I know I talk about perv jeongin A LOT but like.. imagine every time he hugs you he gets a boner <33 he has zero self control and you enable him by getting on your knees or mindlessly jerking him off whenever he needs :3
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for my whole life, before I came out, while I still was in high school, my whole life was about carving out alone time (I lived in a single wide trailer, me my three siblings my mom her boyfriend and the dude who slept on our couch. I shared a room with my two brothers until 11th grade).
I wore my headphones all the time at home, constantly listening to any music I could, I used to go to the movies weekly by myself (I did the up until I moved to buffalo), I tried to live in my own world and I was pretty successful too. I mean I hung out with friends as much as I could, but by far most of my time was in my world, just like consuming mass amounts of media to block life out.
In high school I went to a few concerts, mostly by myself and with my mom who would drive me (ty mom) but not with friends. it was cool but I did not get into it the same way I got into my CD player.
In my college years (the height of my depression, oddly enough) my friends finally started going to shows with me, and it was like a whole other world. I fucking danced and holy shit did I want to. not even with my friends, just knowing I was experiencing the same thing as them was what changed it. for the first time I was like, truly sharing my escapism with those around me, those I knew, those I loved.
it's odd, since coming out and having my life completely and entirely changed, I haven't really had the kinds of relationships or friendships I did at that time in my life. I'm so much happier in general, but in a lot of ways, I feel more isolated. I don't really go to shows that much any more, going alone is hard and the few friends I have really aren't "going out types" (for various reasons, all cool).
about 2-3 months ago I started getting into dance music for the first time in while, and more into it than nearly ever. I think it was kinda to cope with being alone in the winter, making my headphones feel like im not alone. the curse is these past months of dancing alone in my house is rapidly building up and needs release, I want so fucking badly to go out and be surrounded by sound and people and then just fucking the feeling of elation after, the cool air on my sweaty skin.
I'd like a friend to do this with, to dance and lose myself and it feels effortless. I know I need to go to shows alone to move myself forward. I know I just need to get out there and dance (and be the only masked person doing it). but it would be so much easier with a friend who wanted to as well.
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Who will find me when I finally decide to end it all?
I’ve closed myself off from those closest to me and it’s normal in their eyes. They’re not far off I choose to be alone. I’ve thought about this concept many times… who will find me when I die? Would anyone care? My family would be sad but they would move on like I was never there. They’ve had to before.
My friends barely know I exist except when things get hard and they need strength. See that’s all I am, the tough one. The strong one. The one that keeps everyone else standing… but who holds me up? I stand alone.
All these things inside my head but the only answer I have is no one. There will be no one there with me and no one to notice. Would anyone truly miss me? And what would they say? “I never saw this coming.”? “She was always so happy.”? “Why would she do this?” “She had her whole life ahead of her.”? “How could she do this to her family and friends?”
“How did nobody see this coming?”
Idk what they would say or how they would react… all I know is I will die alone.
But I again I ask… who will find me?
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Quick reminder since apparently it bears reminding in both directions: if bigoted people, closed-minded people overall, or your own internalized insecurities misinterpret a queer person’s message in a way that hurts/endangers you, yeah, it sucks, but it’s not the fault of the queer person in question, nor should it be a reason for them to silence themselves. They’re probably as hurt/pissed as you are that someone misinterpreted and misused their message to do harm.
Of course sadly there’ll still be queer people that actually DO mean harm and dismissal to other queer people – I ain’t speaking for those and it’s not the best way to ensure their and others’ wellbeing imo. I’m just saying – not all people will be like that. That’s what I want to believe. So hopefully let’s not put everyone in the same bag, keep supporting each other, WHILE allowing each other to advocate for our own visibility, without having to self-erase or self-censor to accomodate to what haters might say.
It’ll be tougher this way, maybe, because humans seem to like to draw extreme conclusions very quick, but I don’t believe there’s any better way for us all to be alright and stay alright on the long run.
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reminder to all gifmakers that your work is always a unique, valuable contribution to the community. even if someone has already giffed that scene. even if you're not 100% happy with the coloring. even if it doesn't get many notes because sometimes people only look at the 'top' posts in the tags (which are usually just the first posts on the scene after an episode drops).
frankly, the culture of expecting gifs to be made within 15 minutes of an episode airing and only reblogging posts made within that timeframe is stressful and unsustainable for creators, and it prevents people from discovering and appreciating the wonderful diversity and abundance of work that can be found here.
follow your favorite gifmakers, reblog generously, and have some compassion for people that devote their time to making beautiful things <3
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spent the last few hours looking at the r/phallo subreddit and taking in all this information is making my head spin, i think i would want to do ALT because i wouldn’t want to have a scar on my forearm but i don’t know if that would be more complicated or if i qualify for it? it’s all very confusing and all of the clinical terms confuse me a bit and i’m very tired. but i’ve learned a lot more and seeing more pictures and peoples experiences has been comforting. i was surprised at how fast some of the healing was. and i learned about medical tattooing! apparently you can get tattoos on your dick for finer details like veins and stuff so that’s very exactly because having a dick that looks more detailed is important to me if that makes sense. i’m starting to think that i would just want phallo and to not keep my pussy but i don’t know if that’s just dysphoria kicking my ass bc i do like being fucked and i haven’t ever been able to take anal, and it’s hard to know how sex would be like for me when i can’t experience it with different genitals. lots to think about
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i think the best thing someone can do to be a better ally to disabled people is to just believe other people. believe people know their own abilities and limitations and understand your own.
just. fucking listen to people when they talk about how they are feeling, because most likely theyve been feeling this way for a long time before saying anything either. trust another person to know their body better than you. they know what they can do and then please don't question it.
laziness is a myth.
don't apply your standards for your ability level (even subconsciously) onto other people. be gentle and forgiving with others and most importantly yourself.
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