#easier said than done

[smiles-advice]

🌱try not to worry about what you can't control🌱

#easier said than done #self love #self care #important reminders #positivity #mental health

[cahootings]

Boy there is nothing quite as sobering as family medical history actively unfolding around you

#looking at both sides of my family tree like. I am a time bomb!!! #i need to go back to having a chill evening and somehow just not think about things beyond my control #easier said than done

[pretty-idol-hell]

This morning I went looking for anyone also wearing the jellyfish coord to do promises with and found @millepara and @mirukiamauri!

I picked Shooting Star instead of the obvious choice Cool Star just because I wanted to see us doing the most ridiculous choreography in the most ridiculous coord. I wasn't sure if I was going to post this song, but then I realized I actually played a perfect game! My first time EVER recording a video with three rainbow hearts I think!

TSUKAMU PERFECTION!!!

#idol land pripara #i'm not the best at the rhythm honestly #i have what's called... stupid fingers #any time i'm actively paying attention i'm doomed #i have to completely turn my brain off #easier said than done #Youtube

[girleboy]

repeat 9 times and i have a novel

#easier said than done

[just-kateblr]

I was at my favorite work conference a couple of weeks ago and discovered that someone I met through the conference had transitioned. We didn't get a chance to talk there, but we connected the other day. I came out to her and we swapped stories. Where I've had gender dysphoria since I was young and learned to treat it with shame, she only realized she was trans a couple of years ago but that realization was powerful and pushed her to transition.

Her transition has been very positive, with only a few people being even remotely negative. She looks and seems wayyyy happier now than she ever did as a boy. But she gives me an example of someone who has not had a bad outcome with transition.

I've found myself reflecting on just what exactly is blocking me from moving forward. There is fear of the unknown, of course. There is no guarantee that it will go for me as well as it has gone for her. That's certainly part of the story, but it feels like there is something more. If I am honest with myself, I know I should transition. Thinking about transition and being trans takes up more headspace than I care to admit.

I've come to a different conclusion about my block. The only birthday where I've ever had a moment about my age was 30. When I hit 30, I was nowhere near the mental model that I had assumed would be my life at that age. No spouse, no kids, uncertain career path. The difference between my reality and my vision for 30 caused some moments of dissonance, which passed with the realization that I actually really liked where I was in reality. I'm pretty certain that my biggest hangup right now is that transition means letting go of my mental models of what I think my life should be. Not that things would be completely different, but I would be kidding myself if I didn't recognize that they would be different. I believe my task ahead is letting go of what I think should be and be open to the possibilities of the new. It's all so unknown, so I'm trying to figure out just how to do that. Wish me luck.

#any suggestions would be appreciated #easier said than done #me #navel gazing #trans #trans woman

[illu-sarah]

To whoever donated this to my local 2&C, THANK YOU 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 it’s gonna look great on my shelf 😌 hype hype hy

#now i have to collect the rest #easier said than done #this was only five dollars!!! #what a steal #they’re out of print after all #irl post #trigun #trigun manga #trigun fandom #secondhand shopping #secondhand books

[onewhale]

I have a thought recently

To train my comic skill and structure, I would like to cooperate with the authors of a03 or other web to visualize their short novels (bc I am very bad at writing…

Not like a adapted movie, it will be 100% as same as novel (no one would like their baby to be changed )

based on above, this work become very difficult. Authors need to like my art style, my typesetting and my personality. It will take a lot of time to discuss the details. Ummm…

At this stage, I'd better make my original plans first.

More haste, less speed_(:_」∠)_

#soliloquize #easier said than done #I still train my writing

[postsecretsalone]

#yup #postsecret #you hurt me #time for me to move on #amen #let’s go #and #let it go #it’s time #postsecrets #love #hurt #moving on #letting go #easier said than done #post secret #life #let go #time to move on

[mmmn-thirsty-for-vinegar]

On today's episode of "My Severe Depression Causes Me to Hallucinate Some Creepy Shit"

#i need to quit forgetting to take my meds #easier said than done #vinegar speaks

[vickyis-o]

Expectations spring from desires. And as Buddha said, end of desire is end of sorrow.

So best way is to expect a little less and accept a little more if things are beyond your control.

Learn acceptance. Learn to accept life. It’ll make your path easier.

#easier said than done #love #hopeless romantic #quote #buddha

[lettherebemonsters]

I'm hoping I can get back on tonight! Feeling a heck of a lot better than yesterday and finally the rain hit so all the pollen is washing away.

#rave to the grave (out of character) #Cleaning my room and organizing it since it looks like a Rex took a hot shit in it #easier said than done

[sagehaubitze]

sometimes I wonder and get a little scared that if I fell off the face of the internet, no one would think about me, I'd cease to exist. the internet is bad about having no object permanence after all (not just the internet, but in-person communities too in my experience)

but then I remember that I wonder about people I used to talk to on AIM, yahoo messenger, beseen chatrooms, in the 90s.. I think about them all the time and hope they're still out there doing okay.

#text #the fear is probably unjustified #in communities I've probably just unfortunately surrounded myself with shitty people who don't care #so the real challenge is interacting with people who value you and you also value #both in person and online #easier said than done

[toothblushes]

what's the drawing equivalent of clenching your jaw? because I think that's one of my biggest problems lol

#I also should probably stop clenching my jaw #and the rest of my body lol #easier said than done #💬

[lucaskindagay]

GUYS I GOT INTO UNI I'M A MUSIC STUDENT

#music #lucatalks #I'm slaying tbh #just need to... try and not die in the process of leading home #easier said than done

[female-malice]

As adults, we'll never be able to experience the peace of childhood again. And anything that claims to offer us that peace is a gimmick. Life is full of so many wonderful new feelings and experiences. But there's also gimmicks and traps that manipulate strong emotions like nostalgia. It's better to seek out new experiences than to fixate on the blissful ignorance of childhood.

#easier said than done #but still

[kakujis]

i will get a job and i will move out amen

#easier said than done #i also have a lot of stuff to move and im going to finally start posting a lot of my stuff online 2 sell #i just want to leave i have a breakdown at home everyday and then it bleeds into my relationships #i told my sister every night i just sob by mysrlf cus i have no one to talk to at home #i wish my sisters didnt move out #pibby rants