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shoyoist · 1 year
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istg the biggest headache is when i suddenly notice that i'm no longer following a mutual. like — did tumblr fuck smth up and unfollow automatically or did you soft block me 💀 ESPECIALLY if it's a mutual i rlly like, like mannn what just happened idkkk 😭😭
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jojo-oliver · 7 months
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my terf+transphobe blocklist
Every terf I've found. For your blocking pleasure! Under the cut
Oh fuck there's a terf in my notes! What can I do? 1. Flag on shinigami eyes browser extension. You've probably heard of this, but it's free, available on desktop. Also available on firefox mobile I think. Has been used to improperly flag people before. Trust but verify. 2. Look through "Blogs like this one" to break the reblog chains and effectively block a whole circle of them. You could also just look through who they're reblogging from. 3. Have a quick scroll for any posts that are reportable. This takes a lot more time than the other steps, but if enough people report them, and if you're reporting something that breaks tumblr's guidelines, then their account could get taken down. Win. 4. Lastly, block. OR Block first and save yourself the psychic damage. If you're on mobile, you could block first and go back later on desktop, finding them in your blocked tumblrs list, to do the rest. Do not interact! Do not send anons! Don't even give them that. Just flag, report, block, move on. Movements don't go anywhere in silence.
Please know that there aren't actually that many of them. I've noticed from going through so many, and from how they interact in my notes... I don't want to say too much because I'm starting to feel like someone's going to read this eventually. But it can be pretty clear that they have multiple accounts. Some of them are making this their full-time jobs. Just sitting on the computer and finding trans people to bully. It's pathetic and sad. If you block all of them, they just... stop existing. Because it's a small group of people. But they do make new accounts once too many people have blocked them, every... 3-9 months? Or, I imagine, once they start to notice that the site feels empty to them and they've been blocked by too many people? It's easy to block enough of them, but I do recommend setting aside some time to do this. I also recommend taking care of your mental health afterwards. When I encounter a block list from someone else, I always check out the blog before blocking, because tools like these can be used against us as well. Shinigami eyes has been used to incorrectly mark trans people before. Trust but verify. No tool is perfect. So I'm assuming you're going to check some of these blogs out too, because that's what I would do. Set some time aside to take care of yourself afterwards please. Love you.
How to put these in your blocklist quickly
The way I do it uses desktop and your phone at the same time. Or 2 tabs on desktop. The second part is to reference the usernames or look them up. Click on your own profile picture icon and on the right hand side of the screen should be this:
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Click on "blog settings" at the bottom. You'll be brought to a new screen, where you'll scroll all the way to the bottom, and see this:
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Click on the writing thing there and then you'll finally see your block list:
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I'll find this post and reblog with more of them whenever I find them. I've never made a block list before, if I could do something better let me know &lt;;3 If someone's changed their username DM me and I'll edit it Accurate as of 2023-10-04 ----------------------------------- -Row 1- prettyrad-ical thefemalejoker42069 sirona-ryan hard--headed--woman modernamericanbreakfast meowfem uter-us mala-santa-radfem nightdepthss radfemtiktok radfem-rage glitter-soda cordycepsfem burningtheroots meanevilandcruel floradfem radsplain terf-hands gougarfem freckled-radfem radrevoltz a-toast-to-womanhood radmista -Row 2- gentlyriseandfall acidbathcat chubbyraccoonman julzlex28 kweerphobique female-prince antiyourwokehomophobia2 quinntheestallion antiporn-activist blueipa angela-anaconda-was-a-lesbian ellaacadia opabiniawillreturn coochiequeens raccoonjesus redheddebeauty nonenosome2 gendiebrainrotreceipts cornedbeef101 kaleiddie bolshefem -Row 3- irresponsiblebirdowner 1-888-narcolepsy terfytingz strozzaprete raidenfem capricorn-season cloud-enigma-blog rad-fem-r-us butch-reidentified terf-tea antigender1 the-rad-menace paperlunamoth femailment patronsaintofvulvas goyangii femmessias2 chadradfem filianongrata -Row 4- i-eat-boiled-eggs-for-breakfast conmigonoeh daughterf radishpanda adult-human-gc-female nansheonearth ilistened2transwomen magnetictapedatastorage demonlizard noncompliantbi transmisogynyiscool goblinous radbutches radicalfembabey frankenawus femmesandhoney lavendertruffles etesienne lavendeerlesbian latina-and-rad punishthegods -Row 5- shes-unforgettable blackswallowtailbutterfly iceyrukia womantichrist faxroux femgoddess-hecate radicalitch radicalblunt chocobbunnii finnishrogue cheesyradfem the-land-of-women transwomenarestillmen catsthemewsical butchlesbianz sowhatnotcreative womens-suffrage-revival-squad -Row 6- back-not-broken friendlymathematician vulva-lacking-losers lilleisak misandristdiarist lookupmedicalmisogyny irisintel womenshallrise creatorisawoman mint-fem large-gamete-maker wordsfromthewick feministfairy libertarian-princess rad-claid-plaid cisthoughtcrime powerfem feral-radfem -Row 7- lizaganderson gynoids-over-androids localbisaster tubularfem there-are-4-lights realisticflyinglesbian femjerma earwigeater destroyerofgender scumbhag clytemnestra-was-right kronkk eternal-echoes kafkaesqueneet xrgl maleswillbemale aspiringfalseidol old-school-butch radafayscage -Row 8- makeyourownopinion gcdk ex-schizo zombierightsadvocate buildingmode2fromthesims1 sofuma feministclassicist radfemlands scumlafeccia son-of-hemera terra-feminarum natures-imperfection atmospherings belastrenchcoat sublimeobjectperson wawaenjoyer feministhetic sparklypinktutu1 -Row 9- kittens2000 spacemonkeyg78 princessterf hidetothink nobleelfwarrior ancientdriftwood 10reallybigants radfemsilv elfyprincess meetmebythe1ake genderatheist religion-is-a-mental-illness s34b4ss kurwaii zlatan-dreams radradmarivy impawsterette if-you-see-gay-me lethalyellowallele dyke-chytilova molagrunda gruncheon victoriassecretagent
-Yippee you made it to the bottom! Check to see if I've added more since, if you'd like. Practice some self care. Love you.-
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mariii1 · 1 year
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░▒▓█ 𝖒𝖊𝖘𝖘𝖆𝖌𝖊𝖘 𝖋𝖗𝖔𝖒 𝖞𝖔𝖚𝖗 𝖋𝖚𝖙𝖚𝖗𝖊 █▓▒░
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Reupload since Tumblr wants to be a pos. I'm unfortunately going to be taking another break after uploading this but let me know what pac you want to see again.
DM me for paid readings
1 - you may be fighting with the people around you a lot or you might be somebody who's combative. You could have anger issues or you just don't know how to deal with anger as an emotion either from yourself or from other people. I see more conflict and a warning that if you dont deal with issues you have now with other people they will get much worse in the future. I see you potentially embarrassing yourself or coming off as irrational to others. I also see someone trying to stab you in the back or take something from you because it either gives them pleasure to see and know that they made you upset or they feel like it's easy to take things from you because they view you as crazy/don't take you seriously. If you're deciding whether or not you should cut someone off because they make you feel emotionally out of balance, do it. I'm getting it's a trauma response; this person knows how to manipulate you. They are a bully, this could be a family member.
2 - Something about a future partner. You'll be freeing yourself from a capitalistic mentality. If you believe in hustle culture, you'll learn the hard way that it's not gonna help you. I see some of you burning out real quick from that. You're not gonna care about money in the future. For a few of you, this obsession with work and money comes from being financially abused whether by a partner for most or by a family member/guardian. I see you not letting money or work ethic define you or be your entire personality for some. If you feel stuck now, it has to do with money. I was getting more rude messages but I feel this comes from people around (they might not be close to you either) who find your mindset annoying and/or they see right through it.
3 - if you have a partner you might break up worth them. You will realize that they were never that good to you. This reminds me of a tiktok where this girl was saying that (to people watching) "he's not special". "He" does normal things and you make it special when it's not. Its the basics of being human, it's how he should've treated you even if you weren't in a relationship. This could be a groomer or some sort of abuser romantically for a lot of you. This could also be someone you put on a pedestal romantically if you don't have a partner. Maybe your crush actually treats you like a piece of shit. This could also apply to those in talking stages in dating apps and such. You're gonna realize someone isn't shit and you only really put them on a pedestal bc you either didn't like yourself or you were bored.
4 - this is a warning for some and others know its gonna happen. There are a few of you planning this on purpose. You might be veryyyy stressed out and over worked in the future. This could result from you not listening to yourself especially if this relates to some sort of decision. If its life altering you will regret it a lot it's just gonna make things harder. Im getting this could have to do with education. There's something you really should have listened to yourself about and it might be too late. My best guess is that if you know what this is, you might even be trying to get out of it currently. This is specific for some people. If you don't get it, it's not for you. This is for people who have been actively trying to block their thoughts and opinions on something out.
5 - ok so you are stopping a cycle if not you will be. However, when you stop, you're going to be stagnant. For a lot of you it can feel like you're stopping the flow of type life in a way. I see you not making any new moves or decisions which will keep you in one place even though you have ended a cycle. It's like you won't find something new or move on to the next thing. I see you being scared of your old cycle repeating or something worse coming your way. I feel this has to do with career or education. It seems you might've felt heavily overworked and not compensated for your work or you didn't get the right outcome so now you just don't want to do anything. Hmm this would be interesting to do a paid reading on.
6 - you're going to give up on presenting as something. In particular, a certain personality. You might have internalizations you're working on, for some of you this has to do with gender transitioning (we're in this together 😭) I see for most that this has to do with again a workplace or just a hostile environment. Maybe in the past you thought that not saying anything and just ignoring ppl would help you, but you see that's not the case. A lot of you had this idea that you needed to be the bigger person or act like ppl weren't worth your time but it was just you not knowing how else to approach conflict. So i see you finally getting someone in trouble with some sort of plan or just speaking your mind in a way that brings action ig. Yeah you might've really hoped to get along with someone but you'll see its just not possible and they refuse to leave you alone.
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efangamez · 1 year
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Hey you beautiful people!
My name is EfanGamez, a very neurodivergent trans and pan creator who has created 20+ games and have gotten nearly 30,000 downloads on my games!
On this blog, you can find some stuff that I have created, as well as just some fun stuff. I'm not here to preach to people or make sales only; I just want people to enjoy what I make!
You can find my games right here. I promise they're amazing!
If you want separate stores, look below as well!
Itch.io
DriveThruRPG
Kofi
Have a wonderful day! 💜✨💜✨
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MY BOUNDARIES <3
So a little PSA going forward btw! This isn't meant as a call out or anything, but a stating of boundaries with my page and communication, as well as some clear ups!
I am incredibly mentally ill and autistic, with memory loss and attention disorders, so if we communicate and things are a little wonky, let me know! Sometimes I'm unaware what I'm saying may be a little rude, so please kindly let me know!
Boundary 1: Please do not ask me to review game items of yours or someone else's! I currently am trying to simply exist in this world by eating, drinking, and showering, so I may not have time to read your games, even if they're really short. I think that, for me right now, it puts a lot of pressure on me that I just cannot deal with right now.
Boundary 2: Please do not ask for advice or tips unsolicited unless through an ask. Again, because I'm a slow texter and have memory loss, I may not be able to get back to you, and I'd much rather you just ask publicly than privately.
Boundary 3: Please no unsolicited DMs. I have learned the hard way many people on this app who DM me wanting something, trying to strike up conversations, or love bomb you, are trying to get something out of you, and I'm kinda tired of it, frankly. Some people who have DMed me have become cool peeps I can talk to, but some have manipulated me and used me, and when I was of no use, discarded me. Because of this, please ONLY DM me if I have expressed a want to otherwise! (This is for mostly random people I don't know, so if we're already talking, we should be good!)
Boundary 4:This kinda goes without saying, but please do not interact with me if you are a minor. This is an 18+ page.
Boundary 5: This one may sting for some people, but it's my personal boundary and it has nothing to do with people individually. I do not wish to be called a "friend" of yours unless I myself call you that. It's a term I hold quite dear and hold for a VERY few people. I'm more like an acquaintance to many people or even just one step up from stranger. Again, it does not mean I don't like you, I just hold friendships super close to my heart, and I've been burned calling people friend who truly are not mine.
Boundary 6: This one is kinda twofold. I want people to know that if my boundaries are crossed after warning, I will block you. My mental health cannot take constant violations of my boundaries, and thus I have to enforce them. The next is that I will ALWAYS restate a boundary with someone, because I'll never expect anyone to know a boundary without them knowing, so if it happens, I'll let you know, sometimes more than once if I know you well enough.
Boundary 7: I will ALWAYS talk about politics or human rights issues, so if you have an issue with that, please do not interact with me. I do not wish to be comrades with those who are "apolitical".
And that's it! I know it's a ton, but like I said, I'll never expect anyone to know automatically what my boundaries are, so if ya mess up, I'll let ya know very kindly!
I'll also have this up on my pinned post so that way people can know exactly my boundaries are!
Have a wonderful day to y'all, and to my fellow disabled and mentally ill baddies out there; you are absolutely loved, and please don't drive yourself to spiral because your feelings are ALWAYS valid (this goes to me too lol).
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hexplaything · 4 months
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ʚ*ɞ hi! my name is jester. i follow from fbismostwanted
ʚ*ɞ 22 . they/them . bi . sub+bottom (slightly switchy) . 4'11
ʚ*ɞ mutuals: the occasional sext/flirty/nsfw comment in asks/dms is alright! im not really looking for anything serious or consistent as of now, so pls don't expect anything more than friendly mutuals flirting. i get nervous about sending pics so pls don't ask, ill offer if i feel comfy. i don't mind receiving pics from mutuals, just ask first! also feel free to dm just to be friends too! id love friends to game with :> ( i play dbd, ovw, and d2) mutuals can ask for discord too!!
ʚ*ɞ i dont tag specific kinks, and i post "The Bad Kinks" so please scroll at ur own discretion. if you dont like it, then block me (id also advise you to let me know and i can also block you, to avoid me interacting with you in the future, since this isn't my main blog. no hard feelings about it, i'll understand completely. curating ur own spaces n all that jazz. i just ask that you're respectful). i don't block for specific kinks, it's all respect around here
ʚ*ɞ tags for my content include: my pics, my audios, my text posts, my answered asks (they will also be in the tags of this post)
ʚ*ɞ adults only, if you are not 18+ leave. there better be an age in your bio and it better be readily available (im not deciphering roman fucking numerals). if not, this gets you blocked too. will also just block if you make me uncomfortable in any way, don't take it personally
ʚ*ɞ if you feel like being nice i have a steam wishlist :>
ʚ*ɞ yes my url is a dead by daylight reference. im severely autistic and it has been my special interest for 3 years, talk to me abt it <3
last updated 4/22/2024
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loveless-venom · 5 months
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[March.26.2024]
You can call me Venom or Cas, whichever you prefer <3
I prefer he/him pronouns for myself but it/its is alright as well
This is very much an 18+ blog so those who do not meet that requirement leave
18 y/o, trans man
not new to the nsft side of this app just a new blog
Switch & Vers but with a noticeable Sub & Bottom lean
You can reblog anything I post, it's chill dw
PLEASE SEND ASKS, I LUV THEM
DO NOT INTERACT PLEASE: MINORS IDK HOW MANY TIMES I GOTTA SAY THIS BUT LEAVE PLS, otherwise I will block as I see fit
More information below the cut
Kinks 💚: petplay, heirophilia, royalty, impact play, corruption, free use, exhibition/voyeur, humiliation, praise & degradation, cnc, slight blood, + probably some more I can't think of or haven't figured out yet
Hard limits: heavy neglect play, feet, shit/vomit, ageplay, incest/fauxcest
Terms to use for my body: chest, tits, cunt, boycunt, pussy, hole, dick/cock, tdick/tcock
Pet names: you can use just about anything, but I'll let you know if I don't like it
Tags:
- "venom speaks" for original text posts
- "venom.pics" for my own pictures
PLEASE NOTE:
I am a man, use your best judgement when reblogging my posts and if you're a "men DNI" blog literally why would you reblog my shit lmao
A big reason this blog exists is for my own self exploration, things will likely change and develop
Those over 25 may interact, but pls don't dm
Otherwise dms are pretty much open, though if your vibe is off I will block you
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bigbelsammy · 2 years
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Welcome to the realm of the ❤sam❤
Yay~~~.....
I'll set up some rules in order to make a good experience for both you and me 🙂
1. This is an NSFW blog, meaning anyone under 18+ needs to get out
2. don't send me pics of you trying to get my attention, I'll ask you to not do that and if you do it again.... well, sorry but I'm not replying anymore.
3. No Dick pics! That should be self explanatory... dick= block
4. I'm a human being too and I got a life outside tumblr, if I don't reply right away is because I'm either at work or I'm doing something else, don't think I'm ignoring you unless you broke rule no. 2
5. I'm only putting this one because it has already happened and I can't believe I'm saying this but... don't ask me to describe my genitals, seriously man.... that's creepy.
6. No I don't wanna meet irl
7. Please respect my gender, I know I may be a “futa” to some but talking about my genitals is just not appropriate. Specially without consent. A lot of us struggle with dysphoria and we don’t like talking about it. So just keep it on the low
8. Any images and pics I post here are watermarked, I do not wanna see them used by a fake account. I will ask you to remove them if I do find out.
I wanna have fun too and I wanna be able to enjoy this as the pervert that I am 😁 I also wanna interact with all of you! I love replying to dms and asks! That's one of my favorite past times so please let's be fair and let's have some fun!!
Kink list
-pregnancy {obv}
- multiples
-breeding
-rapid pregnancy
-alien pregnancy
-cuminflation
-belly inflation
-noise play (as in not allowed to moan during sex)
-burping
-weight gain
-force feeding
-bdsm kinks such as spanking (yeah i’m not ashamed) bondage, CNC, orgasm denial, begging, degradation, being used, dominated.
-teasing
here is a list of stuff i’m not really into but don’t mind them:
-birth
-water inflation
-anal
here is a list of hard no’s
-underage
-cutting
-hot wax
-anything that would scar me
I might expand the list as time goes on but there it is!
FAQ:
-what's your ideal pregnancy size: triplets
-are you a feedee?: yes
-are you pregnant?: I wish
-will there be a universe in the existential plane where humans are not the dominant species in our earth?: possibly
-you like marvel?: yes
-which movie?: yes
-you like sex?: yes
-how many times a week?: yes
-How big you wanna be?: yes
-how did you get into pregnancy?: I've always been into it as far as I can remember. It flourished in my teenage years when I finally realized seeing women in big bellies turned me on and wished to be like them. I fell in love with the idea of being pregnant and carrying around a pregnant belly with a baby inside.
-Are you pregnant?: no
-Is it pretend?: yes
-you sure you're not pregnant: I'm pretty sure
-do you wanna be?: I'll let you figure that out
-are you suuuuuure?: yes
-that belly looks real: it's fake!
-what are your kinks?: check my kink list
-How old are you?: check bio
-do you love me: I like you as a fan
-can I be your boyfriend/ girlfriend?: no sorry, I'm taken
-can I still be?: no
-please?: NO
if you wish to donate, you can dm me. you can pay me through square and the amounts are as follow
-5$ just donate
-15$ buy me lunch
-35$ stuff me
-50$ fill me up
Here are all my links
Please consider subscribing to DeviantArt
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yooniesim · 1 year
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any suggestions for becoming a sims based blog? I used to do it back in the hayday of sims 3 but it's been YEARS and I still absolutely love making sims, but I'm too shy and nervous to interact with the community ;;;
hi nonny! this is a complicated question that I'm not sure I'm the best person to ask lol but let me try it out. I think I'm gonna separate it into two parts for ease of reading. And sorry if it's a bit more cynical than you probably expected. I've just learned a lot i wish I had done from the start, lol. So here we go.
Sims content
Post whatever tf you feel like. If you love making sims, post the hell outta them and don't worry about what anyone thinks. There's no one perfect type of content to appeal to everyone; the community is made up of a million smaller niche ones. Editors, sim makers, gameplayers, storytellers, cc makers, etc. If you're passionate about it, you'll find people that love your posts. So don't worry too much.
Don't get too hung up on editing, if you want your pics to look "better" then use gshade/reshade and/or simple psd actions to your liking. Don't let it get stressful cos it ain't worth it. If you don't enjoy editing, don't do it at all. (I wrote more about how I edit & make it easier in this post)
Try your very best not to worry about notes. I know it's hard. Everyone wants their stuff to be seen, but when it comes to engagement on here, you're aiming for quality over quantity. A few awesome mutuals commenting on your stuff is way better than 600 silent likes. Also, having more attention sucks bc it brings the vile swamp rats out of their holes to see what shit they can stir up. The brief serotonins aint worth it. Just aim to find a few cool ppl to talk about your sims with cos thats all that matters.
If you want, find bachelor/ette or similar challenges ppl are doing and submit sims for them. And once you get some mutuals/followers, open sim requests so you can make sims for people. It's super fun and awesome to see your sims in other people's games! And you don't have to talk too much if you don't feel like it, but it's an easy way to get involved with others.
Social stuff & safety
Comment on peoples posts often if you like them. Engage with ppl. Reblog posts you see you like but don't really have any reblogs. I know you said you're shy but, this is most of the way to actual have mutuals that enjoy talking to you and comment on your stuff as well. You can just not talk if you want but it'll make it harder to have any engagement unless you're really good at edits or cc making.
Don't get involved with drama/discourse, it means nothing and amounts to nothing. If you're going to boost someone else's post, look into it first and look for evidence that it's even true before you reblog. If people hate on you in your inbox, block the anon and don't respond even to laugh at them. Block anyone that gives you bad vibes. They look at you funny, breathe wrong, use a color you don't like. Block. If anyone tries to start shit with you, block & completely ignore them & don't comment on it. It hurts, but there's nothing you can do about it, and people will move on if you ignore them.
Don't reveal any personal info about yourself on here or to anyone in DMs. Don't use your real name. Don't have anything connected to your other socials. Don't trust anyone on here with your vulnerable emotions, past trauma, etc. And don't say anything in DM you wouldn't feel comfortable with everyone else on the internet potentially seeing.
If you pledge to people on patreon, be aware that your email will show up on their end when you do. Dont use your real name as your patreon username.
If simblr is causing you stress, you feel like your mental health is suffering, take breaks. Log off or delete the app for a while.
And... I think that's all I can think of for now. If there's anything else detailed you wanna ask about feel free. But these are just my general thoughts. Good luck, nonny :)
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vukovich · 1 year
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1. You don't have to answer this (obviously).
2. I'd drop into your DMs with this except we don't know each other outside of me bungling up a comment I made on one of your fics awhile ago and you firmly, but graciously, correcting me (as you should).
But I have to say this. All these anons trying to tell you to "do better" truly need to get off the internet or at least out of your ask box.
I saw the original post and OP had a good point. I even liked it and queued it up to rb. You, Vukovich, added to the conversation in a way that was also a good point; you're not worried and explained why in a way that makes perfect sense to me.
No one NEEDS to do better. We are who we are in this space. Isn't that part of the joy of fandom? To be unapologetically ourselves with all our interests? No one is performing a public service. Most people here are not publicly-known individuals. Fandom can be activism for/against (insert issue here), but it doesn't HAVE to be. Sure, it's great when you find your people, but assuming everyone agrees with everything is a a good way to ruin your experience.
Communities can be concerned about changes, but not every individual contributor has to agree on all points. Yes, even those with controversial takes (that are way more serious than someone not being worried about AI). I'm sure fandom is weaponized for much worse things.
And trying to use shame and guilt is not a usefool method to change behaviors. Furthermore, why are you trying to change an internet stranger's mind? What miserable wheel are you choosing to walking on?
Vuk, I'm sorry for ranting in your ask box. But if you post this: Anons, I'm saying this as kindly as I know how - You are solely responsible for cultivating your own space. If you feel so strongly you need to try to parent/tone police someone else because you think you know better, BLOCK THEM. Protect your energy for the things that are actually worth. I've yet to meet a troll who actually feels good about harassing people.
Welp, this is the only thing on Tumblr this week that made me cry. Anon, I genuinely have no idea who you are, which is probably good for you, because it would be a hell of a hug.
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(Dusts off the massive "community organization" section of her CV) --
If watching this Tumblr drama unfold intimidated you, this section is for you.
You should know that: 1. This was bullying. Let's call it what your school counselor would call it. Bullying. Punching down? Check. Recruiting others? Check. Repetitive, targeted behavior? Check.
2. The private support I received outnumbered the anon hatemail by roughly 10:1. I heard from people I worked with years ago, and it was so good to catch up. I did not lose any readers, subscribers, or Tumblr followers, at least not looking at the numbers.
3. When talking to the half-dozen or so creators I'm currently collaborating with, I mentioned in passing that they could drop me with no hard feelings. They laughed. No one even considered not working with me in the future.
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In summary, the fandom is not a "community" any more than people who coexist in an apartment building. Strangers with huge followings on Tumblr are just noisy upstairs neighbors, but if you knock on enough doors, you will find your people.
The folks in this fandom you choose to work with, and who you show your writing to when it's tender and new, those people are your community. There is no trust fall quite like pouring your heart into a gdoc and sharing the link with someone.
When we find those people, we find solid ground. As writers and artists, we become bolder. We become more authentically ourselves. Our stories become so intrinsically us that nothing artificial could ever, ever hope to replace us.
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roeisyearning · 4 months
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gonna filter all of my Sexual Deviances here so i can be more Explicit with myself and what i have here
this post is gonna be a lot but please read if you wanna interact with me, it's like a neat little guidebook :3
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hi again, i'm still roe!
my main personal page is @roeisanerd!
22 year old trans woman from upstate New York (don't ask further i won't say)
on HRT since april 2023!
i have the fattest ass and thickest thighs of anyone without question :)
favorite kinks: cnc/freeuse, breeding, cum (being cummed on/in anywhere on my body), bondage, being dominated (but not overly degraded!), sensory deprivation (blindfolds, smothering, choking), PRAISE AND COMPLIMENTS!!!!, brusing/marks, scratching/biting/light pain, edging
not into/limits (easiest way to at best turn me off, or at worst get blocked): piss, scat, blood, petplay (not into Any aspect of it!!), ageplay, detrans/misgendering, the word "daddy" or anything related
gonna tag all original pics of myself with #it's roe so it hopefully stands out more!
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misc. things to note:
i am broke as hell! as much as i would love to pay for content, i just can't so please don't even ask. (it also just means you can't read this so i won't even bother responding to buy requests)
i don't sell either! i don't wanna make money off of my body (i don't think it's attractive enough for it anyways) so everything here will be free for yall to cum to 😌 THIS MEANS NO ASKING FOR CUSTOM CONTENT OR OFFERING MONEY FOR CUSTOM SHIT. again any requests will be Hard Ignored bc it also means you didn't read this.
i am VERY AUTISTIC so that means i'm insanely bad with understanding boundaries/lines, i will always try to understand and respect Any boundary Anyone sets with me but they need to be communicated very clearly or else my anxiety takes over and no one wants to see that, and please be patient with me in case i cross one (BUT LET ME KNOW OR ELSE I'LL NEVER FIGURE IT OUT!!!)
TERFS/RADFEMS/DUMBASSES STAY OUT! IT'S ON SIGHT!!!
i welcome all DM's but if you want a response, do more than just "hi" or some other basic ass bullshit.
If you don't know what to ask/start talking to me with, ask anything from here! I'll always be happy to answer :)
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come say hi, stay a while! my boobs are soft i swear
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efangamez · 21 days
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So a little PSA going forward btw! This isn't meant as a call out or anything, but a stating of boundaries with my page and communication, as well as some clear ups!
I am incredibly mentally ill and autistic, with memory loss and attention disorders, so if we communicate and things are a little wonky, let me know! Sometimes I'm unaware what I'm saying may be a little rude, so please kindly let me know!
Boundary 1: Please do not ask me to review game items of yours or someone else's! I currently am trying to simply exist in this world by eating, drinking, and showering, so I may not have time to read your games, even if they're really short. I think that, for me right now, it puts a lot of pressure on me that I just cannot deal with right now.
Boundary 2: Please do not ask for advice or tips unsolicited unless through an ask. Again, because I'm a slow texter and have memory loss, I may not be able to get back to you, and I'd much rather you just ask publicly than privately.
Boundary 3: Please no unsolicited DMs. I have learned the hard way many people on this app who DM me wanting something, trying to strike up conversations, or love bomb you, are trying to get something out of you, and I'm kinda tired of it, frankly. Some people who have DMed me have become cool peeps I can talk to, but some have manipulated me and used me, and when I was of no use, discarded me. Because of this, please ONLY DM me if I have expressed a want to otherwise! (This is for mostly random people I don't know, so if we're already talking, we should be good!)
Boundary 4: This kinda goes without saying, but please do not interact with me if you are a minor. This is an 18+ page.
Boundary 5: This one may sting for some people, but it's my personal boundary and it has nothing to do with people individually. I do not wish to be called a "friend" of yours unless I myself call you that. It's a term I hold quite dear and hold for a VERY few people. I'm more like an acquaintance to many people or even just one step up from stranger. Again, it does not mean I don't like you, I just hold friendships super close to my heart, and I've been burned calling people friend who truly are not mine.
Boundary 6: This one is kinda twofold. I want people to know that if my boundaries are crossed after warning, I will block you. My mental health cannot take constant violations of my boundaries, and thus I have to enforce them. The next is that I will ALWAYS restate a boundary with someone, because I'll never expect anyone to know a boundary without them knowing, so if it happens, I'll let you know, sometimes more than once if I know you well enough.
Boundary 7: I will ALWAYS talk about politics or human rights issues, so if you have an issue with that, please do not interact with me. I do not wish to be comrades with those who are "apolitical".
And that's it! I know it's a ton, but like I said, I'll never expect anyone to know automatically what my boundaries are, so if ya mess up, I'll let ya know very kindly!
I'll also have this up on my pinned post so that way people can know exactly my boundaries are!
Have a wonderful day to y'all, and to my fellow disabled and mentally ill baddies out there; you are absolutely loved, and please don't drive yourself to spiral because your feelings are ALWAYS valid (this goes to me too lol).
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malaks-perch · 1 year
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Helloooo!
I’m trying to start writing for the Arcana, but I keep struggling to write for Portia.
Do you have any tips?? ( on writing for Portia, or just for writers block in general. )
take as long as you need & have a good day.
oh gosh, tips???😳 guys know that i tried. if you post any of these tips elsewhere pls credit me bc i worked really hard on this but without furtherado
ymmm firstly what ive learned about writing is everyone has their own perception of characters so not all outcomes are gonna be the same, i naturally took one look at portia and thought:
yeah, there's bound to be some mischievous crack there, only because thats who i perceive portia to be.
when writing i have to consider the fact portia is a character with feelings and flaws so she's not going to take to everyone immediately. i took one look at lucio wnd went ; yes, hes a chaos gremlin
but portia, in my opinion, would try to reel anyone wanting to go near lucio back in because portia was different feelings about him, different morals, and her worries that she's set aside and experienced from her encounters with lucio (hold on! don't, don't go over there. you need to be careful around him, he's not to be taken lightly)
but tips on writing portia..
theres canon and fanon, it's nice to let your readers know every now and then which one you're leaning towards. here's a helpful guide of definitions defining both terms: what is canon and what is fanon?
references! references! references! it's hard to write a characters sometimes, for me at least, when there's little to no writing about that character because you have to figure out little specifics like how would muriel handle one of his chickens being mangled or what does nadia do when she tastes a dish she doesn't like? sometimes it's hard to tell by yourself so pick a few fics that you really like, reblog them, take notes on what characterizations you like or what sticks out to you most, having a reference lets you have base and a foundation to go off of.
alternatively; it's nice to have friends/responsive readers in the same fandom because you can read what they think portia might've/would do in the next chapter or what they thought portia would have done. ie, it's nice to have a place to start when you're writing characterizations about an unfamiliar character
hmm... practice. practice is good, take some prompts or talk to a friend, putting your characters in every day conflicts is a good way to start writing for them. you ripped your favorite shirt - does portia swear like a sailor or collapse to her knees with remorse if it happens or does she just fix it? no cereal left in your cupboards - does portia deflate or go get some? basically there's a lot of questions and as a writer, you get to determine your own answers for them because there's no writer pop up block thats going to say uh no, this character doesn't do that. thats bull and you're the one writing this character so go nuts.
if you genuinely don't know where to start on writing for a charcter, this works for me without fail:
1. read through writing prompts and rp prompts from a resource blog (type in rp prompts, you'll get tons), take note of prompts you like
2. revisit official content: reread that one book, go through your favorite arcana chapters, rewatch that tv show. ideas pop back up. you might lack the gas to write them but jot down the ideas. write them down bc i promise you'll forget all seven of them.
3. if you have your concept or idea, figure out the reason why your character is doing the things they're doing. is it for approval? is it because they want to hold their hand for a night so the other doesn't suspect them? add some stakes. figure out the ending. give your story conflict and make it stick.
writer's block. the enemy of the brain. a procrasinators best friend
alright look. everyone knows theres no upsie daisy out of it. if there is TELL ME. DM ME. COMMENT. PLS EVERYONS DESPERATE. but anyway the best way you can fight it, is to let it breathe.
if you're facing writers block then map out the plot. you need to know where you are and figure out where the story is supposed to be going. the story should have a checkpoint as to where it needs to be. get there.
is this more than one chapter?? figure out what goes in the chapter you're in, what happened in the previous one, okay, and now move on to the next one. you know what you already have, somethings not working between Point A and Point B, so just move on to a different part of the story.
it's not more than one chapter? same thing. you should reevaluate what's happened, where you are, and what needs to happen. throw something to move the story in the fray. maybe it won't make sense now, but you'll be able to write off of it and move forward. you can go back and change it later if you don't like it.
if you're stuck, the problem is probably ten lines back or so. i thought that was bs when i read it for the first time, but then i checked a story once and found a characters actions were holding up my progress, changed it, and moved forward.
the hardest method of all for me is the let it breathe method.
let your mind breathe and forget about the fic, move on to a different show and relax. your brain needs a break whether you believe me or feel like you need one. you need a break and your mind needs to breathe bc you're suffocating it with one subject. so change it. let your mind breathe and change the subject.
let the work breathe. you've been harassing the words. overediting, overthinking that one sentence, you don't know what it needs and you've reread it too many times. let it go, do something else, you can go back to it in a few days and you'll connect the pieces later.
let yourself breathe. this is honestly a little repetitive and ugh, disgusting 'i don't need to breathe'. babe, you're obsessed with a deadline in your head, the image of a final perfect draft, obsessed to get it done. you probably lost sight of the fact you should be writing for yourself. writing for yourself is supposed to be fun. you're not having fun, go somewhere else until you can properly allow your mind to connect theories and concepts together. you need to go have some me time and it needs to last more than twenty four hours or until you stop checking the clock to see if twenty four hours have gone by yet or actually until you stop checking the clock to see when you can get back to your work all together.
is it an external source hindering you from writing? is your support group not giving the right support or could it be that you're not receiving the feedback you need? make a bulleted list of points you need to figure out about your work and then rewrite that list as questions for a beta reader or yourself to answer.
whewww that's a lot of advice. ive been writing for a little bit, i started in middle school and im still reading tips on how to further my writing. i ask around and i look around, but theres no set bar for anything. writing is hard, writing fantic is hard, and dont even get me started on writers block. but if you need help, the answers are either out there at your fingertips or maybe your mind needs a break before you can unscramble them from in there.
i hope this helps and let me know if you ever need any help with portia. xoxo
— the shopkeep
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pregnantinplaid · 1 year
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alright let's try this again
welcome back!! new blog!!
Yay~~~.....
I'll set up some rules in order to make a good experience for both you and me 🙂
1. This is an NSFW blog, meaning anyone under 18+ needs to get out
2. don't send me pics of you trying to get my attention, I'll ask you to not do that and if you do it again.... well, sorry but I'm not replying anymore.
3. No Dick pics! That should be self explanatory... dick= block
4. I'm a human being too and I got a life outside tumblr, if I don't reply right away is because I'm either at work or I'm doing something else, don't think I'm ignoring you unless you broke rule no. 2
5. I'm only putting this one because it has already happened and I can't believe I'm saying this but... don't ask me to describe my pussy, seriously man.... that's creepy.
6. No I don't wanna meet irl
7. Please respect my gender, I know I may be a “futa” to some but talking about my genitals is just not appropriate. Specially without consent. A lot of us struggle with dysmorphia and we don’t like talking about it. So just keep it on the low
8. Any images and pics I post here are watermarked, I do not wanna see them used by a fake account. I will ask you to remove them if I do find out.
I wanna have fun too and I wanna be able to enjoy this as the pervert that I am 😁 I also wanna interact with all of you! I love replying to dms and asks! That's one of my favorite past times so please let's be fair and let's have some fun!!
Kink list
-pregnancy {obv}
- multiples
-breeding
-rapid pregnancy
-alien pregnancy
-cuminflation
-belly inflation
-noise play (as in not allowed to moan during sex)
-burping
-weight gain
-force feeding
-bdsm kinks such as spanking (yeah i’m not ashamed) bondage, CNC, orgasm denial, begging, degradation, being used, dominated.
-teasing
here is a list of stuff i’m not really into but don’t mind them:
-birth
-bursting
-water inflation
-animal breeding
-anal
here is a list of hard no’s
-underage
-cutting
-hot wax
-anything that would scar me
I might expand the list as time goes on but there it is!
FAQ:
-what's your ideal pregnancy size: triplets
-are you a feedee?: no
-do you want to...: no I don't want to be one
-sure?: yes
-are you pregnant?: I wish
-will there be a universe in the existential plane where humans are not the dominant species in our earth?: possibly
-you like marvel?: yes
-which movie?: yes
-you like sex?: yes
-how many times a week?: yes
-How big you wanna be?: yes
-how did you get into pregnancy?: I've always been into it as far as I can remember. It flourished in my teenage years when I finally realized seeing women in big bellies turned me on and wished to be like them. I fell in love with the idea of being pregnant and carrying around a pregnant belly with a baby inside.
-Are you pregnant?: no
-Is it pretend?: yes
-you sure you're not pregnant: I'm pretty sure
-do you wanna be?: I'll let you figure that out
-are you suuuuuure?: yes
-that belly looks real: it's fake!
-what are your kinks?: check my kink list
-How old are you?: check bio
-do you love me: I like you as a fan
-can I be your boyfriend/ girlfriend?: no sorry, I'm taken
-can I still be?: no
-please?: NO
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draculagerard · 9 months
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unacceptable. i ADORE talking to you and seeing your on my dash/in my inbox
You're SOOO funny. like a broad range of humor imo. you're sometimes a silly goofy little guy, sometimes you're my friend teasing me (in a way that's never hurt my feelings!), sometimes you're a tired babysitter (cough, cough, randy's sticks). you get the beat that goes with humor and ur jokes always at the very least make me smile
you're SOOOOOO nice. not just to me. it makes me SOOOO happy to see you interact with other mutuals (or ur mutuals sometimes) because you're always super fun and sweet. and then when i'm in that seat i'm always super at eas because yeah this guy's not gonna like. be a dick :3. he's super nice actually! also this is like, normal and expected, but i feel like i can talk to you and change the subject when talking to you (which why is this important? it's just one of my insecurities and my irls aren't the best at letting me talk so that fact i feel alright with talking to you is rlly nice :3)
small mention that you're like super creative and skilled and you get colors and pacing and all that super well. ur art, ur amvs, hell ur theme rn are always BANGERS and i'm so happy to see them
i love when you ramble to me about any of your interests! even if you're telling me something that isn't particularity wild. maybe it's just be i adore listening in general but your way of talking (well, typing but. blah specifies don't matter) keeps my attention well and makes me happy to see you in my dms. and while i may bully you a bit for your interests they're always pretty uhmmmm enthralling? feels weird to use "interesting" to describe and interest because like yeah that's the point
as far as i know you're such a good person!!! not only because i like..agree w/ u about everything. but just bringing back the point of "sweet" with this but you just seem so kind!!! and very smart! i think you can be very media literate but also have fun with fanon and shit which i admire (i wonder why.......[looks at block list])
uhmm i don't mean to like. repeat myself but really the fact that i don't feel judged by you is fantastic. i rlly struggle with the idea that i'm annoying or like. "cringe" but like even if i didn't think you were like. also weird i think i still wouldn't feel judged uhm. in summary ur rlly nice and kind and funny and smart and i love seeing you on my dash and there's plenty of other things i can list if i gave myself more time to think but i've been ignoring the fact i'm hungry rn so cutting it short to eat. yadda yadda your great and i think you deserve a lot more in this world and so stop being mean to urself that's my friend that i'm fond of. blah. uhmm uhh derri already claimed kuromi so this is us
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also other ppl are fond of u btw. i find it hard to believe that you don't make a lot of other people smile. also a tip!! try looking at yourself like you're not yourself y'know? i'm under the belief we're all always so mean to ourselves because it's easy to not feel guilty about it. but like if you were someone else and you called that person a friendless burden then you'd feel bad because nobody's a friendless burden y did you do that. y'know??????? also this is rambley because i'm hunger personified rn, bye bye :3
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LOVE YOU HAZ…..
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itoshiexx · 4 months
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𝐁𝐋𝐎𝐆 𝐑𝐔𝐋𝐄𝐒 ☼
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hello everyone! since it's a new year and i'm making myself a new theme, i thought i'd be good to write a few blog rules so that everyone's experience is the best possible. with that being said, here are some important rules:
the content i write it's mostly sfw (i only wrote one nsfw piece and i don't plan in writing another so soon), so i don't mind minors interacting. however, i do share some nsfw content quite regularly, so please beware of that and do not interact.
from now on, i'll be using the tag "smexy times" whenever i share nsfw content, so it would be better for minors to block that :)
also, i don't mind minors interacting with me, so no need to be shy! i love to make new friends so my asks and dms are always open for some rambling or chatting ♥
thus, anyone +18 is more than welcome to interact with everything! i love comments/tags and reblogs, so feel free to give those <3
it's important to remember i post at my own pace, and since i work eight hours a day, sometimes it's hard to keep a good frequency. please be patient with me and i'll try to update as much as i can ^^
english is not my first language, and although i'm fluent in it, sometimes a few things are still confusing, like the gender neutral concept. i try to write mostly gn!reader to be more inclusive, so if i ever write a gn!reader piece and use the wrong pronoun, please kindly let me know so i can correct it!
constructive feedback is welcome as long as it's done kindly; any sort of offensive or negative comments will be blocked.
do not interact if you are racist, anti-lgbt, misogynist or just an asshole with no morals. you will be blocked as well.
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© 2024 itoshiexx. do not plagarise, translate, or repost any of my work on here or other sites.
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ricochetluv · 1 year
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𝐀    𝐒𝐓𝐔𝐃𝐘    𝐈𝐍:   𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀   𝘃𝗶𝗴𝗼𝗿   and   𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜   𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧   𝙤𝙬𝙣   𝙬𝙖𝙮.   surviving   when   the   world   is   stacked   𝐚𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐭   you,   and   greeting   𝗮𝗱𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘆   with   a   shit-eating   𝒈𝒓𝒊𝒏.   cutting   out   a   slice   of   your   own   existence   in   an   𝒖𝒏𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈   𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒍𝒅,   counting   cash,   drinks,   and   time   in   the   sheets,   and   most   importantly   -   fooling   everyone   around   you   as   𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐲   as   breathing.   
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#𝑹𝑰𝑪𝑶𝑪𝑯𝑬𝑻𝑳𝑼𝑽               ♡               headcanon   based   𝐒𝐀𝐌𝐏𝐎   𝐊𝐎𝐒𝐊𝐈   of   mihoyo's   𝙃𝙊𝙉𝙆𝘼𝙄:   𝙎𝙏𝘼𝙍   𝙍𝘼𝙄𝙇   franchise.   private   &&   selective   &&   mutuals   only   !   potentially   canon   divergent.   nsfw   heavily   present   !   those   under   18/personal   blogs   absolutely   do   not   interact.   penned   by   goose.   29.   she/they.   cst.   prompts   always   open   to   mutuals   ! also at @riftzenith
—     𝐂𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐃.    —   𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐂𝐀𝐍𝐎𝐍𝐒.    —   𝐏𝐑𝐎𝐌𝐏𝐓𝐒.    —   𝐏𝐈𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐓.    —   𝐏𝐑𝐎𝐌𝐎. 𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐈𝐋𝐁𝐋𝐀𝐙𝐈𝐍𝐆   𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇         —    @lianlong , @daohuai , @caelblazer , @forbelobog
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I. private / selective / mutuals only. i curate my only space here and therefore i reserve the right to follow and unfollow at my discretion. that being said - if i follow you it's usually because i'm interested in interacting. that also means this blog is multiverse / multiship / crossover / oc / au and duplicate friendly! i don't tend to do exclusives (except in rare circumstances) but i will do mains which will always be listed on my carrd.
II. the activity of this blog is sporadic - as i run a multitudes of others and my muse tends to wax and wane, as well as refusing to make myself write if i'm not feeling it. additionally, if for whatever reason i don't like something you've tagged me in within two days time - feel free to give me a poke about it. mutuals, feel free to send any prompts from ask memes i reblog at any time, though i ask you send no more than three at once otherwise i tend to get overwhelmed and just turn into a turtle.
III. i am a very word writer - usually 3-5 paragraphs in length, often times more. i don't expect my partners to match me in the slightest. i also format my posts - triple spaced, small font, colors, and icons when the mood strikes. i don't expect that to be matched either. quality over quantity is always appreciated!
IV. on the subject of shipping - i absolutely love it. i find it to be an excellent character development tool and a great way to familiarize yourself with your muse in ways you might not be able to otherwise. i am almost always usually down for shipping - as long as i have discussed things with the mun beforehand, and our muses have chemistry.
please note, however - that sampo is by nature - a massive flirt. him turning up the rizz is a core tenant of his character. if his flirtatiousness makes you uncomfortable as a mun - please let me know, though i make efforts to keep things tame.
if you are interested in shipping - feel free to slide into my dm's and we can give it a talky talk.
V. NSFW will be present on this blog. given the nature of the character written and the subject matter i like to explore - it may even be heavily prevalent. all NSFW will be tagged and placed under a read more. this includes but is not limited to: smut, violence, gore, psychological trauma, horror, drug usage, etc. additionally, i do my best to tag common triggers as well as read my mutuals rules for anything specific they may have, but if for some reason i miss something - please let me know! i promise it wasn't on purpose.
if you are under the age of 18, do not follow me. if your blog lists you as below 18, i will hard block. no exceptions.
VI. yes sampo's character is generally the funny man with a little bit of rogueish charm - which is primarily how i write him. i do however want to make note that this portrayal definitely contains more complexity than that. sampo is defined as morally grey at best, and while he is loyal to some person to a degree - it is likely he may use your muse for personal gain, though any sort of content will likely be discussed before hand. please note that mun =/= muse. i'm just a baby.
VII. this blog is definitely not spoiler free - though i make a point to tag fresh content. don't steal my graphics - all resources are listed on my carrd. don't be a dick. don't god mod. i'm old and tired and am not here for tumblr drama. be a decent human being please.
goose / 29 / she+they / i play on NA so feel free to hit me up for my UID! BY THE WAY I'M NO LONGER SAMPOLESS AS OF 5/5.
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