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bookgeekgrrl · 20 days
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My media this week (31 Mar-6 Apr 2024)
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lady constance is a seven foot tall badger and knows acab
📚 STUFF I READ 📚
pretty much nothing! It was a rough reading week! The first part of the week I was fairly consumed with the D20 I was watching & not reading much. Then I spent FIVE DAYS reading a little over half of a 258K fic before finally accepting that though it was pretty well written and not bad, I just wasn't into it and the thought of fighting thru another 120K was appalling, so I bailed.
and I did read about 20K of shorter stuff but nothing I want to shout out so.
📺 STUFF I WATCHED 📺
This Is Going To Hurt - s1, e1
QI - series S, ep 10-12
Death In Paradise - s11, e2-3
D20: Mice & Murder - "The Stabber of the Evening" (s9, e4)
D20: Mice & Murder - "The Eye of the Storm" (s9, e5)
D20: Mice & Murder - "Busted" (s9, e6)
D20: Mice & Murder - " I've Been Here the Whole Time" (s9, e7)
D20: Mice & Murder - "Outfoxed" (s9, e8)
D20: Mice & Murder - "The Belly of the Beast" (s9, e9)
D20: Mice & Murder - "Unfinished Business" (s9, e10)
D20: Adventuring Party - s4, e4-10 [Mice & Murder]
D20: Fantasy High: Junior Year - "Infernal Conflict" (s21, e13)
D20: Adventuring Party - "All Pulp, No Juice" (s16, e13)
🎧 PODCASTS 🎧
What Next: TBD - The Psychological Toll of Mars
Working - How a Magician Designs Original, Mind-Blowing Tricks
Hit Parade - The Bridge: Like a Revamped Stone
Worlds Beyond Number - WWW #7: Kahuna
WikiHole - Greek Easter (with Ellie Kemper, Josh Sharp and Aaron Jackson!)
Welcome to Night Vale #245 - Fridge-worthy
Worlds Beyond Number: Fireside - Fireside Chat for WWW ep7 "Kahuna"
Today, Explained - Making taxes less taxing
I Said No Gifts! - Tig Notaro Disobeys Bridger
⭐ Switched on Pop - Cowboy Carter: This Ain't Country
Consider This from NPR - Measuring The Economic Impact Of Baltimore's Port Closure
Pop Culture Happy Hour - Beyoncé's Cowboy Carter
⭐ Vibe Check - This Ain't Texas, This Is Vibe Check
Better Offline - Wikipedia Is All The Web Has Left ft. Molly White
Wiser Than Me - Julia Gets Wise with Bonnie Raitt
Short Wave - How To Make The Most Of Next Week's Solar Eclipse
Ologies with Alie Ward - Heliology (THE SUN/ECLIPSES) with India Jackson and Michael Kirk
99% Invisible #576 - Chambre de Bonne
Worlds Beyond Number - WWW #8: The Catch
Twenty Thousand Hertz+ - Untranslatable Words
Pop Culture Happy Hour - Ripley
Song Exploder - Shania Twain - You're Still The One
Off Menu - Ep 238: Katy Wix
Worlds Beyond Number: Fireside - Fireside Chat for WWW ep8 "The Catch"
Choice Words - Live in Fear or Love? (with Karamo)
What Next: TBD - Truth Social’s Rocky Week
Short Wave - The "Barcodes" Powering These Tiny Songbirds' Memories May Also Help Human Memory
⭐ Pop Culture Happy Hour - Monkey Man And What's Making Us Happy
The Atlas Obscura Podcast - Nevada Week: The Martin
Endless Thread - Nerd Fight
Strong Songs - "The Way" by Meshell Ndegeocello
Today, Explained - The Sephora kids
It's Been a Minute - Is DEI a slur now? Plus, control & basketball
Radiolab - The Moon Itself
Choice Words - Choices We Made: Stay Silent or Sue the Cops? (with Eric André)
Wait Wait… Don't Tell Me! - Chris Pine
Worlds Beyond Number - WWW #9: The King of Cups
Worlds Beyond Number: Fireside - Fireside Chat for WWW ep9 "The King of Cups"
Under the Influence - Cheeky Advertising
In Defense of Fandom - Season 2 Episode 1: What makes a TV ending?
Dinner’s on Me - Kristen Bell
Dinner’s on Me - Dax Shepard
🎶 MUSIC 🎶
Louis Jordan
Ozzy Osbourne
Meshell Ndegeocello
Cowboys + Queens
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absolutebl · 1 year
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BL & Critical Analysis
Pop culture critique & a how to do it... or something
This meaty question came from the lovely @huachengeye Thank you!
Codicil: I do not get paid for pop culture critique (although I once wrote book reviews professionally, long story). So I’m entirely a dilettante. 
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The Question!
Q1: Can you can shed some light on your process (of critical analysis)
This is a little like training your eye to edit a document (I bet you can tell that's not one my strong points). Or training your mind to look at data and data collection in terms of the results it may yield and what the initial survey says about the questioner's bias (or can bias results).
First, I have to ask... 
Do you really want to train your eye to critique?
Because it will become a lot harder to immerse yourself in a piece of media if you constantly feel obligated to step back mentally and think about it from various perspectives. 
In other words, you may enjoy BL, or all live action dramas, LESS if you try to think about them critically.
I have an intimate who is a pretty well known writer. She mostly writes humorous fiction. She's open about the fact that this means every time she laughs, she stops and thinks about why that happened and whether is could be used in her prose. She never gets to be fully absorbed by narrative ever anymore because her critical eye is always turned on, especially for the written word.
What you may sacrifice for critique, is a certain level of childish wonder. 
I’m not sure i would necessarily advise doing this. 
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My Process 
My process is essentially now visible in this blog. As I watch a show I take a few notes on it (which show up in the weeklies) and then at the end I go through those notes, consolidate, try to be witty about it, and write up a review.
The review usually has something about:
characters, tropes, plot 
narrative & story structure & pace
how this BL fits in with the greater BL genre & history
any thoughts I have on the quality of the production, acting, and/or directing 
my own personal feelings about the show
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Thus my reviews tend to take into account several criteria.
For #1-2 I have a background in lit crit as an undergrad (and, like I said, I did once review books for a living) so these are kinda ingrained in me. I’m working on seeing the influence of soap operas, fan fic, and non-western story structures as critically valid, so these are the things I’m actively learning more about the most these days. 
For #3: How does this fit into the history of BL? Since I’ve made it point to watch pretty much all BLs, I feel like I’m set up to think and talk about this. AKA the spreadsheet made me do it. But since I also have anthropology in my academic history, I’m very interested in how a BL represents for its country’s BL oeuvre. I try to judge KBLs against other KBLs (and Kdramas) and look for patterns and trends in how that country’s interpretation of what it “means to be BL” shift over time. 
For #4: my IRL job is tangential to the entertainment industry so that’s accidentally trained my eye for film. I don’t know that I like this part about myself, but it’s happened whether I like it or not. And I don’t have a proper background in film critique. 
Final #5: will discuss further in a bit.
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Suggestion? Establish A Rating System 
Come up with your own personal 10 star (or 5 star) rating system.
Write it down. Don’t be afraid to modify or adjust it. It’s yours, your tastes change, nothing is set in stone. 
Pick one ideal example BL for each category that you’re very familiar with for your reference point. Then you can ask yourself, after you’ve watched a new one, whether you liked it more, less, or about the same as that show. (relative rating, similar to grading on a curve) 
I change my examples regularly as my taste changes and as new BLs are added. The bar gets shifted, so to speak. 
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My Rating System 
Your reasoning for rating a BL will be different from mine, but here’s mine as an example. 
(Also I never feel bound by this, sometimes I give a show a 8/10 just because it feels like that’s what it deserves.) 
10/10 - HIGHLY RECOMMENDED - my favorite precious squee!, faithful to tropes, happy ending, good chemistry, few flaws, high rewatch potential, makes me happy, examples: Semantic Error, Until We Meet Again 
9/10 ABSOLUTELY RECOMMENDED - loved it and good rewatch potential but probably a few pacing issues or one big flaw, still made me feel good/comforted, examples: Cherry Magic, Bad Buddy
8/10 - RECOMMENDED - some concerns around tropes (like dub con) or story structure/filming but still satisfies as BL, moved me emotionally, rewatchable in parts or not rewatchable but important, examples: Love By Chance, Between Us
7/10 - RECOMMENDED WITH RESERVATIONS - i.e. isn’t quite BL, convoluted, not strictly HEA, too short/long, and/or chemistry issues, may have impact on other BL fans but not me (or on me but not others) examples: Make it Right, KinnPorsche
6/10 - WORTH WATCHING BUT FLAWED - probably around the ending or in narrative structure/cohesion or censorship, disappointed expectations, unlikely to rewatch, examples: My Gear and Your Gown, Love Mechanics
5/10 - WATCH IF YOU HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO - but don’t expect much, it’s a total hot mess interesting only because it's BL and I'm probubly pretty conflicted about it, examples: Advance Bravely, Even Sun
4/10 - FATALLY FLAWED - but still basically BL, however... do we want to support this kind of behaviour? examples: Precise Shot, Work from Heart
3/10 - I DON'T KNOW WHAT I AM WATCHING AND NEITHER DOES IT, just seriously why did this get made? examples: Blue of Winter, Physical Therapy 
2/10 - IT'S DEPRESSING - they killed/tortured/etc the gay, save yourself, examples: The Effect, HIStory 3: Make Our Days Count
1/10 - IT'S AWFUL, I WATCHED IT SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO, has all the flaws of 4-3 plus something even more egregious, personally triggering, example: My Bromance series, Round Trip to Love
dnf - self explanatory, but usually I drop because I feel like the narrative is already a #3 and/or headed for a #2 or #1 and then I’m told later that is went there, example: My Tempo
I hand out the fewest 1s & 10s. The most 8s and 7s. Everything else is pretty much on the bell curve you’d expect. 
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Q2: What resources do you use to build your reviews?
I listen to a lot of pop culture review critiques in podcast form, often about stuff I'd never watch. But I like the way professionals talk about these things, even if they aren't MY things or don't jive with my personal opinions.
Mark Kermode is my favorite film critic and we like the opposite stuff, but the way he talks about film is very interesting to me. His podcast mini series on the "business of film" is probably one of my must listens. For his main podcast (Kermode & May’s Take), I always skip over all the interviews, people talking about their own films bore me to death (especially if they are actors on the promo junket, save me please). His rants are some of my favorites of all time (try Pirates 3 or Iron Man 2). Someone else’s list. 
I also like Pop Culture Happy Hour from NPR because it brings in multiple perspectives and varied cast of critics who often disagree and the "things making me happy" is a grab bag of fun.
The Bechdel Cast is a feminist critique podcast from Hollywood insiders and they do recaps as well as critique, and it's always fascinating to me to hear what people latch onto in a narrative. However, I only listen if I am already familiar with the film they are discussing.
My background is in anthropology and I've lived all over the world so that helps train me to think in terms on culture's impact on narrative as well as linguistics and so forth. As a personality I’m also quite reserved and deadpan, grumpy, stiff, strict, and kinda cold. I think I gravitate to being an observer and an outsider which helps if you want to analysis stuff. Which is not a claim to objectivity, I don't think there can be objective analysis of pop culture.
But it does make me pause to think, "that made me FEEEL something" why? What am I feeling? How did the actor do that? The script? The direction?
These shows are meant to entertain, whether they are successful or not, for me (and what "successful entertainment" means to me) and how they are doing it is the first question I always ask myself.
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Q3: What are the things you look out for when watching a BL?
I ask myself a lot of things I would when looking at any piece of art. Or even when shopping for clothing or a new car or reading a book.
Did I like it? Why did I like it?
Did it move me? Why did it move me? 
Did I react? How did I react? To which bits? Why? 
What tropes and narrative beats was it using to manipulate me and my expectations? Did it meet those expectations? The promises it set up at the start? Did it fulfill the watcher-contract during the course of the narrative? 
Did the filming successfully telegraphy the journey I was meant to take? Did the actors? 
But also... would I rewatch it? Am I tempted to do so the moment it ends? For which bits?
The statistician in me wants to point out that these questions say a lot more about me and my relationship to art than it does about the art itself.
For example
Did I like it? Means... I'm motivated by pure taste and personal preference and complete subjectivity. This is in part formed by a person's background, life state, whole experience with culture and pop culture and society, family, friends. Taste is also just "that" bit. You know, that bit? Likes lemon deserts over chocolate ones, gravities to spicy food, favorite color is green, decorates with potted plants. Just my taste is my taste. I like what I like. 
Yes I have some criteria that subconsciously come into play: I look for clever story structure, subversion or manipulation of tropes, parody, not hitting any of my dislikes (like dub con). But also I have other biases impacting whether I like it (like physical appearance) which I can try to check but usually can't fix. (For example GMMTV's Gawin/Fluke looks so much like an ex of mine I really struggle with his screen presence.)
Did I like it?
The fact that this is the first question I ask myself also should tell you I'm motivated by the emotion these narratives engender. I want them to transport me and move me. I my case I want to feel comforted and satisfied and happy. The ones the make me feel discomfort, especially for too long in the narrative, I am simply going to like less. Sometimes less than I feel like I should (see my struggles with masterworks like ITSAY, YNEH, or The 8th Sense). The very BLs that most professional critics would tout as the best examples of the genre for a wider audience often turn out to be the ones I struggle with the most. (They are also, fortunately for me, the least representative of the bulk of the genre.)
In other words there is ALSO a part of me that genuinely likes and enjoys the trashy stuff. Even the trash I trash watch.
So I would advise you to come up with your own questions. Ask yourself what you want from these shows when you watch them. 
What motivates you? 
Why are you watching them at all? 
What brings you joy from an art or entertainment experience? 
What do you want them to do for you? To you?
You are going to experience them (and therefore analyze them) from this perspective whether you like it or not. So understand yourself is paramount. It's about your relationship to the art, not the art itself.
If I were to give you an assignment I would say start with one BL you really enjoyed, perhaps not your favorite but one level down. And then do one you really did not enjoy. And think about why... 
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Happy analyzing! 
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remythologise · 9 months
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listening to npr pop culture happy hour on good omens have the most insanely bad takes. ‘do you ship it?’ ‘I think they’re better as friends,’ ‘I agree’ ‘platonic friendship is underrepresented’ ‘what would a romance between them even look like? they don’t have genitals.’ ‘I think aziraphale has a crush but crowley is aware of that and ignoring it bc he likes the attention’. now that’s an insulting lack of media literacy. fire these people from their podcast jobs
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seeminglyranch87 · 7 months
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Taylor & Travis Timeline
October 2023 - part 1
October 1 - Travis is seen leaving Taylor's NYC apartment around 11am. Travis heads back to his hotel where the team is staying before his Chiefs vs Jets Game at MetLife Stadium
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Taylor attends the Chiefs vs Jets game at MetLife Stadium, NJ, with Blake Lively, Ryan Reynolds, Hugh Jackman, Shawn Levy, Donna Kelce, Sophie Turner, Sabrina Carpenter, Brittany Mahomes, Melanie Nyema, Austin Swift & girlfriend Sydney Ness, Ashley Avignone, Robyn Lively, and more. The camera cut to Taylor approx. 17 times during the game and the Eras Tour film trailer played twice during ad breaks. Taylor was seen hugging Donna, saying "you're amazing, I don't know how you do it" when the score was 20-20. Taylor was also seen mimicking Travis. The NFL change their tiktok and twitter pages again to reference Taylor's attendance. Various media outlets post footage of Taylor at the game, Travis likes a post of Taylor's reaction to a Chiefs touchdown. The Chiefs won 23-20.
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After the game, Taylor was pictured leaving Zero Bond in the early hours of October 2. (x)
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October 3 - Taylor is at Electric Lady Studios, walking in with Keleigh Teller. Taylor's shirt is referencing the song 'Any Man of Mine' by Shania Twain, the first lyrics of which are (x)
"This is what a woman wants Any man of mine better be proud of me"
Her hat says "Still Here", possibly referencing her Karma lyric
"Ask me why so many fade, but I'm still here"
October 3 is also National Boyfriend Day.
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US Weekly releases an article with quotes from 6 sources on "Why Taylor isn't hiding her romance with Travis Kelce" (x)
"Taylor has decided she's not going to hide anymore"
"She's going to be her authentic self and enjoy life"
The two "talk every day"
"Taylor's really enjoying getting to know Travis, they're taking it day by day, but she has high hopes. She likes that he's a normal nice guy. He's down-to-earth and isn't affected by fame. She also thinks he's hot"
"Travis is completely smitten"
"Taylor is at a point in her life where she's no longer willing to hold back. If something feels right - like it does with Travis - she's jumping in with both feet. She's very happy and loving life right now"
October 4 - Ep 57 of New Heights airs, part of the title is "The NFL Needs to Calm Down" (x)
"Is the NFL overdoing it? What is your honest opinion on how the NFL is treating celebrities at games?" asks Jason
"I think it's fun when they show who is at the game, I think it brings a little bit more to the atmosphere, brings a little bit more to what you're watching but at the same time I think they're overdoing it a little bit for sure, especially my situation. I think they're just trying to have fun with it... [the celebrities] are not there to get thrown on TV" responds Travis
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October 5 - It's Travis' birthday today! He turns 34.
Donna Kelce makes an appearance on the 'Got it From My Momma' podcast. When asked what her favourite Taylor Swift song is, she responds (x)
"I think probably 'Shake It Off' -- we're getting a lot of that lately, about haters," Donna said with a laugh. 
When asked if she's surprised about the infatuation surrounding Taylor and Travis' relationship
"I feel like I'm in an alternate universe because it's something that I've never been involved with ever before," Donna said. 
The NFL release a statement in response to the New Heights podcast episode discussing the NFL "overdoing" coverage of Taylor at the Chiefs games, saying (x)
"The Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce news has been a pop cultural moment we've leaned into in real time, as it's an intersection of sport and entertainment, and we've seen an incredible amount of positivity around the sport."
October 6 - Travis speaks at a press conference. When asked about how he is adjusting to public interest in his relationship with Taylor, he says (x)
"As all the attention comes, it feels like I was on top of the world after the Super Bowl and right now, even more on top of the world. So it's fun,"
“We’re learning with the paparazzi just taking photos from all over the place. But at the same time, it comes with it,” he continued. “You got a lot of people that care about Taylor for good reason. You just got to keep living and learning and enjoying the moments. At the end of the day, I’ve always been pretty good at compartmentalising and being able to stay focused in this building.”
“I always check myself and my ego at the door and make sure that I come in with a clear mind,” he said, before being asked his thoughts on Swift’s world. “It’s worldwide, it’s worldwide, man. It’s been magnified for sure, though.”
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A report comes out stating that the NFL asked its networks to promote the Taylor Swift Eras Tour Film at the Chiefs vs Jets game, likely in a bid to get Taylor to perform at the Super Bowl halftime show. (x)
October 6 - Taylor reportedly flew to Kansas City "to see Travis" for his birthday to have a "chill night" (x). A sneaky little visit for Trav's birthday.
October 7 - Taylor leaves Kansas City.
Travis flies into Minnesota for the Chiefs vs Vikings game
October 8 - Travis plays in the Chiefs vs Vikings game in Minnesota. Travis injures his ankle during the game but after an x-ray he returns to the field and scores a touchdown. The Chiefs win 27-20 (x) (x) (x)
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Travis would later post pictures of this walk-in fit with the caption (x)
"keep it chill like Sauvignon Blanc"
These are lyrics from the song "Lil Boo Thang" by Paul Russell, which contains other lyrics such as
"I'll be shootin' that shot like 2K, girl"
"But I'm tryna get to know you at least Don't take my talkin' to you wrong I can keep it chill like a sauvignon blanc I'ma keep it real when your man long gone If you're lookin' for a friend, then you got the wrong song"
"You a ten, baby girl, but I'm the one"
October 9 - The Messenger puts out an article in which a source states (x x)
"[Travis] jokes [Taylor] is his good luck charm.
“Taylor is having the time of her life at these football games cheering on Travis. [Taylor] and her friends are fully embracing this era and are having a lot of fun being there. Taylor has worked very hard this last year and It’s fun for her to bring all of her friends along, let loose and show support.”
October 11 - Taylor is in LA for her Taylor Swift: The Eras Tour Film premiere. She shuts down The Grove, LA to host a red carpet and early screening event with selected fans, wearing a very 1989-coded blue Oscar de la Renta dress.
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Travis, take note, she loved us first <3
TMZ releases an article saying that Taylor intends to attend Travis' next game. The question is, will Travis play with his injured ankle? (x)
"Sources with direct knowledge tell TMZ Taylor plans to travel to Missouri to watch Travis and the Kansas City Chiefs take on the Denver Broncos"
October 12 - Taylor attends Arrowhead Stadium to support Travis as the Kansas Chiefs take on Denver Broncos. Taylor is seen cheering on the team alongside Donna Kelce and Ed Kelce. Chiefs defeat Broncos 19 - 8 (x)
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The Eras Tour concert film is released today (a day early) due to high demand in the USA and Canada (x)
October 13 - I go to see the Eras Tour concert film! just an FYI :)
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October 14 - Taylor, Travis and friends fly to NYC
Taylor and Travis photographed holding hands as they arrive at Nobu, NYC, publicly confirming that they are a couple (x)
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Taylor and Travis make guest appearances on SNL - Travis makes a cameo at the end of a sketch parodying the NFL frenzy over their romance. Taylor introduces Ice Spice as the musical guest. (full skit x) SNL IG (x x)
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Taylor & Travis attend the SNL afterparty at Catch Steak NYC (x)
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October 15 - Travis attends Eagles vs Jets game to support his brother Jason Kelce at MetLife Stadium, NJ. He is seen leaving Taylor's NYC apartment. Travis is given a friendship bracelet with beads spelling out "on the map" referencing a tiktok trend. He smiles and holds it to his heart. (x) (x)
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Taylor & Travis are pictured leaving The Waverly Inn, NYC (x).
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A nosey diner shares her observations of Taylor & Travis getting cosy (x)
Annie Williamson told The Messenger. "It looked super romantic and was super intimate."
"I cannot emphasize enough how close they were sitting, like so close and snuggled up."
Ms Williamson also shared a video of the couple leaving the restaurant (x). Thank you for your service Annie 🫡
Erin Andrews and Charissa Thompson remind their listeners of the Calm Down with Erin and Charissa podcast recorded on August 3 where they implore Taylor to date their friend Travis (x)
“please try our friend Travis. He is fantastic” 
to which Travis commented on IG
“😂😂 You two are something else!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻 I owe you big time!!”
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taylortruther · 4 months
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There’s a culture critic named Anne Helen Petersen who studies pop culture. She literally discussed why everyone’s obsessed with Travis and Taylor on her podcast this week (Culture Study Podcast) and they do bring up the traditional dating norms in heterosexual relationships and you’re totally right.
They also kinda touched on Taylor being 34 and not married and what that means about all of this which I thought was interesting. I’m still listening to the podcast (it’s over an hour long lol)
but Taylor having such a feminine job (popstar!!) with Travis being a legit football player is definitely factoring in. It’s like the beckhams
fjdaskl it's so fun that you are explaining ahp to me because i am like her #1 stan i feel. i love her. and yes, i do think she had some good insights into the relationship, but she hasn't gone quite deep enough but i expect the podcast - and future studies - will go further into it. i think she's extremely insightful about these types of things and how they reflect the current culture.
agree that there is a lot of layers to their gender roles coming in: their physical appearances, their jobs, what they represent as icons/what their "roles" are according to society (taylor being like... uber-girl, travis being an uber-boy, in a very all-american high school prom king and queen way), the archetypes, and so on.
i think a lot about how some reporter pointed out - talking about lavender haze, i believe - that many people view women as girls until they get married and have kids. and taylor, being legally single and child-free, challenges that belief regularly because she is so powerful, so successful, and so honest about her life.
like, i do think it's kind of awesome to see a 34-year-old woman be single and child-free while thriving. we don't see that enough and it has real consequences for people. expecting women to only be happy with a man and child puts pressure on them to find a partner, stick with a shitty relationship, not be their full authentic selves on their own, not make their own money, etc. - and it also makes the fact that women are underpaid, vulnerable to financial and other kinds of abuse, etc. less pressing to society because, frankly, those things benefit men and their power retention.
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goldenraeofsun · 2 years
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Day 12: Crossover
Audio Transcript of I Don’t Get that Reference, Episode 148: When a Stranger Calls
[IDGtR intro music]
Castiel: Welcome to I Don’t Get that Reference, a pop culture podcast that analyzes beloved movies, television shows, and the occasional meme that I have never heard of before. On today’s third annual Halloween crossover episode –
Dean: Fuck, don’t hype it up too much; it’s just me. Shit, can I swear?
Castiel: – episode my guest is, once again, Dean Winchester. Dean is the host of American Nightmare, a podcast that looks at a different urban legend every week.
Dean: Cas?
Castiel: [Sigh] Yes. Like you ask every year, you can swear on this podcast.
Dean: Fuck yeah.
Castiel: Dean, do you have anything else to add to your introduction?
Dean: Nope, you covered it. My brother is a true crime freak, and I love horror movies, so we figured urban legends would be a happy medium.
Castiel: Do you have a favorite episode to promote, for people who have never listened to your show before?
Dean: Uh… oh, right! Our Killer Clowns episode. Sam nearly shits himself halfway through ’cause he’s scared of ’em.
Castiel: It’s a pretty common fear, to be fair.
Dean: Yeah, but most people can watch a Ronald McDonald commercial without hiding behind the couch.
Castiel: But he is very… humanoid for a fast food mascot. During my Star Wars series with Charlie Bradbury, we discussed the uncanny valley phenomenon, and I’d say it applies here. I can see how Ronald McDonald would be alarming to any child.
Dean: By “child”, are you including 17-year-old juniors in high school?
Castiel: … no.
Dean: [laughs] Yeah, so in that episode we talk about John Wayne Gacy, Poltergeist, and Plucky Pennywhistle, of course.
Castiel: I have heard of John Wayne Gacy.
Dean: Alright, that’s just tragic. You listen to me, we’re gonna do a Halloween lightning round next year: Nightmare on Elm Street, Saw, The Texas Chainsaw Massacre... shit, it won’t be a proper education without Hell Hazers, I, II and III and All Saints’ Day. You’ve gotta see All Saints’ Day and my favorite, All Saints’ Day 4: Hatchet Man Live, plus Hatchet Man V: The Search for David Yaeger since it's so fucking weird.
Castiel: That seems like a lot of content to cover for one episode.
Dean: You have a lot of catching up to do.
Castiel: That’s why I have this podcast.
Dean: We could do a two-parter?
Castiel: I think you’re vastly overestimating my interest in horror movies. If it wasn’t for people’s inexplicable obsession with Halloween, I wouldn’t watch them at all.
Dean: Aw, are you scared?
Castiel: No.
Dean: I think you are!
Castiel: I simply refuse to let you bait me into watching a dozen hours of fake blood sprays and jump scares.
Dean: C’mon, you know it’s more than that. Don’t make me bust out my horror movie conspiracy theories.
Castiel: Dean –
Dean: You asked for it!
Castiel: [indistinguishable muttering]
Dean: Horror movies are all about economic anxiety. I got the idea from Sammy, but here’s the gist: the classic horror movie protagonists are all white middle class kids or grown-ups. The movies are set in their “safe spaces”, like summer camps or suburbia –
Castiel: Like in When a Stranger Calls and The Sixth Sense.
Dean: Exactly! [pause] Hell, you watched The Sixth Sense without me?
Castiel: I watch most movies without you, Dean.
Dean: Dude… that’s cold.
Castiel: It’s a plain fact. You talk too much. I’m there to watch the movie and not listen to your commentary, especially when we have a podcast to discuss it later.
Dean: Ouch.
Castiel: But, I’m more than happy to watch a movie for the second time with you! I already know what happens, so I’m less worried about missing crucial plot points.
Dean: I guess that’s fair.
Castiel: Good. I hope you’re not offended?
Dean: [pause] A little. Y’know how you can make it up to me, though?
Castiel: Oh no.
Dean: A horror movie marathon!
Castiel: I can’t believe you just did that.
Dean: Better believe it, sweetheart.
Castiel: [a long pause] Will you talk over the scary parts?
Dean: For you? Of course.
  ★★★★★ CemeteryBoysGB, 09/15/22 Love this podcast
I discovered this podcast a week ago, and I am hooked! Castiel asks such good questions and his voice is so easy to listen to.
★ Potoooooooo, 09/18/22 Waste of time, probably fake
The host can’t really be this clueless. Who has never heard of the Sopranos before?
★★★★★ Spoopys_of_Love, 10/01/22 Favorite
As a newcomer to the USA, this podcast is a lifesaver! I especially liked the series on Steven Spielberg’s movies.
★★★★ Deanspie, 10/17/22 Awesomest  
I came here from American Nightmare, and the vibes are great, but wayyy different. Dean’s normally pretty flirty when they have guests on (shoutout to Lisa!) but this was off the charts. Are Castiel and Dean a thing? Their banter is A+
Skip to 15:18 if you want to hear them talk about the actual movie, lol
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knighthooded replied to your post "Happy Day After Oscars Day"
oh man I've for some reason kept putting off going to see The Fabelmans (partly due to those trailers you mentioned) and Aftersun (because I need to be emotionally ready) but it sounds like I've got some tickets to buy
amelodie replied to your post "Happy Day After Oscars Day"
I've similarly been putting many of these off, so thanks for the insights and encouragement! I'm really curious about these parasocial critic friends though. Who are some of your favourites to follow?
Oh man, my close personal friends! Many of them responded to The Fabelmans and Aftersun so similarly to me, while also some others really did not!! But maybe the true ~magic of the movies~ was the different ways they affected us all along.
Here are some of my folks and where you can find them:
Richard Lawson, Chief Critic at Vanity Fair His reviews are on VF.com, and he's one of the co-hosts of the 'Little Gold Men' podcast, one of my stalwarts. Next week I believe they will be doing my FAVORITE episode of the year, the one right after the Oscars where Joe Reid (stay tuned) comes on with his spreadsheet of what's coming out this year and, sight unseen, they have to make their wild guess of what's gonna win Best Picture. Do they replay their predictions from the year before too? Oh you bet. A riot. I'll add the link once it drops.
David Sims and Griffin Newman, co-hosts of the 'Blank Check' podcast David is a film critic at The Atlantic, Griffin is an actor and comedian, and 'Blank Check' is their podcast where they cover directors' filmographies, in...depth. These episodes are long as hell. You know you're lost in the sauce when you realize that's become a feature not a bug. I have an intro episode! It's the start of their Bob Fosse miniseries from last summer, on his first movie musical, Sweet Charity (1969). I mean first of all you should absolutely watch Sweet Charity, dazzling and a hoot, but even if you don't see it first, this episode is so great. A lot of it is from their dossier on Bob Fosse (the Fossier), as the introduction of this series, so it's a lot of fascinating history and context of both Broadway and Hollywood at the time, but also they're just all in a particularly bouncy mood and it's a treat to listen to. Ben Hosley, their weird little sound guy of a producer, is basically discovering in real time that maybe he loves musicals?? It is so fun. Anyway. Lots of running bits, sure, lots of guests also (hi Richard!), LOTS of hours, but I just vibe so much with the way these two love movies.
Joe Reid and Chris Feil, co-hosts of the 'This Had Oscar Buzz' podcast Let's just stay on the podcast train for a stop longer. Joe and Chris are both Oscar historians and freelance critics, popping up on places like Vanity Fair and Vulture. Their podcast has the pretty brilliant premise of covering movies that once had dreams of Academy Award nominations, but it all went wrong. Their appreciable cattiness is perfectly suited for this. They also have really good film festival recap episodes, for the current year. Edit: Ahh I forgot my intro episode! It is this one from February on Magic Mike XXL, a film I have not seen, with special guest, their friend Pamela Ribbon, the reason we got this moment, and every moment in this episode where I almost crashed into something laughing.
Emily St. James, of, sigh, I guess just Twitter right now Emily was recently laid off from her job as a cultural critic on Vox, in the on-going horrors of the media job landscape. I'm sure she'll be somewhere else soon, and can't wait. I've actually followed her longer than anyone on this list, and this is where this gets so delicate and complicated!, but you may actually be more familiar with her under her old name, as she's been a noted voice in especially TV criticism for decades, and really shaped The AV Club for years.
Fran Hoepfner, Bright Wall/Dark Room, 'Fran Magazine' First found Fran through BW/DR, where she still turns out incredible essays on the regular, now a loyal subscriber to Fran Magazine, her stellar newsletter, and she is easily the best Letterboxd reviewer in the business (not a business). She's just so astute and so funny, how the FUCK does she do it! Best in the business!
Demi Adejuyigbe, of one million things but on Tumblr: the 21st of September music videos He's just on Letterboxd, but we should be so lucky. Any time I have relayed a Demi Letterboxd joke to someone they've lost their mind. Most recently it was him calling the white love interest in RRR Phoebe Waller-Bridgerton.
I've just realized that of course, ALL of these people are also on Letterboxd. Haha what a dumbdumb! I've gone back and made all their names links to their Letterboxd profiles.
Well I hope this is more than you asked for!! Will update with more people I've surely forgotten.
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journalists/commentators and the squad
BTW, I only came across those tweets because they have been RT'd by Kristen Meinzer, a pop culture and royal correspondent that 99.9% of the time defends the Sussexes. Meinzer contributes to NPR's Pop Culture Happy Hour regularly and used to be on the Newsweek Royals podcast.
Meinzer isn't super influential, but she has professional work agreements with larger media sources like NPR and is tweeting stuff from the hateful Sussex stans and accounts.
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Episode 189 - Romantic Comedies & Humorous Romance
This episode we’re discussing the fiction genre of Romantic Comedies! We talk about the difference between “fun” and “funny,” crossover romance genres, cataloguing romance fiction, and more!
You can download the podcast directly, find it on Libsyn, or get it through Apple Podcasts or your favourite podcast delivery system.
In this episode
Anna Ferri | Meghan Whyte | Matthew Murray | Jam Edwards
Things We Read (or tried to…)
The House Witch by Delemhach
A Witch's Guide to Fake Dating a Demon by Sarah Hawley
One Last Stop by Casey McQuiston 
Evvie Drake Starts Over by Linda Holmes
Delilah Green Doesn't Care by Ashley Herring Blake
Take Me Home by Lorelie Brown 
I Kissed a Girl by Jennet Alexander 
The Bromance Book Club by Lyssa Kay Adams
Other Media We Mentioned
When Harry Met Sally… (Wikipedia)
The Bear (Wikipedia)
Nominated for Golden Globe Award for Best Television Series – Musical or Comedy
The Martian (Wikipedia)
Golden Globes change comedy rules after controversial win for The Martian
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams
Beetlejuice (Wikipedia)
The Wallflower Wager by Tessa Dare
A Week to be Wicked by Tessa Dare
You Deserve Each Other by Sarah Hogle
Red, White & Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston
Judgment (video game)
Bridgertons Series by Julia Quinn
Crazy Stupid Bromance by Lyssa Kay Adams
A Very Merry Bromance by Lyssa Kay Adams
The Duke Who Didn’t by Courtney Milan
Cats (2019 film) (Wikipedia)
Links, Articles, and Things
Episode 119: Regency Romance
What does a happily ever after look like? (romance novel covers)
Sensible Chuckle (Know Your Meme)
There Is Only One Bed (TV Tropes)
Pop Culture Happy Hour
Wait Wait...Don't Tell Me!
Does the Dog Die?
20 Humorous Romance by BIPOC Authors
Every month Book Club for Masochists: A Readers’ Advisory Podcasts chooses a genre at random and we read and discuss books from that genre. We also put together book lists for each episode/genre that feature works by BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, & People of Colour) authors. All of the lists can be found here.
Courting Samira by Amal Awad
The Wildest Ride by Marcella Bell
A Proposal They Can't Refuse by Natalie Caña
Yinka, Where Is Your Huzband? by Lizzie Damilola Blackburn
Rent a Boyfriend by Gloria Chao
How to Find a Princess by Alyssa Cole
You Had Me at Hola by Alexis Daria
Game On by Seressia Glass
Manhattan Dreaming by Anita Heiss
Get a Life, Chloe Brown by Talia Hibbert
A Dash of Salt and Pepper by Kosoko Jackson
Much Ado about Nada by Uzma Jalaluddin
Serena Singh Flips the Script by Sonya Lalli
The Stand-Up Groomsman by Jackie Lau
Booked on a Feeling by Jayci Lee 
The Secret to a Southern Wedding by Synithia Williams
Pride and Protest by Nikki Payne
Tastes Like Shakkar by Nisha Sharma
The Worst Best Man by Mia Sosa
The Donut Trap by Julie Tieu 
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Tag Game
Tagged by @firstprince-history-huh.  Thanks!
Currently listening to - Podcasts - Pod Save America, Strict Scrutiny, 99% Invisible, This Land, Pop Culture Happy Hour
Currently watching - Rewatching Madam Secretary while I exercise, and The Witcher at night with my roommate.  Also just watched Staged S3.
Currently reading - ARCs of the new Steve Sheinkin and the new Marske Freya
Current obsession - Hmm, not sure.  RWRB teasers are tantalizing.  Just finished watching Silo which was unexpectedly compelling.  Trying to figure out a summer vegetarian meal that does not involve tofu, eggs, soft cheese, or mushrooms & that will appeal to a picky eater - current thought is falafel.  If anyone has other ideas I’m all ears.
tagging @wandering-night19, @bluflamingo, @ravens-words, @iboatedhere, @actual-sleeping-beauty, @rmd-writes, and @welcometololaland in return, if you have inclination and time.
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📚 STUFF I READ 📚
🥰 Art Thief, Heart Thief (odetteandodile) - 58K, stucky white collar inspired AU - enjoyed how author took the WC set up (fbi art agent, criminal consultant) and made it theirs & perfect for stucky
💖💖 +195K of shorter fic so shout out to these I really loved 💖💖
Midlife Crisis (profoundalpacakitten) - MCU: stucky, 7K - reread, forever fave - the quiet, piercing, understated tenderness in this fic is unmatched
Progredi (justanotherStonyfan) - MCU: shrunkyclunks, 37K - the next installment in the fabulous Honey Honey series
Pistachios and Rose Water (goldsaffron) - The Old Guard: kaysanova, 15K - J&N spend 10 years putting down roots, building a home & collecting a found family as Nicky learns to express his love through food
Consensual Catfishing (foresthearts) - Stranger Things: steddie, 32K - modern AU, told via social media - delightful story! adored these characters & their voices and using all different sorts of SM to tell it. brilliant idea, adeptly executed. the art is also pretty great
they're going to send us to prison for jerks (greatunironic) - Stranger Things: steddie, 16K - another really fun modern steddie with a strong social media AU premise
Os Impurum (the_deep_magic) - The Eagle | The Eagle of the Ninth: Marcus Flavius Aquila/Esca Mac CunovalMarcus/Esca, 18K - solidly good fic about marcus/esca post canon, esp marcus discovering some new things about himself 😉
📺 STUFF I WATCHED 📺
Ghosts (US) - s3, e5
Game Changer - s6, e3
D20: The Unsleeping City: Chapter II - "For the Hoard!" (s7, e15)
D20: The Unsleeping City: Chapter II - "Treachery at Gramercy" (s7, e16)
D20: The Unsleeping City: Chapter II - "Two Sides of the Same Coin (Part 1)" (s7, e17)
D20: The Unsleeping City: Chapter II - "Two Sides of the Same Coin (Part 2)" (s7, e18)
D20: Adventuring Party - s3, e12-16
Um, Actually - s9, e2
D20: Fantasy High: Junior Year - "Cursed Out" (s21, e10)
D20: Adventuring Party - "Cool Ranch Communion" (s16, e10)
D20: Tiny Heist - "Big Little Crimes" (s4, e1)
D20: Tiny Heist - "Chicanery at Shoeby's Casino" (s4, e2)
D20: Tiny Heist - "Scheming and Scoring Fairy Dust" (s4, e3)
Agatha Christie's Marple - "The Secret of Chimneys" (s5, e2) [shout out to @leupagus for this rec; they were not wrong about the acting choices made here 🤩]
🎧 PODCASTS 🎧
Worlds Beyond Number: Fireside - Fireside Chat for WWW ep001 The Open Door
What Next: TBD - Instagram’s Pedophile Problem
Desert Island Discs - Cillian Murphy, actor
WikiHole - Lenny Kravitz (with Paul F. Tompkins, Drew Tarver, and Heléne Yorke)
This Cultural Life - Andrew Scott
Pop Culture Happy Hour - Our 2024 Oscars Recap
The Atlas Obscura Podcast - The Grave of XYZ
Vibe Check - Hey, Sis: featuring Morgan Parker
WikiHole with D'Arcy Carden - Fear of Dolphins (with Kumail Nanjiani, Emily Gordon, and Jonah Ray)
The Allusionist - 190. Craters
WikiHole with D'Arcy Carden - Tetris (with Adam Pally, Jon Gabrus and Blair Socci)
The Atlas Obscura Podcast - The Lighthouse Keeper
⭐ Vibe Check - A Special Conversation with Afeef Nessouli
Short Wave - What We Know About Long COVID, From Brain Fog to Fatigue
⭐ Decoder Ring - Why Stylists Rule the Red Carpet
⭐ 99% Invisible #573 - Toyetic
You Are Good - My Best Friend's Wedding w. Sam Sanders
If Books Could Kill - Lean In
The Atlas Obscura Podcast - Law of the Tongue
Imaginary Worlds - The Nine Lives of Red Dwarf
Today, Explained - Lip gloss, gum, and the Pill
Dear Prudence - My Ex Had Sex With My Brother. Help!
What Next: TBD - Is TikTok Cooked This Time?
Short Wave - Are We On The Brink Of A Nuclear Fusion Breakthrough?
Pop Culture Happy Hour - Love Lies Bleeding And What's Making Us Happy
Endless Thread - The Music Man, Part 1
Welcome to Night Vale #244 - A Multiplicity of Kevin
Today, Explained - Hollywood’s still not back
99% Invisible - The Power Broker #03: David Sims
Off Menu - Ep 233: Frankie Boyle (Live in Glasgow)
⭐ Hit Parade - Gotcha Covered Edition
🎶 MUSIC 🎶
The Donnas
Smooth Rockabilly
Respect: '60s Iconic Women
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I know lots of peeps here in the GO fandom are fans of platonic love, so I thought I would share this.
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Weekly Writing and Reading Update
Hello, I spent the afternoon getting tattooed and I'm so happy I did and I love my new art but I feel like ten miles of VERY bad road right now. I should have eaten little snacks on break and it turns out a 4-hour session is probably my limit :/ Tomorrow will be better though! And I am in my cozy lil apartment and gonna make mac and cheese for dinner and probably fall asleep at like 9pm, so things are looking up <3
Writing
I posted another chapter of Beginnings, and am writing it slowly but surely; I think I was a bit tired to write this week and all.
I finally finished and posted Aftermath of Failure (Whumptober 2023) which I'm really proud of and pleased with; I love the Fisher King story and it was nice getting to pull that into things.
Reading
I read Dolls of Our Lives and the more I think about it the more I disliked it. I'm tired and lazy so here's the review I sent a friend:
I finished Dolls of our Lives last night. I found it...okay. The editing is often bad which was depressing. It mostly felt really tonally inconsistent -- they're both historians and know their stuff, but keep putting in schticky little pop culture jokes that are a) not that funny? and b) just appear out of nowhere. If you're going to look at AG through a pop culture lens, do it properly, don't just randomly name-drop pop culture stuff. It occasionally dips below surface-level analysis, but it's not super memorable and I don't see it aging really well. (I'd LOVE someone to write an accessible book that actually does look at AG dolls both within their own cultural contexts and the context of when they were released, to say nothing of the interplay of doll + book, and maybe with an added chapter on how girls and dolls play, and what it meant to release a doll that wasn't aspirational in some way, whether it be an adult like Barbie or a baby doll. Okay, maybe I want three books. But it feels like there's a lot of richness to dig into, and I've yet to see anyone scrape more than the surface.) Anyway, 6/10, it was okay but the authors do themselves a disservice. There's a small section at the end where they talk about themselves and how the podcast has changed them and how it came about and it's the best bit of the book because it's actually vulnerable and interesting, with some theory thrown in, and it's barely shticky at all.
I will now add that I think it'll age like milk, and I'm super disappointed.
In happier news, I read The Murder of Roger Ackroyd which is simply a masterpiece, and reading it was a deep and abiding pleasure. I know the twist and it still worked wonderfully on me -- if you don't know how it ends, I REALLY urge you not to spoil yourself and also to read it, for it's wonderful and you will scream at the reveal.
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4 and 21 for the book ask, please!
4. Did you discover any new authors that you love this year?
Answered this differently in another ask, but I really liked Piranesi by Susanna Clark and would definitely read more by them!
21. Did you participate in or watch any booklr, booktube, or book twitter drama?
Apologies for a boring response but I actually don't follow anyone on any platform for books lol. Most of the books I've been reading I've been introduced to through NPR's Pop Culture Happy Hour. Another I came to through Getting Curious, another podcast. Giovanni's Room I read because it was a significant motif in Swimming in the Dark and I was curious. A few others I came to by other means that weren't recs.
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That was a pretty sad post about trauma from John’s death!
On a brighter note - the Pop Culture Happy Hour podcast finally explained to me in a way I could understand the mass appeal of Taylor Swift. They didn’t say this but I think she’s fulfilling the need that Alain de Boton outlined in his book ‘Religion for Atheists’ to connect by singing together - because our society has been impoverished by the interruption of the community gathering together regularly to sing. Formerly I was confused about why fans are so drawn to Taylor Swift vs Beyoncé but the podcast guests posited that Beyoncé is more like a goddess while Taylor connects with every audience member. And they can sing with her.
Anyway - another connection to the Beatles who anticipated that religion would fail society and that we’d need something to replace it.
Pop culture happy hour episode on Taylor Swift’s eras tour:https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/pop-culture-happy-hour/id278974813?i=1000626831608
Alain de Boton’s book Religion for Atheists:https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion_for_Atheists
Hey! Yes I think that, in general, a lot of Taylor's appeal comes from relatability; in her lyrics, in her style, in how she comes across in interviews, and her approach to concerts. Ever since the 1989 tour, she's used light up bracelets for the audience, and always talks about how she loves that that gives her the ability to see every single person in the audience and I think in turn everyone at the concert does feel seen. Her staging is also very intentionally set up to be interesting even for those sitting in the very far back (though maybe this is true for Beyonce as well, I haven't looked into her concerts very carefully).
And yes, I think you're right re:the decline of religion creating a need for different kinds of community gathering. Thanks for sharing! :)
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