As a fat woman with a similar story to Penelope's (in the book) it's incredibly disheartening to see what they have done with her character and people praising it. Book Penelope was someone I could relate to as the ugly, unattractive friend that no one ever looks at twice. But even if I did some things I now regret (for example commenting one or twice on my friend's thinness even if it was out of worry, which I now know is not a cool thing to do) I was never actively a bully or used my weight to play victim. And now I can't relate to the only fat woman on a regency period romance I have seen because she is using her 'oppression' to hurt others (I do think fat people are very discriminated against but this isn't Penelope's case since she has had to face the same amount of insults as the rest of the characters (most of them coming from her herself too)) and that's not how period dramas really work. Maybe in modern times it could have worked but not in a show like the bee one.
Took me a while anon but I made it!!! Since I am on a roll talking about Pen, it motivated me to finally finish writing and post this ask :D Thank you so much for waiting and I hope you're still around on my blog to see this!
I can't quite remember when this ask got prompted but I feel like it was during my S3 speculation era so it was likely the My Fair Lady essay that prompted a lot of S3 asks. Aights then, let’s get into this:
First off, I want to genuinely thank you for feeling safe enough to share this with me and I’m so sorry the show massacred the one character you related to. I’m sending you all my love and hugs <3
Also it must not have been fun growing up thinking of yourself in that way but I’m here to let you know that I see you and I’m sure you’re lovely!! Glad to know that you recognised those comments to be harmful and have learnt from it. We all make mistakes. The best thing we can do is reevaluate, apologise and move forward to do better.
I have seen because she is using her 'oppression' to hurt others (I do think fat people are very discriminated against but this isn't Penelope's case since she has had to face the same amount of insults as the rest of the characters (most of them coming from her herself too)) and that's not how period dramas really work.
You’re so right for this and honestly I don’t have anything to add much tbh. I think the one thing in-universe that hasn’t be horrible is that no one in the Ton really shuns Pen? Only her sisters poke fun at her, but mostly Pen is largely ignored. As my friends and I’ve mentioned here, if anything the showrunners are the ones villainising her and not giving her a proper romantic arc. Maybe it will get better in S3 but that remains to be seen at the moment.
I hope you’re doing okay though, anon. I understand the feeling of not being seen or represented in the media you love and I know there aren’t other Regency romance shows that feature a fat woman as a main character or love interest but I thought this list of show and HR books might help ease that hurt, enjoy!
Shoutout to @jeanvanjer @hptriviachamp @sharmasandcorgis and @kateandanthonyaremyparents for all the amazing suggestions thank you guys so much for helping me with a bulk of this list!!
HR (Historical Romance) Novels:
Callie from Nine Rules to Break When Romancing a Rake by Sarah MacLean
Hattie from Brazen and the Beast (also by MacLean)
The Perfect Wife by Lynsay Sands
Hannah and the Highlander by Sabrina York
Chasing Cassandra by Lisa Kleypas
Contemporary Books:
All of the Brown Sisters books by Talia Hibbert
- Get A Life, Chloe Brown
- Take A Hint, Dani Brown
- Act Your Age, Eve Brown
Princess Trap by Talia Hibbert
Honestly all of Talia’s books feature plus-sized WOC leads it’s great I mainly recced The Brown Sisters because I read all three and they’re just so amazing! Dani’s love interest is a hot brown guy named Zafir and that was my fave book of the three ehehe
Anything Naima Simone has written - she writes body diversity well I’m told
Misadventures of a Curvy Girl by Sierra Simone
Glutton for Pleasure by Alisha Rai (Plus-sized Indian Girl let’s gooo)
Spoiler Alert series by Olivia Dade (its about fanfiction ehehe)
Electric Idol by Katee Robert (kinda more fantasy but still mythology romance)
Shows/Movies:
Rae from My Mad Fat Diary
Annie and Fran from Shrill
Mindy Lahiri in The Mindy Project
Helen in The Tourist on HBO
Penelope ‘Lupe’ Alverez from One Day At A Time
(my personal favourite Penelope on a show shkjdh)
Anything Michelle Buteau is in: Isn’t It Romantic, Always Be My Maybe, Someone Great
Sookie in Gilmore Girls
Amber RIley in Glee (this may give you brain damage but she was iconic in it) and The Wiz
Everything Gabourey Sidibe is in - especially Precious!
*Kate Pearson from This Is Us
*Willowdean in Dumplin
*I was hesitant to name the last two because while they are great reps, the early seasons of This Is Us kind of made being fat Kate’s whole personality but I will say it has improved since then and she becomes a fully flashed out person.
I can’t speak directly to the discourse around Dumplin because I wasn’t around for it but I do know some people did enjoy it same with Kate in This Is Us hence why I kept them on the list! Feel free to ignore those two suggestions if you aren’t interested in seeing those journeys; while the other characters simply just exist as characters and are treated like everyone else which I thought was cool - that’s how I believe we should normalise fat rep: not all their stories need to be about them on a journey to accept themselves, the story already starts with acceptance!
Anyone else has any recommendations - feel free to share via reblogs and comments, I’ll add them to the post/reblog! Thanks for reading yall and hope you enjoy the recs and better rep for you all because you deserve the best!
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Thin privilege is representation
Thin privilege is turning on the TV, selecting any movie or series through a streaming app, or opening a magazine and seeing at least one person with your general body type being portrayed for their human qualities and not their physical characteristics.
Thin privilege is getting to be a human with interests and a story. Thin privilege is starring in an adventure or romance or thriller as a human being with a name, interests and a backstory that do not revolve around or at least refer in some way to body size.
Thin privilege is the default, the gray icon, the naked Barbie, the first character setting on any game, the crosswalk stickman, the bathroom stall sign, the sample size, the fitness app default.
Thin privilege is representation.
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The Fatphobia Central to Colbert's "The Indict-Mare Before Christmas"
How is no one talking about this? I'm not being hyperbolic - I can't find anything. I don't know if it's because online leftists are no longer in Colbert's audience or if fat activists don't find this media to be important, but I have to talk about it. If you want to catch up with the state of moderate liberal politics, watch this special. And read the glowing comments. It's a mildly entertaining animation that crams in as many political references from the year as possible, but the action hinges on Trump becoming a fat monster.
With so many peppered in references to conservatives set up for ridicule like bowling pins, I feel like I'm watching FreedomToons or the Babylon Bee. The comments feel similar. "Brilliant." "Genius." "Hilarious." "A Masterpiece." Oh my goddddd. This cartoon would hardly be the first time a "children's" parable depicted greedy villains as physically grotesque -corpulent or otherwise. But like... we shouldn't do it anymore? And it's real rich seeing a fat villain opposite SANTA CLAUS. Santa is a famous example of the jolly fat man archetype. A kind of "good fatty" - what TV Tropes calls "Big Fun" - an exception to the rule that all fat people are to be maligned. Such a person is joyful or comical and exists to serve thin people. But it's a mindfuck to see Santa make a fat joke at someone else! I suppose the writers were trying to get around this by identifying the source of Santa's powers as his "belly jelly," which Elon Musk sucks out of him and transfers to Donald Trump.
But Trump doesn't just get the jelly (visibly glowing) - he becomes way fatter. And the animators did not skimp on the details!
I've complained about the overly simple "egg on two sticks" model used for fat people in cartoons, but this Trump monster comes complete with a hanging belly pouch and thighs with folds and cellulite throughout! And his breasts... ...which Santa slaps around as they're fighting. Here's some of that:
Trump belches after he absorbs Santa's jelly and in the end, eating a present meant for someone he cares about is his undoing. In this special, greed and gluttony are one, and are shown as clear vices that embody Trump's wickedness.
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Interested in;
Horror? The creepy things thay surround the Appalachian Mountains, or even West Virginia? Cryptids? Crimes? Camcorder and vhs stuff? Lgbtq/POC/disability/different body type rep? Lovable, goofy, and diverse characters? Perhaps some funny, or unsettling plot twists?
Well have I got the thing for you folks;
Muscaria Hills!
Just a w.i.p horror media involving a small town in West Virginia in 1986 that may or may not have to do with mushrooms, psychological horror, creatures beyond human comprehension, eye imagery, and a bit of the gay.
We’re also memeable around here.
But yeah, take the slightly crappy early art stuff because I have nothing else, just characters and ideas that I have yet to fully flesh out/draw/edit just yet. I will make something introducing the cast when I have the things!!
Help, Ideas are easy, and work is
Hard.
Also, see MH’s other creator;
@rosemaryizhere :)
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My favourite thing about diversity is listening to the opinions of others
My partner (Guatemalan, chubby) has such different opinions about some films. We saw in theaters last night a showing of "Fortune Favors Lady Nikuko" and though I found the representation to be a bit problematic and definitely could have been better, I got to watch as they were almost sobbing at it. They found a good representation, they found a fat person who was allowed to be more than just the comedic relief. They found someone who didn't hate their body and did what they could to be a good mom.
I can sit and complain about the representation in Encanto being performative at best and problematic at worst but they love it. They love being able to see Latinx representation, even if they're not from the same countries. I would go so far as to say it is their favourite film and one that will live with them forever.
This is why representation is important. You cannot see true joy until you find someone in their early 20s finally find some sort of representation. Even if it's not the best and we have such a long way to go, I am so happy it exists. I am so happy that my partner gets to see themselves in films as something other than the joke. I am so happy that my partner is happy
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