#fatphobic language cw

[lesbian-gene-wolfe]

this is the single funniest thing i have ever read. tacking on transphobia at the end is just. what a masterpiece of trash

#cw fatphobia #fatphobic language #cw transphobia #dude really is like one last thing fuck trans people

[tommysversion]

What about a reader x joel fic where reader is insecure of her body but joel doesn't care what her body looks like cause he loves her, and shows her how much he loves her with loads of fluff and maybe smut?

CWs: body image issues / insecurity / mild hints of internalised fatphobia / fatphobic language & insinuation

Notes: I went down the fluff route for this one, Anon, I hope that's okay.

It's not that you don't like how you look. In fact, you've spent a lot of time over the years actively fighting the impulse not to.

You've always been bigger. Curvy. Hell, as an adult, you have no problem labelling yourself as fat, because it's not a dirty word. Sure, there are people who would use it as a slur, but you've long since come to the conclusion that that's their problem, not yours.

You've fought tooth and nail to be comfortable in your own skin, in a world that valued your complete opposite.

It seems like nowadays, most people are on the slim side. That, or they're walls of solid muscle from hard labour. Being stocky is an asset; it means you can survive.

Unfortunately, the tendency towards bitchiness that runs in some people didn't get the memo that the world ended almost twenty two years ago.

You're not blind to the looks some of the people in town give you. The sly suggestion that putting you on kitchen duty was a terrible idea, surely you must be sneaking extra.

You know it's bullshit, know that the words are just hateful remarks from people who have never once lived in your skin - either through luck of genetics, or simply from being young enough to have been born into a world on the constant precipice of hunger.

Still. Sometimes the words sting. Remind you of middle school. Of self imposed small portions and your mother's worried expression as you refused cakes, refused sweet teas, refused anything bigger than a fist sized helping, until your aunt had pointed out all of the happy, beautiful women with your body type on the internet, on TV, in magazines and on Broadway.

It had been the start of a long journey of self acceptance, of riotous body positivity, of wearing t-shirts with slogans proclaiming fat positivity, of punching a boy who called you a slur in the balls and getting suspended for a week. That same aunt had taken you to see a musical while you were suspended, had bought you a journal to write in.

You like to think you're a strong person. You've lived through that, lived through the literal fucking apocalypse. But you're only human, and sometimes words sting.

Leave you standing in front of the full length mirror in your shared bedroom, poking and jiggling at yourself with a critical eye that you know is distinctly un-feminist, so unlike you.

Your gaze is critical as you inspect stretch marks. On a good day, those are your stripes. You make jokes about being a zebra whenever Joel touches them, never remotely critical himself.

Joel. He was... something else. He'd come into town with his adopted daughter, remained cold and closed off to almost everyone except her and his brother for months, until he'd seen you make Ellie laugh. Until he'd heard her ask you how to make cookies, heard you promise to show her.

Then he'd started, slowly, to come out of his shell. To spend more time with you. Brought you flowers. Now you lived together, with Ellie just down the hallway, because there was no way in hell a sixteen year old was going to live by herself, even in Jackson.

You're confident in yourself enough to know that you're well matched, but when you get like this? Sometimes it's easy to think differently. To worry that maybe he might prefer someone younger, with a more traditionally, socially accepted standard of beauty.

You're just getting lost in that spiral when Joel comes in from the shower, already dressed for the day in jeans, flannel shirt, and jacket over the top.

"What're you doing, darlin'? You'll catch a cold."

He snags a spare shirt from the edge of the bed, comes to wrap it around you. He's broad as hell, so you can wear his shirts without feeling self conscious. Not that you ever would, anyway, stealing his clothes is your favourite pastime.

"Honestly?" You've always prided yourself on being truthful with him. "I'm feeling kind of crappy."

You let him wrap the shirt around you, put your arms into the sleeves and exhale at the scent of him still lingering in the fabric.

"You think you're getting sick?" His hand moves to your forehead, and in spite of yourself, you smile.

"No, it's not that, it's just..." You sigh. "You don't mind how I look, right?"

Joel stares at you as if you've just spoken a foreign language, grown a second head, and told him you're giving up baking, all in one go.

"Of course I don't mind. What's that even s'posed to mean, do I mind?"

"Because I'm fat, Joel. Because there aren't exactly many women who look like me in town, and people talk, and -"

"Don't call yourself fat." Joel means well, and god he loves you, but he's still got that mindset that older people have where fat is a dirty word, even though you've explained the concept of reclaiming a slur to him.

"I mean. You can. But don't... say it to put yourself down."

The fact that he's listened to your rambles about body positivity makes you feel better.

"People still talk..."

"Fuck 'em. Let them talk. See if I give a shit." He says gruffly, wraps his arms around you then squeezes gently. "Don't care that there aren't many girls who look like you. Makes you special."

Another hug, before his hands rub over your stretch marks, over the softness of your tummy, of your thighs.

"You're perfect as you are. Absolutely perfect. I don't want you to change. I love how you're confident in yourself, and I wouldn't change a damn thing. Ellie needs that sort of role model."

You offer him a watery smile. How is it that someone so stoic can be so sweet when he wants to?

"C'mon. Push those bad thoughts away, lets get you dressed before you freeze. Didn't you promise Ellie a baking day?"

You smile again, lean in to kiss him lightly on the cheek before you glance once more at your reflection; the shadow of your earlier mood gone when you look at yourself, wrapped in Joel's arms, safe and loved and perfect, just as you are.

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likes: music, dance, dressing up, performing, sleeping, dark chocolate, grapes, physical affection, women.

dislikes: men, fear foods (depends on the day), homophobes, racists, trolls, fatphobic ppl, ppl that take things too seriously, my dad, rcta.

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[troglobite]

aslkdjf (i guess fatphobia mention/cw)

there's a post that i've seen a few times listing and sourcing all of the horrendous shit that reagan is responsible for

and i always want to rb it

but i just get so goddamn fucking irritated that it says "obesity epidemic" like i want to fucking Murder abt that

anyway posting this bc i'd love to spread hatred of reagan and the receipts to back it up, but that ignorance and language makes me furious and i refuse to have that fatphobic shit on my blog. lol

[starvels]

* I mean, if we wanna go FOUR (4) levels deep we can explain Nat’s comment as

An (poor) attempt to deflect Tony’s misplaced ire away from Steve (who I choose to believe WAS NOT commenting on Tony’s weight and was in fact honest when he denied he was, because his initial question is pretty innocuous** and Tony takes it…there.)

and was (rudely) fishing for information for WHAT Tony was doing to himself, because if he’s bringing his weight/body image up essentially unprompted and so Nat wants to know what kind of disordered eating Tony was partaking in (tho she really should not be doing it on the team comms!! And Thor should not be joining in!!!)

Still, it’s not great and Occam’s razor says, Nat and Thor are being fatphobic because the writers are, but we are a collective! We shall fix this!

(Or we can also say Nat also has internalized body issues that are a blind spot for even her, as a ballerina/public figure/spy/woman she’s joking around about it because duh, that’s what you do? And then they both learn not to do that? idk bleh)

*https://www.tumblr.com/starvels/723125240072454144/cw-fatphobia-body-shaming-disordered-eating

**(Steve’s comment is like, “how’s the suit holding up Tony?” And then Tony accuses him of asking about his weight and Steve is like “…no?” And then Nat and Thor jump in)

((If we want can further explore Tony’s food issues with one of the more funny/humorous elevator comments when Steve is musing out loud that he hopes “Tony isn’t cooking dinner tonight 😑” and then goes “is this line open?? Oh, uh, I love you cooking Tony I’m kidding ❤️ hehe.” And the joke can be “Tony is bad at cooking” or “Tony is making weird diet food and no one likes it/it’s not enough to eat”. ))

yeah!! your 4th level thoughts are good and i agree.

we can layer it so intricately. i would definitely be compelled by this interp and more conversations around how nat cares abt tony but doesn't know how to vocalize it. how this team as a whole cares so fucking much abt each other but they are out of touch/never been in touch w talking abt it frankly and things come out wrong and yeah, they say things because of their own hangups and ascribe them to each other in a very messy fun sort of way.

steve's comment is p innocent, yeah! it's just taken some place that to me is a non-sequitur unless you as the author are actually fatphobic and think this is a funny think to bitch charabout.

but that aside, obvs i fucking love talking abt s/t and food. #food as a metaphor for love!!! always!!! it's a love language and there should be more about it.

i bet all the avengers like UNHINGED things bc they are silly, strange lil supers. more exploration on this yespls.

#our talk #fatphobia #marvel's avengers #ma #character talk #comics talk

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[heavenknowsl]

hi ! i want to begin with saying that i’m not pro 4na, i support recovery, however this platform is the only place where i can vent about my ed, you could say that this is my safe space if that makes sense? i’m also not fatphobic, i’ve seen a lot of fatphobic pages on tiktok and personally i really don’t care about other people’s body, i just want to change mine!

if you don’t already suffer from an ed or you’re on your way to recovery please leave my page or block me ! please don’t report my account, beacuse as i said before this is the only place where i cant talk about my ed. i also wanna say that english isn’t my first language, so i’m sorry if i make spelling mistakes and mess up.

that’s all, if you’re staying on my page here are my stats :

sw : 58.2 kg cw : 54.9 kg gw : 47.5 kg

i think i’ll post pictures of my low calorie meals, easy low calorie recipes, my progress and my diet plans !

[mogsk]

Contemplation/Meditation/Venting that probably needs cws but I don’t know what I should use so please just infer from my opening paragraph what I’m going to be going into...

So, my latest thing has been trying to get back into weight loss as a personal goal, and like, to put that in context, I have been obese most of my life, like, memories back to getting picked on for my weight as far back as kindergarten.

The measures taken against that were myriad, and always framed as losing weight being an imposition on me, as a child, to fix my body so that I would become acceptable -- if people were teasing me, it was because I had not put sufficient effort towards losing weight. I was passed from dietician to dietician, had 90s fad diets meant for adults used to justify controlling my eating, sent off to camps where I was treated as less than human, a mistake that could be pushed to physically exert myself until I vomited or passed out. 

Needless to say, my relationship to the concept of weight loss is v v fraught. So why am I suddenly taking up that fight again? Well, simply put, I am finding myself sinking deeper and deeper into a state of misanthropy which is leading to me self-isolating from more and more spaces to the point I now talk to maybe 3 people on a regular basis, one of whom I live with. Obviously the front-end of this is related to the increasingly dire state of the world, “people” as a whole are harder and harder to put faith in for me because I see more and more how, on the grander societal scale, the majority seems content to allow others to suffer while they do little else than wring their hands and lament how bad things have become. 

The other side though is related to my obesity, more specifically a persecution complex that, while I believe is absolutely justified, drives me to a state of paranoiac suspicion around other people, always lowkey panicking that I am the most expendable, the one who is trying people’s patience the most, the one who is going to be first to get frozen out when things get complicated because, despite the so-called “body positive” movement, obesity is still a factor in how people are treated, and it really hasn’t changed at all since I was a kid.

Even people who outwardly express acceptance of obese bodies betray their upbringing in a “fatphobic” society through the awkwardness in which they try to approach it. This is a funny little side-thought, but something that always gets me is that I’ve seen countless “body positive” people decry people like “feederists” and other fat fetishists as being somehow bad, yet those are the only people I have ever heard talk about the obese body in the way that more conventionally attractive bodies are talked about. 

They do not need to deny their attraction to the fat body, and so their appreciation for it is unfiltered and sincere, whether as fetish or not, and so I think a lot of these people could stand to maybe listen to this language of desire fat bodies because it is probably the biggest deficit in the way I see otherwise well-meaning people approach talking about obese bodies -- they say we are “hot” or “beautiful”, but can never seem to be able to precise exactly why. Hot and beautiful are empty signifiers, filled only by popular conscience or particular tastes, and when the popular conscience is that our bodies are disgusting, it takes substantive contradiction to meaningfully push against it. “Fat is beautiful” means nothing without some deeper and particular sense of what beauty is and how fat fits that bill, otherwise it honestly feels like the same sort of doubletalk that feels like it borders on gaslighting I’ve weathered since I was a child, that there is somehow some inherent beauty in my obese body, and that if I can’t see it, well, that’s on me.

But I digress, and really, this is what I mean. There are plenty of sources which can feed a persecution complex, being a non-passing tw, being schizo, etc etc, but my obesity is something I might be able to change. Granted, I’ve tried a million times in the past, fallen down the rabbit hole of wildly contradictory health and fitness information (which hoo-boy has only gotten worse since the last time I went on this journey) more times than I can remember, but still, I feel like I have to try because I may not be able to remove myself from these other persecuted categories, but obesity? They say there’s an escape, they say there’s a way out, they hardly ever even tell me to temper my expectations like they did with transition! If I could just lose 100lbs, I’d feel better about my body, feel more comfortable around my peers, feel less ashamed to exist! Or so they say.

And that’s the sad truth is, like, so they say, right? I know of another trans gal on twitter who talks a lot about how haunted she is by the constant reminder that, as soon as she started successfully losing weight, people started treating her vastly better, and how horrifying her self-destructive thoughts of “if I don’t eat this meal, people will like me better” ended up coming true, but like...even that bleak horizon feels unattainable after all the failures I’ve had leading up to now.

But I still have to try! I still have to find some way to repair the way I relate to other people, have to find a way to silence the voices that try to make personal every slightly negative interaction I have, have to feel like I’m still fighting even after I lost my streaming career, most of my social circles, and even my feelings of self-love and contentment.

I have to fight by limiting my eating, exercising more than I can stand, and just accepting that all these people all these years have been right -- I do need to lose this weight before I’m an acceptable presence in the world.

That’s the only way of fighting I have left, fighting myself, fighting my body, fighting my desires, fighting my own peace of mind just so that I can maybe one day feel like I don’t have to fight anymore.

And it fucking sucks lmao

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[t0rschlusspan1k]

The original novel has been adapted for the big screen twice, three times if you count the 2002 NBC adaptation for television. Although the hairstyles and prom soundtracks have always been dutifully updated, one small thing, one Hollywood decision, remains consistent across the board: Carrie White is always thin.

Carrie White is categorically not thin though. Within the first fifteen pages of the book, Carrie is described as ‘chunky’, ‘a hog’, ‘a frog among swans’ and, rather cruelly, ‘a fat, whiny bag of lard.’

So why is Carrie always thin?

Part of the story’s tug is the glimmer of hope we see in her eyes as she stands onstage in front of her classmates, beautiful in a home-stitched pink silk dress, the coveted Prom Queen crown perched atop her head. For that brief minute, the victim has become the victor: she stands tall, she stands elegant, and she has done something she never thought she would do: she has felt included, potentially even liked, by the other girls.

We know the bucket of blood, placed in the rafters by the thwarted would-be prom queen, is going to fall and ruin the illusion of happiness, acceptance and inclusion that, for one night, Carrie has been granted and the thing is, even as horror fans, we don’t want that bucket of blood to fall because we’re rooting for Carrie. When she is doused in a whole heap of pig’s blood and, in a rage induced by the realisation that her mother was right, that the whole thing was an elaborate prank, the power dynamic shifts in her favour we’re still rooting for her.

Carrie is the underdog, the eternal victim, and in the grand tradition of the revenge flick, we’re rooting for her even as she tears the gymnasium apart in a bloodbath of fire and carnage, even as with a cold flick of her wrist she crushes kind Miss Collins, the gym teacher that always had her back, to death.

Why is Carrie’s physicality so consistently rewritten to be thin when she is so explicitly plus size in the original source material then? Of course, thin is the default in cinema, just like cis, white, straight and pretty is the default. Fat characters are only ever fat for a reason; as a plot point, or as crude shorthand to reinforce particular character traits stereotypically related to fatness – indulgent, selfish, lazy.

The question is really this: would audiences still root for Carrie if she was played by an overweight actress like Gabourey Sidibe, or is fat simply not a viable victim in the eyes of the Hollywood execs?

Fatness is not automatically a symptom of overeating and overeaters aren’t automatically fat, but onscreen fat characters are consistently victims only of their own lack of self-control. Carrie White, who struggles to contain her telekinetic powers when emotionally charged, is the epitome of losing control. [...]

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cnc, noncon, dubcon, somnophilia, petplay, knifeplay and bloodplay, a/b/o dynamics, drugging/intoxication, monsterfucking, violence, kidnapping, free use, gore, humiliation, Daddy/Mommy, ageplay, choking, public sex, impact play, exhibitionism, brainwashing, hypno, breeding, maybe omorashi on occasion

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somnophilia

bdsm

pain play

petplay/puppyplay/kittenplay

humiliation/degradation

praise!!!

cnc, noncon, dubcon

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Others

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breeding (no actual pregnancy)

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breathplay

impact

voices

Curious About

electro/shocking

brainwashing

hypnotism

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omorashi

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Absolutely no feminizing language toward me. I’m afab but I’m a boy.

Acceptable terms: pussy, cunt, tits, that’s it. I have a tdick/cock/any variation of that (that isn’t clit).

Omorashi/watersports/piss kink is a very soft limit (go for it, but I might ignore it if I’m not feeling it at the time)

Scat/vomit/etc is a hard limit

Pregnancy is a hard limit. Breeding is totally fine, as long as it’s assumed there is no conception (might make an exception for monsterfucking if I’m in the mood for it)

I’m not a top or a Dom and I will only attempt to be one under very specific circumstances so don’t bother asking. I might get bratty or forward/bossy sometimes, but it’s not an attempt at Domming or topping.

Detrans/Misgendering kink is a no go for me. I don’t mind seeing it only from other trans folks and specifically without any TERF shit, but you will never see me reblog/talk about/enjoy that kink. Miss me with it or get blocked pls and ty.

ummm I think that’s it, I’ll update if I think of any more :)

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cw // fatphobic language, body image

I think ppl absolutely have the right to vent about the things they don't like about their bodies, but some folks need to think about the things they post publicly. bc when fat folks see people share pictures of themselves just to call themselves disgusting/obese/flabby/etc without some kind of warning, that can be really upsetting. A lot of us had to work through so much internalized shit to love our bodies and your opinions about urself can really hurt us

I've been seeing a lot of people doing this lately and while I understand those folks are probably goin through it and need to vent, please realize,,

when I see someone's cute mirror selfie followed up by "this is so disgusting, I wish I weren't so flabby and gross, I don't even have to be skinny I just don't wanna be so fat/obese anymore" I know that the person posting is probably struggling with shit, but I also see another person telling me I'm an absolutely unacceptable weight, far past "disgusting" and "flabby." it also reminds me how many people just see fat and instantly turn away, disgusted, despite the fact that variety in weight and body shape is perfectly fucking natural.

and even though I love my fat body I'm still gonna be affected by this shit because I was raised to hate these things. I'm tired of folks reinforcing shit I've had to put in so much work to unlearn. (it certainly doesn't fucking help that people LOVE to use BMI as a metric when it's a shitty, shitty statistical model built on poor data and terrible ideas. your BMI being over 30 or whatever doesn't actually mean you're fat, it just means you weigh more than one random dead asshole expected you to.)

you have the right to say whatever you want about your body, but when you refer to totally normal (for lack of a better word) and beautiful bodies with loaded terms like "flabby" and "disgusting" that are used to hurt us for how we look, and share your opinions publicly as fact, you're harming people & reinforcing the idea that fat folks are gross or wrong for existing in a large body. please at least put a fatphobia warning or something so you're not just making other ppl feel miserable too. your words can affect others more than u think.

#cw fatphobia #cw weight #i had to say something though its so upsetting to keep seeing this shit #im begging you to at least put a warning on your self hatred so it doesnt hurt tue rest of us #i understand if you hate your body i really do but fatphobia kills people #briar speaks

[temporary-dysphoria]

Weight discourse cw.

I've been following quite a few body positivity blogs for a while. By and large they're good, great even. But recently I've had to unfollow some because there's been a gradual increase in fighting fire with fire, as it were.

These blogs and tags used to be a real positive space. They'd reblog beautiful plus size content and art. They'd push for everyone to be accepting of their bodies no matter how big or small we were. But over the last few months something has changed in this area of tumblr, and I'm not sure how I feel about it.

To be clear, when I was younger I was an avid follower of thinspo. Had I been 40kg lighter I would have been diagnosed with an eating disorder - of that, I'm absolutely certain (I wasn't, because I was fat, and fat people don't get eating disorders apparently....thanks modern medicine). So you can imagine my surprise when I start seeing the same kind of exclusionary language, the same kind of black and white examples regarding weight that I used to see on thinspo, suddenly cropping up in the body positivity section.

People who use the body positivity tags are being hounded and abused because they're daring to want to lose weight.

Any mention of losing weight is being met with "well, you're just fatphobic then, you're not doing this because you want to, but because society makes you."

When people push back and explain that maybe body positivity is individual and for them it might be the journey of feeling healthier in their body - they're told they don't belong in the body positive tags.

I understand the need to want to help people feel accepting of their bodies at any size. I understand the need to push back against the medical institutions that make millions of dollars off diet culture every year. But telling people they're fatphobic because they want to change how they look for their own personal reasons isn't really helping.

People have their own reasons for wanting to gain or lose weight, and an accepting, body positive community shouldn't be belittling either of those choices.

#personal #body positivity #weight discourse #weight discussion