#you don’t owe anyone

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

#you don’t owe anyone #your attention #bye #doodles #bad art #lousy drawings #doodle #positivity #self love #healing #recovery #self worth

[financeprincess]

you either get it or you don’t, I’m sorry I don’t make the rules… and no I’m not going to explain it to you

#you know exactly what I mean #you don’t owe an explanation about anything to anyone #you don’t owe anyone any information about yourself #xoxo

[bearhugsandshrugs]

there are a lot of takes in fandom i don’t vibe with and you know what i do?

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#if i read every durgetash take that reduces gortash’s entire persona to being about durge i’d be here all day #and i’d be in a bad mood #so i don’t #seen people fight in reblogs and so on but the great thing is: you don’t have to read it #just scroll past! can recommend 1000/10 #let them indulge themselves in that if that’s how they roll #or just mute a tag (like i muted cazador bc cazstarion is triggering me) #improve your tumblr experience and fandom experience all at once! #you don’t owe anyone your attention!

[bloomnova]

#overwatch #ow #lifeweaver #widowmaker #I don’t ship them I just know he’d look at anyone in talon with the most charming smile and go what the hell is wrong with you

[hyenasnake]

Hot take but some of y’all good omens fans are just racist lol

We haven’t even SEEN Season 2 yet and y’all are already hating on Beelzebub’s new actress because she’s not Anna. Not to mention how many of y’all I see still drawing Beelzebub as white when they’re being played by a brown person now (this doesn’t apply to pre-fall or pre-s2 fanart obvs). We haven’t even seen Shelley in action yet and y’all are already hating for no good reason.

Y’all are absolute babies and need to grow up and re-examine your biases. Especially re-examine why you’re holding a brown woman to higher standards than a white woman.

#I also saw someone say Shelley Conn wasn’t a good fit for Beelzebub because she looks too ‘traditionally feminine’ #like first off holy transphobia #non binary ppl do NOT owe you androgyny #do You say this to actual non binary ppl? #‘hi sorry you can’t be non binary because you look too traditionally masculine/feminine’ #funny how I don’t hear anyone saying this about David or Michael or Jon when they’re all traditionally masculine looking #second off maybe you should think about why you’re holding a brown woman to higher standards than a white woman #like seriously think about that #good omens #beelzebub #Beelzebub good omens #good omens Beelzebub #Shelley conn #ineffable bureaucracy #ineffable beurocracy

[welcometotheravenclawcommonroom]

“Forgive and forget” and “forgive but don’t forget” are both all well and good, but it’s also fine to “forgive and farewell” and tell a person that you forgive them, you understand that they were in a rough situation, you are glad they’re better now, that you hold them no ill-will, and you’re capable of moving on from what they did to you. BUT that you simply cannot have them in your life anymore because what they did fundamentally ruined the relationship, regardless of their extenuating circumstances.

Even if you have completely forgiven someone and wish them nothing but happiness going forward, you don’t OWE them anything, least of all your presence in their life.

#mod des #not hp #also you don’t HAVE to forgive anyone #but even if you forgive someone #you don’t owe them your presence in your life

[queen-caramilflinda]

crying!!!

#acofaf #a court of fey and flowers #dimension 20 #d20 #cienna talks #this means so much to me #I’m closeted irl so #hearing people say that you don’t owe anyone your coming out is nice

[saetoru]

i’ve said this before but people who say “thank you for sharing this” in reblogs have a special place in my heart truly

#it’s like #i don’t think anyone owes me thanks for writing something #i do it for my own fun genuinely i do #and sharing it is part of the fun yes #but yeah no one needs to thank me when i do my hobby #but i think just. there’s something touching about someone enjoying something you made #sometimes spent weeks or months working on #overthinking and reworking and whatnot #and they like it so much they say #wow tysm for letting me witness this #and it’s just #it’s not that deep #jdsnjdskkdj #but it’s deep to me #it makes me feel good #i love ppl who do that and more than anything it makes me look at my writing and be kinder to it #bc if someone enjoyed it enough to say that it can’t be that bad #ok ramble over i’m gonna do beat some hilichurls

[shapeofmetal]

Me: hmm I did not care for that interaction. “Blocks” ahh that feels better. Now I can go about my day.

The person I just blocked: on public social media “And then they BLOCKED ME. IT WAS SO RUDE. IM ENTITLED TO TALK TO OREO AND NOW THAT THEY HAVE BLOCKED ME HOW AM I GOING TO TALK TO THEM??? I’m deprived. Oreo is problematic actually! 🤬🤬🤬

Me: wow I’m so glad blocking people means I don’t have to see what they are saying. I’m living my life now and moving on.

The person I blocked: MOM SOMEONE ON TWITTER BLOCKED ME CALL THEIR MOM AND MAKE THEM TALK TO ME.

#the fact that multiple people are going to assume I’m talking about them specifically says a lot #I’ve had to deal with pushy or rude people over the years #I’ve always just blocked and moved on #if someone else blocks me I see that as them saying they don’t want to interact and I respect that #I’m not entitled to their time or energy #that goes both ways #if I block someone I’m not obliged to talk to them anymore #that’s why blocking is an option #so many people online treat me like I owe them something #wether it’s art or a conversation or a friendship #I don’t owe people anything #I just wanna draw weird robots #I’m not going to name any names or call anyone out for being obnoxious #if people want to make public callouts denouncing me for the crime of blocking them that’s their problem #I will say though that what I have been shown of those posts is so cringe #I do not regret a single person I have blocked #if you end up blocked on the internet build a bridge and get over it.

[beybuniki]

hiii just wanted to say that your art is very inspiring in the sense that it looks like you have a lot of fun drawing it and that makes me want to draw things for myself too :3

:’D this makes me so happy. I say this all the time but I DO prioritize the process over the result, I think this is a very important to keep in mind when you pursue sth, especially when it’s a hobby 💗

that doesn’t mean you can’t be ambitious and have goals, but I think never forgetting to have fun is always part of the goal

#and working with children always reminds me of thattt #you don’t owe anyone perfection or a certain standard #beybunaski

[florenceafternoon]

I feel kinda bad for this but I turned off annon asks on this blog. This isn’t because of any hate or anything, I’ve only ever got nice asks, but I just wanted to set a preventative measure.

#again this isn’t against anyone in particular #it’s just that fandom is supposed to be fun but in order to have fun I’ve got to take care of myself #I don’t owe anyone an explanation so if you don’t like my takes then kindly leave my house #more traction means more room for potential hate and I already don’t like getting misinterpreted

[divine0]

idk who needs to hear this but you’re allowed to block people. you don’t need a reason you’re allowed to just. block content you don’t want to see. you shouldn’t have to see shit you don’t want to. 🤷🤷 it’s so easy to block someone plus you can always unblock them. it’s not personal. you’re allowed to curate you’re own dash it’s not the end of the world to block someone

#i’m at the end of my rope guys #you don’t owe anyone on the internet anything #you can just block someone. you literally do not need a reason to do so #you can block me if you want to i totally understand !! i literally do not care i think the internet should be fun not a hell world #ry talks

[ofblackskies]

Please know that regardless of who says otherwise, you are completely within your right to block anyone on any site online - including but not limited to here on tumblr - for any reason, at any time. You are not obligated to offer up a reason or explanation, and refusing to do so does not make you a bad person. If you get anons saying otherwise, ignore them. People in the wrong tend to bully and pressure. Take that as proof that you made the right decision. Thank you, that is all.

#[ 𝚊𝚝 𝚝𝚎𝚊 𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎 𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢𝚋𝚘𝚍𝚢 𝚊𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚜 / ooc ] #this is honestly so important #don’t let the bullies get you down for drawing a line in the sand #you owe nothing to anyone #make your space safe for you #y’all can reblog this one idc it’s important

[the-ships-to-rule-them-all]

It’s late so I have no real positive inkling about how coherent this will be.

I’ve been seeing a lot of posts engaging with the concept of “don’t look away, bare witness” and how anyone looking away by not reblogging or engaging is privileged and therefore a bad person. I reject this premise wholeheartedly for one very critical reason: the world will not get better if the only emotions we have are anger, exhaustion and trauma. None of those truly lead to anything productive in the long run.

This is not to say don’t engage with different perspectives, unlearn things or simply sit in the uncomfortable nature that comes from our global society. But learn to take breaks.

There is massive difference between “looking away” and “hitting pause”. It needs to be more acceptable on the internet to hit pause. To seek joy, to sleep and wake up rested. There is also the fact that our brains are not able to process the 24/7 news cycle - if we try, we end up making the nuanced into simple paradigms.

#abby speaks #my thoughts #barely anyone will see this #but I think it’s important #to know that you can and should allow time to NOT engage with the worlds problems or social justice #this isn’t saying don’t work to make the world better #or that taking breaks isn’t hard #hell I was just at a hockey game and the 30 minutes where I truly took a break was the bus ride #every stoppage and intermission I was on my feed or checking for updates #but you need those moments to remind yourself that better days are possible #we owe things to our souls #our bodies our families our friends and our communities before we owe a half empty vessel that is our being to strangers #those are my two cents

[touchlikethesun]

‼️MINORS DNI‼️

james potter knife kink this james potter knife kink that. when are you cowards going to let the knife actually do the job it was made for???

#JamesPotterHasABloodKink2023

#minors dni #im not kidding #i don’t mean necessarily getting cut up super badly because ow also he wouldn’t want his partner hurt themselves too badly either #but a little blood here and there? #seeing his partner covered in blood because they were being violent and sexy?? #i’m not saying that it’s moral i’m not saying that it’s healthy #but as long as it’s consensual let the man indulge #a little bit of blood play never hurt anyone #james potter #marauders #tw bl0od #tw blo0d #just in case #also also you just know mans is down for period sex like sooooo down

[katebeckets]

I wish tumblr would allow you to mute kind of like instagram does

#I know there’s a whole culture of ‘unfollowing isn’t personal’ and you don’t owe anyone #but there are some real ‘I love you it’s ruining my life’ feelings on here lol #also I’m not vagueposting about anyone I promise lol #it’s more the general vibe since April 8 2023 lmao