#free my meal

[louisupdates]

FreeMyMeal: Still so lucky that @Louis_Tomlinson did this for us. I’ll *never* forget it. I’ll never take his help for granted. Happy Birthday you lovely man! 🥳#FreeMyMeal #NoShame #JustAsk #EndChildFoodPoverty #ThankYou #HappyBirthdayLouis #Louies #Mealies

LINK to Louis’ tweet in 2020.

#louis31 #free my meal #24 december 2022 #louis tomlinson

[inkskinned]

no, but really, we need to talk about the casual objectification that has become the fallback discourse of the internet: if you're pretty and dressed nicely, you're a slut. and if you're even vaguely outside of their body standard, you're fucking disgusting.

too-frequently, people position sex workers as being "the problem". they sneer you're addicted to pornography, you don't know what a real woman looks like. but real women are in pornography. the real bodies on display are not the issue here: the issue is that other people feel extremely confident when commenting on someone's physique.

2000's super-thin is slowly worming its way back into the public ideal. recently i saw someone get told to "go for a run", despite the fact she was on the thinner side of average. not that it would ever be appropriate to say that: but it's kind of like sticker shock when you see it. people think that is fat? holy shit. do they just have no idea about things?

but what are you going to do about it? that's the problem, right. because chances are - you're a normal person. we can say normalize carrying fat on your body, but we are not the billion-dollar diet industry. we are not the billion-dollar fashion industry. we are just, like. people. who are trying to make content on the internet, without being treated shittily.

as someone who has been on both sides of things: you are treated better when you are thin and pretty. this is statistically correct. i am not saying that you cannot be bullied for being thin; i'm saying there are objective institutional biases against certain bodytypes. there are videos of men and women who lost weight all saying: i now know for a fact exactly how much worse you're treated. in the comments, some asshole inevitably says something akin to you deserved to be dehumanized when you were fat.

which means that ... the easiest thing to do is be pretty and thin. it is the path of least resistance, because of course it is, because any time you post a picture of yourself without a thigh gap, someone immediately comments something like you need to try a diet.

the other half is also dehumanizing though, huh, just in a different way. when i put on makeup and nice clothes, i am told i slept my way to the top as a professional. do you know how many women in STEM have told me they purposefully dress to "unimpress" because they already struggle to be taken seriously and if they're ever considered pretty - it for some reason takes away from their authority.

so they make it seem like it's your fault. you, existing in a body - it's your fault! if you didn't want shitty comments, don't have a body. they position us against each other like chess pieces; vying for male attention we don't even need.

and i can be an authority on this unless you think i'm fat and unattractive. when i am pretty and thin, i'm an activist. when i am just a normal person who makes a good point: i am immediately dismissed. nobody fucking believes you if you're not seen as attractive. you literally lose value. you cease to exist.

but the whole time, it feels like - is anyone actually grounded the fuck in reality? the line of "pretty and thin" keeps shifting. nobody seems to understand what "a normal weight" even looks like, because it's not something that exists - you cannot tell a person's health by looking at their body. even if you think you could tell that, even if you're sure a person is dangerously overweight - people are not your dolls. they do not need to be dressed up or displayed properly to soothe your aesthetics. you aren't concerned for them, you're stealing their agency. you don't get to say if they're "allowed" to take pictures and post them on the internet - you don't get to tell them how to exist.

people hide behind "the obesity epidemic" without any actual qualifications. they crow things about "normalizing unhealthiness".

but it's bullshit. i have visible abs. there is a pair of parallel lines on my body, even when i'm relaxed; where my obliques meet my abdominal wall. i am proud of this because it means i'm strong, because i overcame an eating disorder only to be ripped as fuck. it is genetic and physical luck that i even get any definition, i'm pleased as punch.

but it does mean that my abdominal wall sticks out a little bit. the other day i posted a video of myself dancing, and, for a moment, my shirt slipped. you could see a little bit of my stomach. i was cartwheeling to the floor. moments before this, i'd had my foot over my head.

a guy slid into my DMs. a row of vomiting emojis prefaced: you should really lose some weight before you think about dancing.

i stared at it for a long time. there was a time when i would have been triggered by this, where it would have encouraged me to starve myself. i would have ignored the fact i'm flexible, agile, good at jumping: i would have lost the weight for a stranger's passing comment. i would have found myself and my body fucking disgusting.

and for what? to please what? because why? so that he can exist in this world without an unchallenged eyeball? what would my self-hatred even accomplish? usually i write paragraphs. obviously. on this particular occasion, in this body i've been at war with for ages: i just felt exhausted.

it shouldn't be even worth saying. it shouldn't be hard to explain. all of this emotional turmoil when he cannot even comprehend the most basic truth: i am not an object on display for him.

#spilled ink #writeblr #warm up #like if im getting fatshamed. babe......... wake up #is there fat on my body? yes :) #btw this behavior wouldn't be okay even if I WAS overweight!!! that is my point!!! #it is both that people have no idea what weight is supposed to look like #and even if they DID... they do not seem to understand that PEOPLE ARE NOT DOLLS #YOU DO NOT GET TO TELL THEM HOW TO EXIST #if you respond anything akin to ''but raquel there IS an obesity epidemic'' #you're blocked and reported. #go fucking DONATE TO A FOOD BANK THEN. volunteer in a food desert. start a free fitness program #GO GET A DEGREE AS A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL AND PRACTICE IN NUTRITION IN UNDERPRIVILEDGED LOCATIONS #FIGURE OUT HOW TO LOWER FOOD COSTS. FIGURE OUT HOW TO NORMALIZE AND STANDARDIZE #ACCESS TO FARM-FRESH FOOD. PROVIDE ACTUAL FREE ACCESS TO OUTSIDE ACTIVITIES #FIGURE OUT HOW TO TEACH PEOPLE HEALTHY CHOICE MAKING WHILE ALSO LOWERING THE COST OF MEALS. #THE AVERAGE GROCERY BILL OF THE AMERICAN CITIZEN HAS QUADRUPILED IN THE LAST YEAR. #SHUT. THE FUCK. UP!!!!!!!!! #you don't want to help these people!!!!! #you want to bully them but still feel like a good person! #you want to be justified in your hatred of an entire CLASS of people!!! #you don't give a fuck about how it makes them feel!!!! #you care ONLY about whether or not YOU get to VIRTUE SIGNAL that YOURE so thin and pretty!!!! #it is BECAUSE of people like you #and the fact you tolerate fatphobia - BECAUSE of that normalization. that men like the one who called me fat #feel like they can get away with it. #bc there's a line for you where you WOULD be okay with it. where if i WASNT thin you'd be okay with it. #which means the line can always be pushed in a certain direction. and it's always going to appeal to male aesthetics. #''well you didn't deserve it'' maybe fucking NOBODY does babe. maybe we should just all agree not to comment on ppls bodies!!

[shirojikimattari]

PSA: Beware offers of free meal

Only make the baby jealous after dinner, perhaps?

#shadowheart #shadowtav #Was the free meal worth it #no #of course not #i would rather starve to death than upset my baby #but would i starbe if shadowheart is the whole 5 course meal #anyway tags #baldurs gate shadowheart #baldurs gate 3 #bg3 #baldur's gate iii #bg3art #baldurs gate fanart #bg3 shadowheart #baldurs gate tav #jealous shadowheart #isnso fucking cute #shadowheart bg3

[sommerregenjuniluft]

line cook barty that has every server of the restaurant greet him with cheek kisses when they clock in and he’s trying So Hard to get evan to do it too as he starts working there

#cmon rosier gimme a kiss #that’s the least you can do for the free meal you Know you will be sent home with #evan: you can suck my dick #barty: sure baby that works too. get around the counter then cmon. i’m not hearing the sound of a zipper yet! cmon evan darling #siggghhhhhh #rosekiller

[tariah23]

:/

#Palestine #free palestine #they’re banking on people not giving a shit because the accessibility to cheap fast food and an insanely popular anime character is too #enticing to these people #who place fiction over reality and real world devastation #jjk #rambling #noury is also getting eye surgery soon I hope it works out well for them #it is so easy for these huge companies to pull these people in because most of them don’t care anyway because they’re Zionist to their #rotten cores and these companies know that people are treating the genocide like it’s a ‘we have to look at both-‘ #sides-‘ kinda situation like it’s so… #they also know that a lot of people are stupid and would rather remain ignorant than learn about the history of Palestinians and what #Israel did to them #Gojo is my fav but come on now this is so slimy because they know that he’s insanely popular like they know that ppl will buy tf out of #his happy meal similar to the Mulan Rick and morty sauce shit years ago this makes my head hurt

[stuckinapril]

There will not be a single moment next week in which I’m not running around doing something

#full time studying / volunteering at the refugee center / volunteering at two clinics #literally ab to have a meeting ab shadowing a doctor who’s researching ftd dementia in like 50 minutes #organic chemistry research 5 days a week bc ur bitch is trying to get published #hitting the gym 6 days a week. I’ll probably have to move it to mornings soon #meal prep #trying to snag a lowkey part time job #trying to read 30 minutes before bed #somehow have 2 fit a social life into this #I’m excited bc I finally feel like my time budgeting abilities are being put to the test BUT holy fuck . #studying will be my no 1 priority always. literally catch me doing anki cards in any pocket of free time I have #but I better live up to the challenge of juggling everything else too #ik I got this. and these are all things im choosing to do. not things I have to do #and I love being busy so it’ll be so fun #just had to be in awe for a second bc I used to admire girls who’re like this. and I am officially about to be one of them #p

[randomminty]

haiii uhm i love ur champion art so much (especially cynthia i love cynthia!!) and i was kind of. wondering if you've drawn diantha before?? im kind of hyperfixating on her rn but with her popularity im basically dying for more content of her </3 also i love ur artstyle so so much oh my god i just wanna kiss ur art rn. maybe even take a chomp :DD

Omg ty anon wow…… i dont think ive posted diantha art before so ill change that right away

#i understand hyperfixating on a character w no content so bad dw anon </3 #THIS IS A NO DIANTHA HATE ZONE!!!! WE LOVE DIANTHA!!!!!!!! #art tag #champion diantha #pokemon #hehehehehhe dianthas so cool i love her #im so flattered omg ur free to take a chomp of my art…… ill cook a whole meal eat as much as u like #i drew her face funky. ugh. thats ok i like the first drawing #ask tag

[sashimiyas]

osamu has a soft spot for single mothers because they remind him of his own

#reinas.inretrograde #he’ll never say anything but when you go through your wallet and only order what your child requested and not your meal #he just hands you enough for the whole week. tells you to come back soon but never admits to the kindness #he incorporates children eat free days #there’s this whole romantic scene in my head where you say ‘i don’t need you’ #and he goes ‘i know.’ and it’s not placating at all. he knows you don’t need him. #knows and understands that you’ve done more in your life than he’ll ever achieve #then he says ‘but i want you. i want to need you. and if you say the word and let me. i’ll do it. i’ll need to wake up to you in the morning #need you to tell me to have a good day and whoop my ass into shape. and i know you won’t need me. but you can want me to.’

[logismoii]

i have had little time to draw anything lately but here's an angry ysa (dragonborn), because mages who also dual wield daggers are cool and epic. they might be short but their forearm muscles are HENCH

they are also mildly obsessed with dwarven stuff so it doesnt matter how little damage the daggers end up doing. dwarven swords and daggers >>>

#hello to all the lovely people who followed me!!!!!!!!!!!! #im so sorry for no art since my first post lol my degree has been battering me to death and leaves me very little free time #i have so many Thoughts about my db i want to talk about them so bad #anyway here's a doodle i hope u enjoy the scant meal #also ignore my bad anatomy #skyrim #tes: skyrim #tes v: skyrim #tesblr #the elder scrolls #my art

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

HII just wanna let u know i cant stop thinking abt poppy and sally (and laughingstock ofc) and its ur fault!!! i love them sm!! ur brain is huge!!

!!!!!! HOLY SHIT!!!!!

#and may i reiterate: HOLY SHIT!!!! #1) you're welcome. pleased to have you here in obscurepair hell #2) dude your art is soooooo fucking Scrumptious #i had to double check to make sure that who was in my inbox was Really In My Inbox hellooooooooooooo hi hi hi #your franklydear is Top Tier #NOT TO MENTION YOUR DRAG EDDIE ART MY GODDDDDDDD i swoon every time i see it #your art is just very.... i am missing the word rn so just. its very Yes. id like to eat it. the colors. the softness. expressive. yeah #anyway now that ive bled out all over your floor #or. its my own floor? this is my blog... well there's blood everywhere. Ignore That #THANKS FOR THE FREE POPSTAR MEAL #poppy doin the hen thing and practically brooding on sally is Everything to me now thank you thank you #rambles from the bog #offerings to the bog #i will be coming back to Gaze at this ask!!!! #'kys' 'shes joking' 'im not' i will admit. i snorted

[francy-sketches]

sometimes i remember tommen's pet fawn lol

#fawnS plural. rip the 1st one joffrey killed her 😔 cant have shit in kl #in my mind palace they set the 2nd one free after leaving rosby it definitely wasnt cooked into a delicious meal #what do you think their names were btw

[bloodpen-to-paper]

Spiderverse was crazy, so basically Meals Martinez and Genuine Stinky reunite and get in trouble trying to protect Malls from Magnet O'Hard On and Japanese Drool, all while trying to stop Spotify from destroying the multiverse. There were some new characters like Hobart Beige and Pa Heater Probation and we got to see 🅱️eter 🅱️arker again, and there was this twist ending where alternate Milo turns out to be his universe's version of The Pisser. anyway 10/10 movie would watch again

#this is what happens when my hyperfixation runs on into 3am #you're welcome #if you can get every character without checking the tags you get a free bagel #:) #spider man: across the spider verse #across the spiderverse #across the spiderverse spoilers #atsp #atsp spoilers #miles morales #gwen stacy #miguel o'hara #jessica drew #hobie brown #pavitr prabhakar #peter b parker #the spot #for the record I don't particularly think this whole post is funny #but I spent like 10 straight minutes laughing my ass off at Meals Martinez and Genuine Stinky #at three in the morning #and i'll be damned if I don't let the people know of my creative genius

[just-somedude]

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#So today I walked by a Church and got this sudden rush of nostalgia? #not nostalgia in a good sense #but in the sense that it reminded me of years ago #when my mother couldn't afford food all the time so we'd go there for their free weekly meal #and go to the food bank whenever we could #and realized that we haven't needed to do that in years #it sort of makes me tear up knowing she doesn't have to stress as much about money anymore #and knowing that I can finally afford to enjoy my life without having to worry as much about money week by week #sappy shit over but like #poverty aint fun brotherman #ok take a long walk off a short bridge now bye

[lesbianredhoodedmercenary]

big news for fans of having meals. mealtime themed sinner images

#limbus company #fast gif #fast gif warning #< just in case #feel free to use these everywhere and post them so much they end up in the discord gif search #my dream is to see these in the wild some day without people knowing i made them #upon that occasion i will shed a single tear of joy #outis and gregor ones made byrequest. ishmael one because breakfast is an orange meal to me

[carfuckerlynch]

I know we're anti aestheticizing everything we do but I admit that there's something personally resonant and satisfying about putting a blue food service band aid on my t shot

#odhran.txt #for context: restaurants will sometimes use a specific type of blue fabric bandaid #becUse theyre really hard to get ahold of if ur not in the industry #and also (more importantly) that they are a color that absolutely no food is. #so if theyre in the food theyre very visible #and also. according to one of my chefs. if someone puts a band aid in their food to try and get a free meal. u can be like thats not ours :)

[theactualsunshinechild]

*banging my fists against the wall helplessly, tears streaming down my face*

MY RAREPAIR STILL HASN'T INTERACTED AND AT THIS POINT I'M NOT SURE THEY EVER WILL

#this is about my wriochi obsession btw #i am being tormented by the lack of anything #because i just KNOW #i just KNOW #That they would have SUCH funny interactions #please i want them to fight #i want them to fuck #i want them to have a meal with each other #i want Wriothesley to FINALLY have someone happy to accept a cup of fancy tea #because Childe is from Fantasy Russia and if there's anything i know about my country it's that we're all obsessed with tea #we serve free tea on trains for fucks sake #the tea section in the grocery store is larger than the vodka section #Childe would LOVE to be offered a nice cup of tea because his mama raised a polite young man #i need Childe to drag Wriothesley out to do things on the surface regularly #i want them to send each other letters #i want Wriothesley to meet Childe's family and wish he could have had a family like that #i want so much from them but they literally haven't even talked #wriochi #wriothesley #childe #tartaglia