akumatized villain: Give up Chat Noir! I have your girl!
Chat: She’s not my girl.
Villain: what?
Marinette, who isn’t dating him: what :(
Chat: She’s her own girl, she don’t belong to nobody.💅
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Fdkaldhdkdk help me. TVLine why did you phrase it like this.
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Currently on a 9 hour road trip to our home town and it's getting too dark for my mum to read her book so she has started reading aziracrow fanfiction on her phone. Now over to Jeremy with the weather.
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Tonight’s sunset said aroace rights!!
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my gay agenda is mentioning byler in everything. english? wrote literal byler fanfiction in class and for homework involving parallels talked about how byler is paralleled to canon couples. rs title page? coloured in green, blue and yellow. on the street? constantly chanting bylerbylerbylerbyler under my breath, causing 431 car crashes, of which 61 were fatal.
hotel? trivago
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The timing of the bird too. Royalty 😂
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I love that nona's narration immediately they/thems Naberius!Ianthe before they even meet - before the video feed has even started working! Nona hears that voice and immediately her gender senses start tingling
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so my mom's coworker's son was struggling a lot with zoom classes because he has ADHD, relatable, and my mom was talking to her coworker about this and i guess he said, "yeah i would have to watch him to make sure he was still in class instead of playing minecraft." and instead of having a normal reaction, my mom said, "oh! so then you know Dream?"
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what to do when your brother finally flies home? make him watch drag race france with you <3
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As a reminder that good exists out there, a coworker recently confessed to me that he found out his child is questioning their identity (kid's gender redacted for this post). The kid is keeping it from him, so he can't say anything to them or show that he knows, but he's doing his best to get mentally prepared and educated so that he'll be ready whenever his kid does feel comfortable enough come to him.
For context, this guy is a big, bulky middle aged dude who loves sports and typical outdoor "manly" activities. As his coworker and friend, I know he's a kind and sweet teddy bear of a person, but his kid probably views him as a stern, authoritarian figure, the way most teenagers view their parents. His family lives in a conservative area, so I'm sure between that, their dad's looks and interests, and the fact that their dad is a Figure of Authority, the kid is worried that they won't be accepted.
But you know what? When he found out about his kid, the first thing he did was reach out to his closest queer friend and ask for resources for parents of questioning children. His biggest fears are that his kid will be bullied or discriminated against and won't feel comfortable enough to be themself. His second action was to find himself a mentor in another parent who went the same situation (kid coming out in a conservative town). The other person is preparing him for some of the struggles his kid may face and the fights he may need to take on as a parent to make sure his kid is safe and treated well.
Something I want to emphasize for people focused on language as the primary method of allyship is that when we spoke, he used some outdated terms and thoughts about gender and sexuality. That does not make him bad. These were the terms and thinking used about questioning teenagers when he was growing up and he never needed to learn more current ones. But now that he does have that need, he's throwing himself in head first because that's his kid and he's darn well going to make sure that his kid feels welcomed and has a safe place to be themselves even if they never come out to him.
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Today my mum was like "I heard your roommate got her hormones. Can you send me the DIY links so I can share them with one of my students? She's 19 so it's all above board."
What an ally.
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Hozier might just be the only cishet man still creating art
*watches eat your young music video*
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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".
Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"
And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".
Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.
At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.
So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!
Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!
Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!
Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.
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