#sorry not sorry!

[elemental-surprise]

Closed starter w/ @chrisalonso-domluca-jimstreet

It was crazy how fast time went by, but her they were preparing to celebrate their baby boy’s first birthday. Tori was a very proud mama along side her boyfriend Luca. Luca had been the best boyfriend and father to Cameron she could ever ask for. Cameron was a mamas boy but he also loved to play with his daddy when Luca would come home from work.

Tori was finishing up getting Cameron ready for his first birthday party which Annie and Chris of course helped decorate for Tori while she got Cameron ready. She sent Luca out with Jim to go pick up his little smash cake and the cake for the guests.

“Oh my big boy looks so handsome! Are we ready to have fun?” She cooed at Cameron as she peppered kisses over his face making him squeal and giggle.

#sorry not sorry! #lol I got carried away with all the adorable decorations! #chrisalonsodomlucajimstreet #tori and luca

[wearecrowley]

I'm not okay

#crowley #good omens #gomens #goodomensedit #my gifs #my chemical romance #realized I haven't made any mcr lyrics sets yet #so you guys get to suffer this one from me #sorry not sorry! #also blue is more aziraphale's color than crowley's but I like it on him

[transvarmint]

Being a woman does not make you immune to being misogynistic, nor does it make you any less prone to being misogynistic.

You are not less misogynistic by virtue of being a woman. You are not any less capable of perpetrating it.

To believe that being a woman in and of itself makes you less likely to be misogynistic is just essentialism. It implies that other genders are more misogynistic solely only the basis of their gender, rather than being misogynistic based on the choices they actively make.

To not be misogynistic, you must actively choose to fight against it, everyday. You must actively make choices that challenges systemic and social misogyny. You must question your own biases and how they influence your behavior.

You cannot be passively anti-misogyny. Your gender does not give you a free pass.

And importantly, women can absolutely perpetuate misogyny against other women, AND people who are not women. So you must be checking yourself for misogynistic bias in ALL interactions.

*** Before anyone comes at me, YES this applies to men and all genders as well. No, I'm not blaming women for systemic misogyny. I'm simply pointing out that everyone plays a role in it. Women are capable of perpetuating bigotry, especially if there are other intersections at play. Women are not perfect victims, they are human beings who have autonomy, and that autonomy includes the capability to uphold harmful institutions. ***

*** Also yes, experiencing misogyny on a daily basis will cause you to have a different relationship to it. Some folks respond to that by fighting against misogyny, but others respond to that trauma by continuing the cycle of abuse. This is just a fact. ***

#transandrophobia #won't be remotely surprised if we get harassment and death threats over this one #but we're gonna try to stick to our guns here #because it needs to be fucking said #trans women deserve to speak about the way cis women enact [trans]misogynystic violence on them #and transmascs deserve to speak about the way cis women enact transphobic + misogynystic (transandrophobic) violence on us #sorry not sorry! #this is why I don't think women only or 'no men' spaces are inherently safer for women #in fact it often just creates an environment where more marginalized women are targeted under the guise of creating a 'safe space' #not to mention fucking over anyone who has a complicated gender or doesn't pass or is closeted etc #like this is the entire conceit of rad/fem shit #the idea that women are inherently safer or inherently less capable of perpetuating harm #on the basis of their victimhood under the patriarchy

[dixidin]

My sincere reaction after finding out dream did a (really bad) cover of one day by Lovejoy at his OWN. CONCERT.

#btw harry is me in this situation #dude and I found this out in a fucking silly tiktok compilation....WHAT. #“is this post a /j?” absolutely fucking not #I can't even put into words how stun shocked I was #i wanna kill him #sorry not sorry! #will i delete this? maybe #i really don't know #anyways tags cause I don't think you would wanna be sitting here scrolling through my tags for an hour #just to hear how pissed I am at dream and how if I ever see him out in public I'm immediately turning into the puppet from saw/hj #......or would you want to hear that🫣 #dream situation #dream shit #saying that as if it was dream #dream slander #uhhh what to tag #qsmp #why not #dsmp #tommyinnit #lovejoy #I'm just trying to find some good tags man :(

[astral-riddles]

You know I had to 😂

#monster prom #monster camp #monster prom juan #juan the small magical latino cat #astral doodles #sorry NOT SORRY! #his pancake diner sprite inspired this XD

[izayoichan]

A moment for us. 🎶

(pose by @simmireen)

#simblr #the ward legacy #ts4 alpha #ts4 #ts4 screenshots #the sims 4 #the sims 4 screenshots #sims 4 #sims4 screenshots #Fannar Ward-Sullyvan #Arlo Ward-Sullyvan #Yep #we have more of these two #its also all I have that is new atm #so yeah #I am busy making new tools in ffxiv #and its eating time #sorry not sorry! #you also get ffxiv music #because I can!

[bellzsad]

sorry to anyone i defend esp bc i’m posting this on tumblr but sterek scares me

#sorry not sorry! #honestly idk why i get why u MIGHT ship it but like i just cant 😭 #makes me feel uncomfy fr #teen wolf #sterek #derek hale #stiles stilinski #teen wolf stiles #teen wolf derek hale #stydia #stalia #dylan obrien #tyler hoechlin

[nekropsii]

As a Homestuck fan, Homestuck has completely deep fried some of y'all's brains with lethal amounts of irony poisoning. This fanbase is fucking weird about minorities and the source of it probably lies in the work and fandom itself normalizing that kind of behavior. There's a lot of reasons why I go out of my way to not follow many Homestuck blogs, but that's definitely a big one. A lot of people need to learn that a bigoted joke is still bigoted. Making that joke enough times will lead to internalization of its contents. It'll get normalized to you whether you like it or not, and that satire will become unrecognizable as such. Irony poisoning awaits.

Weirdness about minorities extends beyond jokes. Many people try to fix Homestuck by internally increasing the diversity within it, but don't take a step back to process what needs to be fixed in the first place and why. They don't evaluate what bigotries Hussie held that influenced the ways in which he wrote things. There's often no effort made to mitigating or evaluating the racism in any real capacity, and oftentimes when people do make an effort to do so, they're shut down. Painting bigotry in progressive paint with no efforts made to reconcile or be critical of it is about the same as dousing a shit in glitter. The smell's still there, it's just prettier to look at now. It doesn't get rid of the problem. Don't like it.

#sorry not sorry! #many claim themselves progressive but dont take a step back to examine the work and its bigotry critically #and evaluate how it affects and has affected their worldview and how they interact with and see different kinds of people. #homestuck #homestuck meta #homestuck fandom #andrew hussie #homestuck.pdf #nekro.pdf #nekro.txt

[mrs-lockley]

do i wanna know by arctic monkeys is so jake lockley coded

#makes me wanna sit on his lap and lock the door of the limo and make out with him #sorry not sorry! #jake lockley x reader #moon knight x reader #(this is such 2014 music lol i'm 10 years late)

[jrwiyuri]

No big comments on the episode so far because I think my brain is melting as I continue to stay awake but I will say I want to fuck Aelwyn. So yknow the usual.

#stupid snake talk #SORRY NOT SORRY!

[mashmaiden]

I'm very selfishly happy that our Sunday night watching/blogging crew (hopefully) won't be so split up in this half of the year.

But I don't envy those of you with a new Tuesday night "Sophie's Choice" to make...! 😜 (@chicgeekgirl89, @bluenet13 etc!)

#sorry not sorry! #hahaha jk #glad it's not me!

[catboynutsack]

got both ends of the tanking spectrum today!

earlier I was doing rouls and I got a sprout tank who was obviously rough around the edges and not familiar with the low level dungeon we were running but was still oozing with talent and was super polite to boot.

then just now I got a tank who was pulling far too much for my skill level then chose to insult me when we wiped. I was not in the mood to deal with their shit so I told them I'm not doing this, if you're gonna talk to me like this then I'm leaving (as my mental state is. not great tonight!) and they threatened to report me for abuse! in the end I apologized to the rest of the party for leaving and as I was clicking the "leave duty button" everyone was calling the tank toxic as hell which was nice. cathartic even

#anyways tanks work with your healers #dont just expect them to keep up #while i know the theory of healing im still learning to apply it #but still if a healer is struggling to keep up adjust your pulls #pulling half the dungeon and expecting your inexperienced healer to keep up will lead to wipes #whether you like it or not! #sorry not sorry! #anyways i 💛 tanks that arent full of themselves and work with their healers #instead of acting like theyre the main character #ffxiv #ff14 #ffxiv rant #vent kinda

[antiquecritique]

|| Matthew & Duncan ||

Even though he now had an actual employee in the store, Duncan still did all of the errands personally. Mostly because some errands were quite difficult to explain and give instructions for. Aside from restoring old furniture pieces, procuring misplaced or homeless art, retouching damaged paintings or completing rare sets of collector’s items, Duncan was quite good at finding and acquiring other things as well. As long as it was rare, in one way or another mystical and difficult to obtain, Duncan found it to be enough of a challenge to have him drawn out of his store in attempts to track it down. This may also sometimes include things that were somewhat beyond Duncan’s specialty, but not out of his reach as far as he could help it.

So, after a brief research on the infamous belladonna, or more commonly known as the deadly nightshade, which was the main ingredient of the item he now had in an inconspicuous paper bag like it were nothing more than some random groceries from a grocery store, Duncan made his way out of the night market, efficient and brief with his errand as always. The jar of the Sleeping Death, a type of poison whose recipe was almost lost and forgotten to most herbalists and poison makers, would soon find a buyer, already pre-ordered for purposes Duncan didn’t inquire about. After all, means to cause death were of little concern to one who’d already experienced his own.

However, on his way back he got sidetracked, which was quite rare since nothing could drag Duncan’s attention away unless he allowed it to. A face he knew had just stepped out of a shop further down the street Duncan had stepped on, a face he fancied he could see some features on that he could also recognize in himself. This wasn’t the first time Duncan had seen Matthew Baudelaire, a young man coming from a long line of an intricately branching family tree Duncan was intimately familiar with. There was once a very brief week in the past when Duncan had passed through Greywood, lingering only temporarily, when he’d stalked the Baudelaire family home without ever being detected and noticed a few children playing in the backyard, rambunctious and loud, which was typical of most little ones. The mop of unruly curls was as memorable then as it was now. The next time he’d found Matthew when he moved back to Greywood more permanently, Duncan had no problem matching that child’s face to its adult version. Now, it was well committed to memory.

However, what piqued Duncan’s interest even more was the man who'd followed after Matthew, coming out of the store behind him to continue whatever deceptively friendly chatter they’d engaged in before their transaction was done. Well, at least the man was trying to be friendly with Matthew, the guy a real schmoozer, one of those hustling street peddlers who’d talk to you like they were selling you fog even when all you’ve asked them was how they’ve been lately. Duncan knew that face too. He never forgot a face. It was a face that once saw Duncan’s crisp suit and eye-catching silver pocket watch chain and perceived a chance to lighten Duncan’s wallet for a few dollar bills. Needless to say, nothing the man had tried to sell him had managed to catch Duncan’s interest. After all, he had no need of a dealer of any kind, unless what they dealt with was a potential Rembrandt, a piece by Sheraton or a collection of an old volume set. But apparently, Matthew’s search did involve a dealer of exactly this sort, much to Duncan’s mild surprise. However, it wasn’t a smart choice to put this sort of trust onto this specific fellow and that Duncan was very well aware of. It took the old vampire only one conversation with the man to know that he was decidedly not the right person to do any ‘business’ with.

@matthewbaudelaire

#::DuncanxMatthew #death mention tw #drugs tw #dealing drugs tw #HERE HAVE A NOVEL #sorry not sorry!

[astral-riddles]

 Stuff I said in my guild

#cookie run kingdom #sparkling cookie #espresso cookie #black raisin cookie #mint choco cookie #sorry NOT SORRY!

[izayoichan]

Being shown the way they found everyone there, Liam ran to them from Emil’s lap River quickly lifted the little sunlight up into his arms to not have what was clearly one of Carl’s kid creations transfer from the little hands to their mom’s clean suit. 

River: I see some hands that need a wash! Liam: Oh! -they grinned while holding out their hands- I had a tasty treat!

River just chuckled, as Hayle handed him a napkin to dry said tasty treat off his hands.

River: You are a lucky one aren’t you?

They found their place, River keeping Liam on his lap for now, at least until Lucas had done his performance, then he was certain that he would like to have his son with him for a bit. Liam had a calming effect on his mom, that much he had already seen.

Liam: Play? River: Later, I am sure you, Rylan, and Tyvan can play then.  Liam: Okay. 

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#the ward legacy #writblr #simblr #simblrstories #co created with mahvaladara #River Ward #Liam Ward #Lucas Sunstar #they are all there #to be there as support #and yes #these are very old screenshots #but I can't be arsed #to have that many sims be idiots again #so you get old screenshots #sorry not sorry!

[mycatismyfriend]

I'm in a really bad mood today and I'm so tired and tired and tired and I'm just gonna gif a million gifs of Wesley being dumb to compensate ok?

#sorry for the upcoming wesley spam. #sorry not sorry!