#take up space

[foryourencouragement]

I just want to let it be known that part of what makes fat sexy and alluring to me is watching someone take up space.

There is a pride in taking up space physically that is fascinating to me. I mean, there’s a reason historically that royals from lots of cultures were fat. Decadence and confidence go hand in hand and I really love that.

I want to see you take up space. I want to explore your new parts. You’re always a little different and feeders get the enjoyment of exploration. And I want all of my Feedees and growing fatties to know that I love knowing that there is more of you in the world.

#female feeder #ffa #encouragement #me #soft feedism #take up space

[atlinmerrick]

Vladimir Serov, The Builder (1964)

Next time you think you should be smaller, please ask yourself why? If this women existed, and was in today's western world, she might think she's too big. Hips, back, breasts, she'd probably think she "could lose a little."

I mean I hope not, but I just look at this and I think she's perfect, she's strong, she takes up space. I hope those who think they "should" be less, not so obvious, smaller, f-in skinnier, just realize they're allowed to take up space. It's your right. The world is a big one. You don't ever have to make less of you. Especially for someone else.

#strength #weight #take up space

[aestheticemi01]

💫✨You are allowed to take up space! ✨💫

#positivity #positivity post #mental wellness #mental health #mental health awareness #pro recovery #recovery is worth it #recovery #self acceptance #self care #self worth #self healing #healing #valid #validation #you are valid #friendly reminder #gentle reminder #reminder #take up space #daily reminder #self love #self help #note to self #positive affirmations #affirmations #sweet suggestions #suggestions #positive suggestions #you are valuable

[unwelcome-ozian]

#take up space #value #recovery

[selectivechaos]

i’m allowed to make noise. i’m allowed to make noise putting plates down. i’m allowed to make noise making coffee. i’m allowed to make noise when the floorboards creak. i’m allowed to make noise sitting down at my desk. i’m allowed to make noise when typing. i’m allowed to make noise by coughing. i’ allowed to make noise running the tap. i’m allowed to make noise because i exist. i deserve to exist as i do.

and repeat. because the social anxiety is really pissing me about today. 🌹🌹

#selective mutism #situational mutism #social anxiety disorder #sm tag #social anxitey #take up space

[thepeacefulgarden]

#give yourself permission #self care #self care is not selfish #take up space #mental health #you matter #you are enough #you are worthy #you deserve it

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

#change #growth #take up space #doodles #bad art #lousy drawings #doodle #positivity #self love #healing #recovery

[healingchildhoodtrauma]

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#reparenting #inner child healing #take up space #affirmations #encouragement

[limetarte]

It’s okay to stutter. There is nothing wrong with stuttering. You can stutter and that’s okay. It’s not wrong, it’s not bad. It’s not unnecessary, it’s a natural part of life, it’s involuntary and that’s okay.

Yes, stutter. Yes, you can stutter. Do stutter. Anything saying otherwise is a lie and wrong and bad. Anything saying or even implying that “stuttering is bad” or that “you’re not allowed to stutter”, is ableist. It’s lies, fake, untrue. It’s ableism. Which is bad and wrong.

You don’t have to conform. You don’t have to do anything. You don’t have to look like a robot, you don’t have to act like a robot. Even A.I. stutters. It’s natural and there’s nothing wrong nor “undesirable” about it.

Yes, it might be inconvenient, but it’s not bad for that reason. Inconvenience is a part of life. Nothing wrong with inconvenience. Nothing wrong with taking your time [to speak]. Nothing wrong with stuttering.

You can inconvenience people (in the sense, that it’s okay and there’s nothing wrong nor bad about it). Do inconveniences. The reason they’re looked down upon is because they challenge the systems, specifically capitalism, but all the other ones as well too.

You have time. Everyone has the time to listen to you, speak and stutter. You have the time to stutter. And that’s okay.

It’s okay to take up space. It’s okay to take up time. It’s okay to take up noise space. It’s okay to take up noise space, space and time. It’s okay to take up space in other people’s minds, thoughts and feelings. There’s nothing wrong with taking up any kind of space. You are not an inconvenience. You’re not an inconvenience, nobody is, no one is, not you, not user, not us. You are enough as you are. You are whole. You are worthful.

It’s alright and fine to stutter. Your feelings are valid and okay too. I know it’s hard, I know the systems, which are reproduced into society and by people, are insidious and attack everyone saying that “it’s this”, “it’s that”, and blah blah blah. We know they make us feel like and think that it’s bad, like it’s wrong, they make us feel mad, sad and other negative emotions for not conforming, and those emotions and feelings are valid. There’s nothing wrong with them. They’re real and true. 💙💙 So yes, do stutter 💙

#stuttering #stutter #anti ableism #ableism #anti intellectualism #end white supremacy #oppressive #inconveniences #take up space #validation #you are enough #you are worthful #you’re not an inconvenience

[daughterofanarcissistwoman]

#take up space #inner child healing #reparenting #inner teen healing #self love #healing from abuse #self respect #self worth #healing from narcissistic parents #healing from narcissistic abuse

[niikachuuuu]

On the Path of Healing.

When I was little, my mother would often introduce me to new people. Later on she explained that if I acted scared or uncomfortable — she immediately cut them from her life.

From a very young age I’ve had a strong intuition. So much so that my mother trusted me, a child, to judge adults. And you know what? Never once was I wrong.

The more I’ve grown, the more I became plagued with self doubt. “But maybe they’ll change.” “Nobody’s perfect!” “Who am I to judge?”

I’ll tel you who I am: I’m a goddess. I’m a witch. I have been blessed by my ancestors with strength and protection. That gut instinct and subconscious voice in my head is them yelling at me to hear them and no longer shall I continue to ignore their warnings.

No longer shall I put up with disrespect, lies and manipulation. No more questioning my instincts. No more allowing people second chances when they have done nothing to deserve even the first one. No more feeling small and being afraid to take up space.

This is me reclaiming my energy and my power. I’m no longer allowing the negativity of others affect me or my peace. If I don’t like you? Goodbye. You wanna try me? You’re gonna get bit back ten times harder. You can be offended or you can be better.

I am woman. I am goddess. I am of a higher vibration and power.

#healing #breaking the cycle #quotes #writers on tumblr #dark feminine energy #reclaiming #take up space #protection #self love #motivation #don’t let the bastards get you down #writing #my thoughts #healing journey #mental health #inner child

[spacedadsupport]

Jean-Luc Picard @SpaceDadSupport You are allowed to take up the space that you require to exist. That's the minimum. You are allowed to take up more beyond. Your presence and your voice matters. 2:28 PM · May 18, 2023

#star trek #star trek the next generation #star trek tng #support #affirmations #kindness #spacedad #boundaries #compassion #community #activism #what would picard do #captain picard #picard #jean luc picard #take up space #your voice

[neptunejheart]

Take up space. Your existence matters. You are allowed to be.

#to myself #reminder #reminder to self #self love #self worth #take up space

[lifeonkylesfarm]

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express your opinions even when you're scared to contradict someone else. take the last donut. speak in conversations as long as you feel like you have something to say. invite people over and have a party. comment what you want to comment. email your teachers. order all the food you want. make yourself comfortable wherever you are. walk out of that appointment if you feel disrespected or uncomfortable. be yourself even when it feels weird or awkward. don't apologize when you did nothing wrong. ask for what you need. say no when you need to. celebrate what you've accomplished. be vulnerable. take pride in your dreams. don't beat yourself up about your failures. ask for help. don't let someone interrupt you. be loud about your identity. feel and show your emotions. speak loudly. go to where you got hurt and laugh and smile and know that they can't hurt you anymore. allow your body to take up space. realize that you have value and take your power back.

say who you are and don't apologize for it.

#take up space #be yourself #trauma #trauma recovery #trauma and recovery #traumatic experience #trauma victim #abuse recovery #emotional abuse #actually abused #emotional trauma #trauma work #trauma related #trauma response #trauma talks #trauma therapy #trauma posting #trauma feelings #trauma flashbacks #cptsd #ptsd #bpd #living with ptsd #ptsd recovery #complex ptsd #actually ptsd #cptsd recovery #bpd recovery #love yourself #trauma healing

[shadestepping]

I knew that I was healing when

For the first time in my life, I was hurt and

Instead of lowering my head in acceptance that I “must deserve this,”

I snarled and wished to feel the blood in my teeth.

#my writing #prose #healing #needed to vent #been dealing with some stupid shit irl #this is not about revenge #this is about setting boundaries #and not accepting when people treat you like shit #this is about taking back your power for yourself #it’s about learning to stand up for yourself when all your life you have been taught to be meek and non-confrontational #take up space #you are allowed to be angry on your own behalf

[deweydecimalchickens]

I don't think I'm getting thinner, and I've got no idea what my weight's doing because I haven't allowed scales in my house in about 17 years (15/10, highly recommended, your life will be better). But I can feel myself getting stronger and faster, and it's awesome. Like I know intellectually that cross-training is good for you, but feeling my arms pull harder when I'm swimming or my legs push harder when I'm running/skating is a whole other thing. And like I'm neither strong nor fast. I'm working hard to get into the 'novice' category. But I feel better. In conclusion lift the weights do the endurance sports.

#Women who lift #Take up space #Riot not diet #Running #Weightlifting #Health at every size #Do the thing