#like give me a fucking chance here

[thepoisonroom]

btw if i could give one tip to the anxious bitches as one myself it would be to avoid accusing people who care for you of secretly hating you like either it's not true and you made them feel weird and like you think badly of them or it's true and you should just bounce but either way this will accomplish nothing

#i think the most immediately i've cooled on a potential friendship was when i was on the phone with a new friend #and we were talking while i was on a walk so when i got to my location i was like sorry i have to go but it's been so nice to hear from you! #and they texted right after being like 'i couldn't help but notice you begged off the call you can just say you don't want to talk to me :)' #and i was like what in the passive-aggressive groundlessly accusatory fuck #like why would you accuse me of being insincere and passive-aggressive then frame it so i can't defend myself without #validating how poorly you already think of me #like give me a fucking chance here #it really backs people into a corner #i'm someone who will put up with a lot (often to my detriment) but being told to play the villain for someone else's vindication #will always make me bite like an animal #i'm super allergic to reading a part someone else has written for me and at that point i no longer care if it #validates how poorly you already think of me because clearly your opinion of me will not improve no matter how well i behave #i got a little lost trying to explain this but just don't do it it's shitty and manipulative even if that's not your intent #personal nonsense

[glowinggreeneyes-e]

Extra Havers Content Peter Sandys-Clarke in Masters of the Air

Bonus:

#he was giving evil straight havers here fr #yet he does it looking fit af so sexism forgiven #/j/j/j #i stan british officer #as I said to mints… he’s so fine and cunty we didn’t stand a chance #masters of the air #mota spoilers #psc #mota #peter sandys clarke #gif set #my post #also i havent made gifs in like 8 years so forgive me i cant colour correct or brighten for shit #I FUCKED UP SOME GIFS NOOO #too late rip #masters of the air spoilers

[vulpinesaint]

listen i am geralt of rivia hater number one but one thing i actually CANNOT stand is when the fandom mischaracterizes him. took one look at this man who speaks very straight-forwardly and matter-of-fact and is a little recalcitrant with his words sometimes and went "haha he communicates in grunts! man who only says 'hm'!" and then won't even write him to speak in full fucking sentences. hello???? hello???????? yes the netflix show was a bad influence on everybody because they were trying too hard to depict geralt as a stoic manly badass but we CANNOT let that distract us from the REAL thing to make fun of geralt for. which are his Constant Unprovoked Monologues

#also the fact that he fakes his dumb stupid little rivian accent because the man was NOT raised in rivia. but i digress #'haha he only says hm!' where were you for every episode when he launched into a speech about the lesser evil. that's like. the whole thing #geralt of rivia will do nothing But talk once you let him. don't give that bitch a chance! he'll start up about honor again!!! #convinced that most of this is because netflix show insisted on showing us him around jaskier so much #and jaskier does not shut up. love him to death. but geralt genuinely does not have time to get a word in edgewise #i will admit that this is something that i had to learn by reading the books and paying more attention to it #but it's not like he DOESN'T do it in the show. if you ever sit with a witcher episode transcript for whatever reason #and really take a look at geralt's lines. man he talks a whole fucking lot. #again cannot emphasize enough that he Monologues. HE TALKS HIS WAY OUT OF SO MANY SITUATIONS. #me when i look filavandrel of the elves in the eyes and 'hm' at him and he lets me go. no bitch he monologued!!!! #terrible. terrible. let this man speak. if i see you fanfic bitches continue making him talk in sentence fragments again i'm gonna kill #as for my own fanfic. i will always prefer a geralt who talks too much to be believable over a geralt who barely speaks at all. #both because i believe in letting him speak his mind which he OBVIOUSLY likes to do. sideeyes him. #and because it's just fucking boring and a little annoying to read speech patterns that don't sound like how people talk. #cough cough lan wanji the untamed. man i'm not sitting here and reading this motherfucker's two word sentences #let him speak!!!!!! #anyway. #geralt of rivia #the witcher #fanfic

[mutantrenegade]

Matt, Let's Talk

Hello photographer matthew, head bitch in charge of hellsite, let's have a chat. Don't worry, I'm gonna be cool about it, just calm down and take a seat, have some tea.

Matt, you did a transphobia.

I know you say you aren't transphobic and for now, i'll give you the benefit of a doubt on that one and assume it's true, but like, buddy, pallie, salt of the earth, sugar lumpkin doodles, you did a transphobia.

You probably didn't mean to do a transphobia and probably don't like that all us trannies are mad at you right now, but you did a transphobia.

I know what predstrogen said you to hurt your feelings, i get it, you aren't used to having people vaugepost about your death like most of the trans people on this site are. But see, what you do is, ignore it. Or in this case. Step back for a second and realize what's happening is a trans woman was feeling frustrated and scared because people on your site had been harassing her heavily for months on end and the lack of response from your staff made her feel like your staff didn't care about her and maybe was actively rooting for the people who wished her harm. And if you think it was unfair that she felt that way about your staff. Maaaaaaaybe it's actually a sign you need to try harder to focus on making this site safer for trans women.

Maybe if your userbase is so fast to assume your staff and you personally hate trans people, maybe you should be more worried about why we have reached this conclusion rather than being mad it's being said to your face. Because this site does feel like it doesn't give a shit about trans people especially trans women.

Maybe if your staff is working hard to ban transphobes from this site, it means you have a larger problem because transphobes are fucking everywhere man. Like they just are. Several of them have shown up in my inbox recently telling me i should harass a trans woman over things that aren't my fuckin business.

Maybe think that if you are crossing social media sites to pick a fight with the person you banned for the mean words, that you might be the one worrying to much about it especially when predstrogen does not know you nor would have any ability to contact you.

And I get that it's scary when people say violent things about you online, they've said them about me. I actually had to contact the FBI once over things people said to me online. It was leagues worse and leagues more specific than what predstrogen said to you. You need to let it go man, you are the CEO of a company, people are gonna be mad at you sometimes and you have to have thicker skin than coming off a sabbatical to dm random trans women asking why they don't like you.

Just like, say you fucked up man. Say that you did in fact do an accidental transphobia and then try and fix the things that made you think you weren't doing an accidental transphobia. It's not that hard man. Just drop the ego, admit you did a stupid, and try harder.

#to the trans people here #i too think he should maybe idk #resign and not return #but like #maybe we can at least get him to admit he did a stupid #also lets be real i'm explaining this as babys first social interaction for a reason #were are talking about a tech bro here #he might actually just be that stupid #and fuck him if he isn't #like this isn't me defending him it's me giving him the smallest chance to redeem himself before pulling the trigger #photomatt #matt mullenweg

[probablygayattorneys]

Congrats on finishing Ghost Trick! How was it?

I cannot BELIEVE I WAS A FUCKING [redacted] THE ENTIRE FUCKING TIME

(More detailed and spoilery review in the tags)

#that aside though it was really cute #it’s not a secret that I think that romantic relationships are overrated #that friendship is much more important and meaningful and stronger #but I neglect to add that the love between an owner and a pet is also very strong and meaningful #and seeing that not just in the game #but in the way that the game itself is in a way a love letter from Shu Takumi to his own dog #who is no longer with us #and how even though the game flopped on the DS #they still gave it a second chance 13 years later #giving missile’s memory and legacy a second chance but in HD this time #even though he’s not here to see it and he’s a dog so even if he was he wouldn’t understand it #I cried a little at the end thinking about that #and that that’s really so much of what the game is about… #I’m not a dog person #any dog chihuahua or larger freaks me out cause I was attacked when I was younger #but still seeing the love for a dog that is instrinctly linked in the DNA of this game #it got me #but i still can’t believe I WAS A FUCKING CAT THE ENTIRE TIME #LIKE I HAD CAUGHT ON THAT I PROBABLY WASN’T ACTUALLY THE GUY ON THE BOX ART #AND THAT RAY WAS MASTERMINDING THE WHOLE THING FOR WHATEVER REASON #BUT I STILL THOUGHT I WAS A HUMAN???? #Parker’s asks #ghost trick #ghost trick spoilers

[oatbugs]

i understand being tired of the oppressive systems around us and having to pay for good therapy and the NHS sucks and job market sucks and capitalism sucks etc etc and i understand how shitty it must be to be told that the solution to fix The Ailments caused at least in part by The System is to engage further w the system but i swear to god wallowing in depression and doing absolutely nothing to better yourself or change things for yourself is not the rebellion you think it is !! you're not rejecting the system you're just existing within it doing nothing and being horribly depressed while resigning yourself to horrible depression for life !!!!! being like "yeah well the nhs sucks so i wont even TRY therapy what does talking to someone do anyway. what do meds do anyway." etc etc bc smn on reddit said fluoxetine didn't work for them and not contacting any of the ppl who you ghosted bc you got anxious abt it like 2 yrs ago is not a flex it is not a rejection of the omnipresent system it's not making u special or More Vulnerable Than others at some point u have to choose to get better bro omg.

#im actually frustrated asf but i will zip it irl #like i cant help ill just nod ive tried so hard i feel like . it must be exhausting to continue on w that mindset #of taking 0 accountability for ur own mental health like YES things suck but you have to at least fucking try !! #at least try once and then sure if u give it a good go and it fails then fine resign urself to lifelong depression ig #no job no universal credit bc u dont want a job no education no therapy just. abject misery #bc u dont want to engage w the ppl who love you or systems that have even a 5% chance to help u or student loans that can get u away or #etc etc #im ok !! #🥴 #ranting here bc it is Not Abt Me so as i said shutting it irl but it is getting a bit exhausting to repeat the same thing omg

[dayssinceabrandcrossedmarkiplier]

100 days since a brand crossed Markiplier

29/8/23

(Be careful when reading the tags if you're sensitive to, albeit glancing, references to sexual assault/grooming)

#markiplier #someone made a joke about resetting because Mark didn't win a gamer streamy the other night #I skipped watching the award show because I knew Dream would be involved and I refuse to interact with anything that gives him a platform #but when I looked up who beat Markiplier in that category my unease grew #like obviously I'm not going to bring mcyt drama to a markiplier blog #but god it makes me so uncomfortable that a groomer who is 100% unremorseful about his actions was allowed to be a nominee #let alone *win* when genuinely good people who work hard on their channels were in the same category #anyway that's all I'll say about it because this is supposed to be a fun little fandom based sideblog #however I have been on the fence this evening about whether to genuinely go #'fuck the streamys for letting Dream have a chance to win let alone actually walk away with an award' #I'm still undecided and need to check how the winner was picked (I think public vote but wanna be sure) #I'm just mad and disgusted and completely uneasy #either way I wanted to quickly get my thoughts out but now I've delayed the post by 20 minutes by typing so sorry and here you go

[synthshenanigans]

Next Round :D

-Vote for what you think is more underrated but also what you still like a lot-

Also! Fun fact, Dad 3 is the oldest video he's uploaded on Chonny Jash! The song is totally a very serious song, one of the most heartwretching songs he's covered.

Its likely you haven't heard it, so have at it here if you'd like.

[RB for more votes if ye'd like]

#also. at the end of the description of the video #he said “this took so much effort” #like oh. oh buddy. you have NO fucking clue what effort youre about to put in for some covers in like 2 years #or just music in general #idk its just really funny to me #just compare Dad 3 to shit like. just apathy. taken for a ride. dear machine. the entirety of the before #like how the hell is this the same guy #baffles me really #how the fuck did i get here #chonny jash #chonnys charming chaos compendium #i mean it when i say all his songs are bangers #i know disf is gonna win #like its one of the best tracks on the before ofc its gonna win #but like figured id give dad 3 a chance #+ its a way to show off the song #moss' poll

[porto-rosso]

there is so much aggressive misinfo abt toxic shock syndrome out there its a nightmare

#1st off 80% of the population is just straight up immune #no it is not caused by chemicals on tampons and all but one of the leading scientists who study it assert that the risk comes from #oxygen entering the vaginal canal which causes staphylococcus aureus bacteria to multiply -> bacteria produces TSST-1 toxin #-> toxin enters bloodstream -> causes TSS #the reason that heavy absorbancy products create more of a risk is they give the bacteria more room to multiply this is why the rely tampon #caused a spike in TSS cases in the 70s-80s they were fucking massive #there's disagreement from scientists abt how much the amount of time you leave a tampon in actually affects the risk of TSS but to be safe #still just keep it to 8 hrs because either way old blood is not great for introduction of other potentially harmful (but not deadly we're #talking like yeast infections here) bacteria #literally there are like 20 US cases of TSS per year. plenty of those aren't period related #chances of getting it even if you leave a tampon in a few hours more than 8 are practically 0 #also cups can cause tss for fucks sake. its also practically a 0 chance but saying they can't cause it is completely untrue. #i've got a really good article discussing how TSS actually works if anyone wants it just send me an ask or a dm #.log

[jangmi-latte]

i can't get over rollo's ssr fuck.

#it's making me feel unexplainable things like what #i'm supposed to return to my beloved pomefiore but here i am #like he's just so...SO.... #aya fUCK my halloween/birthday savings for rook are in damn danger #HE'S... HE'S YOU KNOW??? #if it doesn't have a personal story i will legit lose it #GIVE HIM A CHANCE (he's a villain) HE'S JUST A STUDENT (nearly committed genocide)

[sweet-star-cookie]

so i finished the teal mask dlc

#i'm not okay #i'm dead fucking serious i have never been so disquieted by a POKEMON GAME PLOT like this before and i don't like it #i'm so upset #look. LOOK. listen it has been established that the player's choices in pokemon do not actually matter outside of mild dialogue changes #i'm totally fine with pokemon moving towards more consequence-based stories #but if you're going to do that here then you NEED TO ACTUALLY /GIVE THE PLAYER A CHOICE/ #THIS PLACE SUCKS I JUST CAME HERE FOR A GOOD TIME AND I'M FEELING SO ATTACKED RIGHT NOW ;;;;;;;; #FUCK YOU CARMINE I HATE YOU #I HATE YOU I HATE YOU #TALK TO ME EVER AGAIN AND I WILL DECK YOU IN THE FACE #YOU FORCED ME TO BE A BAD FRIEND TO THIS SWEET LITTLE BOY AND THEN WE TOOK AWAY HIS ONLY CHANCES AT FRIENDSHIP WITH ME /AND/ OGERPON #ABSOLUTELY HEINOUS #CRUEL AND UNUSUAL PUNISHMENT #HE TRIED SO DAMN HARD THE ENTIRE TIME AND DID NOTHING WRONG AND I WILL /DIE ON THIS HILL/ #I'M SORRY KIKI ;;;;_______;;;; #literally he had his completely justified joker moment at the end and my friend was like 'yeah sorry he's evil now' and I just paused #and then turned to her and said 'never love anything' #this is unrelated but if Iruma in M!IK ever turns actually evil like this at any point ever I am defenestrating my tv #i am SO tired and i am betrayed SO often CAN'T HAVE SHIT IN DETROIT ;;;;;;; #WHY CAN'T MY SWEET LITTLE GUYS JUST STAY SWEET LITTLE GUYS FOR ONCE #Kieran is my SON you can't DO THIS TO ME!!!!!! #also i would die for Ogerpon btw #she is my daughter and i love her #i want to squish her little face and hold her in my arms forever #i need a plush of her right the fuck now #if any of you villagers or tourists scare her or make her sad again i will cut you and that is a THREAT #my art #kind of lmao #pokemon

[byanyan]

i'm always out here talking about byan's trauma with men, but honestly they have almost as much when it comes to boys. most of the bullying, harassment, and mistreatment they received from their peers growing up came at the hands of boys. not all of it, of course, but considering that was the generalized group they were shoved into most of their life, and the one they didn't fit in with... it's where more of the damage came from.

#they're a little more lenient when it comes to boys... but not by much #like they'll give u a chance to not be trash but if u fuck that chance ur not getting another one #it's kind of... ironic in a way bc byan... kiiiind of acts in a lot of ways like the sort of boys they hate? #like lbr they have a lot of sorta stereotypical masc behaviour but the CONTEXT is different #it's more of a retaliation than like... entitlement? if I'm making sense here? 🤔 #they became what they had to in order to survive #and throw that sort of stereotypically masc aggression BACK at men #sort of a way to give them a taste of their own medicine ig #...I've derailed my original intended topic a little here but this is another thing that's been on my mind adjgksh #the point is they also dislike boys bc they were hurt by them a lot. mocked by them a lot. used by them a lot. #they've got some horror stories about boys. not as many as they do about men but lbr it's not a competition #they're both trash in byan's mind (: #with limited exceptions. very VERY limited exceptions. #which no has not done much to change their fairly black & white thinking on the matter in case u were wondering #god I'm rambling someone shut me up #━━ ˟ ⊰ ✰ headcanon ⋮ danger in the fabric of this thing i made.

[theresa-of-liechtenstein]

my day truly just throws curveball after curveball at me. anyways i just learned that without an official letter of acceptance from my home institution i will not be allowed to renew my lease for my campus apartment for next year. and since my home institution admits PhD students directly into professors’ labs, this essentially means that in order to stay in my apartment i have to decide where i will be working and who i will be working with for at least the next five years. and i have to make this decision within a WEEK. which is fucking bullshit because professors are still reading through PhD applications and i’m still getting contacted by professors like are you going to tell me i am not allowed to wait for them to recruit me? or i mean i will be allowed but i won’t have housing guaranteed. i am not going to move out of my apartment just to move back in to another one where i don’t even know if i’m going to get a roommate who’s going to hate me for being myself. i just want to cry

#why can’t i just pinky promise that i’m going to try and stay at my home institution. why can’t i. #UGH FUCK ME #like i DO want to stay here. i DO. but i also want to give the other programs a chance #is that not the rational thing to do? #and they could be contacting me up to APRIL #UGGHGHHHGHHHGHGHGHHG #iskul bukol: undergrad edition

[seventh-fantasy]

可待的意思是 请你 等等我。 (please wait for me.)

#posts made by me for me myself and i only #keep scrolling! just me having a mental breakdown! nothing to see here! #me hearing lwx say 可待的意思是请你等等我 for the 7378414828th time: *bursts into fucking tears* #my posts #hlht #lhl #ok. serious thoughts time. it's always lowkey funny to me that it's genuinely believed #(like in xcp's eulogy for him) #that xdq cares more about his people than anything #it's not that i think he doesn't care? he's actually kind and good and feels for his people but? #he cares in a detached and distant way exactly in the manner he can from within the palace walls #...which is reminiscent of huahua in the last episode going yeah he's a good emperor (really?) #and i'll give up my only chance to survive in exchange for the peace of the world #(he says. but it's also for xiaobao - like. every political move xdq makes it's mixed with personal stake) #he does things *for* the good ever since he has been the lxy who built sigumen #but is it really *out of* goodness or he's just trying to live up to the ideal xia #his self-imposed isolation as the top of wulin is as iron-clad as the palace walls of confucian social roles that hold xdq in #the way that hlht is all about the social world and lhl is all about the world outside of that which xdq dreamt about #then at the end of the day they both go back to the water bodies where they wish to be released into... bye #and they leave behind loved ones who will go see the world for them #xdq is so much less cruel to them than huahua is tbh #at least xdq had aggressively fought for them and to be with them #both stories are like. what happens to someone AFTER they're at the top and was born into/for that role? #do you know what fucked up things that does to someone? #ok bye FOR LEGAL PURPOSES THIS POST IS FOR MYSELF and whoever wants to read ONLY

[leefi]

growing up by chicago has spoiled me rotten. i visit any other major metropolitan city and my reaction is always …oh! is that it?

#the only other metropolis that’s ever truly impressed me was tokyo. good god i LOVED tokyo #though ​to clarify I’m talking specifically about metropolises (and what makes a metropolis good) here #there are tons of cities I’ve been to that are incredibly impressive by other metrics #(Istanbul’s unique location; Florence’s historical architecture; Seville’s food; etc.) #but Chicago is just a truly good CITY. perfect size diverse walkable on a waterfront gorgeous architecture nice people. i love it sm #London really impressed me as a teenager but lost the allure as I grew up (a lot of my moms family relocated there so I went often) #woof #anyway I’m in LA for the first time right now and tell me why it’s like 30 different suburbs shoved together #it’s only my second day so I’m not hardcore judging yet!! gonna let an opinion develop. I get the feeling #there’s tons of good culture here but it’s fragmented and you need to go looking for it #also the wealth inequality is horrifying. they weren’t kidding #it’s SO EXPENSIVE EVERYWHERE #some family friends took us out walking to santa monica pier last night and they had to take a break like 20 minutes into the walk #because they fucking drive everywhere!!! #anyways. i feel like i need to give nyc another chance too but i don't know when i'll get to go #anyways again. chicago sweep. best city in da world.

[krysmcscience]

Saw this prompt for incorrect OC quotes and couldn't resist with a bunch of my Breach goobers. Some of them would absolutely say these things word for word in canon if I gave them half the chance to, though. XD

They're in order of when they showed up in person - Qīng, Ghost, Red, Marisol, Shio, Cam, Daruk, Tawoos, and Alondra - as well as some important honorable mentions who have only been mentioned or gotten dialogue - Star, Blake, and Creation.

Star's design is a slight spoiler, I suppose, but it doesn't reveal if they're human or impostor, so it's all good. Creation's "design" also isn't a spoiler at all, because They can look however They want, LOL. As for Shio...some of you who have seen the body horror I've done of them may be wondering why they look so normal here, but I promise there are Reasons. :3c

In other news, will I be making a liar out of Shio in an upcoming Breach canon divergence? ..........Maybe~ >:3c

#original characters #breach #among us #(technically lol) #look i even revealed what their colors would be - as if it wasn't already patently obvious #aside from creation but - uh - ignore them (trust me it's better this way) #meanwhile qīng's color isn't even available which is a Damn Shame #there needs to be a sky blue already ffs #cyan ain't cutting it #if it were an actual lobby qīng would waffle so hard between blue and cyan and would miss his chance to pick either XD #the closest quote to canon is cam's because she REALLY wants a different job and she'll take yours in a fucking HEARTBEAT #meanwhile the closest quote to BECOMING canon is creation's and it is taking all of my willpower to resist their insistence that i allow it #the most incorrect quote of all is definitely blake's - he is so mad at me for drawing this and calling out how he feels about his old job #the biggest lie here is red's - he absolutely thinks about breaking rules and does it a lot more than he'd like to admit #someone give poor tawoos a fucking break - they didn't ask for this #i promise that marisol is more than The Bitchy Sunflower Girl - just give her some time - i promise #alondra has other aspects too but she would be weirdly offended if you tried to assure her that she's more than just Squeaky Mouse Girl #if daruk ever had to go to anger management he would accidentally incite a rage riot just like dan did in that episode of dan vs #ghost i'm sorry but your fashion sense is incomprehensible and i don't even know how i come up with half the stuff i put you in #did blake steal the jacket off of crinklytinfoil's pink/chase from the skeld? absolutely not - he borrowed it cuz those two would be BUDS #these tags are ridiculous #ok im done now