#to help me move them soon

[marzipanandminutiae]

Marzi how do you not die of frustration dealing with the most self important people on the planet flocking to your posts

In this case? By being secure in the knowledge that I'm right.

Also, you know, I'm dealing with my new landlady being passive-aggressive about furniture she offered to move out of the room I'm renting, due to the whole "nobody told me it was rented furnished until three days ago and I already bought furniture from FB marketplace" situation.

#ask #anon #personal #for anyone who's not up to speed: the Craigslist listing did not say it was rented furnished #there was one question in the application about 'do you have large furniture' but since unfurnished rooms are the default here #and again no mention in the ad #I assumed like Piano rather than Bed and said no #then when I went to see the place the previous tenant said 'any of this furniture can stay if you need it' which #kind of implies that any of it can GO #so I dilligently combed through FB marketplace for some cheap antiques and put down deposits. my friend rented a uhaul #to help me move them soon #and then the landlady said something about 'my' bed in an email and it all became clear #she offered to move some things to accomodate my furniture and seemed very calm about it in the moment #but now I get an email about how they've been 'struggling' for the last several days to accomodate my situation #and it's 'troublesome' #(to be clear I offered to help when I arrived) #and my furniture isn't coming for another few days so the moving of objects wasn't urgent. and I'm happy to assist however I can

[doubledyke]

it doesn't really make sense in the logic (lol) of the show but part of me loves the idea that edd is being raised by his grandparents.... kids who are raised by grandparents tend to be overly mature and a little uhhhhh off-beat. i feel like it could explain a lot.

#before you ask yes this is me projecting #i know some folks hc his parents as being a bit long in the tooth which i like too #but idk i just think it would explain so many things about edd to learn that he was in fact raised by senior citizens #and shit i still call my grandma 'mom' so to me its not weird at all that he'd call his grandparents 'mother and father' #everything else about them stays the same though #theyre still aloof and neglectful #and i still think the worst of them #anyway i love projecting my trauma onto edd specifically for some reason #he's such an easy target for angst i can't help it #oh and speaking of angst #for anyone who saw that post a while back and is interested in an update on my whole bastard landlord/roommate kicking me out situation: #i found a room and will be moving in 2 weeks 🥴 kill all landlords etc etc but hey at least i'll have my own bathroom #and won't be living with the final boss of millennials/reddit incarnate #unfortunately for you guys though that means i should be able to indulge in my tomfoolery again soon (shit posting and shit drawing) #even though it seems like our tiny fandom has gotten even smaller recently #alright i'll shut up now biiiiii

[mytortoisegotstuckinatupperware]

my contribution to the "unemployed friend at 11 am on a Tuesday meme" is painting a deflated weather balloon from the last 1800s and crying to moon song after apply to forty jobs how your week going

#unemployment #the one friend #that one unemployed friend #humor #shitpost #lol #pls help #jokes #funny #help me god #if I don't get hired soon I have to move back in with my parents #and I can't do that #I have nine children #and all of them bite but one

[lavenderjewels]

I appreciate the love for Shoko but all the theories about her somehow resurrecting gojo from death is really setting her up for disappointment

#imo them collecting the body can just be a sentimental choice too not a major plot changer #shoko bringing him to life when barely any chapters have passed without him and without any indication of her having that ability would #be a very cheap move lmao #i still don’t think he’ll come back at all but if he did I’d want it mostly to be His choice. then Shoko could fix him up after #but yeah next chapter will likely be something horrific or sad #it is NOT looking good for yuuta and rika #I don’t want yuuta to die—at least not until there’s a semblance of hope for the protags #gotta balance out the misery with some hope and effort #buuuuut rika??? could see her being destroyed easily next chapter #….and maybe yuuta too. someone important might get eaten soon #jjk spoilers #wanna say that I DO think Shoko will be healing and helping though!!! #just not gojo for next chapter 🤨 part of me wishes higuruma isn’t dead tbh #look if it’s executed AMAZINGLY and thoroughly explained without making it a shocking fake out death—then sure Gojo returnings fine #jjk 248

[s0fter-sin]

#ive been very slowly starting to move my twt threads over but then i started posting rat which took all of ky attention #but ill be coming up to a break in that soon so i figured itd be a good time #not all of them have tags its mostly the sfw ones bc those are the ones ive posted here and expanded on a little #they will all be seperate fics in a series anyway so it wont get too clogged #theres just a lot of context in my tags that would be nice to share #i could also just link the post to it if people didnt want them #i dunno help me #coming out of my cage and ive been doing just fine.txt #it’s hard to be the bard #soapghost #ghoap #ghostsoap #soap cod #ghost cod

[anaalnathrakhs]

btw my mom said it. she said it to me looking me in the eyes. i told her about how difficult it was for me to get through those family reunions, and she admitted it was very important to her, important enough that she was just going to do it anyway.

#i know there are compromises out there #and i'm not going to live w them my whole life so i'll be out fairly soon all things considered #and i'm trying to be understanding when people's priorities aren't the same as mine #but i uh. would be lying if i said it doesn't hurt a little wittle bit. #i'm gonna keep handling it because i've been an asshole to my parents for long enough #i largely owe them that. cooperating and spending time with them and engaging in what matters to them. #but then she's says things like ''but whenever you move out you'll still be part of the family and invited if you want uwu'' #it's just ?????? okay thanks ???? perhaps you could also try seeing things from my point of view perhaps???? #it's all circling back to that. they have a very weird way to ''help'' me #throwback to them trying to cure my depression with amusement parks #when i would have liked a little less of that and a little more help and understanding #it feels like they're trying to put bandaids on a cancer #''you don't ask for help'' okay no help is coming. i am not being helped. #the system can't help me cause there's no damn beds no damn professionals no damn time to help everyone #the people around me can't help me because it's not their job or within their wheelhouse to help me #and they've got their own shit to deal with #on that note #i was discussing stuff with my mom #and i mentionned it was indeed pretty difficult to manage your time when you had to deal with school and friends and your parents #and she was like ''deal with your parents???? what do you have to deal with????'' #oh i don't KNOW maybe that i'm officially an associate of my dad and i have to help out w events and some accounting #or maybe i have to pay back the fucking years i spent being an ungrateful child now i do everything you expect me to and it's exhausting #maybe that you constantly remind me i am living in YOUR house by touching my shit instead of letting me deal with shit at my own pace #maybe the fact that despite everything i care about you and i want us to have a good relationship and that takes WORK and i'm exhausted #maybe the fact that you keep giving me advice that is unproductive misguided misunderstanding etc etc #and cold comfort after you did something you knew to be difficult for me #how you keep encouraging shit that i don't want and am unhappy with because it's the ''normal'' way #how you raised me from childhood to be an empty shell in a family of empty shells #broadcasting my misery #vent

[theyarebothgunshot]

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#wahhhh so as i have shared before i am moving soon #but because it's a new building i wasnt sure when i would be able to actually move #and i assumed it would be next year because they have to install a floor and i just figured #with the holidays coming up it probably would be delayed #but i got called today and they asked me when i get the keys and i told them next tuesday #and the went 'oh good so on wednesday we will bring the material for your floor and we can install it that friday' #and now i am like. error error i might be able to move THIS MONTH??? #help i have not packed anything yet i am getting nervous now gfhfdhg #but ahhhh i am very relieved as well ngl #and giddy #literally starting the new year with a new apartment hellooo

[gideonisms]

to the many people who saw my router modem griddlehark yesterday and said "yes you are crazy," you will be happy to note that I spoke to multiple people in person today and it DID make me less insane, unfortunately

To the people who said "abi, you're absolutely right," I am baking you bread. It's not MY locked tomb brain rot it's OUR locked tomb brain rot

To the one person whose only comment was that my modem and router should be farther away from each other, I'm obsessed with you. However I can't separate them! That's griddlehark

#i'm lying i put them a little bit more distant #okay actually. i'm lying again i didn't but it's because i forgot and as soon as i get up off this couch i will (truth) #anyway you know what i think? i think failing to adequately interact with people irl should have no mental consequences #i think god (hypothetical) should give that to me for free #i should not be struggling to eat and do basic chores then participate in a class discussion and come home eat lunch and write 2k words #that shouldn't be how that works #i shouldn't feel better after spending time with family. you know that's the thing i have complex emotions about! #you know i am struggling to decide how involved i want them to be in my life and it does not help that every time i go home i'm like #this is great! this isn't that bad! why did i move? we get along so well my brain says it's happier the jesus thing isn't even that big a-- #no that is the devil talking!!! #that is the devil talking

[comixandco]

i’m just

there must be so many gaps in jieum’s memory

she was the girl of many trades but can she remember how she learnt any of those skills? No they were all from her past lives so they’re gone. Can she remember leaving her neglectful family to live with ae-gyeong? No because she was from a past life, so where does ji-eum think she grew up? She remembers being good at school and her awards but not if anybody was there in the audience for her. She says in her phone call to her superior that she remembers switching departments before, but she doesn’t remember working in the hotel. She cooks meals the exact way as ae-gyeong taught her and she taught ae-gyeong, but she doesn’t remember having learnt them. if she can’t remember anything to do with her past lives, she wouldn’t be able to remember anything that had happened in the past few months the drama is set over.

that must be such an odd and confusing existence, to only remember small dots and flashes of your life, and a giant gap in recent memory, and she doesn’t even seem to be affected by it either? Did she go to the hospital after coming to consciousness standing on a bridge with no idea how she got there? Did they run tests on her brain to see if something had gone wrong? Does she think she suffered a mental breakdown?

What is going on in ji-eum’s brain in those final scenes i want to dissect her thoughts like a grape

#see you in my 19th life #did she move back into her old job on the suggestion of a therapist who is helping her with her sudden memory loss? #she was living with ae-gyeong where did she think she lived? #does she have monthly visits to a group of doctors that are fascinated by her oddly specific memory loss? #in those first few days after losing all her memories. did people she knew try to approach her and she freaked? #if she’d gone to the hospital ae-gyeong would be her emergency contact. maybe it just slipped through the cracks because she was also in #hospital recovering from surgery at the time. #there is a large set of contacts in ji-eum’s phone that she doesn’t recognise at all - not just numbers from her loved ones #but contacts for her job at the hotel as well and anybody she’d met during the show’s run #imagine with me if you will if there had been one final episode instead of those few scenes #ji-eum recovering from what she can only assume is some kind of mental breakdown from stress and her childhood #ae-gyeong coming to visit her in hospital and this deliciously heart-wrenching scene that mirrors ji-eum by her bedside when she was ill #and ji-eum doesn’t recognise her at all and only feels a base level of concern knowing ae-gyeong had surgery not long before #ae-gyeong promising to take care of ji-eum but turns her down because her head and heart hurt from being near her so she rents out an #apartment. she has no recollection of working at the hotel and seo-ha isn’t ready to see her yet it’s too soon so doyun has to handle her #transition back to the engineering track. and in her phone she deletes all the contacts she doesn’t know but when she looks at the photos #and icr if she took one with seo-ha but she must have but defo the one with her ae-gyeong and cho-won. she can’t bear to delete them #even though she doesn’t know them or remember why they were taking this photo. but bc it’s a romance she has to have a few photos of seo-ha #and she sort of ponders over them like. who are you. who were you to me. but it hurts her head so she puts down her phone #and there can be a bunch of times throughout the episode where she just misses him like. she’s asleep in hospital and he brings her flowers #and she wakes up just in time to see the back of his head leaving the room. she could visit ae-gyeong to try to rebuild this #parental relationship she doesn’t remember but has all the proof that this is the lady who raised her. and like in the show seo-ha could be #sat right behind her but he doesn’t interact with her directly they just do the napkin bit and then he leaves w/o looking at her #and the meet-up with cho-won could stay the same with the difference that ji-eum recognises her from their photo and says something like #’we know each other don’t we.’ and cho-won gets so excited and maybe even calls them sisters but then she realises what she’s doing and is #like. ‘that’s how it felt for me. we worked together just a few months ago. i’m cho-won’ and then ji-eum can do that #gorgeous reach for her memories from the show where she rolls the name around her mouth because it’s just so familiar #and ofc i’d change nothinf about the scene where she finally re-unites with seo-ha that was delicious af #but i feel like there were just too many gaps in her memories for it to have been smoothed over y’know? #disclaimer i read the webtoon first and loved it but think it had to change for the adaptation

[starswallowingsea]

god i hate living with my parents. "We're doing this for you. You need to get a job that can pay for your insurance because when you turn 26 you're getting dropped off of ours." I know this. I have known this since I was 16 and it has been looming over my head. I happen to like my summer job though and unfortunately it's hard to find winter seasonal work in a similar field and it's not like the parks are looking for more full time people. I'd love to be the second person in our costuming department just making clothes and helping out with that full time but unfortunately its not in the fucking budget to do that and keep me on as an interpreter. I might see if I can get in there for a winter job and find an apartment though just because living with my parents makes me want to constantly blow something up or throw something. I hate this stupid country and I hate how my parents don't seem to see that I'm just so fucking lost and drowning and I hate that I feel like I can't talk to them about this because they'll just talk down to me instead of trying to help me.

#shay speaks #vent // #eugh i just. they had a 'talk' with me earlier bc i'm 'making a fool of myself at church' #bc i refuse to participate beyond sitting and standing and moving as i need to #like i do not care if i look stupid i genuinely do not give a fuck what people think of me at church #i think they're worried people are gonna start looking down on them bc i'm not participating anymore #i never want anything to do with catholicism ever again please just let me live #i can engage with it at work from an educational and historical lens but i hate hate hate having to go to mass #god. i'm gonna probably see if any of my coworkers this summer are willing to help me out with off season stuff bc im just suffering rn #as soon as i get on my own phone plan i'm just going to block my parents atp i do not want to talk to them ever again #not for a while at least

[hershelwidget]

hey what if i did this on the back of the teacher page

please ignore how little i held back on literally everything about duck

#the fact that this is the best yellow ive ever drawn is. kind of funny. i think #once again me putting too much effort into red’s hair is a classic issac move #THE FACT THAT I HESITATED BEFORE USING ISSAC BECAUSE ‘anaru’ MIGHTVE CONVINCED ME TO HAVE 11 FUCKING NAMES HELP #sighing. anyways #red guy #yellow guy #duck #red guy dhmis #yellow guy dhmis #duck dhmis #dhmis #dont hug me im scared #i’ve decided that this is their reaction to seeing all the teachers (or even HEARING them) at once #cough. expect this coloured soon

[kotaerukoto]

One of the things about Makoto's character is that he tends to attract abnormal/strange people and end up in odd, incredible situations. So one thing that I've toyed around with in my head is that in urban fantasy verses this also extends to more preternatural things like spirits, monsters, yokai, gods/kami, the works.

Basically, normal guy who ends up in the center of abnormal situations and surrounded by people who are out of the ordinary. Just like he always is.

#ooc ramblings. #i can see him dealing w/ vengeful spirits or something... real 2000s era urban fantasy manga protag energy. trying to help them rest #and move past their grudges. his highly empathetic nature and his attempts to understand the hearts of others coming into play here #reminds me that i've gotta reread xxxholic one of these days. i've always been a tsubasa man but its sister series is great too #its getting real late though....i've gotta turn in soon

[echoofawind]

Goodness I did not appreciate the former management at my apartment complex. The manager and nearly all the staff left and now we have people who aren't taking care and aren't being kind. I have lived here for years. My partner and I pay nearly $2000 USD a month to live here. It's our home. It's literally management's job to help care for our home.

Post brought to you by the memo of pending eviction notice we got because the apartment complex's system cancelled our rent auto pay. Previously, management worked hard with reminders and emails and calls to make sure no one in the complex got a late fee, let alone to this stage. When my partner went to talk to management, there was no compassion, simply, and I quote 'It's the law." And "I didn't know our system worked that way." (ITS LITERALLY YOUR JOB TO KNOW! THATS WHAT WE ARE PAYING YOU TO KNOW.) He was still courteous and even toned in his speech. I had to walk away because I was livid.

#while this all happened the manager didn't try to help the assistant manager at all #instead she let her grandkids say hi to my dog without my knowledge #i was standing by the doorway to the assistant managers office and the kids were behind me #im very fortunate that my dog is veru well behaved and good with kids #still hes a big dog and if he turns around quickly or wags his tail hard. he can hurt someone. #ive had parents get upset with me because my dog did a dog thing (wag his tail which is unfortunately at small kid face height) and #their kid got startled or hit (by said tail) #they didn't ask if they could pet the dog. they just went for it #ive never met these kids before. we are strangers. #even after I tried to reposition my dog away from the kids. the kids kept coming back up and I didn't have the bandwidth to parent them #my partner knows im ready to move out. moving sucks but i don't care. this management has rubbed me the wrong way too many times #we are house hunting so we will hopefully be out soon and it wouldn't be ideal to split our attention with moving temporarily #i still want to get away from these shitheads #e is for echo #rant

[terrminallycapricious]

((gentle psa, dont read if u dont want to obv

just wanna put out there i am in an extremely abusive household, and unfortunately i dont have antyhing in place, anyone, or any other support system to move away from where i am securely. i dont have income either other than the few occasional commissions if i open things up, or someone decides to gift me money /donate to what i need, as much as i hate asking for it. my dad, unfortunately the abuser, is the main source of me and his financial support but its not always secure either.

so i just wanna basically say im sorry if i blank out, have a short temper, forget things, and generally space out and forget to reply. it definitely isnt you. i literally cannot take care of myself properly unfortunately and i dont get a break. every day there is something going on, soim very sorry about that. the times i do get to hang out with yal lthough and play games or rp im so happy about, so thank you for being patient with me. again, i am not disinterested in plotting or replying, i am dissociating the majority of the time.))

#ooc #abuse // #i have a friend but i have two cats and i cant move down there bc of reasons + relationship i dont wanna be burdening their freedom #same with my siblingsi n the past offering if i become homeless they all have relationships and id rather let them be private #plus im tired ofbeing jealous of people having good lives and i am consistently heartbroken myself in the shit lifes handed to me #so despite what id do to help around wherever i live and can do #the emotions can be felt there im sure. #plus my siblings also pick sides as soon as a fight happens

[nexus-nebulae]

i dislike sacrifice characters

#like. idk what else to call them #but characters who are solely there to be horribly tortured and then die #like for example. rapunzel in the original into the woods #she was abused and isolated for years by the witch and then when finally given an escape #she's left alone with two children and eventually just goes crazy from the constant torment #and as soon as she snaps she's crushed to death. #she just gets tortured goes mad and then dies and nobody really cares except her (abusive!!!!) witch mother #and watching other media i see them pop up a lot #a character who just suffers and never gets to heal #or maybe they only suffer and the only moment they find peace is Literally on their fucking deathbed #they're just there to be beat up #watching some story analyses of different games I've wanted to get into #and the amount of characters in this one who are just horribly tortured solely to die at the end #like nobody gets a break in this story except for the actually horrible people #like wow nobody even wants to put in the FICTIONAL work to help traumatized people. i get it. cool. fun. awesome. #this is my fucking fate i guess. just a plot device to make the people around me feel bad for a bit before moving on.

[rosicheeks]

Looks like I’m on cat duty today - send asks?? 🥰

#I’m helping my sister move #and we aren’t sure how the cats are going to take it so I’m on cat duty #Sheba (dark cat) is pissed and hiding in her carrier #psi (white and black) seems ok??? #but we tried to put him in the carrier earlier cause we needed to get into the bedroom and didn’t want them to run away #he fucking hissed at us and tried to bite #sheba has done that before #but I’ve never ever seen psi do that! #anyway I’ll be on and off trying to help whenever I can #but when I’m stuck in the room #y’all should send some asks to keep me company #pls & ty 👉👈 #I’ll reblog some ask games soon #personal #me