#pro-kink

[vagrantcallisto]

"This fanfic is disgusting!"

Bitch, nobody Clockwork Orange'd you into reading it.

#THE TAGS ARE RIGHT THERE #archive of our own #pro-fiction #problematic fanfiction #pro-kink #purity culture #pro-ship #proship please interact #anti anti #antis dni #a clockwork orange #I love ao3 #anti harassment #tw: torture

[elysianmadness]

It's laughable when I see people saying stuff like "writing dark fiction isn't a healthy coping mechanism!" or "your therapist should have their license revoked if they support you engaging in kinks such as ageplay or CNC!"

I'm going to trust the three licensed therapists I've been to with these issues over a 14 year old named Hayden on Tumblr with the world's most eyestrainish Carrd or Rentry. I don't care if your friend who took one high school psychology class said that coping through dark fiction isn't healthy. Still not one of the many licensed therapists who say that it is.

DO NOT REBLOG MY POSTS IF YOU DO NOT HAVE AI SCRAPING DISABLED ON YOUR BLOG.

#venus.txt #dark fiction #freedom of fiction #proship #pro-kink #pro-survivor

[hussyknee]

Being any kind of pervert, degenerate or freak is acceptable and great, being a bigot, harrasser or predator is not I hope this helps

#if you base your morals on laws #assume that laws and cops are there to protect innocent people #or use the threat of cops and legal action against marginalized people #you're a pro-cop pro-state oppressor #racist ableist and queerphobe #you don't have ethics principles or morals just paranoia and self-serving ideology #you are not and never were interested in protecting people from predation #proship #pro-kink #antis #the discourse #purity culture #fandom wankery #knee of huss

[not-that-taliesin]

cw for homophobia coming up

so i was reading through a really well-written post about kink positivity and acceptance, and some shitlick in the notes said something that absolutely made my heart drop into my stomach as i realized exactly what it sounded like:

“People can freely choose how they react to their desires, and can choose to neglect a desire whenever they want.” [emphasis theirs]

this is word for fucking word the same exact argument used by homophobes. i wouldn’t be surprised if the commenter was homophobic, too. healthy kink is not a sugar craving, or a video game addiction, which were the examples the commenter used. it’s an essential part of who we are, and pushing ourselves away from engaging with it in healthy ways only leads to worse outcomes. shame does not work. conversion therapy does not work.

kink is an integral part of my identity, part of who i am. it allows me to engage in my relationships with a deep level of trust, open communication, vulnerability, and intimacy that isn’t nearly as fulfilling in vanilla sex for me. when my partner places their trust in me and allows me to bring them down into subspace, or safely restrain them in ways they find hot, or even set up a scenario where we play with power dynamics and kiss that edge of what we think we’re capable of, it is utterly transformative.

there is absolutely nothing wrong or shameful about being vanilla, and that’s not something you can change, either. you can’t force someone who’s truly vanilla to become kinky. (this is different than someone who wishes to experiment with kink to see if they enjoy it.) just the same, you can’t force someone who’s kinky to be vanilla. and there is fundamentally no difference between these facts and the fact that you can’t force someone who’s gay to be straight.

#kink positivity #pro-kink #tali testifies

[partywithponies]

So funny when anti-kink people are like "you're all FREAKS if you can't enjoy sex without HITTING or BEING HIT or FEELING OR INFLICTING PAIN"

Like, first off, why are you so mad about sex other people are having without you? Bit weird. Maybe go and have some non-kinky sex of your own if it's that big of a deal to you.

And second off, what is it with anti-kink anti-horny types and thinking BDSM is the be all and end all of what kinks and fetishes are? Like, I hate to break this to you my guy, but most people with kinks or fetishes are just really into piss or feet or balloons or something.

#pro-kink #'all kinksters are people who can only get off on VIOLENCE' so false worstie. actually talk to people outside your bubble sometime

[redheadlesbianfreak]

I just had to block an anti-kink TERF who tried to follow me. I’m dead serious, if you’re a TERF or anti-kink, get the hell away from my blog. This blog supports all members of the LGBTQIA community, and doesn’t tolerate any form of bigotry.

TERFs do NOT speak for me, no matter how hard they pretend like they speak for all lesbians. Fuck you guys, I have gender dysphoria. I don’t even know if I’m cis; I’m still trying to sort out my gender identity. 

I should also mention that I love writing gay porn, and I’ve written a fuck ton of mlm porn. If you’re anti-kink and constantly shitting on other LGBTQIA people for being proud of their sexuality, I don’t want you around me either. 

#pro-kink #pro-trans #fuck terfs #fuck radfems

[carbonatedeverclear]

being neutral about other peoples kinks is necessary by the way. when consenting adults are doing things between consenting adults, and you prioritize your discomfort over their autonomy and right to exist safely in a space without having their private interests excavated and recontextualized to make them out to be predators, that says way more about your willingness to place yourself in the position of moral authority than it does about them and you deputizing yourself on the basis of nothing but vibes and your personal traumas makes you very dangerous politically.

#pro kink #proship #prokink

[vagrantcallisto]

New kink drop: abductees locked in the prison of their kidnapper's choice wearing only their kidnapper's oversized shirt, because it's the one piece of clothing/comfort item that they've been allowed to have.

#pro-kink #anti purity culture #pro-fiction #non-con #pro-ship #antis dni #kidnapper/victim #proshipping #characters wandering around wearing just their partner's shirt is adorable and sexy #shirt only kink? #but in a non-consensual way? #or forced consensual way?

[craycraybluejay]

You know how a pretty obvious majority of kinksters are submissives? You want to know a big part of the reason why it's hard to find a dom that's into the same hard kink you are?

Ask a hardcore masochist what they think of being whipped.

Then ask a hard sadist what they think of whipping someone.

Do you notice that the sadist/dom will often either dance around an answer or try to use soothing language/euphemism not unlike the way how in many places people are still expected to discuss sex if at all. Gentle, calculated language.

The issue is, especially with a new surge of purity culture overtaking so-called "leftist" online circles, is that fantasy becomes a moral judgement.

Sub with a noncon kink: "I want to be raped" (cnc but like. People can talk ab it how they want don't cancel me fr.)

Response from Normies: "well that's weird and kinda dark but ok"

Dom with a noncon kink: "I want to rape"

Response from Normies: "I'm calling the police and you should kys and you're also a sexual abuser and even though you haven't said anything about kids you're also also a pedophile :)"

Not only does the attitude of murderous hatred against doms/tops with hard kinks/fetishes/paraphilias make it difficult for them to practice those kinks (safely and ethically) out of fear of social backlash if it's ever found out even if both they and their partner[s] had a great time and are fine-- but, it actively puts innocent people in danger by equating thoughts and attractions of ANY KIND to the act of hurting others against their will. It equates fantasy, which can oftentimes be played out safely if in a modified way with real harmful actions.

Also, kink is still illegal in many places, so don't "its illegal" me about harder kinks. Law is not morality, none of us are free until all of us are free, etc. You get the gist.

You want to see more doms? Meet someone who can indulge your "scary badwrong" sexy feelings? Then maybe don't actively promote a culture where you put ANY kind of attraction or kink under fire. It doesn't matter if it'd be unethical to act out in real life. Some of the most common kinks worldwide are unethical as fuck to act out irl, including rape. That's why we have cnc, come on, guys.

You know what? In fact, you SHOULD actively shun people who shame others for their sexual feelings. EVEN if you think it's gross. EVEN if it wouldn't be ethical to act on irl. Let these types know that their puritan ideals are NOT accepted here. Let them know that if they want to go to church they can do that but not in your space, not forcing other (non consenting!) people to listen to their hateful and repressive ideology.

Like, hey, I'm not into ABDL, for example. But I will defend to the death other people's right to be into that. To think and feel whatever they think and feel. You think diapers are sexy? Great! I don't personally see the appeal, but you do you boo. There is no Correct Way to be sex/kink negative. Either you believe in thought crime or you don't.

And yes, this post includes "harmful" paraphilias (I put it in quotes because they're only harmful if acted on), sadomasochism, mutilation fetishism, etc etc. Every "gross" or "evil" kink, fetish, para you can possibly imagine. The stuff that makes you horny is just stuff that makes you horny, and being horny is normal. Being "weird horny" is also normal. No one deserves to experience shame, let alone public harassment or hate over feelings they most of the time don't Choose to have. Be mindful of puritan rhetoric and strike it down when you see it.

#important #psa #hard kink #nsft topic #pro para #pro kink #the 'dom shortage' #obv there are other factors but this is just a connection I'm pointing out #purity culture #purity wank #puritans #sex and sexuality #tw r@pe mention #p3d0 panic/the trend of calling everyone you don't like a p43d0phi13 despite that that's as i said before #NOT the same thing as csa or ANYTHING like that and simply an experienced attraction #attraction is not r@pe; foot fetishists r not going to randomly hump ur foot and same w ever other kink #thought crime #puritanism #the purity culture wave #discourse #except if you disagree pls block me this is a pro kink blog forever and ever #thoughts are thoughts #anti para people scare me bc if u think someone cant help but have sex with someone/something theyre attracted to... #what EXACTLY are you going to do if someone romantically rejects you???????????? #turning the argument around here. if this is your belief then i do not trust you around me and my loved ones #because if attraction is action then i am scared for the people you are attracted to #because it isn't. and the fact that you think it is says more about you than anyone you hate for their attractions

[maroonswan]

Thinking about pro hero!Kirishima being a gentle giant with a monster cock.

When he making out with his partner, he knows he can’t hide his erection, so he doesn’t try. Instead, he takes your small hand in his and places it around the imprint of his hard cock. It’s warm and large, filling the width of your palm as he guides you on how to stroke it through his stiff jeans, leading you up and down just the tip of his length. 

“Feel that, babe? That’s all you, making me feel so good.” he sighs into your lips before kissing you. His tongue intermingeling with yours as his swallows your moans. 

It’s driving him crazy how well you fit in his lap; one hand squeezing the plushness of your ass as his other inches yours up further, toward the cool metal of his zipper. The tip of your fingers grazing at the clothed base of his cock, making him throb. 

He can’t wait to see how good it will feel when you have them circled around him, how your little hands would be fighting to make a fist around the girth of his cock. Your sweet throat straining to take him as you jerked the rest of his length with a greedy self-sabotaging need to make him cum while your already straining not to suffocate. 

Kirishima breaks away from the kiss then, his tounge still connected to yours by a thin shiny string of saliva. He’s staring into your eyes, dumbly. Red pupils blown out like he’s seen something amazing.

It makes you giggle, half from amusement and half from concern. You hope you didn’t break him.

“Ei, are you okay?”

Kirishima lays you down while nodding. You’ve never heard him be so quiet as he launches himself off the bed. The anticipation having you clenching he stares down at you; his crotch only a few inches away from your face as he starts to undo his zipper, tugging down his pants and boxers until they’re just barely off. His newly freed cock flopping forward to deliver a rude slap to your face.

Your pro hero boyfriend apologizes sweetly as he grasps your chin and tilts it just so until your lips are a hair’s breath away from his leaking tip. The needing throb of his cock forcing you to give it kisses. 

“Just need this mouth so bad, sweetie.” he growls. “You’re gonna open up and take it all, aren’t you?” 

You dreamily sigh a yes, already slurping on the head as he groans and growls. His hands hooking in your hair to work you down further. Kirishima won’t stand to let himself cum until his balls are slapping against your little pink tounge. 

#mdni #tw spit #smut drabble #kirishima smut #pro hero kirishima #kirishima x reader #kirishima eijiro x reader #gn!reader #bnha smut #mha smut #size difference #tw size kink

[impotesmentis]

eating her out!! (gnawing on her guts and snarling)

#cannibal aesthetic #canniblogging #irl necro #tw necrophillia #necroposting #necrophilism #erotophonophilia #pro para #paraphilia #cannibal tw #cannablr #cnc k!nk #blood kink #tw blood #gore kink #gore blog #gore lover #g0r3wh0re #g0r3c0r3 #tw g0re #g0recore

[growmydarling]

#end diet culture #haes #ffa #female feeder #feedee perspective #wg kink #belly kink #getting fatter #feeder kink #pro fat #aubrey gordon #feedism meme #feedist meme

[runs-red]

CNC and rape fantasies, sadism and abusive fantasies are pretty common and are, you know, kinks. Honestly, don't bother calling yourself pro-kink if you're going to shame people for reading fiction on these topics. 

#Sometimes its like... do they even know what a lot of kinks are... #bc a lot of them aren't all that fluffy... #proship #proshipping #pro fiction #pro fic #reds.shipcourse

[feminist-affirmations]

#feminist affirmations #bambi sleep #good girls obey #i am just a girl #patriarchy kink #patriarchy #feminist role model #gender traitor #inferior to men #pro patriarchy

[gorgeousgreymatter-x]

I'm not a furry and I am indifferently supportive of furries doing their thing or whatever but the funniest thing about so many of those chronically online little gen z sex puritans is the fact that if those furries didn't exist or disappeared, none of you little shits would ever get to use the internet again because our tech industry would crumble lmao

#anti anti #is this a furry defense post lmao i guess #internet discourse #sex positive #pro kink

[sals-sonic]

👉 There's nothing wrong with enjoying any type of fiction for kink or self-pleasuring reasons.

👉 There's nothing wrong in writing or drawing media blatantly portraying sexuality.

👉 Creating art simply for kink or self-pleasure doesn't make the fiction any less valid or "less off".

👉 You don't need to constantly pair kink with other more "refined themes" to make it "acceptable" in your writing/drawing.

👉 "PWP", aka "Porn Without Plot" or "Plot? What Plot?", is still just as valid as other types of writing.

👉 To think that only "safe" and "unproblematic" kinks are allowed to be written or drawn is extremely kink negative and conservative.

👉 Taboo kinks and paraphilias should have the right to be explored in fiction the same way that "non-problematic" kinks are. Yes, even if it's only for self-pleasure.

👉 There's nothing wrong in posting writings or drawings containing nothing but kink on the Internet. You don't need to keep it to yourself. If it's tagged, there should be no issue if people want to avoid it.

#pro kink #profic #proship #proship please interact #pro para #proship positivity #pro fiction #anti censorship #my post