okay ur ask is open and u dont bite but like what if i wanted u too like ??? u didnt even ask? hello? why didnt u ask ebfore saying u dont bite? in 2024 biting just isnt allowed? ok my food goes UNBITTEN and gets SWALLOWED HOLE
TT: Yes that is totally what I said. Just because I dont bite doesnt mean you dont have to as well, kinda copycat behavior if you asked me.
TT: Youre implying that I should be the one to bite your food? What am I, the bird mother awaiting to feed her hatchlings with the newest batch of worms
TT: In any case, what if I wanted to start biting. What if prompted enough I actually did bite. What if I lied about it.
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CW: child abuse, abuse of parent by child, victim blaming (maybe)
AITA for potentially abusing my parents?
i am 15, turning 16, and non-binary (they/it)
my parents are about 47 (mom) and 49 (dad)
my mom has depression + anxiety
my dad has ADHD + autism + depression
i have ADHD + social anxiety + autism + depression
i get angry quite easily, i often get into arguments with my parents. this causes them to get angry at me
because of my autism (probably) (i am autistic, just not entirely sure if it’s an autistic thing), i am not good at regulating my tone of voice, so it often sounds like i’m mean. this causes my parents to get angry at me.
my parents are often (usually, even) kind to me. they comfort me when i’m sad, sometimes help me when the other one hurts me (emotionally). it’s important to know that they’re not Disney villains.
on the other hand, when they get angry at me they often yell at me, blame me, say i’m rude on purpose and i’m acting like a 2 year old.
they also often hit me.
occasions such as: sitting on The Bench, speaking in the wrong tone of voice, getting hit, hiding in the bathroom, getting forced out; not unpacking my boxes fast enough, getting slapped in the face; accidentally slamming my sister’s (20F/NB) fingers in the door while trying to close my door after a fight, getting slapped in the face; etc.
they invade my privacy: going through my phone; forcing me to leave my door open; removing the lock on the bathroom door when i used it to hide from my dad.
whenever i try to bring up these events, they either deny it ever happened, tell me they “had to,” or minimize it.
sometimes when i confront them or when i’m being mean, they tell me i’m verbally abusive.
ADHD children are oft abusive to their parents (Ghanizadeh and Jafari 2010)
But (far more) studies show that ADHD children have a higher risk of being abused (Singer and Humphreys and Lee 2016)
Am I an abuser? Am I abusing my parents? Or are they abusing me? Or do we both suck?
PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THEY ARE NOT DISNEY VILLAINS THEY ARE NICE A LOT OF THE TIME AND THAT DOESNT EXCUSE THEIR ACTIONS BUT IT MAKES IT A LOT BETTER THAN “my parents are monsters and have never told me they love me” THEY HAVE THEY DO SO MUCH FOR ME
but they do so much to hurt me too.
References
Ghanizadeh, A and Jafari, P. (2010, 10 Oct.) Risk factors of abuse of parents by their ADHD children. Eur Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 19, 75–81.
Singer, M. J., Humphreys, K. L., & Lee, S. S. (2016). Coping Self-Efficacy Mediates the Association Between Child Abuse and ADHD in Adulthood. Journal of attention disorders, 20(8), 695–703.
Am I The Asshole? And if I am the asshole do I have a right to be traumatised and flinch and stuff? And if I don’t then like… am I a bad person for that too?
What are these acronyms?
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Liebes J&K fandom, ich brauche eure Hilfe!
Habe ich mir das eingebildet oder gab's bei Teamwork (?) nicht mal ne Szene, wo Klaas Joko tröstet und zu Jeannine irgendwas sagt von wegen "keine dummen Kommentare jetzt, spar dir das", oder so? Ich kriege das nicht mehr zusammen und finde es nicht — vielleicht habe ich ich es mir auch nur eingebildet. Danke für eure Hilfe!
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