangs mostly out with men at uni*
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Attachment describes a particular kind of close bond between two people. The kind of connection that when they're together they feel safe and when they're apart they may feel loss.
Anne Power at TEDxWaldegrave Road "Attachment theory is the science of love"
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Ich weiß häufig nicht was ich fühlen soll. Also fühle ich nichts, bis mir jemand, aber auch nicht irgendjemand, sagt wie ich mich fühlen soll. Mich dazu bringt wirklich drüber nachzudenken.
gefühlt fühl ich nichts // MLL
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"Ich habe sehr wenig Gefühle. Und ich weiß, dass der Satz nicht stimmt. Also ich habe eine Menge Gefühle. Ich habe aber erstens nicht nur keine Ahnung wie man die äußert, sondern ich habe nicht mal eine Ahnung davon wie man die empfindet. Also ich habe dann viele Gefühle. Ich fühle sie überhaupt nicht. Ich komme gar nicht an den Punkt."
Moritz Neumeier im Podcast Hotel Matze (Juni 2023)
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She sighed. "'Carry yourself with the confidence of a mediocre white man.'"
The Love Hypothesis by Ali Hazelwood
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It's super frustrating, when you've been full of anxiety about whether you should follow your crush (who you've barely talked to outside of uni) on his socials, only to then realise that he apparently is someone who barely checks in on them... It's been 4 days..
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2024 so far
I'm thinking about my math tutor a lot
Ugh I should start learning for exams
Let's do everything I love about home before I'm going back to uni after the first week of January
I'm becoming a biologist but I don't want to cut animals open
Love this group of queer people
So much snow it's amazing
Too much snow, no bus back home
The math tutor has such a cute smile
The 7-9 years age difference seems to be too much for my 2 friend groups to get along
The math tutor is everywhere
Cafeteria
Biology course
No trains for 6 days, yay
So much to learn, exams in 4 weeks
31st of January: admitting I'm fucked because I definitely have crush on the tutor
Maybe it's just hormones
.. he's probably only one year older than me?? How???
Worrying for 3 days straight about running into him
Friday night: stalking him on Instagram
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Men rolling up their sleeves
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'We are told when we are young to stay indoors, to never venture out at night, and we are raised on fairy tales in which we are in danger of being devoured by beasts at every turn, and yet a woman who dares to think and find ways to defend herself by learning about the very monster who hunts her is somehow an abomination. What do men expect a woman to be, Doctor? I'm sure I don't know.'
People of Abandoned Character by Clare Whitfield
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And I make up for it by over sharing like a lot
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I had assumed that men were warriors, brave and fearless, but now I had experience of one so intimately, I understood them to be as weak as any woman. Weaker, perhaps, because Thomas still clung to the delusion that he was the strong and rational one. It could not be a strength to ignore one's own flaws.
People of Abandoned Character by Clare Whitfield
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It seems silly to worry about the arbitrary moment some person long dead declared to be the end of one year at the beginning of another, as if our attempts to divide time into meaningful chunks actually mean anything. People wait for the countdown to tell them that it's okay to believe in themselves again. They end each year with failure, but hope that when the clock strikes twelve, they can begin the new year with a clean slate. They tell themselves that this is the year things will happen, never realizing that things are always happening; they're just happening without them.
we are the ants by Shaun David Hutchinson
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'It's a natural thing, when you're very scared, to make your world very small indeed. The trick is to understand when the dangers gone, to be very brave and let the world be big again, or else there may as well be no world at. all.'
People of Abandoned Character by Clare Whitfield
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I have to admit that I, as a young woman, do the same thing as these men. I too sexualize them in all kinds of ways. But, unlike men, I do not act on these impulses and don't throw it at their faces that I just imagined their hands on my body
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