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[alexstolyar]

The changes in our life must come from the impossibility to live otherwise than according to the demands of our conscience not from our mental resolution to try a new form of life.

#leo tolstoy #life choices #authentic change #conscience #inner transformation

[alexstolyar]

All shall be well for there is a force of love moving through the universe that holds us fast and will never let us go by.

#julian of norwich #love #hope #universal love #peace

[alexstolyar]

Baby souls see what's wrong.

Young souls see what's right.

But old souls, feel only love.

#notes from universe #souls #love #right #wrong

[alexstolyar]

Most people in your life were only meant for dreams, and summer laughter. They stay till the wind changes, the tides turn, or disappear with the first snow. And then there are some that were forged to weather blizzards and pain with you. They were cast in iron, set in gold and never ever leave you to face anything alone. Know who those people are. And love them the way they deserve. Not everyone in your life is temporary. A few are as permanent as love is old.

#nikita gill #temporary #permanent #love #loyalty #lifelong companions #friendship

[alexstolyar]

AUTOBIOGRAPHY IN FIVE CHAPTERS

I

I walk down the street.

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in.

I am lost ... I am hopeless.

It isn't my fault.

It takes forever to find a way out.

II

I walk down the same street.

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I pretend I don't see it.

I fall in again.

I can't believe I'm in the same place. But it isn't my fault.

It still takes a long time to get out.

III

I walk down the same street.

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I see it is there.

I still fall in ... it’s a habit.

My eyes are open.

I know where I am.

It is my fault.

I get out immediately.

IV

I walk down the same street.

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I walk around it.

V

I walk down another street.

#Portia Nelson #autobiography #self awareness #personal growth #habit #responsibility

[alexstolyar]

It is easy in the world to live after the world's opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.

#ralph waldo emerson #true self #confidence #calmness #inner peace #inner strength

[alexstolyar]

Who You Are

Who you are is so much more than what you do. The essence, shining through the heart, soul, and center, the bare and bold truth of you does not lie in your to-do list. You are not just at the surface of your skin, not just the impulse to arrange the muscles of your face into a smile or a frown, not just boundless energy, or bone wearying fatigue. Delve deeper. You are divinity; the vast and open sky of spirit. It’s the light of God, the ember at your core, the passion and the presence, the timeless, deathless essence of you that reaches out and touches me. Who you are transcends fear and turns suffering into liberation. Who you are is love.

#danna faulds #essence #true self #love #liberation #freedom

[alexstolyar]

Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. You may not be perfect, but you are all you’ve got to work with. The process of becoming who you will be begins first with the total acceptance of who you are.

#Henepola Gunaratana #mindfulness #self compassion #self acceptance #personal growth #self love #inner peace

[alexstolyar]

Unconditional

Willing to experience aloneness,

I discover connection everywhere;

Turning to face my fear,

I meet the warrior who lives within;

Opening to my loss,

I gain the embrace of the universe;

Surrendering into emptiness,

I find fullness without end.

 

Each condition I flee from pursues me,

Each condition I welcome transforms me

And becomes itself transformed

Into its radiant jewel-like essence.

I bow to the one who has made it so,

Who has crafted this Master Game;

To play it is purest delight;

To honor its form – true devotion.

#Jennifer welwood #unconditional

[alexstolyar]

He that gives should never remember, he that receives should never forget.

#talmud #give #receive

[alexstolyar]

Meaningful silence is better than meaningless words.

#pythagoras #silence #meaning

[alexstolyar]

To laugh often and much: To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children, to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others, to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you lived. This is to have succeeded.

#success #ralph waldo emerson

[alexstolyar]

Imagine you wake up

with a second chance: The blue jay

hawks his pretty wares

and the oak still stands, spreading

glorious shade. If you don't look back,

the future never happens.

How good to rise in sunlight,

in the prodigal smell of biscuits -

eggs and sausage on the grill.

The whole sky is yours

to write on, blown open

to a blank page. Come on,

shake a leg! You'll never know

who's down there, frying those eggs,

if you don't get up and see.

#rita dove #redemption #live fully

[alexstolyar]

YOU WILL VIBRATE UP OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP:

Everything is maintained and held together by frequency

Frequencies act as a magnet and a gravitational force that pulls other similar frequencies together

Imagine every object, place, thought, emotion , intention has a invisible number attached to it that denotes it frequency

Your relationship also has a frequency number that is holding it together like glue

Toxicity has a very low vibrational frequency number( let’s denote it is 0-300hz)

In the toxic frequencies , your relationship is held together by fear, lust , low self-worth , jealousy, stress , survival, lack of self- love

Thus for as long as you remain in these frequencies the relationship will be held together

Yet the moment one person in the relationship starts to heal and grow which raises their frequency above the 300hz range, the relationship will begin to fall apart

There is no magnet holding them together anymore because one person vibrates higher than the relationship

Thus the Universe will begin to seperate them by attracting events that pull them apart

The partner with the lower frequencies will always try to lower the frequency of the partner who’s vibrating above the relationship just so they can stay connected

Thus at this point, which is one the hardest choices you will have make is between your growth or your relationship

If you suppress yourself to maintain the relationship , you will have won the battle(relationship) yet lost the war(spiritual evolution) thus you will feel the frequencies of defeat on a consistent basis

You will then blame the partner for your hindrances yet it was your choice all along to sacrifice your own elevation

You fear being alone and leaving all you know behind you to delve into the unknown

This very fear is what keeps you locked into the lower frequencies, which keeps you locked into your low vibrational relationship

You have to learn to choose your spiritual growth no matter what without guilt because it’s the only thing you get to take with you to the next life

And if you have the courage to choose growth over your relationship then it will be replaced by a higher- vibrational partner who will desire to grow with you

You have to first believe you deserve better and then the Universe will serve it

You didn’t come here to be trapped in relationships and connections that limit your full potential just because you spent time and had good moments together

The caterpillar knows once it evolves into a butterfly it can no longer hang with caterpillars

It would be unwise for the caterpillar to say “Hey I’m going to remain a caterpillar forever just so I’ll never have to leave you”

The pain you feel in these relationships stems from the fact that you have wings now and you won’t even fly to new heights

Thus you spend all your energy trying to get the other caterpillars to turn into butterfly with you before you take off

Life evolves each caterpillar in their own timing , it is not your job to try to evolve the other caterpillars or wait for them

Some caterpillars take lifetimes to evolve and you would be wasting your whole life waiting and trying to force them

You are not a bad person because you want to fly off as soon as you get your wings

If it is aligned for them , they will fly with you when they’ve been through enough experiences to want to evolve themselves

Let them go so that you can ascend into the higher frequencies of Divine Love, Bliss, Prosperity, and Abundance

YOU DESERVE TO CHOOSE YOUR GROWTH OVER STAGNATION!!!

YOU DESERVE TO FLY AS HIGH AS YOU CAN!!!

YOU DESERVE TO ATTRACT HIGH-VIBRATIONAL RELATIONSHIPS!!!

#relationship #energy #freedom #growth

[alexstolyar]

Rivers do not drink their own water; trees do not eat their own fruit; the sun does not shine on itself and flowers do not spread their fragrance for themselves. Living for others is a rule of nature. We are all born to help each other. No matter how difficult it is…life is good when you are happy; but much better when others are happy because of you.

#vedas #interdependence #fulfillment

[alexstolyar]

I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

#maya angelou #feelings #words

[alexstolyar]

#choice