#studying for entrance exams

[whatsername94]

I wish we could hold each other like this forever.

I’m pretty proud of this one. Mostly of the composition because it uses the golden ratio which I’ve been trying to understand. Studying for my art school entrance exams has helped.. but I still don’t know how to draw clothes.

#persona 5 royal #persona 5 #akeshu #goro akechi #shuake #akechi x akira #ren x akechi #akechi x joker #akechi fanart #persona5royalheadcanon #persona5 royal fan art #akira kurusu fanart #Ren Amamiya Fan art #golden ratio #studying for entrance exams

[bruhstation]

(redraw of last year's art!) happy new year 2024, everyone! hopefully things go well this year, too :]

#thomas the tank engine #thomas and friends #ttte lady #ttte diesel 10 #ttte thomas #ttte percy #casa tidmouth #senjart #this year has been quite tough! phew #started off the year studying my butt off for entrance exams #ended the year studying my butt off for med school's first semester finals #I'm so busy!!! so many organizations and meetings to attend!!! workloads and labworks too!!!! #ntm I got hit with a wave of mental health stuff so that depleted my motivation too..... #things are kind of tough for me now but hopefully I can get myself back on track #because I have lots of stuff to draw!!! many gazillion ideas!!!! #and I hope YOU too will have a good year!!!!! #also looking at the tags on last year's art and LOL'd.... my years living at the dorms was truly something (negative connotation)

[karuupins]

don't have time to watch the show but ough

#art #fanart #trigun #nicholas d. wolfwood #trigun wolfwood #man i wish i had time #but i'm studying for entrance exams #if anyone reads and wonders why i havent posted #OTLLL

[crystalsenergy]

Self demands (an attempt at how to deal with this, and a genuine transmission of understanding 🌿🌼)

Whether it comes from you to yourself or from others, demands are something that can greatly affect a person's psychological well-being. And often, it's difficult not to be affected.

Living, dealing with my life, getting to know other people, I realized that all of us will feel some kind of pressure at some point in life.

I see demands as something dangerous for a person's mental health, which can make them feel weak, powerless, incapable.

The way we react to it is unique, it's ours. We cannot define a standard reaction to these things because each person reacts differently. But I believe that we can always handle it differently, better for ourselves. And, of course, this way will vary from person to person.

➥ Self-demands

Many times, the demand doesn't even come from outside but from within. And in these cases, I believe we can control the situation more.

I used to be a person who demanded too much of myself, who wanted to achieve perfection in everything and was upset if I didn't reach it, if everything didn't turn out perfect. Until I learned that seeking perfection is exhausting, especially depending on what you're doing.

There are specific phases of our lives that seem like we cannot escape demands. Adolescence is the main one. Parents, school, and society itself place a series of obligations on your shoulders, a lot of times, it's the consequence of their projections on youth. It's really hard. But what I often see are people who, in addition to the pressure from outside, also pressure themselves. And that's very harmful.

As someone who has been through all of this, I strongly advise you to make sure that at least one of the demands doesn't exist. The external one will be there, and you already need to control/try to handle how it will affect you.

So let's try to understand why we demand things from ourselves and how to handle it better. Okay?

First of all, we need to clarify that: ›› Demanding too much of oneself is not the best way to achieve a good result.

➥ Overcoming oneself and others

Many of the thoughts of those who demand too much have to do with the desire to overcome oneself, to surpass one's own limits. Always wanting more from oneself, for you, it's never enough, you never get there. Because you have to work more and more. Overcoming oneself usually has to do with some standard or specific person(s) that have been set in mind as a profile to be followed. But why do people generally have this thought?

➥ Comparisons, influences of personal life history, and what was taught

Many times, excessive demands may be related to what was taught to you as you were growing up. School, family, the outside itself. Ideas that you need to surpass others to be valued, to be considered better. Some comparisons made since childhood: children in schools being seen and compared according to grades and performances, or at home taught by parents that they need to surpass others to be well-regarded.

These thoughts are very misguided, and if they don't cause problems at that age, they can generate frustrations later, in adolescence, for example. What is even worse if we stop to think about it: it's during adolescence that you receive even more demands to carry.

➥ Self-demands to be well Another thing that unfortunately is taught to us is how we should always force ourselves to be well, always smile, sometimes even pretend a good mood and well-being that we are not feeling at all.

With life [and with Psychology too], I learned that hiding things is even worse. Hiding from others is also hiding from oneself. I understand that there are places and people that it's not worth telling how we are feeling; but it's two different things:

Not telling everything to everyone

VS. Pretending to be well

All feelings exist to be lived.

It's like phases that you really need to experience because otherwise, you won't move forward.

It's as if we need to go through the pain, understand it, and of course, seek help from others and within ourselves to get out of it.

Self-demanding to be well soon will never bring benefits.

You really start to see yourself as inferior for not smiling, living life the way others do. And here comes the same teaching that applies to demands in things like school: do not compare.

You live a moment, and people live other moments. Each of us has our own time.

You have smiled a lot and had happy days; you are not just suffering. And in your happy days, there were also sad people going through bad phases. Therefore, each of us has our own moment. Whether good or bad, it must be lived. Do not compare.

➥ Tasks and more tasks

Many people fill themselves with tasks believing that they will be able to fulfill all of them. This also generates many frustrations and can gradually end up with mental health and self-esteem too.

➥ What can happen

These attitudes and thoughts directed at oneself can generate feelings of anxiety and guilt. Anxiety to do more and more things and surpass oneself (which is terrible because you don't live in the moment, you live in anxiety to do one thing after another). Guilt for not being able to do more tasks.

I have been very frustrated with self-demands. It was the vestibular phase, and I was under pressure. School, prep course, relatives. People, in general, put pressure, saying, 'if she doesn't pass…' Expectations also generate demands. The ideal is to allow the person to live their own time.

I also wanted to embrace the world, do several things at the same time. For those on the outside, that was right. "Look up to her, [Name]." "Do it like her, several things at the same time." But no, we need to know how to choose what we are going to do, how we are going to do it.

When you choose to embrace the world =

you put many responsibilities on yourself, overload yourself, and blame yourself a lot for not being able to do all your tasks. And obviously, you won't be able to: you fill yourself with things to do and still seek perfection. There is no time or energy for everything to go this way.

➥ How to deal with it

Calm down, not everything is lost, and things can work out.

Changing habits and deconstructing these thoughts is very important.

Seek help.

Try therapy, healing frequencies available in places like YouTube, relaxing music (music has immense power!), Solfeggio frequencies, binaural frequencies, and not only with a focus on "concentration, learning", because none of this will serve if the foundation of your being is not based on a minimum of self-respect and a search for internal harmony. No one can endure eternal self-demand without succumbing.

Important message: you can and will live your life well. If you demand a lot from yourself today, there is a way out of it. Don't feel bad for demanding from yourself, don't blame yourself. Try to change gradually, take it easy on yourself, live your time, be kind to yourself. And deconstruct the thoughts: perfectionism masks benefits, in the short term and initially, you may perceive this as something good, but in the long run, the downsides prevail.

➥ Have real goals for your routine!

It's no use getting overwhelmed with tasks. Be realistic, define for yourself only what you have the possibility to accomplish in your day.

➥ Do. not. compare. ₊˚.

Everyone has their own pace. Everyone has their own time. Each person will get there in their own time. You are not worse for "still" being here. There is no "still" because you are not behind in anything. Respect your time and be kind to yourself. It's what you deserve.

Do not rush, do not get frustrated.

Detach yourself from others, from standards, from what is required of you in the environments you live in. You are not your demands.

Life is not a race.

"Stop running for nothing, You don't need to have a dream that anyone dreams." "You don't need to follow someone else's dream. Create and chase after your own."

#studyblr #studying #motivation #self demands #self destruction #self development #self love #self healing #writeblr #my writing #writers on tumblr #writers #writing #reflection #self awareness #self help #student life #entrance exam #student tips

[kimbapisnotsushi]

ushijima wakatoshi is a nepo baby

#SORRY I HAD TO GET THIS ONE OUT #(partially) joking as always y’all know i love him #but come oooooooon . . . #utsui is an alumn #mom’s family is old-school traditional and wealthy #i’m willing to bet she was a former student too #anyways it’s insane that the only way to get is either #study hard for the ridiculously insane entrance exam or a fucking sports scholarship #i have thoughts on these about shirabu but that’s for another time #ushijima wakatoshi #haikyuu #haikyuu!! #sou says stuff

[juniper-moon]

Chemistry make brain go pbbrrttt

#nurse #nursing school #nursing student #study space #studyblr #college #college student #student #chemistry #test #entrance exam #studyspo #studying #study

[amxrany]

!! BROOMQUET SILVER GROOVY SPOILERS !!

THE BIRDS RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AND HIS SURPRISED FACE IM SOOO 💘💘💘

Best disney princess fr

#rany talks about twst #twisted wonderland #twst #twst jp #twst spoilers #twst silver #ok i really need to study for my entrance exam i was just waiting for the groovy to drop #my curiousity was KILLING me #also i just noticed both the bday cards for may (epel and silver) have surprised faces

[ravidrws]

screenshot redraw!!:

#genshin impact #fanart #genshin fanart #Klee #klee fanart #Shes sososo cute #ravidraws #I redrew this over a screenshot bc summer sucked all the motivation out of me #This was really fun tho #now it's time for my usual diary entries sorry about that lol #back when school was taking all of my time I hoped I could finally work on some projects in the summer #Now I have time but no motivation #Well I technically have no time either bc I have only a week left to choose something to study and a uni to do it #And to somehow pass an entrance exam I haven't prepared for #and all I'm doing is trying not to think about it #I've been hiding behind thai dramas Omori's let's plays and Momo's fancams on yt while everything around me is on fire for over a week now

[aprityormarj]

I have accidentally become a leona artist instead of a jack artist 😭😭😭 MY FAVORITE IS JACK NOT LEONA BUT DRAWING OTHER PEOPLE’S BRAIN ROTS ARE EASIER THAN MY OWN RAGHHH

#jack howl #i’ve drawn leona more than jack thanks to aivy #leona kingscholar #i can’t find time to draw cuz my entrance exam is coming soon and I haven’t studied at all yet

[asktheheirofslytherin]

You seem wise beyond your years. Waiting and seeing is a logical course of action for many emotions, as they can come on suddenly and cloud ones judgement. I personally prefer it when emotions pass quickly, but many do tend to become...sticky.

Medical school? A healer? A noble profession, to be sure. Your N.E.W.T exam scores must have been impeccable for you to consider the healer entrances. I commend you.

Do not worry - as the Death Eaters are not currently engaging in active warfare we have a variety of tasks ranging from creative to clerical. Torture interest is always a plus, but no longer mandatory. I believe I can find a compatible position for you. Perhaps in propaganda community outreach.

Oh, and do be careful. Your missive was not sent using the "anonymous" feature. I took the liberty of cropping out your public alias.

#voldemort #lord voldemort #purple heart sparkle #death eaters #death eater recruiting #healers #ooooh good luck on the exams #my cousin just took his entrance exams for law school #I commend the amount of studying that goes into these!

[birlwrites]

no thoughts head empty only 7th years poppy pomfrey and minerva mcgonagall holding hands while they study for newts

#pomfrey/mcgonagall #pomfrey is a leftie i'm deciding this now #so they can hold hands and both of them can still write #she's studying for the entrance exams to st mungo's medical school as well #mcgonagall is studying for newts and amusing herself turning pieces of parchment into kittens and back #pomfrey was so so so unsurprised when she found out mcgonagall's animagus form

[tired-and-triggered]

Y'all wish me luck please, I'm going to attempt a college entrance exam today with an empty head. 😩 🤞🤞

#fyp #recommended #for you page #recommendation #for you #trending #oh no #desi #desi tag #desiblr #desi blog #college life #college #college entrance exam #entrance #exams #study blog #college student #shitpost #i'm scared #please wish me luck #wish me luck #pray for me #please pray for me #scary #life is a horror movie #horror #🤞🤞 #fingers crossed

[soudeorabisk]

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#I'm studying for entrance exams and finding a job is reeeally hard rn #I also need to meet my gf who's 9 thousand miles away from me #just casual stuff #share with others pls #ttrpg #art #character art #dnd art #dnd character #commisions open #art commissions open

[djarinbabysnotes]

I have 10 million ideas for a Matt Murdock fic series but I can't write anything right now because I'm preparing myself to study again

#SHUT UP BRAIN #please I wanna get good marks this semester #this is not a drill #ao3 author #marvel fanfic writer #ah fuck I almost forgot to study for entrance exams #pre-law moment #I'M TAKING PRE-LAW #Art school is a joke lmao

[minglana]

i say this every. single. fucking. exam season. but i genuinely dont know how much longer i can keep this up bc.... my brain Refuses To Study like its just. incapable of it. im incapable of sitting down and thinking "i need to study bc i have an exam in [x] days and i need to pass it" and then actually following through with it. i just think and think and think about how i need to study. and somehow my brain THINKS that that's enough to show up to the exam and like.... pass it? when its clearly not!!!!! not even going to the library helps me anymore i dont even do anything there either. so i just wonder if theres something wrong with my brain or if its just that ive trained myself since the pandemic to be lazy as fuck and ignore all of my responsibilities???

#im so scared that its the later #either way i blame the pandemic for it bc being locked up at home for months on end did nothing good to my brain #i already had trouble studying before the pandemic (after coming back from the US) and lockdown just made it 10x worse #the last time i think i truly studied for something was selectividad/college entrance exams and that was. 4 years ago already #what i mean by 'truly studying' is that i studied enough to where i knew i needed to get good grades. bc now i just think 'oh a 5 is enough #when if i want to do research apparently its not. i dont wanna be locked up in an office w a bunch of conservative farmer's kids #with agronomy degrees doing the PAC for landowners. like i refuse to let that be my future #but at the same time. unless something is extremely imminent (like my exam on tuesday) i will not worry about it at all #until it has already slapped me in the face #xarraire