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maxiglow · 1 day
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you just need to start. start that movement. start that friendship. start to create. start with what you love. start with what you need. start that routine. start that assignment. start that message. start that study. start with yourself. start now. and i promise everything else you want will start organically like magic.
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vielesundnichts · 1 day
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- r.h. Sin
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lanafairy999 · 15 hours
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The cycle never ends
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sugarsprinklesoul · 7 hours
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HOW TO REMAIN THE BEST YOU
Move in silence
Take care of your mind, body and soul
Be picky about who you let around you
Work towards a goal
Decide and enforce your boundaries
Actions over words
Allow yourself to feel your feelings but then let them pass
Focus on what you are doing now
Learn how to use your traits and skills effectively
Tell yourself postive affirmations
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pastel-charm-14 · 1 day
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self care is SO important
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here's the thing about self care—it's not just about bubble baths and face masks (though those are great too). it's about giving yourself the time and space you need to recharge and feel good.
going for a walk, reading a book, chilling with some music. it's what recharges YOU!
taking care of yourself is good for your mind and body! it's easy to put yourself last, but remember, you can't pour from an empty cup. so, do yourself a favor and make self care a priority, even if it's just for a few minutes each day.
you deserve it!!!!
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the time you spent healing is not wasteful and you can still feel sad about the things you missed out on because you took time to heal.
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elonomhblog · 2 days
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taking time to work on yourself is so powerful
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dk-thrive · 2 days
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It takes courage…to endure the sharp pains of self discovery rather than choose to take the dull pain of unconsciousness that would last the rest of our lives.
— Marianne Williamson, A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of ‘A Course in Miracles’ (HarperOne; October 13, 2009)
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maxiglow · 5 hours
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Why do you love her?
When you ask me "Why do you love her" I find my words tangled on my tongue
I cannot describe to you why I love her Mere words could never do her justice
Her love is gentle Her love is kind Her love is selfless Her love is unconditional
I look for her in every painting I observe I look for her in every song that is sung I look for her in every poem I read I look for her in every dream that I've dreamt
When we meet It is as if time has stopped completely My world is taken up by her presence I feel at home for the first time in many lonely years
When you ask me "Why do you love her so?" I find my mouth numb For mere words could never describe what we have
She took me in my broken entirety Observing my cracks and imperfections She saw the rotting garden inside of me And tended to it, as a mother would to her sick child
For every scar she saw She kissed it to make it feel better For every wound reopened She embroidered new skin for me
She doesn't see a wilted garden She doesn't see a worn down garment She doesn't see a tainted piece of flesh Nor does she see a waste of breath
She does not see these things Like others most often do She only sees my entirety And she deems it beautiful
When I am broken into pieces Backed into a corner and shaking Naked and vulnerable like a feral dog She doesn't scorn, nor shun
She takes me in And soothes me Like a mother would a crying infant Gentle and reassuring, she tells me
"Everything will be okay."
When you ask me, "Why do you love her?" I find my mouth empty, my only answer being "She loves me too."
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study-diaries · 3 days
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Reminder
People who tell you to respect their boundaries and they don't respect yours are toxic.
People who constantly remind you about their favours are toxic
People who take up for someone but won't take up for you even if the situation is same are toxic
People who want respect but don't give respect are toxic
People who are nice can be toxic
People who expect you to cross oceans for them but they won't cross a puddle for you are toxic
People from your own family can be toxic
People from your friend group can be toxic
People who frustrate you purposely to irritate you are toxic
People who stress you out just for fun are toxic
People who blame you for expressing emotions are toxic
People who misuse your kindness are toxic.
People who call you "dramatic" and dismiss your emotions are toxic
People who take more than they give are toxic
People who don't want to adjust with you but expect you to are toxic
People who violate your peace of mind continuously are toxic
People who make you apologize for something that isn't your fault are toxic
People who make you seem like the bad guy are toxic.
People who never apologize for their faults are toxic
People who never acknowledge that they're wrong are toxic
People can be toxic. People can be toxic even if they're your family, friends, collogues, classmates, spouses. Remember. That.
It is better to be aware than to be ignorant. Don't let anyone treat you badly. You deserve all the respect you get.
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lanafairy999 · 15 hours
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sugarsprinklesoul · 2 months
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Abilities that will forever benefit you
The ability to walk away
The ability to manage your time
The ability to remain consistent
The ability to self analyze
The ability to learn how to learn
The ability to understand others
The ability to listen
The ability to express your thoughts and feelings
The ability to break down tasks
The ability to adapt
The ability to control your mind
The ability to ask for help
The ability to act upon facts not feelings
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thequotegarden · 4 months
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theambitiouswoman · 3 months
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Green Flags in Communication 💚💬
"I want to know when I hurt your feelings."
This shows they are willing to understand and acknowledge the impact of their actions.
"I don't want you to feel alone in this."
This shows empathy and indicates that the person is supportive and does not want the person to deal with issues alone.
"I've been struggling with ___”
This demonstrates vulnerability and trust, as the person is open about their struggles.
"How have you been feeling about ___? I know it's been on your mind a lot."
This shows concern for the other person's issues or worries, showing that they are listening and care about what's important to the other person.
"I feel __ when you __; are you open to trying __ next time?"
This is an example of constructive communication.
"What do you need from me when this happens with your family?"
This shows awareness and sensitivity to the persons family dynamics and a willingness to provide support.
"I appreciate when you ___.”
Expressing appreciation is vital for positive reinforcement and acknowledging the efforts and qualities of the other person.
"I didn't handle that well."
This is a sign of self-awareness and accountability, recognizing one's own mistakes and being open to learning and growth.
"I'm sorry, I was wrong to say that. I'll try to be more mindful in the future."
Shows you are able to apologize genuinely and a commitment to improving behavior.
"Tell me more about that; I'm really interested in hearing your perspective."
Indicates a genuine interest in the other person's thoughts and feelings.
"I noticed you seemed a bit off today. Is everything okay?"
It shows you are attentive to the other person's emotional state and a readiness to provide support.
"I'm here for you, no matter what you need."
Offers unconditional support, creating a sense of security in the relationship.
"I love how passionate you are about your hobbies. It's inspiring to see."
Expresses admiration for the other person's interests.
"Let's work on a solution together. What do you think would be fair?"
Focusing on collaboration rather than conflict.
"I trust your judgment on this."
Trust and respect for the other person's decision-making abilities.
"Your happiness is important to me. Let's make sure you're taking time for yourself."
Prioritizes the other person's happiness and emphasizes the importance of self care.
"It's okay to feel that way. Do you want to talk about it more?"
Validates the other person's feelings.
"I appreciate how you handled that situation. You're really good at ___."
Praises specific strengths or skills, boosting the other person's self-esteem.
"I know we disagree, but I respect your point of view."
Acknowledges differences in opinion while still maintaining respect and understanding.
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faerieicetea · 10 months
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me going into hibernation when it's time to recharge my social battery
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