#real life interferes

[acommonrose]

On the one hand, it’s very cool and fun that academics get funky little outfits and rituals for graduation.

On the other hand, it turns out it’s terrible for my anxiety, because I keep worrying that there’s some Secret Code I forgot that lets me graduate even though I have paperwork that proves beyond a doubt that I did in fact graduate.

#real life interferes #anyways I have a PhD now so that’s cool

[softpine]

#look i just couldn't handle seeing them failing to get a good selfie for 5 real life minutes #i'm taking this into my own hands #these outfits 😭😭😭 i gave them other ones too but it's a canon event i can't interfere

[always-is-always]

I'm baaack.....

What did I miss this week? 🤩

#jikook #kookmin #i was visiting family then on a business trip #how real life can interfere with tumblr #im leaving again on tues for another week #what am i missing here

[kareenvorbarra]

hmmmmm ketil anime backstory bad

#it adds nothing to the story and interferes with his character progression imo #the point of ketil is that nothing that bad has happened to him until now. he's done everything right and it's always worked for him #and when it goes wrong he completely breaks down and makes all the worst decisions for everyone around him #also it ruins the conversation between sverkel and arnheid :( which is so good and understated in the manga #all he says to her is 'it's your decision' and 'i wish i could help.' manga!sverkel genuinely feels for arnheid. she's a real person to him #but anime!sverkel bringing up ketil's sad backstory when arnheid is going through all that just feels super insensitive #obviously ketil has nothing to do with arnheid losing her family and he didn't enslave her himself #which imo is part of why arnheid has been able to accept being with him! she knows she could have ended up with someone much worse #but like. he owns her. she has to devote her life to him whether she wants to or not. #it feels super gross for another character (and the story in general) to direct her/our sympathy onto ketil in that moment #her son was murdered so that she would be more desirable to men like him! this scene should not be about ketil's pain! #(also the line about why hjalti was killed was conspicuously absent from the anime which takes some of the teeth out of the whole storyline #fandom musings #vinland saga

[sharpbluejay]

i cannot stop thinking about the horror of mary’s resurrection, she died with all those secrets and she comes back to life and her babies are grown men and they know! they know what she did! john raised them as hunters which was the worst thing she could ever imagine happening to her children, they’re attached at the hip, they’ve died or tried to die for each other multiple times, her first day back on earth and she watches dean go insane with worry for sam since he's been kidnapped, they’re friends with monsters, they kill without flinching. her sons are strangers with her children’s names and the man she loved is dead, and apparently he was driven by her death every day until he killed himself for dean, and while dean dances around all those facts in her first episode back, sam gives her john's journal which has to be filled with some sick shit because again, john's grief changed him fundamentally to the point where she wouldn't recognize him. everything surrounding her resurrection is just horrifying, its a gift for dean but literally plunges mary into her worst nightmare

#i am obsessed with the horror of her resurrection i hate the rest of s12 #mary winchester #spn #dean winchester #sam winchester #familial love! as horror #she loves dean and sam but s12 never really gives her the chance to know them #‘that was her choice’ the writers CHOSE to not let her interact with them like they made that decision because they can’t write women #we never see her real reaction to johns journal in s12 like AGH #anyway were on episode 2 of 13 now #and i also hate this season as well #also I adore the thought that Sam and Dean and the way they are like their toxic codependency and their morals absolutely scare her #she just can’t conceive how her dying would have led to *gestures to the weird stuff they do* #anyway this is my Mary Monday I guess lol #this doesn't even take into consideration her own lack of free will once she starts calculating the angels interference in her life #ITS SO HORRIFYING

[raiiny-bay]

good morning. we officially have world lore for the mbzAU

#it has all the good things an apocalypse universe should have imo #a corrupt sect of government poisoning the public #quarantined cities #media coverup & military interference #slaughter fields that are highly irradiated #we even have half & partial monsters!! #radiation obviously works a lil different in this universe than it would in real life but #it’s fine. i’m taking some liberties for the sake of the story ok #it’ll be good though. it is good. i think #i actually really enjoy working in this genre tbh #i should’ve done this way sooner #rainyrambles #dl

[lemotmo]

How am I supposed to return to work tomorrow (I had two weeks of vacation) and be a responsible adult when I'm suffering fom Buddie brainrot? I have no idea how I'm going to get through my day? Or my week?

But as a good adulting adult I'm going to go to bed now. It's already waaay to late and I need to get up at 6am. 😫

#real life rant #real life always interferes with fandom life

[liveisbetterwithfiction]

So many books, so little time. I might need holiday for reading purposes only

#everyday chores really be getting in the way of reading #why does my social life has to interfere with my desire to read? #acotar #how I love these books #sarah j maas #i love reading #i love books #booksarelife #reading #chaotic academia #dark acamedia #this struggle is real #a court of mist and fury

[cj-parker]

see this is what happens when youninvite someone into your problems... they get involved! and then they're forever involved and they also thinnk they now have a RIGHT to be involved, to advise, to "problem solve" to INTERFEAR! your life will no longer be yours alone. they say a problem shared is a problem halved... well it's also your life halved too.. your life is also then shared too with that said involved person!

the take away... stay lonely,stay private, shoulder the burden alone or you will spend the rest of your life repaying for that share!

#real life #heartache #mental health #mental illness #real life problems #mental ill health #sress #worry #interference #mylifeisnotmyown #lonliness is peace

[scarletiswailing347]

so the thing about redwood To Me is that they dont really seem like the traditional domestic partnering type of husbands, lorewise the closest real life equivalent to what they had in last life is the common law marriage -- which is fine until you consider the fact that common law marriages have no real legal standing beyond like financial negotiations Maybe (some usa states give financial protections to common law couples but in england, aka where mumbo and martyn live, common law marriages are practically an aesthetic addition legally speaking and get no protection whatsoever except maybe when they get joint back accounts but you can get those even without getting married i think)

#mine.txt #found out while researching that there was actually a law/bill proposed in england wherein common law marriages can have legal protections #but the government said no and that they should concentrate on the reformation of the legally recognized tyhpes of marriages first #which. ok then. #i mean i know im getting pissy about this cause it interferes with what i want for my fic #but the thing about fic is that i can do whatever i want and nobody can tell me no #when it comes to real life however this is pretty sad #like if a couple wants to have a common law marriage type situation then i think they should be able to do so and have legal protection too #like it doesnt Have to match domestic partnering or even civil unions one-to-one but like. at least Something?? #like financial protection at least??? #anyways i shall be ignoring the declination and will write as if the bill Did get passed cause man #c redwood tag

[acommonrose]

Apparently if you went to math camp circa 2010, you either turned out to be a weirdo academic or to be someone involved in massive wire fraud.

So, you know, I’m having a very normal week.

#if you went to math camp around that time please check your old yearbooks #real life interferes

[mx-paint]

If your argument is "there are no people of color in [x] because I personally don't see this person as a person of color" than it's like. a faulty argument.

#max rambles #this is about percy jackson #like. idk what theyre trying argue about #first this person is saying there arent any naturally blue eyes blond haired people of african decent without white interference #(there are with 0 white genes) #then theyre like theres no colored characters in any of the work #then when i gave a list of actual people of color they said i meant Main characters and im just like. all of the people i listed Are mains. #theyre literally in the same story. #and this all started bc someone else starred a different argument with me how black people cant see themselves in annabeth #and didnt have reason for how they cant other than the characters insrance isnt based off of race? #like. wtf are tiktokers On #ive learned more negative stuff in the world from tiktok than i have on anything else #like the people insisting that people cant be religious and gay bc then theyll be living a life of sin #like. its even worse than it is the real world bc they think bc theyre online rhey can get away with everything #edit: hes using the fact that he says hes black to say nothing hes said is racist #hes saying i must be white lady....bc i gave him examples of why hes wrong #like. im not a lady and. idk what to say abour the white comment since im technically not white either #but when i tried talking to him he just kept saying that #then when i pointed out hid Own racist comment he said 'im black so i cant be racist'..... #...........what #idk anymore man #i was talking about something else in the first place. he talked about something else and got mad when i didnt want to talk to him anymore #idk what he wants me to say when i comment and he ignores it or when i comment and he says that what he asked for 'doesnt count'

[ecurai]

While Avarel has her Two Nickels moment Ael is just.

Ooooh, Fire and Air my head, I am NEVER doing Klingon drugs again.

[acebabecd]

People are concerned about the Crown Keepers cut-away being poorly timed, or saying it might be to give Sam more time to plan, but I think it's just because they had 5 new adults with full time jobs whose schedules they had to work around for filming

#Cr spoilers #Sometimes real life interferes with game and that's okay #I think we need to accept logistics over show sometimes #The same way we need to accept the game is about the players having fun more than it is for us getting the best story

[klkbass]

Next Chapter

The latest chapter for my fanfic. We get to Ryu's waterbending teacher: Mako's brother-in-law.

I want to go further into detail about how he came about as a character, but I'll give people a chance to read it first before I do that.

#legend of korra #mako #mako fanfiction #mako fanfic #legend of korra fanfic #legend of korra mako #korra #lok #lok mako #real life interference

[allyriadayne]

i have a sort of long project i want to post on here but i need to finish all of the gifsets BEFORE posting them all and i have like half languishing on my drafts begging me to post them but i can't 😩

#i haven't had time and it's driving me crazy..... #when real life interferes with your hobbies i GUESS #this has been a post