#you belong in the queer community!!

[thetisming]

btw if you remove people of colour, fat people and disabled people from queer history youve removed so much that you can barely even call it history anymore.

disabled queer people have always been here. non-white queer people have always been here. fat queer people have always been here. you cannot erase ANY of us without erasing a huge part of queer history.

#queer #queer pride #queer community #queer history #im disabled and fat and you CANNOT erase us nor can you erase our non white queer siblings #we have ALWAYS existed and we will continue to exist and we will always belong no matter what #no matter how hard you try to remove us from history we have been here and we will always be here

[maniacwatchestheworld]

#batman #batman brave and the bold #batman: the brave and the bold #kink at pride #kink belongs at pride #queer as in fuck you #queer community #babyface #alfonso face #mrs. manface #manfreda face #batman the brave and the bold #btbatb #plastic man #harvey dent #two-face #two face #twoface #green lantern #pride #pride month #happy pride 🌈 #lgbtqia #anti guy gardner

[grims-sunshine]

I'm not even gonna directly respond to the ask I just got and I just blocked the anon who sent it, but I just wanna say... If you'll come to my blog to spout exclusionary bs at me, you can shut up and just block me instead because aside from this post, I'm not even gonna react to it cuz none of you deserve the time of day.

Also if you think aroace people don't belong under the queer umbrella, you can honestly shut right up and I sincerely hope you step on the pointiest, most annoying legos every single day for the rest of your miserable life

#i don't like cussing usually but genuinely: Fuck yourself. #shut up with the exclusionary bs and just let people live #we're not hurting anyone by existing #and if you think we don't belong in the queer community you're either horribly misinformed or just a damn bigot yourself #just leave me alone ffs #sorry for the discourse #i try to keep this a positive space #i just wanna make it clear that I don't tolerate people like that and anyone who thinks that way gets their ass blocked straight away

[maledistributionsystem]

thank u for posting transhet stuff, sometimes i fall down the "all men are a danger to themselves and others" rabbit hole so to speak and it makes me feel hopeless so seeing stuff of girls loving us being men and wanting us to be men is very helpful anyways your stuff rules no matter what :) have a great day bro

Thank you for contacting the Male Distribution System Bark Line. Remember: Self-made men are loved and adored. All of them. Your message is in the queue...

Hey you're absolutely welcome! I know what you mean too, there's this very loud and proud "i hate all men because theyre evil and they suck!!" mentality that has (in my opinion) a rather large presence in queer spaces and it makes existing in them as a trans man really, really exhausting. Especially when some people decide its okay to say these things to your face, as if you aren't a man. Especially when it comes from white people, since they tend not to recognize how they look saying that kind of thing to men of color.

But hey, i have a wife and she's like the coolest/strongest/lovliest person i know, and is my best friend. I promise there are literally millions of girls who love trans men and don't think we're becoming evil/violent/dangerous, and who also don't think we're hurting ourselves/making ourselves uglier.

I also know a handful of other men who have wives/fiances/girlfriends, and I wont lie and say that it was easy for them, especially since they tended to go for cishet women, but they're in long happy relationships nowadays. You can do it too. I promise dude :)

You take it easy and have a great day!

#MDS Bark Line #i'm gonna use the tags to continue a line of thought i had but didn't feel necessary to respond directly to nonny with #it really truly fucking sucks that it feels like as a trans man i have this very noticable very palpable 'decision' to make between #being seen as a man-full stop-but also being shunned from your community if you just look like some random dude bc you wanna be stealth #or accept proximity to womanhood/femininity to be given a sort of 'pass' from being assumed to be dangerous #it hurts my heart to talk to other binary trans men. you wanna know why they dont exist very much? #its because we get pushed out of spaces we technically belong in because we DONT want to be overtly readable as queer #and men get fucking tired of that and decide to make peace with cis bi/gay spaces or they decide to just not have any community connection #and thats. really fucking sad. #it shouldnt be so fucking hard to find other binary trans men who are deep in their transition. but it is. #and i feel like it really really shouldnt be. #It would really help if queer spaces would uhhhh stop demonizing men and our masculinity. :/.

[merl-out]

Really at the point where if people wanna say ace is cishet or queer is a slur, I just wanna dare em to go to an actual queer space in person and say it. Say it to someone's face. Say it without a screen between you. Say it in front of the people who would rock your shit for trying to control someone else's identity.

Say it to the people who fought to be there, who take the risk to be out in the open. Say it.

I know that losing online spaces is fucking hell for younger folks and people in the closet/unable to meet in person and my heart fucking breaks for them. But I also NEED y'all to know that this shit doesn't fly in person. In person if you have a problem in a queer space, you go to the person in charge--who is usually some leather clad queer elder who sees a flag as a battle flag instead of fodder for discourse.

I saw a post on here that said you can be gay and not act like a member of the community--hence the phrase "not gay as in happy but queer as in fuck you" and at this point in time when we are still actively under attack, if you aren't standing WITH us, you're acting AGAINST us and I'm fuckin sick of it.

#queer discussions #queer discourse #ace discourse #anti exclusionist #not gay as in happy but queer as in fuck you #dont even get me STARTED on terfs #im out here with a lot to say today about online queer communities #am i trying to start shit? no #in fact i guarantee shitty replies will be deleted and blocked #but im fuckint pissed on behalf of the youngins that will learn community from this shit show and think that they won't be loved and #accepted by older queers #fuck this shit #say it offline #say it to my face #tell me the kid i practically adopted who uses neopronouns dosen't belong here #do it #i fucking dare you to do it

[wolf-tail]

"But if kink is allowed at pride it'll make the asexuals uncomfortable!!!"

Do you think that asexual people are this bitch from Sims 2???

#kink at pride #kink belongs at pride #queer solidarity #queer discourse #queer as in fuck you #queer community #asexuality #sims 2 #mrs crumplebottom

[batemanofficial]

i must resist the urge to wade into the waters of discourse so i'll be vague but must all discussions of lesbian identity on this website center around men

#speak friend and enter #lesbians and bisexuals have a beautiful shared history but we are not the same and to insinuate so is reductive to us all #i think this site has a real problem with individual exceptionalism and the urge to belong to an exclusive in-group #and that leads to the rejection of whatever community can be found within other broader groups #and i think that boils down into a kind of casual biphobia that views bisexuality as 'lgbt lite' #which isn't fair to bisexuals and their history as members of the queer community #so all these weird little micro labels get created that place this weird stigma on bisexuality and erode the definition of lesbianism #anyway. call yourself whatever the hell you want but please learn your history first #and be prepared to understand why members of the communities you're attempting to combine might bristle at that

[sirenium]

TW: Caps, truscum, ace exclusion, discourse (??)

It is absolutely appalling to me that the cesspool that is the truscum subreddit is still alive and well. Don't get me wrong, some of the people seem like fine individuals... at least from my (very) limited knowledge. But others? Holy shit, bro. It didn't take very long to find some sort of exclusionary post; this one in particular claimed that 'saying ace people are part of the LGBT community is like saying atheists are a religious group' and... wow. That is an INCREDIBLY idiotic take, and I'm not going to explain why due to the assumption that everyone reading this has a functioning brain.

It's like they think being any type of queer is all about oppression and pain, and anyone they deem to not experience an adequate amount of it isn't queer. We've seen this with the tucute shit, so tell me why I'm even remotely surprised that at least a few people who consider themselves truscum are aspec exclusionary as well. It makes my head hurt.

Exclusion does nothing the further LGBTQ rights and acceptance, all it does is victimize more people! Making yourself 'one of the good ones' does absolutely nothing! Making other queer people feel like shit does NOTHING to solve the real issue, which is the fact that there are STILL queerphobic people in the world! The fact that there are people OLDER THAN ME who can't grasp that fact is so upsetting to me.

#tw discourse #lgbt #anti transmed #anti truscum #truscum dni #btw dysphoria isn't the determining factor of being #trans #it certainly can be #but there ARE #non dysphoric #trans people in the world #regardless of if you want to accept that or not #Truscum ideology should've crashed and burned in 2018 istfg #fuck exclusionists #also #asexual #people are queer #therefore they belong in the #lgbtq community

[mars-ipan]

y’know i’m happy aromantic is trending in response to that horrible discourse bait poll because so many people (aspec or not) are showing love and support for aromantics, but i’m also fucking pissed that we need to keep doing this when 2024 is literally days away. i know terfs are always gonna be pieces of shit but come the fuck on man

#marzi speaks #anyways. i just got to go on a huge blocking spree so we’ll see if it worked depending on if they find this post #SEMI-FRIENDLY REMINDER: ASPECS BELONG IN THE QUEER COMMUNITY. THIS INCLUDES CISHET AROALLOS AND CISHET ALLOACES. #IF YOU DO NOT WELCOME ASPECS INTO THE QUEER COMMUNITY GET THE FUCK OFF MY BLOG AND EDUCATE YOURSELF #and a much more friendly reminder to my fellow aspecs: #acespecs we are awesome every single one of us. we rule. let’s show support for our arospec siblings right now yeah? #arospecs you all are WONDERFUL !!! if you’re comfortable with it I LOVE YOU!!! if you aren’t I APPRECIATE YOU DEEPLY!!! #you’re SO fucking cool and epic and wonderful!!! literally like one of the coolest communities i have ever had the pleasure of knowing!!!! #hell yeah!!! <3333 and <2222 etc etc

[alloutshirt]

i really believe you should shut the fuck up about what you think closeted people have to do to be deemed legitimate and respectable

#am i really gonna have to do a dash clean up in 2022??? #like i dare hope it doesn’t come from a bad place but for god’s sake #fucking think twice before you throw out your opinions on people #and take a step back from your idealized not-as-bad-as-before world #acknowledging queer people literally always led to my outing #in a dangerously homophobic world the closet isn’t a choice #especially in that industry and you having no idea what kind of fucked up contracts they’re stuck with but that’s a whole other subject #that if you know what happens to queer people and that doesn’t make you understanding idk what to tell you #and if you don’t get there fine whatever but have some compassion for the people who you know will read what you had to say about them #anyway closeted people are so cool and brave #i hope you find belonging and peace within and outside of your community #x

[cozza-frenzy]

Christ on a fucking bike are we ever glad that we block people who post the most unhinged syscourse, and we're not gonna vague about it - we're pretty sure we know who started this idiocy because Terry recognizes that rhetoric. Something very similar was posted by a blog we used to follow, and it was a fucking meme blog about things being funnier when you're a system. This is why we can't have nice things. - Terry & Blitz Edit: Apparently it might NOT be this person jfc that means there's at least TWO of them

#People stop comparing things to nazis that aren't literal nazism challenge level impossible #People who run meme blogs keep their shitty discourse to themselves challenge level impossible #This happened once before when I was following a positivity blog that was just Luigi saying nice things #And then suddenly the blog owner started putting words in Luigi's mouth about how Ace People don't belong in the Queer Community #That was a sad day #Shit Terry Says #The Devil You Know

[anti-potato]

when you killed your kids were you by any chance taking inspiration from medea from greek mythology

is that another potato blog?

#yes #i took slight inspiration from medea while writing the story #but i was mostly inspired by self righteous republicans who call people belonging to the lgbtq+ community 'groomers' #but more often than not they turn out to be child molesters #trigger warning btw #so they turn their inner desires outwards and start policing against innocent people #or in other words #by pointing your finger at someone you're taking blame away from you #queer people have also been doing this to other community members to deflect hatred #white gays to black gays in the seventies #gay people to trans people for decades #trans people who fall in the binary to non binary people #so even though i point out how the potatoes are dangerous i'm much more dangerous than them #but in the eyes of the potato murderer we're all just potatoes #and when all the other people have been boiled or baked #they will come for me too #potato lore

[snobgoblin]

ok I hate that I even know enough about family guy to put this together (I watch a lot of videos about it ok people shitting on it is good background noise) and anyway we know two things about Meg right

>she is not attracted in any way to women. she once tried to fit in with lesbians and was devastated that she just could not be attracted to women

>in one timeskip, he has started going by Ron, and grew a mustache

MEANING, while Ron isn't a lesbian he is still gay (he has always shown attraction to men, no data on enbies) and trans and will find his sense of community he's been yearning for, one day in the future. there is a happy ending for him, there is acceptance waiting for him, just not in the way he expected

#its interesting like... he always identified with the queer community #its good to see he finally gets to be a part of it #especially since hes treated SO shitty by his family #yeah king you belong... #im rooting for him what can i say... <- about a show i hate

[canichangemyblogname]

What the fuck even is gender?

#Been listening to this black genderqueer woman (<that’s how ze defines zirself) talk about zir journey with Gender #And ze talks about how important having been raised a woman is to zir identity #Ze has been exploring how gender is a social construct #But also how other’s perceptions of you in the public sphere & civil society #affects identity #One thing ze said was that ze is not a woman- not really- but ze will always be a black woman… #…because of how society interacts with zir and how ze has been raised in a yt supremacist & patriarchal society #And a nb (she/they) contributor to the series #added that they understood- a little- as she too had been raised to be a woman #in a patriarchal society #and that society interacts with them as a woman and treats her as such #and they navigate the world as a someone perceived like and treated like a woman #And they both talked about how neither of them really have community with men #they may even ‘look masc’ and they may sometimes present outwardly ‘like men’ #but they have never really related to men and they never felt a sense of belonging or acceptance among (groups of) men #And that makes complete sense to me #I get that. Because in a patriarchal and white supremacist society what is a man? #A straight. cis. white ‘male’ - and often even middle or upper class #Why would I find acceptance in or belonging with anyone who fits that ideal? #I will always be queer to them #And I’m happy about that. I don’t want their acceptance #Just rambling in the tags at this point