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no-worshiped-roads · 3 years
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I have been tempted to write a vampire au so we’ll just do basics
Please ask questions if you have them
So this is still modern times but anyway
Tatiana:
She’s been around the longest, like easily a couple hundred years
she’s pretty strict on the rules just so they won’t be discovered as vampires by hunters
Still has her in game powers, though they came with her turning
The vampire who turned her did not stick around, as they didn’t mean to turn her
Basically they try to drain her and she thought back by biting down on the arm not thinking about it
And she wound up waking up the next night a vampire (they were inside so it was safe)
Djss:
He add neon J are pretty close in age, probably about 100 years or so
Djss was turned by a vampire that was hunted down by hunters
There is no real connection between the two, the vampire simply found djss interesting enough to turn them
Like tatiana, his power surfaced after his turning
Neon J:
He was fighting in a war when the troop he was with was ambushed
He was left to die (with everyone else already dead) and was barely clinging to life when a vampire found him
It offered him a chance to live, to avenge his fallen comrades
Neon, not knowing he was talking to vampire, assumed the person was talking about healing him
So he accepted only to be turned
He’s a heavily scarred vampire
1010:
Beon j turned them to save their lives, but did warn them what it would mean
Zim: got into a fight that left him with a fatal stab wound
Eloni: abusive work place, being worked to death
Accident when was alone had him crushed under heavy material
Purl-hew: fell from a tall building, no one was around
Haym: very sick, dying
Rin: a serial killer at the time attempted murder on him, wounds were fatal
Team sayu and sayu:
About 50 years old
The team were all turned at the same time, by a vamp trying to build an army to fight hunters with
But after a while being stuck with him sayu managed to get them out of there while he was being killed by a hunter
Sayu had also been turned by this guy, and she was the one who tipped off the hunters to where he was
(For those who don’t know typically on the vampire turn someone they are bound to that vampire (in Tatiana‘s case he didn’t want her bound to him so she wasn’t))
Yinu’s mother and yinu:
About 90 years old
She was a happy wife with her husband and yinu was on her way
But there had been a vampire hunting through the town and it had bitten her
The husband was able to stake the vampire, only to find his wife dying
In desperation to save their daughter, she took some blood off of the stake he used to kill the vampire so she would become one
Yinu was born about a week later, but due to the circumstances was born half vampire (it is likely one of the few if not only child that was born partially vampire)
(Vampires cannot give birth)
Thing was it was noticeable that she wasn’t fully human, same with the mother, and the woman who helped her give birth ratted them out to the village
They tried to escape the mob, and while trying to hold them back, the husband was killed
Eve:
About 60 years old
A vampire tried to claim her as his bride and she was stuck with him for 10 years as she was bound to him
She would eventually spend her years trying to gain his trust in get him to let his guard down around her
When he finally did she would stake him through the heart
She would spend years wandering not really interacting with people unless she had to and so on
What happened with Zuke would leave her broken hearted for 6 years
And after those 6 years she would meet someone else
Zuke:
Not turned
He lived with west for a while, just living life
Zuke met eve and she found him to be a kindred spirit and that she could spend the rest of her immortal life with
So they dated for a while
then she revealed but she really was and offered to turn him as well, but handled it poorly and assumed he wanted it
He fled and got to a new city where he felt safe
6 years passed and in that time he met Mayday
Mayday:
Turned recently, still only 21
She came from a rather high class and rich family
As such her family were classist snobs who expected her to marry someone of high status and to take over the family business
So her parents had an arranged marriage set up
She hated it but felt stuck cause she’s never been able to get her parents to take no for an answer
(Since this is modern times her parents don’t have anything against her dating a woman, they just found this man to be the best match due to his status and well)
She’s tried it before and it always ended with them going ahead and doing what they wanted
Then she made friends with zuke, and later on, a very pretty lady
They helped keep her from a breakdown from all the expectations put on her and the upcoming wedding
And slowly but surely she began to fall in love with the woman
Of course she knew her parents wouldn’t allow it
She did confess to the woman and even told her that she wish she could leave with her but she was bound by her “parents’ law”
The night before her wedding, The woman visited her house via her window
After being invited in she revealed herself to be a vampire and offered to take mayday away from here as well as eternal life
May accepted, wanting A life with much more freedom
No one has been able to find her since that night
After May’s disappearance, zuke looked every where for her
And when he heard that she was last seen with a woman who really matched Nadia’s description, he panicked
He realized what had happened, but assumed it was forced on her
So he set out to try and find a cure for them
Bonus stuff
Dk west also knows Nadia is a vampire, and has multiple times tried to get her to turn him
He never succeeded, and part of him blames Zuke for it
The vampires have built a home in Vinyl city
It’s home to all sorts of mythical creatures, as well as some humans that are more friendly with the monsters
But it’s mostly monsters
Yinu due to her status does age but does so very slowly
She will be fully turned when she’s an adult, just matched her is almost like that fledgling status where until she feeds for the first time, she will only be partial vampire
1010 are in their 20’s
There will be an eventual ship between zuke and rin, but only after he stops trying with his cure nonsense
And after there’s some reconciliation between him and Nadia


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SPOILERS FOR SANJUNO’S NANO 2020 PROJECT
No Evil Abolishing Resentment System
Transmigrator!Madara meets Reincarnator!Tobirama (… 55 times in a row.)
For NaNoWriMo 2020 – How Many AUs Can I Fit In One Fic?
·      0 Tails Interlude
o   Meet Sanzan-han
o   Introduction to System driven Quick-Transmigration isekai plot
o   “The seeds of evil are as follows, to hear of evil and take no action against it, to see evil and take no action against it, to speak of evil and take no action against it.”
o   “To do nothing in the face of evil is not a neutral act.”
o   “The only thing required for evil to flourish is for good people to do nothing.”
·      1st World:
o   Crystal Nuclei Zombie Apocalypse with Ability Users and levelling up AU
o   Politician!Madara ended up being shoved into a zombie tide by people who thought he was too strong/disliked him before the apocalypse
o   Scientist!Tobirama really regrets not preventing that when Zombie Emperor Madara breaks through the city walls and kills everyone in Konoha Base
o   Reborn!Tobirama is determined to complete the vaccine he was working on in his first life – also keep Madara alive so he can’t become a super zombie
§  Tobirama would like to say he is surprised by Madara’s competency in zombie annihilation but he remembers how terrifying Zombie King Madara was so he really isn’t shocked that Empowered Human Madara is just as much the living embodiment of Nightmare Fuel
o   Madara as evolved Zombie catnip with a mouthy pet fish
§  Madara is absolutely disgusted by the Z-poc Virus undead they are gross, rotting, and go squelchwhen he hits them.
§  Some zombie bits get stuck in Madara’s hair. He has a screaming tantrum and promptly sets the entire horde on fire.
§  Pro-tip: Career politicians should avoid indulging in a crying fit over getting their precious beautiful hair dirty during a fight if they want to be taken seriously by their military escort even if they areso hilariously OP they can indulge in whiny hysterics and not die horribly as a result
o   The Zombies are Zetsu
o   Oh look Madara’s blood has the key component to creating the zombie vaccine who would have thought
o   There is so much angry sex for stress relief, just… so much
o    
·      1 Tail Interlude
o   Madara is pissed off that he accidently ended up in a relationship with Tobirama
o   Madara wants a refund on this System
o   Sanzan-han explains the fine print of “No Evils Abolishing Resentment System” – the Target must have resentment both towards Madara and from Madara
o   Madara’s first world was intended to lock his target
o   Switching targets will result in a full reset of his karma to level 1 – no cheating by using his previous incarnations accumulated points to get a head start any more
o   Madara’s only other valid targets approaching Tobirama’s stats were Hashirama and Mito
o   Madara could target someone else but without the heavy accumulation of karma like the Senju-Uchiha bloodfeud situation it would take thousands of lifetimes to accrue 10 tails
o   Madara is so mad ^_^
·      2nd World
o   Japanese Classic Fable AU
o   Crane Wife!Madara being Tsundere with his husband
o   Madara is accused of theft and Scholar!Tobirama is convinced to spy on his wife’s weaving
o   Madara gets caught ripping out feathers to weave into silks that are sold to pay for Tobirama’s exams
o   Madara flies away and is shot down by hunters
o   Reborn!Tobirama who is more than a little obsessed with making sure his wife doesn’t have a reason to fly off again
o   Madara doesn’t really understand why Tobirama is trying to prevent him from doing anything productive this is weird
o   Zetsu is a corrupted monk trying to capture Madara for his feathers/demon core
·      3rd World
o   Galactic Empire Mecha Pilots with psychic powers and enhanced bodies versus the Zerg Horde
o   Arranged Marriages for the noble class occur based on genetic advantages rather than affection
o   Ace Pilot/Mecha Engineer!Tobirama pays less than zero attention to his nominal spouse and heir in favour of developing weapons to fight against the Zerg
o   SSS Ace Pilot!Madara resigned to being ignored by spouse, makes friends with in-laws for sheer spite
o   Madara framed for sabotage – dies holding off a Zerg swarm
o   Science child!Kagami killed by kidnappers
o   Reborn!Tobirama pays better attention to his spouse and child while fighting to end the Zerg threat
o   The Zerg are Zetsu
o   Madara rolls his eyes and sets the Zerg Queen (Kaguya) on fire – Tobirama confused and aroused by his spouse
·      2 Tails Interlude
o   Madara wants to know if he’s going to be required to save the world every single time he’s due to earn a new tail
o   Sanzan-han: Sources say “probably”
o   Madara would question the heavy-handed implication that Zetsu was just using him but he’s still super pissed off about being trapped in a cave for 50 years and then possessed by a demon goddess thing so he’s more than willing the blame Zetsu for all the horrible things that happened
·      4th World
o   Japanese Mythical Creature AU
o   Kitsune!Madara saves the life of War General/Prince!Tobirama from Yin poisoning
o   There’s a snowstorm and Madara has to warm Tobirama up
o   Madara is a Calamitous Beauty and killed by cultists who wanted his demon core
o   Reborn!Tobirama is doing his best to take responsibility
o   Zetsu is the cultists who poisoned Tobirama and killed Madara
o   Madara is super pissed off but the shrine and the garden Tobirama builds for him are really nice so maybe he won’t claw the pasty bastard’s face off
·      5th World
o   Super Heroes and Villains in a Megamind AU
o   Pyromaniacal Villain!Madara “Moon Eye” is obviously an alien and the arch nemesis of the city’s most beloved Hero, Treeman
o   Aquatic Hero “Flying Thunder”!Tobirama’s civilian-marine biologist ID keeps getting kidnapped
o   Reborn!Tobirama needs to keep Madara sane and honestly that’s easier than it sounds because Madara gets adorably flustered when given sincere compliments and is hilariously easy to distract with questions about his obviously-also-alien pet fish
o   #I accidently started dating my brother’s arch nemesis #what do I do? #waiting online for answers
o   Sanzan-han is Minion and really likes the exo-suit
o   Zetsu is an evil shadow organization trying to take control of the heroes for world domination reasons
o   Madara has an invisible Susanoo and as ridiculous as this world can be he’s having fun in it
o   “PRESENTATION!”
·      6th World
o   Immortal Cultivators AU
o   Borderline-demonic/Unorthodox Sect Leader!Madara is getting chased around by Righteous Sect Inner Disciple!Tobirama because Madara keeps nabbing all the good secret treasures that Tobirama needs to prevent the demon realm from breaking free and invading
o   Reborn!Tobirama realizes in hindsight that Original Goods!Madara was also trying to prevent the Demon Realm invasion because the Righteous Sects didn’t listen to his initial warnings
o   Tobirama eventually pins Madara down as his Dao companion to get access to the booty loot Madara has collected/protect Madara from being targeted by unscrupulous treasure hunters
o   The demons/demonic spirits are Zetsu
o   Madara is playing whack-a-Zetsu and doesn’t have time for Tobirama’s nonsense
·      3 Tails Interlude
o   Sanzan-han praises Madara for his top-notch seduction skillz
o   Madara is So Done with this stupid godsdamned fish
o   Sanzan-han mentions but doesn’t explain that the accumulation of “affection points” will start having a notable effect on Tobirama soon – so gambatte, Mada-sama!
o   Madara tries to ignore the constant hooking up in favour of plotting new ways to kill Zetsu – seeing as the creature is the only thing he can kill in the Other-Worlds without losing the “ExP” that will allow his return home
·      7th World
o   Geode Betting Modern AU
o   Carver!Madara is a picky spoiled artiste who got blamed for ruining Tobirama’s family
o   Reborn-with-Treasure-Senses Appraiser!Tobirama is determined to “get revenge in advance” on Madara only to realize what a dork Madara is
o   Tobirama frantically backs off on his face-slapping plot only to overcompensate his way into dating a crazy artist
o   #oops
o   Zetsu are the yakuza involved in rigging the Geode betting
o   Madara is confused by the lack of open warfare but thinks this is a nice vacation
·      8th World
o   Greek Monsters AU
o   Gorgon!Madara has the strongest stone-gaze in History
o   Heroic Demigod!Tobirama arrives to take off Madara’s head for prophecy reasons
o   Tobirama’s Quest ends in tragedy – turns out ghosts/guardians of the Underworld don’t turn to stone so Tobirama can’t bring his little brothers out using Madara’s decapitated head
o   Madara is hiding from Reborn!Tobirama because he wants to keep in head on his neck, fuckdammit and accidently interrupts the murder of Kawarama and Itama via even more accidental kidnapping
o   Tobirama just wants to apologize for overreacting to a very ambiguously worded prophecy that he self-fulfilled – Tobirama is really, really very sorry, really – also wtf give him back his baby brothers
o   Zetsu is the Oracle of Kaguya who killed Tobirama’s little brothers and wanted Tobirama/Madara cursed/dead
·      9th World
o   Sentinels and Guides are Known AU
o   SSS Guide!Madara is 100% going to cut a bitch if these special fucking snowflake godsdamned Sentinels don’t piss off and leave him alone
o   6-sense Alpha Sentinel Prime!Tobirama does not want a Guide who will only slow him down with their coddling nature
o   Tobirama rejects Madara/doesn’t acknowledge their nascent connection
o   Reborn!Tobirama wakes up out of a zone – wakes up after pulling the Guide he recognized far too late as his own out of the depths of the bay – and promptly terrifies his entire family by going hyper-focused and borderline feral as he takes off to hunt down his Guide
o   Tobirama’s Guide – his Guide who is still alive – still alive and not drowned
o   Reborn!Tobirama has some lingering trauma to work through btw
o   Madara terrifies so many people when he starts inducing hallucinations as a defense mechanism
o   Zetsu are dark Sentinel cult masquerading as a shady government organization
·      10th World
o   Classic D&D AU
o   Harpy Queen!Madara is being plotted against
o   Necromancer!Tobirama regrets killing Madara and keeping his soul in a jar when he finds out the truth
o   Tobirama let’s Izuna “mete justice” – protip: Uchiha Harpies are actually Furies
o   Reborn!Tobirama decides he quite enjoys being Madara’s concubine
o   Madara lays an egg
o   The Demon Gods trying to break loose and destroy all life get kicked back into the Underworld – insert Zetsu smiting here
o   Hashirama is traumatized by his little brother’s loincloth
·      4 Tails Interlude
o   Madara throws an epic tantrum over the egg-laying thing
o   Sanzan-han doesn’t understand his deal but obligingly flees screaming in terror anyway
·      11th World
o   Imperial Court AU
o   Fire Priest!Madara is given as a “bride” to Imperial Prince Tobirama to remove Tobirama from the line of succession
o   Tobirama considered a “holy child” by the Fire devotees due to his red eyes
o   Tobirama realizes too late that his opinion of his “wife” was manipulated so that he wouldn’t be able to gather his full strength to compete with his enemies
o   Reborn!Tobirama has goals to 1. Be gay, and; 2. Commit Treason
o   Zetsu as the scheming Minister who is actually the bastard child of Empress Dowager Kaguya
o   Madara turns the court upside down and shakes because he’s bored and vindictive
·      12th World
o   Beastmen in Space AU
o   The Tribes are even more stupidly competitive than shinobi Clans but have more space (lol) to spread out so they aren’t at full war with each other
o   Snow Leopard!Madara has a female beast form as most Uchiha males do – Uchiha females tend to have male Beast Forms
o   Uchiha Do Not switch forms in Public/on the Battlefield and also the Uchiha don’t gender the way the other Tribes do
o   White Tiger!Tobirama only discovers this after the Uchiha are destroyed by hostile invasion of Borg-type enemies
o   Zetsu are the Borg knockoffs
o   Reborn!Tobirama starts courting Madara because rowr and peace happens because kittens – yay!
o   Madara uses his carving skills to create power stones that allow High Level Beasts to control themselves
·      13th World
o   Castlevania-esque Vampire AU
o   Vampires and Humans share a world but live in different realities thanks to magic sub-dimensions
o   Vampire Prince!Madara is lazy and hedonistic
o   Vampire Prince!Tobirama is disdainful of Madara’s magpie brain
o   Zetsu is the Religious extremist Vampire cult that realizes that Madara is the key to tearing down the veil and bleeds him dry to shatter the barrier separating the worlds and free the first vampire Kaguya
o   Reborn!Tobirama absolutely refuses to allow the Veil to get torn down again so he gets stupidly “devoted and jealous” over his previously despised betrothed
o   Madara is rather offended that the blood drinking is sexy and also that Tobirama is a tasty snack
·      14th World
o   Merfolk AU
o   Devil Firefish Mer!Madara always knew that the merfolk from the deeper waters would only visit the Volcanic Reef to mate and leave, especially the sharks – but he had still wanted to hope for something more…
o   Great White Mer!Tobirama only ever left the Kelp Forest to guard his more hormone driven kin when the pod headed to shallower waters to spawn and let the fry gather strength in the protection of the cove before heading back home
o   Tangling with the pretty, poisonous leader of the Uchiha pod was a mistake that could be entirely blamed on his brother’s tendency to overindulge in urchin-spines and share his vices with every mer in the vicinity
o   Someone (see: Zetsu) fucks up and pisses off the Ocean
o   Seaquakes and the resulting tsunami’s drive all the mer to the deepest-water cities to wait out the disasters
o   Madara gets eaten by a giant kraken while defending the fry – Tobirama arrives just in time to see Madara and their son get torn in half
o   Reborn!Tobirama courts Madara properly and the Uchiha pod moves into the sea-caves because the coral as too fragile for Tobirama’s peace of mind
o   Zetsu are creepy seaweed/anglerfish things
·      15th World
o   Virtual Reality Game AU
o   Code-writer!Tobirama develops Kenjutsu Mania Online in an attempt to revive his comatose little brothers
o   Overworked Detective!Madara gets suckered into the VR game with his little brothers
o   Crazy Person (Kaguya) traps all the players in a death game – as you do
o   Tobirama gets exposed as a game designer and PK’d
o   Reborn!Tobirama parties with Madara and gets married for the ExP bonus
o   Zetsu are a computer virus AI like Agent Smith
o   Madara uses IRL weapon skills to break the game and his character build before he smashes the Crazy Person open like an overripe melon
o   All the little brothers wake up
·      5 Tails Interlude
o   Sanzan-han is very proud! Mada-sama is halfway there!
o   Madara is throwing a huge fit over giving birth in 2 out of 5 worlds
o   But Mada-sama, the massive amount of affection points!
o   Fuck your affection points!
o   That’s the spirit, Mada-sama!
·      16th World
o   Modern Wizards AU
o   Dragon Keeper!Madara trips over poachers/dark wizards who kidnapped Ancient Runes Master!Tobirama for evil-ritual-sacrifice purposes
o   They accidently end up in a Marriage Bond
o   Tobirama suspects Madara of being a Dark Wizard
o   Madara is framed and executed – only for the real culprit to be exposed a few months later
o   The real culprit is Kaguya and Zetsu natch
o   Tobirama explodes a Time Turner
o   Reborn!Tobirama drags his new spouse Dark Wizard hunting
o   Couple Therapy for dumb Wizards go
·      17th World
o   ID Porn in a Miraculous AU
o   Masked Hero Phoenix is consistently pursued and wooed by his partner in crime fighting, Dragon
o   PoliSci TA!Madara has a raging brain crush on Bio-Chem Doctorate Student!Tobirama
o   An ill-advised insult/rejection causes Phoenix to darken and self-destruct
o   A grief-stricken Dragon “teleports” his mind back in time
o   Madara is so confused by Tobirama and his new stalker tendencies
o   Kaguya is RabbitMoth and Zetsu are the Akuma
·      18th World
o   Really Cheap Silmarillion Knockoff AU
o   Spell-Singer!Madara is driven mad by an Oath that was forced on him by a Messenger done Dark
o   Kaguya as the evil god and Zetsu as her evil Messenger
o   Forger!Tobirama doesn’t pay attention to extenuating circumstances until it’s too late and the bodies are buried
o   The World goes to shit for 3 ages because Tobirama’s shinies are the shiniest
o   Reborn!Tobirama devotes himself to fucking over Zetsu’s evil schemes and making pretty baubles for Madara
o   The fact that Madara’s new hairpin can level a mountain range is incidental and has nothing to do with Tobirama’s paranoia
o   An ancient mystery re. parentage is solved when Madara sings Kagami into being right on schedule – Tobirama is delighted to assist this time
·      19th World
o   Steampunk AU a la FF flavour
o   Enemy Nation!Madara is the Prince/General who goes crazy due to infection from alien viral lifeform
o   HoL Companion!Tobirama as a Prince of the protag Nation who are prophesized to save the world from Calamity
o   World goes to shit
o   Zetsu is the Scourge and Kaguya is Jenova/the Accursed
o   Tobirama is too impatient to wait out the “time-skip”
o   Reborn!Tobirama sneaks into the enemy stronghold – finds pre-infection!Madara imprisoned with tiny clone-child Kagami and steals them both
o   Cue roadtrip shenanigans as both sides try to track them down
o   Madara gets to one-man-army the forces of evil – Tobirama is very impressed
·      20th World
o   Demon Hunter AU
o   Incubus!Madara has a “food allergy” and has been stuck at the physical age of 13 being fed energy by his family members for the last 200 years
o   Functionally Ace Demon Hunter!Tobirama pegs Madara for a sex demon on sight because the lust whammy is legit the most distracting thing to ever happen to him and that incubus looks like a child ew
o   Tobirama sets a trap for Madara and is mean about it because he doesn’t appreciate the second-hand bad-touch feelings – trigger warning: allusions to non-con gangbang
o   Madara kills the “bait” and Tobirama bursts into the room
o   Tobirama sees adult!Madara in the aftermath of the carnage and is horrified to recognize his soulmate
o   Madara proceeds to vomit blood and dies at Tobirama’s feet – the allergy is no joke
o   Tobirama learns about Madara’s “allergy” from revenge rampage Izuna – recognizes that Izuna is Touka’s soulmate and doesn’t fight back
o   Tobirama regrets so hard he magics his soul back in time to the day he first saw Madara
o   The most awkward dating adventure begins
o   Zetsu are the actually evil demons who eat people for real – and not in the fun way Uchiha do
·      21st World
o   Gods AU
o   Ocean Kami!Tobirama realizes too late that he loved Volcano!Kami Madara and was unable to rescue him from the Underworld – that trick never works
o   Reborn!Tobirama starts bringing Madara tributes, averts the Twilight of the Gods via shameless debauchery, and accidently builds a tropical island honeymoon palace to spoil Madara in
o   Zetsu are the evil servants of the “god-eating Titan” Kaguya
·      6 Tails Interlude
o   Lots of Madara screaming about how the Powers That Be are far too fucking obsessed with seeing Madara get railed
o   Sanzan-han goes no-duh, most lifeforms devote about 99% of their spare life energy towards reproductive efforts
o   Madara is very grumpy about being a SSS Class Ninja Nightmare reduced to pillow-book wish-fulfillment fantasy fodder
·      22nd World
o   Noodle Dragon AU
o   Dragon King of the Northern Ocean!Tobirama and Quetzalcoatl!Madara courting shenanigans
o   OTL!Tobirama fucked up and led Hunters (Zetsu) to OTL!Madara’s nest and they stole his heart for black magic doomsday ritual
o   Madara ended up a stone statue curled around the shattered remains of his first egg
o   Reborn!Tobirama is determined to be a properly attentive mate
o   Madara is resigned to laying eggs again
·      23rd World
o   GoT-knockoff Medieval AU
o   Madara gets burned at the stake as a witch, doesn’t die, and then gets torn apart by a terrified mob
o   Northern Lord!Tobirama realizes that he done fucked up and needs Madara to beat the evil ice zombies
o   Reborn!Tobirama starts wooing an extremely cranky pyro-prince while trying to give the Uchiha Crown Prince more positive PR with the peasantry to avoid another riot
o   Zetsu are the Others, Kaguya as the Night Queen
·      24th World
o   ‘Taur AU – Tribal Setting
o   Leopard-Taur!Madara lives high up in the Mountains
o   Tiger-Taur!Tobirama is poisoned and delirious during a fated encounter – he doesn’t learn what happened or who saved him until after both prides are mostly destroyed
o   Reborn!Tobirama manages to avoid delirium induced amnesia and starts stalking Madara with the intent to make love not war
o   Zetsu are corrupted from using radioactive/poisonous Power Stones to boost strength, Kaguya is actually parasite queen
·      25th World
o   Exorcists and Ghosts AU
o   Cursed Ghost!Madara lingers in the courtyard he called home while he was alive
o   Kagami wanders in during the ghost hour and Madara shoves him into a cabinet to protect him
o   Exorcist!Tobirama finds out that Madara was still protecting Kagami from the devil spirits – not haunting him – only after the devils grow stronger and get free after ghost!Madara is destroyed
o   Reborn!Tobirama needs to figure out a way to woo his past incarnation’s very justifiably angry murdered consort before Madara denies Tobirama visitation rights
o   Zetsu are devil spirits who cursed Madara to death, Kaguya wants to consume Kagami for power
·      26th World
o   Midsummer Night’s Dream AU
o   Fairy Prince!Tobirama gets dosed with love potion
o   Meets Dark Forest King!Madara
o   Falls in potion induced love – which gets Tobirama invested enough to forget his previous prejudices and fall in True Love
o   Then Madara dies
o   Reborn!Tobirama is now immune to Love Potions because he is in True Love with Madara – fuck you, cheating bastard traitors to the Fairy Crown
o   Tobirama runs off into the Dark Forest to snag himself a Goblin King (and break Hashirama out of Love Potion induced insanity, natch)
o   Zetsu as the dirtbag fiancée, Kaguya as the dark fairy trying to take over both kingdoms
·      27th World
o   Naga AU
o   Banded Sea Kriat!Tobirama tangles with in-heat Black Hooded Tiger Snake!Madara and doesn’t realize until later that the whole situation was a bloodmage trap
o   Zetsu are the bloodmages
o   Tobirama finds Madara’s still bleeding skinned body a few weeks after they tangle – manages to get Madara’s skin and their still-curing egg back from the hunting team
o   Tobirama tries to save their egg and fails – it was taken from Madara too soon
o   Tobirama hunts down the bloodmage and dies in killing them
o   Reborn!Tobirama gives Madara proper aftercare – notes the bloody wound from the unwanted heat inducing potion – and hauls Madara back to his den for proper nesting
·      28th World
o   Magical Knight AU
o   Storm Knight!Tobirama damages Evil General!Madara’s control seal during the battle of the week
o   Tobirama then runs into amnesiac in civilian ID Madara after the fight and goes on a date
o   Tobirama still end up killing Madara when the brainwashing is reapplied – prolonged death scene reveals that Madara was mind-controlled not committing betrayal
o   Reborn!Tobirama puts significantly more effort into ensuring that the control seal is completely removed from “General Indra”
o   Madara helps defeat the Ancient Evil while wearing leather booty shorts
o   Kaguya as Mettalia, Zetsu as the Youma
·      7 Tails Interlude
o   Forget about the indignity of being Tobirama’s go-to baby incubator – Madara is absolutely flipping his shit over the booty shorts
o   Sanzan-han thought they were quite flattering on you, Mada-sama!
·      29th World
o   Blood Magic AU
o   Demon Lord!Madara gets honeytrapped by Blood Mage!Tobirama and stabbed from behind by Hashirama
o   Tobirama turns Madara’s body into a scrying gem to steal his powers and secrets
o   Snooping through Madara’s memories of their courtship lets Tobirama discover that Madara’s “evil plot” was a baby Kagami now cold in his cradle
o   Reborn!Tobirama is doing everything in his power to keep his family from finding out about Madara because the Senju’s whole “thing” is demon hunting and stealing their magic
o   Kaguya as the creepy Ancestor of the Senju clan who started the demon killing habit, Zetsu as the twisted remains of Senju elders who cursed themselves due to magic addiction
·      30th World
o   Phantom Thief AU
o   Kaito!Tobirama has to watch as his dear Detective!Madara gets gunned down by the Black Organization
o   Reborn!Tobirama first tries to send Madara away for his own safety – has a control freak panic attack when he can’t see Madara
o   Tobirama proceeds to go full disclosure overcompensation trying to keep Madara safe
o   Madara is a Sigh and steals all nine bijuu tama while Tobirama is sorting himself out
o   … Tobirama would like to know when his dear Detective learned to pick locks but before that there is a very serious problem that has arisen in Tobirama’s pants that needs to be dealt with because that was the smoothest heist Tobirama has ever borne witness to holy shit
o   Zetsu as the Black Organization looking for the magic gem Kaguya
·      31st World
o   Transformers AU
o   Decepticon!Madara is Sunspot and Autobot!Tobirama is Whitespace
o   The Great War happens – Kaguya-as-Unicron wakes up and eats most of the planet and population
o   “That’s no moon.”
o   Whitespace yeets his spark back in time and attempts to if not stop then at least delay the start of the Great War
o   Reborn!Whitespace ends up pair-bonding with Sunspot to rob the Decepticons of their Air Commander
o   A 3rd faction forms separate from the High Council versus Violent Terrorist Extremists options
·      32nd World
o   Beauty and the Beast meets Hanahaki Tragedy AU
o   Imprisoned Guest!Tobirama heads home for The Visit and stays away too long – not longer than he promised, but Beast!Madara was days away from suffocation
o   Tobirama comes back to a silent castle and finds Madara on his bed surrounded by blood and the flowers that had burst out from under his skin
o   Reborn!Tobirama is determined to break the curse – Madara is just really tired and in pain
o   What kind of fucking sadist curses a kid with roses growing inside their body – Madara was 13 when this shit started and his body knows it
o   True Loves Kiss ensues (and also Itama and Kawarama beat the shit out of Zetsu for cursing their new brother in law)
·      33rd World
o   ABO ElfQuest-ish AU
o   Alpha!Tobirama thinks he was tricked into marriage hunting Omega!Madara as part of a plot against the Senju Kingdom – everyone knows that you can’t trust Dark Elves
o   Tobirama finds out too late that there are evil forces on the loose that only the Uchiha are aware of – that’s why the Dark Elves are called Dark Elves, because they hunt evil in the dark
o   Madara is caught and left mutilated for Tobirama to come across just as he made up his mind to treat his mate better
o   Reborn!Tobirama misses his cue from the original setup – but he still finds Madara hiding in a waterfall cave because fuck no, no more fucking fucking
o   Spoiler: Madara gets fucked good and hard
o   Tobirama and Madara go demon hunting together
o   Zetsu are the Madkin demons created by Kaguya’s twisted flesh-shaping
·      34th World
o   Wonderland AU
o   Evil Dictatorship ruling family Uchiha Clan are actually held captive by their Palace – it’s a seal keeping a demon asleep and powered by the Uchiha who live inside the castle – the Uchiha don’t actually do much ruling, the Council of Elders is where the majority of the corruption is
o   Revolutionary!Tobirama kidnaps Crown Prince of Hearts!Madara during the siege to “free” Wonderland which lets the demon loose so Tobirama is forced to marry Madara and have kids quick due to being responsible for the plan that killed off 99% of the Uchiha
o   Also people born with red eyes get married to the Uchiha in the Kingdom of Hearts – those with red eyes have hearts that cannot be fooled or controlled (meaning they’re able to see through the demon’s tricks)
o   Reborn!Tobirama has just enough time to alter his plan for the attack on the Palace of Hearts – then he walks in on the turncoat guards who gave the Revolution entry to the Palace making comments about sexually assaulting Madara
o   Tobirama bursts in before Madara can break their skulls and “saves” his future husband
o   Most of the Uchiha survive this time – only the Elders get killed
o   Tobirama marries Madara again and gets to work on revamping the bad laws
o   Zetsu is the Jabberwocky
·      35th World
o   Werewolf Fighting Ring AU
o   Alpha Werewolf!Tobirama was unwillingly mated to Alpha Werewolf!Madara when he was caught and held prisoner by slave traffickers
o   Tobirama rejects Madara once they’re free of the arena but makes sure to “payback” Madara for his “humiliation” first
o   Madara had been given heat drugs the entire time and didn’t remember what Tobirama resented him for
o   Madara ends up dying from mate-loss
o   Tobirama is focused on bringing down the slavery ring and doesn’t know Madara died – until Hashirama sends him a letter about how his mate “didn’t make it through the birth” and asking him to get back for the funeral
o   Tobirama finally slows down – reads the file on Madara he has been ignoring since he found it – and breaks
o   Reborn!Tobirama is focused on treating Madara as a proper mate while also getting revenge on the Slavers
o   Madara is going to rip out so many throats out over being pregnant again
o   Zetsu as the warlocks running the slave rings to feed Kaguya power
·      36th World
o   Star Wars AU
o   By-the-Code Jedi!Tobirama tends to bisect all the “darksiders” he runs into – kills Izuna during a mission
o   Madara does full dark-side rage and Empress Kaguya takes over
o   Zetsu as the Darkside clone army
o   Reborn!Tobirama is a lot less saber-happy and has learned that the Uchiha are not dark – more wild/grey
o   Ends up Force Bonded to Madara to bring Balance
·      8 Tails Interlude
o   Madara has a screaming breakdown to the tune of “why fucking Tobirama?!?!?!���
o   Sanzan-han is like “He resented you the most? Duh? No Evil Abolishing Resentment System?”
o   Madara tries his best to fry the stupid gods-be-damned-twice fish
·      37th World
o   Sex Slave Soulmate AU
o   War-Mage!Tobirama uses borderline-forbidden magic to make Kagami – shatters his soulmate link to do so, which is what makes the magic unpopular but not illegal as nobody is actually “harmed” by the spell
o   Note: Kagami is now the living embodiment of the link
o   Kagami finds Courtesan!Madara in a high-end brothel that is a front for nobles to buy magically bound sex-slaves – this is actually super forbidden magic, btw
o   Tobirama saves Madara and the other enslaved thralls while rescuing Kagami
o   Madara had enough magic to fight against the enchantment and managed to get Kagami out of the brothel – that’s how Tobirama knew where to attack
o   No follow through after the rescue – Madara and the others are left under the enslavement seals
o   Madara ends up assaulted/dead/silenced by the nobles who used to patronize the brothel and slave market
o   Reborn!Tobirama moves faster and has already figured out how to break the enslavement curse – gets to the brothel before Madara manages to get Kagami out again
o   Mexican standoff ensues – Tobirama rescues his soulmate and kid
o   Madara gets freed from the curse
o   Courting ensues when their soulmark repairs when they touch after the curse is broken
o   Kaguya as the evil mage who was using the brothels as a power source, Zetsu as her simulacrum servants
·      38th World
o   Mythos AU
o   Dragon!Tobirama is married to Phoenix!Madara and resents it
o   Madara has bad PR and Tobirama listens to rumours so he ignores Madara as much as he can
o   Civil War erupts – Madara hides Kagami when their Palace is attacked and is a distraction
o   Tobirama finds his spouse ritually violated to steal his “fire”
o   Reborn!Tobirama is a much more enthusiastic spouse and realizes that Madara is a fluffy sap
o   Zetsu as the invading horde of magic thieves
·      39th World
o   Angels AU
o   Angel!Tobirama is “tempted” by Fallen!Madara
o   Tobirama kills Madara and kicks off a new War In Heaven
o   Regret hits when Tobirama finds Kagami’s body after Danzo kills him… in an exact mirror of how Tobirama tricked Madara
o   Reborn!Tobirama decides to “prove” that Madara is “evil” before killing him this time to keep the War from happening again
o   Tobirama gets his nose rubbed in Madara’s ability to love his family
o   Zetsu as actual demons who are trying to kill off both Angels and Fallen
·      40th World
o   Fae Marriage Hunt AU
o   Winter Fae!Tobirama was a petty bastard and resisted his betrothal to the point a Marriage Hunt was the only option
o   Skinchanger!Madara wins the Hunt
o   The peace between the High Court and the Wild Hunt collapses after Madara is killed during a diplomatic meeting
o   Reborn!Tobirama decides to play along/use his “marriage” to make the peace permanent
o   Tobirama gets his misconceptions challenged when Madara rides his cooperative “willing” bride into the ground
o   Kaguya as an evil Fairy Queen with Zetsu as her Greymalkin
·      41st World
o   The Mummy AU
o   Archeologist!Tobirama accidently triggers mummy!Madara’s awakening and the crazy demon cultists take advantage
o   Madara lets Tobirama kill him rather than let the cultists sacrifice Tobirama
o   Tobirama gets an info dump on Madara’s trauma
o   Reborn!Tobirama uses the evil cult to resurrect Madara properly and woos the ancient shogun like a boss
o   Kaguya as even more ancient evil Mummy and Zetsu as obsessed cultists
·      42nd World
o   Labyrinth AU
o   Adventurer!Tobirama keeps meeting a mysterious “king” in his dreams – King of the Labyrinth!Madara keeps a veil over his head and his hands covered by extra-long fluttery sleeves
o   Tobirama has to beat the Labyrinth to rescue his little brothers
o   Paranoid Tobirama gets tricked into betraying Madara by goblin Zetsu – the Labyrinth collapses
o   Tobirama’s little brothers are killed along with all the other kidnapped children – the energy from their deaths and the destruction of the Labyrinth is used to fuel the resurrection of a Demon God Kaguya
o   Tobirama dies taking his revenge after learning the full story
o   Reborn!Tobirama is much more willing to “dance” with Madara now that he knows Madara is as much or more a prisoner than the stolen children
o   Madara was used as a lure – his fingers bound in wire and his eyes sewn shut – but they miscalculated because Madara was still the King and wouldn’t let anyone who can’t complete his Labyrinth reach the children
o   Tobirama completes the Labyrinth… after he frees Madara
o   Yay romantic dance sequences
·      43rd World
o   Four Kings AU
o   Byakko!Tobirama gets trapped in a blood-and-wine seal
o   Suzaku!Madara runs afoul of Tobirama’s enemies, kills them all in a rage, and trips into Tobirama’s trap with him
o   Violent coitus ensues
o   Madara breaks the seal once the trap’s power has been exhausted and runs away
o   Tobirama wakes up with a blank memory as a result of the seal
o   Madara lays an egg – Kagami hatches
o   Zetsu as Minions of the God-Eater Kaguya catch Madara while he’s weak and sacrifice him thinking he still contains the combined essence of Byakko and Suzaku
o   Hey but actually Madara’s power was at a low ebb because he spent it all on Kagami so no resurrections for you, stupid doomsday cult
o   Tobirama rescues Kagami – baby bird begs the tiger to save his mama – is too late
o   Reborn!Tobirama gets to watch his past!self deflower the avatar of Suzaku and oh shit that means Kagami is my son? Tobirama is a scream
o   Time to gather the Four Kings and destroy a Demon Cult! Mito is Seiryuu and Hashirama is Genbu.
·      44th World
o   Warprize Ger AU
o   Imperial Prince!Tobirama is given as a consort to Ger Emperor Madara as part of a Senju plot
o   Tobirama is unaware that his attendants are using him to poison Madara but is super pissed at his father for giving him away as a treaty gift
o   Madara dies birthing Kagami but reveals to Tobirama that he was glad to marry him – Kagami is worth it and Tobirama was the only man to ever give Madara flowers
o   Kagami learns that it was a Senju plot that killed his mother and hates Tobirama for his part in it
o   War erupts between the Uchiha Empire and the Senju Kingdom again and destroys both countries
o   Reborn!Tobirama decides to overturn all his father’s plan and dotes on his Imperial Spouse – so manyflowers are given
o   Madara is an amazing Emperor and newly crowned Emperor Hashirama is super thrilled to have such peaceful relations with his neighbour thanks to Tobirama’s beautiful love story
·      45th World
o   Buddy-cop StarTrek Federation AU
o   Senju-With-Tentacles, Psychic!Uchiha-With-Horns
o   PHEREMONE MARKERS~!!
o   Zetsu are the Borg
o   Kagami is a Tube Baby
·      9 Tails Interlude
o   Madara is freaking the fuck out the last set of worlds were uniquely traumatizing – especially the Labyrinth one
·      46th World
o   Loveless AU
o   Sacrifice!Madara has learned to fight on auto – the first Sacrifice to figure out how to do so, and he doesn’t stop fighting even when his Fighter shows up
o   Fighter!Tobirama never wanted a Sacrifice because he didn’t want them to get hurt and he sees Madara acting as a Fighter so he doesn’t believe that Madara is a Sacrifice
o   The name of their Bond is Devotion
o   Madara gets targeted by a swarm of Dr. Kaguya’s fake-bonded Zetsu
o   Tobirama finds Madara’s body in Kaguya’s lab and uncovers the Bond too late to save his Sacrifice
o   Reborn!Tobirama is hyper overprotective and Madara trounces his Fighter’s ass up and down the street until he feels better about living in a reality with a world-wide virginity fetish
·      47th World
o   Witch Madara and Magical Creature Tobirama
o   Tobirama is cursed into a human form
o   Tricked into thinking that he has to kill Madara/a Witch to get the curse broken?
o   It was all a lie
o   Tobirama twisting the curse to go back in time instead of dying
o   Madara is too gods-be-damned-again tired for this nonsense
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·      48th World
o   Stargate AU
o   Head Scientist of the Expedition Tobirama
o   Leader of the surviving “Ancients” Madara
·      49th World
o   Welcome to Nightvale AU
o   Tobirama, the Scientist
o   Madara, the Sherriff of the Secret Police
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·      50th World
o   BDSM AU
o   Tobirama IDS as a Switch but he’s service oriented non-dynamic instead
o   Madara thinks toys/scenes are silly – demi-romantic/grey-ace Madara rides again
o   Tobirama has cultural dissonance meeting a “Dom” who likes being the one fucked
·      51st World
o   TRON?
·      52nd World
o   Tyrant CEO/Entertainment Circle
·      53rd World
o   From another world AU
o   Tobirama drops into Fantasy Land from a Modern-ish Naruto World
o   Madara as the Villainous Noble who was “jealous” of Tobirama’s magic power
·      54th World
o   Last Unicorn AU
o   Madara is the Kirin
o   Tobirama as a Wizard who likes Science more
·      55th World
o   Dragon Raja AU
·      10 Tails Interlude
o   Sanzan-han reveals why they were helping Madara – and fade to black
·      Return to the Warring Clans Era
o   Canon is About to Be Diverted
o   Madara is back on the battlefield where Izuna died
o   Promptly summons Sanzan-han to stop this fucking bullshit – Sanzan-han has ascended and become a massive dragon so yeah the battle is definitely over now
o   Tobirama appears to be having a migraine – whoops looks like the arrival of Sanzan-han has started the data-dump of all Tobirama’s System-generated memories into canon!Tobirama
o   Peace and Konoha happen
·      Epilogue/Extras
o   Tobirama has Suspicions regarding his shiny new memories – especially because he remembers seeing that fish. Everywhere. All the time. Stupid fish.
o   Everyone is very confused by how fast Tobirama and Madara get over the war and hook up but yay peace? Also Madara and Tobirama somehow make a baby and everyone is too busy trying to figure out how that works to complain anymore.
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yetanotheremptypage · 3 years
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no escaping your love #9: i’ll hold you up
Read 1-8 here.
#50. “I think you’re beautiful.”
“Should we really be doing this?” Kate asked for what must have been the twelfth time that day alone. Anthony couldn’t see her from his dressing room, but he knew the exact expression she was making: eyebrows pinched together, bottom lip between her teeth, and probably hands cupping her stomach to boot. Fifteen years of marriage had taught him that much.
They were attending Simon and Daphne’s ball tonight, an invitation that they’d accepted before realizing that Kate was pregnant. For the fourth time. At thirty-seven.
Anthony, unlike the doctor, was uncharacteristically unconcerned. His mother had Hyacinth at thirty-seven and, other than his father’s death and the breech birth, had had a relatively smooth and normal pregnancy. There was no reason to think Kate’s wouldn’t be any different.
But now that she was starting to show, Kate was uncharacteristically reticent to venture out in public. Anthony was usually all for skipping an event, but this one was different; Daphne and Simon were family. It would be poor form, and tip off everyone that something was afoot with the Viscount and Viscountess Bridgerton. With Lady Whistledown’s pen firmly down, this would be the first child they could announce on their own terms—not that he begrudged Penelope, but, still—and really, Kate wasn’t that obvious yet. He expected only their family, who knew, would truly be able to tell.
“Lucy will be there and she is much more pregnant than you are,” he called back to her as his valet helped him shrug on his jacket.
“Lucy is barely twenty-two years old, carrying her second child, and looks like she’s merely shoved a pillow under her dress,” she retorted. “I do not.”
His valet, having known him all these years, didn’t even bother to pick up the brush and let Anthony cross the room and re-enter the viscount’s room proper, where Kate was dressing. Her lady’s maid stood off to the side, ostensibly sorting through Kate’s jewelry spread across the dressing table, allowing him to walk directly up to Kate and wrap his arms around her waist.
“I think you’re beautiful. And you know how much I love these,” he whispered in her ear. She swatted his hand away before it could cup her (much fuller) breasts, but he could see the corners of her mouth twitching upwards. “You know that if you really don’t want to go, we don’t have to.”
“But I do want to see Lucy and Gregory before she goes into confinement. And I want to speak with your mother. And it’s Hyacinth’s first ball since having Isabella…” she sighed, resting her head on Anthony’s shoulder. “I know I’m not twenty-one anymore. And I’ve had three children, so of course I will show earlier and carry more weight and all the rest but… it’s hard.”
“I know, my dear.”
“And I don’t want anyone to whisper about us. I know it’s ‘unfashionable’ to have children at my age—”
“How do you think I feel? I’ll be nearing seventy by the time she comes out.” He shuddered and she laughed brightly.
“I’ll hold you up,” she teased.
“Good. For now, let me hold you up. You are a wonderful mother, and so undeniably beautiful that it’s a miracle I let you leave the bedroom at all.” He kissed her neck, doing his best to pretend her lady’s maid wasn’t less than two metres away. “I’ll have us home well before midnight.”
“We can’t be rude, Anthony.”
“How many of our balls have Simon and Daphne left scandalously early?”
Kate snorted, all the answer he needed.
“Go read Charlotte the story you promised her. I’ll be ready soon.”
“Thank you,” he murmured before pressing a kiss to the shell of her ear. She smiled at him in the mirror, but it didn’t look strained, which he counted as a victory.
Charlotte, with her mother’s identical smile, managed to get a second story out of him, even though Kate had entered the doorway just as he finished the first. She didn’t say anything, but he caught her eye over Charlotte’s head as he turned the page and she looked so content, one thumb running circles over her stomach.
When the second came to an end, he pressed a kiss to Charlotte’s forehead and whispered that he loved her. She told him the same and his heart felt fit to burst.
“Mama! You look beautiful!” Charlotte said with her gaze now focused on Kate. She stepped further into the light and Anthony swallowed. Her dress was a midnight blue with gold detailing and short puffed sleeves and she wore the gold Bridgerton tiara over her updo and long gold earrings. She was gorgeous, and he was already dreaming of when he could take that dress off of her. Had she foregone her chemise, what with the baby? It would certainly save him some time...
“Thank you, darling. May I steal your papa away now?”
“Yes, my lady,” Charlotte replied, lisping on the ‘s’ thanks to the gap between her teeth.
“Why thank you, Miss Bridgerton.” She leaned over to kiss Charlotte on the forehead herself and Anthony pushed himself out of the bed so that he could offer her his arm. She took it, blew one last kiss to Charlotte, and then they made their way down the stairs and into the carriage.
“Did you know that we make rather wonderful children?”
“I had a feeling.” He stepped into the carriage before her so that he could help her in. “I am excited, you know. To have another one.”
“Me too. And she’ll be as beautiful as her mother.”
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ewgoals · 4 years
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50 Reasons why
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Plot: Harry and Y/N have had an on and off relationship for 4 years, They truly feel like true love was what kept them together but nobody will take control.They had a beautiful baby boy together and the love they share was pure so pure that Harry decides to try and take control even if it was too late  and the woman he called his wife was over him. 
A/N: The Plot Is  short but the story is long, complex and beautiful. It’s based on a true story. Please listen to the song while you are listening Via Spotify or apple music, Please it makes it so much better! I have a youtube link. I said that Harry wrote and sung the song but it was a musical named rent if you don’t know lol Let me know if you want a part two 
Link: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-9pvtRwaKHY 
Triggers: Angst, Smut, Fluff, Tears?, Heart break. 
Word Count: 5,843 
Harry was up all night, that’s how it’s been the last few days he couldn’t sleep without Y/N by his side. Harry knows that he did this to himself from pulling away from his former wife, when he began to struggle with his own personal demons. Harry finally sat up as he saw the light coming through the blinds of his home, he looked at his phone for a moment just hoping to get even the smallest text from his former lover but it was sadly nothing. Harry finally decided that he needed to take control of this situation, he needed his feelings to be out there and for Y/N to understand what he truly felt. 
This gave Harry the amazing idea, he was going to mix a romantic gesture with him pouring out his heart. This was going to start with Harry writing an emotional letter for the woman that he loved before words, he then ordered 50 roses and sent them to Y/N home after he checked with a couple of friends that she still lived there. This of course was Harry’s favorite thing that he’s done for a little while and he was beyond excited about finally having some control. 
Y/N and Harry have been talking every night since Y/N reached out, making sure her ex husband was okay. She never wanted to put him in a bad place, but she knew that it was for the better that they split up even if the divorce was rough enough on both of them. Y/N was shocked when she woke up to his friend calling her from downstairs, the woman rushed down the stairs in fear of something much more horrible. Y/N covered her mouth as she looked around at the 50 dozen roses that filled her living room and dining room. 
Roger looked at his best friend before saying “Girl he wants you back so bad” Y/N looked around just as shocked before grabbing a letter that was kept separate from the roses which made her smile seeing Harry’s handwriting “I’ll read these to you just because you are here” The woman admitted before her best friend nodded as he watched her open the letter “Okay here we go” the woman said shaking her head as she began reading.
“I know that you told me not to write this and normally I would listen but  I can’t help it, I saw this post that I made for you that was written like a year ago I think and it was crazy because you don’t think you could ever add to a post like that. I could though, it was talking about how you make me feel all of these things! I wasn’t sure how it was possible to add more but once I actually sat down and began thinking about how I could it was easy as hell. I’ll show you the post so you know which one I’m talking about.” The woman’s eyes were already filling with tears as she began to read the post Harry wrote for her on her birthday last year. 
“My Love,
As I am writing, I have a million thoughts running through my mind. This letter is meant to be a testament to the feelings I feel for you –  you are the one person that can put a smile on my face, even on those days when I am feeling down. You are the reason I am able to lay in bed and fall asleep peacefully. Looking at it, you have offered me new opportunities that no other person would be able to offer me.  As you lay next to me in bed sleeping, I lay there and wonder what I did to get so lucky in my life.
 You are the one that has reached out and showed me the true meaning of what it feels like to be in peace. There is no other person in this world that could have done that for me. It amazes me that someone with such outer beauty as so much inside her as well.  I feel like I am floating when I am with you. My days get brighter when I am with you. I still manage to get these butterflies when I see you. I guess overall I love you. “ Y/N shook her head as she sniffled trying to get herself to compose herself once before she looked at her friend “Please Read the rest” she asked as Y/B/F/N took the letter and began with the next page 
“I wrote that on 10/23 that was literally 3 days after you and I got together. That was the day I meant the love of my life and the woman would become the mother of my children, I told you last night but let me rephrase so everyone can see it. 
I may not show all the time and that’s because I’m shitty at human emotions but you are the most important person to me. When I’m down you bring me up without realizing you are. When I’m beyond crazy you manage to bring me back down to earth I didn’t wanna tell you because it goes back to the whole “what the fuck does this beautiful ass woman see in me like?” And that goes back to the whole I don’t think I’m worthy of love but you truly make me like I’m worthy even though I fuck up nonstop you still manage to love me even when I’m stupid as shit.” Roger stooped as he began to run his hand up and down his friend’s back “He is quite the words man” this caused them both to chuckle as her friend went on 
“I mean every word of that ten times over, no matter what stupid shit I do you manage to find a way to forgive me. Y/N from all the adventures we go on from fucking around and getting hitched in Vegas, to getting married in Paris or maybe me trying to drown you bora bora. That is still not confirmed, I’m only joking but I don’t feel like there are enough words to describe our relationship hell our marriage. Happy birthday to the love of my life, you still manage to keep on my toes but I think that’s because of how amazing you.” Roger  gasped “that’s what he wrote for your birthday? I can barely get laid from mine” Y/N laughed as she ran her hand over where her ring used to see as she took the paper and read the last paragraph 
“I found that post still saved in my phone and if I’m honest it started off a long list of things that I miss about you and I’ll break that down one by one so give me a minute haha, I’m going to call this the 50 reasons why I love you and the reason why I think we should try just once more and If it doesn’t work then that’s fine and the reason it’s fine is that we have such an amazing friendship that I don’t ever wanna lose. You give me hope even when I am hopeless. I can use all of those typical relationship quotes and for once I understand why they are like that. Okay fine I’ll get one with my list haha.” 
Y/N brain finally connected the dots as she looked around at all of the roses “They are in order from number 50” the woman shook her head as she looked at the roses once more, this was going to be a long night. Y/N quickly got started as she picked up the number 50 
“50.) I like the way you look at me.
I don’t know it’s possible but when you look at me, I feel this flutter in my chest telling me that I just saw the most beautiful woman look at me. I am also in a position where your eyes tell me so much more than you ever want to let one.” Y/N smiled sweetly as she kept going on 
“49.) Your Skin Care 
I don’t think I could tell you what you are actually doing when you start the process but I can tell you that I love how you almost become instantly relaxed when you start it and I love seeing that. I love to see how you can wind down from your day and just a little face cream helps you so much with that. “ Y/N looked at her best friend as ran her finger through her hair before giggling “He used to literally roll his eyes everytime I would even begin” Y/N shook her head as she smiled a little before she grabbed the next card 
“48.) Those Legs 
I love the feeling of running my hands up and down your legs, the way they curve so perfectly, and the length. Please don’t get me started because I don’t think I could stop. They are smooth and always smell so good.” Roger  laughed as he lightly smacked her thigh “told you those legs were killer”  Y/N laughed  as she shook her head “Next one” she said        
“47.) Your Touch 
The way you used to just run your fingers over my arm or trace outlines on my chest. I used to always look down at you and the minute I felt the tips of your fingers, I would freeze only for a second but that’s because I was shocked you were there.” Y/N looked down at the card as she closed her eyes “I don’t think I can truly get through these” The woman smiled but she kept going  
“46.) When you Play with my Hair 
This doesn’t get enough credit and I took advantage of it. When I used to lay on your chest and just listen to your heart you would run your fingers through my hair and I would always feel my heart speed up because it felt so good. It felt like you were giving my head the greatest massage of all time” . 
“45.) You see the positives when I see Negatives. 
I could come to you about something as simple as wanting to know what I should have for lunch and you can give me a whole pro list of different places I could eat. You literally turn every point in our life positively just by counteracting my negative. It makes us work really well but it also shows me how I should look at the world.”
44.) How you used to rub my back 
I know this sounds like I am repeating myself but I’m not. You used to straddle my waist and rub my back after the gym, It would give me this relaxing feeling and the way your fingers worked the muscles that were sore out and made me feel like I was jello. I can’t thank you enough...
43.) When You Picked Me 
I don’t think anyone was as shocked as me when it happened, I slide into your DMS a nervous man knowing that you had just gotten out of a relationship but I kept my heart open to the small chance I had. When you agreed to go on that date with me I couldn’t even believe it like Why was she settling but I thank my lucky stars for the day over and over. 
42.) When You Just Wanted To Cuddle.
I would wake up and have to get up for the gym but you would always pull me back down and ask for five more minutes and the minutes I got a smell of your hair I couldn’t say no. I would have to stay for five more minutes. 
41.) The Way You Wake Up. 
You always sit up and stretch before you look over at me and lean in to kiss me, I would always try to turn it into a little bit more but you would always say that your breath stunk and I remember that I could never bring it to your attention that I never smelt your breath, I was to busy focusing on my beautiful wife. 
40.) Your Feet At Night.
You know that I hate feet with a passion but I love the way you bury your feet under my legs when you get cold when we are together. I used to hate it now that I don't have it. I just miss it. 
39.) We Could Watch Cartoons Together. 
I never figured that would be something that made me love someone but it truly made me love you more, I could put Peppa pig on but we could still cuddle and just read. 
38.) I’ll Always Remember Your Favorite Flower
  I will always make sure to have your favorite bouquet of flowers and I will always know that they need to be a dark red because Maroon is one of your favorite colors. 
37.) Your Ankles. 
I remember when I would be messing around with you, I would always grab your ankle. I would leave a kiss on your ankle, I would hold your ankle. I think I don’t want to admit how much I love kissing your ankle. 
36.) You never make me feel dumb. 
You are genuinely one of the smartest people I know and somehow you’ve never made me feel like I was less because I don’t know as much as you but you would even try to explain it to her. 
35.) How you watch your favorite show, 
I’ve noticed that you would religiously watch the same show over and over and that would drive me insane now I find myself watching them just to think you are here. 
34.) How You Pull Me Closer.
I would try not to fall asleep first but the minute I did, I would feel you pull me closer and keep me close until you either felt safe or just content. I would love every minute I remember. 
33.) Your Dancing 
You always dance like nobody's watching and I love that. I love the way you mix current music and start doing the boogie haha I also love the way you twerk lol 
32.) Your Quick Replies 
I would feel myself becoming closer to snapping and you would always lighten my mood with a little small quick roast, It would always make me feel better. 
31.) Your Love For Dogs 
I’ve never seen someone care about our living things, I would always be a little shy about them at first but you would go and bear hug the dog no matter what haha. 
The next ten flowers were  labeled NSFW which meant that Y/N was’t going to read them out loud but her friend was quick to put that idea down “Nope, I’m emotionally invested you need to read them all” Y/N blushed before nodding as she looked at the next card reading loudly 
“30.) Your moans
Those are literally crack, I would hear that moan and it would get me ready almost instantly. I hear the moan almost every night and well let’s just say I miss hearing it in person.”  Y/N was blushing already as her best friend laughed “Oh this is adorable keep going”  
“29.) Your Whispers
I don’t know if you thought I could hear but when you whisper in my ear, I feel myself almost buckling at my knees and smiling just because I know exactly where to touch to make those moans come out.” 
“28.) Your Nails 
I miss the way your nail would run down my back, they could be long or short. They were just this naturally fuck me harder button and I swear every time you did it I was ready for you all over again.” 
“27.) Your Taste. 
This is not a place that I can beat around the bush, I miss the feeling of going down on you. I miss feeling those fingers in my hair as I eat the most amazing peach that I could’ve ever tasted in my life” Roger laughed as he held his chest “Girl you better get back with him, that alone would have be running back” Y/N covered her face as she closed her eyes “Okay next one” 
“26.) Your Lips
I miss how those lips felt against mine, they are the softest things I’ve ever kissed, and the way you bit your bottom lip is just unreal.”
“25.) Your Smirk
You only use this when you know you’ve won and it’s my favorite thing about getting to admit defeat. That smirk you have when you crawl back on top of me. A man could  fall in love with that.” 
“24.) Your Ass 
How is it I can picture your ass and I could tell you the curves of the perfect tanned ass. I love how you reacted when  I finally smack your ass. You gasp and use that damn smirk.” 
“23.) Your boobs 
I still love the feeling of kissing down your chest as I run my hands over your amazing breasts, they are soft and fit perfectly in my hands. I can tease you so much because of it.” 
“22.) Those Kisses 
I always remember when you would be giving me a blow job, You would always leave these kisses on my inner thighs. Those still drive me wild but Nobody could do it like you.” Y/N smiled as she shook her head “Girl you need to teach me your tricks. You got this boy pussy whipped” Y/N slapped Roger’s chest “Shut up” 
“21.) The way you pull my hair. 
I’ve learned that you grab onto many things, my hair is a perfect victim but god is it such a turn on. I could feel myself slipping away because you wore me out but the minute you pulled my hair I was back into it. “
“20.) The way you take control when you want it. 
 I loved watching you ride me, I get the perfect view of those amazing perfect breasts in my face but I also get to see you take control and that is so sexy. “ 
Y/N finally looked up at Roger before closing her eyes “I have 20 more reasons why he loves me and I have no words to say anymore” Roger smiled as nodded “come on girl 20 more” 
“19:) How well we fit together
I would begin that I could marry someone who just sleeps well and I did. Our bodies just fit perfectly to the point that I could never think that anything could be better” 
“18.) The Way You Talk To Tv 
I can’t begin to tell you that just because you scream at the tv, it's not going to change the outcome but watching you get so the anger was half worth it” 
“17.) Your Grace  
The way you handle yourself when the media talks about you. You don’t talk negatively but just smile through it” 
“16.) The way you handle my jealousy 
I know that sometimes, it’s ridiculous that I get jealous over small stuff but it’s because have you ever dated someone who was so above your league? Of course not, you are a goddess.”  
“15.) I love that we are friends and family.
No matter what you always made me feel important even when nobody else did, you always treated me like family and when I was going through a pure panic attack you would manage to call me down even with just your words. You treat me like I am not this piece of shit. That I matter. “ 
“14.) Your Smell  
When you would get out of the shower and come to bed, The way your hair smelt mixed with your perfume and other smells just made you into this perfect smell that I still can’t get out of my nose.” 
“13.) Our Baths 
  We did this a lot while you were pregnant, I would just run my hand over your little pregnant belly and I would feel so content with just being able to hold you, let you relax with some weird bath bomb” 
“12.) Your Christmas Obsession 
I never really liked Christmas before I met you, it was kinda just a holiday. I would go home but you made it special. Now when it’s Christmas time all I think about is you, how your eyes would light up when you would see all the Christmas lights. How you would get excited when Emre,Lea or Presley  opened a present. You Made Christmas something special and I’ll always thank you for that.” 
“11.) Your Laugh 
I think I could write a ten page essay about your laugh alone. I remember holding you and I would start to tickle you now it would end in you giving me a death threat but it was worth it to hear that laugh. I would always get this heart fluttering feeling when that special sound left your lips.” 
“10.) I miss you when you aren’t next to me 
I’ve noticed this more now that we aren’t together but I find myself taking this much more serious now that the reality sets in that we are where we are. This becomes more real every time I get  a text from you. Hell I used to miss you when you are in the next room.” 
“9.) The way you are with our kids. 
I feel like this is pretty self explanatory but the way you look at our kids and how they smile so lovingly back at you . The way they squeal when you kiss them, how they want nothing more but to hold you and play with you makes me realize that you were the perfect choice for the mother of my children, You are the perfect mom everyone is trying to me and you do it effortlessly.”
“8.) We’ll Always Have Paris. 
I’ve always wanted to say that haha. You make it possible for me to say that. Paris will always be the place where I found the love of my life, It will also be the place where God showed me that angels walk among men.” 
“7.) Always being True
You are being true to who you are, your morals are sometimes not in my favor but it makes me love you more. That you know exactly what you want and what you truly deserve. This drives me crazy but in the best possible way and almost makes me jealous of you that you are so smart and true to who you are that you can get whatever you want. This makes even more one of a kind than you are.”
“6.) The Way You Let Me In
I know that you don’t do this anymore and I think that’s what makes it even more special that you let me in. I get to see every side of you: the good,bad,stressed, sad, angry, vulnerable. I know it doesn’t make sense but when you open up to me I get this feeling in my chest and I just can’t help but feel like I am the luckiest person in the world. “
“5.) Your Eyes 
I was in the studio yesterday and the thought of you popped into my mind and the lyrics created themselves. I have the audio of me singing which I texted you, I don’t know if you caught that yet. If not I left the lyrics for you” 
Your eyes
As we said our goodbyes
Can't get them out of my mind
And I find I can't hide
From your eyes
The ones that took me by surprise
The night you came into my life
Where there's moonlight
I see your eyes
How'd I let you slip away
When I'm longing so to hold you
Now I'd die for one more day
'Cause there's something I should have told you
There's something I should have told you
When I looked into your eyes
Why does distance make us wise?
You were the song all along
And before the song dies
I should tell you, I should tell you
I have always loved you
You can see it in my eyes
Y/N saw her phone sitting next to her as she grabbed it and saw the audio file that was sent to her, the woman smiled softly before she played the song as loud as she could without waking her young son in the next room over. Roger's eyes were filled with tears by the end of the song before Y/N wiped her tears away as she shook her head “I can’t do this anymore. Roger I’m seeing someone else'' Roger nodded as he looked down sad for the woman “Just hear him out” Y/N nodded as she looked at the last four of the flowers 
“4.) Those Nose Scrunches 
I couldn’t get enough of those, when you would tease me there was a nose scrunch. When you would be making food and it splashed on you there was a nose scrunch. When you would change a diaper another nose scrunch or even when I kissed your nose. God I love them.” 
“3.) Our Inside jokes 
This is something I never thought I would miss as much I do, I love that when I say Bora Bora to you that we both think of the time you claim I tried to drown you I swear to goodness I did not!  Or our mutual hatred for the chicago bears” 
“2.) You made me feel like I mattered 
It didn’t matter if I felt like I was the worst person you always made me feel like my story mattered and that so did what I have to say. You made me realize that even if nobody wants to hear it my voice should be heard. You helped me into who I am now. I wasn’t Harry Styles to you, I was just a person” 
“ 1.) Your Heart 
This is the number one reason why I love you. Your heart is a wonderful thing, that you don’t realize is as amazing as it is. Your heart is this thing that amazes me hell it managed to love me and well that’s crazy enough to me. I get more and more amazed every time you show me your heart. When I met you and your heart, it began to change me and help heal my messed up heart. Your heart is the purest thing I’ve ever seen. I love you. I love your heart and I love that you managed to love me with that beautiful heart.” 
Y/N was now in full blown tears as she found the next letter hidden in the last bouquet of flowers “Roger please” her best friend took the letter as he opened the letter she read out for her 
“ I think I could keep going on because If i’m being honest it took me an hour to think of 50 reasons why I love you  but I decided that it might be a little too much if I sent a 100 reasons why I love you but I told you that I will give you 50 reasons why I love you and one reason why I think we should try again and here is that reason 
1..) The reason I think that we should try once more is because we are perfect. I know that it would be easier to go and talk to Matthew and fall in love with him and that He won’t give you half as many headaches as I did. Hell he probably won't give nearly as much heart break either. He would be the easier option and I would understand completely if you did it now I know he's not a guy you were talking to but he was just an example. I know that I am not perfect, hell I am far from it. I know that at points our relationship was toxic and I am still so sorry for every time that I made our relationship toxic in some way.” 
Y/N covered her mouth as she bit her lip “He knows about Matt… yet he still took a chance with all of this” Roger looked down at the letter as he kept saying 
“I know that we have our problems, I know that we can talk through them and I know that I love you. I know that no matter what I always will. Hell you can tell me no right now and that we will never happen again and I will tell you okay but only if I can still be in your life because that’s all i truly want. If I can’t have you then it would still be an honor to be your friend.” 
Y/N  looked at her phone in her hand before she grabbed her phone and quickly dialed her ex husband’s number “Y/N” the sound of the man’s voice made her breath stop as she looked at the roses in front of her “Harry, These roses and the letters” Harry just laughed a little “It was over kill huh?” Y/N quickly smiled “No! I loved them but Harry. My heart’s heavy— which I don’t know is a good thing or not. All these things you’ve said about me, these 50 reasons why you love me, it really touched me and it made me realize that you truly do love me. What breaks my heart is that this wasn’t there during the end of our relationship” The woman stopped for a moment as she tried to hold back the tears that she had 
‘On both sides, not just yours. What hurts is that it took 3, or even 4 years for us to realize this? It took countless breakups. It took so much, and maybe that’s the beauty of it. You’re right, another relationship would be easier to be in, there wouldn’t be the arguments and fights and quarrelling and all the little things that are basically ways of expressing love for one another. I don’t know if I need to explain anything right now, and I’m assuming you don’t want me to. But I will tell you that you really healed a lot with what you said. It means a lot, and I do love it.” Harry shook his head 
The man laughed at himself as he audibly said “No,  I don’t want you to explain anything. I want you to just know that I meant every word. That wasn’t my intention to heal anything with a letter. It was to show you that if you want and I need you to remember that if YOU WANT I’ll be right here waiting with my arms open and ready to love you all over again because like I said a new relationship would be easy for both of us but they wouldn’t have those parts that make us so perfect and comfortable together. Now I’ll admit I hope this does make you want to try this again but if it doesn’t that’s fine because now you know everything I was so cowardly to say while we were together.” Harry finished as Y/N sniffled into the phone 
Y/N managed to start talking without breaking her words “I do understand. I don’t know if I’d want to try again though. We could, but it could end up like it did last time, it could also last a long time, but I’m in a place where I’m slowly getting better and I’m not sure if risking that is a good thing. If I’d have heard this when we were together then that’s another story. Maybe we couldn’t work it out together and recovered from our problems and mental health issues together. But we had to separate to help ourselves, that itself says something. Harry, I love you and I will always love our son and the life that we have together but I am seeing someone Harry and I need to see where that goes” Harry smiled sadly as his eyes filled with tears before he whispered “ I understand. I’ll talk to you soon Y/N. Tell Jace I love him and that daddy misses him.” Harry didn’t say goodbye. He just hung up. 
Harry knows that what he did was childish and he should’ve been supportive, he couldn’t help it. He was upset, heartbroken, disappointed,miserable. Harry knew that he couldn’t do that to his ex wife and mother of his child, he grabbed his phone and quickly texted back “I am happy for you, I’m elated that you found someone to make you feel the way I feel about you. I’m not going to lie. I was hoping that my 50 reasons would give a little time to take you off your feet. I was just a little too late. I love you Y/N. I’ll always be waiting for you… No matter what” 
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SpiderCakes Masterlist
People have asked about masterlists before and I’m usually too lazy to make them but I decided I’d organize today so here goes! I’ve made the list according to the themes/ tropes of the fics I’ve written. Starker unless labeled otherwise. A lot of these are ABO and also something else but they’re labelled accordingly. Appropriate warnings are attached to each story.
The list is below the cut because its very long.
ABO
Confessions of a Slutty Omega- ABO AU in which Peter is a YouTuber and Tony watches his channel. More of a synopsis than an actual story.
Best Friend’s Kid: fic preview in which Tony is fucking his best friend’s kid.
Random ABO AU- based off this prompt: the first time Tony really holds Peter down with his entire weight as they fuck. Peter absolutely loves the loss of control.
Traditionalist Peter: older alpha Tony and young traditionst Peter in which Peter.
Another Random ABO AU: high school AU, based off this prompt: An Abo in which omegas when severally distressed emit an high pitched call that alerts their alpha.
Prep School AU: Big ‘ol pile of smut tbh.
Young Peter: based off this prompt- 16 yro omega!peter massaging tony's knot with his hands.
Bitchy Tony: fem!Omega!Tony and alpha!Peter where Tony is well known for being a real bitch to anyone who tries to court him.
Angst AU: based off this prompt: Tony is an alpha but Peter is a beta. They can’t be together as laws prevent alphas from mating with betas so they pine in silence.
Cheerleader!Peter Punk!Tony: HS AU cheerleader Peter and punk Tony, smut.
High School AU: what’s on the tin, including a little pining.
Slutty Peter AU: Peter is used to being in charge, but Tony takes over.
High School AU: fem!omega!Tony and alpha Peter.
Gossip Girl AU: Peter is surprised to find himself on a gossip blog he’s never heard of.
CNC Young Peter: 16 year old omega Peter and alpha mob boss Tony.
Married Tony: omega Tony is married unhappily to Justin Hammer and cheats with younger alpha Peter.
50′s AU: fem omega Tony and alpha Peter.
Heat Fic: Peter helps Tony through a heat.
Beauty Queen AU: beauty pageant AU with omega!Peter and alpha!Tony.
Playmate: omega Tony teaches omega Peter how to please an alpha. Intended as multichap but I have yet to write more.
Young!Peter: Tony needs to be married by 21 or he doesn’t inherit Stark Industries.
Tease Peter: best friend’s kid trope featuring Peter the tease.
High School AU: coy Peter makes Tony work for his attentions.
Intern: Tony takes an interest in his new omega intern.
Omega Run: Peter tries to outsmart the alphas only to get outsmarted by Tony.
Just The Tip
50′s AU- ABO also, based off this prompt: how about tony letting peter put just the tip in him as a reward, and they both like it so much they go all the way.
Young Peter- based off this prompt: Mmmm how about horny 16 yo Peter using the “just the tip” argument to convince guilty!Tony.
Late Bloomer Peter- based off this prompt: Omega!Peter is a very late bloomer. Neither he nor Tony realize Peter’s going into heat until it’s too late.
Just the Tip: ABO AU, dubcon, the one that started my fascination with this trope.
Teacher Student: This fit into like four categories on here but I put it here. Just the top with teacher Tony and student Peter.
Bratty Peter: ABO AU, based off this prompt:  maybe Peter is being a brat and says he wants to ride Tony but Peter teases him by only putting the tip in.
Half Asleep Peter: ABO AU, based off this prompt: Peter is half-asleep and Tony comes home late from work, Peter tells him he’s tired. Smut ensues.
Fic Ideas (feel free to adopt any of these!)
ABO fic Idea- Meant to be long form, may never get to.
Whatever this is- WinterIronSpider, mentions of incest.
Prep School Idea- definitely starker, more than likely would have included a lot of smut and drug use lol.
Bodyguard AU: half crack half serious.
WinterIronSpider: ABO WinterIronSpider idea.
Urban Fantasy AU: vampire!Peter and incubus!Tony.
Funky BDSM YouTube AU: Tony and Peter do BDSM demonstrations and occasionally themed episodes where they try to use holiday objects as like BDSM equipment.
Royal AU: Tony loves Peter, shouldn’t because blacksmiths can’t love princes.
Naive Peter: young very naive omega Peter who gets fucked by older alpha Tony.
Mob AU: Peter gets involved with Tony after he gets in over his head with Quentin.
Random AU: Peter has had a crush on Tony ever since May started working for the Starks.
Actor AU
Karma Got is Kiss for Me
Age Difference: fic snippet in which Peter, looking for a little adventure, runs into Tony.
Mob AU
Angelic Peter: ABO, based off this prompt: angelic little omega peter who mob boss or biker tony takes a liking to.
More Bratty Peter: based off this prompt: You can’t lose your temper like this every time you get a bit upset.
Kidnapping AU:  Tony deliberately kidnaps Peter because he has no patience for domestic violence and is basically offended that Beck sucks.
Smol Omega Peter: ABO AU featuring jailbait Peter.
Prequel to Smol Omega Peter: How they met in the above fic.
Shifter AU: based off this prompt: shifter au where everyone has a designated animal as well as abo.
Heir to The Mob: high school ABO AU featuring Tony as heir to the mob boss throne.
Barely Legal!Peter: ABO featuring mob boss Tony with barely legal! Peter.
Kidnapped!Peter: Peter gets kidnapped, Tony does something about it.
Mob Boss Peter: ABO Peter sleeps with Tony to intentionally fuck with mob boss Steve, whom Tony is married to.
Kept!Peter: Tony finds Peter in trouble and saves him, then chooses to pamper the hell out of him.
Stripper!Peter: mob boss Tony favors Peter when he visits the club.
Bratty Peter: Tony has to leave to take care of some things, Peter doesn’t care for that and reacts badly.
Mob Boss Peter: mob boss Peter featuring subby Tony who adores him.
Baker!Peter: Tony stark is a well known mob boss and he meets and falls in love with Baker! Peter.
Figure Skater Peter: mob boss Tony takes a liking to figure skater Peter, marriage to Quentin Beck be damned.
Harassed!Peter: mob boss Tony sees Peter being harassed and steps in.
Soulmates: mob boss Tony didn’t think he had a soulmate.
Superior Iron Man
Merperson Peter: based off this prompt: Tony takes down a rival corporation and discovers a hidden aquarium where they have captive merman!Peter. 
Manipulative!Peter: based off this prompt:  SIM being manipulated by an evil and/or mischievous Peter?
SIM AU: SIM!Tony manipulates MCU!Peter into coming home to his dimension with him.
Kidnapped Peter: based off this prompt: SIM had kidnapped Peter from the MCU dimension to replace his Peter that was murdered- SIM uses Extremis to wipe Peter’s memories.
WinterIronSpider
Pre WIS AU- based off this prompt: Peter and Tony love each other but Peter is worried about his super strength when they fuck so Bucky steps in.
High!Peter AU: WinterIronSpider high!Peter and soft Dom Tony AU feat. Bucky, the Added Element.
CNC Fic Preview: badboy type Tony and cheerleader! Peter with a splash of Bucky in there too. Incomplete.
Taboo
Stepbrothers AU: ABO featuring jealous Tony and a dash of winterspider.
Sequel to Stepbrothers AU: more jealous Tony and a dash of spidershield.
Another Stepbrother AU: WinterIronSpider- Alpha Tony shares his omega step brother Peter with alpha Bucky. 
Age Difference: based off this prompt- Peter at a picnic with Tony, Peter in little daisy dukes or something similar and summery while eating watermelon.
Non-Con Politician AU: based off this prompt- Tony comes across something shameful the young, up and coming, idealistic politician peter parker has done in the past, and holds it over his head.
Teacher/Student
Tease!Peter: based off this prompt:  Peter’s flirting not so subtly and tony ignores it until peter shows up in a short skirt and he can’t take it anymore.
Established Relationship: Peter and Tony discuss the future. D/s elements, smut.
Bathroom Fun: pure smut.
BDSM
Across The Stars: WIP, Peter takes a job as Tony’s sub to pay Ben’s medical bills after he's shot and falls into a coma. I’m only tagging this one as it links to all the other chapters.
Dom!Peter: 5 part series in which omega Peter learns he has a thing for domination and alpha Tony learns he has a thing for submission. Incomplete.
Teacher/Student AU: based off this prompt: Teacher/student (maybe an established relationship) with a whole lot of teasing. Dom Peter.
Dom!Peter: based off this prompt: Tony’s had a really long and horrible week at work and just wants to be good?
Sub!Tony: Peter accidentally becomes Tony’s Dom.
Edging: Tony edges Peter within an inch of his life.
Dom!Peter: Tony meets Peter in a club.
Drabble: Dom Peter and subby Tony.
Met Online: wherein Peter and Tony met online and decided to recreate a fantasy or two.
Miscellaneous
Trans!Tony AU- exactly what it says on the tin, smut.
High School AU: Exactly what’s on the tin, with smut/ fem Peter.
Serial Killer AU: exactly what’s on the tin.
Exhibitionist!Peter: Tony isn’t looking forward to his trip home because he knows he’s just going to be compared to his brother Steve the whole time. Peter helps.
So Sorry, Mr. Stark: Rumor has it Tony hates being called ‘Mr. Stark’ but that’s not the real reason he doesn’t want anyone calling him that.
5+1 honeymoon AU- based on this prompt: 5+1 honeymoon in which they stop their honeymoon five times to save the world and one time that they do not.
Acolyte Peter: Tony needs a replacement for Pepper and she suggests Peter.
Sensitive!Peter: based off this prompt: Peter trying to top but he's too sensitive so he either has to stop or ends up finishing too fast. 
Rock Star Tony AU: exactly what's on the tin with a moodboard.
Wedding Fluff: exactly what it says on the tin.
Crack AU: Peter and Tony have been in an on again off again relationship since high school and they both happen to be in town for the same event.
Rabbi’s Nephew Peter: literally exactly what’s on the tin, preslash.
Spoiled Peter: exactly what’s on the tin.
WingFic: based off this prompt: a wing fic/soulmate AU where when you meet your mate, your wing colours combine so that you get your mates colours on your secondary feathers.
Zoom AU: Peter introduces his class to all his pets with funky names.
Vacation AU: Peter, Ned, and Liz all vacation in Italy before going off to college.
Bratty Peter: based on this prompt: bratty!Peter possibly with an over accommodating Tony?- in which Peter mostly only pretends to be a spoiled brat.
Diety!Peter: Tony is chosen as that years sacrifice to his village’s god by priest!Howard.
Urban Fantasy AU: urban fantasy starker AU featuring vampire!Tony.
Possessed!Peter: crack AU- Tony possessed Peter, Peter forces him to deal with the consequences. 
Sex Slave AU: Headcanons around what this would look like.
Witch!Tony Familiar!Peter: Exactly what’s on the tin.
Sequel to Witch!Tony Familiar!Peter: Tony want to propose.
Camping!AU: Tony fucks Peter against a tree.
Prompt!Fic: Peter teases Tony.
Umbrella Sharing: exactly what’s on the tin. Fluff.
Possessive!Tony: Peter teases possessive Tony and it goes in his favor.
Snowball Fight: Peter hits Tony with a snowball by accident and that’s how they meet.
Pop Star!Peter Rock Legend!Tony: exactly what it says on the tin.
Media: media outlets have a heyday with Tony’s new relationship with 22 year old Peter.
Dumped!Peter: Tony comforts Peter after he gets dumped.
Cat Burglar Peter: based off prompt: Peter is a famous cat burglar and Tony is a police officer trying to catch him.
College AU: fluff mostly.
High School AU: 3 part series in which punk Tony gets with seemingly innocent Peter. The last part is linked, but all three parts are attached to the third.
Sleepy Starker: fluff piece that’s exactly what’s on the tin.
Soulmates: you don’t see in color until you meet your soulmate.
Random AU: Peter is upset that Tony never seems to mention him on social media.
Non Powered AU: Peter’s friends are really confused on what his new job is.
Moodboards
Serial Killer!Peter Detective!Tony
A Star Is Born
Kept!Peter Mob Boss!Tony
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Tippen's Fics Megapost
Here’s a list of every fic I’ve posted so far. On AO3 * FanFiction.net.
Tips are super appreciated! ko-fi.com/tippenfunkaport   
I will update this post whenever I post new fics so you can find the complete list all in one place.
Series
I’ve collected my one-shots in the order they happen in two main collections for easier reading.
SPOP Missing Scenes - Collection of missing scene fics (mostly Glimbow)
SPOP Canon Compliant Post-War Fics - Collection of all my fics that happen Post-Season 5
Key for main ships in each fic
😻 = Catra / Adora (Catradora)
💖 = Bow / Glimmer (Glimbow, Glow or *sigh* Blimmer)
🧜🏽‍♀️🔥 = Mermista / Sea Hawk (SeaMista or Merhawk)
🦂💐 = Perfuma / Scorpia (Scorfuma)
🥼 = Entrapta / Hordak (Entrapdak)
Key for fic status
📕 = Multi-chapter completed
📄 = One Shot
📖 = Multi-chapter work in progress
Ongoing
📖 Glowing Up: The Princess and The Pirate (Friendship / Fluff / Adventure) - 💖 The origin story for how Bow and Glimmer met!
📖 Prince Bow and Archer Glimmer (Romance / Adventure) - 💖 AU where Glimmer and Bow swap roles!
📖 Going There (Romance / Adventure) - 💖 Series of missing scene fics from Glimmer and Bow’s perspective of Season 5.
Ensemble or Platonic Fics
Fics that either feature multiple pairings (aka the whole gang together) or just friendships and family relationships.
📄 An Outside Perspective (Comedy/Fluff) - 😻 💖 🧜🏽‍♀️🔥 🦂💐 An average Etherian and his mentor travel to Bright Moon to attend Queen Glimmer’s ceremony honoring the regular people who acted heroically during the Horde War but why does the Queen’s boyfriend look so familiar? (Almost everyone is in this one!)
📕 The B-Team (A Catra and Bow Buddy Adventure) (action/adventure) - 😻 💖 Catra and Bow try to save their stubborn magic girlfriends from themselves and accidentally become friends along the way. (50/50 Glimbow and Catradora)
📄 Bow White and the Seven Princesses (A Bedtime Story, as told by Sea Hawk) (Comedy/Fluff) - 💖 😻 🧜🏽‍♀️🔥 Sea Hawk and Mermista are babysitting the children of Bright Moon and Sea Hawk tells them a special personalized version of the classic fairy tale featuring their parents in the starring roles.
📄 Pride and Princesses (Another Bedtime Story, as told by Sea Hawk) (comedy/fluff) - 😻 💖 🧜🏽‍♀️🔥 Uncle Sea Hawk is back! This time he’s reading the children of the Super Pal Trio a tale of epic ROMANCE and ADVENTURE, the classic love story between Adorabeth Boomnets and Fitzmeowmoew Catsy. (Yes, it’s a ridiculous SPOP version of Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice.)
📕 SPOP Palentines - A collection of 15 one-shots (mostly funny but a couple of serious ones) celebrating friendship, family and other more complicated dynamics! (Table of Contents here)
📄 Web of Lies (Family/Fluff/Romance) - 💖 Bow tires to tell his dads about what happened at Princess Prom without spilling all his secrets.
📄 Of Its Kind (Fluff/Family) -  😻 Baby Melog kittens!!
📄 OK With This (fluff) - 🥼🧜🏽‍♀️🔥A Mermista and Hordak friendship? More likely than you might think!
📄 Fraternize, Co-Captain or Assassinate(Fluff / Angst) - 😻💖 The Best Friend Squad plays sleepover games.
📄 Glimmer’s Crazy Day (fluff) - 💖 Glimmer writes in her journal about a really crazy day she had, the kind of wacky day you can only have by totally random chance… right?
📄 Kyle, Lonnie and Rogelio Plot to Steal a Freaky Demon Baby (Fluff/Friendship/Family) - The Horde Trio hanging out in the Crimson Waste and deciding to go back and get Imp.
📄 Good Trouble (Fluff) - 🧜🏽‍♀️🔥 Sea Hawk drops Double Trouble off after the events of Perils of Peekablue.
📄 Moonlight Ghost - 💖 Something nameless is haunting Bright Moon castle and interrupts the royal family at dinner.
📄 The Fire Prince (Action/Adventure/AU) - 🧜🏽‍♀️🔥 Beginning of my Beasts AU, Sea Hawk as arsonist Robin Hood
📄 Captain Mermista (fluff/comedy) - 💖 🧜🏽‍♀️🔥 Swap AU! Adora, Prince Bow and Archer Glimmer come to Seaworthy to hire a ship to take them the see Prince Sea Hawk in Salineas... but they're not sure what to make of Captain Mermista.
Romance / Shippy Fics
📕  Cans of Tuna and Redemption Arcs (Romance / Fluff) - 💖 😻 Pure fluff modern AU in which Catra is Glimmer’s literal pet cat and Adora is Bow’s golden retriever and they all meet cutely. (Technically complete though I sometimes add new chapters randomly)
📕 Save the Archer (Angst / Action / Romance) - 💖 😻 Save the Cat goes wrong. Glimmer gets left behind. Bow gets chipped.
📄 Getting Warmer (Romance/Angst with Happy Ending) - 💖 It’s only a few hours before they’ll be going to rescue Catra and a traumatized Glimmer is having nightmares of having to face Horde Prime again. When she wakes up screaming, the only person she wants to comfort her is still mad at her, their relationship damaged beyond repair. Or is it?
📄 Another World (Angst/Romance) - 💖 Post Princess Prom Horde Glimmer AU
📕  First Kisses We Didn’t Have(fluff/romance) - 💖 A collection of one shots where Bow and Glimmer might have gotten together if things in canon had happened just a little bit differently.
📕 A Merry SPOP Shipsmas! (Fluff / Romance) - 😻 🥼 💖 🧜🏽‍♀️🔥 🦂💐 Collection of one-shots inspired by famous holiday songs, one for each major canon ship!
📄 Just Like Always (Romance / Fluff) - 💖 😻 Adora and Catra think they’re helping Bow and Glimmer with an elaborate marriage proposal but their friends have pulled a bait and switch.
📄 “Yes, your majesty.”(Comedy/Fluff) - 💖 Bow accidentally refers to Glimmer as “your majesty” during a Princess Alliance meeting.  But, it’s fine, she should be able to make it through this meeting without getting completely distracted by sexy thoughts, right?
📄 Babysitting Arrows (Comedy/Fluff) - 💖 😻 Comic antics ensue when Catra thinks Glimmer might be pregnant and Adora’s Aunt instincts go into overdrive. 
📄 Time and Space (Romance/Smut) - 💖 When Bow and Glimmer have their first big fight as a married couple, Glimmer just wants to skip ahead to the part when she’s forgiven. But when an apology isn’t enough and Bow’s still mad at her, she uses magic to recreate a moment from their past with a sexy twist.
 📕 Glimbow Shorts (Romance / Fluff) - 💖 Various short fics I wrote for Glimbow Week. This is made up of…
Prompt: Memory: Bow tries to get Glimmer to remember the ridiculous names of all his siblings. (Post Canon)
Prompt: Injury: Bow patches Glimmer up after she gets injured on a mission. (Missing Scene)
Prompt: Touch: The Best Friend Squad is having a sleepover the night after their visit to Plumeria and Bow wakes up to discover he’s been unwittingly cuddling Glimmer in his sleep. (Missing Scene)
Prompt: Princess Prom / Jealousy: Glimmer wakes from a nightmare with a question for Bow. (Post Canon)
Prompt: Family: Glimmer talks to Micah while he enjoys a snack in the Bright Moon garden. (Post Canon)
Prompt: Swap: 🧜🏽‍♀️🔥 Glimbow and Seamista swap places for a scene from Princess Prom (AU)
Prompt: Wedding / Proposal:  Shortly after Angella’s disappearance, Bow and Adora discover that new Queen Glimmer’s been getting marriage proposals from would be suitors (Missing Scene)
📄 The Gift of a Lifetime - (Romance) 💖 It’s Bow’s Birthday, and the whole gang is getting together for a big party. Everyone keeps saying he doesn’t look a day over 30! Problem is… he’s turning 50.
📄 Shells (Angst/Friendship) - 💖 Bow trying not to have a breakdown about losing Glimmer to Horde Prime while cooking for Adora.
📄 Scars - (Angst / Romance) 💖 Bow is all healed from the Pulse bot but there are still a lot of open wounds between him and Glimmer.  
📄 Kowl Jr. (Fluff with a wee bit of Angst/Romance) - 💖 Bow and Glimmer are called to investigate reports of poachers in the Whispering Woods and find a creature long thought extinct.
📕 The Wrong Princess Prom (Romance / Drama) - 💖 Key moments from Princess Prom through Battle of Bright Moon from Bow’s perspective
📄 Parenting is an ADVENTURE! (Fluff, Romance)- 🧜🏽‍♀️🔥 Sea Hawk and Mermista being domestic with their kids!
📄 Booty Call(comedy / romance) -  💖 Glimmer indulges Bow’s pirate fantasy. Sexy but not explicit.
📄 Did Someone Say Seabowmista? (comedy) - 💖 🧜🏽‍♀️🔥 Joke fic I wrote for April Fool's Day where all may not be what it seems when Bow agrees to a threesome with Mermista and Sea Hawk.
Find my fics on AO3 * FanFiction.net. Only AO3 is linked from the titles to simplify my life.
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Best Dating App For Professionals Over 40
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OkCupid's basic services are free to use, and upgraded features start at $4.95 per month. Tinder: One of the most popular dating apps, Tinder was once known as a hookup app for people not looking for long-term commitment. But for many people over 50 Tinder has become a more traditional way to meet and connect. Best dating sites and apps for people over 40 — and which ones to avoid. Find love again (or for the first time.). EliteSingles utilizes a bunch of algorithms to find you a professional match. After a lot of trail and error, here's my unfiltered take on the best dating apps for women over 40, from Bumble to Hinge to eHarmony. Since 2007, Zoosk has distinguished itself as a high-tech dating site and app for singles looking to socialize and pick up dates on the fly. It has over 40 million members and sees over 3 million messages exchanged per day.
It is impossible to stop time and go back to the past. It has turned out that older people mostly search via the internet “what are the best free online dating sites for over 40?” because they are still single. That happens due to one important factor.
Single Sites For Over 40
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When you become older, it is much more difficult to meet new people, especially to marry. It is truly half of life. Many have managed to achieve something in their lives, maybe even several marriages and divorces. However, love is something eternal. That is why there are plenty of over 40 dating sites for singles over 40. They provide various opportunities for communication in order to find love. There a 40-year-old woman can easily start dating a man over forty that have never married. Everyone deserves to be loved, and you also will definitely find it: over 40 dating websites will help you with it.
Characteristics of Best Dating Sites for Over 40
The industry of online dating has developed tremendously, and now there even free dating services for over 40. All of them are different, with their strong and weak sides. It is necessary to define whether a over 40 website is good or not. That is why there are some common standards that the best dating websites for over 40 must match. Some features are very common, but they also must be implemented in a proper way. Here is their overview.
Easy to Use
An over 40 dating website should not be complicated. It must have a simple infrastructure that every new member will be able to easily use. With well-thought-out website design, even not tech-savvy users will be able to easily find future husbands and wives.
Free Registration Process
Registration should be free. It allows new members to try the service and decide if to continue or not. In addition, in enlarges the number of members, thus improves the chances of perfect matching. The sign-up process also should not be able to be done through social networks as it may lead to leakage of personal information. It is also should include verification by email to decrease the number of fake accounts. Most scammers do not want to waste much time, and email verification can be a small obstacle to a part of them.
Well-Thought-Out Questionnaire
It is common knowledge that it is difficult to write about yourself from scratch, and this can disinterest new members for further over 40 dating steps. As a solution, there are questionnaires. Most internet users like answering different questions about themselves instead of writing personal info. It allows to quickly fill in important information. Hence, over the forties dating sites develop their own questions to save users’ time and make it easier to find people with the same interests. They are not obligatory. You can skip this process and provide information about yourself later when you would like to.
Communication Tools
Probably, the most important thing in the over 40 dating process is communication. On the best over 40 dating sites, you should be able to express your emotions and feelings, which means that sending only emails is not a solution. There just must be tools for communication, such as:
Live Chat With Instant Messages
The possibility of chatting in real-time greatly improves the relationship between people.
Voice Calls
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Talking is very important as you can hear most of the emotions and understand how a person reacts to what you say.
Video Calls
Real-time communication with video helps to see if all the photos are too altered and how a person looks like. It is recommended to have at least several video calls before meeting offline.
Translation Services
Mostly members communicate with someone from a foreign country. It means that they may not know some common language. Therefore, the translation service will help to erase this language gap between people.
24/7 Customer Support
In case of some troubles, a customer support team should be there. It must be available 24/7 due to the fact that members from different countries live in different time zones. You may contact them for sure if you have some concerns like:
Registration process;
Suspicious behavior of a member;
Search tools usage;
Payment issues;
How to start a conversation and you need some tips on how to do that;
Amount of profiles.
Speaking of singles over 40 dating sites, you must understand that they have a vast network that attracts new users from all over the world. You can find members from oversees countries like the US, Canada, Australia, and Europe. It has become a wonderful community of single men and women. On such over 40 dating platform, it is much easier to find a person due to your preferences and create a lovely couple.
Profiles Quality
Over 40 dating websites can be rated by the quality of users’ profiles. They must include:
Photos of a person that are not fake;
Initial user info: name, country, age, nationality etc;
Self-description of personality, hobbies, world view, and favorite things;
Expectations from a future partner.
Additionally, some members may upload short videos about themselves
Premium online dating platforms check if the provided information is up-to-date and is not going to mislead other members.
Safety
The most important thing while using any kind of over 40 dating platform is safety. There is a special management team that checks if the members are likely to be scammers. It has turned out that most female accounts are used to deceive people. Even after registration and member validation, checkups do not end. Security team continues to monitor these users, and if any of them will ask for money, send spam, or behave inappropriately, they will ban this account. It is necessary to mention that over 40 international dating websites cannot guarantee 100% safety. Hence, they inform their members with what to do in case of fraud and suspicious behavior of members according to security guidelines.
Pricing
You should know that for most of the features on over 40 dating websites you will have to pay. However, you may forget about subscriptions. They proved their inconvenience as users do not spend most of the time that they have paid for. There is a new tendency of credit system where you buy specific currency on to find single professionals over 40. The most pleasant side of this system is that you will spend credits only when you use something. It does not bind you to the time, and you can use free over forty dating services when you want. Moreover, there are discounts for loyal members. Speaking of payment methods, you will be definitely able to use:
Visa
MasterCard
Discover
Maestro credit, debit, prepaid or gift card
PayPal is also available for some countries
Additional Services
Dating websites for over 40 often provide additional services to improve communication and relationships between members. They help to erase the borders between people, and it can be done by using:
Present Delivery Service
It can help you to express your feelings by sending a present to a person you like. This delivery service can make it even in a different part of the world. It takes up to 8 working days, and in the end, you will receive a photo report. Among the gifts that you can send are:
Toys
Chocolate
Perfumes
Flowers
Jewelry
Smartphones
Offline Dating Service
Over 40 dating service can help you to organize an offline date if the person you like also agrees. It allows being sure that the date will definitely happen. However, bear in mind that you will have to pay for accommodation and flight by yourself.
Exchange of Personal Contacts
This service allows both people to receive phone numbers of each other, so they can continue to talk outside the over 40 dating platform. It can be used only if communication is going well and the two are not against of doing this.
Best Free Dating Sites for Over 40
On the internet, you can find different best places to meet women over 40. However, these definitely match the above-mentioned features that indicate their high quality. You will not regret using them.
VictoriaHearts.com
Amazing over 40 plus places that will surprise you with the simplicity of usage. With quick registration, the initial questionnaire, and a powerful search tool, new members easily find nice people to talk and date.
Valentime.com
Wonderful over 40 international dating platform that has a high rate of women from Eastern Europe. It has an excellent 24/7 customer support that helps not only with some problems but also can help in online dating.
MatchTruly.com
This over 40 website is considered to be one of the best in quality of member profiles and safety. It has a long history of successful matchings of people from different countries.
Conclusion
Best Free Dating App For Over 40s
While searching for the best dating websites for over 40, you should remember all important qualities that they must have. This is how over 40 dating platforms can prove their usefulness and safety. Age does not matter; everyone deserves to find love.
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Best online dating apps and sites for over 40 singles
When it comes to dating men and women over 40, many middle-aged singles might be worried about getting back into a relationship. Whether they are recently divorced or single, professionals focusing on their careers, or looking after kids, there are many reasons over 40 singles wait to date.
Whether you are a professional who wants to start dating or a divorced, single parent looking to try dating, there are options. Many people are dating with kids as well. You can also find matches for friendship, but of course romance and love are the focus.
Hitting your mid-life period doesn’t mean that your dating is done. There are now plenty of over 40 dating apps and websites, allowing you to enjoy 40+ dating like never before! Here are some of the best over 40 dating app / sites today:
OkCupid
OkCupid is one of the leading dating websites and apps for helping you to match with new, like minded users who are also in their forties. They offer free registration and a way to link in through Facebook as well, making set up your profile easier than ever before.
Filter your searches for a partner based on a variety of topics, such as interests, physical appearance, location, and more! You can also take the time to make meaningful connections via their chat and messaging and arrange dates with people who are a perfect match for you.
To top it all off, they offer an excellent app for anyone who is on the go and looking for a new dating relationship while still maintaining a busy lifestyle.
Match.com
One of the largest and best apps for people looking to start a new relationship with men and women across the United States.
Match is especially great for people who are looking to utilize the full extent of an advanced matching service, including filtering out the types of single over 40 people who they may not want to date. This means you can be specific about dating people who are focused on their careers, have children, or are looking to meet someone that shares a specific hobby.
Sign up for free today with either email or your own Facebook account and enjoy their easy-to-use app and website!
EHarmony
Launched in 2000, Eharmony is one of the leading online dating services for serious relationships, especially with the over 40 crowd that wants to take the time to find true love with help from one of the best sites for dating.
Start a relationship on your own terms with the help of Eharmony, connecting people through the use of advanced filtering, profile creation, and some of best matching services on the market today.
They do offer free registration when you sign up, but you can only view your matches with this level of subscription. You will need a paying account to make use of all the features that Eharmony has to offer.
What to consider when you start dating in your forties
Dating in your forties means that you are bringing experience and baggage into a place where you may not be used to having both. Many things will be the same as when you were younger, but not everything.
For many, the big issue with dating in later life is that there may be children involved. While a partner having kids is a possibility, it shouldn’t put you off. If the family is welcoming, it can be a rewarding experience. Plus, children are especially good at giving you a signal if your match is truly good.
For people who are dealing with loss, there may be the issue of living in the shadow of the partner who’s passed on. Whether you do it to a date or they do it to you, the important thing is to remember that you should stop with this kind of comparison.
Ultimately, the relationship you share with someone will be different from the one they had. No better or worse, just different. And maybe even the best one.
Finally, you may also have financial concerns, particularly if you’ve been through a divorce. However, letting your money rule your love-life is a sure-fire way to scupper any future romance. Sometimes, you just have to roll the dice and see what happens.
What are Pros & Cons to middle-age dating?
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Pros
You’re far more likely to have similar interests and similar life experiences.
You won’t have to suffer never-ending conversations about the latest music, or which social media platforms are the best
You can concentrate on enjoying the important things in life for the two of you
Couples in their 40s tend to favor quality over quantity when it comes to sexual encounters
Cons
Odds are that you will have other obligations to look after, ranging from work to children
You may not always be your date’s priority, especially if they have kids
With Covid, traditional ways of meeting up and mingling are severely limited, so you both will have to adapt
People who date when they are older are likely to move things quickly, especially if there are kids involved. Sometimes this is okay, but it isn’t always the best way to move a relationship forward
What you can do to make over 40 dating successful
Making the world of dating work for you and being successful at it requires that you understand what you want and need out of a dating relationship from the start. If you are looking for love, then it will take time but be patient and with the right app you can make dating work.
Click here for more tips and guides on Over-40 Dating
You should understand that not every potential match you’re paired up with is going to be right for you. The best dating apps are a great way to get to know someone before you take the plunge and meet up, but there’s no need to compromise on what you want right from the start.
State your preferences from the outset. If you don’t want to date someone with children, then don’t beat about the bush: state it on your profile page. There’s no sense in being coy about what you want from your online experience and your honesty could well be seen as attractive.
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This will also help to make your dating experiences much better and far more successful.
Remember, if you’re convinced that you’re too old to start dating again, then you’ll likely self-sabotage your own efforts to find love. Avoid this. Other users looking at dating sites for over 40 singles are all at similar age to you and trying to enjoy dating. You can too.
Of course, be sure that you’re ready. If you’ve come out of a divorce, you might feel like diving back into the pool out of some sort of sense of injustice. Dating sites are there to help you find new love, not to try and exorcise the ghosts of a previous relationship.
Finally, be honest. Profile pictures can be misleading and if you manage to bag yourself a face-to-face date, you don’t want your match to find you unrecognizable. If you have wrinkles, have put on weight, or have gone bald, embrace it. There’s someone for everyone.
If you are unsure, you can also try to be friends with them over Facebook or try to reach them by email in a way that is outside of the dating site. This is good for confirmation that they are who they say they are, as well.
Why are dating services for the over 40 crowd working and on the rise?
You don’t need to see the popularity of dating for people over 40 on social media sites like Facebook to know that more people are enjoying online dating. Millennials in their forties have found sites and apps like OkCupid, Match.com, EHarmony, and even Tinder are the best way to date.
Of course, there are sites which help make these kinds of online dating service experiences more niche. For example, you could try Coffee Meets Bagel or Zoosk for niche dating opportunities with the 40+ crowd.
Part of what makes them so attractive is the fact that you can date online from the comfort of your own home. With Covid on the rise and such a threat, dating with a mobile app or on a website not only feels convenient, it’s safer too.
For anyone who is older, regardless of whether you want to find love, friendship, or a middle age romance that is flexible, online dating is the place to go. A good online dating service will help you to meet the person you can love.
You will meet a lot of millennials and people from all walks of life, including LGBT communities and others. These sites are great for making friends and finding out new things about yourself as well.
Thanks to advanced algorithms that pay attention to personality tests you fill out, as well as what you put into your user profile, finding a significant other to fall in love with has never been as exciting or as successful! Try the best over 40 dating sites and find true love!
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ummuthmaanx · 4 years
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Over 100 QUESTIONS to ask a POTENTIAL💍
‎بسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْم
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*Some of these a slightly repetitive; asking the same question but from a different angle so pick and choose!
*Please please please avoid asking a bunch of these in one message/conversation as if it’s an interview. Think about what questions you’d like to ask and bring them up as a conversation.
*Ask questions that you can answer yourself; in most cases the individual will bounce them back at you anyway.
*Be sincere and ask Allah’s assistance in this pursuit
*Be considerate! Some questions might be a little more sensitive than others; YES you have a right to ask questions and find out what you need to know but careful with your approach with some of these questions.
May Allah bless you with a righteous spouse and make you from those who aid one another in attaining the pleasure of Allah.
Any benefit you have taken from this was from Allah alone, and anything incorrect was from myself and shaytaan, and Allah ﷻ is free from it.
Family:
What’s your family dynamic?
What’s your relationship like with both your parents?
Are both your parents practicing?
How would your siblings describe you?
How would your parents describe you?
Would you consider yourself family oriented?
Is it important to you that your family approve of your potential wife? How would you proceed if they didn't?
What do your parents look for in a potential wife for you?
(Do they have a preference when it comes to tribes?)
Marriage:
How long have you been looking to get married?
Why do you want to get married/get married now?
What are your expectations of your spouse and married life?
What sort of cooking are you expecting from you wife?
What are 3 things you fear about marriage?
What have you learned from your family that you do or do not want to incorporate into your marriage?
What are 3 things you wouldn’t be willing to negotiate/compromise on for marriage?
Tell me 5 qualities you possess that you think would make you an ideal husband.
Have you studied the rights to the husband and wife?
Have you studied the fiqh of family/women?
^These things are VERY important. Make sure you study these topics before marriage and make sure the person you choose to marry has too! If you need help finding where to study this, feel free to contact the email address at the bottom.
What benefits do you think marriage will bring into your life at this current point?
What’s your timeline in terms of getting married?
Would you still want to live in your area/city after marriage?
When there’s a dispute with your wife, how would you try and resolve it?
How would you want your wife to motivate you to do better regarding seeking knowledge and how would you motivate her?
What kind of things (speech or action) do you see yourself doing to please your wife?
Describe what your ideal date with your wife would look like.
^The two above questions should give you an idea of what their love language is.
No doubt this is something ultimately in the hands of Allah, but ideally how many kids would you like to have?
How soon after marriage would you like to start a family?
What’s your opinion on contraception?
What is the best advice about marriage you’ve got/heard, and what is the worst?
What do you consider the best methods when raising children?
What’s your opinion on using physical discipline when raising children? Do you believe it works?
What do you think are valid reasons for divorce?
If your spouse has a different way of processing their emotions than you, how would you go about handling that problem?
Do you think marriage should lean towards friendship or shyness? (what sort of transparency should be there?)
Do you think the husband and wife should both maintain a healthy weight in order to keep each other happy is that not too important?
What’s your understanding of gheerah in regards to your wife? How would you express it?
^Sisters, if you have male teachers (for islamic studies/qur’an), make it clear NOW. If he has a problem with it and you only tell him once he’s your husband, there’s not much you’d be able to do :)
Deen:
Do you currently attend any regular lessons? With who/where?
Have you previously studied any books/currently studying any? If yes, which ones and with what teachers?
^It’s VERY important to know what people the individual trusts enough to take knowledge from; this will tell you his creed, his mannerisms and principles. And little tip ladies, if he’s not someone that prioritises the Qur’aan and sunnah, then don’t waste your time.
What motivates you in terms of seeking knowledge?
How long have you been practicing?
What was your turning point?/How did you start practicing?
How do you deal with low imaan?
What’s one sunnah you would like to implement but have difficulty doing so?
No son of Adam is free from imperfections, what’s one thing within your character that you’re sincerely trying to rectify for the sake of Allah?
Do you attend all the five prayers in congregation?
Do you struggle with music/watching movies and shows?
What’s your relationship like with the Qur’an? How regular do you read?
Are you currently memorising the Qur’an with a teacher?
^If he says he’s memorising but hasn’t got a teacher, I wouldn’t take that too seriously.
Have you completed the memorisation of the Qur’an?
Do you have an aim to seek knowledge in muslim lands? If so, in what countries and how soon do you plan to move?
Do you have an aim to make hijrah from the west? If so, where to and how soon?
Do you follow a particular school of thought? If yes, which one?
What’s your opinion on student loans to pay for uni?
Do you take the opinion that the niqaab is obligatory?
Would you want/allow your wife to wear the niqaab? Or is the obligation of jilbaab sufficient? Or do you believe a headscarf and abaya is sufficient?
Would you want/allow your wife to wear any amount of makeup - small or large, noticeable or otherwise - in public? I.e infront of non mahram men.
The following questions are things that you shouldn’t ask, but you should look for in a marriage meeting:
Does he take from the sunnah of growing the beard?
Does he take from the sunnah of garments above the ankle?
Is he someone that takes care of himself (does he look scruffy?) - look at the clothes he’s wearing, his shoes, are his nails too long?
Work/studies:
What have you completed of work and study over the last 5 years?
Are you currently employed? What is your job?
What’s your work schedule like?
Are you currently studying? What do you study?
Do you have plans to work in the field you are studying or do something completely different?
Financial:
*Some of you might find some of the following questions too awkward to ask, or maybe even inappropriate - but just a reminder to you ladies, if you’re getting to know a brother for MARRIAGE, not only do you have the right to know the answer to all of these but most are absolutely NECESSARY. Just firm a little bit of awkwardness to avoid a lifetime of regret.
What does being ‘financially stable’ mean to you?
Do you believe that you are currently financially ready for marriage?
Are you good at saving? And do you currently have savings?
Do you feel like you would be able to cover the costs of housing/living by the time you plan to marry?
Are you open to living outside of (whatever city you’re in) or would you like to stay within  (whatever city you’re in)?
If you are open to it, have you thought about any specific places?
Roughly, how much is your monthly salary?
What’s your take on a husband being the only one providing for the family? Do you think if your wife’s working the living costs should be split 50/50?
Do yo believe it’s necessary for the husband and wife to know how much money each person has spent and what they’re spending on?
What are your views/opinions on borrowing money fro others whether it be family, friends or other sources?
How much would you be willing to spend on a wedding if it was decided to have one?
Culture:
What role does culture play in your life?
Would you consider yourself a cultural person?
Do you speak and understand … (i.e Somali)
In … culture (i.e Somali) it’s common to intermingle with cousins or extended families, is this something you do?
Is going back to … (i.e Somalia) something important to you? If yes Why?
What expectations do you have of your wife in terms of culture? (i.e do you expect your wife to practice certain things in your culture that are important to you)
Is culture one of your priorities when raising your kids? Is it important that you teach them about their roots and instill your culture in them?
What’s your view regarding interracial marriages, would you be okay with your daughter/son marrying outside of your ethnicity?
Personal:
What are your current goals in life and how are you currently working to achieve them?
Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
How important is travelling to you?
Have you travelled any where before? If yes, where?
How would you describe your character?
What is your definition of success?
Do you speak any other languages apart from English fluently? If yes, what languages?
What do you enjoy doing in your spare time?
What are some of your pet peeves?
Tell me 3 interesting facts about yourself.
Are your companions practicing?
Who do you currently live with?
How quick are you to anger, what triggers it for you and how do you express your anger?
What are you like when you get upset? (silent treatment, throw things, punch the wall, walk away, leave the house etc)
What traits of yours would you change for self-betterment?
Would you say you’re someone that struggles to forgive others when you’ve been hurt? How much time would usually pass before you forgive?
What household chores are you used to doing?
Where do you stand with the issue of polygamy? Do you honestly see yourself taking a second wife in the future?
What are your thoughts on your wife putting on the nikkah contract that you cannot take a second wife?
Do you have any serious health issues?
Do you suffer from any mental health issues?
Have you ever been afflicted with black magic, jinn possession etc?
Do you have a criminal record that will majorly effect your future/your family’s future?
^It’s important that you understand that you have a right to know if the brother has a serious criminal record; but you don’t have the right to know details and what the crime was. At the end of the day, not only was it something against the law of the country but it was mostly likely also a sin and it is not befitting for the muslim to uncover the veil that Allah has placed for them once they repent from a sin. So avoid asking what the crime was because this may not even be permissible for you to do. Also, notice I’ve put ‘majorly effect your future’ in the question - if the individual has a criminal record for something minor that will not affect him in the slightest, is it really necessary for you to know before marriage?
For any questions or advice, you can contact - [email protected]
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Ways To Make Your Marriage Stronger And Happier
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Couples who are in love have a strong desire to make their relationship better and happier. They don't want to settle for anything less than the best. Maybe it's because they know that marriage is one of the most important decisions they will ever make, but also maybe it's because we live in a society where divorce is so common and people feel like if there isn't instant happiness, then nothing can change. This blog will provide tips on how you can improve your marriage and start feeling closer to your spouse again! Couples counseling is the best solution to a happier and stronger marriage. Couples counseling can be difficult sometimes, but it's usually worth it because...(couple gives any number of reasons)
Learn how to communicate better.
If you're struggling with your relationship, the best thing to do is have a heart on heart talk. One of the most powerful benefits of couples counseling is that it provides a neutral platform from which partners can openly discuss their feelings and explore solutions to issues before they reach critical mass and blow up in someone's face. 
Find new ways to be romantic. 
Some ways to be romantic are going out for a drive, cooking a meal together and eating together, being affectionate with each other throughout the day. Couples Counseling allows couples to practice constructive communication and learn about how our relationship styles affect the experience of the other.
Know what you're doing wrong and how to fix it
Seek out a professional to come up with a plan to help save your relationship. Go for regular visits with a good counselor and talk through the challenges. You'll find the solutions you need, find increased understanding of each other, figure out how to get back on track and communicate more than ever before.
Couple counseling is great because it can help you find the root cause of all that goes wrong in your marriage or partnership and prevent this from happening in future relationships. Start going for regular visits with a good counselor, do some couple's problem solving exercises together and talk through what's often assumed but never spoken about - deep emotional feelings that are usually expressed poorly or not at all during an argument that leads to silence instead. 
The main goal of the couple counseling 
Some couples who come to us have been unhappy for a long time. A goal of the couple counseling is to help people become aware of cycles in their relationship, communication strategies, and healing past wounds that hold them back from having the marriage they want. It's not uncommon that relationships start with over-communication about what's wrong and then transition into under-communication since there are too many negative feelings built up between partners. 
Once you go down this path it becomes difficult to turn it around. Luckily treatment works very well most of the time! There are risks though so be sure you two want kids before starting counseling because couples do sometimes decide during treatment not to have children in order to stay together better.
Marriage Counselor
50 Tice Blvd Suite 340, Woodcliff Lake, NJ 07677
+12033131208
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Does a suspended license affect insurance?
Does a suspended license affect insurance? . When it comes to just having a license, you’re dealing with a broken off auto insurance policy that has only *little* coverage for most of the costs associated with getting licenses, then there’s a cost associated with having an auto insurance policy and then if those aren’t covered, that comes back to just a fine print, no insurance to a suspension of license, or, the suspension may either be temporary or have to be cancelled for non financial reasons. The problem is, some people are able to get temporary auto insurance, and their suspension is simply too long and their insurance doesn’t cover what they originally purchased. When you’re an entrepreneur, there is a chance you can get a suspended license, and when you’re also a high-level leader in insurance marketing, there is a chance your license isn’t that long. Once you’re not working for a corporation, if you can�.
Do I need insurance if my license is suspended?
Do I need insurance if my license is suspended?If I am in another state and my vehicle is registered in the state I am in, and I am on my way out, are my licenses suspended?When I move to New York, should I get a license plate?Can I use my cell phone while I am not driving?If I am driving at night, can I just cancel my insurance? New York auto insurance lapse accounts are generally used to make changes in your insurance or stop your policy from renewing. There are also some conditions or limits you can’t meet, and most of the time, no. It will be illegal to drive while being stopped and you will be asked to pay a $100 reinstatement fee for the first time. If you get into an accident while driving, you will be cited. It will cost you, the other driver’s insurance company, and the other party for the following: If you don’t have your own insurance, the driver will continue to be a burden to their.
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A car insurance company can report the details of an accident or ticket to the licensing agency that can lead to a suspension. However, only the government licensing agency or a court can suspend a driver’s license. If you are in a car accident and you are not able to obtain car insurance then an agency will contact you to find you an insurer to fill out the ticket. The reason for a ticket usually depends on the nature of the accident. You are not required to have it because of your driver’s licence. If you want to be able to file your new car insurance you will be asked to buy a new car insurance policy if you do not have insurance already. If you have not already purchased a new car insurance policy then you may not want to buy it, just need to decide what type of car insurance would best suit you. However, if you have an old model car you should expect a large insurance premium in its first year. However, if you buy a car then you will be paying a higher premium than if you bought the car in a few years. In 2017 a total of 909 car accidents resulted in injuries, including five of the six in which the driver was injured..
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50 Type of Kisses Prompt :D #12 - Sneaking away to a hidden corner to share a secretive kiss!
This worked well with the Valentine’s Day one-shot I was working on so here you go! Some Prielle work to brighten everyone’s day!
So...Tag List: @witchofinterest @foxesandmagic
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February was Brielle’s favorite month. Or, rather, was herfavorite month. It was when she was born. It was the tail end of winter, where everythingwas still cold, but warming up, the bobbles of flowers in bloom, close tobringing on a warm spring that’d eventually bring into an even hotter summer. Shealso, surprisingly, enjoyed Valentine’s Day. Loved it, really.
Part of her, a very vain part of her, enjoyed it because she knew she’dreceive a lot of attention for it. Her birthday was very close to Valentine’sDay, a few days before and usually gave her the warranted attention shedeserved. Back on Earth, in her old life, her parents used to send her flowers.Brielle always knew it was from them, but would go about saying it was fromsomeone who admired her, and she’d playfully tease all the boys in her class,working to figure out who may have reciprocated her feelings.
It was cruel, in a way, she knew that now. But back then, back when allshe had to worry about was her grades, her friends, and whether or not herfather as going to be his normal self when she returned home. Now that shelived in Narnia…Valentine’s Day wasn’t something she looked forward to as much.Save for her birthday, her birthday was all about her.
But Valentine’s Day was something she and the Pevensies—or, rather, Susanand Lucy—had introduced to the kingdom and country shortly after their firstfew years in Narnia. And it made her realize how silly it was. Aa day where youtold someone in your life you loved them, and celebrated it on that day only? Or,rather, it was just a reminder to her how lonely she truly was in Narnia.
Susan had been on the verge of marriage, Lucy saw the day as a fondnessfor all her friends; magical creatures and all. Edmund—much to his chagrin—had moreprincesses and girls after him, showing how much they would like to have beencourted by the Just King. Peter…had Diane. And Brielle was alone.
In their old lives, in the Golden Age of Narnia, they were all happy,courting or married. In their life in Narnia now, the only change was thatSusan had Caspian—if she’d admit it, while everything else fell the same. Lucy sawthe day to care for her friends, Edmund had more than enough girls flitteringafter him, and Brielle was alone. She wouldn’t think about Peter and Diane,because Peter still had Diane.
She knew that, from the way Valentine’s Day came closer, he would secludehimself. Would spend more time in his quarters. Sure, he’d show himself at the Valentine’sBall—which was now a Narnian custom—but the smile on his face for most of the nightwould be fake. Any attention he paid to the princesses and young queens wouldbe out of politeness rather than any sort of intimacy that’d come close. Foranyone who knew of High King Peter and High Queen Diane knew that theiranniversary of fell upon Valentine’s Day.
Diane’s presence was felt throughout Narnia when Valentine’s Dayarrived.
Brielle had seen them on their last Valentines’s day together, before theirill-fated trip into the woods to hunt down the White Stag. She’d seen themstanding together in the foyer of Cair Paravel, arms wrapped protectivelyagainst eeach other. She was his, and they were in love. He whispered somethingto her that made her smile grandly, the smile that had managed to capture thenation. She laughed softly and kissed him. He was hers, and they were in love.They were perfect fore each other. She was beautiful and gentle yet strongwhile he was the one who would protect her when the time came but stepped backwhen it was her time to rule.
It was beautiful.
It was heartbreaking.
Everyone was moving on, and Brielle was being left behind.
She watched the only person she’d grown to seriously care about, loveanother woman.
Then they’d all been transported back to their home world. Went back totheir own lives. Brielle was separated from the Pevensies for that year, beforebumping into them at the train station when their next term was to start upagain. And it’d had been like nothing changed. They fell back into their oldhabits, their old ways of relating to each other.
And Peter, while slowly forgetting about Diane, still fell back into hisold ways, of Valentine’s Day being a day he couldn’t quite face. Just asBrielle couldn’t.
But that didn’t mean she’d leave her best friend in the lurch when shehad so much to do so prepare the Telmarine castle for the ball that was to beheld. The ballroom had to be decorated, invitations had to go out, music had tobe chosen, food, the works. And she did it all with a smile, despite feelinghollow inside.
The same hollow smile she saw mirrored on Peter’s face as he went withSusan to take as many duties to make the night for others. It was a big event, evenbigger now that Telmar was working to make its way back in good favor underCaspian’s rule since Miraz’s end.
But even those with the most will-power can only handle so much. Sowhen Brielle saw her chance to breakaway from the festivities, she took herchance. The skirts of her dress skimmed the floor as she made a quick retreatfrom the ballroom, trying not to laugh all the while Caspian looked bewildered atthe fanfare going on around him that Susan and Lucy tried to explain—and Edmundworked to save him from.
She’d only just stepped out from the ballroom when a hand grasped herelbow and directed her away at a quick pace. Brielle looked up to see Peter ather side, glancing over his shoulder before taking them into a darkened corner.
“What are you doing?” She asked.
“I’m trying to hide from Susan’s wrath for not helping and Lucy’s excitementfor the whole day,” Peter replied. “I thought I’d save you because you wereable to get away.” He gave her a small smile. “Even if only for a little while.”
“I’m sure they’ll sick Lucy on you to find you sooner than you’d think,”Brielle replied. “So, you better get moving before any of the servants see us.”She poked her head out from around the corner, searching the hallways as shedid so. In the distance, she could hear the rattling of a cart of food headedtowards the ballroom, a closing door in the opposite end. Everyone was getting thecastle ready for…what could be a good night, could be a bad one as well. “Peter?”
He’d produced a bouquet of flowers she hadn’t noticed before.
Brielle blinked, tipped her head as she looked at the flowers, gentlyplaced her palms along the side of the vase and lifted it up, delicatelypressing her nose into the bulb closest to her. Roses. Fresh; the scent of themimmediately transported her back to Essex, back to when the giggles of her andher friends filled her ears and her heart fluttered as she tried to figure outwho was the one who’d sent them to her.
She turned it in her hands, a small smile coming to her lips as shebreathed them in again.
She didn’t have to look at the note to know what it said.
Nevertheless, she picked it up and turned it over in her hand.
There aresome traditions that need to be kept up.
-Peter
She smiled.
“Where’d you get these?” She asked. “Telmar is practically filled withstone.”
“I have my ways,” Peter replied mysteriously. He reached up and gentlyprodded the roses with his fingertips. “Diane always said I was good at surprisingher.” He grimaced at the same time Brielle looked away. “I’m sorry. I shouldhave…”
“It’s okay,” Brielle replied. She set the flowers down. “It’s youranniversary after all.”
“I almost didn’t remember this time.”
“You’ll never forget her, Peter. No one will.” Another stab of pain. Briellequickly changed the subject. “Now, which courter would have given this to me thisyear?” She asked. “Maybe…someone from Calormen or a Duke…?”
“I’m sure you’ll come up with something.”
“Always better than the truth.” It was Brielle’s turn to grimace. Herturn to apologize.
Peter took it in stride, lifting his hand to stop the apology fromforth coming. Instead, he pressed his palm against her cheek. Gently stroked theskin with his thumb, leaned in to press a gentle kiss to her lips.
Brielle forgot about everything then, abouthow they were to be kept a secret. She only focused on his lips and how shefelt that familiar, excited thrill shoot through her body the moment she felt themagainst hers. How they seamlessly fit against hers, perfect. Focused on how hisbody felt against hers when he moved closer, the kiss deepening, his lipsmassaging against hers. He tasted like vanilla ice cream—a clear taste test ofwhat was to be served that night for dessert. His hand ran into her hair, herfingers traced over her jaw line. She mimicked his movement from before,stroked her thumb across the curve of his chin, making him gasp and leanforward, his teeth gently tugging on her lower lip, making Brielle gasp inreturn.
Then he pulled back, allowing the kiss tolinger, his lips leaving hers slowly.  Shecould practically feel the guilt radiating off him, his worries over holding Diane’smemory alive. Just as she knew he possibly felt the sorrow radiating off her.Brielle smiled gently, nodded just lightly before his lips connected with hersagain.
The world around them falling away until theyhad to part in finality, slipping out of the darkened corner so that they’dcontinue to hold up the tradition for that day; where he’d honored his latewife’s memory and she’d giggle with Susan and Lucy over who could have possiblysent her flowers.
A tether holding them together.
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Lodging is one of the largest costs for anyone having a wedding on Maui, but accommodation costs are one of the easiest to cut without suffering. Here are a few tips:
Rather than spending $400-$500 per night at a resort, rent a condo. There are lots of vacation rental websites where you can easily find a condo in the area you want to have your wedding. You can often get a condo equal to the quality of one of the resorts at two thirds to half the price. Some additional savings a condo can provide versus a resort is: no daily parking fee, which can be up to $30 per day. In addition, condos often have beach chairs, coolers and fun things like boogie boards you can use for free which can add up to additional savings rather than purchasing them on your own or renting them.
I understand you want to go to stay at a resort, you're in Maui and you want to live it up. Just stay in a condo for the largest portion of time and stay at the resort for a couple of days after your ceremony for your honeymoon. This way you have the savings you want and feel like you had a fun and luxurious Maui vacation too.
Slash your Food Expenses
One of the best ways to save 50% or more on your food bill while on Maui is to rent a condo and cook your own meals. Condos have great barbeque areas and if you get the right condo, you can enjoy the epic view and sunset as you sip your Maui Mai Tai and eat your home cooked dinner. Obviously you are going to go out to dinner frequently, but there is no sense in paying $10-$20 per person for a resort breakfast every morning when you can make it for $3 at your condo.
Whatever you do, don't compromise quality for the most important part of your wedding, the actual ceremony. You want to have quality professionals to work with and cutting cost in your wedding day really shows through in the quality of your photography and floral especially. You traveled a minimum of 2400 miles to get to Maui to have an amazing wedding and you can't expect to get quality for the cost of one plane ticket. Cut cost in other places to get the wedding you want. Because the vendors you really want to work with usually don't discount their services. The best ones never do!
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