#gender? nah <3

[carnivalcarriondiscarded]

it just struck me how my queerness is essentially just me going "hmmm... nah <3"

#gender? nah <3 #romantic orientation? nah <3 #sexuality? nah <3 #someone hands me a form that asks what i am and i just fill in 'n/a' #i simply couldnt be fucked! with literally any of it! #honestly the somewhat recent aroace realization has been So freeing #i didnt know how much stress the constant performance caused... #and also now that i KNOW it was a performance? oh boy looking back is so fucking funny #absolutely unprompted #damn sorry past me... they really didnt know... #they were out there trying so hard to conform lmfaoooo #pretending to pine while genuinely thinking they were pining.... #trying to want a relationship while being So fucking stressed out and put off by the concept... #i may have been. somewhat of an idiot <3 #nah jk i wasnt! thats just how it is growing up in a romance oriented world #now all i have to worry about it making friends!!! #no more trying to flirt with cute cashiers! no more feeling Unnecessary Pressure! #im free....

[water-scum]

This is an idea you might like female dib and female Zim and gir a cat costume I hope you like my ideas have a fantastic day<3

Bold of you to assume that I like gender swap characters

Anyway, this was fun tbh. I don't even have to design Gir lmao this costume is literally from the official comics

Drawing Zim as female make me feels like I'm drawing invader Tenn or something🧐

And Dib. Yeah, no difference but female now

#the fact that I drew these with my fingers on my phone for 3 hours make me wanna cry #did I put too much effort in it? #nah #invader zim #iz fanart #sketch #gender swap #dib membrane #dib iz #iz gir #invader zim fanart #ask #idea

[lucentful]

contemplating transfem gwenpool

could you imagine the gender euphoria she would have had the moment she appeared in marvel? how on top of being able to live in the same world as her heroes, she's finally being presented in a way that makes her feel happy with herself and her body? she knows comics tend to not draw imperfections on people, and she's so happy that hasn't changed for her. maybe that's one of her top reasons for loving her dynamite gams, too. she's finally being seen the way she's always felt like she should be seen.

#gwenpool #gwen poole #headcanon #transgender #gender euphoria #marvel #my post #ik there's a panel out there where she says comics draw ppl with less flaws #i wanted to throw that down so ppl could ez see where i'm coming from but i couldn't find it </3 #i was going to talk about her dysphoric fears too #like “what if someone draws me different if they learn i'm trans” #but i decided nah i should keep this good vibes #maybe if ppl want that kind of angst i will but for now

[mrburnsnuclearpussy]

Transition goals

#perosnal I guess? #lol idk #ftm trans #just expressing my yearning #my terrible doodles #(the first pic is what I look like now </3) #one day I will just a happy normal guy and everything will be beautiful <3 #i don’t wanna be ripped or super lean I know that’s like the common beauty standard but nah #i wanna be big and solid looking that’s my gender envy #with a better hairline and normal leg shape lol

[blogalreadydoesntexist]

'trans men can be lesbian' are you a trans man. genuinely asking cuz uhhh...

anyways id like to say that trans men are men. men.

im going by nonbinary now as of like late ish march this year, but as somebody who identified with being a trans man for 4 years with only one gap of thinking i was genderfluid to try and appease internalized shit, we're men. cant be lesbian.

'well they have a connection to womanhoo-' thats transphobic but alr.

'well history says-' well history SAID that eugenics was good once or twice, does that mean all nazis and shit are valid or like???

trans MEN cant, trans MASCS can. get your shit right.

#al's general discourse #< using that on my non-proshit discourse posts #'genderpolice' nah i might use all pronouns but her but i dont wanna use 'oink/oinks' :3 #'dual-labels arent for ace people!' proceeds to explain an ace/aro experience ive heard time and time again due to mainly being friends wit #guess what #aroace nb lesbians. #that also agree that trans men (ie men) cannot be lesbian/lesbians dont like men. #comphet is valid. #your gender being different from 'the norm' is valid. #pronouns dont equal gender. #also demiboys cant be lesbian because its demiBOY just like transMAN. #uhggggg #also biROMANTIC/SEXUAL homoSEXUAL/ROMANTIC lesbians are vaild you just cant be lesbian/homosexual and bisexual at the same time #oh also if you dont include ace/aro people in lgbt stuff implode -demisexual #my silly little thoughts #alex's queued

[bastardsofravenkroft-blog]

i'm kind of new to the whole misgendering gerard stuff with girlgerard but i have seen thekidsfromyestergay 's posts constatly she/her-ing gerard but they say it's a joke. i don't know if it is funny to me or not... is that like normal? again i'm new to mcrblr

Several big mcr blogs on here she/her Gerard constantly, so it's become super normalized. But these blogs seem to always have a whole list of excuses including that its a joke, the gay she, and that Gerard is a actually a trans woman and to not use she/her is actually sooooo transphobic. In any case it's weird to constantly use the wrong pronouns for someone, or to label them in a way they don't want. (For reference Gee said on twitter his prns are he/they, and that's what Marina Toybina uses for him as well. Gee also said they don't use labels. They choose not to.)

Idc about an offhand girl joke or comment, but when thats all you use, or the thing you use the most its a problem. Jokes are meant to be funny, i don't see how addressing someone with pronouns that aren't theirs just because they dress more feminine is a joke or funny.

People deserve to have their name, pronouns, gender or lack thereof, all that, respected. None of us are Gerard or anyone else, therefore we can't know how they feel on things unless we're directly told. We only know what he has said, and to ignore that in favor of how we or any random person on the internet sees him is disrespectful to Gerard Way as a human being.

#btw im not saying you can't discuss how g might feel on certain things. we can have conversations. but you cannot label/misgender them.gros #also! if g's expression helped you work through something or feel more comfortable-awesome! me too! thats great and you can talk abt it! #without saying gee is trans. gee isnt trans unless they say they are. theyre also not cis unless they say they are. #he is just a person existing out there who deserves your respect. #girlgerard #kidsfromyestergay #gerard way #mcr 2023 #cheerleader gerard #gerard gender wars #gerard gender discourse #anon #crimson answers #oh yeah and btw someones pronouns gender sexuality etc its none of you business unless someone makes it your business #i used to think these things wrre funny bc they are everywhere so if everyone thinks its funny obviously its gotta be funny right #nah no thanks nowadays (also. autism. sucky ass bitch) #however your mind settles anon—just make sure youre comfy yk #and respect ppl! even if theyre public figures who might not be on the internet at all #if you were on the receiving end what would you want yk #either way <3 and my messages and inbox are always open

[skitskatdacat63]

what is bird wife's name :v

Aahhh hi hello :D I rarely mention my ocs names bcs I don't like random namedropping(and I enjoy being coy 🤭) so ty for asking! Her name is Ustinya(Устинья)

You didn't ask for this, but. My OC pet project is designing goddesses for all the planets(+ the sun and moon.) I say pet project as if I haven't been working on it continuously for 6+ years ;;;; But she is the god of Uranus :D and she is slavic and a bird person. Here's some various old art of her since I've not drawn her too much recently(except for today's portrait)

She's probably one of my fav designs I've ever made. I really love these particular shades of blue 😭 and her outfit design is one of my favs(I LOVE LAYERING!!!) Personality wise she seems very cold on the outside, but she very much acts like a bewildered parent towards her humans, and has no interest in learning and partaking in human etiquette and conventions, but is still very fond of them and wants to take care of them :)

#every few months one of you will accidentally dip into the world of my #and every time it happens it is my favorite thing in the world #im like. you didnt ask but heres a little excerpt of my au 😭 #but gah i really love her. im so fond #she just checks a lot of boxes for ideal oc design and personality for me #<- i say as if i didnt design her myself #nah nah nah my ocs just spawn into life and i either adopt them or marry them SJKFKGMG #<- i just have a tendency to call them wife or child(based on their characteristics lol) #there are 3 genders. wife. baby. and random male oc that just exists #anyways i want to be picked up by her and cuddled in her giant cape #hmm i dont think ive drawn any art like that w her. maybe a sketch. it seems like smth lonely me would do #but ah yes anywyas. lanky long bird wife beloved #also im not ignoring her btw i just have um *a lot* of ocs ;;; and draw fanart so unfortunately i dont have a lot of energy for most of the #catie.asks.

[genderqueer-karma]

asked my mom how many women were here she said “four”

#yo it's d :) #babes…………… #also this graphic is by vkei edits on twt! i have it printed and on my wall <3 #but nah i giggled a bunch but i think it was both nerves and also the fact that she very much does not understand #me n the boys n our 4d chess genders (/jokey joke) #maybe i’ll main tag this later

[schadenfreudich]

It's practically drowning in women

#nah. only 6 people and only like 3 of them actually call themselves women #and the other three are neutral to feminine in gender #which unlike boyfriends are all of its girlfriends and adjacent #but it's currently being very lesbian #-wolfgang #about franz

[waylouder]

hello. welcome to me.

call me N, or 'yours' if you prefer ;)

this is a minor-free kink blog. minors are not to follow me.

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♡ tickling (fucking obviously) BTW: if you don't want vids and gifs of this kink in ur dash, i use the tag 'irl tickles'

♡ cnc

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♡ orgasm control

♡ degradation & praise

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[rubyrevenger]

Yeah okay so I think am genderfluid after all. I was just having a 3-month-long boy phase. Now I'm feeling like a girl.

#tbh was kinda confused cause i had figured that if your genderfluid you like change genders like every few days but nah #my brain decided to pull a long one apparently #anyway when you've had 3 months to come terms with not being a girl and then you are again. fun. #identity fuckery

[bubbled-clouds]

local enby finds out they Aren’t built different, they just fail to see themselves as a human being

#have not given proper acknowledgment and acceptance to my emotions in over a month #and boy oh boy is it kicking me in the fucking ass rn </3 #guys. unfortunately you Can’t ignore your emotions and hope it’ll make the ick feeling go away. #CRAZY. #nah ive been so Tired lately despite getting lots of sleep and just constantly overstimulated and frustrated like. THIS IS NOT WHO I AM !!! #MAKE IT STOP !!!! #(i say. fully knowing how i can actually make it stop yet refuse to do so.) #bee rambles #just my silly little thoughts and my silly little worries over my grades and friends and family and future #writing this post gave me gender euphoria tho so that was a slay #I HAVE TO REFER TO MYSELF AS S H E irl and its Disgusting #oh yeah my gender dysphoria has gotten Significantly More Bad #IDK WHY. #i js. have been hating my hair. and just. #why can i not take the physical form of a box :( #ok thats all #hopefully it gets better lmao #who knows #silly lil post

[magicalboycupid]

the shiver gender discourse is SO FUCKING stupid and its bc of the termianlly online splatoon fandom that expects nintendo to hand them rep (for some reason) that im so sick of

Ugh yeah :/ getting representation would be nice, but trying to convince others that a character is actually something she is not, and harassing them when they don’t agree… not the move -_-

#ppl saying that Nintendo of America is censoring her true gender…. nah that ain’t it #yes they’ve fucked up splatoon 2 in the past #but like… with how quick things spread over the internet you don’t think this would’ve been headline news???? #there would’ve been so much outrage #Nintendo can’t get away with this shit anymore. especially with how popular splat 3 is #ask #cupid rambles

[mothslimes]

the trans community hates me for openly admitting i don't believe being male is in my heart and soul and brain, i just think it's neat and personally the most fun/interesting/alluring identity to have. i just chose to be a guy

#mik talks #casted out from lgbt circles for saying people arent born trans or gay just like you arent born as someone whos into rock music #or likes to write books. or wants to marry jakey and have 4 children. etc #but you also cant turn someone gay or trans. its a complex net of personal experiences and some form of biological predisposition #but in my heart i think gender is fake and everyone is capable of being attracted to anyone <3 #should they be forced to tho? HELL NAH. this is what we should fight for #we shouldnt have to argue some 'i was born this way' narrative that might not be true because evreything in life is fluid #just to be able to do what we want!!!!! #^^^^^^controversial

[lucy-shining-star]

Hmm. I should be doing other thing than watching how pregnancy work in sims but good to know why during that one pregnancy in medieval I couldn’t get a girl

#i tried to use sims 2 method in game that's mechanic are closest to sims 3 #...although funny i was convinced until lately that gender in sims 2 is chosen few hours before #birth not at the start of it #so i was saving to early in sims 2 #...also damn i remember someone saying sims 3 sims are ugly but i assumed since sims medieval is close to it in mechanics they are similar #to them but no. damn sims 3 sims are really ugly #...which made me think if sims medieval isn't closer to sims 4 but...nah they are not similar. both prettier than sims 3 and uglier than #sims 2 but. they look completely different. #why i'm wondering about this anyway though if sims 3 and 4 has the same mechanic of chosing baby's gender

[noxtivagus]

zero ffxiv ma'am ily

#tag later #once again i am begging to be that apple #or or. that scythe. or even her hat or #😭😭 WOMEN >>>> #zero my #my darling my love my beloved my sweetest my most cherished my other half my wife my gf my #i. love. her #GIRLBOSS!!!! SHE'S SO GENDER N #HDFKLASJFKLSDFJDSLKFJASDLKFASJD >< #i'd bark or meow for her or wtvr she wants #or. #NAH I #I'M EMBARRASSING MYSELF RN BUT I CAN'T HELP IT . WOMEN #her character design mwah mwah hat is peak character design #i miss her voice!!!! watch me watch a cutscene of zero rn #maybe not literally i'm not rlly doing well rn but fiction is keeping me sane #this december's gna be.. rlly empty i bet but i'll fill in the void w fiction 🥹 #everything is like falling apart rn but eh i'll manage #if the same thoughts i had earlier resurface i'll just cry it out so i won't make any rash decisions that i'll regret #i'm gna stop. oversharing so much so i'll fix my life n drown myself w fiction <3 #n i'll be fine. #i'm so.. i'm so tired #i'm so tired i'm so tired i'm so tired #but even if it feels empty even if it stays like this i'll still live #i'm sorry i'm not enough i'm sorry i can't do more i'm sorry i'm disappearing #i'm sorry i can't do more for myself n for all of you #i just want all these words n thoughts to disappear. #n maybe disappear along with them but oh well. i'll be fine someway somehow. #just forget me n hate me like you did in that nightmare i really don't know why reality's different. please just hate me #just tell me my hope's all useless so i'll just free myself from this void