#it was not your fault

[toruq]

#sso #ssoblr #my art #star stable online #sso anne #anne von blyssen #sso concorde #ive been dealing with the battle of ‘well if i hadn’t done this then x wouldn’t have happened’ #and i rationalize that #but then next comes ‘well if i hadn’t done this then it wouldn’t have caused y which caused x’ #but i warn you be wary because this mindset does not help you with anything #eventually you get back to the spot where you are a little kid who made a choice to play in the sandbox with someone #it was not your fault #the fate of your world and the world around you does not in fact rest on your own shoulders #sometimes things happen because they do #not because you caused it #or because you did something to provoke the cause #sometimes life is simply going along #like concorde says: ‘but evil may have the final say’ #it cannot always be the good say; or in other words your ideal say #it can cause more upset feelings but let it rest in you that sometimes there was nothing you could do #and everything you were able to do was enough

[theocddiaries]

Credit to : patrickteahanlicswtherapy

#childhood trauma #reminder #good advice #it was not your fault #they don't get to decide for you and your journey

[wind-becomes-lightning]

im holding him by scarf and shaking him violently

#nisi watches boruto #ALWAYS OBITO #OBITO WAS NOT YOUR FAULT YOU KNOW THAT NOW #SURELY YOU MUST KNOW THAT NOW #IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT #IM GOING TO PUT YOU INTO A JAR UNTIL YOU CAN BEHAVE #AAAAAAAAAAAHHHHH ALWAYYYYYYYS OBITO

[positivewritesxo]

If you were a child and you were blamed for the trauma that you were put through then please remember it wasn’t your fault. It was never your fault, you were innocent.

#positivewritesxo #self healing #mental health support #trauma healing #trauma recovery #recovery #reminders #it was not your fault

[thottybrucewayne]

You have to recognize your capacity for harm. You cannot omit the harm you've done to others to remain "good." Anybody can be a bigot. Anyone can be an abuser. Anyone can harm anyone at any time even those who have been harmed themselves. The world is not made up of victims and villains only, this is life, not a Saturday morning cartoon and you are a human being who can or maybe even has hurt others and you HAVE to acknowledge that to learn to be better.

#thotty speaks #like I'm not perfect by any means #I've made mistakes but growing from those mistakes took me acknowledging that I've made them #Sometimes it is your fault! Guilt will come but you have to face it and use it to grow

[youngchronicpain]

Say it with me, kids, "I do not deserve this pain. I am in chronic pain due to forces outside of my control. I should not have to earn pain relief. I am good. I do not deserve to be shamed for my pain. It is not my fault."

#say it again and again and again #it is not your fault #chronic pain

[stil-lindigo]

Bisan is calling for another global strike!

I saw some posts just outlining Jan 21st, and wanted to clarify that Bisan has called for a full seven days of action.

What a global strike would look like is:

calling in sick to work

purchasing bare essentials ahead of the week so you can observe the general boycott of goods / buying as little as you genuinely can

putting in a concerted effort to elevate Palestinian voices and make it clear that this strike is in support of a permanent ceasefire!

For those who will have to purchase necessary goods during this time, please observe the brands that the BDS movement is asking us to boycott!

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Right now is also a good time to mention some better uses for your money during this week.

Available e-sims in Gaza are running low!!

Mirna El Helbawi and her team are working round the clock to continue to connect Palestinians as Israel does its best to cut them off from the rest of the world.

You can learn how to purchase and send e-sims here, and below you’ll find a list of what is currently needed (the areas in brackets indicate what region you should select to buy e-sims in).

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CareforGaza is an organisation that does verifiably good work, distributing supplies directly to Palestinian families.

They have a Gofundme set up at the moment, but because of Gofundme’s poor track record regarding refusing to transfer funds to Palestinians, I’d recommend continuing to donate directly to their PayPal here.

Good luck to all of you. Don't turn away from Palestine!

#i know that for some people their first instinct will be to scoff. how can anyone just not buy things for a full week? #what about groceries? rent? #and personally. i wanna say yes. there are some things that we have to spend money on to survive. #but it is possible still to make a concerted effort in your life #to carve out seven days where you can minimise that amount of money #i know its a lot. #for some people who are living on a tight budget. i know its not possible and i dont fault you for that #but i know for a fact that so many of us would be able to take out a few daily purchases in observance of this strike #do your best #dont turn away from palestine #free palestine #palestine #from the river to the sea #call to action

[maxgicalgirl]

Being a “Fun Fact !” kind of autistic is all fun and games until you get halfway through sharing an interesting tidbit and realize that it probably wasn’t appropriate to share in polite company and now you have to deal with the consequences :(

#autism #neurodivergent #adhd #fun facts #GOD I’m such an idiot #anyways now a 10 year old is out there looking up swear words online and it’s all my fault :( #I got so excited by the fact that I knew a fun fact #that I didn’t stop to think that maybe not everyone knows that fun fact for a reason :( #it’s like explaining how to successfully bury a body at a book club #or explaining the dangers of Scientology to your sister’s boyfriend the first time you meet him #or debating gay sex positions with your best friend in front of your mom #no matter how much I wish to be a beacon of knowledge in this world #sometimes there are things others just don’t want to know #and consciously that’s valid but the autism ? I does not care

[madohomurat]

trans women are everywhere and are so eager to be seen and heard but only if they feel safe around you. if you hardly ever have trans women interacting with you, especially online, then consider there might be a reason for that and you should address it

#the same thing happens with black people #black people are everywhere! especially online! black gay and black trans people! #but when your community is suspiciously devoid of them then theres something wrong and you need to acknowledge it #even if its not intentional you need to think about how theres minority groups who do not feel safe around you at face value #this is why loud and outright support and solidarity is so important #black people and trans people and etc minority groups will assume you are unsafe unless you explicitly state otherwise #you can't just sit there and say 'well they didnt approach us so its not our fault for not including them!' #like did you TRY to get them to approach you?? #cy texts

[visenyaism]

i just feel like “what if the trauma we go through is usually not noble but purposeless and terrible and the things we develop to keep us alive often change us for the worse” is one of the most important realizations you can come to in terms of like. empathizing with your fellow man and yet whenever that theme shows up in fiction so many people are immediately like its either PERFECT VICTIM OR IRREDEEMABLY EVIL. open the door and walk out of the dichotomy

#like this does not make it your fault but neither does it absolve you from trying to change!! #that’s the human condition idk #asoiaf

[theocddiaries]

Time lost is time that won't come back

Don't lose your time explaining time and time again your version of the story. If the receptor is a tight-minded, adult-child that only cares about themselves and being seen as an eternal victim, it's no use. You'll end up feeling like the worst piece of shit there is.

They don't want your version, they want to twist your words and keep pressing buttons until you snap so they can play an even bigger victim so their enabler goes to rub their backs and then it'll be you against two (or even more).

You'll always be the bad guy for just explaining your feelings. They don't want to improve, they want to be pitied on while claiming they don't want pity, until the point when you don't know how to act because everything is wrong in their eyes.

That's a them problem, not yours.

I was asked several times to explain why I am strained from my own mother. I explained several times. I was accused of being a self-centered that only thought about myself and my feelings, ignoring my mother's who is suffering more than me, and more than anyone else, really. I was told I've never been that way, that I used to be so compassionate and empathetic and now I only care about myself. She makes me doubt myself and makes me feel bad for having something as healthy as boundaries and self-respect.

I am sick of being seen as an evil devil by my own parents. I am sick of being confused because out of all the people I've known, they're the only ones calling me such thing, while others, even ex friends, keeps assuring I was good and deserve the world. And I don't believe it. Because when your own parent, someone who is supposed to love unconditionally and purely, tells you there's something wrong with you and that you're a crazy gal whom nobody would ever want to be around, you believe it. You believe it because parents and family are your world when you're a kid, and when 'your' world doesn't fit with the actual, real world, where there are good and bad people, where grey is more prominent than black and white views, you don't know how to interact.

And it's frightening to think... was that what they wanted? To criple your social skills so you would always be dependant on them? It's a thought I don't wanna dwell into.

#vent #ocd #toxic parents #personal experience #it was not normal #it was not your fault #you were a child #they were the adults #not your fault they didn't act as such

[montanabohemian]

if i see a single one of you pissed that your faves canceled an event or a con appearance because they're striking for fair wages then imma come for you in your sleep 🔪🔪🔪

(direct that fury where it belongs: AMPTP and the execs)

#sag aftra #sagaftra #sag aftra strong #sag aftra strike #union strong #wga strike #PAY THE FUCKING ACTORS AND WRITERS #i hope the execs lose EVERYTHING #sag strike #sag-aftra #(BY THE WAY I'VE MADE A MINOR EDIT ON THE ORIGINAL POST) #in case you're confused: BE PISSED OFF. BUT DIRECT IT AT AMPTP AND THE EXECS. #if you don't get to see your fave at an event or a con? IT IS NOT THE UNION'S FAULT. IT IS THE FAULT OF THE EXECS #AMPTP AND THE EXECS ARE REFUSINGS TO NEGOTIATE IN GOOD FAITH AND ARE REFUSING TO PAY ACTORS AND WRITERS FAIRLY #SUPPORT THE WGA AND SAG STRIKE #if that means you can't see them at a con? then take the money you were gonna spend on that con and donate it #to the entertainment community fund #DIRECT YOUR ANGER WHERE IT BELONGS #WHICH IS AT AMPTP AND THE GREEDY PIECE OF SHIT EXECS #another edit: i forgot to add alt text which is my bad. I HAVE CORRECTED THAT.

[fazbearentertainmentarchive]

On this day in 1985 Five Children went missing at our original Pizzeria. They were never found. One of the Missing Children was our current CEO´s sister.

"My sister loved the place. Mostly because dad worked as manager there and he let us do whatever we wanted to as long as we didn't disturb other customers." CEO of Fazbear Entertainment Alexandra Newton.

#remember them #missing children #fazbear entertainment #It wasn't our fault #IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT #WE ARE STILL HERE #ceo

[gerrysroots]

You know what I will defend Colin even if he IS making the tech malfunction. Fuck that spacebar up Scottish man

#babygirl i am bewitched by your boiling rage and your scottish accent. #tmagp #the magnus protocol #tmagp 3 #colin becher #coling tmagp #tina.exe #not my fault that scottish accents are so hot #justice for colin #tmagp 1 #tmagp spoilers

[onetaho]

hazbin hotel old man yaoi

#onetaho's art #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel fanart #hazbin hotel lucifer #hazbin hotel alastor #radioapple #appleradio #old man yaoi #drew this for zhier because they drew my wife so good #they amplified my love for radioapple this is your fault

[phoenixonwheels]

Pretty much every country: Stopped tracking Covid infections, hospitalizations and deaths.

99% of doctors: Claim Long Covid doesn’t exist. Tell patients they’re lazy, not disabled. Refuse to admit illnesses and deaths are due to damage done by Covid.

The 99% of the population who have their heads up their asses about Covid: If Covid is so dangerous why are hospitalizations down? Why aren’t people dying of it any more?

#wear a fucking mask #if you refuse to mask you WILL end up with long covid #and it will be your fault #and you will deserve it