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I pissed off both QueerAutism and QueerADHD with a lot of fucking pro endos.
Funny how they always wanna not understand a DNI lmao
People like that really need to just really get off others pages and bugger off. You can’t have a fucking trauma disorder without trauma.
But I’m spreading misinformation.
I’m a huge fan of attention but this attention is annoying as hell.
Make sure to block them. I’m tired of proendos wanting to reblog my shit. Like I fucking told you I read it as I see it.
No fucking system is natural. You can’t be a natural fucking system because it requires trauma and trauma isn’t deserved but let me wave my misinformation around more when it’s my own goddamn opinion.
Get off my dick, goddamn.
Bunch of fuckin mosquitoes. I don’t want that. No still water here. Shoo.
#anti endo#did system#endos dni#system#osddid#traumagenic system#actually did#endos not for you#actually traumagenic#did plural#did plurality#osdd plural#osdd plurality#anti-endo-haven-vent
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Traumagenic-only community blogs : a masterlist
For anyone who feels uncomfortable having to share community spaces with endogenic systems, a masterlist might useful.
If you know of other blogs, let us know and we'll had them to the list !
Last updated on: 14.04.2024
Culture
@pluralcultureis
@polyfragcultureis
@narccultureis
Community
@sys-polls
@anti-endo-safe-space
@system-hottakes
@tales-from-systok
@tales-from-sysblr
@tales-from-syscord
@demonized-infodumps
@anti-endo-haven
Vent
@sys-confessions
@antiendovents
@system-vent
@fictive-confesses
Positivity
@cdd-joy
@positivitycombopack
@syspositivity
Templates, userboxes and flags
@crows-templets
@zero-templates
@electricalstemplates
@sysboxes
@systemuserboxes
@antiendo-sysboxes
@systemtermz
@antiendosystemterms
@flagsandtags
@hydra-creates
@sysgraphics
@obscure-introject-sources
@system-userbox-generator
@cdd-system-terms
Resources
@atlas-duo
@thesyscode
A very special thanks to @the-hydra-sys who helped us so much in making this masterlist.
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Introduction!
This blog is intentionally made for RAMCOA/OEA systems who want a community! All posts will feature RAMCOA/Programming warnings unless stated otherwise.
We will talk about our own experiences with programs and RAMCOA as well as on how it affects our daily life!
Others are free to send asks talking about their own experiences, ask questions, talk, or do anything of the sort!
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About the Blog Owner!
We are an anti-endo and anti non-traumagenic TBMC-DID system that has NPD, HPD, BPD, and is autistic (still to our denial).
Our main blog is @shining-star-system! We have another side blog which is @anti-endo-haven!
Posts will not be signed off here as it will be referring to us as a whole!
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What Can We Do Here?
Vent
Rant
Info dump
Ask questions (I can decline to answer!)
Talk about hyperfixations
Tell us about your experiences
Submit posts
Talk to us
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Venting Rules!
Please trigger warn things properly! If you don’t know what the trigger warning is, give me a brief about what you’re going into!
You can vent about anything! This is also going to be a safe place but is more related to RAMCOA systems/survivors!
For those that don’t want to see the vents, tags are below on what to avoid!
crystaled heart vent
crystaled heart vents
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Rules for Questions
Like on our other side blog, you can ask anything within reason.
We are allowed to decline to answer something, especially if it feels like it can be a danger to us to comment on!
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Other Rules
If you try and fake claim someone because of their experiences, get the fuck off my blog. It is a safe space here. I won’t tolerate it. Everyone is different.
As long as the rules above are followed, I do not mind what happens! I CAN add more rules as needed!
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DNI LIST
Common DNI
Endos
Pro endos
Non-traumagenic systems
Trans-IDs (transRAMCOA, transOEA, transProgrammed, transProgrammer)
NONE OF YOU ARE WELCOME HERE
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Sign Offs!
You can have sign offs! Just let me know if you want one added to the list!
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Claimed Sign Offs!
🐾mind / #🐾mind
🩷 / #🩷
🗂️ / #🗂️
The Backrooms Catalogue System / #The Backrooms Catalogue System
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I’d Like Something Added to the Pinned Post!
Feel free to send us a message or an ask about what you’d like added! We don’t mind!
#ramcoa survivor#ramcoa#hc did#anti endo#system#ramcoa system#tw ramcoa#programming survivor#programmed system#did system#actually did#osddid#did osdd#osdd#actually osdd#osdd system#tbmc#tbmc survivor#tbmc did#tw ramcoa mention#tw programming#tw programming mention#tw tbmc#did plurality#did plural#osdd plurality#osdd plural#traumagenic did
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obvi venting
we hate how much endos will leech off of osddid & traumagenic systems and then will turn around and talk about how fake the actual disorder itself is.
like what the fuck do you MEAN "so called trauma" how can you claim to be disordered and sink so fucking low.
if you said "it's because they're not disordered/are in denial" DING DING DING WHAT DO THEY WIN JEFF
how about some safe spaces where endos are annihilated out of existence
yeah. It's so fucking frustrating, I hate how endos treat this disorder, how they talk about it and how they pretend to ask it. Like yeah, some of them are in denial, but guess what? I was in denial about being a system and I didn't start to spread misinformation. It's no excuse. Even if the denial is about trauma, still no excuse.
Also this blogs is a safe space without endos and there's a few other blogs like @/anti-endo-safe-space , @/anti-endo-haven , @/anti-endos-unite , ect, if you're interested anon ^_^
Obviously endos aren't completely annihilated but we try our best to keep them off our blog and out of our spaces
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Endo Haven!
This is a pro endo blog, so if you’re not endo or not supportive of them please kindly leave! It’s alright if you’re neutral or avoid syscourse but please don’t bring negativity in here. This is meant to be a place to talk freely without judgement about your system otherwise we’re no better than FDC or SC.
What can you do here?
There’s a lot you can do here such as:
There’s a lot you can do here such as:
Ranting
Venting
Talking about Hyperfixations
Infodumping
Submitting Posts
Asking Questions
Talking with Us
Talking about your Experiences
The Venting Rules!
I only ask that there are proper trigger/content warnings when applicable!
You can vent about anti endos, you can vent about your day, anything about RAMCOA/OEA, absolutely anything! This is a safe space for all! If you don’t want to see the vents then feel free to block the tags endo-haven-vent and endo-haven-vents!
The Question Rules!
You can ask anything within reason! We don’t mind answering any questions at all! But if it goes past what we’re comfortable sharing we don’t have to answer! If you want to know about us check under the cut first!
You’re also free to ask questions for other anons and people to reply to, getting answers and advice is always a good thing!
Claimed SignOffs
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FAQ / About The Owner!
We are a Diagnosed RAMCOA-DID system! While we are traumagenic we support endos and all types of systems! We have been in both sides of the community for a long time and have done a lot of research with our psychiatric team and by ourselves so please don’t assume we’re just ignorant or don’t know a lot.
We will not be signing off alters that post but you are free to do so! We also won’t be sharing our main blog but you can if you’d like to. We won’t be giving out our other socials so please don’t ask, if you’re close to us you will already know them or learn them eventually!
Why did I follow you? If i’ve followed you and you haven’t followed me first then I likely found you under a pro endo tag or on another endo’s blog! I follow lots of people so I can make a bigger community and reach. If you’re anti-endo and I accidentally follow you, feel free to block me!
Promo Ping
@inclusysboxes @inclusiveplurality @pluralrights @plural-polls @systempositive @pluralitywords @pluralterms @pluralprompts @pluralpolls @pluralpedia
#pro endo#did system#osddid#did plurality#did osdd#osdd plural#osdd plurality#traumagenic#endogenic#endo safe#endogenic system#actually did
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Hi!!! I really hope you don’t mind plugs, but I have a blog for antiendos to have a safe place like how you have here!!
It’s @anti-endo-haven and rants/vents are welcome as well as just talking and questions for us if there are any!
You don’t have to post it! ❤️❤️
Stay safe out there!!
*guys a blog dropped go followwww*
#anti endo#endos dni#anti endo supporter#endos aren't real#endos fuck off#actually did#did system#actually system#actually dissociative#osdd system#traumagenic system#traumagenic#actually traumagenic#plural system#actually plural#hate using endo terms but in this case it gets attention#dissociative identity disorder#did osdd#osddid#polyfrag system#did alter#alters#system#dissociative system#sysblr#syscourse#sysconversation#syscource#syscussion
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Anti endo in plural tags
anti-endo-haven
Block and move on.
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Sorry for venting but I am so desperate for a partner system *sobs*
I don’t see it as a vent-
It’s a want, a desire so to speak. It’s understandable.
Maybe you’ll be able to have a psys someday, anon. 🫂
#chatty chat chat#anti-endo-haven-vent#I guess a vent?#I don’t see it as a vent but have the tag anyways
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[disclaimer :: all posts are designed for mobile users so apologies if something looks off!]
first and foremost i want to clarify i am not encouraging others to self-harm!!! in fact, if you encourage self harm, you can go screw off !
i know people self-harm for many reasons, and most of the time trying to convince someone to stop just won’t work, which is why i made this blog.
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this blog will include things such as ::
how to hide self harm scars
how to hide newer cuts
places to hide your blade
tips to try and stop self harming
other things to do when you get the urge to cut
a safe haven to talk with others that have the same experiences
other less harmful alternatives to cutting/burning
personal vents from me (which you’ll be able to block [see tag system])
and much more!
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THIS BLOG IS A SAFE SPACE FOR ::
✰ BPD
✰ NPD
✰ ASPD
✰ HPD
✰ SZPD
including any other demonised/romanticised disorder !
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TAGGING SYSTEM (not including basic trigger tags) [spaces between words will vary] ::
# seventys self harm safe haven = general tag on all my posts
# seventys hiding tips = tips on hiding old/new cuts and blades
# seventys quitting tips = tips to try and help you stop sh
# seventys sh distractions = other things to do when you get the urge to cut
# seventys safe haven chat = a set place for you to talk to others with the same experience/for people talking to each through asks/etc
# seventys alternatives = less harmful alternatives to cutting/burning
# seventys vents = personal vents that may be triggering
# seventys safe haven vents = for whenever someone vents in the askbox
# seventys reblogs = i reblog things
# seventys safety tips = general safety tips, from cleaning a cut to hiding things from abusers
# seventys vent art = vent art i make and post
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if you have any questions, whether they pertain to something about the blog, self harm, venting, or something entirely different then don’t be afraid to ask !!
if there’s something possibly triggering you think i should put a trigger tag on that i haven’t, please let me know and i will tag accordingly!
please, feel free to vent in the askbox! i know how good venting feels and i know what it feels like to not have anyone to vent to. however if you do vent, please follow the rules below!
try not to use any slurs, however if you have to please censor them.
cursing is fine but please don’t say the c word (c*nt) if possible as it personally makes me uncomfortable.
if possible, please put a trigger warning on possibly triggering vents.
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anti-self-diagnosis, pro-ship, pro-self-harm, anti-ASPD, tcest/incest, nsfw blog, anti-jews, anti-muslims, transphobes, homophobes, people who push their views onto otheres, anti-neopronouns, anti-tone tags, anti-alterhumans, anti-mspec gays & lesbians, t3rfs/sw3rfs/tr^rms/tr^scums, p3dophiles & their sympathizers, z00philes, r^pe-play/noncon, people who condem/“reality check” irls, anti-antis, pro-nazi, endos (did community not fnaf), anti-mental health problems, anti-spectrum, anti-autism, etcetera …
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ABOUT ME [put under cut because it’s unnecessary to read lol] ::
NAME ✰ SEVENTY / SEVEN / SVEN
PRONOUNS ✰ THEY / HE
AGE ✰ MINOR
SEXUALITY ✰ ASEXUAL / BIROMANTIC
LIKES ✰ ANIMALS, DINOSUARS, ART, WORMS-ON-A-STRING, CANDY, DETECTIVE SHOWS (FACT & FICTION), CANDY, STUFFED ANIMALS, ETC.
DISLIKES ✰ LIFE, HAVING TO BE AN ADULT, JERKS, TERFS, HAVING TO DO THINGS, DEPRESSION, ETC.
PHYSICAL HEALTH ✰ FIBROMYALGIA, HYPERMOBILITY, LOWER PAIN TOLERANCE
MENTAL HEALTH ✰ DEPRESSION, ANXIETY, ADHD, PARANOIA, OCD, SENSORY PROCESSING DISORDER (SLF-DX*), DID (SLF-DX*), AUTISM (SLF-DX*), ALEXITHYMIA (SLF-DX*), TOURETTES (SLF-DX*), DYSCALCULIA (SLF-DX*), DYSPRAXIA (SLF-DX*)
[*SLF-DX = SELF-DIAGNOSIS]
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#seventys self harm safe haven#tw self harm mentions#about me#mandatory introduction post#navigation#tagging system#safe haven#dni#vent space#lgbt friendly#mental health support#tw mention of abuse#bpd positive#npd positive#aspd positive#hpd positive#did positive#actually did#szpd positive
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Hi! Welcome to a cozy haven, made for YOU! 😁
I made this because I want to offer a place for people who feel despised in fandom to take refuge. Specifically, people who have been, are being, or even fear being dogpiled/ostracized for their art, fan interests, or association with anything accused of being ""proship"".
And to be clear right off the bat: I generally understand "proship" to just mean the belief that one can indulge in fiction about horrible things without necessarily being horrible themselves. Proship is a belief. But a lot of people accuse things of being "proship" too (for example, calling a fictional pairing "a proship" or calling the act of indulging in taboo kinks "proshipping"), because the people who attack what they perceive as "proship" believe that proship means "content that endorses pedophilia/incest/abuse/etc." and/or "supporters of those things".
And frankly, at this point, the label is useless, but I just want people to know, in no uncertain terms, that this is absolutely not an, "uwu you were criticized for being a child predator, lemme support youwuwu" blog. I especially have to make this clear because some of the people I intend to give support to do not identify as proshippers, so they might genuinely have a different interpretation of what that word means and then get the wrong idea of what I'm saying, ya know?
Anyway!
You do not have to be a proshipper or enjoy taboo fiction to send an ask. In fact, I made this with neutral- and anti-shippers in mind, because fandom bullies absolutely do not discriminate. I've seen them attack totally sfw, non-shippy art. I've seen them attack other "antis". And I know there are some people out there who are mostly in anti circles and are afraid of stepping out of line. I know there are people who do not like dead dove content and have no desire to make it, who still get attacked. People who actively go after others to appease their friends, and still get attacked. People whose first language isn't English, who get attacked for not conforming to American cultural standards.
But here, you are safe from all of that.
You do not have to out yourself. You can give as much or as little detail as you want, to keep your identity safe. And I will listen and be here for you, and try to provide links to other understanding spaces too.
Whether you want to vent about being in a sticky situation with your friend group, or want advice or new perspectives, or want to send positivity to other followers of this blog, or if you just want me to share your GoFundMe or something... I'll try to give everyone a spot!
Unfortunately, I do have to set some boundaries so that I don't hurt myself. I wish there didn't have to be any limits on how much support I can give you, but I can't emotionally handle talking people through things like a therapist would. That's why I chose to make a blog instead of opening my DMs. Asks and Answers are my sort-of middle ground. For that reason, I can't have extended conversations about this in DMs, but I will answer your asks with as much care as I can.
I want to reach out and help, I really do. But I'm just as messed up as everyone else and I need to take care of myself, or else how will I even help others? ovo
If you also have friends who will support you for who you are, I strongly encourage you to reach out to them too! My friends and loved ones have been wonderful to me when I've gone through awful times, and even when I've made genuinely bad mistakes, and I've made massive strides in self-improvement partially due to their support!
Thank you for reading, and welcome to the blog!
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Here's a set of resources for people who have been harassed online.
For proshippers, there's a server called Profiction Hub that directs to other servers, all of which are proship-friendly, but may have other rules that don't fit your needs (such as some being anti-endo and some having a maximum age cap). Only some of them have either of these rules btw. One server is even open to neutral-shippers as well.
#pinned#introduction#support#positivity#fandom#anti harassment#help#proship#antiship#neutralship#I at least hope this is welcoming to people ^^;#I'm not trying to claim to be a “safe adult” or a “fandom mom”#I simply get sad when I see people getting harassed so I wanna give them a place to talk about it#just wanna help!
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Making my own vent, again.
I really want to make a “diary” type thing but where I can post more RAMCOA related stuff and my experiences with that and how it affects my life, but I also know that it’s not entirely safe but I don’t really… care about safety if it means having people be able to also use that blog/side blog as a means of talking about their own problems with it and experiences.
But I also just want more of a place to talk about my experiences with it and be able to rant freely because there’s so much shit there and I don’t want to ruin the positivity here or have people just not enjoy anything here because of me posting things like that.
And it’s been an idea I’ve had for a while, but I just don’t know if it’s a good idea or not.
#anti endo#did system#system#endos dni#osddid#traumagenic system#actually did#endos not for you#actually traumagenic#did plural#did plurality#osdd plural#osdd plurality#tbmc did#tw ramcoa mention#tw ramcoa#ramcoa survivor#ramcoa#tbmc survivor#tbmc#tw tbmc#anti-endo-haven-vents#anti-endo-haven-vent
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tw fakeclaiming & a vent!
sometimes i feel so fake for having in sys relationships with multiple alters; all four of them are introjects & im the perennial host and perceived core (pdid) im afraid ppl will start thinking im just a faker trying to live out fantasies of being with fictional/celebrity crushes in their brain,,, if anyone has any advice on how to soothe that fear/feeling plz do let me know i hate it cause i love them sm genuinely and i dont wanna burden them with these feelings either :(
-🌈 of 🌑☁️ (if it's ok to claim those anon tags)
Just because your alters might be source connected, doesn’t make them source. They’re able to form relationships as well and that doesn’t make you fake because of it.
#🌑☁️#anti endo#did system#system#endos dni#osddid#traumagenic system#actually did#endos not for you#actually traumagenic#did plural#did plurality#osdd plural#osdd plurality#anti-endo-haven-vent#anti-endo-haven-vents#tw fakeclaiming mention#tw fakeclaiming
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I'm so tired of these pro endos and endo systems. For some reason, my home page has them there when I hardly even interact. I am so close to just going on a block rampage to any endos I see and find.
I know it may be a bit much. But my system has trauma based around endos, and many alters have split because of that stress. I needed somewhere to rant... -Comet
Yeah, the best thing that we’ve done is going on a spree of blocking endos and proendos as well as any nontraumagenic “system,” it can be pretty stressful to have to make sure everyone you’re following isn’t (pro)endo, but it’s for our own mental well-being
I wish you luck if you do go on a blocking spree. You can also filter the tags they use as well. Helps us a bit sometimes.
#anti endo#endos dni#did system#system#osddid#actually did#traumagenic system#endos not for you#actually traumagenic#did plural#did plurality#osdd plural#osdd plurality#anti-endo-haven-vent#syscourse
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Once told an endo (I didn’t know they were endo) that I was a system from MC and a RAMCOA victim so I didn’t like having DID. Which is reasonable considering I’ve almost died multiple times because of my progs and have literally been tortured. And you know what they said?
They said I was being too negative and “you’re bringing everyone in your system down. I’m sure they’d love plurality if you had a better understanding”.
Sorry I don’t think severe PTSD, suicidal tendencies and literal mind control from habitual torture is that fun. Sorry I don’t have a better understanding of that. 🙄
I fucking hate endos when they say shit like this.
Or when they say that it’s a “privilege” to have gone through it. No, asshole, it’s fucking not.
Not everyone will enjoy plurality, not everyone will find it fun when they’re dealing with programs and constant nightmares.
I’m flipping tables.
Like it’s perfectly fine to not like having DID or wishing you didn’t go through something like that. We have days where we hate it and can’t function. But endos trying to constantly think this is a “fun” disorder are so fucking wrong and I hate them for it.
#anti endo#did system#system#osddid#traumagenic system#endos dni#endos not for you#actually did#actually traumagenic#did plural#tw ramcoa mention#tw ramcoa#tw programming mention#tw programming#anti-endo-haven-vent#anti-endo-haven-vents#tw sui talk#tw torture#tw torture mention
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I want so desperately to blame everything on endos- but honestly I think the biggest thing that pisses me off is the fact that people have poisoned thinking because of endos and because of misinformed people. I just saw someone say that I'm lessening the impact of trauma just because I do something that they thought endos do. I'm not making it more palatable, I'm just having some fun.
It's not fair because I just got in a fight with my mom over something innocuous, and i'm almost crying because of it. I feel threatened by her, I feel like i'm constantly in flight or fight by living in this house. One misstep and it's fucking over for me.
So don't compare me to an endo. Don't compare any traumatized system to an endo. This disorder is seriously painful, but I don't have to suffer all the time. Next time just say you're anti-recovery, instead of anti-endo. Because that's what it feels like.
I don’t entirely know what to say but I hope that you’re okay.
It really does seem like everyone will look at systems and say “this is an endo thing” when it isn’t and will just always want to fakeclaim systems.
The endo community has taken a lot of terms away from the CDD community. And some people just use the terms that the endo community has, such as roles. Does that mean it’s an endo thing? No.
I hope everything gets better for you. You deserve happiness. 🫂
It’s also perfectly okay to enjoy being a system. You don’t have to be in misery 24/7. That will harm you so it’s good to have some fun when able.
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