#men cannot be radfems

[balkanradfem]

(I'm sorry if you hate your cluster! I was trying to put neighbour countries together and wasn't always successful because there's just 10 options)

#feminists #radfem #radical feminism #location poll #if you voted slovenia croatia bosnia etc hit me up i'm in croatia #lets see who has a good chance of meeting up #also i felt silly putting vatican city in there #but maybe we have some spies #maybe the pope #is secretly a radfem #this was a joke #men cannot be radfems #but lesbian nuns can #are any of you here

[princessefemmelesbian]

Well would you look at this. 😵‍💫 Because obviously if you dare say anything as wild and controversial as “lesbians don’t like men, please stop using a label that hurts us and tries to force men into our identity” you’re a raging terf radfem transmisogynist. Because obviously ONLY trans women use the bi lesbian label and it’s not like there are transfem lesbians who are rightfully against the label as well or anything and it’s not like terfs use the label to refer to cis lesbians who date trans women and why can’t you just let people identify as how they want of course lesbians like men stop the infighting already if you disagree with me that lesbians can like men then surely that’s because you’re an exclusionist gatekeeper who hates trans women.

#lesbian #anti-bi lesbian #trans women #lesbophobia #the raging hatred for lesbians on this site is getting to an all-time high tall will stop at NOTHING to gaslight us and make us out to be #hateful terf bitches for our sexuality #how many times are we going to do this same old song and dance #no i will not calm down i will be taken seriously #you CANNOT be a bi women as a lesbian idfc if you’re trans or cis #lesbians do not like men and bi women shouldn’t have to ‘oick a side’ by calling themselves lesbians #it’s absurd maddening and sad how little y’all respect us #and trans women always have a place in the lesbian community that doesn’t mean that ACTUAL MEN DO #shit #trying to frame this as ‘well you must be a terf if you are against bi lesbians’ is a shitty move and you’re not being original or clever #go fuck yourself #trans lesbians exist and are valid and the bi lesbian label hurts them just like it hurts cis lesbians if anything it hurts them more so #and i will block ANYONE who supports bi lesbians it doesn’t matter if they’re a trans woman a cis woman a trans man non-binary etc idfc #stop trying to frame this as exclusionary radfem rhetoric #bi lesbian as a term DOES support corrective rape idgas what lesbophobes like you want to say about it #that’s all goodbye #sorry but this got me mad you do not get to use transmisogyny as a clutch to spout blatant ass lesbophobia #i’m so tired of this shit #blocklist #op

[lostryu]

trans men CAN be lesbians. that is why the bi lesbian label exists. It is not transphobic or TERF rhetoric, the only TERF that is here is the one in your head.

are you like. sure?

#ask #anon #‘bi lesbian’ #you’re so fucking stupid #trans men are men #and they cannot be lesbians #you guys are literally playing into terf and radfem rhetoric

[feral-radfem]

All of y'all pretending like heterosexual women are the only ones who experience misogyny, or experience the most misogyny, are not (just) being homophobic, you're being misogynistic.

You're denying women's sex based oppression is real or it's severity. So maybe sit down and shut up and realize that we are still women despite the fact that we are not sleeping with men. You have the ability to make the choice not to sleep with men too. It's not an inaction unique to homosexuals.

I will spread any feminist praxis I want, and if it's insulting for me to reiterate the ideals we preach in these spaces because I'm a homosexual then you can go ahead and be insulted. SSA women have just as much claim to these spaces as you do because we are women and these spaces are for fighting misogyny, which we all experience. It's not just for tackling the misogyny y'all are uncomfortable with, it's for tackling all of it. Get with the program, ladies.

#you don't have to like the fact that I sleep with women but you cannot act like I am not a woman #just as much right to be here and to preach the ideals radical feminists hold as you heterosexual women #I don't need to couch my language into something more appealing for you because I don't sleep with men #literally a problem you're choosing to perpetrate onto yourself #no one needs sex to survive nor romance it would be nice if you women would stop acting like they do. #the constant reiteration that women just naturally desire and need a romantic partner is misogyny it's propaganda #lily responds #radical feminism #radfems please touch #terfs please interact #radical feminists please touch #radical feminist #radical feminist theory #radfem lesbian #it doesn't become easier to be a good feminist as a lesbian you just aren't putting in the effort #I know this may come to a shock from you because you only hang out with lesbians in these faces but most women do expect we hold up #the gendered expectation for women and beauty standards just like it's expected of you #all socialized by the patriarchy on how women are supposed to look this doesn't change by being homosexual. we just make the effort not to #these ideas through our community cuz we're radfem homosexuals #maybe try to be less ignorant. that may help you be a better feminist overall

[niishi]

me, a trans guy: I'm a man and I want to be accepted amongst men and as a man

"feminists": okay pick me

#i genuinely hate how most self proclaimed “feminists” cant be feminist #without hating trans ppl/trans men and women in general #y'all are the biggest women haters ive ever met #i dont trust radfems at all #yall cannot escape the terf psyop period #and dismissing men from feminism is inherently anti woman #given whether you hate men or not #a majority of women still want to cohabitate with them #and nearly every single woman still has to coexist with them #maybe the root issue isnt the simple existence of men #but the existence of the system that encourages these behaviors in men #and upholds the system of power #also sick of you guys saying women are harmless creatures #you genuine hate women #“if men stopped existing who would u be afraid of when walking around at night” #women.... literally women..... idk about yall but a mans only put his hands on me once #women have physically assaulted me more times than i can even recall #ive also been sexually assaulted by more women than i can recall bc they did it #under the assumption that it was okay bc theyre women and harmless #u do realize that that thought process is upholding the same patriarchy that abuses women correct? #you guys are fucking stupid

[is-the-owl-video-cute]

“why are lesbians mad at me i just reblogged an innocent post supportive of bi lesbians!” you are actually fucking insane. none of you people know what terf means, transfems are not men. they have always been accepted into my feminism and my lesbianism. crazy honestly lmfaoooo

guy who goes on anon parroting TERF talking points: why do the nasty transes think I’m a TERF??? After everything I’ve done????? Calling them pronouns??????? They think I’m TERF because I get mad and try claim people shoving penis in lesbian space!!!!! How dare they think this!!!!! I’m an ally!1!1!1!!1!!!

Let me guess, you only date gold star lesbians, right?

#Buddy I cannot emphasize how much gatekeeping queer speak sounds like other gatekeeping queer speak #I don’t actually care what brand of exclusionary you are #because you wandered into my inbox throwing a fit about men in lesbian spaces or whatever #when that wasn’t in the post #bi lesbians as a concept were mentioned and you made that into op trying to shove men at lesbians #which I hate to break this to you that’s a very radfem response #so yes if that’s your response to seeing a term you don’t understand you’re going to be assumed to be a radfem lol

[springphile]

One argument I find funny (but not really) is the argument that having sex work would mean less rapists because the rapists in question would be having “sex” with prostitutes, so that would deter them. It’s “funny” because it assumes that 1. if rapists have “sex” (I use that term loosely), they have less desire to rape a woman, 2. with most prostitutes being female and most sex buyers being male, they indirectly confirm something that everybody subconsciously knows, but denies - that men are more likely to, and do, rape women than women are to rape men, 3. it implies that a significant portion of men are natural, or at least potential rapists, that “need” to have “sex” with a prostituted woman or else he will rape a “normal” woman (ignoring the fact that there’s no fundamental difference between a “normal” woman and a prostitute outside of many social and economic factors).

Idk I just find it sooooo interesting…..

#*edited because I cannot spell #Idk if this makes sense but yeah #And people claim there is so inherent difference between men & women when this practice has been going on for centuries #We know what men are and we know how they view women & kids #esp girls #feminism #radfem #blackpill feminism #radblr #blackpill feminist #radical feminsim #terfblr #anti prostitution #anti sex work #anti sex industry

[craycraybluejay]

Why do random people I used to follow end up being baeddels and hating me for being against that T.T

#tumbrinas are a weird breed #anti radfem #'i want a boyfriend' girl u cannot even be normal to men and not support radfems #its like a misogynist saying 'i want a girlfriend' you do not deserve one!!! #hot tip don't date people with insane radical views that put them on a hierarchy above you #or even you on a hierarchy above them #godawful situation to be in

[lez-exclude-men]

Okay so like. In general I've been tired of the discourse and have been staying away from the recent ridiculousness. But if you think women (of any sexual orientation) "need" men... you don't agree with radical feminism. And like, that's okay? Not everyone needs to. But maybe quit saying you do if you very overtly don't. Women might *want* men for certain things, sure. But radical feminism is about trying to uproot the patriarchy at its root, which is the oppression by men of women. Women do not "need" men. They do not "need" the patriarchy nor their oppression.

#lezpost #radfem #radfem discourse #discourse #ngl it feels like separatism discourse was always gonna lead to this. you can be a non-separatist and be a radfem #bc thats kinda a nuance thing. but you cannot say we need men and in the same breath say you are a radfem #(and therefore agree with radical feminism) and then be surprised when people say you just made two contridictory statements

[radfemie]

"a world where we rule and the cis women listen" so the 1900's and older? Because quite frankly, men still are more likely to have an authority over women than not, but that's not enough for you so instead you force your way into womens spaces and get upset when that's still not enough control for you.

Being an "alpha" male wasn't enough for you either, huh?

Sounds like you guys want servant's, not equals.

#cannot stand men #lesbian #radfem #radfem safe #radfems please interact #radfems please touch #radical feminst #radical feminism #feminsim #terfs welcome #feminist #terf #trans men #transmen #transwomen #trans #transgender #trans women #lgbt

[radfemistry]

I get called a feminist (in a real nasty way) for saying that, statistically, women are better drivers. Apparently, that is feminism now. Apparently, citing statistics is a form of advocation for women, and naturally hate speech against men. I never even got to the SA rates, because those stats are damning!! Y’all are mad about driving? For real?

#i cannot genuinely believe there are men out there saying that feminism is saying ‘statistically a woman is better than u’ WHEN ITS TRUE #also despite the fact this shit is so easy to look up… I’m a liar! #Throwing this out there: maybe statistics are just numbers that we use for Real World Application! #Stats aren’t being mean and spitting in your face! They aren’t feminist- they’re numbers!!! #This is NOT me saying we should pay attention to what is being said and potential corruption #shouldn’t*** #tired as shit. #radblr #radfem

[moodboardsbysarah]

Priscilla made the most excellent point about how men are either operating from a scarcity mindset which causes them to become possessive and abusive towards women and ultimately endanger our lives… or they are operating on an entitled take-her-for-granted abundance mindset which causes them to cheat on us and not give us the attention we deserve.

The underlying point is that men don’t see us as human beings, they see us as objects to serve their selfish egotistical agendas and prizes to be won, and they are not capable of loving us.

#My bf is away and this is the greatest peace I’ve had in months. #I’m starting to see it is true that women are brainwashed to want men. Like #the female instinct to lust after men is real and powerful and radfems need to acknowledge it more. #You absolutely cannot brainwash biological urges such as sex and love into people (or out of people) #BUT #media and cultural stories and societal constructs like marriage brainwash us to believe #that men are capable of loving women the way that we love them #When by biological facts they’re not #they are only capable of objectifying us and endangering us and consuming our energy #and expressing a broken form of love which is so easy to find endearing and take pity on … #But ultimately isn’t And never will be real love like what we give them.

[papirouge]

White radfem have no room to clown transwomen leveraging their transness to cope out of their male privilege, when they themselves be leveraging on their femaleness to cope out of their White privilege 👀

#remember how MAD they were at WOC clowning them over the Karen meme 👀 #they literally cannot stand when WOMEN of color 'other' them for precisely being White #which lumps them with their white counterpart #and they CANNOT stand that bc their whole personality is based off not being like men💀💀 #papi truths #papi watch #white feminism #radfem #*With their MALE counterpart

[female-eren]

you're the reason I want to beat bi women to a bloody pulp

2/4 "boohoo, look at me!!! I am not like the other bihetties!!! I am not homophobic I pwomise!!!!" goddddd will you shut the fuck up and leave gay people alone? Y'all are so fucking annoying 3/4 ugh stop being such a pick me bisexual and go back sucking your boyfriend's crusty dick

4/4 that's all you lot are good for anyways

Totally sane and not at all misogynistic. Fuck off

#misogyny #biphobia #'radfems' be like your body is tainted by men and therefore you cannot have an interest in ending homophobia #and you are nothing but a walking blowup doll bihettie #yes i am very smart and feminist!

[snarltoothed]

ohhhh i haven’t participated because i’m bad at describing myself in general but my most GNC trait is definitely my ability to “lose control” but in a completely premeditated way :3

#r #radfem community #radblr #radblr memes #? lmao #i only unleash this on men who deserve it tho #and… cannot say that i am not willing to fuck myself over a bit to fuck over a man which is probably not GNC #self sacrifice is a feminine trait afterall 😥 #but yeah flashback to when i wrote ‘rapist’ ‘user’ ‘druggie’ ‘mommys boy’ ‘abuser’ etc all over my ex’s car in my own blood 👀 #im still so amused by the stroke of genius including ‘mommys boy’ was lmao #he crashed his car hours later because i was threatening to tell the cops he was a drug dealer and he fled his house lmaoooo #i wasnt even gonna do it i didnt have adequate proof lmao

[shallowspocketdimension]

Everytime I see the words kp..op stan and ra…dfe..m/te…rf in the same line in a users bio, I take psychic damage.

Additionally everytime I see the words ra…dfe.m, t..er..f or mis..an..d.rist and bisexual or leftist in the same line, I also take additional psychic damage.

Anytime I see the words ra.d.fe.m/t…erf and poc/black in the same line, my HP bar drops down to the red zone because like HELLO IM SORRY, BUT RA.D.F…EMS/T..E.RFS LITERALLY ONLY CARE ABOUT WHITE WOMEN.

#CHOOSE ONE YOU FUCKWITS #YOU CANNOT BE A LEFTIST AND A MISANDRIST #YOU CANNOT BE A MISANDRIST AND A BISEXUAL THATS NOT HOW IT WORKS #BECAUSE THAT INCLUDES TRANS MEN AND NONBINARY AMAB FOLK #i get that radfem doesnt inheritently mean you’re anti-trans but most of the time it means you’re anti-trans unfortunately #and who’s affected by this rhetoric the most? trans poc #shallow rants #i know I should not waste my energy being angry at these folks but sometimes they get under my skin a lot more then thaws should #I just want them to wake up to the reality that actually they’re just helping the fucking patriarchy god fucking damn it