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remanence-of-love · 2 days ago
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quotefeeling · 2 days ago
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If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint,’ then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced.
Vincent van Gogh
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thoughtkick · 22 hours ago
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Nothing is quite as beautiful as someone who has survived losing everything and still has a tender heart.
Unknown
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spitblossoms · a day ago
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perfectquote · a day ago
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If we wait until we’re ready, we’ll be waiting for the rest of our lives.
Lemony Snicket
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thehopefulquotes · 23 hours ago
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as you get older, you realize that you’re not always right and there’s so many things you could’ve handled better, so many situations where you could’ve been kinder and all you can really do is forgive yourself and let your mistakes make you a better person.
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inkskinned · a day ago
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guilty because i put up a boundary. guilty because i enforced it. i want to eat my own fist. hate the whole of it.
i tell my therapist that i don't really feel like i need boundaries. i say i am comfortable with most things; i'll figure it out as i go along. she says: that's a fawn response. i laugh about it, because it's either laugh about it or do something about it.
the thing is that once i like someone, i'll forgive them for anything. they don't even have to apologize for it. they could step over each of my desires and take all my teeth. it might take me a little while, but i'd get over it. i'd say: oh, she was having a hard day, and didn't realize i was serious about my safety. i'd say: he's always had anger issues, i feel bad that he hasn't been responding well to therapy. i'd say: you know, it kind of isn't fair of me to expect them to know i don't want to get hurt, i should have been more clear and repeated what i wanted.
i tell other people i'm easy-going. sometimes i get called good natured or happy-go-lucky. i am not able to list traits that i like about myself without mentioning how i help other people. i let people desiccate me and then i say - well, as long as they're happy.
i have been a bad person, is the thing. when i was really sick. and honestly sometimes even when i was doing better. i've hurt other people, and i don't want other people to hurt the way i did. i only have friends because others have forgiven me for the wrong i have done. i only have gotten this far because someone else gave me patience, and kindness, and help.
so it's not fair of me to set a boundary, ever. plus, if i set one and it is broken - that just hurts. and when someone crosses that line i drew, i have to take an action in response. i have to kick someone out of my life (as if i have so many other options) or i have to confront them about it (as if that doesn't make me cry) or. if i take the easy route: i have to simply accept that it happened and internalize it and move on; let it go without a fight.
i can't control, after all, how other people react to my boundaries. they probably are unfair boundaries anyway. it's easier if i just control how i react to the pain - if i just ignore it, and hope it goes away. no need to blow this out of proportion. no need to make a fuss. this way all the hurt stays inside of me, and doesn't slip out and get into anyone. this way is better, right.
who cares what it does to me.
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perfeqt · a day ago
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Soon you’ll realize that many people will love the idea of you but will lack the maturity to handle the reality of you.
Reyna Biddy
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poetry-siir · 2 months ago
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When you change, don’t announce it. Just bloom.
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surqrised · 5 days ago
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I think you lost all interest in this world. You were disappointed and discouraged, and lost interest in everything. So you abandoned your physical body. You went to a world apart and you're living a different kind of life there. In a world inside you.
Haruki Murakami, 1Q84
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promqueendyke · 4 months ago
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aleksandra waliszewska // yves olade // joy priest, horsepower // richard siken, wishbone
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remanence-of-love · 16 hours ago
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quotefeeling · 2 days ago
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Don’t turn from me, please. Take me in your arms. Gather me up, dear, fold me to your heart—and you’ll see how nice I can be.
Jean-Paul Sartre, No Exit
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thoughtkick · 2 days ago
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Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again. Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt.
Meša Selimović
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perfectquote · 2 days ago
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You carry so much love in your heart. Give some to yourself.
Unknown
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thehopefulquotes · 2 days ago
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You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free.
Thich Nhat Hanh
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heavyrain-dc · a month ago
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One day you will thank yourself for never giving up.
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resqectable · 5 months ago
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Never apologize for how you feel. No one can control how they feel. The sun doesn’t apologize for being the sun. The rain doesn’t say sorry for falling. Feelings just are.
Iain S. Thomas, Intentional Dissonance
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muresetivoire · 4 months ago
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Sorry babe, the thigh garter holding my daggers stay on during sex
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surqrised · 5 months ago
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But just because you’re strong and resilient doesn’t mean you never need someone to be there for you, to take care of you.
Tammara Webber
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