#without realizing it

[napping-sapphic]

I wanna date someone who joins in to sing along when they catch me singing to myself

#wlw #wlw mood #sapphic #sapphism #lesbian #i sing A Lot #without realizing it #me proposing: will you be my mediocre duet partner for life?🥺🥺 #youd have to learn all the weird niche songs that never leave my head though sorry #id tell you what they were but sorry that’s top secret info for my soulmate😤 #anyway if you start singing and having fun with me instead of making fun of me or telling me to stop i am kissing u on the mouth #immediately #straight to the church babe we getting married that very SECOND #im gay and i like sleeping

[theshaddowedsnow]

Cooper: So anyone you have you eye on?

Miles: I mean, kinda? I really like Gwen and all that but mostly as a friend

Cooper: Oh I know that feel-

Miles: But Pavitr is super cool?!?!? And funny?!?!? He's kinda charming in a weird way

Cooper: Huh

Miles: But like, I'm not gay???

Cooper: You sure about that?

Miles: Maybe? I don't know he's cute though

Cooper: Mhm

Miles: But like, Gwen, right? Her hair is so cool! And she's so feminine but like, athletic at the same time! I wanna be like her

Cooper: .... so you and I are going to sit down and have a bit of a chat....

#Cooper coen #miles morales #across the spiderverse #Miles gives such transfem vibes in the kovie #without realizing it #i also ship Miles and Pavitr sue me #chaiflower #pavitr x miles

[sapoteylx]

tis the season to get terribly dehydrated and just careen towards the ground once i reach the top of the stairs i guess

#i do not experience thirst or hunger like at all #so i drink like. 1 cup of water a day #without realizing it #and its CATCHING UP TO ME

[ran-orimoto]

“I have a better opinion of you too. O-only a bit!”

#Junpei Shibayama #izumi orimoto #junzumi #digimon frontier #junpei #izumi #I’ve told myself this is the not the place to talk about it #this is a gif post and I want them to speak instead of me #but someday this episode will get a long post about how it is my most favourite episodes in Digimon ever #in the whole franchise #these are kids learning mutual respect #they’re kids coming over their differences and bonding over their loneliness in the most tacit possible way #without realizing it #gifs

[lunathewafflelord]

I need help with something

I saw a Twitter post saying something along the lines of “I don’t care how traumatized you are or if you have a mental illness or it’s triggering to you, you need to be talking about Palestine and if you aren’t you’re a bad person”

is it true that you should ALWAYS post about Palestine, even if the subject is extremely triggering and can cause genuine panic attacks? For me, posts related to Palestine and the bad things happening can be incredibly triggering, and I’m so worried that I’ll spread misinformation or say the wrong thing and accidentally say something incredibly offensive and people will get mad at me. (I really don’t want to offend anyone, since I too know how harmful misinformation and offensive content about an oppressed group can be as I’ve dealt with it my whole life)

The post seemed a bit ableist to me, explicitly stating that they don’t care about your trauma and triggers and you should intentionally be triggering yourself in order to raise awareness of a serious issue. Yes, Palestine NEEDS to be talked about and people should try to research what’s going on, but are you a bad person if you don’t talk about Palestine due to mental health reasons?

I’d like some people’s perspectives on the topic, about if it’s okay to not discuss serous issues like Palestine and other subjects if it’s a triggering subject for you. I don’t normally like to reblog posts related to these topics as reading them can be upsetting to me and my friends, but if it is necessary I might reblog a few of them.

Imo I feel like the only people who have a right to say “you’re a bad person if you don’t share information about x even if you’re disabled or have mental health issues” is people who actually have a mental health issue when it comes to traumatizing things, as people who don’t have those triggers really can’t understand how horrible it is to have trauma and anxiety.

what are y’all’s thoughts on this? I’d prefer if only ND people commented on this as they’re the ones this post is affecting, but neurotypical people can comment too but PLEASE be respectful of people’s trauma!

#I 100% stand by Palestine but I’d rather not post about it as I don’t want to spread more misinformation or possibly say something offensive #without realizing it

[genius2mania]

raise your hand if you and your best friend in high school unironically had a fucking epic love song as “your song”

#yes it turned out I was gay #thank you very much #and yes we were definitely a queer platonic couple #without realizing it #comphet

[strwbmei]

tw vent? nothing negative happened, I just did some self-reflecting

Parents are so complicated.

I don't like them, but I definitely can't bring myself to hate them. If they weren't my family, I'm sure I wouldn't even tolerate their behavior, but they are. They brought me into this world, and undeniably, made some sort of sacrifice because of it.

Sure, I have tons of negative memories, but does that justify me disregarding all of the positive ones? It's also their first time living in this world. Just like me, they go through their fair share of tough times and struggles.

They may not have been the best parents, but it's not like I was a good daughter to them, either.

#・❥・strwb rambles #tw vent #this all started because i saw a video of a dad #saying i love you to his daughter #and started bawling immediately #without realizing it #ive wanted the same thing for so long

[deathfavor]

@kyukicho​ said: can i hold you for a while? - Kakucho for Izana

   It wouldn’t be Kakucho if he didn’t ask. This was simply how he was. Izana turns his head to gaze towards the one who made such a request. Is it for him? Or is it for Kakucho? Perhaps both. Kakucho and Ran probably know best, better than Izana himself does. Maybe he is tired. Maybe it’s simply is Kakucho’s wish, in which case, he is glad to see the other speak up on his own wants. 

   Finally, Izana makes his decision. He turns away from the vast window of his room to walk over to the couch where Kakucho is currently sitting.  He hums, a hand tapping one knee in indication for Kakucho to move it before he settles into the space in his lap. He tucks himself up there, draws Kakucho’s arm around him so the other doesn’t have to ask. It’s permission. Touch. Hold me. If its you, I allow it. 

   “  You can.  “  Izana vocally confirms it, knowing that such is better. Words are clearer than the unspoken rules of handling him. So he grants Kakucho the permission he seeks not just in actions, but in words too. He closes his eyes and breathes in the familiar scent that he always associates with Kakucho. He feels a bit more real like this. Less like a ghost and more like a person, someone who is here.

   “  Don’t let go.  “

   It takes a moment for Izana to realize that he’s spoken those words that seem so quiet and so heavy in the room. He’s not sure where they’ve even come from. Only that they have, and that he’s pressing himself back against Kakucho. He’s not afraid of falling off the couch. So he’s not quite sure what he seems so concerned over, enough to have spoken from the subconscious. But he laces one of his hands together with one of  Kakucho’s hands, securing himself as he allows his eyes to close for a moment. 

   “  You’re warm.  “  He murmurs instead, trying to move past the moment as he speaks.  “  I might fall asleep.  “  A tiny smile creeps up onto his face. It wouldn’t be the firt time he’d fallen asleep because of that. It would not be the last either.

#kyukicho #he's having a mess of emotions #without realizing it #but yes he will take all the holding thanks #᛭ — [IC] the unwanted will burn the world [IZANA KUROKAWA] #᛭ — [RELATION] beloved do not let me fall where you can't reach [IZANA & KAKUCHO]

[ilona-mushroom]

Not socialist in a “I won’t have to work” type of way but socialist in a “I’ll still be working but I won’t be worried I won’t make the rent” type of way. In a “billions won’t be hoarded by one person” type of way. In a “janitors, fast-food workers, child care workers, preschool teachers, hotel clerks, personal care and home health aides, and grocery store cashiers, will live comfortably” type of way. In a “the sick and elderly will be cared for” type of way. In a “no child should work” type of way.

#socialist #socialism #communism #anti capitalism #the belief that we won’t work under capitalism genuinely makes me so mad #like #you realize the goal of social reform is to abolish imperialism right? #there won’t be good just showing up out of nowhere without slavery and/or imperialism

[crehador]

so when food is too salty we might say "打死卖盐的" basically meaning "did you beat the salt merchant to death" but one time in an attempt to be a little polite and a little funny to the chef (my mother) i said "……是不是又跟卖盐的有矛盾了" meaning "are you... having a dispute with the salt merchant again" and now it's a whole thing in my family

anyway point being there has been another altercation with the salt merchant

#this is the saltiest fish i have ever eaten #actually was just about to post ''there has been another altercation with the salt merchant'' #but realized without context that meant nothing lol

[exoflash]

a concerning amount of witchblr will be like "um actually new years was stolen by europeans from the ancient god scroobus mcdoobus" and then you actually try to research scroobus mcdoobus and it turns out he was invented in the 1940s by a conspiracy theorist who powdered every meal with ketamine and thinks that queer people are reincarnated fish

#brightts ramblings #BEFORE I GET ATTACKED: THIS IS NOT AN ANTI-WITCH OR ANTI-PAGAN POST #im just literally begging witchblr and paganblr(?) to study history from proper sources #so you don't accidentally end up repeating misinfo or even outright bigoted info without realizing #you are not immune to propaganda! #this post is specifically ab new agey stuff like starseeds #but a lot of other stuff fits into this as well ie 'blessed be' #for further context i am not a witch or pagan myself but i DO study the occult/occult history #religion #spirituality #history

[apollos-boyfriend]

so my younger cousin is flying in to visit from brazil on sunday, and will be staying here for like, the entirety of july. which, don't get me wrong, is super cool! i love the kid! but it felt like a super weird move, considering his parents are the SUPER strict and borderline helicopter parents. even the smallest prank/roughousing with him/his little sister would lead to a strict talking to from his parents, he couldn't ever do anything without their clear permission, that sort of stuff. so letting him fly at alone at 16 to a whole different country and stay there for a whole month seemed WILDLY out of character. additionally, it just felt like a super last-minute trip. it's not like we have any plans to do when he gets here, and the flight itself and stuff only got booked like, midway through june.

and i was talking to my mom about it, kind of trying to nudge some answers out of her, and after a while she went, "yeah, i think they're sending him over here to get away for his boyfriend. see if the distance breaks them off." which, first of all, surprised me because last i checked, they didn't KNOW he had a boyfriend. literally everyone in the family did EXCEPT for them because while that entire side of the family being semi-conservative, his parents (mostly his dad) are EXTREMELY old-fashioned. so clearly something already went wrong. and considering the only reason the rest of the family knew is because one person found out and it spread like wildfire, i have a sneaking suspicion he wasn't the one to tell them, either.

and second of all. they're sending him HERE. to try to make him forget his homosexuality. i couldn't do anything but just wordlessly gesture to the multiple pride flags scattered around my room, then to myself, because really? he has like two other cousins in the us and they're sending him to me? honey i am about to introduce this kid to queer scenes you have never even heard of. he'll be returning home with labels only shrimp can perceive

#icarus speaks #i fully believe she's correct btw #they are. not the brightest people. and honestly probably believe this is something that could work #cause i can see the logic of get him away and hopefully he'll realize it's a phase. which is Likely what they think #but oh honey you have a big storm coming #side note this is the SECOND time someone's been outed without permission on that side of the family 😭 #bitches learned of my transgenderism SO quickly #also even if that's NOT why they sent him here. i will still be rocking his world #they have given me Infinite Power and i will use it to make this kid's life as queer as physically possible

[inkskinned]

the thing is that they're so fascinated by sex, they love sex, they can't imagine a world without sex - they need sex to sell things, they need sex to be part of their personality, they need sex to prove their power - but they hate sex. they are disgusted by it.

sex is the only thing that holds their attention, and it is also the thing that can never be discussed directly.

you can't tell a child the normal names for parts of their body, that's sexual in nature, because the body isn't a body, it's a vessel of sex. it doesn't matter that it's been proven in studies (over and over) that kids need to know the names of their genitals; that they internalize sexual shame at a very young age and know it's 'dirty' to have a body; that it overwhelmingly protects children for them to have the correct words to communicate with. what matters is that they're sexual organs. what matters is that it freaks them out to think about kids having body parts - which only exist in the context of sex.

it's gross to talk about a period or how to check for cancer in a testicle or breast. that is nasty, illicit. there will be no pain meds for harsh medical procedures, just because they feature a cervix.

but they will put out an ad of you scantily-clad. you will sell their cars for them, because you have abs, a body. you will drip sex. you will ooze it, like a goo. like you were put on this planet to secrete wealth into their open palms.

they will hit you with that same palm. it will be disgusting that you like leather or leashes, but they will put their movie characters in leather and latex. it will be wrong of you to want sexual freedom, but they will mark their success in the number of people they bed.

they will crow that it's inappropriate for children so there will be no lessons on how to properly apply a condom, even to teens. it's teaching them the wrong things. no lessons on the diversity of sexual organ growth, none on how to obtain consent properly, none on how to recognize when you feel unsafe in your body. if you are a teenager, you have probably already been sexualized at some point in your life. you will have seen someone also-your-age who is splashed across a tv screen or a magazine or married to someone three times your age. you will watch people pull their hair into pigtails so they look like you. so that they can be sexy because of youth. one of the most common pornography searches involves newly-18 young women. girls. the words "barely legal," a hiss of glass sand over your skin.

barely legal. there are bills in place that will not allow people to feel safe in their own bodies. there are people working so hard to punish any person for having sex in a way that isn't god-fearing and submissive. heteronormative. the sex has to be at their feet, on your knees, your eyes wet. when was the first time you saw another person crying in pornography and thought - okay but for real. she looks super unhappy. later, when you are unhappy, you will close your eyes and ignore the feeling and act the role you have been taught to keep playing. they will punish the sex workers, remove the places they can practice their trade safely. they will then make casual jokes about how they sexually harass their nanny.

and they love sex but they hate that you're having sex. you need to have their ornamental, perfunctory, dispassionate sex. so you can't kiss your girlfriend in the bible belt because it is gross to have sex with someone of the same gender. so you can't get your tubes tied in new england because you might change your mind. so you can't admit you were sexually assaulted because real men don't get hurt, you should be grateful. you cannot handle your own body, you cannot handle the risks involved, let other people decide that for you. you aren't ready yet.

but they need you to have sex because you need to have kids. at 15, you are old enough to parent. you are not old enough to hear the word fuck too many times on television.

they are horrified by sex and they never stop talking about it, thinking about it, making everything unnecessarily preverted. the saying - a thief thinks everyone steals. they stand up at their podiums and they look out at the crowd and they sign a bill into place that makes sexwork even more unsafe and they stand up and smile and sign a bill that makes gender-affirming care illegal and they get up and they shrug their shoulders and write don't say gay and they get up, and they make the world about sex, but this horrible, plastic vision of it that they have. this wretched, emotionless thing that holds so much weight it's staggering. they put their whole spine behind it and they push and they say it's normal!

this horrible world they live in. disgusted and also obsessed.

#this shifts gender so much bc it actually affects everyone #yes it's a gendered phenomenon. i have written a LOT about how different genders experience it. that's for a different post. #writeblr #ps my comments about seeing someone cry -- this is not to shame any person #and on this blog we support workers. #at the same time it's a really hard experience to see someone that looks like you. clearly in agony. and have them forced to keep going. #when you're young it doesn't necessarily look like acting. it looks scary. and that's what this is about - the fact that teens #have likely already been exposed to that definition of things. because the internet exists #and without the context of healthy education. THAT is the image burned into their minds about what it looks like. #it's also just one of those personal nuanced biases - #at 19 i thought it was normal to be in pain. to cry. to not-like-it. that it should be perfunctory. #it was what i had seen. #and it didn't help that my religious upbringing was like . 'yeah that's what you get for premarital. but also for the reference #we do think you should never actually enjoy it lol' #so like the point im making is that ppl get exposed to that stuff without the context of something more tender #and assume .... 'oh. so it's fine i am not enjoying myself'. and i know they do because I DID. #he was my first boyfriend. how was i supposed to know any different #i didn't even have the mental wherewithal to realize im a lesbian . like THAT used to suffering.

[domorebemore]

ok it's missing the first part i wanna point out but why was pitts so sassy here LMAO like what was his problem. the part it doesn't show is cameron saying his parents collect pipes and he goes "OH YOUR PARENTS COLLECT PIPES? WOW THAT'S REALLY INTERESTING." like hhakfsdjfs gagged him a bit but also like calm the fuck down. what is his deal here.

#also. no. i shan't say it. #iconic moment. gotta do more gotta be more has circled thru my head for YEARS #WITHOUT REALIZING IT #LIKE IT'S UNIRONICALLY SUCH AN ICONIC PHRASE TO ME?

[yourangle-yuordevil]

what if we flirted at the gentlemen club 😳 (and we were both flirting) 😞❤️😞Discreet Gentlemen's Club

#good omens #crowley #aziraphale #ineffable husbands #Headcanon time: All the dancers at the Gentlemen Club fell in love with Mr. Fell at one point because he is such a cutie <3 #and Aziraphale calls Crowley to investigate because he doesn't realize that he's too cute for this world #and instead thinks that his fellow dancers are being tempted!!!!???? #And Crowley just snort laugh for ages while he watches Aziraphale flirt with all the gentlemens without even realizing that he's flirting #the day that Crowley and Aziraphale leaves Portland together #they go to say goodbye at the Gentlemen's club #and all the Gentlemen; after saying goodbye to Aziraphale #shakes Crowley's hand with a knowing look of “Respect to you sir; you managed to charm Mr. Fell. Good for you” #and Crowley looks back at them behind his glasses like ???????????? #good omens comic #historical husbands #discreet gentlemen's club #ALSO: #fumetto che deve MORIRE 🤗 #perchè ha osato esplodere mentre salvavo 🤗 #mandando a puttane tutto il lineart 🤗 #aspetta come si dice???? BRUCIAAAAAAA 🤗 #🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥

[h0nex]

im forreal people need to learn to recognize fash dogwhistles

#it doesnt make u racist to recognize racism i prommy you need to be able to understand this shit #or you *will* be indoctrinated #without realizing it