Anyone else here who avoids Twitter because there is such toxic behavior there and everything is taken out of context and you just don't feel comfortable anymore because of the hate from the fandom .
I don't read Oliver's interviews anymore because I find that interviewers always only ask him questions in the direction of Buddie. I understand that this way you get more attention to your interview, but why don't you ask Oliver more questions about his wonderful storyline .
When I first asked my grandma if I could write and publish about her, she gave me an instruction that has stuck with me over the years and I try to always keep it in mind when I write about family. She said, roughly translated from Korean: “you can write what you want, but let us live a little more beautifully the second time.” I took this as permission with a condition that I would fictionalize where necessary, to protect them and myself. The women I write about are both us and not us. Maintaining that fictionalized barrier is important to me.
Jihyun Yun, from “you can write what you want, but let us live a little more beautifully the second time": Jihyun Yun in conversation with Nicole Lachat, published Prairie Schooner, March 9, 2023
Audre Lorde to her students during a poetry workshop, as shown in A Litany for Survival: The Life and Work of Audre Lorde (1996) dir. by Ada Gay Griffin and Michelle Parkerson